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    How to Enjoy Sex
    How to Enjoy Sex
    How to Enjoy Sex
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    How to Enjoy Sex

    By Om Gupta

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    This book has four components. The first part is a detailed analysis about sex and need to treat it as a enterprise for entertainment. The second part is questions and their answers given by the author to his readers in successive publications he has worked for. These questions have been divided in six chapters-Getting Aware of Sex, Teenage Indulgence, Pre-marital Forays, Sex in Marriage, Extra-marital affairs, Alternative Preferences for Sex, and Negotiating Embarrassments. But the underlying theme remains how to enjoy more in any kind of sexual activity. The third part consists of a comparatively large glossary of sexual terms to understand its linguistic nuances better. The fourth and the last part consists of the jokes on sex which run in the whole book to add reading pleasure.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherDiamond Books
    Release dateOct 27, 2020
    ISBN9798128819826
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      How to Enjoy Sex - Om Gupta

      Index

      Getting Aware about Enjoyment

      All living beings get aware of their sexuality without any training or education. The sexual organs get aroused by touching inadvertently or by accident. At times teenagers get conscious of sexuality by seeing nude pictures or somebody making love. These days the best source is the television programmes especially aired on foreign networks. Then they start asking questions from friends or lay their hand on some book. It is a very interesting phase. This chapter tries to answer readers’ innocent questions about the process of getting aware of their sexuality.

      Nightfall

      • Sometimes after seeing a hot film on TV or reading some erotic novel, I discharge while sleeping. I feel very embarrassed. Is there something wrong with me?

      – Kulbhushan Manchanda, Ballarpur.

      This is also called nightfall. It is absolutely normal. If you are not making love regularly or masturbating then the semen naturally collected in your testicles will ejaculate once you get aroused.

      Fantasising

      • I have started dreaming about everybody in bed with me whom I meet in the daytime. I even fantasise about Madhuri Dixit, Aishwarya Rai. Am I sick?

      – Deenbandhu, Utkal

      Not at all. You are as healthy as anyone else. All of us do fantasise at sometime or the other. It’s great fun to imagine yourself in bed with film stars, friends and relatives. You should not take these fantasies seriously but must discuss with your partner and encourage her to talk about her fantasis.

      Children hiding erotica

      • I was shocked to see my children hiding and reading erotic books. I felt like spanking them. I am so disturbed that I am not able to sleep. Should I hide hot books from my children?

      – Karuna Chauhan, Dholpur

      Well it depends upon the age of the children. You can’t flaunt such things. If you know they are hiding and reading then you should look the other way. You can just broach the issue without mentioning that you know their secrets.

      Parents Making Love

      • I saw my parents making love when I was 14. I haven’t forgotten that sight till date when I am 27. Since then I am craving to see another couple copulating. Is there anything wrong with me?

      –Dhananjaya Thakuri, Mathura

      According to Times of India forty-four percent men want to watch others have sex. Why don’t you try a blue film. That might satisfy your urge. You can also set up a call girl for such a viewing. Though there is nothing unhealthy in your desires but may be something is lacking in your own sex life. Try and fill that.

      Ejaculation in Sleep

      • How to check ejaculation in sleep?

      – Vijendra Jain, Mirzapur

      There is no need. It happens only when you have not made love for long and either you fantasise somebody in dream or you had readsome erotic book or scene some hot film in the day time. When these things reappear in your memory, you get an erection and ejaculate. There is nothing to worry about it. It is absolutely normal.

      • How many Times?

      – Javed Alam, Aligarh

      • How much sex is OK?

      – Navin Sharan Marthil, Sasaram.

      As much as you two can manage with each other. It is not a symbol of physical strength. Generally couple indulge in a little 100 times in a year i.e. about twice in a week.

      • Should you see blue films together?

      – Bageshwari Kalhan, Bulend Shaher

      It’s good fun. You can take a cue or two. Seeing somebody else making love works like magic. But overindulgence and that too in a young age could lead to a perversion. Till you know it is all imaginary and done to make some money it is fine.

      • Should you read Hot Books?

      – Namita Sikand, Nainatal

      Books are meant to be read. But imaginary sex in print in better read with your partner for an instant excitement. Otherwise it is considered to be juvenile.

      Seven Minutes

      • How much should the act last?

      – Basanti Sahni, Shillong

      Instead you should ask what was the quality of the act. The actual act may not be as satisfying as the foreplay. Some women don’t come in the actual act. Very few people can prolong the act to the maximum satisfaction of the woman. You should know how to stop, let her be fully aroused and then start. Thus stop and restart technique can prolong it as long as you want. Finally it is said that seven minutes of good lovemaking is an internationally accepted seven minutes by Irwing Wallace.

      Size

      • What is the significance of size in an enjoyable act?

      – Devendra Dwivedi, Varanasi

      Size to look act might be a spectacle but in the actual act it really doesn’t matter. It is the art of love making and not the size of the tool that counts. But for foreplay, oral sex it might have some initial thrill. However one shouldn’t bother too much for such trivia.

      Marriage counselling

      • What is marriage counselling? How helpful it is?

      Consulting an expert before, during or after a marriage is called marriage counselling. It is done both at the psychiatry and clinical psychiatry levels. When a marriage turns sour because of the marital inadequacy, sexual frustration, polygamy, adultery, incset, financial difficulties, heavy drinking or smoking you need an expert counselling. It might sound common sense but the experts know what they are leading you to. It can work.

      Where was honeymoon?

      A city-bridegroom who was obsessed with chastity and virginity and had opted for a village belle took her bride to honeymoon. After spending a blissful week they decided to return home. While on the way back, by now the frank wife asked, had brought me for honeymoon. Where was that? What happened? The aghast husband replied, all that happened last seven nights in bed was honeymoon. Why you didn’t like that. Oh that, the amused wife replied, that we used to do every day in the fields back home in village.

      Sleeping girl

      • I have a young lady guest at home. She feels quite comfortable in our happy go lucky atmosphere. We have given her a room which she doesn’t bolt. I get up early in the morning when she is still sleeping. She sleeps with a think short and a sleeveless top. Nothing is visible but her body contours are quite discomforting for a young man like me. I keep on watching. Once she caught me admiring her body. She smiled, got up and went to the bathroom. Should I read something in her reaction?

      You may if you like and try your luck. But may be she is not thinking anything. You can admire her beauty and invite her for a coffee. If she is game, go ahead otherwise forget about it. After that you may politely suggest her to close her room while she is sleeping. If she doesn’t what is your problem. But don’t force yourself on her in any circumstances.

      Animal Farm

      • Recently we were walking with our children walking through a crowded lane of Chandni chowk in delhi. Suddenly we saw a bull atop a cow and our children were quite thrilled at the sight. My wife wanted to run away from there but our children were hell bent to have their fun. I let them have their quota of pleasure and later told them that they were playing. My wife got quite angry, I reasoned out with her that if we had made them flee that place they would have asked umpteen number of questions. Now their curiosity died a natural death. Was I wrong?

      You could have told them a lie that they might get hurt while the animals were fighting. But you eventually did was also not highly undesirable. I am sure your wife will forget the whole episode soon.

      The Kama Sutra

      • Could you suggest some alternative points to make love?

      – Varsha Bhougle, Akola

      When she lowers her head and raises her middle parts, it is called the widely opened position. At such a time the man should apply some lubricant so as to make the entrance easy.

      When she raises her thighs and keeps them wide apart and engages in congress, it is called the yawning position.

      She places her thighs with her legs doubled on them upon her sides, and thus engages in congress, and this is learnt only by practice.

      Short and Bitter

      • I am not able to hold my self for more than two minutes. What is the ideal duration for a successful intercourse.

      –Shailndra Mittal, Chhindwara

      There is no hard and fast rule about this. Seven to eight minutes of 80 to 85 thrusts should provide happiness and pleasure to both. It should be divided in to phases. When you are about to come, stop and relax. She might ask you to continue but request her to give you sometime. Start again and repeat this as many times as you can control. In the beginning it might be difficult but with practice you can continue till you are physically exhausted.

      Skill of Embracing

      • I generally fumble while trying to embrace her. What is the best way to go about it.

      – Kunal Dua, Hoshiarpur

      You can move to her on some flimsy ground and touch her body as if it has happened by mistake and apologise for it. If she casually drop something in your company and bends to pick it up exposing her full breasts you can feign to help her in picking up that object and brush against her body as if it happened unwittingly. If you are walking in a crowded market or in dark then you can brush your body against her and then retrace immediately. If while eating on the same table your foot falls on her foot, let it be there for sometime and read her body language. If she doesn’t mind let it be there for sometime. Press it gently as long as she doesn’t indicate to have it removed. Once you have achieved success in all these attempts go ahead and throw the rule book to the winds and grab her.

      When to Come!

      An applicant called to confirm for the interview. She asked the boss," Could she come for the interview.

      You can come during the interview the boss

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