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Edited, compiled and written by R. Tyler, THE SINGLES' QUESTIONNAIRE I have prepared this screening questionnaire to be used to screen contacts or to use as a get acquainted tool before the first date to be discussed and compared on the first date. No one should date a complete stranger without using some well prepared screening device. These aren't the good old days. If you have any questions or comments about my screening questionnaire, please contact me at: L. Tyler,
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DEAR SINGLE FRIEND, There is no need to be alone! If you do not want to be alone and you believe God does not want you to be alone, then you can do something about it besides sitting and waiting. If you have a phone, a pen, some spare coins and the desire to meet others, then all you have to do is be a Ruth and present yourself to the Boazes that are out there looking for you, or be an Issac and let these resources be your servants to bring you together with your Rebeckah. Jesus said the sparrows are provided for, but even the sparrows have to get out of their nests and get out into the world to find the food God has provided for them. Even so, you too will probably have to get out of your nest or rut and get out into the world to find, or be found by, the mate God has for you. The seekers are promised to find, so if you want to find you had better be seeking. Sexual harassment laws today make it almost impossible to initiate relationships at work, and even at some educational institutions. Sexual harrasment laws today almost require that the woman at least state her interest and openness to a date or relationship before the man initiates anything. The resources below are specifically designed for professionals and adults who want to meet like minded people. The helps below are offered to help you get out of your nest and find your provision from God. Please start at www.eharmony.com. Please get and read N.

Clark Warren's books, " Finding the Love of Your Life", and "How to Know if Someone's Worth Pursuing in 2 Dates".

Test/Examine/Scrutinize Everything! That includes the people you meet and become involved with. Hold Fast/Tightly That Which is Good! After you have found that the person has God and His goodness filling that person's life, HANG ON TO THAT PERSON! ***1 Thess. 5:21He who finds a godly mate, finds a good thing! It is good to be zealous about good things.Whatever you find to do, do with all your might as unto the Lord. Seek and you shall find. SO DO IT! BUT DO IT BEFORE YOUR HEART IS HOOKED ON A FEELING! DO IT BEFORE YOU START SEEING EACH OTHER REGULARLY OR MAKING COMMITMENTS. AT LEAST MAKE SURE BOTH OF YOU HAVE DONE THE FOLLOWING COMPATIBILITY QUESTIONNAIRE PART ONE (ALONE BY YOURSELVES). HAVING COMPLETED THE PART ONE QUESTIONNAIRES BY YOURSELVES, BY E-MAIL (NOT BY PHONE) AGREE ON AN EXACT MINUTE WHEN YOU WILL BOTH E-MAIL YOUR COMPLETED PART ONE QUESTIONNAIRES TO EACH OTHER. THIS PREVENTS THAT ONE WILL USE THE OTHER'S INFORMATION TO DETERMINE HOW TO COMPLETE HIS/HER PART ONE QUESTIONNAIRE. IF HE DOESN'T E-MAIL HIS COMPLETED PART ONE QUESTIONNAIRE WITHIN TWO MINUTES OF THE AGREED UPON TIME, DROP HIM FOR HE CAN'T BE TRUSTED. AFTER THE PART ONE QUESTIONNAIRES HAVE BEEN COMPLETED AND EXCHANGED, BY E-MAIL, BEGIN TO DISCUSS BY E-MAIL (NOT BY PHONE) WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNED ABOUT EACH OTHER. IF ALL GOES WELL AND ACCEPTABLY IN THE E-MAIL EXCHANGES, THE FIRST THREE DATES SHOULD BE THAT HE ATTEND HER CHURCH WITH HER, MEETING HER AT HER CHURCH, ARRIVING SEPARATELY IN THEIR OWN CARS. SHE SHOULD MAKE SURE SHE INTRODUCES HIM TO AS MANY OF HER CHURCH FRIENDS AS POSSIBLE. BEFORE EVERYONE LEAVES AND THE CHURCH CLOSES, THEY SHOULD LEAVE SEPARATELY IN THEIR OWN CARS, WITH HIM LEAVING FIRST, AND HER GOING TO ANY PUBLIC PLACE BUT NOT HOME AFTER LEAVING THE CHURCH (SO HE CAN'T FOLLOW HER AND FIND OUT WHERE SHE LIVES). AFTER A WHILE SHE GOES HOME, CHECKING HER REAR VIEW MIRROR. AFTER THE THIRD CHURCH DATE, I HOPE THEY WOULD GO SEPARATELY OUT TO A VERY PUBLIC RESTAURANT FOR LUNCH/DINNER. I HOPE THEY WOULD LEAVE SEPARATELY IN THEIR OWN CARS, WITH HIM LEAVING FIRST, AND HER GOING TO ANY PUBLIC PLACE BUT NOT HOME AFTER LEAVING THE RESTAURANT (SO HE CAN'T FOLLOW HER AND FIND OUT WHERE SHE LIVES). AFTER A WHILE SHE GOES HOME, CHECKING HER REAR VIEW MIRROR.
SECTION A:- The Spiritual Dimension and Priorities " SECTION B:- The Physical Aspects " SECTION C: THE SOCIAL FACTORS" SECTION D: THE PERSONALITY FACTORS " "SECTION E : THE INTIMATE AND VITAL FACTORS "

THE MATCHMAKER QUESTIONNAIRE PART ONE: SECTION A OF FOUR- The Spiritual Dimension and Priorities ****************************************************** #1. Jesus Christ is my Lord, Master, Shepherd, Director and King in and over all of my ways and doings. The proof that I am born again and know Him is my obedience to His Word, teachings and commandments.>footnote3 (see footnotes) #1 Yes___ No___ #2. I trust the Lord with all my heart, instead of myself or my own understanding.>footnote4 (See footnotes) #2 No__Yes__ #3. I agree, confess, admit and acknowledge that the things which Paul the Apostle wrote in the Bible are the commandments and teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ.>footnote5 #3 Yes___ No___ #4. I agree, admit and confess that the Holy Spirit impregnated the virgin Mary so that her "flesh and blood" Child, the Lord Jesus Christ-God in the flesh, is in deed the very and only begotten Son of the God of Abraham, Isaac and Israel.>footnote6 #4No__Yes__ #5. I believe that all Old and New Testament Scriptures are given by inspiration of God, holy men of God speaking and writing as moved/worked by the Holy Spirit of God so that the words and ideas are commandments.>footnote 7 #5 Yes___ No___ #6. I believe that the Lord Jesus Christ, born in Bethlehem, Judea, and crucified/ killed on Golgotha/Calvary, will return to earth in His "flesh and bone" body as He promised.>footnote8 #6. No__Yes__ #7. I believe that Jesus Christ created everything in, on and around the earth, including Lucifer/Satan and angels.>footnote17 #7 Yes___ No___ #8. I believe that before Jesus Christ was born in Bethlehem Judea, God had NO flesh, blood and bone body, had no wife and had no sexual relations. I believe that when Jesus Christ was walking on the earth before He let them crucify Him, He never had a wife and had no sexual relations.>footnote18 #8 No__Yes__ #9. I accepted/received Jesus Christ as my own personal Lord, Master and Savior in the following manner (please use the back of this page as needed): ________________________________________________ ________________________________________________ ________________________________________________ ________________________________________________ If you need more space, please use the back of this page or another sheet. #10a. The "born again Christian" husband should be humbly sensitive and submissive to Jesus and His Word in his wife in the fearful reverence of our Holy God, [1] by laying down his

life/soul/being/preferences for her to unselfishly, kindly, gently, consistently and patiently Love her, especially when they are together; [2] by nourishing and cherishing her compassionately, [3] by dwelling with her wisely with godly understanding and wisdom, [4] by giving her honor and respect whether or not she deserves it, [5] and by serving her as a shepherd-teacher-exemplar of the Word of God >footnote19a #10a No__Yes__
#10b. The "born again Christian" wife should be sensitive and submissive to Christ and His Word in her husband by [1] accepting his authority over her and doing what he asks in the same way as she accepts the authority over her that her employers, the police, law enforcement agents, professors/teaches, and judges have over her at different times, doing what they ask after determining that what they ask her to do is not sinful; [2] and by accepting him as the authority which Jesus has placed over her and to whom she should voluntarily submit herself in everything in the same way as she submits herself to Christ, after testing and examining in the Word and in her spirit what he asks her to do, making sure that what he asks her to do is not sin or sinful. >footnote19b #10b No__Yes__ #10c. [1] by remaining silent in church meetings when with him, and if she wants to inquire about something, she should respectfully ask her own husband at home and learn quietly, receiving godly instruction peacefully, free of contention and strife; and if her husband is not available to answer her question, she should ask a godly and older Christian sister; [2] being careful not to teach her man how to do things, not bossing him or telling him what to do; [3] by affectionately, fondly, humbly, kindly, patiently, uselfishly and gently Loving him in all of her contact with him; [4] by showing sincere respect and reverence to her husband, holding him in high regard and esteem, honoring him, venerating, and esteeming him highly, and defering to him. >footnote19b #10c No__Yes__ #11. The "born again Christian" wife should let her own husband be the leader in the marriage in everything as is fit in the Lord (with hers being the choice whether or not to follow his lead according to 1 Thess 5:21 and with him having no right to make her obey him), giving him loving affection and respect for Christ's sake (whether or not he deserves it).>footnote20 #11Yes __No __

#12. The "born again Christian" wife should not teach her husband what to do and she shouldn't have or exercise authority over (bossing, commanding, intimidating, running, controlling, manipulating) him.>footnote21 #12 No__Yes__ #13. I believe one should sexually lay [genital contact/connection/interaction] only with one's own marital partner.>footnote22 #13 Yes___ No___ #14. In a godly marriage I believe the married couples' genitalia can be "instruments of righteousness" for the blessing, rejoicing, loving, satisfaction, enrapturing, and ecstasy of sexual marital intimacy. I believe that sexual/genital nakedness and pleasuring with a partner should take place only in marriage and with one's own marital partner.>footnote23 #14 No__Yes__ #15. I believe that breast/bosom pressing, embracing & caressing in sexual pleasure belongs only in male+female marriage with one's own marital partner.>footnote24 #15 Yes_ No_ #16. I believe that if a single believer in Christ fails to consistently and regularly exercise selfcontrol sexually (i.e. failing to abstain consistently from premarital and/or extramarital breast &/or genital intimacy with another), that believer should marry a godly mate because it is better to marry than to be burning with sexual desire or failing to control one's own sexual desire.>footnote25 #16 No__Yes__

#17. My belief is: (1) I am not sure I believe in God. (2) I believe that Jesus is Michael the Archangel of God. (3) I believe that Jesus is Lucifer's brother by one of God's wives. (4) I believe that Jesus is a reincarnation of Krishna or Shiva. (5) I believe that Jesus is a spirit and never came to earth to die in a human body. (6) I believe that Jesus left his body in the grave and is with us and will be with us only in spirit to show us the way. (7) I believe in God but I am not sure about Christ being God. (8) I believe that Christ is God, the only begotten Son of God but I'm not sure that I have received Christ as my personal King and Savior. (9) I am sure that I have received Jesus as King and Savior into my own life/soul/ being and I know that His Holy Spirit lives and works in me. (10) In addition to #9, I am filled with the Spirit and His fruits and I am actively trying to expand Christ's kingdom by telling others the good news about Jesus. #18. I prefer that my date's belief be (1), (2), (3), (4), (5), (6), (7), (8), (9), (10) of the above. #19. I attend church: (1) Once a year (2) once a month (3) About twice a month (4) Weekly (5) More #20. I prefer that my ideal date attend church at least (1), (2), (3), (4), (5) of the above. #21. The name of my church is__________________________________ and its address is ________________________________________________ #22. My pastor name and phone number is ________________________(WOMEN, CALL THIS NUMBER!!!) ________________________________________________ His wife's name is ________________________(WOMEN, CALL THIS WOMAN!!!!) #23. The names of two church officials you may contact as my references are__________________________________ Phone # __________________________________(CALL THIS PERSON!!) Phone #___________________________________(CALL THIS PERSON!!) #24. I attend Bible discussion and/or prayer groups: (1) Never (2) Rarely (3) Occasionally (4) Monthly (5) Weekly #25. I prefer that my ideal date attend such groups at least (1), (2), (3), (4), (5) of the above. #26. I have a private quiet time of prayer, Bible study and personal devotions: (1) Never (2) Rarely (3) Occasionally (4) Often each week (5) Usually daily

#27. I prefer that my ideal date have such a private quiet time at least: (1), (2), (3), (4), (5) of the above. #28. I lead Bible studies and/or teach the Bible to others: (1) Never (2) Rarely (3) Occasionally (4) Often each month (5) Weekly #29. I prefer that my Ideal date lead such studies or teach at least (1), (2), (3), (4), (5) of the above. #30. With regard to making a vocation of Christian service, I would: (1) Not consider it (2) Not prefer it (3) Be open to it (4) Prefer it (5) Definitely plan on it #31. I prefer that my ideal date at least (1), (2), (3), (4), (5) of the above. #32. Theologically I am: (1) Very liberal (2) Liberal (3) Conservative & Evangelical (4) Conservative, fundamental and evangelical #33. Theologically I prefer that my ideal date be (1), (2), (3), (4) of the above. #34. I witness about salvation in Jesus Christ: (1) Never (2) Rarely (3) Occasionally (4) Often (5) Usually once a week or more #35. I prefer that my ideal date witness about Jesus (1), (2), (3), (4), (5) of the above. #36. The church I attend is: (1) Baptist (2) Catholic (3) Christian, Church of Christ, Congregational (4) Episcopal (5) Lutheran (6) Methodist (7) Pentecostal, Assembly of God, Church of God, Foursquare (8) Presbyterian (9) Interdenominational, Bible Church, Evangelical Free (10) or_____________________ #37. My ideal date would attend _____________________________ of the above. I would consider dating someone who attended _______________________of the above. Part ONE: SECTION B OF FOUR- The Physical Aspects ****************************************************** #1. My nationality or ethnic heritage is _____________ #2. My age is _____________ #3. My ideal date's minimum age may be: _____ #4. My ideal date's maximum age may be _____ #5. I hope my date's age would be _____ #6. My height is _______________ #7. My ideal date's minimum height may be _____

#8. My ideal date's maximum height may be _____ #9. I hope my date's height would be ______ #10. My weight is ________________ #11. My ideal date's minimum weight may be ________ (very thin, slender, average or ______________) #12. My ideal date's maximum weight may be ________ (average, slightly overweight, stocky, very overweight, or _________________) #13. My race/nationality is ________________ #14. My ideal date's race may be _________________ but may not be ________________________________________________ #15. My ideal date's nationality may be ______________ but may not be _______________________________________________ #16. My education level (highest grade) is ___________________ #17. My ideal date's education level may range from _______________ to _________________. #18. Most people think of my physical appearance as: (1) Unattractive (2) Below Average (3) Average (4) Above average (5) Very attractive #19. Personal grooming and dress are: (1) Not at all important (2) Slightly important (3) Fairly important (4) Very important (5) Extremely important #20. My date's physical appearance is: (1) Of little importance (2) Fairly important (3) Quite important (4) Very important (5) Extremely important

PART ONE: SECTION C OF FOUR THE SOCIAL FACTORS ******************************************************1 #1. My marital status is: (1) Single (2) Widow/Widower (3) Divorced #of times_ (4) Separated #2. Would you be willing to date a person who is described as follows: A. Lost a mate to death? (1) Yes (2) No B. Abandoned and/or divorced by a mate who didn't obediently believe in Jesus Christ at the time of the abandonment/ divorce? (1) Yes (2) No C. Has been abandoned and ordivorced by a professing Christian? (1) Yes (2) No D. Divorced &/or abandoned a professing Christian? (1) Yes (2) No E. Is separated but not divorced from a mate who doesn't obediently believe in Jesus Christ? (1) Yes (2) No F. Is separated but not divorced from a professing Christian? (1) Yes (2) No G. Is married if _____________________________? (1) Yes (2) No #3. I have one or more children dependent on or living with me. (1) Yes (2)No #4. My date may have one or _______ children. (1) Yes (2) No

#5. I consider my childhood family cultured, sophisticated and refined: 1) Not at all (2) Somewhat (3) Average (4) Above average (5) Very much so. Personally I am __________________ #6. My father-figure and I have/had a very good relationship. (1) Yes (2) No Why? ________________________________________________ ________________________________________________ His phone # is:_________________________(CALL HIM!!!) #7. My mother-figure and I have/had a very good relationship. (1) Yes (2)No Why? ________________________________________________ ________________________________________________ Her phone # is:________________________(CALL HER!!!) #8. When my parents made significant decisions: (1) My mother made all of them, (2) My mother made most of them, (3) They made them jointly in cooperation, (4) My father made most of them, (5) My father made all of them. Personally I believe _____________ should make ________ of the decisions. #9. When two people are dating regularly they should: (1) Have a good deal of personal freedom, (2) Frequently do things separately, (3) occasionally do things separately, (4) Do almost every social thing together, (5) Do every social thing together #10. In relations with people of the opposite sex, I prefer to be: (1) Dominant, (2) Moderately dominant, (3) Very cooperative, (4) Moderately submissive, (5) Submissive rarely insisting on having my own way. I prefer that my date be __________________ #11. With a person I have been dating frequently, I am: (1) Intimately affectionate, (2) Very warm and very affectionate but not intimate (just hugs and kisses and not sexual), (3) Usually affectionate (hugs and kisses and not sexual), (4) Moderately affectionate (safe hugs, closed lip kisses, not sexual), (5) Rarely affectionate (only holding hands and cheek kisses), (6) Not affectionate (no touching of skin). I PREFER THAT MY DATE BE _________________________________ #12. How emotionally involved without commitment do you wish to become with your dates? (1) Very involved, (2) Moderately involved, (3) Not involved at all #13. I am dating because: (1) I want to be married, (2) I like to have a lot of friends, (3) I want to have a couple of close friends, (4) I want a close friend, (5) I am lonely and don't like to be alone. #14. Spending time with relatives is: (1) Not at all important, (2) Slightly important, (3) Fairly important, (4) Very important, (5) Extremely important #15. In family financial affairs: (1) I tend to live beyond our income, (2) I tend to charge items on our accounts, (3) I live for the here and now and don't think about our future, (4) I save a little, (5) I save and invest for our future.

#16. I give about _______% of my monthly pay to churches or charities like ________________________________________________ #17. I earn about $ ____________ net each month. I prefer that my date should earn at least $ ____________ net per month. #18. For the past five years I have worked as 1. 2. 3. 4. ________________________________________________ #19. I currently work as a _______________________________________ #20. I believe that children are a God-given solemn trust, gift and opportunity to serve by training, teaching, nurturing, "disciplining", disciplining and admonishing in the Way and Word of God.26 Please cross out that with which you disagree. #21. I believe that I must obediently love God more than I love my children so that I can be objective in helping them learn to do God's good instead of their own pleasure. >footnote27 (See footnotes) Please cross out that with which you disagree. #22. I believe that God wants me to rebuke, teach, admonish, correct, discipline and warn my children when they do what God says, or I say, is wrong.>footnote28 Please cross out that with which you disagree. #23. I understand that it is the will of God for my children to show respect to me, to talk respectfully to and about me, and that they are commanded by God to obey me as long as I don't cause them to disobey God. I realize that this is one of God's basic rules for humanity and gravely serious consequences are ordained by God for children who don't obey Him in this matter.>footnote29 (See footnotes) Please cross out that with which you disagree. #24. I believe that I am God's ordained authority in charge of my children so I am to be in charge of my children and they are to obey me for God's sake. If my children or I discount or ignore my authority, then I am discounting and ignoring God.>footnote30 (See footnotes) Please cross out that with which you disagree. #25. I believe that, as the authority in charge of -- and to be obeyed by my children, I am not to be a tyrant or abusive dictator. As the servant of God I serve my children as their parent with patience, gentleness, kindness, longsuffering, unselfishness, optimism, sincerity and without wrath so that even when I have to spank/discipline/punish them for rebellion or evil I do it for their own good, not for their harm and not for my own personal pleasure/ gratification.>footnote30b Please cross out that with which you disagree.

SECTION D OF FOUR: THE PERSONALITY FACTORS ****************************************************** #1. Ordinarily, I am: (1) Emotional, (2) Slightly more emotional than rational, (3) Slightly more rational than emotional, (4) Very rational. I prefer that my date be ___________________

#2. My personality is that of: (1) An extrovert, (2) A moderate extrovert, (3) A moderate introvert, (4) An introvert. I prefer that my date have a personality of _________________ #3. I am: (1) Always very neat and organized, (2) Usually neat and organized, (3) sometimes neat and organized, (4) Rarely neat and organized but hire a housecleaner, (5) Not neat and organized but I know where almost everything is. I prefer that my date be__________________________ #4. I prefer to be: (1) Dominant, (2) Moderately dominant, (3) Very cooperative, (4) Moderately submissive, (5) Submissive rarely insisting on having my own way. I prefer that my date be ____ #5. Ordinarily I am: (1) Talkative, (2) Moderately talkative, (3) Moderately quiet, (4) Quiet. I prefer that my date should be ____________________ #6. Real love is best expressed to me, or I prefer to be loved by: (1) Acts of kindness and thoughtfulness, (2) Words and tone of voice, (3) Facial expressions, (4) Touch and feeling. #7. I express real love best by: (1) Acts of kindness and thoughtfulness, (2) Words and tone of voice, (3) Facial expressions, (4) Touch and feeling, (5) Other _______________________. #8. My basic attitude toward life is that it is: (1) Boring, (2) Dull, (3) Moderately interesting, (4) Interesting, (5) Exciting. #9. My favorite kinds of music are ________________________________________________ #10. My favorite TV shows are ________________________________________________ #11. My favorite movies are ________________________________________________ #12. I like radio stations that ________________________________________________ #13. In my personal financial affairs: (1) I tend to live beyond my income, (2) I tend to charge items, (3) I live for the here and now and don't think about the future, (4) I save a little, (5) I save and invest for the future. #14. When I go out for an evening, I would prefer to be: (1) Alone, (2) With one person, (3) Double dating, (4) In a small group, (5) In a large group. #15. Basically I consider myself: (1) A loner, (2) Retiring, (3) Quiet, (4) Gregarious- friendlymerry, (5) Very gregarious- friendly-merry. #16. Having a good sense of humor is to me: (1) Not at all important, (2) Slightly important, (3) Fairly important, (4) Very important (5) Extremely important #17. I would like to spend most of my life in a: (1) Ranch or farm community, (2) Small town, (3) Average size city, (4) Fairly large city, (5) Large metropolitan area, (6) In a suburb of a city. #18. My basic attitude about people is that they are usually: (1) Boring, (2) Dull, (3) Moderately interesting, (4) Interesting, (5) Exciting #19. It is important that my home be kept dusted, neat and clean: (1) All of the time, (2) Most of the time, (3) Some of the time (once a week), (4)Occasionally (once a month or for company) #20. I smoke ________________________________________________ I prefer that my date smoke _______________________________________________

#21. I drink alcoholic beverages ________________________________________________ I prefer that my date drink ________________________________________________ #22. I use legal prescription drugs like ______________________________________________ #23. In my opinion, illegal drugs like marijuana, cocaine, Heroin, etc. are ________________________________________________ #24. Politically, I am: (1) Very conservative and and feel I don't have to obey laws I disagree with, (2) Very conservative and very law abiding, (3) Conservative and usually law abiding, (4) Moderate and can compromise, (4) Liberal and want some laws changed and disobey others, (5) Very liberal and I feel I don't have to obey laws I disagree with. Politically my date may be __________________________________________ #25. My highest level of academic attainment is: (1) Attending high school, (2) High School diploma, (3) Attended (attending) vocational trade school, (4) Attended (attending) college, (5) College bachelor degree, (6) Master's degree or above. I prefer that my date's minimum level of academic attainment should be______________ #26. I would estimate my IQ to be: (1) Lower than average but okay, (2) Average, (3) Above average, (4) Well above average, (5) Genius or gifted. I prefer that my date's IQ should be at least #______ or High_______Moderate________Average_______Low______ #27. Please rate the following items 1 through 5 as follows: (1) Not at all interested, (2) Slightly interested, (3) Fairly interested, (4) Very interested, (5) Extremely interested. The items are as follows: Art ____, Attend athletic events ____, Ballets and operas ___, Bible studies and prayer meetings ___, Bowling ____, Bridge ____, Camping ____, Card games ____, Chess ____, Church services ____, Church specials ____, Popular dancing ____, Fishing ____, Golf ____, Happy hours ____, Hunting with camera ____, Hunting with weapons _, Movie theaters ____, Music (singing/playing) ____, Parties ____, Photography ____, Picnics ____, Ping pong ____, Plays or musicals ____, Political activity ____, Sailing ____, Scuba diving ____, Skating _____, Snow skiing ____, Sports cars ____, Square/folk dancing ____, Sunbathing _____, Support groups _____, Swimming _____, Tennis _____, Racquet ball ____, Badminton _____, Travel-foreign _____, Travel-USA ____, Visiting friends ____, Volleyball ____, Watching TV ____, Watching videos ____, Water skiing ____, The following: ________________________________________________ ________________________________________________ #28. We haven't touched on this yet but what I tell you in the following is very important to me and I hope it is important to you too. Please tell me how you feel about it. If you need more space, please use the back of this page or attach another sheet ___________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________ #29. To me unselfish and compassionate love is very important and this is the kind of love I want to give
and receive. True____ False____ #30. I am basically and usually joyful person with a smile on my face and heart. True____ False____

#31. I am basically and usually a peaceful person and I enjoy peaceful places and people. True____ False____ #32. I am basically and usually patient and forbearing with people and I want to be with people who are patient and forbearing with people. True__False__ #33. Kindness and kindliness with people is very important to me that is how I want to be and how I want to be treated. True ___ False____ #34. I am basically and usually a generous and benevolent person, willing and ready to share with those I love or those who are in need. True___ False___ #35. I am bascially and usually worthy trust, dependable and I keep my word. I want this in my friends. True___ False___ #36. I don't have the big head or think I am hot stuff or better than other people and humility is important to me. True___ False___ #37. My ability to control myself well is important to me so I am careful not to abuse or misuse drugs or alcohol that might hinder me from controlling myself well. I want my partner to be the same. True___ False___ #38 I don't like to be around people who abuse their bodies sexually or who like to be sexually intimate without being married to their partner. T__F__ #39. I don't like to be around people who act indecently, practice sorcery or witchcraft, quarrel often, like to fight, like to argue, are so ambitious they are too competitive, envious, gossips, jealous, like to get drunk/stoned, behave indecently, and like to go to parties where people do all of these things. True___ False___

THE SINGLES' QUESTIONNAIRE Part 2

****PART ONE: SECTION A OF FOUR- The Spiritual Dimension and Priorities is critical. If your prospective partner answered "NO" to #10, #10a and/or #11 in that part, DO NOT MARRY THAT PERSON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Maybe you could be friends but if you marry such a person you will have a long slow trip down heartbreak road and a long stay in Heartbreak Hotel.

WHEN YOU HAVE HAD Several DATES, ARRIVING SEPARATELY AND LEAVING SEPARATELY (with the woman going any public place but home, so he can't follow her and get her address) and ARE THINKING OR TALKING ABOUT GETTING SERIOUS, MAKING COMMITMENTS, dating to see if marriage might be for the two of you, BECOMING ENGAGED, OR PREPARING TO COMMIT FOR MARRIAGE, DO PART TWO SEPARATELY. Agree to email PART TWO to each other at the same time (if he doesn't mail it within a few minutes of the agreed upon minute, drop him). EXCHANGE AND COMPARE THEM SEPARATELY. By email discuss the problems and potentials you see in each other responses. THEN make a date to DISCUSS WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNED ABOUT EACH OTHER at a very public restaurant. #1. I believe marital/sexual intimacy with your own marital partner is honorable, undefiled, good, wonderful, delightful, pleasant, desirable and God ordained.>footnote 31 Yes ______ No ______ #2. I believe that a married male+female couple should be sexually/ genitally intimate and

active with each other in order to avoid sexual immorality.>footnote 32 No ______ Yes _____ #3. I believe that a male and female married to each other should be sexually/genitally affectionate with each other whenever one wants or needs it.>footnote 33 Yes ______ No ______ #4. I believe that the wife has sexual authority over her husband's body and that the husband has sexual authority over her body and such authority is to be submitted to just as to any other Romans 13 authority set up by God. This sexual authority is to be exercised humbly, meekly and gently in unselfish, compassionately cherishing service to the other.>footnote 34 No _______Yes _______ #5. I believe that a married male+female couple should sexually deprive/deny each other only for fasting and prayer if they both agree to it and then only for a mutually acceptable time.>footnote35 Yes _____ No _______ #6. I believe that it is God's best for a born again Christian wife to not dessert/divorce/leave her born again Christian husband, but if she sins and does, she should remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband since she is bound by God to him as wife as long as he lives.>footnote 36 Yes ____ No _____ #7. I believe a born again Christian husband is not to divorce/send away/ask to leave his born again Christian wife because she is bound by God to him as wife as long as he lives.>footnote 37 No ____ Yes ______ #8. I believe a born again Christian mate should not associate/keep company with his/her "born again" Christian" mate if that mate claims to be a "born again Christian" and lives in sexual immorality, covetousness, idolatry, verbal abuse of others, drunkenness, drug addiction, extortion, open disobedience to clear and explicit commands/teachings of the Word of God. >footnote 38 Yes ___ No __ #9. I believe a married believer should not leave/divorce/send away his/her "unsaved" spouse as long as that unsaved spouse actually lives or wants to continue living/dwelling with him/ her.>footnote 39 Yes ___ No ___ #10. I believe that if the "unsaved" spouse does not want to live/dwell with the believer and leaves (departs, divorces, separates, etc.) the believer, that believer is not morally bound (under bondage, subject, held by necessity) in such cases and is free to seek a "born again Christian" mate>footnote 40 No ___ Yes __ #11. ONLY FOR THE MAN. For the past five years I have worked as a _________________________ at (company's name & location) _________________________(CALL AND VERIFY) THE WOMAN PROVIDES THIS INFORMATION ONLY AFTER SHE HAS VERIFIED HIS INFORMATION. #12. ONLY FOR THE MAN I currently work as a ______________________________________ at (company's name & location) __________________________(CALL AND VERIFY) for _____ years and ____ months, and my supervisor's name and title is __________________________ (CALL AND VERIFY) THE WOMAN PROVIDES THIS INFORMATION ONLY AFTER SHE HAS VERIFIED

HIS INFORMATION. #13. ONLY FOR THE MAN. My resume and work references for the last six years are attached/enclosed. #14 Before we date alone together we agree to be tested for the STDs that are incurable, specifically HIV, AIDS, HCV, Herpes and HPV. THE WOMAN PROVIDES THIS INFORMATION ONLY AFTER SHE HAS VERIFIED HIS INFORMATION. IF THE LORD LEADS YOU, PLEASE COMPLETE THE NEXT STEP, "ARE WE READY FOR MARRIAGE", BEFORE YOU BECOME ENGAGED OR MAKE YOUR MARITAL COMMITMENT OR BECOME MARITALLY INTIMATE. IF YOU WANT THE NEXT STEP, PLEASE CONTACT R. TYLER AT InterRacialEthnicDatingMarryingInJesus2-owner@yahoogroups.com AmorYLaMexicanaYMorenita-owner@yahoogroups.com InterRacialEthnicDatinMarriageInJesus-owner@googlegroups.com PLEASE DON'T SEND/GIVE THE "ARE WE READY FOR MARRIAGE" TO A POTENTIAL/ PROSPECTIVE DATE. THE QUESTIONNAIRE LETS YOU REALLY GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER IN A VERY SHORT TIME AND ALLOWS YOU TO DO DEAL WITH POTENTIAL PROBLEMS/CONFLICTS VERY EARLY IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. REMEMBER YOU SHOULD BE PREPARED TO ACCEPT THE PERSON THE WAY HE/SHE IS WHEN YOU MEET WITH THE HOPE THAT A REASONABLE PERSON WOULD MAKE MINOR/ MODEST COMPROMISES. ANY PLAN ON YOUR OR HIS/HER PART TO MAKE OR EXPECT MAJOR CHANGES IN THE OTHER PERSON IS NOT REALISTIC AND PAVES THE WAY FOR HEARTBREAK LATER. REMEMBER THE ROMANS 14 DOUBT PRINCIPLE: WHEN IN DOUBT, DON'T!!!!!! SAVE YOUR HEART! WHEN THE DOUBTS ARE COMPLETELY GONE AND YOU HAVE PEACE OF MIND AND HEART ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT TO DO, YOU'VE PRAYED ASKING AND TRUSTING HIM FOR HIS SHEPHERDING/ GUIDANCE, YOU MEET THE BIBLE'S REQUIREMENTS FOR ANSWERED PRAYER41 , AND YOU ARE AWARE OF NOTHING IN THE BIBLE THAT SAYS YOU SHOULDN'T DO IT, DO IT!!!
>footnote>footnote>footnoteSOME SCRIPTURAL GUIDELINES 1. God makes it very clear in His Word#1 (last page) that He, as our Heavenly Father, instructs us not to "go with", become engaged to, or marry anyone who is not a believer who is obeying the Word of God. Being the Loving Father our God is, and the all wise King that Jesus is, God instructs#2 us for our own well being that an obedient believer should not "go with", become engaged to, or marry any "believer" who is disobeying God's instructions, or any "believer" who believes or teaches things that contradict or are in conflict with God's teachings in the Bible. Yes, that really narrows the way for finding a godly mate and drastically reduces the number of eligible people but those who have been down the road can tell you that it is better to marry right than wrong, and that it is better not to marry than to marry wrong. It just makes the miracle of God's provision even more miraculous, like Elijah pouring all that water over the

sacrifice to be burned before God sent the consuming fire from Heaven. You have to have Faith in God to walk with God. You have to really trust Him before you can turn your hopes and dreams over to Him for His decision. 2. If you have no need of marital affectionate/sexual intimacy, a gift from God, you have the wonderful opportunity to serve God with fewer "distractions", to spend much more time with Him in the Word and prayer, and with others in ministry. David Hocking's book on singles beautifully explains 1 Corinthians 7:1,7,,20,25-35 and the great opportunity the single life presents to those who want more fully to seek and follow God with their whole heart. Singles groups for such people are fellowship opportunities, and provide the opportunity to bond with friends and minister to the Body of Christ. 3. If your calling and gift is to marry, how do you seek and find that partner? First of all you have to have your priorities right because marriage can become an idol just like anything else on earth can. You have to make very sure that Matthew 6:33,34; Proverbs 3:1-8; Psalms 37:1-6; and 2 Timothy 2 are daily very real or else even our prayers are in vain (1 John 3:22,23 and 1 John 5:14,15). Next we have to come to the place of Luke 22:42 and Romans 6:4,11, 12,13----the place of death to self and resurrection to Love which seeks not its own way/things---SO THAT WE ARE READY TO ACCEPT WHOEVER HE GIVES TO US, EVEN IF HIS CHOICE SEEMS TO FALL FAR SHORT OF OUR DREAMS AND FANTASIES. With our "seed" dead in the ground, He can raise us to a new life of marriage in His will. You literally have to die to your wants and tastes in physical appearance, personality, color hair or eyes, height, talents, income, status etc. and be ready to accept whoever He gives to you and you will have doubt-free peace of heart and mind if you are ready and accepting the one He gives to you. Your only concern should be that your prospective mate meets God's requirements in the Bible for a godly, Spirit-led and Spirit-filled man/woman. Jesus said, "Seek and you shall find." Seeking one's mate can be as active a process as Ruth's and Queen Esther's or it can be as privately surprising as Adam's awakening to Eve for the first time. You can count on God to lead you according to His word (Proverbs 3:5,6; Romans 8:14). You can trust Him to put His ideas/desires in your heart/mind and the opportunities to act on them (Philippians 2:13; Hebrews 13:20,21). Like Adam, you can wake up to her in your life in His time. Like Isaac, a parent figure can help you find God's choice for you. You can just be going about your daily activities like Rebekah and, in a moment of compassionate assistance to a stranger, you can find your mate. Like Ruth, you can commit yourself to God's service, make a Godly decision to step out of one situation and into another and in that new situation be led and advised to do what seems like

an ordinary work day decision but which results in your meeting your mate quite unexpectedly. Following wise and Godly counsel of Godly counselors like Ruth, you might be led to offer yourself as wife to a Godly man who obviously cares for and admires you but for some reason feels unworthy to ask you to be his wife. Like David meeting Abigail, you could just be going about your daily walk in the Lord, meet a godly woman you admire and respect but who seems unavailable just to quite unexpectedly find that she is both available and ready to marry you. Like Abigail, you could find yourself in a trying and difficult situation with no relief in sight, but by living wisely and Godly in that situation impress and build a relationship with the one you will eventually marry. With today's laws about sexual harassment, any wise male will think long and hard before he compliments a female on her female beauty or appearance, long and hard before he will let her know he likes her and is interested in getting to know her personally, long and hard before he will ask or suggest that they go out on a date. Because of the sexual harassment laws the only way a woman might know a man is interested in her is by what his eyes show, and it is now virtually up to the woman to tell the man that if he is interested, she would like to get to know him better and get together to talk. This is very hard for a woman because of the chance of misreading his eyes and being rejected and embarrassed. That's why women more than ever need singles' and couples' agencies and the KEY described in the next paragraph. THE KEY IS IN GENESIS 24:27. Being in His way, doing His things, saying His Words He leads you to the where and the who of your future. It may even seem like blind faith but it has to be absolute trust in His working all things together according to the counsel of His own will (Ephes. 1:11; Phil. 4:6,7) free of worry, anxiety and fretting, with a soul at rest and in peace knowing that your Shepherd-King will take care of the need for you in His time with the person of His choice, not necessarily of your choice. YOU MUST TRUST HIM TO USE HIS WORD AND THE TRUTH OF ROMANS 14:22,23 WITH PHILIPPIANS 4:6,7 to guide you. He can bring scriptures to mind to guide and direct you. But the final test is the Spirit's gift of doubt-free peace of heart and mind. Move and rest in that peace. Consider every doubt and uneasiness of spirit to be God's Romans 14 and Phil. 4 signal to you that you shouldn't do the thing in question because either it is the wrong thing and you don't realize it yet, or it is the right thing but you shouldn't do it yet. So you don't say it or do it until your consciousness is filled with His doubt-free peace and rest of spirit about it/him/her. 4. What does the Bible say about sexual morality?

JESUS AND THE APOSTLES TOOK THE SAME OLD TESTAMENT HEBREW AND GREEK WORDS (SEPTUAGINT) FOR IMMORALITY/ FORNICATION AND USED THEM IN THE NEW TESTAMENT WITHOUT CHANGING THEIR MEANINGS. HE DID CHANGE THEIR PENALTIES/ PUNISHMENTS IN THIS LIFE ON EARTH. ***Matt. 5:17 _ Think not that I am come to make void the law or the prophets; I am not come to make void, but to fulfill. 18 For verily I say unto you, Until the heaven and the earth pass away, one iota or one tittle shall in no wise pass from the law till all come to pass. 19 Whosoever then shall do away with one of these least commandments, and shall teach men so, shall be called least in the kingdom of the heavens; but whosoever shall practice and teach [them], *he* shall be called great in the kingdom of the heavens. ***Matt. 23: 1 _ Then Jesus spoke to the crowds and to his disciples, 2 saying, The scribes and the Pharisees have set themselves down in Moses' seat: 3 all things therefore, whatever they may tell you, do and keep. But do not after their works, for they say and do not, PREMARITAL SEX AND PREMARITAL PETTING IS FORNICATION. BREAST AND GENITAL INTIMACY ARE APPROPRIATE ONLY WITH YOUR OWN MATE IN YOUR OWN MARRIAGE. ***Ezekiel 23:2 Son of man, there were two women, daughters of one mother. 3 And they did sexual sin in Egypt; they did sexual sin in their youth: there were their breasts pressed, and there were handled the nipples of their virginity. 8 Neither left she her sexual sin [brought] from Egypt; for in her youth they had lain with her, and had handled the breasts of her virginity, and poured their fornication upon her. 21 And you did look back to the lewdness of your youth, in the handling of your nipples by the Egyptians, for the breasts of your youth. ***Proverbs 5:18 Let your fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of your youth. 19 [Let her be as] the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy you at all times; and be ravished [enraptured/intoxicated] always with her [erotic] love. 20 And why will you, my son, be ravished [enraptured/intoxicated] with some other woman, and embrace the bosom of an alien stranger? 21 For the ways of man [are] before the eyes of the LORD, and he ponders all his goings. 22 His own iniquities shall take the wicked himself, and he shall be held with the cords of his sins. SEXUAL INTIMACY OUTSIDE OF/WITHOUT MARRIAGE IS UNACCEPTABLE TO GOD AND ETERNAL LIFE. ***Exodus 22:16 And if a man seduce a virgin who is not covenanted-tomarry, and lie [sexually] with her, he shall certainly endow

her to be his wife. 17 If her father utterly refuse to give her unto him [as wife], he shall weigh money according to the dowry of virgins. ***Deut. 22:25 But if a man find a covenanted-to-marry young woman in the field, and the man force her, and lie [sexually] with her; then the man only that lay [sexually] with her shall die: 26 But unto the young woman you shall do nothing; [there is] in the young woman no sin [worthy] of death; for as when a man rises against his neighbor, and slays him, even so [is] this matter: 27 For he found her in the field, [and] the covenanted-to-marry young woman cried, and [there was] no one to save her. 28 If a man find a young woman [who is] a virgin, who is not covenanted-to-marry, and lay hold on her, and lie [sexually] with her and they be found; 29 Then the man who lay [sexually] with her shall give unto the young woman's father fifty [shekels] of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he humbled her, he may not put her away all his days. PROVERBS 5, 6, &7 on premarital extramarital sex. ***Lev. 18:20 And you shall not lie sexually with your neighbour's wife, to become unclean with her. ***1 Corinthians 6:9 _ Do you not know that unrighteous [persons] shall not inherit [the] kingdom of God? Do not err: neither fornicators [those who have sexual intimacy either outside of their own marriage or without being married], nor idolaters, nor adulterers [those who have sexual intimacy either with someone else's mate or without a godly marriage], ...shall inherit [the] kingdom of God. . . 13 ... the body [is] not for sexual sin, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. 15 Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then, taking the members of the Christ, make [them] members of a female who does sexual sin? Far be the thought. 16 Do you not know that he [that is] joined to the female who does sexual sin is one body? for the two, he says, shall be one flesh. 17 But he that [is] joined to the Lord is one Spirit. 18 Flee sexual sin. Every sin which a man may practice is without the body, but he that commits sexual sin, sins against his own body. .... ***1 Corinthians 7:1 Now concerning the things about which you wrote to me, [it is] good for a man not to be touching a woman. 2.Nevertheless, [to avoid] sex sin every man is to be having his own woman and every woman is to be having her own man.....8.I say therefore, to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide [unmarried] even as I. But if they do not abstain [from sexual immorality], they are [commanded] to marry. For it is better to marry than to burn [passionately]......36. But if anyone think that he behaves himself improperly toward his virgin, if she has become marriageable, and so it must be, he is [commanded] to do what he wishes; he does not sin; they are [commanded] to marry. 37. Nevertheless he who stands steadfast in his heart, having no necessity, but has power over his own will, and so has determined in his heart that he will keep [as is]

his virgin, does well. [See 1 Thessalonians 4:1-8.] ***1 Timothy 5:11 But refuse [to enroll] younger widows; for when they have sensuous impulses contrary to Christ, they wish to marry.... 14. Therefore I desire that younger [widows] marry, bear children, manage the house, give no occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. [The difference between the old testament commands to marry (see above) and the New Testament commands to marry is that in the Old Testament God tells one who He commands one to marry, and in the New Testament He just commands one to marry and leaves it up to the one to find out who to marry by Phil. 4:6 & Romans 8:14] ================================================ FOOTNOTES & REFERENCES P. 29 Please dont give/send this page to a potential date since it is the answer key and a deceptive date could tell you what you want to hear instead of what is real for the date. You could use it later to discuss differences or problems. >1 2 Corinthians 6:11-7:1; 1 Corinthians 15:33; James 4:4; Exodus 34:12; 23:33; 1 Kings 11:1,2; Ezra 9:11,12; Nehemiah 10:25-30;Psalms 1:1; 26:4,5; Prov. 12:26;13:20; 14:7; 24:1; Amos 3:3. >2 1 Corinthians 5:9-11; 2 Thessalonians 3:6-14; Ephesians 5:7,11; NKJV 1 Timothy6:3-5; Romans 16:17; 3 John 10,11; 2 Timothy 3:1-5 >3 Hebrews 5:8,9; 1 John 2:1-5; Revelations 20; Psalms 23; >John 14:15,21 >4 Prov. 3:5,6; I Corinth. 12:3; Prov. 16:24; Hebrews 11 >5 1 Corinth. 14:37; 1 Thess. 4:8; 2 Peter 3:15, 16 >6 1 John 4:2; Matthew 1; John 1; Luke 2 >7 2 Tim. 3:16,17; 2 Peter 1:20,21; 1 John 2:3-5 >8 2 John 7-11; Luke 24; Acts 1 >17 Coloss. 1; John 1. >18 Matthew 22:28-32; Galatians 3:26,27,28; John 4; 1 John 3:2; >19a Ephes. 5:21-33; 1 Peter 3:7; 5:1-5. 1 Corinth 13. >19b Romans 13:1-5; 1 Cor 14:33-35; Colossians 3:17-19; 1 Timothy 2:10-12; Titus 2:1-6; 3:1; Hebrews 13:16-18; 1 Peter 2:15-3:6; 1 Thess 5:21 >20. Ephes. 5:22,23,24,33; Colos. 3:18- 4:1; 1 Peter 3:1-6; Titus 2:4; 1 Thess. 5:21; Hebrews 13:7,17. >21 1 Peter 3:1; 1 Timothy 2:11-15; 1 Corinth. 14:34-37. >22 Ezekiel 23:8,17,18,20; 1 Corinth 5 & 6 & 718 Matthew 22:28-32; Galatians 3:26,27,28; John 4; 1 John 3:2; >23 Ezekiel 16:15, 25, 31-37; 1 Corinth. 5 & 6 & 7; Proverbs 5:18-20 with Roman 6:13. >24 Ezek. 23:3,8,21; Prov.5:19,20; 1Corinth. 6:13-19 >25 1 Corinth. 7:9,7,28,36; 1 Thess. 4:3-8; Prov. 5:19,20.

>26 Psalm 127:3,4,5; Psalm 113:9; Psalm 128:2,3; Ephesians 6:1-4; Proverbs 1:8,9; 4:1-27; 15:5,20; 22:6; 30:17; 1 Peter 1:12,13; 1 Thessalonians 2:11; 1 Samuel 2:12-3:14 >27 Matthew 10:34,39 >28 See note 3 and Galatians 6:1, Ephesians 5:7,11; Matthew 18:15-18; 2 Timothy 2:24-26. Hebrews 12:3-11 >29 Ephesians 6:2; 2 Tim. 3:2; 1 Tim. 5:5; Matt. 15:4; Exodus 21:17; Leviticus 19:3; Deuteronomy 27:6,16; Proverbs 23:22; 28:24; Isaiah 3:5; Ezekiel 22:7 >30 Ephesians 6:1,2,3; Romans 13:1-13 >30b Luke 22:25,26,27,28; 1 Corinthians 13; 2 Timothy 2:2426; 1 Peter 5:1-5; Hebrews 12:3-11 >31 Hebrews 13:4; Proverbs 5:15-21; 30:18,19; Song of Solomon >32 1 Corinth. 7:1,2,3,4,5; Proverbs 5 >33 1 Corinth. 7:3,4,5; Proverbs 5 >34 Luke 22:25,26,27 and 1 Peter 5:1-5. 1 Corinth 7:3,4,5 >35 1 Corinth. 7:1,2,5; 1 John 3:16,17. >36 1 Corinth.7:10,11,39; Romans 7:2; Luke16:18. >37 First Corinth. 7:11; Ephes. 4:31, 32; 1 Peter3:7; Hosea 2; Malachi 3. >38 Matthew 18:16-18; 1 Corinth. 5; 2 Tim. 3; 1 Tim. 1:9-11; 6:1-5; 2 Thess. 3:6-14. >39 1 Corinth.7:13-16 >40 1 Corinth.7:12-39. >41 1JOHN 3:22,23,24; 1 JOHN 5:3,14,15