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Whilst we come in all different shapes and sizes, we are not as different as most of us would like
to think. Researchers have found that behaviour is actually quite predictable, once you establish a
person’s personality type.
A personality type simply means what type of person you are, how you think and what you are
likely to do. Personality types are therefore a good predictor of human behaviour, and can also
give you clues as to the best way a person can be persuaded.
As you can see, personality types enable you to quickly categorise people. In turn, this makes
persuasion and social interactions that much easier and more successful, as you can then tailor
your speech to meet a person’s specific needs.
However the information proved to be so valuable, that it was subsequently used by advertising
agencies in order to tailor advertisements to specific subsections of the population.
People who have an oppositional bias for each scale (i.e. they have a different preference for
each scale, for example extrovert vs. introvert) tend to be very different from each other.
In this example, an extrovert would usually be much more talkative and outgoing than an
introvert. Therefore the greater the dissimilarity between 2 people on the scale, the more
different they are likely to be and the less chance they will get along together.
As a general rule, just remember that people like people who are like themselves.
However some people may find this difficult, as we tend to communicate best in a way that
comes naturally to our personality type.
It is also worth noting that if you adopt a new personality type in order to persuade someone, if
you are suddenly pressured or put under stress, you will most likely revert back to your original
personality type.
This is one reason why during training soldiers in the Army are suddenly woken up at random
hours of the morning.
It has been shown that upon waking the solider will act as if they would when under stress, such
as during a battle. Meaning that they will revert back to their original personality type.
This shows the instructor and the solider who they really are, by stripping away any false
aspects/façades of their character they may have added to impress or deceive other
people/themselves.
1. How and where we get our energy from (E) Extrovert - (I) Introvert scale.
2. What type of information we pay attention to (S) Sensor- (N) Intuitive scale.
3. How we make decisions (T) Thinker - (F) Feeler scale.
4. How we resolve issues (J) Judger - (P) Perceiver scale.
Extroverts
Extroverts get their energy from external sources, such as
the company of other people.
Extroverts Summary
• Think aloud
• Communicate enthusiastically
• Are talkative
• Dominate conversation
• Share personal facts more readily
• Prefer face-to-face meetings
• Speak rapidly when giving information
• Are at ease communicating with groups
Introverts
By contrast, introverts gain their energy through quite solitude. These people may not necessarily
dislike the company of others, but feel more comfortable being by themselves and reflecting
alone.
At the moment, it is estimated that around 75% of people are extroverts. This is largely due to
the popularisation of celebrity culture, and the desire for the attention that goes with it.
However, the popularisation of video games and home entertainment has seen a sharp increase in
the number of introverts, especially male introverts.
At the moment this does not seem to affect women, who are predominantly extroverts.
Introverts Summary
• Reflect, then talk
• Keep feelings to themselves
• Listen more than talk
• Need to be drawn out
• Keep personal information private
• Like written memos and reports
• Pause when answering questions
• Like to communicate one-on-one
Sensors
Sensors tend to pay attention to facts and details,
relying on information that is practical and useful.
Sensors Summary
• Present facts evidence, examples first
• Ask lots of “what” and “how” questions
• Use lots of specific examples
• Are interested in short-term practical applications
• Like step-by-step information and detailed descriptions
• Value real-life experiences
Intuitives
The second preference on this
scale is the intuitive.
Intuitives Summary
• Present the “big picture” ideas first
• Ask lots of ”why” questions
• Talk about general concepts
• Are interested in the long-term picture and future possibilities
• Like using metaphors and analogies
• Are interested in hunches
Scale 3 - How We Make Decisions Or Reach Conclusions
(Thinker - Feeler Scale)
The third personality type scale measures how we make decisions and come to conclusions.
Thinker
When it comes to making decisions,
thinkers are driven by facts, logic and
reason.
Thinkers Summary
• Use cold, hard facts and
logic to persuade others
• Present meeting with goals
and objectives first
• Weigh the pros and cons of
each example
• Demonstrate objectivity and
are often critical
• Believe feelings are only
valid if they are logical
• Are task-focused
Feelers
If thinkers could be described as head over heart, then feelers could be described as heart over
head. When making a decision, feelers tend to driven by their own emotions and the feelings of
others who will be affected by their actions.
For the feelers, all feelings are important and decisions are made based on these feelings, in
addition to any facts. As a result, feelers tend to be more persuaded by emotional appeals, unlike
the thinker who prefers persuasion via facts and evidence.
There is roughly a 50/50 split in the population between thinkers and feelers.
Feelers Summary
• Persuade others with personal, emotionally presented examples
• Start with pleasantries, then summarise areas of agreement
• Talk about the value of each alternative
• Empathise and appreciate other viewpoints
• Believe all feelings are valid
• Are relationship-focused
Judgers
Judgers prefer to make decisions quickly. They
like to be decisive, and have a clear plan of
action to get things done in a timely manner.
Uncertainty and indecision tend to frustrate the
judger.
Judgers Summary
• Prefer to make decisions quickly and like to be seen as decisive
• Like to set schedules and deadlines
• Like to complete projects
• Negotiate from fixed positions and are sometimes dogmatic
• Focus discussions on content
• Like meetings to reach a conclusion
• Believe time is a fixed resource and deadlines are important
Perceivers
Perceivers prefer to hold off making decisions
until they absolutely have to make them.
Perceivers Summary
• Like to keep options open, may procrastinate
• Feel restricted by schedules and deadlines
• Prefer to start projects
• Are flexible about positions and are sometimes seen as wishy-washy
• Focus discussions on process
• Are happy for meetings to remain inconclusive
• Believe time is renewable and deadlines are elastic
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Summary of the Four Personality Types
Energized By:
Extroverts:
Introverts:
INtuitives
Feelers
Perceivers
In the next article, we shall look at how to use these personality types when communicating and
persuading people.
However in order to do that, you first need to determine what personality type a person has. Here
are some questions you can ask yourself to quickly determine personality types.
Determining Personality Types
1 - Does the person I want to persuade usually prefer to talk about an issue out loud before acting
(extrovert), or prefer to reflect on a problem before talking and acting (introvert)?
2 - Does the person I want to persuade pay attention to specific and detailed information
(sensor), or respond to the global or big picture (intuitive)?
3 - When making a decision does the person I want to persuade base a decision on the quality of
facts and evidence (thinkers), or consider the impact on people’s values and feelings (feelers)?
4 - Does the person I want to persuade prefer to proceed quickly once a decision has been made
(judger), or prefer to keep their options open (perceiver)?
This can largely be done by asking carefully crafted questions, and listening closely to what the
person says. A big mistake many people make is trying to persuade too soon, before ascertaining
the personality type.
So play detective, and make sure you have enough evidence to suggest a personality type before
you start trying to persuade them.
Remember, people have different personality types, and different people prefer to be persuaded
in different ways.
Your success as a persuader is therefore largely determined by your ability to identify a persons
personality type, and persuade them in a style that is effective for that personality.
Influencing Strategies
Once you have identified a personality type, there are certain strategies you can use. Here is a
reminder of the scales and their preferences.
1. How and where we get our energy from (E) Extrovert - (I) Introvert scale.
2. What type of information we pay attention to (S) Sensor - (N) Intuitive scale.
3. How we make decisions (T) Thinker - (F) Feeler scale.
4. How we resolve issues (J) Judger - (P) Perceiver scale.
For example, if you wanted to do something with your partner it would be a good idea to
determine whether they are an extrovert or introvert.
If they are an extrovert then you may want to choose activities which involve being around lots
of other people. Such as going to a nightclub, a restaurant or a sporting event.
If your partner is an introvert then you may want
to choose something more intimate, such as a
quite night in together perhaps watching a film,
or having a picnic on a field together.
When you narrow it down to these two scales, you will find that there are only 4 possible
personality type combinations:
By focusing on just these four combinations you come up with four key influencing strategies.
To be effective, choose one of these options.
Persuasion Strategies
To Influence ST:
Concentrate on the evidence, and present a step by step logical analysis. Focus on the evidence.
To Influence SF:
Concentrate on the details, and show how these details will affect the people involved. Focus on
the relationship.
To Influence NT:
Present an overview first, and offer a series of well analysed practical options. Focus on the
logical possibilities.
To Influence NF:
Present the big picture, and demonstrate how your proposal will impact peoples lives, values and
feelings. Help the other person realise their vision.
However the more different your personality types are, the longer it will take to establish rapport
and the more difficult it will be to communicate effectively.
It is therefore in your best interest as a persuader to identify a person’s personality type, and
“adapt” yourself to be more like the person you are trying to persuade/influence.