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but I ask you allow me to work through the material and for you reflect on thoughts and feelings and how
you are being in this process. Human Coaching Ltd
To do this you will need to learn something new. And that starts now!
Your:
• preferences,
• prejudices
• current issues
Barriers:
• I know this stuff
• I cannot learn this stuff
• I have nothing to learn here
We can not know the way the world is, only how we observe it. *
These three domains provide the platform for how you can intervene.
We also use it to create our identity – how we are seen by others and ourselves.
It brings forth our reality.
Yet, we do not give our use of language much thought in our everyday life.
We live in language as a fish lives in water. Human Coaching Ltd
TRANSPARENT ACTION
Your actions are mainly “transparent” to you – you do not see them.
Similarly your use of language, your emotions and physical way of being.
Examples ….
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conservative
• to continue what is so for us.
expansive
• sometimes we dream about what could be.
• expanding our life and go beyond what we currently have.
For example we have ideas (stories) about the way things should be.
these are unquestioned assumptions
and create a context for how things are for us.
The biggest learning is: shifting our way of being that is what we say,
how we feel and what we do with our bodies.
First however:
We communicate to :
• gain understanding,
• orient ourselves to a situation ,
• work out future actions,
• co-ordinate activity.
‘Speech’ Acts:
Listening
Good is not
speaker, a passive
good process but an active one.
communicator.
Send the
You derive right signals
meaning throughyou getlistening,
your the right result.
We “listen automatically”
CLARITY
Ask questions and summarizing your interpretations
in a way that has you move towards greater clarity
and mutual understanding.
INTUITION
Take note of it.
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