Understanding the Female G-spot

Introduction

The G-spot was named for a German scientist, Dr. Ernst Grafenberg, who wrote an article in the
1950's discussing the area in question. It is probably not called the Grafenberg spot because it
takes longer to say Grafenberg than it does to say Gee.

"G-Spot"

The word is in quotes because there is still some debate as to the existance or purpose of the G-
spot. In the illustration above, what is indicated as the g-spot in fact points to a region known as
the Skenes glands, the purpose of which are unknown. Despite the controversy, one fact remains-
- there are many women who claim that pressure on this region of the vagina is extremely
pleasurable. Usually, two fingers are used, and because the spot is deep within the tissue, some
pressure may be needed. Also, because the Skenes glands are alongside the bladder, some
women may found that the increased pressure makes them feel as if they need to urinate.

Picture 1: Inside view of female genital organ

The existence and function of the female G spot has been the subject of debate for many years.
The G spot is an area located a few inches up inside the vagina near a woman's stomach. Glands
located in this area produce a watery substance which is expelled during female ejaculation. The
tissue surrounding these glands swells with blood during sexual arousal producing an orgasm
different from those produced by clitoral stimulation. Many women want to locate their G spot to
help increase sexual pleasure, or sometimes simply out of curiosity.
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Here are a few tips for girls to easily find your G spot
Step -1: Empty your bladder and wash your hands. It's very important that your hands are clean
to avoid spreading infection. Also, trim your nails to avoid injuring delicate vaginal tissue.
Step 2: Get into position. Lie on your back and place a pillow under your head and a towel under
your buttocks. Bend your knees and spread your legs until you are able to reach your vagina
easily.
Step 3: Apply oil or lubricant. Pour a small amount of oil or lubricant around your vagina and
clitoris. Use a towel to wipe up any spills. Lightly massage the oil into your genital area. Spend a
bit of time arousing yourself to make it easier to find your G spot.

Picture - 2: Female ejaculation can be this much strong if aroused properly

Step 4: Place your palm face down on your vulva and insert a finger inside your vagina bending
it forward and pressing upward. It's important to use firm pressure when trying to locate your G
spot. About 2 inches up you should feel a bump or ridged area on the upper wall of your vagina.
This area is usually only about 1 inch in diameter. When you stimulate your G spot it will
produce a very strong sensation.
Step - 5: Some women find stimulating their G spot uncomfortable at first. Experiment with
different pressure and movements to find what feels best to you.
Step-6: With continued stimulation, you may feel a sensation much like having to urinate.
Although uncomfortable for some, this sensation is perfectly normal and may be followed by
female ejaculation.
Step - 7: Keep plenty of towels handy as female ejaculation can produce a large amount of fluid
emission (see the picture 2 above). The fluid is not urine, but a watery substance produced by
glands located in the G spot area.

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Many guys do not know how to touch their lady’s G spot and some have no idea about the
orgasmic potential too.

Do you have trouble locating your lovers G spot?

Actually it is not so hard to find with a bit of patience but once you do, you’ll be on the way to
give your lover G spot orgasms. These are usually MUCH more intense than the usual clitoris
orgasms.

Here’s some easy tips for gents to show you how to find it.

Finding the G spot Tip One: Make sure

your fingernails are trimmed and your hands
washed. I use a nail file to smooth my nails
for added comfort..
Finding the G spot Tip two: The g spot can
differ when a women is aroused or not. So it
is best to make sure she is really turned on
and hot from some great foreplay. It is good
that her vagina is well lubricated. I often use
some lubricant for extended G spot massage.
Finding the G spot Tip Three: The best
position to find the G spot is for her to be on
her back with her legs open. One can use
pillows to support her too. Make her feel
loved and cared for. At times some strong
emotions can surface doing this type of touch
so be loving and supportive.
Finding the G spot Tip Four: It is a nice
touch to ask permission to do the following.
Have your palm facing upward and very
slowly insert your first or second finger into
her vagina for about 1 to 2 inches.
Finding the G spot Tip Five: Move your
finger up to the top wall of the vagina to feel
an area usually ridged like a walnut. This will
differ from the usual smooth texture of the
vulva.

Finding the G spot Tip Six: Move your finger in a come here motion and try moving your
finger in small circles. Experiment with the pressure and speed of movement. Slow is usually
best at first.
Finding the G spot Tip Seven: Communicate with your partner about her experience. Vary the
pressure to see if this increases her pleasure. Most men do not use enough pressure on this spot
so keep this in mind.

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 Picture - 4: The G-spot of a female under the doctor's knives

One can also use dirty talking to raise the level of intensity. I find that most men do not know
how to use the real power of dirty talking. Most women like a strong male presence and dirty
talking is a great way to achieve this and it is easy to learn and fun too.

Once your lady’s g spot is activated, she’ll be begging for more!

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