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dj yks

nqfu;k
eqV~Bh esa
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Karlo Duniya Mutthi Mein


(Hindi Translation of Blue Print For Success)
by Dr. Vinod Kumar & Vipul Vinod

First Indian Edition: 2010

Copyright © 2010 by Dr. Vinod Kumar & Vipul Vinod

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dj yks
nqfu;k
eqV~Bh esa
(CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl dk fgUnh vuqokn)

ys[kd

MkW- fouksn dqekj


foiqy fouksn

D;wQksMZ] Hkkjr }kjk izdkf'kr


ALWAYS
WIN
MORE THAN
YOUR
EXPECTATION

^^thrus okys fu;eksa ls ugha ca/rs]


os vius fu;e [kqn cuk ysrs gSaA**
leiZ.k
mu ikBdksa dks lefiZr tks
bl iqLrd dks i<+dj
ykHkkfUor gksaxsA
bl iqLrd dks i<+dj

vkidk eu iqyfdr gksxkA


vkids vUnj dqN dj xqtjus dh cspSuh c<+sxhA
vkidh lksp ldkjkRed gksxhA
ijk;s Hkh vius yxsaxsA
jgu&lgu] Hkk"kk] cksyh] [kku&iku] O;ogkj esa vkewy
pwy ifjorZu eglwl djsaxsA
vius rFkk ifjokj ds lnL;ksa ds fy, vki ekxZn'kZd cu
tk,axsA
vUrr% liQyrk vkids dneksa esa gksxhA

6 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


gekjh ckr
ge vkils dsoy nks ckrsa djuk pkgrs gSaA ,d rks thr D;k
gS\ rFkk nwljh thr ls vkxsA
thr D;k gS\
thr cgqr gh lkèkkj.k] lgt fdUrq euksje 'kCn gSA ge lHkh
thruk pkgrs gSaA blhfy, ge lgt Hkko ls fpUru djsa] fopkj
djsa] vius pkjksa vksj utj ?kqek,a rks fn[ksxk fd ge fdruh thrksa
ds ekfyd gSaA okLro esa thr vyx ls dksbZ pht ugha gS] cfYd
gj og miyfCèk tks ge gkfly djsa] pkgs og NksVh gks ;k cM+h
gks] vxj ge ,glkl djsa rks irk yxsxk fd ogh gekjh thr gSA
tks dqN ge pkgrs gSa vkSj og fey tkrh gS mldk feyuk gh thr
gSA ;fn pkgr ,slh gks fd mlds fy, ge cspSu gks tk,a] mlds
fcuk lc dqN vèkwjk yxs vkSj tc og fey tk, rks eu izlUu
gks tk,] eu mNyus dwnus yxs] mlh dks thr dgrs gSaA
thr ls vkxs
vc ge vkxs pysaA vkxs dh ckr djsaA ges'kk vxyh iafDr esa
pysaA gels vkxs dksbZ u gksA mlh dks dgrs gSa thr ls vkxsA lc
dqN u;k] Lo;a dk fd;k gqvk] vuks[kk rFkk vlkèkkj.k] blh dks
dgrs gSa thr ls vkxsA ftlds dkj.k ge HkhM+ ls vyx fn[ksaA
HkhM+ ds ghjks fn[ksaA gekjh thr vkSjksa dk vkn'kZ cu tk,A mlh dks
dgrs gSa thr ls vkxsA tks dqN rqEgsa feyk gS mls T;ksa dk R;ksa u
jgus nks] mls cny MkyksA mls gh dgrs gSa thr ls vkxsA tks Bku
yks] mls ikdj jgus dks gh dgrs gSa thr ls vkxsA
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 7
gesa u fldUnj cuuk gS] u usiksfy;u cuuk gS] u cq¼ cuuk
gS] u Lokeh jkerhFkZ] u eksgEen cuuk gS] u bZlk] u xk¡èkh cuuk
gS] u fyaduA gesa rks cuuk gS dsoy og tks ge Lo;a vius fy,
pkgrs gSaA ge ftl {ks=k esa gSa mlh {ks=k esa vf}rh; cu djds
fn[kk,aA ;gh gS thr ls vkxsA
vkidks D;k djuk gksxk\
dsoy ;g ladYi djuk gksxk&
¶;k rks eSa viuk jkLrk <wa< ywaxk]
vU;Fkk [kqn bls cuk ywaxkA¸
· blds fy, pkfg,] gkSlykA gesa lcls igys viuk cf<+;k]
vPNk vkSj lqUnj y{; r; djuk gksxkA
· viuh lksp dks cqyUnh ij j[kuk gksxkA
· vUn:uh tks'k vkSj izsj.kk cjdjkj j[kuh gksxhA
· fiQj&fiQj dksf'k'k djuh gksxhA
· lgh utfj;k cukuk gksxkA
· viuk vkgkj] O;ogkj vkSj Hkkouk,a mPp Lrj dh j[kuh
gksaxhA
· viuk vkdyu djuk gksxk vkSj vius ,D'ku Iyku ds
eqrkfcd dke djuk gksxkA
cgqr NksVh lh ckr gSA vkneh tc rd ftUnk jgrk gS rc rd
og Hkkstu djrk jgrk gSA og Hkkstu ls dHkh Åcrk ughaA Hkkstu
ls mls dHkh v:fp ugha gksrhA rks viuh thr dks de ls de
Hkkstu gh eku yksA izfrfnu thrksA thr dHkh cklh ugha gksrhA blesa
u, Hkkstu dh rjg c<+dj Lokn vkrk gSA thr dk pLdk ftl
fnu yx tk,xk] ml fnu vki thr ls vkxs igq¡p tkvksxsA
vc
· vkidk ,D'ku Iyku rS;kj gSA
8 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
· Iyku dks ykxw djksA
· vkxs c<+ksA
· c<+rs tkvksA
· c<+krs tkvksA
¶thou dk gj {k.k] xqtjs ldwu ds lkFkA¸
'kqHkdkeuk,aA

MkW- fouksn dqekj


foiqy fouksn
drvinodkumarsingh@gmail.com

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 9


¶thr dh Mxj dk yEck liQj]
vius cuk yks] dqN geliQjA
pqu yks dqN ,sls ehr]
tks fnyk,a vkidks thrA¸

liQyrk ds dqN lw=k ryk'ks x, gSaA budh fxurh cgqr gSA


lwph yEch gSA ysfdu thr ds fy, vkSj y{; dks ikus ds fy,
dqN dks viukuk t:jh gksrk gSA lcls igys&
izkFkZuk djks
¶D;k izkFkZuk dk lpeqp dksbZ izHkko gS\
gk¡] tc eu vkSj ok.kh ,d gksdj vkdka{kk djrs gSa ;k izkFkZuk
djrs gSa rks ml izkFkZuk dk mÙkj vo'; izkIr gksrk gSA¸&Lokeh
jked`".k ijegal
yxHkx lHkh yksx dksbZ u dksbZ izkFkZuk] vkjkèkuk] mikluk ;k
iqdkj vo'; djrs gSaA D;ksa u ,d vPNh vkjkèkuk dh tk,A vki
pkgs ftl tkfr] èkeZ ;k dqy dks ekuus okys gksa] vkidks ;g
izkFkZuk vo'; gh ilUn vk,xhA
gs esjs vkjkè;]
esjh dsoy ,d gh dkeuk gS]
ladVksa ls ?kcjkdj Hkkxwa ugha]
MV dj ladVksa dk lkeuk d:¡A
eSa ugha pkgrk fd ladVksa esa vki esjh j{kk djksA
eSa pkgrk gw¡ fd muls tw>us dk eq>s cy nksA
tc ladVksa ls ?kcjkdj esjk]
fpÙk O;kdqy gks tk,] rks
eq>s lkURouk u nksA
cfYd bu ij fot; ikus dh 'kfDr nksA
10 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
tc ladV dh ?kfM+;ksa esa eq>s dgha ls dksbZ
lgk;rk u feys]
rc Hkh eSa fgEer u gk:¡A
esjk eukscy detksj u gks]
eq>s n`<+rk nks] 'kfDr nksA
eSa le>wa fd rqe esjs lkFk gks]
vkSj Hk;adj rwiQkuksa esa Hkh galh [ksy le>dj]
fpÙk dks gYdk j[kwaA
gs esjs vkjkè;]
rqEgkjs fo'okl dk nhid esjs vUnj tyrk jgsA
v[k.M vkSj vfojke pedrk jgsA
yk[k&yk[k pksVksa ls Hkh fo'okl u VwVsA
Hk;kud ls Hk;kud rwiQku]
ladV vkSj mYVokfl;ka Hkh
ml nhid dh ykS dks cq>kuk rks nwj dh ckr]
daidaik Hkh u ldsaA
fo'okl dh ;g T;ksfr esjh ÅtkZ vkSj vkRecy o
rRdky lw>cw> cudj eq>s izdkf'kr djrh jgsA
gs esjs vkjkè;---------A
dÙkZO; iFk ij c<w¡] HkVdwa ughaA
eSa u vgadkjh cuw¡] u vkylh cuw¡
dsoy j.kckadqjs ;ks¼k dh rjg tq>k: cuw¡A
Hk;kud ladVksa dk pØO;wg rksMw¡]
vUèkdkj vkSj re dh lsuk dks
fNUu&fHkUu d:¡A
gs esjs vkjkè;------------A
esjh ,d gh dkeuk gS]
,d gh ;kpuk gS]
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 11
,d gh vkjkèkuk gS]
,d gh izkFkZuk gS]
thrus dk cy nks]
¶thrus dh 'kfDr nks¸ vkSj
thou esa gj {k.k thrus dh vkrqjrk nksA
vkidk y{;
vVy vkSj vdsyk

lkspks] r; djks vkSj ik yks

¶lkxj lk xEHkhj ân; gks]


fnudj lk fu;fer thouA
èkzqo lk vVy y{; gks viuk]
fgefxfj lk gks Å¡pk euA¸
&,d yksdksfDr
fdruk eksgd 'kCn gS] y{;A lcdks yqHkkrk gSA lcdks
vkdf"kZr djrk gSA lHkh ykykf;r jgrs gSa] y{; dks ikus ds fy,A
ysfdu vfèkdka'k yksxksa dks ;gh [kcj ugha gS fd mudk y{; D;k
gS\ yksx vkerkSj ij ,d ,sls ?ksjs esa pyrs jgrs gSa] tks muds fy,
lqfoèkktud gksrk gSA T;knk lkspuk ugha iM+rk] T;knk ekufld
Je ugha djuk iM+rkA pyrs jgrs gSaA c<+rs jgrs gSaA tgk¡ dgha
vkJ; feyk] Nkao feyh] rks lqLrkus yxsA FkksM+k vkjke feykA FkksM+h
[kq'kh feyhA cl mlh dks ftUnxh dk y{; eku fy;kA ;gha bfrJh
gks xbZA ,d <jkZ lk cu x;k gSA lqcg mBs] fnup;kZ fuiVkbZA uk'rk
fd;kA ukSdjh ;k èkaèks ij pys x,A fnu Hkj xIi&'kIi dhA FkksM+k
cgqr dke èkUèkk fd;kA g¡lh etkd fd;kA lk;adky fiQj clsjs esa
ykSV vk,A Hkkstu fd;k] vkSj lks x,A mudk dke iwjk gks x;kA
12 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
bls dgrs gSa <jsZ dh ftUnxhA u dksbZ è;s; gSA u dksbZ y{; gSA u
dksbZ mRlkg gSA u dksbZ meax gSA fiQj ekuo vkSj i'kq esa D;k vUrj
jgkA ;g lc dke rks i'kq] i{kh vkSj cstqcku tho tUrq Hkh djrs
gSaA
tjk xEHkhjrk ls lkspksA bZ'oj us rqEgsa loZJs"B D;ksa cuk;k gS\
lHkh thoksa esa ekuo dks Js"B dgk x;k gSA rqEgsa lkspus] le>us dh
rkdr D;ksa nh xbZ gS\ rqEgsa lc xq.kksa ls Hkjiwj tho D;ksa cuk;k
x;k gS\ rqEgkjs thou dk ,d è;s; gksuk pkfg,A ,d lqUnj y{;
gksuk pkfg,A ml y{; dks ikus dh csgrj dkeuk gksuh pkfg,A
egrh vkdka{kk gksuh pkfg,A vius y{; dks ik ysus ds ckn] thou
dk jax dqN vkSj gh gksxkA
y{; ,d cht gS (Goal is a Seed)
y{; ns[kus] lquus] tkuus vkSj le>us esa ;|fi NksVk lk 'kCn
ekywe iM+rk gS ysfdu mlesa fojkV dk :i fNik gSA vkdk'k
e.My esa lw;Z] pUæek vkSj rkjs fdrus NksVs vkdkj esa fn[kkbZ nsrs
gSa\ yxrk gS tSls fo'kky vkdk'k esa mudk vfLrRo gh u gksA
ysfdu budh izfrHkk] budh [;kfr] budh mi;ksfxrk D;k fdlh ls
fNih gS\ budh mi;ksfxrk ds dkj.k gh rks ekuo tkfr budh iwtk
djrh gSA blh izdkj y{; Hkh ,d cht gksrk gSA ;g lHkh ds
vUnj fNik gksrk gSA fdlh oV o`{k ds cht dks ns[kksA fxurh esa
,d gh gksrk gSA vkdkj esa fdruk NksVk gksrk gS\ ysfdu tc
fojkV :i èkkj.k djrk gS rks ,d cht gtkjksa chtksa dks tUe nsrk
gSA cht tc tehu ds vUnj tkrk gS rks mldh izcy bPNk gksrh
gS fd og lw;Z dk izdk'k ns[ksA og viuh iwjh rkdr yxk nsrk gS
vkSj ,d fnu Lo;a dks feVkdj vadqj cudj Åij vk gh tkrk
gS vkSj izdk'k dks ik tkrk gSA ckn esa c<+rs&c<+rs oV o`{k cu
tkrk gSA blh izdkj izR;sd y{; igys NksVk gh fn[kkbZ nsrk gS
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 13
ysfdu okLro esa fo'kky gksrk gSA blhfy, dgk x;k gS fd
Small is bigA cht dk vfUre y{; gksrk gS fiQj ls cht cuuk
vkSj og bls ik ysrk gSA nsf[k, bl pØ dks%&

vadqj iÙks Mkyh

cht iQy iwQy

y{; ,d fo'okl gS
dk;Z ds izfr J¼k] vknj vkSj vVwV fo'okl ;fn ugha gS rks
vki jkLrs ls HkVd Hkh ldrs gSaA ftUgksaus J¼k dks latksdj j[kk
gS] ftUgksaus fo'okl dks thrk gS] os vej gks x,A ogh fo'okl
mudk thou y{; gks x;kA mUgksaus y{; dks mlh :i esa ns[kkA
Hkhy iq=k ,dyO; us rks feêðh ds nzks.kkpk;Z cuk fy, FksA feêðh ds
nzks.kkpk;Z brus cyoku fudys fd ,dyO; dks og fo|k fl[kk nh
tks vlyh nzks.kkpk;Z ik.Moksa vkSj dkSjoksa dks ugha fl[kk ldsA
dkj.k ,dyO; dks feêðh ds nzks.kkpk;Z esa gh vVwV J¼k FkhA
ehjk dks iRFkj ds d`".k ns fn, x,A ehjk us iRFkj ds d`".k
dks gh viuk ifr eku fy;k vkSj viuk loZLo le> fy;kA D;k
tgj dk I;kyk vkSj lkaiksa dh fiVkjh ehjk ckbZ dk dqN fcxkM+
ikbZ\ ughaA D;ksa\ iRFkj ds fxjèkj xksiky ds dkj.kA mUgha iRFkj
ds dUgS;k ds dkj.kA ehjk rks J¼k esa bruh nhokuh gks xbZ fd
xyh&xyh xkus yxh& ¶esjs rks fxjèkj xksiky] nwljk u dksbZA¸
jked`".k ijegal dks dkyh ekbZ ls vVwV J¼k FkhA ek¡ dgdj
iqdkjrs FksA vkèkk [kkuk [kkrs FksA vkèkk [kkuk ek¡ dkyh dh ewfrZ
[kkrh FkhA lk{kkr ek¡ dkyh ls ckr djrs FksA lUr dchj us lhf<+;ksa
14 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
esa ysVdj Lokeh jkekuUn ls nh{kk yh Fkh vkSj thou i;ZUr Lokeh
jkekuUn dks gh viuk xq# ekurs jgsA ;g lHkh J¼k ls ljkcksj
egkiq#"k vej gks x,A
thr dk jgL;
thr dh dkeuk lHkh djrs gSaA lHkh pkgrs gSa fd og ftl
{ks=k esa gSa] ftl dke esa gSa] tgk¡ gSa ogk¡ thrsaA ysfdu lHkh yksx
liQy ugha gks ikrsA tks thr tkrs gSa mUgsa thr dk jgL; (Secret
of Success) irk gksrk gSA tks gkj tkrs gSa os vliQyrk dk
jgL; (Secret of Failure) ugha tkursA ftl le; nksuksa 'kCnksa
dk jgL; le> esa vk tk,xk] ogha ls thr dk liQj 'kq: gks
tk,xkA thr (Success) vkSj gkj (Failure) nksuksa 'kCnksa dh
vaxzsth Lisfyax dk ;fn fo'ys"k.k fd;k tk, rks Hkh jgL; le>
esa vk tk,xkA thr dh Lisfyax esa S rhu ckj vkSj C nks ckj vk;k
gSA bldk eryc gS vkidks ckj&ckj ,d gh LFkku ij pksV ekjuk
gSA ns[kk ugha] lksus dh fdruh fiVkbZ gksrh gS rc tkdj lksuk
pedrk gSA ysfdu gkj dh Lisfyax Failure esa dksbZ v{kj nqckjk
ugha vk;k gSA ,d ckj ljiV fudy tkus ls thr ugha feyrh gSA
dgkor gS&

¶djr&djr vH;kl ds] tM+efr gksr lqtkuA


jljh vkor tkr ls] fly ij iM+r fu'kkuAA¸

thr dk jgL; vkidh le> esa vk x;k gksxkA fguk (esagnh)


dks ftruk f?klk tkrk gS] mruh gh jax ykrh gSA thr dk ewy eU=k
gS fd vH;kl djksA ckj&ckj djksA

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 15


thr dk okrkoj.k
O;fDr dh liQyrk vkSj vliQyrk okkroj.k ls Hkh izHkkfor
gksrh gSA dke ds le; ;fn ldkjkRed vkSj mRlkgtud okrkoj.k
gS rks liQyrk fuf'pr gSA okrkoj.k dks rS;kj djus esa Lo;a ds
lkFk lg;ksfx;ksa vkSj 'kqHk fpUrdksa dk Hkh gkFk gksrk gSA
,d ckj ,d euksoSKkfud us ,d NksVk lk iz;ksx fd;kA og
tkuuk pkgrk Fkk fd fdlh ckr dks ;fn ckj&ckj yxkrkj dfBu
gS] dfBu gS] eqf'dy gS] eqf'dy gS dgk tk, rks D;k okLro esa
;g ckr dfBu gks tkrh gS\ blds fy, mlus fo'ofo|ky; dh
,d xf.kr dh Dykl dk pquko fd;kA ml Dykl esa 20 fo|kFkhZ
FksA lHkh fo|kFkhZ yxHkx ,d gh {kerk vkSj ,d gh cqf¼Lrj ds
FksA Dykl ds 10 fo|kfFkZ;ksa dks vyx dejs esa cSBk;k x;kA igys
okys 10 fo|kfFkZ;ksa ds lkeus cksMZ ij xf.kr dk ,d loky fy[kk
x;k vkSj fo|kfFkZ;ksa ls dgk x;k fd ;g loky cgqr gh dfBu
gSA mEehn ugha gS fd rqeesa ls dksbZ Hkh bl loky dks gy dj
ik,xkA lalkj esa dsoy nks pkj xf.krK gh gSa tks bl loky dks
gy dj ldrs gSaA rqeesa ls rks fdlh ds Hkh bl loky dks gy dj
ldus dh mEehn ugha gSA vHkh rd fdlh fo'ofo|ky; ds
fo|kFkhZ bl loky dks gy ugha dj ik,A rqe iwNksxs fd tc
loky bruk dfBu gS rks rqEgsa gy djus ds fy, D;ksa fn;k x;k\
bldk dkj.k ;g gS fd ;g irk yxkuk gS fd vkiesa ls D;k dqN
fo|kFkhZ ,sls gSa tks loky gy djus dh fn'kk esa ,d&nks dne
c<+k ldrs gSa\ iwjk tokc lgh gksus dh rks dksbZ vk'kk gh ugha gS
D;ksafd cM+s ls cM+s cqf¼eku fo|kFkhZ bl loky dks gy ugha dj
ik,A dgus dk eryc ;g gS fd okrkoj.k dks fcYdqy fujk'kktud
cuk fn;k x;kA
bu 10 fo|kfFkZ;ksa ds le{k ckj&ckj ;g dgk x;k fd ;g

16 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


loky cgqr dfBu gSA cgqr eqf'dy gSA bruk lqudj lHkh 10
fo|kFkhZ grk'k gks x,A muds gkFk <hys gks x,A efLr"d lqLr gks
x;kA D;ksafd ifj.kke lHkh dks irk Fkk fd loky gy ugha gks
ldrkA os lHkh eqnkZ dh Hkkafr loky gy djus esa yx x,] grk'kk
ds lkFk] mnklh ds lkFkA fujk'kktud okrkoj.k esaA
nwljh vksj 'ks"k 10 fo|kfFkZ;ksa ds fy, nwljs dejs esa ogh xf.kr
dk loky cksMZ ij fy[kk x;kA vkSj ckj&ckj crk;k x;k fd ;g
loky cgqr ljy gS] cgqr gYdk gSA rqeesa ls lHkh bl loky dks
gy dj ysaxsA rqels NksVh Dykl ds fo|kFkhZ Hkh bl loky dks
pqVdh ctkrs gq, gy dj pqds gSaA rqe iwNksxs fd tc loky bruk
vklku gS rks rqels gy djus ds fy, D;ksa dgk tk jgk gS\ bldk
dkj.k ;g irk yxkuk gS fd dgha dqN fo|kFkhZ xyr rjhds ls
Å¡ph Dykl esa rks ugha vk x, gSa\ D;ksafd tc uhps dh Dykl ds
lHkh fo|kfFkZ;ksa us bl loky dks lgh&lgh gy fd;k gS rks rqees
ls dksbZ vliQy gksxk] ,slh lEHkkouk 'kwU; gSA loky cgqr vklku
gSA tYnh djks vkSj bls gy djds viuh Dykl esa ykSV tkvksA
euksfoKkuh us okrkoj.k dks ;gka mRlkgtud vkSj ldkjkRed cuk
fn;kA
dgus dk rkRi;Z ;g gS fd bu 10 fo|kfFkZ;ksa ds lkeus mlh
loky dks ckj&ckj ljy crk;k x;kA loky cgqr ljy gSA ;g
tkudj lHkh 10 fo|kFkhZ iwjs mRlkg ls izlUufpÙk gksdj loky
gy djus esa yx x,A mudh 'kfDr tx xbZA D;ksafd ifj.kke irk
Fkk fd loky gy gks tk,xkA cgqr vklku loky gSA
loky ogh] Dykl ogh] lHkh fo|kFkhZ lkeku cqf¼ Lrj dsA
?k.Vs Hkj ckn tc loky gy gks x;k rks ifj.kke ns[kk x;kA
vk'p;Z fd igys 10 fo|kfFkZ;ksa esa] ftuls dgk x;k Fkk fd
loky cgqr dfBu gS dsoy 2 fo|kFkhZ loky dks lgh gy dj
ik,A 'ks"k 8 fo|kFkhZ vliQy gks x,A nwljh vksj ftu fo|kfFkZ;ksa
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 17
dks crk;k x;k Fkk fd loky cgqr vklku gS muesa ls 9 fo|kfFkZ;ksa
us loky dks gy dj fy;kA dsoy ,d fo|kFkhZ vliQy gqvkA
blh izdkj dh ?kVuk,a lkekU;r% gekjs thou esa Hkh ?kVrh
jgrh gSaA blhfy, iwoZtksa us dgk gS fd ges'kk vPNs okrkoj.k esa
jgks] vPNs okrkoj.k esa dk;Z djks] lhèkh lksp okyks dks gh nksLr
cukvksA mYVh vkSj grk'kk dh lksp j[kus okyks ls cpksA ftu
ifjokjksa esa thr dk okrkoj.k gksrk gSA [kq'kuqek okrkoj.k gksrk gSA
mu ifjokjksa esa thr dh cjlkr gksrh gSA ;g dk;Z cgqr dfBu gS]
eSa ugha dj ikšxk] esjs cl dk ugha gS] esjs tSls yksx bl rjg dk
dke ugha dj ldrsA bl rjg dh Hkkouk gesa ges'kk gkj dh vksj
ys tkrh gSA ,slk okrkoj.k u cukvksA thr dk ekgkSy cukvks] thr
dk okrkoj.k cukvksA liQyrk vkids dne pwesxhA
vkidh lksp
gekjk fnekx fopkjksa dh iSQDVªh gSA vPNk lkspksxs rks vPNk
feysxkA cqjk lkspksxs rks cqjk feysxkA thr lkspus esa thr vkSj gkj
dh ckrsa lkspus esa dsoy gkj gSA tSlk dPpk eky Mkyksxs oSlk gh
rS;kj eky fudysxkA
¶tSlk fjtoZ djksxs] oSlk gh fMtoZ djksxsA¸ & ,d dgkor
thr dk Hkh viuk dkuwu gSA
If you think you are beaten, you are.
If you think you dare not, you do not.
If you like to win, but you think you cannot.
It is almost certain, you would not.
If you think you will lose, you have lost.
For out of the world we find,
Success begins with a fellow's will.
Sooner or later the man who wins.
Is the man who think, he can.

18 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


gekjk lkspk vkSj fd;k gqvk gh vUrr% lkeus vkrk gSA
iSQDVªh vkidh] iQkWewZyk vkidk] dPpk eky vkidkA ;g vki
ij fuHkZj gS fd vki D;k rS;kj djrs gSaA
¶vPNk lkspks] vPNk feysxk]
Å¡pk lkspks] Å¡ps mBksxsA¸

iz;kl] iz;kl] iqu% iz;kl- - -


"The Greatest Failure in Life is to stop trying. Try
and Try again and you are bound to succeed."
eSa cksyw¡ rks D;k cksyw¡\
dsoy thr dh ckr cksyw¡A
eSa pkgw¡ rks D;k pkgw¡\
dsoy thr dks pkgw¡A
eSa iwNw¡ rks D;k iwNw¡\
dsoy thr dks iwNw¡A
eSa d:¡ rks D;k d:¡\
dsoy thr ds dke d:¡A
,slk D;ksa\ D;ksafd &

¶lalkj dk fu;e ;gh gSA


lalkj dh jhfr ;gh gSA¸

lalkj esa ckj&ckj thrus okyksa dh gh ckr gksrh gSA thrus okyksa
dks gh lHkh pkgrs gSaA thrus okys ds vkxs&ihNs lHkh pyrs gSa vkSj
gkjus okyksa dk dksbZ uke Hkh ugha ysrkA gkj dh ppkZ dksbZ ugha
djrkA gkj dh dkeuk Hkh dksbZ ugha djrkA gkjus okyk vdsyk gSA
thrus okyk ldsyk gSSA rks fiQj thr dh gh ckr djsa vkSj thr dk

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 19


,d gh ewyea=k gS] yxkrkj dksf'k'kA vDlj tc eu dh bPNk iwjh
ugha gksrh ;k pkgk x;k dke ugha curk rks bls gkj dgk tkrk gSA
fdarq okLro esa og gkj ugha gksrh gSA og rks thr ds jkLrs dk
igyk iM+ko gksrh gSA lqèkkj dk ekSdk gksrh gSA fopkj foe'kZ ds
fy, Bgjko gksrh gSA ;fn ;gha #d x,A Bgjko esa gh lks x,] rks
gkj gSA ;fn fiQj py iM+sA rS;kjh dhA deh dks iwjk dj fy;kA rks
thr fuf'pr gSA yM+kbZ ds eSnku esa vki fdruh ckj fxjs] ;g
ek;us ugha j[krk cfYd fxjdj fdruh ckj [kM+s gq, vkSj thrs]
egÙo rks bl ckr dk gSA
dkSos dh dgkuh
,d dkSok cgqr I;klk FkkA ,d ?kM+k j[kk FkkA ?kM+s dh ryh
esa ikuh FkkA ?kM+s dh ryh rd dkSos dh pksap ugha igqap ik jgh
FkhA dkSok ckj&ckj ikuh ihus dh dksf'k'k dj jgk FkkA vUr esa
mlus prqjkbZ ls dke fy;k vkSj ikuh ihus esa liQy gks x;kA NksVs
cPps vkt Hkh dkSos dh prqjkbZ dk xhr xkrs gSa%&
,d dkSok I;klk FkkA
?kM+s esa FkksM+k ikuh FkkA
dkSok yk;k dadM+A
?kM+s esa Mkyk dadM+A
ikuh vk;k ÅijA
dkSos us fi;k ikuhA
[kre dgkuhA
dHkh&dHkh dsoy esgur O;FkZ gks tkrh gS ;fn mlds lkFk
prqjkbZ dk mi;ksx u fd;k tk,A
iz;kl ,oa lkgl
iz;kl ,oa lkgl dk vVwV lEcU/ gSA nksuksa ,d gh /kxs esa
20 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
fijks, gq, gSaA fcuk lkgl ds dksf'k'k csdkj gS vkSj fcuk dksf'k'k
ds lkgl esa tax yx tkus dh lEHkkouk gSA lkgl ds lkFk dh
xbZ dksf'k'k dk vfUre ifj.kke liQyrk gksrh gSA

tVk;q jke ds firk cu x,


lkgl ds cycwrs ij yksx vts; ds fo#¼ Hkh la?k"kZ djus dh
dksf'k'k djrs gSaA
jko.k }kjk lhrk dk gj.k fd;k x;kA vkdk'k ekxZ ls jko.k
lhrk dks ys tk jgk FkkA lhrk foyki dj jgh FkhaA fpYyk jgh
Fkha&
¶gS dksbZ ;ks¼k jke ds ny esa] tks eq>dks ys; NqM+kbZA¸
;g foyki tVk;q us Hkh lqukA ;|fi tVk;q tkurs Fks fd jko.k
muds fy, vts; gS ysfdu fiQj Hkh mUgksaus lkgl ds lkFk lhrk
dks NqM+kus dh dksf'k'k dh vkSj jko.k dks yydkjkA Hk;adj ;q¼
gqvk vkSj tVk;q ?kk;y gq,A
dqN yksx bls tVk;q dh gkj dg ldrs gSa] ysfdu ugha! lhrk
dh [kkst djrs gq, tc Hkxoku jke ml LFkku ij igq¡ps tgk¡
tVk;q ?kk;y iM+k Fkk rc tVk;q us jke dh ckgksa esa vius izk.k
R;kxsA e`R;q ds ckn jke us dgk] y{e.k ;g gekjs firk rqY; gSaA
ns[kk vkius] Hkxoku jke us vius firk n'kjFk dk vfUre laLdkj
vius gkFkksa ls ugha fd;k ysfdu tVk;q dk vfUre laLdkj Lo;a
fd;kA D;k ;g tVk;q dh thr ugha\
bls dgrs gSa lkgl dk iQy vkSj volj dks igpku ysus dh
dherA
vUr rd iz;kl
dksf'k'k dksbZ ,slk dke ugha gS ftldk dksbZ le; gks ;k
bldh ckjEckjrk fuf'pr gksA thr ds fy, vUr rd dksf'k'k dh
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 21
tkrh gSA vUr dk udkjkRed ifj.kke tkuus okys Hkh vkf[kjh ne
rd dksf'k'k djrs jgrs gSaA
tc rd vUr u vk tk, rc rd la?k"kZ djrs jguk gh
egkurk gS] thr gS] fot; gSA bl izdkj dh thr dk ykHk Hkys
gh thrus okys dks Lo;a izkIr u gks ysfdu os jkLrk cuk nsrs gSa]
felky dk;e dj nsrs gSaA nhid ty jgk FkkA rsy [kRe gksus yxkA
izdk'k eUn gksus yxkA gok us lkspk vc vkØe.k dk mfpr
volj gSA rst jÝrkj ls pyus yxhA vU/sjs us nhid ls galdj
dgk] vHkh rd ge rqEgkjh ryh esa ncs iM+s Fks] vc rqEgkjk vUr
fudV gSA dqN gh {k.kksa esa pkjksa vksj gekjk lkezkT; gksxkA
nhid eqLdjk dj cksyk & fe=k] gekjk dke fujUrj tyrs
jgdj izdk'k iSQykuk gSA eSa viuh dksf'k'k tkjh j[kwaxkA eSa rks vUr
rd tywaxkA ;g dke esjk ugha gS fd eSa ns[kwa fd fdldks jguk
gS vkSj fdldks tkuk gSA eSa rks rc rd tywaxk] tc rd lkal
jgsxhA bruk dgdj nhid bruh rsth ls tyk fd lEiw.kZ vU/sjk
lge x;kA Hkys gh vxys {k.k nhid cq> x;kA tkrs&tkrs Hkh
nhid vU/dkj dks LrC/ dj x;kA
iz;kl vkSj vliQyrk
¶tc rd liQyrk ds fy, dksf'k'k tkjh gS rc rd vki
vliQy ugha dgs tk,axsA¸
¶vliQyrk ek=k ;gh crkrh gS fd liQyrk ds fy, dh
xbZ dksf'k'k v/wjh gSA¸
vliQyrk dks ;fn vki gkj eku cSBs rks fiQj dHkh thr ugha
ikvksxsA thr ds fy, iwjh dksf'k'k dh xbZ] ysfdu ;fn gkj Hkh
feyh rks fujk'k gksus dh ;k fgEer gkjus dh t:jr ugha gSA gkj
vkSj thr nksuksa esa ls ,d dks gh feyuk FkkA tks feyk mlh dk
Lokxr djks vkSj vkxs ds fy, dksf'k'k djksA
22 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
¶vliQy gksuk vliQyrk ugha oju~ liQyrk dh 'kq#vkr
gSA¸
fdruk Hkh ryk'k fd;k tk, fo'o esa ,slk dksbZ O;fDr ugha
feysxk tks vius thou esa dHkh gkjk u gksA
vczkge fyadu vesfjdk ds jk"Vªifr cuus ls igys lHkh ekspks±
ij gkjs FksA mUgksaus rks vius 'k;u d{k esa gkj okyh ?kVukvksa dh
lwph yxk j[kh FkhA
¶fxj tkuk ;fn gkj gS rks fxjdj [kM+s gks tkuk thr
gSA¸
;g dk;Z rHkh gks ldrk gS tc fxj tkus ds ckn [kM+s gksus dh
dksf'k'k dh tk,A fctyh ds cYc ds vkfo"dkjd FkkWel ,Mhlu
1000oha ckj esa fctyh dk cYc cukus esa liQy gq, FksA lksfp,
fdruk d"V gqvk gksxk\ fdl cycwrs ij 999 ckj dksf'k'k dh
xbZ gksxhA 999 ckj dh dksf'k'k dk gh urhtk gS fd ,Mhlu
foKku ds {ks=k esa vej gks x, vkSj vkt laiw.kZ fo'o txexk jgk
gSA
tc ,Mhlu ls liQyrk ds ckjs esa iwNk x;k rks os eqLdjk dj
cksys] vkt eSa bl fLFkfr esa gw¡ fd yksxksa dks crk ldwa fd 1000
esa dkSu lh ,d pht dke djsxh] ckdh 999 phtsa csdkj gSaA
ysfdu ,d pht [kkstus ds fy, 999 phtksa dks ,d fdukjs rks
djuk gh iM+sxkA ;fn thr dk u'kk gS] thr ij vfMx fo'okl gS]
dksf'k'k dk cy gS rks 999 phtsa iyd >idrs gh ikj gks tk,axhA
nks izdkj ds yksx cgqrk;r esa ik, tkrs gSaA ,d os tks viuh
liQyrk,a rks ;kn ugha j[krs ysfdu vliQyrkvksa esa fpids jgrs
gSaA ges'kk gkj dk gh jksuk jksrs jgrs gSaA nwljs os yksx gksrs gSa tks
viuh gkj ij inkZ Mky nsrs gSaA Hkqyk nsrs gSaA gkj dks vuqHko cukrs
gSa vkSj fiQj&fiQj dksf'k'k djds thr tkrs gSaA

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 23


¶dksbZ Hkh vliQyrk rc rd vkf[kjh ugha gS tc rd
fd vki gh mls vkf[kjh u eku ysaA¸
dgk x;k gS fd vliQyrk ls c<+dj gekjk dksbZ vU; xq# ;k
f'k{kd ugha gks ldrkA vliQyrk dsoy lcd ysus ds fy, gksrh
gSA
esjk ,d iSj fiQly x;k vkSj nwljs iSj dks lEHkkyus dk ekSdk
ugha feykA eSaus dksf'k'k ugha NksM+h] eSa laHkyk vkSj vius vki ls
dgk ;g fiQlyuk Fkk u fd fxjukA
&fyadu
,d dne rqe Hkh pyks
dksf'k'k dk ,d :i ;g Hkh gS fd dsoy lksprs jgus ls gh
dke ugha pysxkA dke dks izkjEHk rks djuk gh gksxkA dgk x;k
gS fd&
¶gtkjksa ehy dh ;k=kk rHkh iwjh gksxh tc igyk dne
vkxs c<+k;k tk,xkA¸
dksf'k'k rHkh ekuh tkrh gS tc igys vki viuk 'kq#vkrh nkSj
dk yxHkx vk/k dke [kRe djsaA fiQj 'ks"k vk/k dke rks dksf'k'k
ls iwjk gks tk,xkA vkidk pkgs tSlk dke gks] vki pkgs ftl is'ks
esa gks] pkgs vki fjlsI'kfuLV gks] pkgs okgu pkyd gksa] pkgs
fdlh dEiuh ds funs'kd gksa] pkgs f'k{kd gksa] usrk gksa ;k vfHkusrk
gksa vkids gko Hkko ls] vkidh ok.kh ls vkids gksBksa ls] vkidh
pky esa ,slk vkHkkl gksuk pkfg, fd vki rUe;rk ls viuk deZ
dj jgs gSa] liQyrk ds fy, dksf'k'k dj jgs gSaA
;kn jf[k, ;|fi lHkh cgqr egku dk;Z djus ds fy, iSnk
ugha gq, gSa ijarq lHkh yksx vius NksVs&NksVs dk;ks± dks egku rjhds
ls rks dj gh ldrs gSaA blds fy, vkidks djuh gksxh&

24 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


dksf'k'k] dksf'k'k] dksf'k'kA
dhft,] dhft,] dhft,A
vHkh] vHkh] vHkhA
vPNs] lqUnj] csgrjA
rjhds] <ax] O;oLFkk lsA
,d deZ'khy thou lHkh dks [kq'k vkSj liQy cukrk gSA blds
vykok vkSj dksbZ csgrj fodYi ugha gSA vr% dksf'k'k dhft,A
dksf'k'k gksrh ugha] dh tkrh gS
vius vki esa dksf'k'k dqN ugha gS mldk dksbZ vfLrRo ugha
gSA dksf'k'k okLro esa dh tkrh gSA Xokyk dksf'k'k ugha djsxk rks
D;k xk; vius vki nw/ nsus yxsxh\ bldk eryc gS ;fn nw/
fudkyuk gS rks dksf'k'k rks djuh gh iM+sxhA
¶xk; nw/ ugha nsrh] fudkyuk iM+rk gSA¸
¶'ksj dk cPpk 'ksj rHkh curk gS tc og f'kdkj djus dh
dksf'k'k djrk gS] dksf'k'k djrk gS] fiQj fiQj dksf'k'k djrk gS
vkSj vUrr% f'kdkj djuk lh[k ysrk gSA¸
;fn Jhjke dksf'k'k u djrs rks D;k leqnz vius vki jkLrk ns
nsrk\ ;k leqnz esa Lo;a iqy cu tkrk\ ;fn xka/h th lfgr djksM+ksa
Hkkjroklh dksf'k'k ugha djrs rks D;k vaxzst galh [kq'kh ns'k dks
NksM+dj pys tkrs\
lcls cM+h ckr rks ;g gS fd vkt vki tgk¡ ij gSa D;k fcuk
dksf'k'k ds ;gk¡ igq¡p x, gSa\ lHkh us dksf'k'k dh gS pkgs os---
pkan ij igqapus okys uhy vkeZLVªkax gksa]
,ojsLV ij p<+us okys rsuftax gksa]
fØdsV ds flrkjs lfpu rsUnqydj gksa]
iz/kueU=kh dk in lq'kksfHkr djus okys usrk gksaA
fiQYeh flrkjs gksaA
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 25
;k fiQj [ksr dk fdlku gksA
fcuk dksf'k'k ds fdlh dks dqN ugha feyk gSA
dksf'k'k dks liQyrk esa cnyus ds fy, D;k djsa
;fn fuEufyf[kr dkeksa dks lqUnjrk iwoZd fd;k tk, rks
vklkuh ls dksf'k'k dks liQyrk esa cnyk tk ldrk gSA
cyiwoZd vius y{; ds fy, tqVs jgsaA
ges'kk Å¡pk lkspks] uhys xxu dks ns[kksA
eqM+&eqM+ dj ihNs ns[kuk NksM+uk iM+sxkA
mrkoykiu R;kx nksA dsoy deZ djksA
vliQyrkvksa ls tw>rs jfg,A
le; ds lkFk pfy,A
vkius D;k [kkstk\
bl dksf'k'k ds [ktkus dks i<+dj vki Hkh ;gh fu"d"kZ
fudkysaxs tks lHkh us fudkyk gS] tks lHkh us lh[kk gS&
vkt vki tgk¡ gSa og csgrj dksf'k'kksa dk urhtk gS vkSj vkxs
c<+uk gS rks dksf'k'k fiQj&fiQj dksf'k'kA
tc gkykr lcls vf/d [kjkc gksa (tSlk fd dHkh&dHkh
gksrk gS) rc vki pkgsa rks FkksM+k vkjke dj ldrs gSa ysfdu
fgEer u gkjsa] dksf'k'k u NksM+saA gks ldrk gS vki y{; ls ;k
thr ds f'k[kj ls dsoy ,d dne dh gh nwjh ij gksaA
ftUgksaus dksf'k'k dh gS os thrs gSa] eu pkgk ik;k gSA
dksf'k'k dhft,A ;fn xyrh Hkh gks jgh gS rks vkidh isfUly
ds fiNys fgLls esa jcM+ Hkh yxh gS] xyrh dks feVkb,A fiQj
vkxs c<+ tkbZ,A
;fn vHkh vki nwljs ;k rhljs LFkku ij gSa rks dksf'k'k djrs
jfg,A ;fn igys LFkku ij gSa rks vkSj vf/d dksf'k'k djuh
26 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
iM+sxhA D;ksa\ igys LFkku dks cuk, j[kus ds fy,A
¶tc rd eSa liQy ugha gks tkrk rc rd dksf'k'k tkjh
j[kwaxkA¸
vkidh lEifÙk
fny vkSj fnekx gekjh cgqewY; lEifÙk;k¡ gSaA bu nksuksa dh j{kk
t:jh gSA vPNs fopkj] vPNh vknrsa] vPNh ckrsa vkus nks] laxzg
djrs tkvksA iznwf"kr ckrsa] xUnk dpjk] dyqf"kr fopkj fudky
ckgj isaQdksA 'kcjh ls csj NkaVus dh dyk lh[kksA
"Promote the best"
bldk ,d vPNk mik; gSA cxhps esa tkvksA ,d gkFk esa
iQVhZykbtj vkSj ,d gkFk esa ikuh dk iQkSOokjk yksA ikSèkksa esa nksuksa
dks ,d lkFk MkyksA ;fn ikSèks lgu dj x, rks rqe ,d lqUnj
cxhps ds ekfyd gksxsA ;fn ikSèks ej x, rks mUgsa m[kkM+ dj
isaQdksa] os vkids fdl dke dsA
"Weed out the worst"
vki vPNs cusaxs
lqjf{kr jgsaxs
tks pkgksxs]
cu tkvksxsA
viuh [kkst [kcj
¶nqfu;k esa mlus cM+h ckr dj yhA
ftlus [kqn ls eqykdkr dj yhA¸
ge ekuo gSaA geesa ls cgqrksa dks vius ckjs esa gh dqN irk ugha
gSA ,d vesfjdu bUthfu;j dk dguk gS&
"Man is Complete, self-contained, totally enclosed
power plant, available in a variety of sizes and repro-

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 27


ducible in quantity. He is relatively long lived, has
major components in duplicate, and science is making
rapid strides towards solving the spare part problems.
He is water proof, amphibious, operates on a wide va-
riety of fuels, enjoys thermostatiscally controlled tem-
perature, circulating fluid heat, evaporative cooling,
has sealed, lubricated bearings, audio and optional
direction and range finders, sound and sight record-
ing, audio visual communication and is equipped with
an automatic control called brain."

fdruh lkFkZd fVIi.kh gSA fdruk foy{k.k gS ekuoA fiQj ge


D;k ugha dj ldrsA ge nqfu;k dks viuh eqV~Bh esa dj ldrs gSaA
D;k rqe tkurs gks - - -
¶eSa ,d jgL; dh ckr crkrk gw¡ fd bl lalkj esa euq";
ls Js"B vkSj dqN Hkh ugha gSA¸
& egf"kZ O;kl
lHkh fl¼ iq#"kksa vkSj thrus okyksa us ,d gh lykg nh gS fd
¶Lo;a dks bZ'oj dh lUrku eku yhft,A bruk eku ysus ls gh vki
mu lc reke lEinkvksa ds Lokeh gks tkvksxs tks rqEgkjs firk
vFkkZr~ bZ'oj esa gSaA ;g rks iqjk.kksa rd us vkSj tho foKku ds
if.Mrksa us izekf.kr dj fn;k gS fd lUrku esa ogh xq.k ;k voxq.k
gksaxs tks mlds firk esa gksrs gSaA tc vki bZ'oj dh lUrku gks
tk,axs rks os lHkh 'kfDr;ka] lEink,a vkSj vn~Hkqr xq.k vki esa Hkh
vk tk,axsA uhe ds pkgs iÙks [kk;sa] iwQy [kk;sa] iQy [kk;sa] jl fi;sa]
Nky [kk;sa lHkh esa ,d gh Lokn gksxkA dM+okiuA D;ksafd uhe dk
cht dM+ok gksrk gSA fdlh nqèkk: xk; dh cfN;k dk ijh{k.k dj
yhft, og viuh ek¡ ls vfèkd nqèkk: gksxhA pUnu ds fdlh
fgLls dks ys yhft, ,d gh [kq'kcw gksxhA ;gk¡ rd fd vxy&cxy
28 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
dh ouLifr;ksa rd esa pUnu dh gh [kq'kcw gksxhA
dksbZ Hkh dykdkj viuh d`fr dh xfjek dk è;ku j[krk gSA
bZ'oj rks egku dykdkj gSA euq"; bZ'oj dh loksZÙke d`fr gSA bl
d`fr dks ltkus esa bZ'oj us fdruh esgur dh gksxhA lalkj ds lHkh
oSKkfud ,d lkFk cSB tk,a rc Hkh os ekuo 'kjhj ds dyiqtks± dks
ugha cuk ik,axsA D;k bZ'oj viuh bl egku d`fr dks cjckn gksrk
ns[k ldsxk\ dHkh ughaA bZ'oj us viuk dÙkZO; iwjk fd;k gSA vc
vkidks viuk dÙkZO; iwjk djuk gSA dksbZ Hkh ekuo rc rd
nhu&ghu voLFkk esa jgsxk tc rd fd mls viuh {kerk] viuh
lkeF;Z] viuh 'kfDr dh igpku ugha gSA
thrus okyksa us viuh xfjek dks igpkuk gSA viuh vlhe
{kerk ij fo'okl fd;k gSA
,d dne Hkh vkxs c<+us ls efUty mruh gh de gks tkrh gSA
rqe vkxs c<+ksA rqe og dj ldrs gks] tks pkgrs gksA
¶fut xkSjo dk Hkh è;ku jgs]
ge Hkh gSa dqN] ;g Hkku jgsA¸
& eSfFkyh'kj.k xqIr
gkj thr vkids gkFk gS
ikSjkf.kd xzUFkksa esa ;g dgk x;k gS fd%
¶euq"; vius HkkX; dk foèkkrk Lo;a gSA¸
;g okD; ;g fl¼ djrk gS fd ;fn euq"; pkgs rks vlEHko
dk;Z iwjk dj ldrk gSA HkkX;] deZ] fl¼kUr] lgk;rk ;g lc
viuh txg lgh gks ldrs gSa ysfdu ;g Hkh vVy lR; gS fd
euq"; viuh ladYi 'kfDr ds lgkjs HkkX; dks Hkh cny ldrk gSA
cgqrksa us ,slk dj fn[kk;k gSA cgqr yksx vkt Hkh dj jgs gSa vkSj
vkxs Hkh ,slk djsaxsA ,slk D;ksa gS fd euq"; lc dqN dj ldrk
gSA D;ksafd euq"; bZ'oj dh Js"Bre d`fr gSA ;g euq"; dk
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 29
lkSHkkX; gS fd mlus lqjnqyZHk ekuo ru ik;k gSA mls og volj
feyk gS tks nsorkvksa dks Hkh izkIr ugha gSA ;g rks Lo;a euq"; ij
fuHkZj gS fd og pkgs rks vius pkjksa vksj liQyrk dk ?ksjk fufeZr
djs ;k grk'kk vkSj gkj ds okrkoj.k dk fuekZ.k djsA gkj thr
mlh ds gkFk gSA
lc dqN rks rqEgkjs vUnj gSA vuUr 'kfDr okyh lÙkk rqEgkjs
vUnj fuokl djrh gSA fiQj rqEgsa fdl lgkjs dh t:jr gSA thr
esa rks dksbZ nsj gh ugha gSA oju~ thr ls vkxs dh fn'kk Hkh fey xbZA
;g jkLrk Hkh rqEgsa vius Hkjksls gh r; djuk gSA vkxs c<+ksA ¶thr
ds fy, nwljksa dh izrh{kk djuk thr dh gR;k djuk gSA¸
ge cnysaxs
ge fdlh dks cny ugha ldrsA fdlh dks cnyus esa le;
cjckn u djksA vxj dqN ikuk gS rks vius vkidks cnyuk gksxkA
tks le; ds lkFk ugha pys mudk ukeksfu'kku feV x;kA tks le;
ds lkFk pys os vius infpg~u NksM+ x,A
¶gs esjs vjkè;]
eq>s mu ckrksa dks Lohdkj djus dh rkdr ns] ftUgsa eSa cny
ugha ldrkA
ftUgsa eSa cny ldrk gw]¡ mUgsa cnyus dk lkgl ns vkSj bu nksuksa
ckrksa esa vUrj dj ldw]a blds fy, eq>s prqjkbZ vkSj cqf¼ nsA¸
le; ds lkFk dne ls dne feykdj pyus esa prqjkbZ gSA
vki thr tk,axsA
lgh utfj;k
¶nks dSnh tsy dh lyk[kksa ls ns[k jgs FksA ,d us tehu dk
dhpM+ ns[kk] nwljs us vkleku ds rkjs ns[ksA¸
& utj viuh viuh
30 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
¶nks xzkgd gksVy esa cSBs gSaA cSjs us est ij fxykl j[kkA
fxykl esa ikuh gSA ,d xzkgd us dgk fxykl vkèkk Hkjk gS] ,d
xzkgd us dgk fxykl vkèkk [kkyh gSA¸
& utj viuh viuh
dke ,d] ckr ,d] rjhdk ,dA dsoy lksp vkSj utfj;k
vyx gks ldrk gSA vPNk lkspus okys] vPNk utfj;k viukus
okys mlh dke esa] mlh ckr esa vkuUn ikrs gSa vkSj thr tkrs gSaA
mYVh lksp vkSj [kjkc utfj;k okys nq%[k gh nq%[k mBkrs gSa vkSj
gkj tkrs gSaA gkj vkSj thr vkidh lksp ij fuHkZj djrh gSA
,d LFkku ij lM+d cukbZ tk jgh FkhA pkj etnwj dke dj
jgs FksA igys ls iwNk x;k fd D;k dj jgs gks\ mlus dgk] iRFkj
rksM+ jgk gw¡A mlds psgjs ij ruko FkkA nwljs ls iwNk x;kA mlus
dgk] jksth jksVh dek jgk gw¡A rhljs etnwj ls iwNk x;k rks mlus
crk;k dksbZ [kkl dke ugha gS] etnwjh dj jgk gw¡A tc pkSFks ls
;gh ckr iwNh xbZ] rks mlus crk;k] eSa jktiFk cuk jgk gw¡A og
iziqQfYyr FkkA mlds psgjs ij [kq'kh FkhA pkjksa etnwjksa ds mÙkj esa
ls tks pquuk gks] pqu yhft,A vkidk viuk utfj;k gSA HkkSajs dks
pkjksa vksj iwQy gh iwQy fn[krs gSa vkSj Å¡V jkt m|ku esa Hkh dkaVs
gh <wa<rk gSA mls ges'kk dkaVksa dh gh ;kn jgrh gSA bls dgrs gSa]
lkspus vkSj ns[kus dk utfj;kA
urhtksa ij utj
thrus okys urhtksa ij fo'okl djrs gSaA os urhtk pkgrs gSaA
urhtksa dh ppkZ djrs gSaA vliQyrk dk nq%[kM+k lquuk ilUn ugha
djrsA os dsoy liQyrk dk lUns'k lquuk pkgrs gSaA liQy
O;fDr;ksa dks lHkh ilan djrs gSa] muds xq.kxku djrs gSaA dksbZ ;g
ugha tkuuk pkgrk fd liQyrk ds fy, fdrus iz;kl fd, x,A
,d ckj tkuh ekuh dEifu;ksa ds nks izcUèkdksa ls ,d gh
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 31
loky iwNk x;kA loky Fkk&dke ds fygkt ls fiNyk eghuk
dSlk jgk\
,d izcUèkd us mÙkj fn;k] fiNyk eghuk cgqr gh [kjkc jgkA
iwjs eghus esa tjk lh Hkh iqQlZr ugha feyhA eghus dh igyh rkjh[k
ls gh ns'kh vkSj fons'kh xzkgdksa ds yxkrkj iQksu vkrs jgsA eq>s lHkh
dks tokc nsuk iM+kA ,d lIrkg ds FkdkÅ nkSjs ij Hkh tkuk iM+kA
?kj esa Hkh dbZ leL;k,a vkb±A
nwljs izcUèkd us crk;k fd fiNyk eghuk dkiQh vPNk jgkA
gekjs lkekuksa dh fcØh fiNys lky dh rqyuk esa 40 izfr'kr c<+h
vkSj fiNys eghus dh rqyuk esa Hkh 20 izfr'kr fcØh c<+ xbZA geus
fuèkkZfjr y{; dk 99 izfr'kr fgLlk izkIr dj fy;kA ;g [kq'kh dh
ckr jghA
nksuksa esa ls ,d izcUèkd tgk¡ viuh O;Lrrk dk gh jksuk jksrk
jgk] urhts dh ckr ,d ckj Hkh ugha dh] ogha nwljk izcUèkd
dsoy urhtksa dh ckr djrk jgk vkSj [kq'kh tkfgj djrk jgkA
ns[kk x;k gS fd blh izdkj ds yksx thrrs gSaA
eSa gw¡
esjh Nfo esjs fy, cgqr vPNh gSA eSa lqUnj gw¡A eSa vPNk gw¡A
eSa ;ksX; gw¡A eSa tkurk gw¡A dHkh vius dks rqPN u le>ksA dHkh
viuh fuUnk u djksA viuh xyrh ds fy, nwljksa dks u dkslksA
viuh thrksa dk t'u eukvksA vius vkidks appriciate djksA
;g lc lgt Hkko ls djksA ?ke.M ;k vgadkj ds Hkko ls ughaA
vius vkjkè; ls izkFkZuk djks vkSj vius vki ls vkSj vfèkd
ekaxksA
"Remember that you are not ordinary and you not
been to be ordinary. There is a special skill, a special
talent, a special resource in each person. Which can

32 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


be extended, exploited or expanded to create compe-
tence where it did not exit?"
Lo;a dks thr yksA
lgu'khyrk
¶lgu'khyrk vkSj uezrk gh thr gS ckdh lc 'ks"k gSA¸
dqEgkj rkykc ls feêðh [kksn dj ykrk gSA lq[kkrk gSA dwVrk
gSA ihlrk gSA Nkurk gSA ikuh feykrk gSA jkSanrk gSA ihVrk gSA
iVdrk gSA pkd ij j[kdj ?kqekrk gSA vkneh] i'kq] i{kh] nsork ;k
nkuo] tSlh pkgrk gS ewfrZ;ka cukrk gSA eupkgs crZu cukrk gSA
bruk lc gksrs gq, Hkh feêðh dqN ugha cksyrhA dqEgkj dh bPNk
dks gh Åij j[krh gS vkSj viuh lgu'khyrk ds dkj.k gh ,d
lqUnj vkd`fr esa <y tkrh gSA vUrr% feêðh dh gh thr gksrh gSA
ftlus feêðh tSlh lgu'khyrk ik yhA feêðh tSlk uez gks x;k]
mldh thr esa dksbZ lUnsg ugha jg x;kA
lgu'khyrk vkSj èkS;Z thr ds lkFkh gSa tcfd pksV ekjus okyk
ges'kk gkjk gSA ypd thr gS] dBksjrk ges'kk VwVh gSA ,d O;fDr
vius vkStkj Bhd djkus ds fy, yqgkj ds ikl x;kA mlus ns[kk
fd yqgkj fugkbZ ij j[kdj yksgs dks gFkkSM+s ls ihV jgk FkkA ,d
dksus esa vusdksa gFkkSM+s VwVs iM+s FksA og O;fDr cksyk] fugkbZ rks ,d
gh gS] gFkkSM+s dbZ VwVs gSaA yqgkj us crk;k gFkkSM+s pksV djrs gSa
blfy, VwVs gSaA fugkbZ pksV lgu djrh gSA lgu'khy gS] èkS;Zoku
gS blfy, fugkbZ dk dqN ugha fcxM+rk gSA dgk Hkh x;k gS&
¶lej esa ?kko [kkrk tks] mlh dk eku gksrk gSA
fNik ml osnuk esa Hkh] eèkqj ojnku gksrk gSA
l`tu esa >syrk tks pksV] NSuh vkSj gFkkSM+h dh]
ogh ik"kk.k efUnj esa] iwT;uh; gksrk gSA¸
& yksdksfDr

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 33


n`<+rk
ftUgksaus thr gkfly dh gS muesa n`<+rk dwV&dwVdj Hkjh jgrh
gSA n`<+rk y{; ds izfr] vius dke ds izfr rHkh vkrh gS tc Lo;a
ij Hkjkslk gksrk gSA viuh {kerk ij fo'okl gksrk gSA
Hkkjr ds izFke jk"Vªifr jktsUæ izlkn cpiu esa ftl fo|ky;
esa i<+rs Fks] ogka dM+d vuq'kklu FkkA ,d ckj jktsUæ izlkn
eysfj;k ls ihfM+r gksus ds dkj.k ijh{kk cM+h eqf'dy ls ns ik, FksA
,d fnu eq[; vè;kid mudh Dykl esa vkdj cksys & I;kjs
cPpksa! eSa ftudk uke cksy jgk gw¡] os lc fo|kFkhZ ijh{kk esa mÙkh.kZ
gq, gSaA uke cksyuk 'kq: gqvkA lwph [kRe gks xbZA jktsUæ izlkn dk
uke ugha vk;kA rc mUgksaus dgk&egksn; esjk uke ugha vk;kA
vè;kid us xqLls ls dgk & rqeus vuq'kklu Hkax fd;k gSA
blesa tks mÙkh.kZ gSa mUgha ds uke gSaA cSB tkvksA
¶ysfdu eSa ikl gw¡A¸ ikap #i, dk vkfFkZd n.M& vè;kid
cksysA
vki Hkys gh n.M nhft,] ijUrq eSa ikl gw¡A
¶nl #i, dk n.MA¸ nwljh ckj vè;kid cksysA
vkpk;Z th] Hkys gh eSa chekj Fkk ij eSaus ijh{kk nh gSA eSa
mÙkh.kZ gw¡A
¶iUnzg #i, dk n.MA¸
¶eSa ugha ekurk fd eSa isQy gw¡A¸
¶chl #i, dk n.MA¸
¶eSa ikl gw¡A¸
¶iPphl #i, dk n.MA¸
jktsUæ izlkn n`<+rk ls mÙkj nsrs jgsA mUgsa vius vki ij iwjk
fo'okl FkkA rHkh ,d DydZ Hkkxrk gqvk vk;kA mlus vè;kid
ds dkuksa esa dqN dgkA fiQj DydZ us dgk rqe vPNs uEcjksa ls ikl

34 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


gq, gksA rqe Dykl esa izFke vk, gksA =kqfVo'k rqEgkjk uke lwph esa
fy[kus ls jg x;k FkkA jktsUæ izlkn ueLdkj djds cSB x,A
pkSdUukiu
le; dh pkSdlh ges'kk thr fnykrh gSA blds lkFk gh
ltxrk] rRijrk vkSj le;kuqdwyrk Hkh thr ds vk/kj gSaA thr esa
lgk;d gSaA
thou esa thr ds volj vkrs gh jgrs gSaA t:jr dsoy bu
voljksa dks le; jgrs ncksp ysus dh gksrh gSA ftlus volj dks
ncksp fy;k volj mlds dCts esa vk tkrk gSA og thr tkrk gSA
bls dgrs gSa volj dh vuqdwyrkA tks pwdk] lks Hkw[kkA pwduk gh
volj dh izfrdwyrk dgh tkrh gSA
,d O;fDr dgha ls ,d eU=k lh[kdj vk;kA eU=k dh
iw.kkZgqfr jkf=k ds 12 cts gksrh FkhA dke Fkk eVj ds nkuksa ls eksrh
cukukA fof/ ds vuqlkj pwYgs esa j[ks crZu dk ikuh [kkSyus yxkA
iRuh dks lpsr fd;k fd tc og eU=k iw.kZ gksus dk ladsr djs ;k
gqadkj djs] rc [kkSyrs ikuh esa eVj ds nkus Mky nsuk gSA iRuh
vkylh FkhA vfo'oklh Hkh FkhA vlko/ku gks xbZA pwYgs ds ikl
gh cSBs&cSBs lks xbZA eU=k iwjk gqvkA dbZ ladsr gq,A dbZ gqadkj gqb±A
ysfdu iRuh rks lks jgh Fkh] vr% volj pwd xbZA eVj ls eksrh
curs&curs jg x,A rkfU=kd us viuh gkj eku yhA
nwljs fnu iM+kslu ,d dVksjs esa eksrh ysdj vkbZA cksyh] jkr esa
vkids eU=k ls ;g eVj eksrh cus gSaA eSa vius ?kj ls lqu jgh FkhA
eSaus Hkh pwYgs esa ikuh [kkSyk;kA tSls gh gqadkj lqukbZ nh] rqjUr eSaus
eVj [kkSyrs ikuh esa Mky fn,A eVj eksrh cu x,A rkfU=kd flj
èkqudj jg x;kA mldh iRuh vkyL; vkSj vlko/kuh ls gkj xbZ
Fkh tcfd iM+kslu lko/kuh] rRijrk vkSj fo'okl ds lgkjs thr
xbZ FkhA
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 35
¶efUty nwj ugha gksrh] viuk cks>k <ksus okyksa dh]
thrs gSa ges'kk txus okys] gkj gqbZ lksus okyksa dhA¸
& ,d yksdksfDr

¶nkSM+uk O;FkZ gSA eq[; ckr rks le; ls liQy 'kq# djuk
gSA
& ykW iQkrs
I;kj dh rkdr
izse ls cM+h dksbZ rkdr ugha gSA izse vHk; gSA tks izse dks ik
tkrk gS] mldk Hk; Hkkx tkrk gSA izse ftl njokts ls vkrk gS]
Hk; mlh njokts ls ckgj dh vksj Hkkx [kM+k gksrk gSA egkiq#"kksa
us Hkh dgk gS fd izse ikvksA izse ls Åij dqN Hkh ugha gSA izse
thou dk izk.k gSA izse ij dsoy fopkj er djks oju~ bls ftvksA
izse dks ikus ds fy, Lo;a dks [kksuk iM+sxkA tc ^eSa* dk vgadkj
[kks tk,xk rc rqe izse dks ik yksxsA
tc eSa vkSj rqe dk Hksn feV tkrk gS rks dsoy izse cprk gSA
lqUnj okD; gS& I Love You] blesa I vFkkZr~ eSa vkSj You vFkkZr~
rqe dks gVk nks rks D;k cpk\ dsoy LoveA lcls izse djks vkSj
Lo;a ls HkhA vPNs dkeksa esa Mwcs jguk lgh ek;us esa ftUnxh ls
I;kj djrs jguk gSA dk;Z djrs gq, ckalqjh cu tkvks vkSj Loj
ygjh ls vkuUn cjlkvksA
izse ds dbZ :i gSaA eu dh fo'kkyrk] nwljksa dks viukuk vkSj
cgqtu fgrk;] cgqtu lq[kk; dh Hkkouk okys gh vius lkFk&lkFk
lalkj dks Hkh thr ysrs gSaA
¶dsoy izse gh og rkdr gS tks 'k=kq dks fe=k esa cny
ldrh gSA¸
&ywFkj fdax
36 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
lcdks viuk cuk yksA Hk; ls ugha] I;kj lsA ;gh thr gSA
vkHkkj
nwljksa dks èkU;okn nsuk] nwljksa dk vkHkkj ekuuk] nwljksa dks
cèkkbZ nsuk] izse Hkjh eqLdku ds lkFk tokc nsuk] nwljksa dks eku
nsuk] buesa vkidk tkrk gh D;k gS\ dqN ugha A oju~ cnys esa <sjksa
[kqf'k;ka feyrh gSaA rqels fdlh dks f'kdk;r u jgsA ;g rks cgqr
cM+h thr gSA dgk x;k gS&
¶nqfu;k dks u jgsa rqels f'kdos fxysA
dkSu tkus ;g euq"; ru] fiQj feys u feysA¸
fdlh dk vkHkkj O;Dr djus ds fy, rqjUr èkU;okn dgk
tk, rks ,d lIrkg ckn Hksts x, dbZ i`"Bksa ds d`rKrk i=k ls ;g
rqjUr dk èkU;okn T;knk izHkko'kkyh gksrk gSA
vkHkkj ekuus ;k èkU;okn nsus esa datwlh u djksA
viuksa ij fo'okl
lar dchj tqykgk FksA os diM+k cqudj viuk vkSj ifjokj dk
Hkj.k iks"k.k djrs FksA dHkh&dHkh dke iwjk djus ds fy, mUgsa jkr
esa Hkh diM+k cquuk iM+rk FkkA vU/sjk gksus ij os viuh iRuh dks
vkokt yxkdj dgrs] ¶csxe nhid tykdj j[kks] eq>s dke iwjk
djuk gSA¸ mudh csxe rqjUr nhid tykdj j[k nsrhaA
,d ckj dksbZ ifr&iRuh dchj nkl th ls feyus vk,A mUgksaus
crk;k fd ge nksuksa dh cgqr rdjkj gksrh gSA ifr us crk;k fd
;g esjk dguk ugha lqurh vkSj esjh ckr esa ehu es[k fudkyrh
jgrh gSA iRuh dh f'kdk;r Fkh fd ;g eq>s dqN crkrs ugha vkSj
esjh lykg ugha ekursA nksuksa us dchj nkl ls lgk;rk ekaxhA nksigj
dk le; FkkA
dchj nkl us viuh csxe dks vkokt yxkbZ vkSj dgk] csxe
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 37
nhid tykdj j[kks] eq>s dke iwjk djuk gSA csxe us rqjUr nhid
tykdj dj?ks ds ikl j[k fn;k vkSj pyh xbZA Hkjh nksigjh esa
nhid tykdj j[kus dh fØ;k ls ifr&iRuh nksuksa dh le> tkx
xbZ vkSj os nksuksa dchj nkl ds iSjksa esa fxj iM+sA dchj nkl us
le>k;k fd ifr&iRuh dk fj'rk vkilh fo'okl ij fVdk gksrk
gSA esjh csxe us eq>ls ;g rd ugha iwNk fd fnu ds le; esa
nhid dk D;k dke gS\ bls dgrs gSa vkilh le> vkSj vVwV
fo'oklA ;gh Å¡ph ftUnxh dk lkj gSA tkvks vkSj lq[kh jgksA bls
dgrs gSa thrA
nsuk&ysuk
"Every Action Creats Reaction"
¶'kDdj f[kyk] 'kDdj feysA
VDdj f[kyk] VDdj feysAA
;g dytqx ugha] djtqx gSA
bd gkFk ns] bd gkFk ysAA
tks vkSjksa dks Mkys pDdj esa]
og [kqn Hkh pDdj [kkrk gSA
vkSjksa dks nsrk 'kDdj tks]
og [kqn Hkh 'kDdj ikrk gSAA¸
bl gkFk ns] ml gkFk ys
bl lalkj esa ¶bl gkFk ns] ml gkFk ys¸ dh ,d lqfuf'pr
ijEijk gSA tks yksx ek=k ysus dh ckr lksprs gSa os nwljksa dh
ln~Hkkouk cgqr tYnh xok¡ cSBrs gSaA ,sls yksxksa dks vuqnkj dgk
tkrk gSA budk thou Hkh ddZ'k gksrk gSA
nwljksa dk lg;ksx vkSj ln~Hkko ikuk] izlUu vkSj iziqQfYyr
thou ds fy, vfuok;Z gSA ;fn ysus nsus dh ;g ijEijk cUn gks
tk, rks izxfr #d tk,xhA ;g lewpk lalkj ,d ifjokj gSA ;gk¡
38 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
vknku&iznku dh uhfr gh iQyhHkwr gksrh gSA ges'kk nsus okyk gh]
ikrk gSA cksus okyk gh dkVrk gSA tks cksysxk ogh èofu lqusxkA tks
'kh'ks ds ?kj esa jgsxk] ogh izfrfcEc ns[ksxkA
Hk;adj 'khr ygj FkhA lnhZ ls dhV iraxs] jsaxus okys tho tUrq
lHkh ejus yxsA i'kqvksa ds fy, pkjs dk vdky gks x;kA euq";ksa
dks b±èku dh leL;k vk xbZA lHkh BaM ls fldqM+ jgs FksA ,d cM+k
o`{k ;g lc ns[k jgk FkkA ysfdu djs Hkh rks D;k djs\ mlds ikl
rks dksbZ lkèku Hkh ugha FkkA lkspus yxk nwljksa dh lgk;rk dSls
djs\ eu esa fopkj vk;kA Lo;a dk nkuA o`{k us vius lkjs iÙks
tehu ij fxjk fn,A i'kqvksa dks pkjk feyk] thoksa dks fNius dk
lgkjk feykA lw[ks iÙks tykdj ekuo us viuh lnhZ nwj dhA isM+
BwaB dk BwaB jg x;kA dqN fnu ckn clUr vk;kA BwaB cus isM+ dks
clUr us I;kj fd;k] nqykjkA iqjkus iÙkksa dh txg ubZ dksiysa iwQVha]
u, iwQy vk,A fn'kk,a lqxUèk ls egd mBhaA vax&vax dk Üka`xkj
gqvkA isM+ eèkqj iQyksa ls iqu% yn x;kA o`{k us tks R;kx fd;k Fkk
mlds cnys mls xkSjo feyk] vkRek dk vkuUn feykA clUr dk
I;kj feykA Bhd gh dgk x;k gS fd bl gkFk ns] ml gkFk ysA
[kq'kh dk vglkl
nsus esa D;k vkuUn vkrk gS bls dsoy eglwl fd;k tk ldrk
gSA ns[kk ugha tk ldrkA og [kq'kh vudgh gksrh gSA
,d xjhc nEifr FksA fookg dh lky fxjg vkus okyh FkhA
nksuksa ,d&nwljs dks migkj nsus ds bPNqd FksA ysfdu lkèku unkjr
FksA ifr ds eu esa cgqr fnuksa ls liuk Fkk fd og viuh iRuh ds
lqugjs js'keh ckyksa esa yxkus ds fy, lksus dh ,d fDyi ykdj
nsxkA iRuh ds eu esa Fkk fd og vius ifr dh ?kM+h ds fy, lksus
dk iêðk ykdj nsA ysfdu nksuksa dh tsc [kkyh FkhA lky fxjg ds
fnu iRuh ckyksa ds O;kikjh dh nqdku ij xbZA vius cky csps vkSj
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 39
lqUnj lksus dk ?kM+h dk iêðk [kjhn fy;kA mèkj ifr us ?kM+h dh
nqdku ij tkdj viuh ?kM+h cspdj ,d lksus dk lqUnj fDyi
[kjhn fy;kA nksuksa tc feys tks ifr cksyk eSa rqEgkjs fy, lksus dh
fDyi yk;k gw¡A ysfdu rqeus flj ij #eky D;ksa ckaèk j[kk gSA iRuh
cksyh eSa vkidh ?kM+h ds fy, lksus dk iêðk ykbZ gw¡A ysfdu rqeus
dykbZ esa #eky D;ksa ckaèk j[kk gSA nksuksa us ,d&nwljs ds #eky
[kksys rks nksuksa vokd jg x,A iRuh ds cky dVs Fks vkSj ifr dh
dykbZ [kkyh FkhA ,d ds gkFk esa fDyi Fkk vkSj nwljs ds gkFk esa
?kM+h dk iêðkA nksuksa dh vk¡[kksa esa ,d&nwljs ds izfr oiQknkjh]
,d&nwljs ds izfr fu"Bk vkSj vFkkg izse ds vk¡lw cgus yxsA
ysu nsu dk dqnjr dk pØ cM+k gh etcwr gSA izd`fr dqN
ysrh gS rks mldk dbZ xquk gesa nsrh gSA ns[kks&
ckny %&
i`Foh ls ty dks Hkki cukdj ys tkrk gS vkSj fdrus ehBs
ve`r ljh[ks ty dh o"kkZ djrk gSA /jrh ls ty ysdj /jrh dks
gjk&Hkjk djds mldh xksn Hkj nsrk gSA thoksa dks thou nsrk gSA
gok %&
gekjh xUnh Hkki] dkcZu] /wy] cncw D;k ugha lesV ysrhA
ysfdu gesa cnys esa thou dh lkals ftls ge vkWDlhtu dgrs gSa]
nsrh gSA
isM+ %&
isM+ blfy, c<+rs gSa] iSQyrs gSa] iwQyrs gSa vkSj iQyrs gSa D;ksafd
os viuk lc dqN t:jr eUnksa dks fc[ksjrs jgrs gSaA Vgfu;ksa ij
vusd i{kh ?kksalyk cukdj lq[k iwoZd jgrs gSaA iÙks Hkwfe ij fxjrs
gSa vkSj viuh /jrh ekrk ds fy, [kkn cu tkrs gSaA iwQy lqxU/
iSQykrs gSa] 'kksHkk c<+krs gSa vkSj ijkx fc[ksjrs gSaA iQy ls Hkw[ks yksx
viuh Hkw[k 'kkUr djrs gSaA cht] oa'k o`f¼ djrs gSaA bu ijksidkjh
isM+ksa dks ?kkVk dgk¡ gS] pkjksa vksj ls thr gh thr gSA
40 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
HksM+ Hkh de ugha gSa %&
HksM+ nwljksa dks xje diM+s nsus ds fy, ckj&ckj vius cky
dVokrh gSaA bl ?kkVs dks iwjk djus ds fy, izd`fr nkSM+dj vkxs
vkrh gS vkSj dqN gh fnuksa esa Åu T;ksa dk R;ksa gks tkrh gSA HksM+
thou Hkj mnkjrk dk ifjp; nsrh gSA ysfdu mls Hkh dHkh iNrkuk
ugha iM+rkA
ufn;ka %&
ufn;ka ckaVrh jgrh gSaA xaxk dks ns[kks LoxZ ls mrj dj /jrh
ij vkbZ vkSj /jrh ij vkdj tu dY;k.k esa yx xbZA xaxk dks
dksbZ ?kkVk ugha gqvkA ,d ckj unh vkSj rkykc ds chp esa cgl
gks xbZA rkykc unh ls cksyk] rw rks ixyh gSA dkap tSlk lkiQ ikuh
fnu jkr lkxj dks nsrh jgrh gSA og eVeSyk [kkjk lkxj rq>s D;k
nsxkA rw viuk ikuh vius ikl bdêòk D;ksa ugha djrh\ unh cksyh]
HkS;k] esjk dke rks gS cgrs jgukA eSa rks cgrh jgwaxh] nsrh jgwaxhA
unh xquxqukrh jgh] cgrh jghA lkxj ls mBh Hkki dks ckny ve`r
cukdj cjlkrs jgsA unh miQurh jghA yksx gj] gj xaxs] gj] gj]
;equs cksyrs jgsA nwljh vksj rkykc ikuh dk laxzg djrk jgk] fdlh
dks dqN ugha fn;kA mldk ikuh lM+ x;kA nqxZU/ iSnk gks xbZA
ePNj iSnk gks x,A lkjs xkao us eyck Mkydj rkykc dks ikV
fn;kA rkykc dk thou [kRe gks x;kA
/jrh %&
/jrh D;k ysrh gSA gekjk dpjk dwM+k] xUnxh] gekjk Hkkj]
vkSj gesa D;k nsrh gS] vukt] iQy] iwQy] ehBk ty] og Hkh viuh
Nkrh dks phj djds] vius vUnj dqvka cukdj] vkSj nsrh gS ge
lcdks clsjkA
fo|ky; %&
gekjk vKku] vU/dkj] cqjkb;ka gj ysrs gSa vkSj nsrs gSa Kku]
izdk'k vkSj vPNkb;ka] Åapkb;kaA
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 41
deZ djks
deZ djksA Lo;a dh mUufr ds fy,] liQyrk ds fy,] [kqf'k;ksa
ds fy,A deZ dk jkLrk gh loksZÙke gSA deZ ,d fnu dk ugha gSA
bl lqUnj lalkj esa vfUre fnu rd deZ djrs jguk gSA og Hkh
fcuk fdlh lUnsg dsA deZ djds iQy dh bPNk rqjUr u djksA
iQy vius vki le;kuqlkj feysxkA
vkids deZ cht ds leku gSaA tc cht cks;k tkrk gS rks dqN
rqjUr mx vkrs gSa] dqN nsj ls mxrs gSa vkSj dqN Åij gh ugha vkrs]
tehu esa gh lM+ tkrs gSaA
vukt dk cht dqN eghuksa esa iQy ns nsrk gSA vke dk cht
5&6 o"kZ esa iQy nsrk gS ysfdu ckn esa o"kZ nj o"kZ iQy nsrk jgrk
gSA ckal dk cht 4&5 o"kZ esa mxrk gS ysfdu tc mxrk gS rks
izfrfnu dbZ iqQV c<+rk gSA iQy vo'; feysxkA dsoy lgh le;
ij] lgh jhfr ls] lgh lkèkuksa ds lkFk deZ djus dh vko';drk
gSA vr% deZ djks&
izfr feuV
izfr ?k.Vs
izfr fnu
izfr lIrkg
izfr ekg
izfr o"kZ
tc rd ft;ks] deZ djksA ;gh thr gSA
izsj.kk vkSj mRlkg
(nksuksa dk pksyh nkeu dk lkFk gSA)
· nhft,]
yhft,]

42 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


nhft,--------------
D;k\
izsj.kkA
· tkfu,]
igpkfu,]
[kksft,]
eFk Mkfy,]
fdls\
Lo;a dks]
vius vki dks]
D;k feysxk\
dk:¡ dk [ktkukA
tks fNik gS vkids vUnjA
vkids tsgu esaA
D;k dgrs gSa mls\
vUn:uh tks'kA
mRlkg!
tknqbZ rkdr! vkSj]
vfHkizsj.kk!
¶tc rd vki viuh vUn:uh rkdr dk mi;ksx ugha djrs
rc rd og O;FkZ gSA¸
tks pkgks gks tkvks]
dSls\
[kqn ls I;kj dhft, vkSj
[kqn ls bZekunkjh cjfr,A
izsj.kk dks dgk¡ <wa<sa\
dgha tkus dh t:jr ugha gS] izsj.kk rks vkids vUnj gh fNih
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 43
gqbZ gSA dsoy vkbZus esa vius vkidks nsf[k,A ysfdu vkbZus dks
igys lkiQ rks dj yks rkfd vPNh phtsa fn[ksaA fctyh ds cYc
dks ;fn ,d&nks fnu ds vUrj ls lkiQ djrs jgsa rks og vf/d
jks'kuh nsxkA vkids vUnj izsj.kk dk vdwr [ktkuk gS dsoy mls
dke esa ykus dh t:jr gSA /wy dh ijr gVkrs tkb,] izsj.kk dkap
dh rjg pedus yxsxhA
vfHkizsj.kk
vfHkizsj.kk dks lk/kj.k Hkk"kk esa dgrs gSa vUn:uh tks'k]
vUn:uh mRlkg ;k vUn:uh izdk'kA vfHkizsj.kk dks de u
vk¡fd,A ;g cgqr rkdroj gSA
vfHkizsj.kk 'kCn dks vaxzsth esa Motivation dgk tkrk gSA
bl eksVhos'ku ds izR;sd v{kj esa vdwr rkdr fNih gqbZ gSA tc
,d 'kCn dk izR;sd v{kj bruk cyoku gS rks iwjs 'kCn dh rkdr
dk rks dguk gh D;k\ vkbZ, ns[ksa%&

Motivation
igyk v{kj M gS bl v{kj ls Mental or Morale 'kCn
dh jpuk gksrh gSA ;g v{kj crkrk gS fd izR;sd O;fDr viuh
ekufld rjaxksa ls izHkkfor gksrk gSA ekufld rjaxsa ;fn lgh fn'kk
esa gSa rks thr gksrh gSA fdlh O;fDr dh liQyrk ;k vliQyrk
mlds eukscy ij fuHkZj djrh gSA ;fn eukscy Å¡pk cuk, j[kuk
gh thr dk lw=k gS rks blds fy, t:jh gS fd vkids eu esa ;g
fopkj dkSa/rk jgsA
^ge gksaxs dke;kc] ,d fnu*
;gh thr dk lacy gksrk gSA dgk Hkh x;k gS fd]
eu ds gkjs gkj gS]
eu ds thrs thrA
44 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
gkj] thr esa cny xbZ
;fn fdlh dke dks iwjk djus dk gkSlyk vki esa gS rks thr
fuf'pr gS vkSj gkSlyk ugha gS rks fdruh Hkh rkdr D;ksa u gks] gkj
gh gkj gSA
,d 'kfDr'kkyh jktk us vius iM+kslh jktk ij vkØe.k dj
fn;kA iM+kslh jktk detksj FkkA mlds ikl u rks i;kZIr lsuk Fkh]
u vL=k&'kL=k vkSj u ;q¼ lkexzhA tcfd geykoj jktk nl xquh
rkdr ds lkFk vk;k FkkA detksj jktk dk lsukifr Hkh detksj
fudykA mlus ;q¼ djus ls bUdkj dj fn;kA og eku cSBk fd gkj
fuf'pr gSA mldk lkspuk Fkk fd nl xquh lsuk ds lkeus mlds
lSfudksa dh gR;k gh gksxhA vr% ;q¼ djus ls D;k iQk;nk\
jktk ijs'kku gks x;kA 'k=kq dh lsuk c<+h pyh tk jgh FkhA jktk
us eU=kh ls iwNk] D;k fd;k tk,\ eU=kh us crk;k fd 'kgj ls ckgj
,d iQdhj jgrs gSaA eSa rks ladV dh ?kM+h esa muds ikl tkrk gw¡A
jktk Hkh eU=kh ds lkFk iQdhj dh dqfV;k esa igq¡pkA leL;k lqudj
iQdhj g¡lsA cksys] NksM+ks lsukifr dksA og rks fcuk ;q¼ ds gh gkj
x;kA rqe viuh lsuk eq>s ns nksA eSa ;q¼ ds fy, tkrk gw¡A
jktk ?kcjk x;kA jktk us lkspk Fkk fd iQdhj mins'k nsaxsA thr
dk jkLrk crk,axsA ysfdu ;g rks lsuk ekax jgs gSaA dgk¡ ;ksX;
lsukifr] dgk¡ ;g lar iQdhjA ;g rks ryokj idM+uk Hkh ugha
tkursA fiQj ;q¼ dSls djsaxs\ lsukifr dh rjg jktk Hkh tkurk Fkk
fd mldh gkj gksuh gSA ejrk D;k u djrk\ dqN fgEer djds
jktk us vius lSfud lUr ds gokys dj fn,A lUr lsuk ds
vkxs&vkxs xhr xkrs gq, py fn;kA lsuk Hk;Hkhr FkhA tc lsukifr
vkSj jktk us Lo;a gkj eku yh gS rks vc ge ;q¼ dSls thrsaxs\
ysfdu ;g lUr rks vc Hkh xhr xk jgk FkkA ;q¼ dk eSnku dqN
nwj jg x;kA cxy esa ,d iwtk LFky FkkA lUr us lSfudksa ls dgk]
#dksA eSa nsork ls rks iwN yw¡ fd gekjh thr gksxh ;k gkj D;ksafd
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 45
eSa ges'kk nsork ls iwN dj gh dksbZ dk;Z djrk gw¡A lUr vUnj x,A
lSfud mUgsa ?ksj dj [kM+s gks x,A
lUr us tsc ls ,d flDdk fudkyk vkSj cksyk] ¶gs esjs nsork]
vxj gekjh thr gksuh gS rks flDdk lh/k fxjs vkSj ;fn gkj gksuh
gS rks flDdk mYVk fxjsA¸
lSfudksa ds lkeus pepekrk gqvk flDdk vkleku esa mNkyk
x;kA flDdk tc uhps fxjk rks lSfudksa us ns[kk fd flDdk lh/k
fxjkA lSfud mNy iM+sA lUr us 'ka[k iwQ¡dkA cksys] vkxs c<+ksA ekj
dkV epk nksA thr gekjh gSA nsork Hkh gekjs lkFk gSaA vkxs c<+ksA
vkxs c<+ksA vkSj thr yks laxzke dksA
iwjh lsuk mRlkg ds lkFk thr dk gkSlyk ysdj 'k=kq lsuk ij
VwV iM+hA lsuk dk eukscy cgqr Å¡pk FkkA eu esa thr dk fo'okl
FkkA ,d lIrkg ds ;q¼ ds ckn lUr dh vxqokbZ esa ;q¼ thr
fy;k x;kA
dSls thrdj ykSV vk, os lSfud\ ftudk lsukifr igys gh
gkj pqdk FkkA ftudk jktk igys gh gkj pqdk FkkA ml lUr ds
fcuk D;k ,slh detksj lsuk ;q¼ thr ldrh Fkh\ lUr us tks
fo'okl txk;k] tks gkSlyk viQtkbZ dh] mlds fcuk ;q¼ thrk tk
ldrk FkkA dHkh ughaA
;q¼ ls okil ykSVrs le; lSfudksa us lUr ls dgk fd nsork
dks /U;okn nsuk pkfg,A lUr us dgk] ¶nsork us rks dqN ugha
fd;kA /U;okn fdl ckr dkA /U;okn nsuk gS rks esjs flDds dks
nks] tks ges'kk lh/k gh fxjrk gSA
tc vkRe fo'okl] gkSlyk viQtkbZ] fo'oklh usr`Ro ds lgkjs
nl xquh 'kfDr'kkyh 'k=kq lsuk dks thrk tk ldrk gS rks D;k ge
vius ifjokj] vius cPpksa vkSj vius v/huLFkksa dk fo'okl
txkdj] mudk eukscy Å¡pk djds mUgsa thr ds jkLrs ij ugha ys
tk ldrs gSa\ vo'; ys tk ldrs gSaA gesa vUr esa thruk gh gSA
46 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
ge thr ds iFk ds gh jkgh gSaA

O
nwljk v{kj O gS tks Observation 'kCn dh jpuk djrk gSA
bldk vFkZ gksrk gS fd vfHkizsj.kk yxkrkj vUnj gh vUnj
fujh{k.k (Supervision) djrh jgrh gS vkSj detksj rUrqvksa dks
mRlkfgr djds thr ds jkLrs ij <dsyrh gS] fdlh rUrq dks <hyk
ugha NksM+rh gSA fujh{k.k ds lkFk&lkFk detksj dfM+;ksa dks etcwr
djds vfHkizsj.kk dk;Z dks xfr nsrh gSA
Hkxr flag iQk¡lh p<+ x,
Lora=krk laxzke ds mu fnuksa dh ckr gS] tc tfy;kokyk ckx
esa tujy Mk;j us gtkjksa funksZ"k Hkkjrh;ksa ij xksfy;ka pyokbZ Fkha
vkSj /jrh [kwu ls yky gks xbZ FkhA
ml le; Hkxr flag dh mez dsoy 12 o"kZ FkhA vxys fnu
og ?kj ls Ldwy tkus ds fy, fudysA ij Ldwy u tkdj
tfy;kokyk ckx pys x,A ogka dh /jrh vHkh rd yky FkhA og
ogha cSB x,A ,d 'kh'kh esa [kwu ls luh feêðh HkjhA feêðh Hkjdj
'kh'kh tsc esa j[k yh vkSj ogha cSBdj ?k.Vksa lksprs jgsA tc mudk
è;ku VwVk rks 'kke f?kj vkbZ FkhA Ldwy esa rks dc dh Nqêðh gks
pqdh FkhA
tc og nsjh ls ?kj igq¡ps rks mudh cgu us iwNk] ¶bruh nsj
dgk¡ yxk nh\¸
Hkxr flag fuHkhZdrk ls cksys] ¶tfy;kokyk ckx x;k Fkk¸]
fiQj mUgksaus 'kh'kh tsc ls fudkyhA
cgu us iwNk] ¶blesa D;k gS\¸
¶'kghnksa dk [kwuA¸
¶blls D;k gksxk\¸

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 47


Hkxr flag 'kh'kh dks etcwrh ls idM+rs gq, vkSj nkar fdVfdVkrs
gq, cksys] ¶eq>s izsj.kk feysxhA¸
mlh izsj.kk dk ifj.kke Fkk fd le; vkus ij mUgksaus vaxzsth
'kklu ls yksgk fy;k vkSj g¡lrs&g¡lrs ekr`Hkwfe ds fy, iQk¡lh ij
p<+ x,A 'kghn gks x,A vej gks x,A

T
rhljk v{kj T gS tks Time uked 'kCn dh jpuk djrk gSA
O;fDr ds thou dh ,dek=k lPpkbZ ;gh gS fd mlds thou dk
izR;sd {k.k igyk vkSj vfUre gksrk gSA vFkkZr~ le; dsoy xqtjus
ds fy, gksrk gSA le; dHkh okil ugha vkrk gSA ;g Bgjrk Hkh
ugha gSA le; fdlh dh izrh{kk ugha djrkA le; ds lkFk pyksA
;g egt ukjk ugha gSA oju~ bls thou esa mrkjus dk dk;Z
vfHkizsj.kk djrh gSA le; dh efgek dks dfo;ksa us cgqr gh lqUnj
rjhds ls fijks;k gS%&
¶gS eksy tx esa lcdk]
u eksy gS le; dkA
dy ge ;gk¡ u gksaxs]
djuk tks pkgs dj ysA

blh izdkj cqtqxks± us lykg nh gS fd%&


dy djs lks vkt dj]
vkt djs lks vc]
iy esa izy; gks;xh]
cgqfj djsxk dcA

le; dk ewY; tkuus okyk vkSj le; dk mi;ksx djus okyk


O;fDr gh thrrk gSA
48 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
I
pkSFkk v{kj I] ;g v{kj Internal Effect 'kCn dh jpuk
djrk gSA bldk eryc gS fd ogh vfHkizsj.kk egÙoiw.kZ gS tks
O;fDr ds vUreZu dks txk,A tks dsoy ckgjh izHkko Mkys] mls
mÙke Js.kh dh vfHkizsj.kk ugha dgk tkrk gSA
cPpk ek¡ dks ik x;k
,d ckj ,d vk/qfud efgyk ,d fpfdRld ds ikl igq¡phA
crk;k fd mldh vk;k crkrh gS fd esjk cPpk [kkuk ugha [kkrk
gSA mls Hkw[k ugha yxrh gSA cPpk fnuksafnu detksj gksrk tk jgk
gSA vki dksbZ nok nhft,A MkWDVj us crk;k fd vki dqN fnu ds
fy, vk;k dh Nqêðh dj nsaA cPps dks nok dh t:jr ugha gSA
t:jr gS dsoy vUnj ls izsfjr djus dhA rkfd og [kkuk [kk,]
[kq'k jgs] [ksys vkSj LoLFk jgsA vkSj ;g dke vki Lo;a c[kwch dj
ldrh gSaA cPps dks viuh xksn esa cSBkdj lgyk,a] I;kj djsa] fiQj
[kkuk f[kyk,aA tc efgyk us ;gh dk;Z fd;k rks dqN gh fnuksa esa
cPpk HkjisV Hkkstu djus yxk vkSj iw.kZr% LoLFk gks x;kA bls
dgrs gSa vkUrfjd vfHkizsj.kkA
Mkdw cuk egkRek
izsj.kk izR;sd egkiq#"k ds thou dk vax jgh gSA pkgs og
okYehfd jgs gksa ;k vaxqfyeky ;k fiQj vkSj dksbZA okYehfd ds
thou dks ,d ?kVuk us cny fn;kA iwoZ esa os jRukdj uke ds Mkdw
FksA ,d ckj jRukdj us taxy esa ywVus ds bjkns ls ,d lUr dks
idM+ fy;kA ml lUr us jRukdj ls dgk fd Bhd gS] rqe eq>s ywV
yks] pkgs ihV yks] eSa rqels dsoy ,d ckr iwNrk gw¡ fd rqe ;g
is'kk D;ksa djrs gks\ jRukdj us dgk fd vius ifjokj dk isV
ikyus ds fy,A og lUr cksys] Bhd gSA vPNh ckr gSA ysfdu D;k
rqEgkjk ifjokj rqEgkjs bl iki esa Hkkxhnkj cuus dks rS;kj gS\

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 49


jRukdj lksp esa iM+ x;kA ml lUr us izsfjr fd;k fd ?kj tkdj
iwN yksA tk¡p yksA ij[k yksA jRukdj ml lUr dks ogha isM+ ij
cka/dj ?kj dh vksj py iM+kA mlus ?kj igq¡p dj vius
ifjokjtuksa ls iwjh ckr crkbZ vkSj iwNk fd D;k os mlds ikiksa ds
Hkkxhnkj cuus dks rS;kj gSa\ ifjokj us lkiQ bUdkj dj fn;kA
rqEgkjs ikiksa ls gekjk D;k ysuk&nsuk\ ifjokj dk isV Hkjuk vkidk
dke gSA jRukdj dh vk¡[ks [kqy xb±A og nkSM+k&nkSM+k ml lUr ds
ikl igq¡pkA lkjh ckrsa dg lqukb±A iwQV&iwQV dj jksus yxk rFkk
eqfDr dk ekxZ Hkh iwNkA lUr us mls ejk&ejk uked eU=k dk ti
djus dks dgkA jRukdj us ,slk gh fd;kA vkxs tkdj jRukdj gh
egf"kZ okYehfd dgyk,A mUgksaus jkek;.k tSls egkdkO; dh jpuk
dhA ftlds fy, mudk uke vej gSA lkj ;g gS fd izsj.kk vkSj
?kVuk us fdl izdkj ,d ccZj Mkdw dks egkRek cuk fn;kA ;g
izsj.kk dk gh peRdkj FkkA blh izdkj vaxqfyeky uked ccZj
tkfye Mkdw dk thou egkRek cq¼ us cny Mkyk FkkA [kqn
egkRek cq¼ dks jksxh] o`¼ vkSj e`rd ds n`';ksa us lkalkfjd nq%[kksa
ls lalkj dks eqfDr fnykus dh izsj.kk nh FkhA ftlds fy, vUrr%
mUgksaus jkLrk [kkst gh fudkyk FkkA rkRi;Z ;g gS fd bl izdkj ds
lSdM+ksa izsjd izlax gSa ftUgksaus ekuo ls egkekuo rS;kj dj fn,A
vki D;ksa ugha izsj.kk ysrs\ vkiesa Hkh rks vuUr lEHkkouk,a gSaA vki
Hkh rks 'kfDr ds iqat gSaA vkidh ÅtkZ vuUr gSA fdlh izlax ls]
fdlh egkiq#"k ds thou pfj=k ls ;k dgha vkSj ls] tgk¡ vkSj ftl
fn'kk esa vkidk eu vf/d jerk gks] izsj.kk ysaA izsj.kk ysus ds fy,
dgha tkus dh t:jr ugha gSA vkidh FkksM+h tkx#drk vkSj
laosnu'khyrk vkidks izsfjr dj nsxhA

V
ik¡pok¡ v{kj V gS tks xfr'khyrk vFkkZr~ Velocity dk lwpd
50 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
gSA dgrs Hkh gSa fd ftUnxh pyus dk uke gSA tks #d x;k] og
pwd x;kA vfHkizsj.kk dh fNih gqbZ 'kfDr O;fDr dks dqN u dqN
djus ds fy, mdlkrh jgrh gSA [kkldj ;fn O;fDr le; ds
egÙo dks le> x;k gSA le; ij ladsr le> esa vk x, rks fiQj
og [kkyh cSB gh ugha ldrk gSA dqN u dqN vk'p;Ztud dj
ysxkA
;g 'kk'or fu;e gS fd tks py iM+k og igq¡p x;kA fo}kuksa
us Hkh dgk gS efUty rd igq¡pus ds fy, igyk dne mBkuk gh
dfBu gSA igys dne ds ckn rks izR;sd dne efUty dks de
djsxkA py iM+ksA Bhd gS ysfdu pyuk Hkh rks dbZ rjg dk gksrk
gSA dsoy py iM+uk gh dkiQh ugha gSA igyh ckr rks ;fn thruk
gS] xkSjoiw.kZ igq¡p cukuh gS] mRlkfgr igq¡p dgykuh gS rks e;kZnk
esa vkSj mfpr xfr ls pyksA jsyxkM+h iVfj;ksa ij fu/kZfjr xfr ls]
iFk ds ladsrksa dks le>rs gq, pyrh gS rHkh rks xUrO; rd
ldq'ky igq¡p tkrh gSA eksVj xkM+h lM+d ij pyrh gS vkSj igq¡p
tkrh gSA ;fn jsyxkM+h iVjh ij u pys] eksVj xkM+h lM+d ij u
pys] vkneh tehu ij u pys] gokbZ tgkt fuf'pr jkLrs ls
vkleku esa u mM+s] rks D;k xUrO; rd igq¡p tk,¡xs\ nwljh vksj
ufn;ksa dks ns[kksA fcuk e;kZnk ds tgk¡ pkgk cg pyh] ft/j pkgk
eqM+ xbZ] fcuk fdlh ladsr ds] fcuk fdlh uD'ks ds] fcuk fdlh
vxqok ds] mudk D;k gJ gksrk gS\ Vs<+h&es<+h] jsfxLrku] taxy]
igkM+ lHkh d"V lgu djds xUrO; rd igq¡prh gSA ,slh ufn;ka
Hkh leqnz rd igq¡prh gSa ysfdu mudh igq¡p dks xkSjoiw.kZ ugha
dgk tk ldrk gSA fdlh dfo us fy[kk gS&
¶eafty cqyk jgh gSA
vkokt yxk jgh gSA
pyuk gh ftUnxh gSA
pyrh gh tk jgh gSA¸
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 51
thrus okyksa dh xfr nsf[k,%
'kjhj esa jDr fujUrj pyrk jgrk gSA 'kjhj thfor jgrk gSA
vius dk;Z iw.kZ djrk gSA ftl le; [kwu pyuk cUn dj nsxk
ân; #d tk,xkA urhtk ekSrA
iSj fujUrj pyrs jgdj gh xUrO; rd igq¡prs gSaA ;fn iSj
#d x, rks tksM+ksa esa tdM+u] lfU/okr vkSj i{kk?kkr gksxkA
vUrr% viaxrk vkSj gkjA
lw;Z] pUnzek] rkjs fujUrj pyrs jgrs gSa vkSj lkjs txr dks
viuk nhokuk cuk, j[krs gSaA vk/k txr rks budh iwtk
djrk gSA ftl fnu lw;Z] pUnzek fLFkj gks tk,¡ ml fnu
egkizy; vk tk,xhA tgk¡ lw;Z #dsxk] lc dqN ty tk,xkA
tgk¡ pUnzek #dsxk lc dqN xy tk,xkA
ok;q pyrh gSA thou nsrh gSA 'khryrk nsrh gSA ou] /jk o
tho tUrqvksa dks xfr'khy djrh gSA ok;q #drh gS rks xSl
curh gSA fo"kSyh gks tkrh gS vkSj coUMj cudj lc dqN
u"V dj nsrh gSA
ufn;k¡ pyrh gSaA 'khry ty nsrh gSaA /jrh dks r`Ir djrh gSaA
ikuh tc rkykc ;k >hy esa #d tkrk gS rks lM+rk gSA nqxZU/
nsrk gsA vUrr% frjLd`r gksrk gSA
;U=k] dyiqtsZ] okgu pyrs gSa rHkh mi;ksxh dgykrs gSaA tc
e'khu #d tkrh gS rks tax [kkrh gS] vuqi;ksxh gks tkrh gSA
euq"; dk efLr"d tc pyrk gS rHkh lc fu.kZ; ysrk gSA
thr dk ekxZ fudyrk gSA tc efLr"d lksrk gS rks le>ks
euq"; ej x;kA
i'kq i{kh fujUrj Hkze.k djrs jgrs gSaA vius xUrO; dks igq¡prs
gSaA Hkkstu ikrs gSaA LoLFk jgrs gSaA thou dk vkuUn mBkrs gSaA

52 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


lHkh LokHkkfod fØ;k,a djrs gSaA ftl le; i'kq i{kh fLFkj
gks tk,a ;k ,d gh LFkku ij izkIr gks tk,aA mudk f'kdkj
gksxkA vUrr% gkj ;k ekSrA
e/qeD[kh fujUrj pyrs jgdj gh ehBk ve`r leku e/q
lcdks nsrh gSA ;fn og pyuk can dj ns rks 'kk;n vius gh
cuk, ?kj esa dSn gksdj ej tk,A

lHkh ?kVuk,¡ gesa izsfjr djrh gSaA gekjs lkeus mnkgj.k j[krh
gSaA pyrs jgus dh izsj.kk nsrh gSaA ,slh pky] ,slh xfr] ,slh jhfr
tks vUrr% thr dh vksj ys tkrh gSA

A
NBk v{kj gS A vFkkZr~ Adequet vFkkZr~ i;kZIr ;k lEiw.kZ ;k
dqy dk dqy] TotalA bldk vFkZ gS fd ;fn dksbZ O;fDr viuh
iwjh rkdr yxk ns] rks og thr dk Lokn vo'; p[k ysxkA dksbZ
Hkh O;fDr vk/k v/wjk izsfjr ugha gksrkA izsfjr gksxk rks iwjk dk iwjk
gksxkA
etnwj ekfyd cu x;k
,d O;fDr chM+h cukus dh etnwjh djrk FkkA /hjs&/hjs og
chM+h cukus ds dkj[kkus dk ekfyd gks x;kA mlls tc iwNk x;k
fd etnwj ls ekfyd cuus dk liQj vkius dSls iwjk fd;k\ rks
og cksyk] vYykrkyk us xtc dh fgEer nh gSA t:jr gS fd ml
fgEer dks dke esa yk;k tk,A vkneh D;k ugha dj ldrk gS\
nqfu;k esa ,slk dkSu lk dke gS tks cUnk ugha dj ldrk gS\ dgk
x;k gS&
¶fgEers ejnk] enns [kqnkA¸

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 53


lc dqN nkao ij
,d ckj ekslZYl 'kgj esa Iysx dh chekjh iSQyhA cgqr ls yksx
Iysx dk f'kdkj gksdj ekSr ds eq¡g esa tk jgs FksA jksx ds dkj.kksa
dh [kkst djus ds fy, MkWDVjksa dh ,d lHkk gqbZA ,d MkWDVj us
dgk] ¶tc rd geesa ls dksbZ Iysx ls ejs gq, vkneh dh yk'k
phj dj mldh tk¡p ugha djsxk rc rd jksx ds dkj.kksa dk irk
yxkuk eqf'dy gSA dfBukbZ ;g gS fd tks tk¡p dk dke djsxk]
ogh [kqn Iysx dk f'kdkj gks tk,xkA¸ rc gsf=k xk;u uke dk
,d ukStoku MkWDVj vkxs vk;k] og fcYdqy vdsyk FkkA mlus
viuh lkjh tk;nkn vLirky ds uke dj nhA mlus viuk lc
dqN nkao ij yxk fn;kA mlus tk¡p 'kq: dj nh vkSj jksx ds
dkj.kksa dks dkxtksa esa fy[kdj fljds esa Mkyrk x;k] ftlls fdlh
nwljs dks Iysx u gksA m/j dhVk.kq mlds 'kjhj esa iSQyrs tk jgs FksA
ysfdu mlus tk¡p cUn ugha dhA vUr esa mldh e`R;q gks xbZA bl
rjg Iysx jksx dh tkudkjh nqfu;k ds lkeus ykdj og [kqn lnk
ds fy, lks x;kA
izsj.kk ds fy, vkidks dgha ugha tkuk gSA dgha nkf[kyk ugha
ysuk gSA cl FkksM+h tkx#drk] FkksM+h ltxrk] FkksM+h laosnu'khyrk
dh njdkj gS] vkSj dqN ughaA

T
'kCn dk lkroka v{kj T gS tks True 'kCn dks crkrk gSA
vfHkizsj.kk ,d vVwV lR; gSA ekuo rks D;k i'kq Hkh vfHkizsfjr gksrs
gSaA ;fn I;kj ls dqÙks dks Hkh lgyk fn;k tk, rks og iw¡N fgykrk
gqvk vkids iSjksa rys yksVus yxrk gSA ;g D;k gS\ ;gh rks
vfHkizsj.kk gSA lR; us ges'kk yksxksa dks izsfjr fd;k gSA lR; vkt
rd gkjk ugha gSA lR; dh cjkcjh ugha gks ldh gSA

54 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


lR; dh thr
,d ckj ,d yEck dkfiQyk cxnkn dh vksj tk jgk FkkA
jkLrs esa ml ij Mkdw VwV iM+sA ywVekj djus yxsA dkfiQys esa 9 o"kZ
dk ,d ckyd Hkh FkkA og ,d vksj pqipki [kM+k bl ywVekj
dks ns[k jgk FkkA
,d Mkdw dh utj ckyd ij iM+hA mlus ckyd ls iwNk] ¶rsjs
ikl Hkh dqN gS\¸
esjs ikl 40 v'kjfiQ;k¡ gSa] ckyd us mÙkj fn;k] Mkdw g¡lk
vkSj cksyk] ¶D;k rsjs ikl okdbZ 40 v'kjfiQ;k¡ gSa\¸
ckyd us dgk] ¶th gk¡A¸
Mkdw ckyd dk gkFk idM+dj ljnkj ds ikl ys x;k vkSj
cksyk] ¶;g ckyd vius ikl 40 v'kjfiQ;k¡ crkrk gSA¸
;g ckr ljnkj dh Hkh le> esa ugha vkbZA mlus ckyd ls
iwNk] ¶rsjh v'kjfiQ;k¡ dgk¡ gSa\¸ ckyd us viuh lnjh mrkjh vkSj
mlds vLrj dks iQkM+ dj v'kjfiQ;k¡ lkeus Mky nhaA Mkdw gSjku
jg x,A
ljnkj us iwNk] ¶yM+ds] v'kjfiQ;ksa dks bl izdkj ls j[kus dk
mik; rq>s fdlus crk;k\¸ ckyd us mÙkj fn;k] ¶esjh ek¡ us budks
lnjh ds vLrj esa lh fn;k Fkk ftlls fdlh dks budk irk u
pysA¸
ljnkj us vpEHks ls iwNk] ¶rks] rwus bu v'kjfiQ;ksa ds ckjs esa
gesa D;ksa crk fn;k\¸ ckyd us dgk] eSa >wB dSls cksyrk\ pyrs
le; esjh ek¡ us dgk Fkk] csVk dHkh >wB u cksyukA >wB cksyuk
iki gSA¸
Mkdw ds fny ij ckyd dh bl ckr dk cM+k vlj gqvkA og
vius lkfFk;ksa ls cksyk] ¶;g NksVk cPpk viuh ek¡ dk bruk
dguk ekurk gSA ,sls ladV esa Hkh >wB ugha cksykA ge yksx cM+s
gksdj ln~ekxZ ds jkLrs ij ugha pyrs vkSj ywVekj djrs gSaA¸
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 55
Mkdqvksa us mlh le; ;g r; fd;k fd vc os dHkh ywVekj
ugha djsaxsA mUgksaus ywVk gqvk lkeku Hkh okil dj fn;kA dkfiQys
okys viuk lkeku ikdj cM+s izlUu gq, vkSj ckyd dk vknj
djus yxsA bl ckyd dk uke vCnqy dkfnj FkkA cM+k gksdj ;g
ckyd ,d egku lekt lq/kjd vkSj lUr gqvk vkSj vkt Hkh
eqlyekuksa esa ^cM+s ihj* ds uke ls izfl¼ gSA

I
'kCn dk vkBoka v{kj I gS vFkkZr~ IntelligencyA prqjkbZ]
es?kk'kfDr vkfn thr ds jkLrs ds jkgh gSaA cqf¼eÙkk ls] lksp vkSj
le> c<+rh gS] grk'kk xk;c gks tkrh gS vkSj O;fDr dke djrk
gS] dsoy dke] og Hkh jpukRed A tks mldks thr dh vksj ys
tkrs gSaA cqf¼eÙkk ls gh vPNs vkSj cqjs dh igpku gksrh gSA O;fDr
izsfjr gksdj thr ds jkLrs tkrk gSA
[kjxks'k us 'ksj ekjk
cqf¼eku dks lHkh izdkj ds cy izkIr gksrs gSaA og lHkh foijhr
ifjfLFkfr;ksa dk eqdkcyk lgtrk ls djds mUgsa thr ysrk gSA
ou esa egkcyh 'ksj dk vR;kpkj c<+rk tk jgk FkkA lHkh
tkuojksa us feydj r; fd;k fd gj le; lHkh ds Hk;Hkhr jgus
dh vis{kk D;ksa u ckjh&ckjh ls ,d tkuoj 'ksj ds ikl jkstkuk
Hkkstu ds fy, Lo;a igq¡p tk,A 'ksj dks fu.kZ; dh tkudkjh nh
xbZA 'ksj jkth gks x;kA ,d fnu [kjxks'k dh ckjh vkbZA [kjxks'k
prqj FkkA og ml fnu dkiQh nsj ls 'ksj ds ikl x;kA 'ksj Hkw[k ls
O;kdqy gks jgk FkkA ,d rks Hkkstu ds fy, NksVk lk [kjxks'k] og
Hkh nsjh lsA 'ksj xjt dj cksyk] csodwiQ [kjxks'k] bruh nsjh ls D;ksa
vk;kA [kjxks'k dkairk gqvk cksyk] egkjkt dh t; gksA eSa rks le;
ls gh vk jgk Fkk ysfdu jkLrs esa ,d nwljs 'ksj egkjkt fey x,A

56 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


mUgksaus eq>s jksd fy;kA tc eSaus vkidh nqgkbZ nh] rks mUgksaus
vkidks Hkh Hkyk cqjk dgkA 'ksj rks gksrs gh gSa LokfHkekuhA viuh
lhek esa nwljs dks dSls cnkZ'r dj ldrs gSa\ 'ksj cksyk] dgk¡ gS
nwljk 'ksj\ [kjxks'k cksyk] ikl esa gh gS egkjkt! [kjxks'k 'ksj dks
,d dq,a ds ikl ys x;kA cksyk egkjkt] vkils Mjdj og nwljk
'ksj blh dq,a esa fNi x;k gSA 'ksj us dq,a esa >kadkA mls dq,a ds
ikuh esa viuh gh 'kDy fn[kkbZ nhA 'ksj us lkspk] okLro esa dq,a esa
nwljk 'ksj fNik cSBk gSA 'ksj us dq,a esa Nykax yxk nhA ew[kZ 'ksj
dq,a esa fxjdj ej x;kA [kjxks'k us cqf¼ekuh ls vius lkFk gh
vU; lHkh tkuojksa dh Hkh tku cpk yhA

O
'kCn dk ukSaok v{kj O gS tks Optimum vFkkZr~ vkn'kZ ;k
vuqdwyrk dks n'kkZrk gSA tc dksbZ O;fDr ,d vkn'kZ izLrqr dj
nsrk gS rks ogh vkn'kZ nwljksa ds fy, vfHkizsj.kk cu tkrk gSA
eSa rqEgkjk firk gw¡
,d ckj izfl¼ m|ksxifr gsujh iQksMZ ds dkj[kkus esa gM+rky
gks xbZA gM+rky yEch f[kapus yxhA dkj[kkus ds eSustj Jfedksa dks
le>kus cq>kus esa vliQy gks x,A ,d fnu Jfedksa us iQksMZ ds
vkokl dks ?ksj fy;kA iQksMZ ckgj fudysA Jfedksa ds chp esa x,
vkSj cksys] ¶eSa rqEgkjk firk vkSj rqe lc esjs iq=k gksA eSa tkurk gw¡
fd rqEgkjs fy, D;k vPNk gS vkSj D;k cqjk gS\ cPpksa vc rqe
dke ij okil tkvksA¸ ;gh 'kCn Jfedksa ds fy, ekxZn'kZd cu
x,A gM+rky lekIr gks xbZA tc Jfedksa ls iwNk x;k fd gM+rky
D;ksa lekIr dj nh\ Jfedksa us tokc fn;k fd dksbZ Hkh firk dHkh
Hkh vius iq=kksa dk vfgr ugha dj ldrk gSA ckn esa iQksMZ ds
dkj[kkus esa dHkh Hkh gM+rky ugha gqbZA

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 57


N
nloka vkSj vkf[kjh v{kj N gS tks Natural, izkd`frd ;k
LokHkkfod ;k Lor% dk izfrfuf/Ro djrk gSA vFkkZr~ O;fDr dks
izsfjr gksus dk ;g vuwBk migkj izd`fr ls feyk gSA og leL;kvksa
vkSj ladVksa ls Lo;a tw>rk gS vkSj uko cudj Hkaoj ls ckgj vkrk
gSA
izd`fr ls cM+k izsjd vkSj dkSu gks ldrk gS\ ftl izdkj ufn;k¡
ijksidkj ds fy, cgrh gSaA ftl izdkj iRFkj ekjus ij Hkh isM+
vkidks ehBs iQy nsrk gSA /jrh viuh Nkrh [kqnokdj vkidks
vUu nsrh gS ;k ikuh ds lzksr nsrh gSA D;k ;g de izsj.kk gS\
D;k vkius dHkh ;g lkspk gS fd lwjt dh fdj.ksa dHkh xjhc]
vehj] >ksiM+h] egy dk fopkj djrh gSa\ D;k cjlkr egyksa esa
vf/d vkSj >ksiM+ksa ij de gksrh gS\ D;k dksfB;ksa esa vkWDlhtu
T;knk vkSj iqQVikFk ij de gksrh gS\ ugha! ,slk drbZ ugha gSA rks
D;k gesa lh[kuk ugha pkfg, fd ge HksnHkko u djsaA ge
Å¡p&uhp dk fopkj D;ksa djsa\ ;gk¡ gekjk fopkj mins'k nsus dk
ugha gS cfYd vkidks izsj.kk lzksrksa dh tkudkjh nsus dk gSA
dfo;ksa vkSj ys[kdksa us izsj.kk lEcU/h vusd izlax izLrqr fd,A
tc ns'k xqyke Fkk rks lqHknzk dqekjh pkSgku us fy[kk&
¶[kwc yM+h ejnkuh og rks >kalh okyh jkuh FkhA¸
fujkyk us fy[kk&
¶tkxks fiQj ,d ckj fd] 'ksjks dh ekan esa vk;k gS
fl;kj fiQj ,d ckjA¸
blh izdkj ek[ku yky prqosZnh us dgk&
¶dy eq>s rksM+ ysuk cuekyh--- nsuk ml iFk isaQd]
ftl iFk ij tkosa] 'kh'k p<+kus ohj vusdA¸

58 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


dSls izsfjr djsa
;fn vkids Åij dqN yksxksa dks izsfjr djus dk mÙkjnkf;Ro
vk tk, rks ihNs u jfg,A dqN mnkgj.k nsf[k,A dSls izsfjr fd;k
tkrk gS\
1- mls Lo;a dh igpku djk nks %&
ftls izsfjr djuk gS mls le>kb,A mls ,glkl djkb, fd rqe
egku gksA lc rqels NksVs gSaA ftl fnu bl ckr dk Kku gks
tk,xk] ml fnu mls rqe ftrk nksxsA mls crkb, fd tc rd esjs
rsjs ds fopkj esa fpids jgksxs] vius dks rqPN le>ksxs] rc rd
thr ds jkLrs ls nwj jgksxsA
vius dks igpku x;k
dgkor gS fd ,d O;fDr cM+k O;luh FkkA ?kksj ikih FkkA
mldh iRuh FkksM+k gksf'k;kj FkhA mlus dkiQh dksf'k'k dh fd
mldk ifr lq/j tk,] ysfdu liQy u gqbZA ,d fnu tc
ifr&iRuh ls I;kj trk jgk Fkk] rks iRuh us mls ,d iRFkj dh
cfV;k nhA cksyh] ;fn rqe eq>ls I;kj djrs gks rks bl iRFkj dh
fnu esa ,d ckj iwtk dj fy;k djksA iwtk ds ckn vxys 24 ?k.Vs
rd dksbZ nqO;Zlu u djksA ifr eku x;kA jkstkuk iRFkj ij pkoy]
iQy] pUnu vkfn p<+kus yxkA ,d nks 'yksd i<+ ysrk vkSj vxys
24 ?k.Vs nqO;Zluksa ls nwj jgus yxkA ,d fnu mlus ns[kk fd iRFkj
ds Åij pwgk cSBk gS vkSj pkoy [kk jgk gSA mlus lkspk] iRFkj
ls cM+k rks og pwgk gSA ns[kks iRFkj ds Åij cSBk gS] og pwgs dh
iwtk djus yxkA dqN fnu ckn ns[kk ,d fcYyh vk xbZA fcYyh
ns[kdj pwgk nqe nckdj Hkkx x;kA mlus lkspk] pwgs ls cM+h rks
;g fcYyh gSA og fcYyh dh iwtk djus yxkA dqN fnu ckn ,d
dqÙkk vk;k vkSj fcYyh ij >iVkA fcYyh E;kÅ¡&E;kÅ¡ djrh Hkkx
xbZA og O;fDr cksyk] fcYyh ls cM+k rks og dqÙkk gSA vc og

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 59


dqÙks dh iwtk djus yxkA
,d fnu dqÙkk jlksbZ ?kj esa ?kql x;kA iRuh us ,d M.Mk ekjk
vkSj dqÙkk D;kÅ¡&D;kÅ¡ djrk Hkkx x;kA mlus lkspk bu lcls
cM+h rks esjh iRuh gS] eSa csdkj gh HkVd jgk FkkA og iRuh dh iwtk
djus yxkA iRuh cM+h [kq'k fd ns[kks eSaus vius ifr dks lq/kj fn;k]
vius o'k esa dj fy;kA iRuh dks FkksM+k ?ke.M Hkh gks x;kA ,d
fnu og O;fDr [kkuk [kk jgk FkkA nky esa ued dqN T;knk FkkA
og iRuh ls cksyk vkt nky esa ued T;knk dSls gks x;k\ iRuh
dqN vdM+ esa Fkh cksyh& gkFk gh rks gS] T;knk ued iM+ x;k rks
dkSu lh vkiQr vk xbZA pqipki [kkuk [kk yksA mls xqLlk vk x;kA
iwtk dk iRFkj mBkdj mlus iRuh ij ns ekjkA iRuh Mjdj Hkkx
xbZA mls vpEHkk gqvkA eSa rks iRuh ls Hkh cM+k gw¡A eSa O;FkZ esa gh
lcdh iwtk djrk fiQj jgk gw¡A eq>ls cM+k rks dksbZ ugha gSA mls
mlh fnu Kku gks x;kA og riL;k ds fy, fgeky; dh vksj
izLFkku dj x;kA mls fut Lo:i dk Kku gks x;k FkkA mls
vkUrfjd izsj.kk fey xbZA
2- vkn'kZ izLrqr djks %&
Lo;a 'kjkc vkSj flxjsV fi;ks vkSj nwljksa dks ulhgr nks fd
u'kk djuk NksM+ nks] D;k nwljk eku tk,xk\ dHkh ughaA nwljksa dks
izsfjr djus ds fy,] nwljksa dks ulhgr nsus ds fy, igys Lo;a
vkn'kZ izLrqr djuk gksrk gSA
feêðh dh cfy
uxj ds efUnj esa mRlo euk;k tk jgk FkkA pkjksa vksj pgy
igy FkhA izfl¼ ;wukuh nk'kZfud IysVks dks mRlo dk eq[; vfrfFk
cuk;k x;k FkkA IysVks mifLFkr gq,A IysVks us ns[kk] tks uxj oklh
efUnj esa vkrk gS] fdlh u fdlh tho dh cfy p<+krk gSA cfy
tc ph[kus fpYykus ;k NViVkus yxrh rks yksx [kq'k gksrs] ukprs
vkSj ,d nwljs ds xys feyrsA IysVks ls ;g tho gR;k ns[kh ugha
60 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
xbZ] og mBdj py fn,A iqtkjh us jksdk] vki rks eq[; vfrfFk
gSa] fcuk cfy p<+k, vki dSls okil tk,axs\ tuekul D;k
dgsxk\ vki Mjiksd gSaA IysVks 'kkfUriwoZd eqLdjkrs gq, pys]
efUnj ds ikl igq¡ps] FkksM+k ty ysdj feêðh dks xhyk fd;kA xhyh
feêðh ls ,d i'kq dh vkd`fr cukbZA nsork ds lkeus j[kk] ryokj
pykbZ vkSj cfy dk miØe dj fn;kA brus esa va/ fo'oklh HkDr
eq¡g fcpdkus yxsA ;g Hkh dksbZ cfy gSA
IysVks [kM+s gq,A lEcksf/r djrs gq, cksys] ¶vkids futhZo
nsork ds fy, ;g futhZo cfy gh mi;qDr gSA¸ lHkh fu#Ùkj gks
x,A lHkh dh vk¡[ksa [kqy xb±A IysVks dh vxqokbZ esa lHkh us ladYi
fy;k vkSj vkxs ls cfy izFkk cUn gks xbZA IysVks us vius deZ ls
lHkh dks thr fy;kA bls Hkh izsj.kk dgrs gSaA
3- okLrfodrk ls ifjfpr djkvks %&
jktk Hkkst ds firk egkjkt flU/q us eqUt uked O;fDr dks
xjhch ls fudky dj ikyk ikslkA lSfud izf'k{k.k fnyk;k vkSj
viuk fo'oklik=k lg;ksxh cuk fy;kA flU/q dh e`R;q ds le;
Hkkst 5 o"kZ ds FksA e`R;q ds le; flU/q us ;qojkt Hkkst dh ck¡g
eqUt dks idM+krs gq, dgk Fkk] ¶tc rd ckyd Hkkst ;qok u gks
tk,¡] rc rd rqe blds laj{kd gks vkSj jkt&dkt pykvksA¸
le; chrrk x;kA eqUt jktk gks x,A le; ds lkFk in dk
yksHk] eksg c<+rk x;kA eqUt dks Hk; lrkus yxk fd dqN le;
ckn jkT; ;qojkt dks lkSaiuk iM+sxkA pkyckth ls >wBs bYtkeksa ds
vk/kj ij ;qojkt dks ns'k fudkyk feykA ;qojkt Hkkst taxy esa
pys x,A jktk eqUt brus ls gh lUrq"V ugha gq,A mUgksaus vius
lgk;d xkSMs'oj dks vkns'k fn;k fd taxy esa ;qojkt dk dRy
dj fn;k tk,A xkSMs'oj taxy esa x;kA mlus ;qojkt Hkkst dks <wa<
fy;k] jkT;kns'k lquk;kA Hkkst cksys] ¶nsj u djks] esjk dRy dj

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 61


nksA** ;qojkt dh fu'Nyrk ns[kdj xkSMs'oj ds gkFk <hys gks x,A
xkSMs'oj us dRy djus ls bUdkj dj fn;kA rc Hkkst us oV i=k ij
eqUt ds fy, lUns'k fy[kkA lUns'k ysdj xkSMs'oj ykSV vk, lkFk
esa Fkky esa Hkkst ds flj dk >wBk izrhd Hkh <d dj ys vk,A eqUt
us iwNk] dk;Z iwjk gks x;kA xkSMs'oj us Lohd`fr esa flj fgyk fn;k
vkSj oV i=k okyk lUns'k mUgsa idM+k fn;kA lUns'k bl izdkj Fkk%&
ekU/krk p eghifr%
d`rlqxkyadkj Hkwrksxr%A
lsrq;sZu egksn/kS fojfpr%
DolkS n'kkL;Urd%AA
vU;s pkfi ;qf/f"Bj%
izHk`r;ks ;krk fnoa HkwirsA
uSds pkfi lea xrk olqerh
eqUt! Ro;k ;kL;frAA
¶lr;qx ds vyadkj ekU/krkA leqnz esa lsrq cukus okys Hkxoku
jke] egkHkkjr thrus okys ;qf/f"Bj] vkfn vusdksa egk izrkih jktk
gq,A ;g /jrh muesa ls fdlh ds lkFk ugha xbZA vc yxrk gS
eqUt] rqEgkjs lkFk tk,xhA¸
'yksd i<+dj eqUt dk eeZLFky fcU/ x;kA mudk foosd tx
x;kA ân; rkj&rkj gks x;kA lkspus yxk brus cM+s iki ds fy,
egkjkt flU/q dh fnoaxr vkRek dks D;k mÙkj nwaxk\ eqUt
i'pkrki dh vfXu esa ty mBsA rc xkSMs'oj us jgL; [kksykA
egkjkt] ;qojkt ftUnk gSaA eqUt Lo;a taxy esa x,] ;qojkt dks
okil yk,A lekjksg iwoZd Hkkst dk jkT;kfHk"ksd fd;kA eqUt ri
djus ds fy, taxy esa pys x, vkSj vUr esa egf"kZ cusA
;g Hkh izsj.kk dk ,d :i gSA ,d 'yksd us eqUt dh dk;k
iyV nh vkSj eqUt Lo;a ls thr x,A

62 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


4- detksjh ij gkFk j[kks %&
,d ckj f'kokth vius lSfudksa ls fcNqM+ dj ,d ?kus taxy
esa pys x,A og ,d >ksaiM+h esa igq¡ps rks ogk¡ mUgsa ,d cqf<+;k
feyhA cqf<+;k us f'kokth dks [kkus ds fy, xje&xje Hkkr fn;kA
f'kokth us Fkkyh ds chp esa gkFk Mkydj [kkuk 'kq: fd;k rks
mudk gkFk ty x;kA
;g ns[kdj cqf<+;k cksyh] ¶csVk] rw f'kokth tSlk O;ogkj D;ksa
djrk gS\¸ f'kokth pkSad dj iwN cSBs] ¶og dSls ek¡\¸
cqf<+;k cksyh] ¶f'kokth 'k=kq jkT; ds chp esa ?kql dj /kok
cksyrk gS] blfy, mls liQyrk ugha feyrhA vxj ,d fljs ls
vkØe.k djs rks liQyrk t:j feysxhA¸
cqf<+;k dh ckr us f'kokth dks lgh jkLrk fn[kk fn;kA cqf<+;k
us f'kokth dh detksj ul ij gkFk j[k fn;k Fkk vkSj f'kokth dks
izsj.kk fey xbZA
5- vkRe fo'okl txkvks %&
bfrgkl crkrk gS fd ikuhir ds ;q¼ esa ckcj ds flikgh gkj
jgs Fks] yxkrkj ihNs gV jgs FksA ckcj esa xtc dk vkRe fo'okl
FkkA ckcj us yydkjk&vkxs c<+ks] ge thr pqds gSa] bl eqYd ij
gekjk >.Mk ygjk pqdk gSA ihNs gVus ij ekSr gh ekSr gSA rqe D;k
lksprs gks fd rqEgsa dksbZ Hkkx dj tkus nsxk] ugha! dHkh ugha! ;q¼
djksA vkxs c<+ks ns[kks thr lkeus [kM+h gS] rqe cgknqj jktk ds
cgknqj flikgh gksA rqe gkj gh ugha ldrs] vkxs c<+ksA thr dks pwe
yks vkSj ikuhir dk ;q¼ ckcj us thr fy;kA bls dgrs gSa thr]
bls dgrs gSa izsj.kkA
blh ckr dks ckcj bl izdkj Hkh dg ldrk FkkA 'k=kq dh
'kfDr cgqr vf/d gSA mldh lsuk fo'kky gSA ge yM+kbZ gkj x,
gSaA ejuk rks gS gh] D;ksa u ge yM+rs&yM+rs 'kghn gks tk,¡A
vki D;k le>rs gSa fd bl iSxke ls ckcj ;q¼ thr tkrk]
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 63
dHkh ughaA tcfd nksuksa ckrksa dk vFkZ vkSj Hkko feyrk tqyrk gSA
ysfdu igyh yydkj esa vkRefo'okl gS] thr tkus dk lUns'k gS
vkSj ejus dk fodYi Hkh gSA nwljh yydkj esa fujk'kk gSA ;gka gkj
lqfuf'pr yxrh gS] ;|fi ejus dk fodYi blesa Hkh gSA bl
yydkj esa dsoy gkj dk lUns'k fNik gSA
6- uke ls iqdkjks %&
fdlh O;fDr ls viuk dke djkus ;k mls o'k esa djus dk
,d gh rjhdk lcls vPNk gS fd mls mlds uke ls iqdkjksA
D;ksafd O;fDr esa uke dh okluk lcls vf/d n`<+ gksrh gSA O;fDr
fdruh gh HkhM+ esa cSBk gks ;fn mldk uke iqdkjk tk,] rks og
rqjUr pkSdUuk gks tkrk gSA fdlh Hkh O;fDr dks lcls I;kjk viuk
uke yxrk gSA vkneh fdruk [kq'k gksrk gS ;fn dgha mldk uke
iqdkjk tk,] ;fn dgha mldk uke fy[k fn;k tk,A dke djkus
;k nwljksa dks o'k esa djus dh lcls vPNh nok gS fd mlds uke
dh iz'kalk dj nks] mldk uke fy[k nksA viuk uke lqurs gh
O;fDr dqN Hkh djus dks mrkoyk gks tkrk gSA vkius ns[kk gksxk
fd HkhM+ esa ;fn dksbZ nku ns jgk gks] ykmMLihdj ls ;fn nku nsus
okys dk uke iqdkjsa fd iQyk HkkbZ us 501 #i, fn,] rks vxyk
rqjUr 1001 ysdj igq¡psxk fd esjs uke dk ,syku dj nks fd eSaus
1001 #i, fn,A
uke o'khdj.k dk eU=k gS] thr dk lEcy gS] vk/kj gSA
nwljksa dks vfHkizsfjr djuk gS rks uke dk mi;ksx djksA
dSls izsfjr gq, egku yksx
izsj.kk udkjkRed ,oa ldkjkRed nksuksa fn'kkvksa esa gks ldrh
gSA ns[ksa] gekjs iwoZt vkSj tkuh ekuh gfLr;ka dSls izsfjr gq,&
egkRek xk¡/h dks gjh'kpUæ uked ukVd dks ns[kdj lR;
cksyus dh izsj.kk feyhA
64 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
f'kokth viuh ekrk thtkckbZ dh izsj.kk ls egku ;ks¼k cusA
n;kuUn ljLorh dks ewfrZiwtk dk fojks/ djus dh izsj.kk
efUnj ls feyhA
jktk jke eksgu jk; dks lrh izFkk dk fojks/ djus dh izsj.kk
rc feyh tc mudh HkkHkh dks tcju lrh cuk;k x;kA
lUr dchj dks HkfDr dh izsj.kk dk'kh ds czkã.kksa ds fojks/
ls feyhA
,d ckjkr dks ns[kdj ehjk d`".k dh nhokuh gks xbZA
rqylhnkl viuh iRuh ds dVk{k ls izsfjr gksdj egku gks
x,A
oSKkfud U;wVu dks isM+ ls fxjrs gq, lsc us izsfjr fd;kA
tsEl okV dks dsryh dh Hkki us vkfo"dkjd cuk fn;kA
D;k djuk pkfg,
vki lksp jgs gksaxs fd gekjs y{; rks ,sls gSa ftl lUnHkZ esa
dksbZ izlax lkeus vk;k gh ughaA tSls vki dEI;wVj bathfu;j cuuk
pkgrs gSa ;k vki vè;kid cuuk pkgrs gSa ;k vkbZ-,-,l- vf/
dkjh cuuk pkgrs gSa ;k fØdsVj cuuk pkgrs gksaA xk;d] laxhrdkj]
vfHkusrk vkfn cuuk pkgrs gSaA vkidk y{; lHkh lanHkks± esa ,d
gh ckr dh izsj.kk nsxk] og gS ifjJe] yxu vkSj y{; ds lk/us
dh rhoz vkdka{kkA cl ;gh liQyrk ds ekun.M LFkkfir djus
okys LrEHk gSa] ckdh rks izR;sd euq"; vius vki esa lcls vyx
gS] vuks[kk gSA mlds tSlk O;fDr u rks igys gqvk gS vkSj u gksxkA
blfy, fLFkfr;ka] ns'kdky] okrkoj.k Hkys gh cny tk, ysfdu
y{; izkIr djus ds fy, yxu] ifjJe] /S;Z vkSj rhoz vkdka{kk
ges'kk vk/kjHkwr LrEHk gksaxsA vki ,d Hkh ,slk egkiq#"k ugha
ik,axs ftuesa ;s ckrsa u feyrh gksaA vki ,d Hkh ,slh fo[;kr gLrh
ugha crk ldrs] ftuesa ;s xq.k u jgs gksaA
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 65
mPp izsj.kk izkIr djus ds dqN vklku jkLrs gSa fd vki viuh
egÙokdka{kkvksa ij cy nsaA egkiq#"kksa ds thou pfj=k ,oa deks± dks
i<+sa rFkk ns[ksa] [kqn dks muds lkFk rqyukRed n`f"V ls ij[ksaA vki
esa vHkko dh vuqHkwfr gksus yxsxhA cl ;gha ls vki izsj.kk dh
ryk'k esa jgus yxsaxsA okLro esa lPph izsj.kk mls izkIr gksrh gS ftls
dqN vHkko gksrk gS&
¶tgk¡ pkg] ogk¡ jkgA¸
dgrs gSa vko';drk vkfo"dkj dh tuuh gSA vFkkZr~ tc
vkidks vius nq%[kksa] d"Vksa] dfBukb;ksa dk vglkl gksus yxsxk rks
vki Lo;a gh izdk'k iqat dh vksj ns[kus yxsaxsA vki Lo;a gh izsj.kk
ds fy, NViVkus yxsaxsA
izsj.kk ls gh O;fDr viuh lksbZ gqbZ 'kfDr;ksa dks tkxzr djrk gS]
og iqu% u, vkRe fo'okl ds lkFk lfozQ; gks tkrk gS vkSj 'kh?kz
gh eaftyksa dh ryk'k esa fudy iM+rk gSA varr% ogh fot;h gksrk
gS ftls lgh vksj lPph izsj.kk feyh vkSj mlus mls vkRelkr
fd;kA og ,d {k.k Hkh viuh t:jrksa] viuh dfBukb;ksa dks ugha
Hkwyk vkSj fujarj iz;Ru'khy jgk] vius thou dks mUur cukus esaA
ogh gksrk gS eqdíj dk fldUnjA vr% ges'kk&
& lh[kks!
& i<+k!s
& [kkstks!
& ltx jgks!
& Li/kZ djks!
& Lo;a ls bZekunkjh cjrks!
& vkRecy c<+kvks!
& pqukSfr;ksa ls tw>ks!

vkSj vius thou esa bu lcdks mrkj yksA


66 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
¶varj esa ;qx&;qx ls lksbZ]
fpÙk 'kfDr dks txkvksA¸
yxu
fdlh dke ds NksVs cM+s gksus dk bruk egÙo ugha gS] ftruk
egÙo bl ckr dk gS fd dke dks djus dk <ax] dke ds izfr
yxu vkSj dke ds izfr Hkkouk dSlh gSA dksbZ O;fDr ,d vPNs
dke dks Hkh viuh dkepksjh] vkyL; vkSj ykijokgh ls djds
vliQy gks ldrk gSA ogha nwljk O;fDr NksVs vkSj lkèkkj.k dk;ks±
dks yxu] rRijrk vkSj dke gh iwtk gS] dh Hkkouk ls iwjk djds
thou dh liQyrk dh lh<+h p<+ tkrk gS] vkSj egku gks tkrk gSA
ckVk uke dk eksph uhe ds isM+ ds uhps cSBdj iQVs&iqjkus twrksa
dh ejEer djrk FkkA og vius dke dks bruh rUe;rk ls djrk
Fkk fd iqjkuk twrk Hkh u;k fn[kus yxrk FkkA twrs dh ftUnxh c<+
tkrh FkhA iwjs 'kgj ds yksx mlls twrksa dh ejEer djkus yxsA
èkhjs&èkhjs yksx viuk lkeku nsdj mlls u, twrs Hkh cuokus yxsA
og brus eqyk;e] pednkj vkSj etcwr twrs cukrk Fkk fd yksx
ns[krs jg tkrsA vkt mlh ckVk dk uke xyh dwps rd esa izpfyr
gSA dbZ ns'kksa esa ckVk dk twrk viuh xq.koÙkk ds fy, vkt Hkh
izfl¼ gSA
blh izdkj izfl¼ oSKkfud ,Mhlu dh eka oSKkfud cukus dh
bPNk ls ,Mhlu dks ,d cM+s oSKkfud ds ikl ys xbZA eka us cPps
dks f'k{kk nsus dh izkFkZuk dhA oSKkfud us ,Mhlu dks j[k fy;kA
igyk dke fn;k edku esa >kMw yxkus dkA edku dh liQkbZ
djukA lkspks] >kMw vkSj liQkbZ dk foKku ls D;k fj'rk\ ysfdu
,Mhlu us bls gh viuk deZ vkSj iwtk le>kA og bl izdkj ls
>kMw yxkrs Fks fd ?kj dk dksuk&dksuk] nhokj vkSj njkjsa rd lkiQ
gks tkrh FkhaA mudh dke ds izfr :fp vkSj yxu ds dkj.k gh
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 67
ml oSKkfud us ,Mhlu dks csgrj izf'k{k.k fn;kA vkt ,Mhlu
dh fxurh nqfu;k ds izfl¼ oSKkfudksa esa gksrh gSA og egku gks
x,A ;fn mUgksaus >kMw yxkus dks ;g dgdj udkj fn;k gksrk fd
bl dke dk foKku ls D;k ysuk nsuk gS\ rks 'kk;n vkt ,Mhlu
uke dk vfLrRo Hkh u gksrkA
dkykuqorhZ Hko
ges'kk O;ogkfjd txr esa jgksA tSlk ns'k] oSlk Hks"kA tSlk
dky oSlk deZ djksA iwtk?kj esa gks rks 'kkfUr j[kuh pkfg,A
ukp&xkuk mfpr ugha gSA fdlh 'kksd lHkk esa gks rks nq%[k izdV
djuk gksxkA lkaRouk nsuk gksxkA galuk f[kyf[kykuk mfpr ugha gSA
tc osru ladV esa gks rks cksul dh ekax mfpr ugha gSA le; ds
vuqlkj mfpr O;ogkj djksA
?kj ifjokj esa Hkh dkykuqorhZ HkoA ekrk&firk] cqtqxks± ds lkFk
cSBks rks èkkfeZd ckrsa djksA cPpksa ds lkFk i<+kbZ&fy[kkbZ] vkxs c<+us
,oa vkèkqfud VsDukWykWth dh ckr djksA esgekuksa ls dq'ky {kse
iwNksA mudk vknj lRdkj djksA ;gh mÙke gSA
ifjorZu gh thr gS
¶ifjorZu dh vkgV lquks]
vkxs dk rkuk&ckuk cquksA¸

bl txr esa dqN Hkh LFkk;h ugha gSA lc dqN ifjorZu'khy gSA
;gka rd fd gekjk thou Hkh LFkk;h ugha gSA tjk xkSj djsaA vkt
ge D;k mlh voLFkk esa gSa tSls fd iSnk gq, Fks\ cpiu cny
x;kA tokuh cny xbZ vkSj cq<+kik Hkh cny tk,xkA Hkys gh og
ekSr ds :i esa gksA nqfu;k esa fdrus vk, vkSj pys x,A vr% gesa
le; ds vuqlkj ifjorZu djrs jguk pkfg,A ;gh ,d LFkk;h
68 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
fu;e gSA
isM+ dh Mky ls iÙkk VwVk vkSj uhps fxjus yxkA iÙkk isM+ ls
cksyk%&
iÙkk fxjrk ;ksa dgs] lquks o`{k oujk;A
vc ds fcNqM+s dc feysaxs] nwj iM+saxs tk;AA
iÙks dh cspSuh dks Hkkaidj isM+ cksyk%&
rc o`{k ;ks cksfy;ks] lqu iÙkk ,d ckrA
;k ?kj dh ;g jhfr gS bd vkor] bd tkrAA
vesfjdk ds jk"Vªifr Jh dwfyt OgkbV gkÅl esa jgrs FksA ,d
fnu os cxhps esa ?kwe jgs FksA fdlh vkxUrqd us iwNkA ;gk¡ dkSu
jgrk gS\ dwfyt cksys%&
;gk¡ dksbZ ugha jgrkA
;g rks ljk; gSA
;g èkeZ'kkyk gSA
;gk¡ dbZ vk, vkSj dbZ pys x,A
;gk¡ lc dqN cny tkrk gSA
Everybody is passing through.

vHkh nsj ugha gqbZ


gekjk vlyh edln gSA
¶n`f"Vdks.k ifjorZu dkA
lksp esa ifjorZu dkA
dk;Z ds <ax esa ifjorZu dkA
mi;ksx esa ifjorZu dkA¸
vki fdldk bUrtkj dj jgs gSaA vkidks cnyus ds fy, dksbZ
ugha vk,xkA vkidks [kqn cnyuk gksxkA vki le> yhft,A
ftUnxh dsoy dkVus ds fy, ugha gS] ftUnkfnyh ds lkFk thus ds

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 69


fy, gSA thou f?klV&f?klV dj thus ds fy, ugha gS] oju~ mM+ku
Hkjus ds fy, gSA ftUnxh dks cks> u lef>,A if{k;ksa dh rjg
pgpgk dj ftvksA vius dke ls I;kj djks] viuh ftUnxh ls
eqgCcr djksA tekus ls] ekgkSy ls vius ijk;ksa ls] gj ;qx ls ges'kk
ls fdlh u fdlh :i esa yksxksa dks f'kdk;r jgh gS] ijs'kkuh jgh
gSA ysfdu ftUnkfny yksxksa us viuh esgur] viuh yxu vkSj vius
iq#"kkFkZ ls tekus dk #[k cny fn;kA ekgkSy dks viuh vksj [khap
fy;kA vius dke dks #fp ,oa pkgr ds lkFk djksA ;fn dke
vkidh #fp ds vuq:i ugha gS rks vHkh Hkh dqN ugha fcxM+k]
cny MkyksA ysfdu ;kn j[kks dke esa liQyrk gh thou dh
liQyrk gSA n`f"Vdks.k vkSj lksp esa cnyko ds fy, ,d gh
mnkgj.k dkiQh gSA tks yksx viuh xyrh ij Hkh vfMx jgrs gSa
muds fy, lykg gS fd lksp cnydj dqy rhu 'kCn cksysa&

¶eSa 'kfe±nk gw¡A¸


I am sorry.

dqy rhu 'kCnA fdrus lh/s lkns] ysfdu vkpj.k fdruk


dfBu gSA ;fn budk mPpkj.k ân; ls gks rks okrkoj.k esa 'kgn
?kqy tkrk gSA vUrjkZRek r`Ir gks tkrh gSA

dHkh u dgks&
eSa Fkd x;k gw¡A
eSa cw<+k gks x;k gw¡A
eSa tYnh esa gw¡A
esjs o'k dh ckr ughaA
eSa detksj gw¡A
eSa ugha dj ldrkA
70 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
bl lksp dks rqjUr cny MkykssA
¶vxj rqe Bku yks]
rkjs xxu ls rksM+ ldrs gksA
vxj rqe pkg yks]
rwiQku dk eq[k eksM+ ldrs gksA¸
le; dk lnqi;ksx
thou dh fxurh o"kks± esa ugha gksrhA oju~ fxurh ;g gksrh gS
fd thou esa fdrus le; dk lnqi;ksx fd;k x;kA thrus ds fy,]
liQy gksus ds fy,] egku gksus ds fy, yEck thou ugha pkfg,A
pkfg, dsoy le; dk lnqi;ksxA foosdkuUn dqy 36 o"kZ rd
thfor jgsA D;k os vkt gekjs chp ftUnk ugha gSa\ vk|'kadjkpk;Z
dqy 32 o"kZ thfor jgsA bruh NksVh vofèk esa gh mUgksaus ikap ihBksa
dh LFkkiuk dj MkyhA lqdjkr] thll] xq: xksfoUn flag] lc
NksVh mez esa gh egku gks x,A
le; fuf'pr gS&
60 lsds.M izfrfeuV
60 feuV izfr?k.Vk
24 ?k.Vs izfrfnu
7 fnu izfr lIrkg
4 lIrkg izfr ekg
12 ekg izfr o"kZ
blesa vki dqN ugha dj ldrsA
le; dks ihNs ugha Hkst ldrsA
le; dks iQkWjoMZ ugha dj ldrsA
le; dks LVksj ugha dj ldrsA
le; dk dsoy mi;ksx fd;k tk ldrk gSA
D;ksafd le; dk dksbZ fodYi
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 71
;k Substitute ugha gSA
le; Free feyrk gS dksbZ pktZ ugha gSA
xqykc dk iwQy f[kykA [kq'kcw fc[ksjhA okrkoj.k lqxfUèkr gqvkA
gok dk rst >ksadk vk;kA iwQy eLr gks x;kA dqN nsj ckn
ia[kqfM+;ka fc[kj xb±A iwQy futhZo gks x;kA xqykc dks dkSu ilUn
ugha djrkA fdruk vYi thou gS ysfdu lHkh dks I;kjk gSA le;
dk iSekuk rks lcds fy, vyx&vyx gSA
"Time is—
Too slow for those who wait,
Too swift for those who fear,
Too long for those who sleep,
Too short for those who rejoice."
¶thou NksVk gks ysfdu lqxUèk iSQyk,A¸
le; jgrs mldk lnqi;ksx dj yks]
fiQj gkFk eyrs jg tkuk gksxkA
vkt vkSj vHkh
thr dk dke;kc uqL[kk
"Yesterday is a cancelled Cheque.
Tomorrow is Promissory Note.
Today is ready Cash.
So Encash your Today."

¶u dy Fkk]
u dy gksxkA
dsoy vkt]
;gh lR; gSA¸

dy vkSj vfuf'prrk dks NksM+dj vkt vkSj fuf'prrk esa


ft;ksA thr gksxhA u dy Fkk vkSj u dy gksxkA dy uke dk dksbZ
72 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
tho] tUrq] le;] pØ] voLFkk dqN Hkh ugha gSA vkidk le; rks
vkt vkSj vHkh gSA Hkfo"; dk fparu fd;k tk ldrk gS] euu
fd;k tk ldrk gS] ;kstuk cukbZ tk ldrh gSA ysfdu fpark ugha
dh tk ldrhA D;ksafd Hkfo"; dh T;knkrj ;kstuk,¡ viuk vkdkj
gh ugha ys ikrh gSa fiQj ;g Hkh rks lR; gS fd&
¶{k.k Hkaxqj thou dh dfydk]
dy izkr% tkus f[kys u f[kys¸
tc gesa vius vxys iy dk gh irk ugha gS rks ge dy dh
fpark esa viuk vkt D;ksa u"V djsaA dy dh fpark ls tks le;
cpsxk mls vkt esa yxk,axs rks vkt lqèkjsxkA vkt lqèkjsxk rks ;g
Hkh gekjk foxr dy vFkkZr~ chrk gqvk dy gksxk] tks lq[kn dgk
tk,xkA vr% gesa ladYi djuk pkfg, fd&
¶eSa vkt gh dke d:axkA¸
vkSj pqukSrh nsuh gksxh fd]
¶dy rw pkgs] tks dj ysuk]
eSa dy ls ugha MjrkA¸
tks chr x;k mls dksbZ okil ugha yk ldrkA
,d nk'kZfud us fy[kk gS fd lc dqN cnyrk gS dsoy
cnyko dk fu;e ugha cnyrkA thou Hkh iy&iy cnyrk gSA
dsoy vkt lR; gSA vkt dk miHkksx djksA vkt dk Lokxr
djksA vkt dk vfHkuanu djksA dsoy vkt gh vkids dneksa ds
uhps Bksl èkjrh gSA ,d dy pyk x;k vkSj nwljk dy vHkh
dksgjk gSA tc ge Bksl èkjrh ij dne j[ksaxs rHkh rks vkxs dne
c<+k ik,axsA vkt rd ogh yksx thrs gSa ftUgksaus viuh fLFkfr dks
vkt tSlh gS mlh :i esa Lohdkj dj fy;k gS vkSj vius dke esa
tqV x,A

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 73


vkt vdsyk gS
chrs gq, dy ds lkFk ;knsa gksrh gSa] vrhr dk vuqHko gksrk
gSA vkus okys dy ds lkFk vk'kk,a gksrh gSaA bPNk,¡ gksrh gSaA
ysfdu vkt ges'kk vdsyk gksrk gSA vkt rks okLrfod èkjkry
gksrk gSA vkt esa thus okys vdsys gksrs gSaA
vdsys O;fDr dh xfr rst gksrh gS D;ksafd mls fdlh dh
izrh{kk ugha djuh gksrhA og viuh ;k=kk dks rqjUr 'kq: dj nsrk
gS D;ksafd mls fdlh dh ijokg ugha gksrhA vr% fdlh dh izrh{kk
u djksA vkidks vdsys gh thruk gSA thr dk jkLrk vkius vdsys
pquk gSA ifjJe Hkh vdsys gh djuk gksxkA izrh{kk esa le; u
xaokvksA dksbZ rqEgsa ugha ftrk ik,xkA gk¡ ;g gks ldrk gS fd dksbZ
nwljk vkidh dqN lgk;rk dj ns] ysfdu vUrr% thrus ds fy,
vkidks la?k"kZ rks vdsys gh djuk gksxkA
tSls vkidks fdlh egÙoiw.kZ O;fDr ;k vfèkdkjh ls feyuk
gSA }kjiky vkidh bruh lgk;rk rks dj nsxk fd Hkou ds eq[;
}kj ls vkidks ogk¡ rd igq¡pk ns tgk¡ og O;fDr cSBk gSA }kjiky
vkidks ml O;fDr ds ikl igq¡pkdj okil gks tk,xkA vc vkxs
ml O;fDr ls feyus] viuh ckr dgus] viuh iQfj;kn euokus
vkfn ds dke rks vkidks Lo;a djus gksaxsA ;fn vki viuh ckr
euokus esa] viuk bfPNr dk;Z djk ysus esa liQy jgs rks vkidh
thr gS] vliQy jgs rks vkidh gkj gSA blesa }kjiky vkidh dksbZ
lgk;rk ugha dj ldrkA tks dqN Hkh gksuk gS orZeku esa gh gksuk
gSA tSls vki liQj dj jgs gSa] jkLrs ds fy, vkids ikl [kkus dk
lkeku gSA vkidks Hkw[k yxh rks D;k vki fdlh dh izrh{kk djrs
gSa fd dksbZ vU; ;k=kh [kk;s rc vki [kk;saxs ;k iQyka LVs'ku
vk,xk rc [kk;axsA ugha] Hkw[k yxrs gh vki fVfiQu [kksyrs gSa vkSj
uk'rk dj ysrs gSaA vr% fdlh dh izrh{kk u djksA vdsys gh vkxs
c<+ksA vkt gh vkxs c<+ksA
74 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
vkt dk xf.kr
vkt gh lR; gSA vkt esa u dqN tksM+uk gS vkSj u dqN ?kVkuk
gSA tks dy chr x;k gS] mlesa Hkh yksx dqN tksM+rs ?kVkrs jgrs gSaA
tks dy vkus okyk gS mlds fy, Hkh rkuk ckuk cquuk iM+sxkA
ysfdu vkt rks okLrfod gSA
¶ftlus tkuk vkt] mlus iguk rktA¸
vki dYiuk Hkh ugha dj ldrs gSa fd vki fdruh vlhe
'kfDr ds ekfyd gSaA fdruh [kqf'k;ka vkidk bUrtkj dj jgh gSaA
vkids Åij rks thr dh vkSj [kqf'k;ksa dh cjlkr gks ldrh gS]
c'krsZ vki pkgsaA u, ckny cjlus ds fy, rS;kj gSa ysfdu vki
vrhr dh fpUrk esa ?kqys tk jgs gSaA Hkfo"; dh [kkst esa O;Lr gSaA
vki orZeku esa ugha gSa] tcfd cjlkr dsoy orZeku esa gksrh gSA
dqN ikus dk ,d gh le; gS orZekuA ftl fnu vki orZeku esa
gh thvksxs] mlh fnu vkidks lc dqN fey tk,xkA
vkt fdruk lqUnj gS
vxj vki vkt dk jgL; tku x, rks eglwl djsaxs fd vkt
fdruk lqUnj gS] fdruk lq[kn gS] fdruk vkuUnnk;d gSA bl
lqUnjrk dk o.kZu ugha gks ldrkA bls dsoy eglwl fd;k tk
ldrk gSA dsoy vkufUnr gqvk tk ldrk gS] D;ksafd vkt esa thrs
gq,] vkt esa dke djus dk larks"k gh lcls cM+k vkuUn gSA dqN
lq[kn ?kVuk,a rks ;gka Lo;a gh ?kfVr gks jgh gSa tSls&
fdlh ifjUns ls iwNks fd os lqcg&lqcg D;ksa pgpgkrs gSa\
D;ksa xhr xkrs gSa\
iwQyksa ls iwNks fd izkr%dky muds f[kyus dk dkj.k D;k gS\
nhid ls dksbZ iwNs fd mldh jks'kuh dk D;k jkt gS\
eNyh ls ikuh dk Lokn iwNk tk,A

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 75


HkkSjksa ls iwNks fd os D;ksa xquxqukrs gSa\
bu lcdk jkt ;gh gS fd ;s lc u dsoy orZeku esa thrs gSa
cfYd gj iy dks thrs gq, mldk lnqi;ksx djrs gSa] mldk
vkuUn ysrs gSaA fdlh dh izrh{kk ugha djrsA
dy dks NksM+uk iM+sxk
chrk gqvk dy] iqjkuk gks pqdkA tSls cklh v[kckj dksbZ ugha
i<+rk mlh rjg ^dy* esa fpids jguk O;FkZ gSA dqN u;k djuk
gS rks igys iqjkuk NksM+uk iM+sxkA tc rd iqjkus esa fpids jgksxs rc
rd u, rd ugha igq¡p ldrsA tcfd thrus ds fy, u;k ls u;k
vFkkZr~ orZeku pkfg,A dgkor Hkh gS fd&
¶dksbZ u;k leUnj ugha ns[k ldrk tc
rd fd og leUnj dk fdukjk u NksM+sA¸
tks yksx ihNs eqM+dj ugha ns[krs mudh fdruh lqUnj lksp gksrh
gSA os orZeku esa fdrus lq[kh jgrs gSaA e`R;q ds le; egku nk'kZfud
Fkksjks ls tc iwNk x;k fd D;k bl le; vki ijekRek ds lkFk
'kkfUr ls gSa\ Fkksjks us eqLdjk dj mÙkj fn;k]
¶eq>s ;kn ugha fd ge dHkh >xM+s Hkh FksA¸
orZeku fdruk lqUnj gS\ yksx orZeku ls fdruk lUrq"V gSa]
,d NksVk mnkgj.k nsf[k,A
lqdjkr ds f'k"; ,fUVlFksuht ds f'k"; Mk;ksftuht fnu esa Hkh
ykyVsu ysdj pyrs FksA Vc esa lksrs FksA mudk ekuuk Fkk fd lksus
ds fy, Vc ls vfèkd txg ugha pkfg,A ,d ckj Mk;ksftuht
Vc esa vkjke dj jgs FksA fldUnj muds n'kZuksa ds fy, vk;kA
fldUnj us iwNk] egksn; eSa vkidh D;k lsok dj ldrk gw¡\
Mk;ksftuht cksys]
¶vkt dh rks bruh gh lsok gS fd rqe esjs lkeus ls gV
tkvks vkSj vkt dh ubZ /wi vkus nks tks rqeus lkeus [kM+s
76 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
gksdj jksd j[kh gSA¸
lqudj fldUnj [kq'k Hkh gqvk vkSj vkReXykfu Hkh gqbZA mlus
dgk ¶vkt eSa fldUnj u gksrk rks Mk;ksftuht cuuk ilUn
djrkA¸
tks yksx iqjkuk ugha NksM+rs iqjkus ls gh fpids jgrs gSa os vUrr%
nq%[kh vkSj thr ls nwj jgrs gSaA
vkt dh ckr&vkids fy,
Hkwrdky dHkh okil ugha vkrk] fiQj mldh fpUrk D;ksa\
Hkfo"; dHkh ns[kk ugha] fiQj mldh fpUrk D;ksa\
dsoy vkt esjk viuk gS] bldk eSa Hkjiwj mi;ksx d:axkA
I;kj ds lkFk izlUu eu ls bu iafDr;ksa dks nksgjkb,&
izkr%dky &
'kqHkdkeuk ---------------------- vkt dk fnu 'kqHk gksA
nksigj &
c/kbZ ------------------------------ vkt ds fnu ds fy,A
jkf=kdky &
/U;okn ------------------------- vkt dk fnu cM+k 'kqHk jgkA
fpUrk ls nwj
lHkh us dgk gS fd fpfUrr jguk ew[kZrk gSA
nl gtkj xqtjs gq, ^dy* Hkh vkt (orZeku) dh cjkcjh
ugha dj ldrs] fiQj ge dy ls D;ksa fpids jgsaA dgk x;k gS&
¶fprk eqnsZ dks [kkrh gS]
fpUrk ftUns dks tykrh gSA¸
¶ihNs >kadus dh vknr mruh gh cqjh gS ftruh
vkxs >kadus dhA
nksuksa dsoy fpUrk djkrh gSA¸
¶eqnkZ dks fey tkr gSa diM+k] ydM+k] vkxA
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 77
ftUnk uj fpUrk djs] rkds cM+s vHkkxA¸
&lar opu
fpUrk dks nwj isaQdks] og rqEgkjk D;k dj ysxhA dqN ughaA
fpark D;ksa
dsoy nks ckrsa gh gks ldrh gSa&
;k rks LoLFk ;k chekjA
;fn LoLFk gSa rks fpUrk dh ckr ugha] ;fn chekj
gSa rks]
nks ckrsa gh gks ldrh gSaA
;k rks LoLFk gks tkvksxs ;k fiQj ekSrA
;fn LoLFk gks x, rks fpUrk dh ckr ugha] ;fn
ekSr gqbZ rks]
nks ckrsa gks ldrh gSa] ;k rks LoxZ feysxk ;k
ujd]
;fn LoxZ feyk rks cYys&cYys] ;fn ujd feyk
rks
iqjkus nksLrksa ls gkFk feykus ls gh iqQlZr ugha feysxhA
fpUrk ds fy, le; dgka] fiQj D;ksa fpfUrr gksA
¶vkneh ftldh fpUrk djrk gS] mlh dks NksM+dj ejrk
gSA¸
detksj dM+h
us=kghu og ugha gS] ftldh vka[ksa ugha gSa] us=kghu og gS ftls
vius nks"k fn[kkbZ ugha nsrsA egkdfo lwjnkl vUèks Fks ysfdu D;k
os egku ugha gks x,A
viuh detksj dM+h dks <wa<ksA bldk lcls vPNk mik; gS fd
Lo;a ls izfrLièkkZ djksA jkstkuk viuk ewY;kadu djksA dy dh
78 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
vis{kk D;k vkt dqN lqèkkj gqvk gS\ bZekunkjh ls viuh dfe;ksa
dh lwph cukvksA lcls detksj dM+h ij lcls igys Bksdj ekjksA
VwV iM+ks] fudky ckgj isaQdksA èkhjs&èkhjs lc dfe;ka nwj gks tk,axhA
jkstkuk ,d vPNk dke djksA
dfe;ka vius vki de gksrh tk,axhA
eqLdjkuk
¶eqLdjk dj xe dk tgj]
ftldks ihuk vk x;kA
;g gdhdr gS fd tgka esa]
mldks thuk vk x;kA¸
tc ge galrs gSa rks psgjs dh yxHkx pkj lkS isf'k;ka lapkfyr
gksrh gSa vkSj tc ge Øksèk djrs gSa rks yxHkx 150 isf'k;ka pyrh
gSaA vr%
¶galus ls vPNh dksbZ nokbZ ugha]
Øksèk ls cM+h dksbZ cqjkbZ ughaA¸
galus ls vPNh dksbZ nokbZ ugha gS (Laughter is the best
medicine)A mnkl vkSj cq>s psgjs okyk vkneh u rks O;kikj dj
ldrk gS vkSj u thr gkfly dj ldrk gSA thrus okyksa ds psgjs
ges'kk eqLdjkrs jgrs gSaA os ehBh galh fc[ksjrs jgrs gSaA eqLdjkrs
psgjs] pedrs jgrs gSa vkSj psgjs esa ykyh cjdjkj jgrh gSA bl
dke dks gj O;fDr dj ldrk gS D;ksafd blesa dksbZ ykxr ugha
yxrh gSA
¶;fn vius dks vkSj vfèkd tkuuk gS rks galh dks
viuk yksA¸
galuk LokLF; ds fy, ,d cgqeYw ; vkS"kfèk gSA ;g vfr';ksfDr
ugha gSA oju ;g oSKkfud :i ls lR; fl¼ gks pqdk gSA oSKkfudksa
dh jk; gS fd ;fn dksbZ O;fDr [kqys eu ls HkjisV gals rks og nnZ]
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 79
chekjh vkSj ruko ls eqDr gks ldrk gSA ,d if=kdk esa izdkf'kr
ys[k ds vuqlkj ,d ijh{k.k esa 10 â"V&iq"V O;fDr;ksa dks ,d
?k.Vs dh ,slh fiQYe fn[kkbZ xbZ rks yxkrkj mUgsa galkrh jghA
fiQYe ds ckn bu O;fDr;ksa dh tkap dh xbZ rks ik;k x;k fd bu
O;fDr;ksa ds 'kjhj esa dkiQh ek=kk esa ghfyax dSfedy mRiUu gqvk
gSA lkFk gh og dSfedy Hkh mRiUu gqvk ftlls 'okal lEcUèkh
chekfj;ksa ls yM+us dh {kerk c<+rh gSA galus ds nkSjku fnekx esa
izkd`frd isu fdyj Hkh iSnk gq, rFkk ruko nwj djus okys gkeksZUl
Hkh rS;kj gq,A
tjk lk galus eqLdjkus esa bruk lkjk iQk;nk] rks fiQj galus esa
gekjk tkrk gh D;k gS\ ysfdu galus dk dke mfpr vuqfpr
volj igpku dj djsaA dgha ,slk u gks fd fdlh ds ?kj esa 'kksd
dk ekgkSy gks vkSj ogka tkdj vki galus yxsa ;k izlUu jgus dh
lykg nsus yxsaA
¶ekuks ;k u ekuks ;g gdhdr gSA
galh bUlku dh t:jr gSA¸
HkzkfUr;ka
HkzkfUr;ka vius vki esa foifÙk;ksa dh ekrk gksrh gSaA bu HkzkfUr;ksa
us ges'kk yksxksa dks gjk;k gSA HkzkfUr;ka ges'kk fouk'k dk dkj.k cuh
gSaA fdrus gh yksx jLlh dks lkai] >kfM+;ksa dks Hkwr] yky jax dks
[kwu le>dj thou ls Hkh gkFk èkks cSBsA pkanuh jkr esa rirh
nksigjh esa jsr ds eSnku dks ikuh dk rkykc le>dj fgju HkVd
dj izk.k ns nsrk gSA dLrwjh dh xUèk esa fgju HkVdrk jgrk gS vkSj
f'kdkj cu tkrk gSA pkjk ns[kdj eNfy;ka eqag esa dkaVk iaQlk ysrh
gSaA tqvk¡jh thr ds Hkze esa lc dqN nkao ij yxk nsrs gSaA
vc le; vk x;k gS] okLrfodrk ls ifjfpr gksb,A lgh jkg
ij] lgh uhfr ls pydj uj okujksa dh iafDr ls fudydj
80 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
egkekuoksa dh drkj esa yx tkb,A gesa dq'ky dsoV cudj thou
uS;k dks ikj yxkuk gSA viuk y{; ikuk gSA egkiq#"kksa us dgk gS
¶euq"; Lo;a viuk HkkX;foèkkrk gksrk gSA ,d eqêòh esa thr gS vkSj
nwljh eqêòh esa gkj gSA tkx ldks rks tkxksA
Hk; R;kxks
euq"; viuh rkdr dks igpku ugha ik jgk gSA ;fn og pkgs
rks Hk; dks vius ikl rd vkus gh u nsA ;fn og vius eu dks
etcwr dj ys rks Hk; uke dk 'kSrku nwj [kM+k dkairk jgsxkA tSls
ge vius dejs dk njoktk u [kksysa rks D;k lw;Z dh fdj.ksa
tcjnLrh dejs esa ?kql tk,axhA ugha tc vki njoktk [kksysaxs] rHkh
lwjt dh jks'kuh] rkth gok vkids dejs esa ?kqlsxhA blh izdkj eu
dk njoktk vPNh lksp] mRlkgtud vkSj lq[knk;h ckrksa ds fy,
[kksfy,A ;g D;ksa lksprs gks fd ,slk gks tk,xk] oSlk gks tk,xkA
vjs esjs HkkbZ] ;g tc gksxk] rc ns[kk tk,xkA vkt gh D;ksa ?kqys
tk jgs gks\ vkt gh D;ksa lw[ks tk jgs gks\ vkt rks vius lq;ksxksa
dks HkksxksA vkt esa nq;ksZxksa dh Nk;k D;ksa Mky jgs gks\
liQyrk vkSj thr dk Hkh xf.kr vkSj foKku ds fu;eksa dh
Hkkafr viuk fu;e gSA ;fn ge thr lkspsaxs] thr dh fn'kk esa dne
c<+k,axs] ckj&ckj thr ds xhr xk,axs] rks gesa thr vo'; feysxhA
;gh vVy fu;e gSA bl fu;e dks ikus ds fy, gekjs ikl vrqY;
'kfDr gSA dsoy igpkuus dh nsj gSA ;fn gesa ;g le> esa vk
tk, fd ge fo/krk ds va'k gSa] ge fo'o 'kfDr ds va'k gSa rks
Hk; nwj Hkkx [kM+k gksxkA ge 'kfDr ds vrqy Hk.Mkj gSaA bl 'kfDr
dks lgh fn'kk esa ftruk [kpZ djsaxs] ;g mruh gh vf/d c<sxhA
¶thou cgqr lqUnj gS] cgqr 'kkunkj gS] cgqr xkSjoiw.kZ gS]
vrqyuh; gSA ysfdu ge bls vkSj vf/d lqUnj] 'kkunkj] xkSjoiw.kZ
cuk ldrs gSa] ;fn viuh 'kfDr dks igpku ysaA ;fn ugha igpku
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 81
ikrs gSa rks blesa nks"k Lo;a dk gh gSA
vxj u tkurs gks rks tku yks] Hk; dh ekrk fpUrk] vkSj fpUrk
dh ekrk vKkurkA vKkurk dk dkj.k gS lEcfU/r ckr dh
[kkstchu u djuk vkSj ;g [kkstchu vkidks Lo;a djuh gksxhA
Hk; vkSj vKkurk dqN LokFkhZ yksxksa }kjk Hkh iSQykbZ tkrh gSA os
vKkuh] yksxksa dk 'kks"k.k djrs gSaA
;g ckr xkaB cka/ yks fd cqjkbZ vkSj Hk; dh viuh dksbZ
rkdr ugha gksrhA ge mlls ftruk Mjrs gSa] og gekjh gh rkdr
ysdj mruh cyoku gksrh gSA vxj ge cqjkbZ vkSj Hk; dks rqPN
le>sa] rks og gekjk dqN ugha fcxkM+ ldrhA ;g rks ,d
euksoSKkfud fl¼kUr gS fd vkneh ftl pht dh vksj T;knk è;ku
nsxk] og mlh dks viuh vksj vkdf"kZr djsxhA ;g 'kk'or lR;
gS fd vkneh tks pkgs dj ldrk gSA
lc dkeksa dks thr dh vksj eksM+ nks
thr dks ikus ds fy,] vius y{; dks ikus ds fy,] viuh
bPNk dks iwjk djus ds fy, ;g vko';d gS fd ml y{; dks
ikus ds fy, ftruh Hkh lgk;d fØ;k,a djuh gksrh gSa mUgsa ewy
y{; dh vksj eksM+ fn;k tk,A
vkidk ewy y{; gS edku cuokukA edku cu tkus dks gh
vki thr eku jgs gSaA vc edku cuokus ds fy, cgqr lkjs NksVs
dke djus gksaxs tSls tehu dh O;oLFkk] lhesUV dh O;oLFkk] b±V
[kjhnuk] gksf'k;kj dkjhxj ykuk] etnwj ykuk vkfn vkfnA vc
;fn ;g lc dke edku cukus ds mís'; ls fd, tk,axs rks 'kh?kzrk
ls edku cu tk,xkA ysfdu ;fn fcuk lksps le>s dke fd;k
tk,xk rc fiQj edku ugha cusxkA tSls tks dkjhxj yk;k x;k og
iqy cukus esa ;k cka/ cukus esa gksf'k;kj Fkk mls edku cukus dk
Kku gh ugha Fkk] b±V dh txg iRFkj bdêòk dj fy;k x;k] lhesUV
82 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
de ek=kk esa vkSj jsr T;knk ek=kk esa gks x;kA tks etnwj vk;k og
otu <ksus ds dkfcy gh ugha FkkA vc vki gh crkb, D;k edku
cu ik,xk\ dHkh ughaA
dgus dk <ax
¶ckr gh dqN vkSj gS¸
,d le>nkj O;fDr tkurk gS fd mls dc D;k dguk gS\
exj ,d Kkuh tkurk gS fd mls dc D;k ugha dguk gSA
"A wise man knows when what to say but the wiser
knows when what not to say."
ln~O;ogkj dh igyh 'krZ gS fd ge nwljksa dk vknj djsaA ;fn
vknj djsaxs rks vknjiw.kZ opu cksysaxsA vkxs lc dqN Bhd&Bkd
gh jgsxkA D;ksafd dqN lkspus dh] dqN fpUrk djus dh] dqN
Dys'k djus dh t:jr gh ugha iM+sxhA vknj ls] izse ls] feBkl ls]
tks dqN Hkh dgk tk,xk] cksyk tk,xk] lHkh dks lq[k gh lq[k
feysxkA lHkh dks izlUurk gh izlUurk feysxhA
nwljh vksj nqoZpu cksyksxsA vieku djksxsA fujknj djksxs] rks
bldk iQy Hkh cqjk gksxkA nwljs dks rks ckn esa irk pysxk] igys
Lo;a dks Dys'k djuk iM+sxkA Hkhrj ls Lo;a nq%[kh gksuk iM+sxkA
nwljs ds izfr igys cqjk Hkko cukuk iM+sxk] rc tkdj dgha nqoZpu
cksy ikvksxsA vi'kCn cksy ikvksxsA ns[kk] fdruk dqN djuk iM+k]
dsoy ,d vi'kCn cksyus ds fy,A blds vykok vi'kCn cksyus
ds ckn mls okil ugha ys ldrsA og rks èkuq"k ls NwVk gqvk rhj
gSA pkgs ftruh {kek ekaxks] pkgs ftruk i'pkrki djksA vi'kCn
okil ugha vk ldrsA
nwljh vksj ln~O;ogkjh dk lkjk le; vkxs dh thr esa yxrk
gS vkSj vUr esa og lcdks thr ysrk gSA lcdk I;kjk gks tkrk gSA
;gh rks thr gSA

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 83


lqUnj <ax
ckr ogh gS] dsoy dgus dk <ax vyx&vyx gSA vPNs yksx
mlh ckr dks bl izdkj ls dgrs gSa fd lquus okyksa dks Bsl u yxs
vkSj ckr Hkh iwjh gks tk,A fodjkyrk ds ckotwn] lquus okys dks
lq[kdj yxsA jkek;.k esa izlax vkrk gS fd Jhjke dks 14 o"kZ dk
ouokl gqvkA jke viuh ekrk dkS'kY;k ls vkKk ysus igqapsA jke
pkgrs rks dkS'kY;k ekrk ls dg ldrs Fks& eka] firkth us eq>s 14
o"kZ dk ouokl ns fn;k gS] eSa taxyksa esa] chgM+ksa esa HkVdus tk jgk
gw¡A ysfdu blesa eka dkS'kY;k dks èkDdk yx ldrk FkkA gks ldrk
gS dkS'kY;k bls lgu u dj ikrhA jke us prqjkbZ ls blh ckr dks
bl izdkj dgk&
¶cjl pkj nl] dkuu jktwA¸

eka eq>s igys pkj vkSj nl o"kks± ds fy, taxy dk jktk cuk;k
x;k gSA vHkh ;g fnu x, vkSj eSa okil vkidh lsok esa fiQj
gkftj gqvkA dgus dk <ax fdruk lqUnj gSA dkS'kY;k dks vkHkkl
Hkh ugha gqvk fd ouokl fdruk nq"dj gSA
,slh Hkk"kk ehBh ykxs
dksbZ fojksèk ugha dj ldrkA dksbZ Øksèk ugha dj ldrk gSA
fdlh dks d"V ugha gks ldrkA dsoy vknku&iznku dk loky gSA
¶,slh ckuh cksfy;s] eu dk vkik [kks;A
vkSju dks 'khry djs] vkigq 'khry gks;AA¸
lcls cM+k vknku&iznku dk ekè;e gS vkidh ok.khA vkidh
cksy&pkyA ;gh ,d gS ftldk vknku&iznku fu%'kqYd gksrk gSA
èku] inkFkZ] Je] 'kfDr dk vknku&iznku rks fdlh [kkl dke ls]
fdlh [kkl mís'; ;k fdlh [kkl volj ij gh gksrk gSA ysfdu

84 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


ok.kh dk vknku&iznku rks gj {k.k gksrk gh jgrk gSA pkgs euksjatu
ds fy, gksA pkgs ftKklk iwjh djus ds fy, gksA pkgs pqIih rksM+us
ds fy, gksA pkgs Øksèk O;Dr djuk gksA pkgs I;kj iznf'kZr djuk
gksA ;gh ok.kh ;g crkrh gS fd cksyus okys dk LoHkko dSlk gS\
pfj=k dSlk gS\ O;fDrRo dSlk gS\ ok.kh dh viuh 'kfDr gksrh gSA
;g rks cksyus okys ij fuHkZj djrk gS fd og dVq opu cksyrk
gS] ;k eèkqj opu cksyrk gSA tgk¡ eèkqj opu ijk, dks Hkh viuk
cuk ysrs gSa] ogha dVq opu pksV igqapkrs gSaA vkgr djrs gSaA
dks;y vkSj dkSos dh ok.kh dk vUrj lkjk lalkj tkurk gSA
viuh uezrk] nwljksa dk lEeku] vkReh;rk dk ysiu bu rhuksa dk
?kksy gh ok.kh dks eèkqj cukrk gSA vr% lkFkZd ok.kh cksfy,A
vgadkj NksM+dj cksfy,A lkeus okys dks vkufUnr djus ds fy,
cksfy,A
¶dqnjr dks ukilUn gS]
l[rh tqcku esaA
blfy, rks ugha nh]
mlus gîóh tqcku esaA¸
fiz;oknh dks dgha foifÙk ugha gSA dksbZ d"V ugha gSA og
lcdk fiz; gksrk gS] tcfd vfiz;oknh dks txg&txg foifÙk gSA
,d ckj nkar vkSj thHk esa >xM+k gks x;kA nkar cksys] rw ge 32
ds chp vdsyh jgdj Hkh bBykrh gSA ge ftl fnu pkgsaxs mlh
fnu rq>s pck tk,axsA ygqyqgku gks tk,xhA thHk cksyh] rqe cÙkhlksa
ds fy, eSa vdsyh gh dkiQh gw¡A ,d fnu lkeus ls ,d igyoku
tk jgk FkkA thHk us viuk deky fn[kk;kA og igyoku dks
vfiz; cksyh vkSj xkyh ns nhA igyoku dks xqLlk vk x;kA mlus
eqag ij ,d eqDdk tM+ fn;kA cÙkhlksa nkaar fudydj ckgj vk
fxjsA ns[kk vkius vfiz; cksyus dk dekyA cqtqxks± us lykg nh gS
fd ges'kk ehBk vkSj fiz; cksyks] vkidks thr feysxhA
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 85
¶uezrk vkSj ehBs opu euq"; ds vkHkw"k.k gSaA¸
&Lokeh foosdkuUn
vki vfHkO;fDr ls cp ugha ldrs
dksbZ Hkh O;fDr] ;gk¡ rd fd dksbZ tho lUns'kksa ds vkokxeu
vFkkZr~ lEizs"k.k izfØ;k dks jksd ugha ldrkA cksydj ;k fcuk
cksys] og gj le; dqN u dqN lUns'kksa dk vknku&iznku djrk gh
jgrk gSA gj O;fDr lEizs"k.k ds fy, ckè; gSA og lksrs] tkxrs]
[kkrs&ihrs] mBrs&cSBrs lEizs"k.k vo'; djsxk] pkgs og dkjksckjh
gks ;k lkekftd ;k jktuSfrdA ;g lEizs"k.k tc fu[kjk gqvk gksrk
gS] Js"B gksrk gS rc og vkids O;fDrRo esa pkj pkan yxk nsrk
gS] vkSjksa ij vf/dkj djus dh rkdr Hkh ns nsrk gSA ckrphr ds
}kjk gh rks cM+s&cM+s ifjorZu yk, tkrs gSaA blls fo'o ;q¼ rd
jksds tkrs gSaA
ckrphr 'kq: djus vFkok ;g dgsa fd lEizs"k.k izfØ;k ds
izkjEHk ds dqN {k.k cgqr gh egÙoiw.kZ gksrs gSaA ;fn bu {k.kksa dh
Iykfuax dj yh tk, rks cgqr dqN thrk tk ldrk gSA

First impression is the last impression.

vkidks igyk izHkko Mkyus dk nwljk ekSdk dHkh ugha feyrkA


vki eqag [kksyus ls igys gh viuk igyk oDrO; ns pqds gksrs gSaA
vkids diM+s] vkidk igukok] vkidh pky <ky] vkidh Hkko
Hkafxek] vkids cksyus ls igys gh cksy pqds gksrs gSaA lkeus okyk
bUgha ds ekè;e ls vkids ckjs esa fcuk dqN dgs gh tku pqdk
gksrk gSA vkidh ok.kh rks lEizs"k.k esa deky gh djrh gSA
½f"k v"VkoØ tc Kku ppkZ ds fy, jktk tud ds njckj
esa igqaps rks ogka mifLFkr lkjs fo}ku vkSj if.Mr mUgsa ns[kdj gal
86 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
iM+sA ½f"k lHkk esa migkl ds ik=k cusA nwljk dksbZ gksrk rks cxys
>kadus yxrk ;k ?kcjk tkrkA yksxksa ds galrs gh os jktlHkk ls
okil tkus yxsA fdlh us Vksdk& ½f"koj vki rks Kku ppkZ ds
fy, vk, gSa] fiQj okil D;ksa tk jgs gSa\ ½f"k us iwjh lHkk dks
lqukrs gq, dgk] ¶lquk Fkk jktk tud ds njckj esa cM+s mPp dksfV
ds Kkuh] rÙofpUrd vkSj if.Mr cSBrs gSa ysfdu ;gka rks lc
peM+s vkSj gîóh ds O;kikjh cSBs gSaA ;gka Kku dh ppkZ eSa fdlds
lkFk d:axk\ blfy, okil tk jgk gw¡A lHkk esa lUukVk Nk x;kA
fiQj fdlh us Vksdk ¶ysfdu ½f"koj bl lHkk esa cSBs Kkuh vkSj
if.Mrksa dk vieku djus dk vkidks dksbZ vf/dkj ugha gSA ½f"k
fiQj cksys] tks yksx esjs u'oj 'kjhj dks ns[kdj gal jgs gSa] vius
vUnj cSBs czã dks ugha igpku jgs gSa] mUgsa czã ls vf/d gîóh
vkSj peM+h ilUn gSA os gîóh vkSj peM+s ds O;kikjh ugha rks vkSj
D;k gSa\ lHkh us flj >qdk fy;kA vUr esa lHkh us ½f"k dks cM+s
è;ku vkSj euks;ksx ls lqukA ½f"k dh ok.kh dk izHkko bruk xgjk
Fkk fd mlesa muds 'kjhj dh dq#irk yqIr gks xbZA
cksyh ls igpkus Hkh tk ldrs gSa
vkidh ckr] vkidh cksyh gh ;g igpku djk nsrh gS fd
vki D;k gSa\ dksbZ O;fDr fdruk xgjk] fdruk mFkyk gS bldk
Kku mldh Hkk"kk ls gks tkrk gSA mlds dkeksa ls] mlds O;ogkj
ls] mlds cksy ls] xgjkbZ dh >yd feyrh gSA
,d vU/k iQdhj jktiFk ds chpksa&chp [kM+k FkkA jktk dh
lokjh fudyuh FkhA lokjh ls igys dqN iSny flikgh ogka ls
xqtjsA cksys] vU/s gks D;k\ fn[krk ugha] egkefge dh lokjh vk
jgh gS] gVks ;gka lsA flikfg;ksa us iQdhj dks /edk fn;kA flikgh
pys x,] ysfdu iQdhj fiQj ogha [kM+k jgk vkSj cksyk&vPNk!
FkksM+h nsj ckn dqN ?kqM+lokj lSfud fudysA cksys gVks] gVks] jktk
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 87
dh lokjh vk jgh gSA ,d rjiQ gks tkvksA ?kqM+lokj pys x;sA
iQdhj cksyk&vPNk! iQdhj fiQj mlh txg [kM+k gks x;kA dqN
nsj ckn othj lkgc fudys] mUgksaus iQdhj dks ns[kk] vkSj pqipki
pys x;sA iQdhj cksyk&vPNk! dqN nsj ckn jktk dh lokjh
fudyhA jktk us iQdhj dks ns[kkA jFk ds uhps mrjk] iQdhj ds iSj
Nq, vkSj iz.kke fd;kA iQdhj cksyk] yxrk gS jktk vk x;kA og
fiQj cksyk&cgqr vPNk! tc jktk dh lokjh fudy xbZA rc ogka
[kM+s yksxks us iQdhj ls iwNk] vki ckj&ckj vPNk] vPNk D;ksa dg
jgs Fks\ iQdhj cksyk] tks ftruk xgjk gS mldk O;ogkj mruk gh
mÙke gSA tks mFkyk gS mldk O;ogkj Hkh vgadkj ls Hkjk gSA D;k
rqEgsa jktk vkSj flikfg;ksa ds O;ogkj vkSj Hkk"kk esa vUrj irk ugha
yxkA
cksyrs le; dqN ckrksa ls cpuk pkfg,&
dVq opu
dqN ckrsa lquus okys ds g`n; esa ,sslk ?kko djrh gSa fd os fiQj
ml ?kko dks Hkj ugha ikrsA egkHkkjr ;q¼ dh dFkk dgrh gS fd
bl ;q¼ dk ,dek=k dkj.k nzkSinh }kjk nq;ksZ/u dks ¶vU/s dk csVk
vU/k** dguk Fkk vkSj nq;ksZèku }kjk nzkSinh dks ikap ifr;ksa okyh
os';k dguk FkkA nksuksa opu brus dVq Fks fd vUr esa lagkj dk
dkj.k cusA
^^nqoZpu i'kqvksa rd dks vfiz; gSaA**
&xkSre cq¼
fcuk fopkjs cksyuk
cksyus ls igys fopkj u djuk [krjukd gks ldrk gSA ckr
rhj cu ldrh gS vkSj NwVk gqvk rhj dHkh okil ugha vkrkA
,d efgyk vius chekj ifr dks ns[kus ds fy, vLirky xbZA
88 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
ifr cksyk] vc cq[kkj rks VwV x;k gS] dsoy Vkax esa nnZ jg x;k
gSA efgyk cksyh] dYyw ds ikik] /hjt j[kksA tc cq[kkj VwV x;k
gS rks /hjs&/hjs Vkax Hkh VwV tk,xhA
;|fi cksyus okys dh ea'kk xyr ugha gS ysfdu ;g fcuk
fopkjs cksyus dk urhtk gSA D;ksafd bl rjg ckrksa ds vFkZ cny
ldrs gSa] ftlls xyr izHkko iM+ ldrk gSA
ckr&ckr esa ckr
tSls I;kt dh xkaB ls fNydk mrkjus yxks rks ijr nj ijr
fNydk rks mrjrk tk,xk] ysfdu vUr esa I;kt uke dh dksbZ xkaB
ugha cpsxhA blh izdkj cky dh [kky fudkyuk vPNk ugha gSA
dqN yksxksa dks yEch pkSM+h gkadus dh vknr gksrh gSA os viuk
le; rks cjckn djrs gh gSa] nwljksa dk Hkh dherh le; cjckn
djrs gSaA nwljs Åcrs gSa vkSj vius dke esa ck/k eglwl djrs gSaA
dqN yksx gksrs gSa tks ,d gh ckr esa lkjh dgkuh dg nsrs gSaA os
le; cpkrs gSa vkSj dke dks vkxs c<+krs gSaA blh rjg ds yksx
tYnh vkSj xkSjoiw.kZ thr gkfly djrs gSaA lkS ckrksa dh ,d ckr
cksyuk ges'kk vPNk jgrk gSA
dgus dk <ax cf<+;k dSls cuk,a
eq¡g vkidkA
thHk vkidhA
lksp vkidhA
cksyuk vkidks gSA
rks
¶D;ksa u lqUnj cksysaA¸

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 89


blds fy, - - -
vfHkeku NksM+sa
lquus okys dks eku nsa
tc t:jr gks rHkh cksysa
igys lkspsa fiQj cksysa
vi'kCn rks ,dkUr esa Hkh u cksysa
niZ.k ds lkeus lc rjg dh ckrsa cksy dj ns[ksa A dkSu lh
viuh Nfo vkidks vPNh yxrh gS\ mlh dks vknr esa mrkj ysaA

ugha dks NksM+sa


lcls igys ¶ugha¸ cksyuk NksM+ksA ugha esa thuk [krjukd gSA
;fn thruk gS rks vki ¶ugha¸ esa ugha th ldrsA tks ¶ugha¸ esa
th,xk og dHkh thr ugha ldrkA D;ksafd /hjs&/hjs mldk thou
fldqM+ tkrk gSA og fldqM+rk tk,xkA ugha dk gj dne] thou
dks fldksM+rk tk,xkA ;g Hkh ugha] og Hkh ugha] ;g ugha] og
ugha] ugha] ughaA /hjs&/hjs rqe NksVs gksrs tkvksxsA Kku fldqM+rk
tk,xkA vUr esa dsoy ¶dqN ugha¸ gh gkFk yxsxkA
thruk gS rks gk¡ esa th;ksA ;g Hkh] og Hkh vFkkZr~ lcA ;gh
thr gSA Lohdkj esa ft;ksA ftruh rkdr ¶ugha¸ ;k bUdkj esa yxrh
gS mlls vk/h rkdr esa gk¡ gks tkrh gSA Lohdkj gks tkrk gSA thrus
okyksa dk ;gh jkt gS fd os lksrs] tkxrs] [kkrs&ihrs] mBrs&cSBrs]
dsoy gk¡ vkSj dsoy gk¡ dgrs gSaA gk¡ esa eLr jgrs gSaA udkj dk
eryc gS thou dk fojks/A
¶,sls opu u dgks tks [kqn dks ilUn u gksaA¸
&dBksifu"kn
¶tks viuh thHk ij fu;U=k.k j[krk gS og viuh vkRek
dks larki ls cpk ysrk gSA¸ &ckbfcy
90 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
fu.kZ;
tc fu.kZ; ysuk t:jh gks rks ihNs u gVksA rqjUr fu.kZ; yksA
tc dHkh my>u esa gksvksA dksbZ fu.kZ; u dj ik jgs gksA dqN u
lw> jgk gksA tsc ls ,d #i, dk flDdk fudky yksA mNky nksA
fpr ;k iV dk fu.kZ; dj yksA tc thruk gh gS rks fpr Hkh
vkidh vkSj iV Hkh vkidhA ;g ,d cf<+;k rjhdk gSA
;fn xyrh gks Hkh xbZ rks ?kcjkuk dSlk\ xyrh rks loksZÙke
f'k{kd gksrh gSA cqjh ls cqjh ifjfLFkfr dks Hkh ojnku le>dj
Lohdkj djksA ;fn mfpr mi;ksx fd;k tk, rks cqjh ifjfLFkfr;k¡
Hkh ,slk dqN ns tkrh gSa tks vPNh ifjfLFkfr;ksa ds cwrs ls ckgj
gksrk gSA vtqZu dks uiqald gksus dk Jki feyk Fkk ysfdu
vKkrokl dh vofèk esa ;gh Jki mlds fy, ojnku cu x;kA
,d O;fDr ls mldh liQyrk dk jkt iwNk x;kA mlus crk;k fd
esjh liQyrk dk jkt gS& ¶lgh le; ij lgh fu.kZ;A¸ vki lgh
fu.kZ; dSls ysrs gSa\ vuqHko lsA vkidks vuqHko dgka ls izkIr gksrk
gS\ xyr fu.kZ;ksa lsA mldk tokc fdruk lVhd FkkA vki Hkh
fu.kZ; ysus dh vknr Mkfy,A
dksbZ Hkh iw.kZ ugha
vius dks de u vkadksA dksbZ dHkh Lo;a esa iwjk ugha gqvk gSA
Js"B ls Js"B euq"; ;k inkFkZ esa dqnjr us tkucw>dj dqN dfe;ka
NksM+h gSaA ;fn lHkh esa lHkh xq.k vk tk,a rks os vgadkjh vkSj
vuqi;ksxh gks tk,axsA tSls&
¶lksus dks lqxUèk ugha nh xbZA
pUnu ds isM+ ij iwQy ugha vkrsA
fo}ku dks èku lEifÙk ugha feyrhA
pØorhZ jktk dks yEch vk;q ugha feyrhA

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 91


blh izdkj t:jr ls T;knk vk'kk vkSj pkgr Hkh vPNh ugha
gksrhA lksp le> dj fo'okl djuk pkfg,A lHkh gkfFk;ksa ds
efLr"d esa eksrh ugha gksrsA lHkh pedus okys ioZrksa esa èkkrqvksa dh
[kku ugha gksrhA lHkh taxyksa esa pUnu ds isM+ ugha gksrsA dgk x;k
gS&
¶vfr loZ=k otZrsA
vius dks vèkwjk u ekuksA
vfr ls cpksA
tks gS mls c<+kvksA
tks ugha gS mldh izrh{kk u djksA
tks gS mldh leh{kk djksA¸
lc dk egÙo
fdlh dks de u vkadksA dgk x;k gS &
¶tgk¡ dke vkos lqbZ] D;k djs ryokjA¸
lqb]Z èkkxs ds lkFk tksMu+ s dk dke djrh gSA ryokj [k.M&[k.M
djrh gSA lHkh dk viuk&viuk egÙo gSA
cpiu dh dgkuh ;kn gksxhA taxy dk jktk 'ksj lks jgk FkkA
pwgk mlds Åij mNy dwn epk jgk FkkA 'ksj dks xqLlk vk;kA
pwgs dks ekjus yxkA pwgs dh fourh ij 'ksj us mls NksM+ fn;kA ,d
fnu 'ksj f'kdkjh ds tky esa iaQl x;kA 'ksj ngkM+us yxkA ngkM+
lqudj pwgk vk;kA pwgs us tky dkV fn;kA 'ksj eqDr gks x;kA dgk¡
cyoku taxy dk jktk 'ksj] dgk¡ ,d nkuk [kkus okyk NksVk lk
pwgkA ysfdu le; ij pwgk gh dke vk;kA
¶fdlh dh mis{kk u djks] irk ugha dkSu] dc
dgk¡ dke vk tk,A¸
vkSj vkidh thr dk lEcy cu tk,A

92 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


vlEHko dqN ugha
vaxzsth esa dgkor gS&
Only in the Dictionary of a Fool one can find the
word impossible. Nothing is impossible, Everything
is possible.
rqe nwljksa ls tSlh vis{k j[krs gks] igys oSlk Lo;a dks cukuk
gksxkA rqe fdlh dks cny ugha ldrs] Lo;a dks cnyuk gksxkA rqe
rqe gks] og og gSA lalkj dks cnyus okys gkjs gSaA Lo;a dks cnyus
okys thrs gSaA tks Lo;a lks jgk gS og nwljksa dks dSls txk ldrk
gS\ tks tkxrk gS ogh nwljksa dh lgk;rk dj ldrk gSA ftlds
Hkhrj vaèksjk gS og nwljksa dks dSls mtkyk fn[kk,xk\ tc rd
Lofgr ugha rc rd ijfgr ugha gks ldrkA
¶ckèkk,a dc ckaèk ldh gSa
vkxs c<+us okyksa dksA
foink,a dc jksd ldh gSa
iFk ij pyus okyksa dksA¸
;g rks fuf'pr gS fd rqe fdlh dks ugha cny ldrsA dsoy
vius vkidks cny ldrs gksA tks iqjkuk gS] xyr lksp gS] mYVh
fn'kk gS] lHkh dks cny MkyksA cnyko ls Hk; dSlk\
dHkh&dHkh vkids lkeus vthc ifjfLFkfr;ka vk tkrh gSaA
vkids lkeus vpkud ifjorZu vk x;kA ifjfLFkfr;ka cny xbZA
bl fLFkfr esa mfpr ;gh jgsxk fd lkgl ds lkFk] cqf¼ekuh ds
lkFk ifjorZu dk lkeuk djks] mls lhèks Hkko ls] thr ds Hkko ls
Lohdkj djuk pkfg,A mls thr ds liQj dk migkj ekudj dke
djuk pkfg,A
¶le; vkSj ifjfLFkfr dks ges'kk eku nsuk pkfg,A¸

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 93


nwljksa ls dke djk ysuk
"Always give people more than they expect
to get"
nwljksa ls euokafNr dke djk ysuk Hkh ,d dyk gSA dke lHkh
ysrs gSa] dsoy rjhds vyx&vyx gksrs gSaA utj dk isQj gksrk gSA
dqN yksx nwljksa ds lkeus mnkgj.k izLrqr djds dke djkrs gSaA
dqN yksx Hk; fn[kkdj dke djkrs gSaA utj viuh&viuh] rjhdk
viuk&viukA fdlh tehankj ds ?kj ?kjsyw dkeksa ds fy, ,d
ukSdj j[kk x;kA ukSdj ykijokg vkSj dkepksj FkkA dqN fnu ckn
tehankj us fu.kZ; lquk;k] bl ukSdj dks ukSdjh ls fudky fn;k
tk,A tehankj dh iRuh le>nkj FkhA mlus dgk] fudkyus ls
leL;k gy ugha gksxhA bls lq/kjuk mfpr gksxkA t:jh ugha fd
nwljk ukSdj vPNk gh vk,A tks gS mlh dks lq/kjksA
nwljs fnu tehankjuh tYnh mB xbZA xje ikuh] eUtu vkSj
rkSfy;k ysdj ukSdj dh [kkV ds ikl [kM+h gks xbZA txk;k] cksyh&
mfB, Luku dj yhft,A rc rd eSa pk; cukdj ykrh gw¡A ukSdj
ikuh&ikuh gks x;kA 'kfeZUnk gksdj ekiQh ekaxus yxkA viuh
ekyfdu dh ltxrk ls og bruk izHkkfor gqvk fd vxys fnu ls
lHkh dke le; vkSj esgur ls djus yxkA ckn esa og ?kj ds
lnL; dh Hkk¡fr gh ifjokj esa jgus yxkA
Vhe Hkkouk
nwljksa ls dke djkus ds fy, lkewfgd Hkkouk Hkh egÙoiw.kZ
gksrh gSA fdlh dke dks iwjk djus esa egÙoiw.kZ ;ksxnku nsus okyksa
dh lkewfgd 'kfDr dks gh Vhe dgk tkrk gSA
dgk Hkh x;k gS fd liQyrk rHkh feyrh gS tc ^,d lcds
fy,] vkSj lc ,d ds fy,* dh Hkkouk ls dke fd;k tk,A
vaxzsth 'kCn Team dk izR;sd v{kj egÙoiw.kZ gSA izR;sd
94 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
v{kj vius vkiesa liQyrk dh dqath fNik, gq, gSaA nsf[k, igyk
v{kj%&
(T) %& Vh v{kj ;gk¡ Total dk izfrfuf/ gS] vFkkZr~ iwjk dk
iwjkA okLro esa ;fn liQyrk pkfg,] thr pkfg, rks eu ls yxuk
iM+sxkA vk/k vèkwjk iz;kl liQyrk ugha fnyk ldrk gSA vkt dk
O;fDr dYiukvksa esa thrk jgrk gSA dksbZ Hkh dk;Z iwjs euks;ksx vkSj
leiZ.k Hkkouk ls ugha djrk gSA
,d O;fDr us jkstkuk dh rjg viuh nqdku [kksyhA xzkgd
vk;kA mlus VwFkisLV ek¡xkA ysfdu nqdkunkj ?kj ij VsyhiQksu dj
jgk Fkk fd fjD'ks okyk vk;k fd ugha] vkSj eqUuk Ldwy x;k fd
ugha\ xzkgd cxy okyh nqdku ij pyk x;kA ns[kk vkius]
nqdkunkj ?kj vkSj nqdku ds chp th jgk gSA u ?kj dk gS u nqdku
dkA eqUuk Ldwy Hkh ugha tk ik;k vkSj xzkgd iM+ksl dh nqdku ij
pyk x;kA vki gh crkb, ,sls esa liQyrk dSls feysxh\
,d dEiuh ds izcU/d dEiuh ds xsV ij ,d cksMZ yxok
jgs Fks fd /weziku fu"ks/ gS ysfdu Lo;a ml le; flxjsV ih jgs
FksA D;k bl izdkj liQyrk fey ldrh gS\ tc vki liQy u gks
ik jgs gksa rks fiQj T vFkkZr~ Total dks VVksfy,A dqN u dqN deh
gS] tks vkidks iwjk ugha cuus ns jgh gSA vki viuk le; bl ckr
esa u [kpZ dhft, fd yksx D;k dg jgs gSa\ oju~ blesa [kpZ
dhft, fd yksx D;k dj jgs gSa\
(E) %& ;g v{kj Effort dk izfrfuf/ gS] vFkkZr~ iz;kl]
dksf'k'kA tc dksbZ O;fDr iwjs euks;ksx ls y{; ikus dh dksf'k'k
djrk gS] iz;kl djrk gS rks liQyrk Lo;a mldh vksj nkSM+ yxkrh
gSA ;fn iz;kl gh u fd;k tk, rks liQyrk dk LoIu Hkh ugha
vk,xkA iz;kl djus okys O;fDr Hkh rhu rjg ds gksrs gSaA nw/ esa
tys NkN iwaQd&iwaQd dj ihus okysA bUgsa ds;j Vsdj (Care
Taker) dgrs gSaA vFkkZr~ os dgrs gSa tSlk gS oSlk gh cuk, j[kksA

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 95


os lqj{kk dks igyk LFkku nsdj fiQj iz;kl djrs gSaA bUgsa liQyrk
dh pkg ugha gksrhA fey tk, rks Bhd] u feys rks Hkh Bhd gSA
nwljs gksrs gSa vUMj Vsdj (Under Taker) ;s pkSjkgs dh uhfr
viukrs gSa& Bgjks] ns[kks vkSj tkvksA ;g yksx igys [krjs dks Hkkairs
gSa fiQj dk;Z 'kq: djrs gSaA rhljs yksx gksrs gSa fjLd Vsdj (Risk
Taker) vFkkZr~ djks ;k ejksA vkSj ns[kk x;k gS fd liQyrk blh
izdkj ds yksxksa dks feyrh gS] tks y{; ikus ds fy, viuk lc
dqN nkao ij yxk nsrs gSaA
cUnjksa ds >q.M dk ,d cUnj ,d isM+ ls mrj dj nwljs isM+
rd tk jgk FkkA nwljk isM+ dqN nwj FkkA eSnku esa dqÙks us cUnj dks
[knsM+ fy;kA cUnj nwljs isM+ rd igq¡pus ds fy, iwjh rkdr
yxkdj Hkkx jgk gSA dqÙkk nqxuh xfr ls mldk ihNk dj jgk gSA
cUnj us ns[kk fd og nwljs isM+ rd ugha igq¡p ik,xk vkSj dqÙkk
mls ncksp ysxkA cUnj us djks ;k ejks dh uhfr viukbZA Hkkxrs gq,
gh rst xfr ls iyVk vkSj mlus ,d tksjnkj FkIiM+ dqÙks ds eq¡g
ij ekjkA dqÙkk vpkud geys ds fy, rS;kj u FkkA og fBBdk
vkSj HkkSapDdk jg x;kA cUnj ds lkfFk;ksa us cUnj ds lkgl dks
ns[k fy;k FkkA rc rd lc lkFkh Hkkx dj vk x, vkSj dqÙks dks
?ksj dj ekj MkykA bls dgrs gSa lkewfgd Hkkouk dh thr vkSj iwjk
iz;kl vFkkZr~ Total Effort.
iz;kl esa O;fDr dh cqf¼ lgk;d gksrh gSA ns[kuk ;g gksrk gS
fd fdl Lrj dh cqf¼ dk mi;ksx fd;k x;k gSA fdlh fo}ku us
cqf¼ ds rhu :i crk, gSaA vk/h] iwjh vkSj M~;ks<+hA vk/h cqf¼ dk
eryc gS v/wjk KkuA blds lgkjs iz;kl Hkh v/wjk jg tkrk gSA
iwjh cqf¼ dk eryc gS iwjk Kku vFkkZr~ iw.kZ O;fDrA ;g cqf¼
liQyrk esa lgk;d gksrh gS ysfdu M~;ks<+h cqf¼ rks liQyrk esa jksM+s
vVdkrh gSA D;ksafd M~;ks<+h cqf¼ dk eryc gS fuxsfVo (Nega-
tive) fopkjA >Ddh] 'ks[k fpYyh] ftíh fdLe ds vkneh blh

96 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


Js.kh esa vkrs gSaA bl izdkj ds O;fDr dHkh liQy gksrs ugha ns[ks
x,A
(A) %& ;g v{kj All ls fy;k x;k gS] vFkkZr~ All for one
vFkkZr~ dqy iz;kl lcds }kjk] ,d ds fy, vFkkZr~ lHkh ds iz;kl
,d gh fn'kk esa ,d gh y{; ds fy, iwjs euks;ksx ls gksa rHkh
liQyrk feysxhA tc lewg esa esjk dke ds LFkku ij gekjk dke
dh Hkkouk vk tk, rks liQyrk Hkh gedne gks tkrh gSA dgk Hkh
x;k gS&
¶cwan cwan ls Hkjs ljksoj] Vidr jhrks gks;A¸
lHkh dk FkksM+k&FkksM+k iz;kl feydj iwjk iz;kl gks tkrk gSA
egkHkkjr ds ;q¼ esa dkSjo i{k dh fo'kky lsuk gkj xbZ vkSj
ik.Moksa dh NksVh lsuk thr xbZ] D;ksa\ ik.Moksa dk ,d gh y{;
Fkk ;q¼ thrukA ogka dksbZ NksVk cM+k ugha FkkA lcdh lykg]
lcdh cgknqjh] lcdk lHkh }kjk lEeku] thr dk dkj.k cukA
nwljh vksj dkSjo i{k esa lcds vius&vius LokFkZ] ;gka rd fd
Hkh"e firkeg vkSj xq# nzks.kkpk;Z ij rks vkjksi Hkh yxs fd os iwjs
eu ls ;q¼ ugha dj jgs gSaA lgh Hkh Fkk] firkeg dsoy viuh
izfrKk ds dkj.k gfLrukiqj dh xíh ds fy, ;q¼ dj jgs FksA d.kZ
dks dsoy vtqZu gh fn[kkbZ nsrk FkkA tc lcds iz;kl vyx&vyx
Fks rks fiQj thr dgka ls gksrh\
(M) %& ;g v{kj Member ls fy;k x;k gS vFkkZr~ lewg
dk lnL; ;k lkFkhA ftUnxh esa reke lkFkh gksrs gSa tks vkidks
lg;ksx nsrs gSaA lgkjk nsrs gSaA fcuk lkFkh ds ftUnxh esa dksbZ jl
Hkh ugha gksrk gSA thr ds fy, mRlkg Hkh ugha gksrkA tc dksbZ
O;fDr ,d gh >.Ms ds uhps ,d gh y{; ds fy, ,d gh fn'kk
esa ge liQj cu tk, rks mls lkFkh dgk tk,xkA thr dk lkFkh
ogh gksxk tks cus] u fd cuk;k tk,A ;fn lkFkh cuk;k tk,xk rks
og dHkh iwjs euks;ksx ls lkFk ugha nsxkA
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 97
egkHkkjr ds ;q¼ esa Jh d`".k vtqZu ds lkjFkh cus Fks] cuk,
ugha x, FksA mUgksaus Lo;a vtqZu dk lkjFkh cuuk ilUn fd;k FkkA
tcfd jktk 'kY; dks d.kZ dk lkjFkh cuk;k x;k FkkA 'kY; dks
tcju d.kZ dk lkjFkh cuuk iM+k FkkA ifj.kke d.kZ dh gkj ds
:i esa lkeus vk;k D;ksafd 'kY; us chp ;q¼ esa d.kZ dks
grksRlkfgr fd;kA ;q¼ esa lg;ksx ugha fn;kA blhfy, dgk x;k gS
fd lewg ds lHkh lnL; ,d lw=k esa fijks, gq, gksus pkfg, rHkh
liQyrk ds gdnkj gksaxsA
¶og thrsxk ;k ugha]
bl ckr dks NksM+ nksA
rqe thrksxs ;k ugha]
dsoy blh ckr dks lkspksA¸

pkj ckrksa dks tM+ewy ls u"V dj nhft,%&


fopkjksa dh fod`frA
vkLFkk dk ladVA
Hkzkafr;ksa dh ?kVkA
dqfopkjksa dk lkezkT;A
¶vPNs fopkjksa dk bruk T;knk Hk.Mkj.k djks fd
dqfopkj vius vki Hkkx tk,aA¸
pkSFkk cUnj
xk¡èkh th ds rhu cUnj Fks] ftuds rhu mins'k
cqjk er ns[kksA
cqjk er lquksA
cqjk er dgksA
vki pkSFkk cUnj Hkh ikfy,A mldk mins'k gS fd&
¶cqjk er lkspksA¸ dksbZ cqjk ugha gksrk gSA cqjkbZ Lo;a esa
98 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
fudkyksA lar dchj us fy[kk Hkh gS&
¶cqjk tks ns[ku eS pyk] cqjk u fefy;k dks;A
tks fny ns[kk vkiuk] eq>ls cqjk u dks;AA
vxj vki fdlh O;fDr ;k oLrq ds ckjs esa cqjk ugha lksprs rks
;g Hkh vkidh ,d miyfCèk gSA
gesa viuh lksp dks >kM+rs iksNrs jguk pkfg, rkfd xUnxh
lkiQ gksrh jgsA ,d eU=k ;kn j[ksa&
vPNs fopkj vUnjA
cqjs fopkj ckgjA
,d fnu vki lqUnj fopkjksa ds [ktkus ds ekfyd cu tk,axs
vkSj tks pkgs] oks dj Mkysaxs] ik tk,axsA vUrr% ;gh vkidh thr
gSA
NksVh ckrsa
NksVs&NksVs dke Hkh lqUnjrk ls dhft,A dksbZ dke NksVk ;k
cM+k ugha gksrkA dke] dke gS vkSj dke gh iwtk gSA tSls %
dEI;wVj ij dke djuk ftruk cM+k gS] mruk gh cM+k dke lM+d
dh liQkbZ djuk Hkh gSA dqN dke ns[kus esa NksVs gksrs gSa ysfdu
muds fcuk dke ugha py ldrkA cht fdruk NksVk gksrk gS
ysfdu gtkjksa o`{k cukrk gSA NksVs dke Hkh lyhds ls djks] n{krk
ls djksA
NksVh miyfCèk;ka Hkh de ugha gksrh gSaA ¶cw¡n&cw¡n ls Hkjs
ljksojA¸ NksVh miyfCèk;ka gh cM+h liQyrk dk vkèkkj curh gSaA
cM+h [kqf'k;ksa ds bUrtkj esa NksVh [kqf'k;ksa dks u xaokvksA dgkor
gS fd&

¶gkFk esa ,d cÙk[k vPNh gS blls fd vxyh >kM+h esa


vusd iQk[+rs feysaxsA¸
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 99
vFkkZr
¶,d NksVh lh thr Hkh vxyh thr ds fy, yykf;r
djrh gSA vkidk psgjk f[ky tkrk gSA pkgks rks
vktek yksA¸
liQyrk ls igys dk viuk iQksVks vkSj liQyrk ds ckn dk
viuk iQksVks feykb,A vUrj ekywe gks tk,xkA bl eU=k dks viuk
yks &
¶eq>s ugha ekywe fd eSa dksbZ vlkèkkj.k dke
djrk gw¡ ysfdu eSa NksVs dkeksa dks Hkh vlkèkkj.k
rjhds ls djrk gw¡A¸
vHkh nsj ugha gqbZ
tc tkxs rHkh losjkA dHkh u lkspks fd nsj gks pqdh gSA 'kqHk
dke esa nsjh dSlh\ vkt ls gh 'kq:vkr dh tk ldrh gSA
"Hope for the best and prepared for the worst."
tks O;fDr gj lEHkkouk ds fy, rS;kj gS] og lgt Hkko ls
lHkh ifjfLFkfr;ksa dk lkeuk dj ldrk gSA tks ladV dky esa fcuk
mÙksftr gq,] fcuk le; xaok,] mfpr fu.kZ; ys lds] ogh thrrk
gSA egkHkkjr ;q¼ esa d.kZ vkSj vtqZu ds ;q¼ ds le; ;fn le;
jgrs Jh d`".k us vtqZu ds jFk dks tehu ij u èkalk fn;k gksrk
rks 'kk;n vtqZu dk oèk gks tkrkA bls dgrs gSa le;kuqlkj fu.kZ;
ysukA
tks 'kqHk dke djus esa nsjh djrk gS] og pwd tkrk gSA tks
v'kqHk dke esa tYnckth djrk gS og Hkh gkj tkrk gSA
¶'kqHk dke djks rRdky
cqjk dke djks fopkjA¸
vPNs dkeksa ds fy, izrh{kk u djksA

100 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


dksbZ tYnh ugha gS
cgqr ls yksx vkidks feysaxs tks cM+h fuf'pUrrk ls ,slk dgsaxs]
vkSj gks ldrk gS vkidks viuh cgqewY; lykg Hkh nsa fd tYnh
D;k gS\ vkjke ls dke djsaxsA mudk rfd;k&dyke gksrk gS &
¶vkt djs lks dy dj] dy djs lks ijlksaA
tYnh tYnh D;ksa djs] vHkh thuk gS cjlksaAA¸
;g yksdksfDr ges'kk ?kkrd fl¼ gqbZ gSA dke dks dy ds
fy, yVdkus ls ges'kk gkj dk eqag ns[kuk iM+sxkA dksbZ tYnh ugha
gS ;g okD; rks vkylh yksxksa dk gSA vkidk ?kj ty jgk gks rc
Hkh D;k vki ;gh dgsaxs\
vki ;g Hkwy jgs gSa fd ,slk djds vki izR;sd {k.k vutkus
esa fdrus lqugjs volj xaokrs tk jgs gSaA tks {k.k chr x;k mldks
ykSVkus dk dksbZ mik; ugha [kkstk tk ldk gSA cM+h ls cM+h dher
pqdkdj Hkh vki viuk ,d Hkh chrk gqvk iy okil ugha yk
ldrs] rks fiQj ,sls esa ,d Hkh iy dks O;FkZ xaokuk D;k le>nkjh
gksxh\ dke cgqr vfèkd gS vkSj thou cgqr de gSA vr% bl
'kCn dks vius thou ls fudky nsa fd ¶dksbZ tYnh ugha gSA¸
oju~ bl 'kCn dks Lohdkj dj ysa fd ¶cgqr tYnh gS] vkt
cfYd vHkh dke 'kq: djuk gSA¸ ¶dksbZ tYnh ugha gS¸ ;g
'kCn ogka ykxw gks ldrk gS tgka cqjs dke djus gksaA cqf¼eku yksxksa
dk dguk gS fd cqjk dke djus ls igys [kwc lkspksA ftruk le;
lkspus esa yxkvksxs mruk gh nsjh gksxhA vkSj cqjk dke nsj ls gksxkA
gks ldrk gS bruh nsj gks tk, fd cqjk dke djuk gh u iM+sA og
dke gh Vy tk,A ysfdu 'kqHk dke] dY;k.kdkjh dke] thr ds
dke ftruh tYnh gks ldss] 'kq: dj nsa D;ksafd 'kqHk dke esa nsjh
vPNh ughaA
,d dEiuh esa lsYleSu ds in ij HkrhZ ds fy, lk{kkRdkj gks

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 101


jgs FksA ckWl us iwNk & ¶rqe dc ls dke 'kq: dj ldrs gks\¸
igyk mEehnokj cksyk & ¶tc vki fu;qfDr i=k ns nsaxs rc eSa
dke 'kq: djus ij fopkj d:¡xkA¸
nwljk mEehnokj cksyk & ¶;fn eSa fu;qDr gksrk gw¡ rks O;oLFkk
djds ifjokj ls lykg e'kfojk djds dk;Z 'kq: dj nwaxkA¸
rhljs mEehnokj us dgk & ¶fu;qfDr i=k feyus ij vki dh
'krks± ij fopkj djds rFkk vU; dEifu;ksa dh 'krks± ls rqyuk djds
dke 'kq: d:axkA¸
pkSFks mEehnokj us tokc fn;k & ¶eSa vHkh ls dke 'kq: dj
jgk gw¡] dsoy VkbZ ck¡èkus dh nsj gSA¸
ckWl us dgk & ¶Bhd gS] vkidks volj fn;k tkrk gSA¸ vkSj
pkSFks mEehnokj dks pqu fy;k x;kA
blh izdkj nks fe=k igkM+ ?kweus x,A igkM+ ij pkjksa vksj dkaVs
vkSj dadM+ iRFkj gh FksA ,d fe=k us dgk fd tc igkM+ dh
liQkbZ gksdj lM+d cu tk, rks fiQj ?kwek tk,A vr% ?kweus dk
dke dqN le; ds fy, Vy x;kA nwljk fe=k mlh le; nqdku ij
x;k] twrs [kjhnsA twrs igudj rqjUr igkM+ ?kweus dk vkuUn ysus
yxkA ftlus vkt ij Hkjkslk fd;k mlus vkuUn fy;kA ftlus dy
ij Hkjkslk fd;k] og ml vkuUn ls oafpr jg x;kA vr% ;gh ckr
lgh gS fd&
¶vkt vkSj vHkh] vU;Fkk fiQj ugha dHkhA¸
fcu liQyrk lc lwu
liQyrk dqN ugha lquuk pkgrhA ;su&dsu&izdkjs.k (gj gky
esa) liQyrk pkfg,A blds fy, pkgs tks djuk iM+sA jkek;.k esa
vkrk gS fd guqeku th dks lathouh cwVh ysus Hkstk x;k FkkA
guqeku th igqap Hkh x,A ysfdu D;k utkjk jgk gksxk\ tc
guqeku th lathouh ugha <wa< ik,A u dksbZ uewuk Fkk] u dHkh ns[kk
102 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
Fkk] u dksbZ crkus okyk Fkk] u ykSV dj iwN ldrs FksA ysfdu
guqeku th liQyrk pkgrs FksA lEHkkouk Fkh fd blh igkM+ ij
lathouh cwVh gS] vkSj guqeku th iwjk igkM+ m[kkM+ yk,A guqeku
liQy gq,A vkt iwts tkrs gSa] dsoy blfy, fd liQy gq,A
dksbZ fo|kFkhZ ijh{kk esa VkWi djrk gS rks dksbZ ugha iwNrk fd
rqe dSls i<+s Fks\ fdruk i<+s Fks\ udy dh Fkh ;k vDy ls fd;k\
lc ;gh dgrs gSa iwr ds ikao ikyus esa gh fn[k tkrs gSaA ;g rks
'kq: ls gh gksf'k;kj FkkA vkidks Hkh gj lEHko ifjfLFkfr;ksa esa
thruk gksxkA thr D;k gS\
Actual outcomes Greater than expectations is Suc-
cess.
Actual outcomes Lower than expectations is fail-
ure.
gj gkyr esa liQyrk ikvksA
vkjke djks vkyL; ugha
;fn thr ds jkLrs esa Fkdku eglwl gks jgh gS ;k Åc gks jgh
gS rks FkksM+k foJke djsaA mu yksxksa dh dgkuh] thou pfj=k]
?kVuk,a i<+sa] ftUgksaus vliQyrk dks liQyrk esa cny fn;k gSA dqN
u dqN lw=k gkFk yx tk,xkA ckbfcy] dqjku] xhrk] xq: xzUFk
lkfgc dqN Hkh i<+saA dqN feysxkA izfrfnu dqN le; ds fy,
'kkUr fpÙk gksdj] è;ku eqnzk esa cSBdj vius iwT; ls vius fy,
{kerk] 'kfDr] vkst] rst] cy] lkgl] èkS;Z] ijkØe] mRlkg] ÅtkZ]
pkrq;Z vkSj iz[kj cqf¼ dh ekax djsaA dqN fnu esa gh vki eglwl
djus yxsaxs fd vki vR;Ur dq'kkxz cqf¼] fnO; es?kk 'kfDr]
vkRecy vkSj fo'okl ls vksr&izksr vkSj pqukSfr;ksa dk lkeuk djus
ds fy, l{ke gSaA vkjke djus dk eryc dke esa #dkoV Mkyuk
ugha gSA vkjke dk eryc gS [kksbZ gqbZ 'kfDr dks iqu% ,d=k djuk]

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 103


Iykfuax djuk vkSj fiQj py iM+ukA vkius lquk gksxk&

¶f'k[kj esa cgqr txg gS ysfdu ogka vkjke


djus ds fy, dksbZ txg ugha gSA¸

vkxs c<+ks] nwljk f'k[kj [kkstksA


vki lgh jkLrs ij tk jgs gSa ysfdu cSB x, rks fiNM+ tkvksxsA
tkxrs jgks
tkxrs jgus dk eryc ;g ugha gS fd uhan u yks] eryc ;g
gS fd lpsr jgksA orZeku esa jgksA ;fn dy esa HkVdrs jgs rks dqN
gkFk ugha vk,xkA
tks lks x;k] og dqN Hkh ugha ik ldrkA ikus ds fy, tkxuk
gksrk gSA vkt rd lksbZ voLFkk esa LoIu ds vykok dqN ugha
feyk gSA tkxus ij og Hkh Hkax gks tkrk gSA ,d O;fDr us jkr dks
,d cgqr vPNk LoIu ns[kkA izkr% mBdj vius csVs ls ml LoIu
dk jgL; iwNkA csVk prqj FkkA mlus ,d yksVk ikuh ykdj fn;k
vkSj cksyk firkth eqag /ks yhft,A jkr chr xbZ gS] vkSj lqcg gks
pqdh gSA vkids lius dk ;gh vfUre lR; gSA
d`ik dk jgL;
,d ckj xq#th us vius f'k";ksa dks liQyrk dk jgL; crkus
dh ?kks"k.kk dhA lHkh f'k";ksa ls dgk] jkr esa cSBdj è;ku yxkvksA
tc eSa iqdk:a] rc vkukA lHkh f'k"; è;ku yxkdj cSB x,A jkr
esa xq#th us /hjs ls iqdkjk] lUrjkeA lUrjke Hkkxk&Hkkxk vk;k]
xq#th dks iz.kke fd;kA xq#th us mlds dku esa eU=k iwQ¡dkA
lUrjke viuh txg ij pyk x;kA FkksM+h nsj ckn xq#th us fiQj
iqdkjk] jkeizlknA ysfdu fiQj lUrjke vk;kA xq#th us fiQj jgL;
104 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
dh ckr lUrjke dks gh crk nhA /hjs&/hjs xq#th us lHkh f'k";ksa
dks iqdkjk] ysfdu ckj&ckj lUrjke gh vk;k D;ksafd vU; lHkh
f'k"; rks è;ku ds cgkus lks x, FksA lUrjke gh tkxrk jgk tks
xq#th dh d`ik vkSj liQyrk dk jgL; tku x;kA blhfy, dgk
x;k gS%&
¶tks lksor gS og [kksor gS]
tks tkxr gS og ikor gSA¸
HkkX;okn
fud`"B O;fDr og gS tks fiQlyrk gS] dhpM+ esa fxjrk gS]
fxjdj ogha iM+k jgrk gSA fud`"B og ugha gS tks dhpM+ ls
fudydj rRdky mB [kM+k gksrk gS] dhpM+ lkiQ djrk gS vkSj
vkxs py iM+rk gSA
fdlh dh Hkh pknj lkiQ ugha gSA fdlh u fdlh dksus ls pknj
eSyh gSA ;kn j[kks&
¶HkkX; ;k bZ'oj mUgha dh enn djrs gSa tks viuh
vkLrhuksa dks p<+kdj dk;Z esa tqV tkrs gSaA dk;Z ij VwV iM+rs
gSaA ckn esa enn ds fy, iqdkjrs gSaA¸
mfB,] igys viuk 51 izfr'kr dke iwjk dhft,A 'ks"k dke
Lo;a iwjk gks tk,xkA HkkX; ds Hkjksls u cSfB,A
e#LFky ds jsfxLrku esa ,d txg cgqr gh lqUnj cxhpk ltk
gqvk FkkA vdwr gfj;kyh] Hkjk iqjk rkykc] iQyksa vkSj iwQyksa ls yns
o`{k] dyjo djrs i{kh ns[kdj i;ZVd dks Hkze gqvk] dgha og
d'ehj esa rks ugha vk x;k\ lkeus ,d cqtqxZ fn[kkbZ fn,A i;ZVd
us dgk] Åij okys dk cgqr&cgqr èkU;okn] dSlk lqUnj LFkku
cuk;k gS\ cqtqxZ cksys&igys 51 izfr'kr dke eSaus iwjk fd;k gS] rc
ckn esa 'ks"k dke Åij okys us iwjk fd;k gSA eSaus tehu lery dhA
rkykc cuok;kA ikSèks yxk, rc ckfj'k gqbZA ikSèks c<+sA rkykc esa
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 105
ikuh bdêòk gqvkA ?kkl mxh vkSj ekSle lqgkouk gks x;kA ;fn eSa
rkykc u [kksnrk rks D;k [kqnk igys rkykc [kksnrk\ ikuh rks ;gka
igys Hkh cjlrk FkkA
igys dksf'k'k djds eSaus viuk dke iwjk fd;k rks 'ks"k Åij
okys us iwjk dj fn;kA
lh[kus dh ckrsa
;fn ,d Hkh ewY;oku xq.k gS rks vU; voxq.k fNi tk,axsA
dsoM+k lkaiksa ls f?kjk jgrk gS] dkaVs gksrs gSa] iQy ugha yxrs] dhpM+
esa mxrk gS] Vs<+k&es<+k gksrk gS] fiQj Hkh yksx mls ilUn djrs gSa
D;ksafd mldh lqxUèk lcls U;kjh vkSj I;kjh gksrh gSA dqN xq.k
lh[ks Hkh tk ldrs gSaA
cxqyk &,dkxzfpr gksdj iwjh rkdr ls vius y{; ij geyk
djukA
eqxkZ &czãeqgwrZ esa yx tkuk
&yydkjus ij ;q¼ ds fy, rS;kj
&Lo;a [kkst dj [kkuk
&fey ckaV dj [kkuk
cÙk[k &'kkUr vkSj xkSjo ds lkFk rSjuk ysfdu ikuh ds uhps
'kSrku dh rjg iSj pykukA
fxjfxV & nksuksa vka[kksa ls ,d gh le; esa vyx&vyx
fn'kkvksa esa ns[kukA
dNqvk &y{; dh vksj fujUrj pyrs jgukA
lh[kus vkSj tkuus dh dksbZ mez ugha gksrhA ges'kk lh[krs jgksA
tgk¡ ls Hkh vPNk feys] lh[kksA
fdldh izrh{kk esa gks
thruk gS rks vdsys gh pyuk gksxkA vdsys gh dke 'kq:
106 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
djuk gksxkA tks thrs gSa] mUgksaus vdys gh dke 'kq: fd;k Fkk]
tSls%&
& HkkxhjFk vdsys gh xaxk dks /jrh ij yk, FksA
& guqeku th vdsys gh lathouh cwVh yk, FksA
& vkx dh ,d vdsyh fpaxkjh gh lalkj dks HkLe dj
ldrh gSA
& iQjgkn us 'khjh ds fy, vdsys gh igkM+ ij ugj [kksnh
FkhA
rqe vdsys gh thr dk liQj 'kq: djksA ekxZ vusd gks ldrs
gSa ysfdu eafty ,d gh gS] og gS & liQyrkA
vkidk [kkrk
thou dk ,d vPNkbZ;ksa vkSj ln~fopkjksa dk [kkrk (Ac-
count) [kksy yks] tSls fd cSad [kkrkA [kkrk rHkh vPNk gS tc
mlesa vPNk (Positive) 'ks"k gksA mUufr ds fy,] thr ds fy,]
[kqf'k;ksa ds fy, bl [kkrs esa dqN ckrksa dks tek dhft,A tSls%&
1- vPNh lksp
2- vPNs fe=k
3- lnkcgkj eqLdku
4- ehBh ckrsa
5- izsj.kknk;d ?kVuk,a
6- ifjJe okyh fØ;k,a
7- {kek 'khyrk
8- lcls izse] viukiu
9- èkS;Z
nwljh vksj nkf;Roksa dks ftruk de dj ldsa ;k [kRe dj ldsa
mruk gh vPNk gS tSls%&
1- èkweziku
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 107
2- e|iku
3- bZ";kZ
4- eksVkik
5- ruko vkSj fpUrk
6- dqfRlr fopkj
7- Hk; vkSj O;FkZ dk;Z
8- Øksèk
9- dqlax
viuk [kkrk Lo;a cukb,A vPNkb;ksa dk Balance c<+kb,A
pSysat
nks gh ckrsa gks ldrh gSa& thr ;k gkjA ;fn vliQyrk feyh
gS rks bls ,d lqugjk volj ekuksA vliQyrk rc rd ugha gS tc
rd vki mls Lohdkj ugha dj ysrsA vliQyrk,a iqu% tw>us dk
dkj.k iSnk djrh gSaA viuh vliQyrkvksa dh lwph cukdj vius
dk;kZy; ;k vius csM:e esa yxk nhft,] izsj.kk feysxhA vczkge
fyadu us ;gh fd;k FkkA
tc vliQyrk feys rks mls Challange ds :i esa Lohdkj
djksA
gfjoa'kjk; cPpu dh dqN iafDr;ka nsf[k,&

¶rhj ikj dSls #dwa eSa] vkt ygjksa esa fueU=k.k gSA
ukfod uko isQj ys tk] dqN ugha gS dke bldkA
vkt ygjksa ls my>us dks iQM+drh gSa Hkqtk,aA
Mwcrk eSa fdUrq] brjkrk lnk O;fDrRo esjkA
gks ;qod Mwcs Hkys gh gS dHkh Mwck u ;qokuA¸

108 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


vki Hkh xquxqukb,&
¶eqf'dysa gtkj vkb±]
ij eSa u fgykA
eqLdqjk dj gj pqukSrh ls]
xys eSa feykA¸
vxyh ih<+h
vius cPps dks vPNk bUlku cukuk gS] thr ds jkLrs ij
pyuk fl[kkuk gS rks igys mldk ikyuk gVk nhft,A 'kksj epkuk
cPpksa dk dke gS vkSj 'kjkjr djuk mudk LoHkko gSA lalkj esa
lcls cM+h bZxks (Ego) cPpksa dh gksrh gSA tc mldh bZxks dks
Bsl yxrh gSA rc og vius eka cki dks crkrk gSA mlds crkus dk
,d gh edln gksrk gS fd mls lgkuqHkwfr (Sympathy) feysA
lgkuqHkwfr nhft,] exj lh[k ds lkFkA dsoy bruh fd og HkVds
ughaA ,slk dHkh u dfg, ^esjk cPpk* ;k ^cspkjk* ;k vHkh rks
^NksVk* gSA
nsf[k, & ?kM+s dks x<+rs le; ;k lqUnj :i nsrs le; dqEgkj
vUnj ls lgkjk nsrk gS ysfdu Åij ls pksV ekjrk gSA ?kM+k mldh
bPNk ds vuq:i rS;kj gksrk gSA vius cPpksa dks blh rjg x<+ksA ubZ
ih<+h peRdkfjd gksxhA
;g vkidk dÙkZO; Hkh gS vkSj nkf;Ro Hkh gSA vki gh cPps
ds izFke xq: gSaA
vkgkj & O;ogkj vkSj Hkkouk
lknk thou mPp fopkj
Simple Living High Thinking
¶[okcksa dh nqfu;k foèkkrk us cukbZ
liQyrk dh lh<+h rqeus yxkbZ¸
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 109
vkidk vkgkj] O;ogkj vkSj vkidh Hkkouk rhuksa liQyrk dh
t:jh lhf<+;ka gSaA lcls igys vkidks viuk vfèkdkj ekaxuk gksxk
vkSj vius dÙkZO;ksa dks ifjHkkf"kr djuk gksxkA vfèkdkj vkSj
dÙkZO;ksa esa mPp Lrj dk feJ.k gh liQyrk gSA D;k vki vius
vfèkdkjksa ds ckjs esa tkurs gSa\ ugha] rks tku yhft,&
vki ;g rks tkurs gSa fd thr izkIr djuk gj izk.kh dk
tUefl¼ vfèkdkj gSA ikSèkk Hkh fdlh u fdlh izdkj ls viuh
[kqjkd ik ysrk gS vkSj ftUnk jgrk gSA phaVh Hkh viuk Hkkstu
ryk'k ysrh gSA vius otu ls dbZ xquk otu dk Hkkstu bdêòk
djds pyrh gSA ;g lHkh viuk y{; ikdj jgrs gSa] fiQj vki rks
euq"; gSaA vkidk lkeF;Z bu lcls T;knk gSA tc brus d"Vksa ds
ckotwn vki ek¡ ds xHkZ ls ckgj vkus esa liQy gks x, gSaA igys
jsaxuk] fiQj pyuk] fiQj nkSM+uk lh[k x, gSaA vki vHkh thfor Hkh
gks] rks fiQj thr dks nwj D;ksa le>rs gks\ euq"; ;ksfu esa rqEgkjk
tUe gksuk Hkh rks ,d liQyrk gSA rqEgkjh thr gSA rqEgkjk 'kkjhfjd
fodkl gqvkA vkt rqe â"V&iq"V gksA LoLFk gksA ;g rqEgkjh nwljh
liQyrk gSA fiQj vc thr dh vksj c<+us ls #d D;ksa x,\ gkSlyk
de D;ksa gks x;k\ vc rks rqEgsa thruk gh gksxkA D;ksafd tc lh<+h
ds nks lksiku p<+ x, gks rks uhps ns[kks] [kkbZ fn[ksxhA fxjksxs rks
pksV yxsxhA vc rks thr ds f'k[kj ij igqapuk gh gksxkA ;gh
vkidk vfUre y{; Hkh gSA
;kn j[kks] ;fn thr dks ikuk vkidk tUefl¼ vfèkdkj gS rks
thruk Hkh vkidks gh gksxkA dksbZ nwljk thr dks vkids lkeus
ijkslus ugha vk,xk vkSj dksbZ vkids bl ekSfyd vfèkdkj dks
Nhu Hkh ugha ldrkA vc thr ds bl vfèkdkj dk mi;ksx vkSj
bldh j{kk vkidks Lo;a gh djuh gksxhA ;fn vki blesa vliQy
gksrs gSa rks nwljs vkils ckth ekj ys tk,axsA ;fn eafty rd
igqapuk gS rks IysViQkeZ ij [kM+s jgus ls gh dke ugha pysxkA okgu
110 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
esa rks p<+uk gh gksxkA tks p<+sxk ogh liQj r; djsxk vkSj ogh
eafty rd igqapsxkA ftl izdkj Lora=krk laxzke ds nkSjku yksdekU;
fryd us yydkjk Fkk%&
¶LorU=krk esjk tUefl¼ vfèkdkj gS] vkSj eSa
bldks ikdj gh jgwaxkA¸
mlh izdkj vkt vki Hkh ladYi ys yks vkSj vius rst] vius
vkst] viuh yxu] vius fu'p; dk iQjeku tkjh dj nksA yydkj
nks fd%&
¶thr esjk tUefl¼ vfèkdkj gS] eSa thrdj gh
jgwaxkA¸
ek=k vkids blh ladYi ls thr ds Åij iM+k èkwy dk ijnk
mB tk,xk vkSj vki thr gkfly dj yksxsA ;|fi thr dk jkLrk
yEck gS ysfdu ftldh 'kq#vkr Hkyh mldk vUr Hkh Hkyk gksrk
gSA vc thr dh rS;kjh 'kq: gks xbZ gSA vkxs c<+ks&
¶ogh mUufr dj ldrk gS tks Lo;a dks mins'k
nsrk gSA¸
& Lokeh jkerhFkZ
vkidk O;ogkj mÙke gksuk pkfg,A nsf[k, dqN ckrsa egkiq#"k
dg x, gSaA ;g lc tkaph ij[kh ckrsa gSaA gks lds rks bUgsa vius
thou esa mrkj yks&
· vius ls NksVksa ls feyks rc d#.kk j[kksA
· vius ls cM+ksa ls feyks rc ân; esa vknj j[kksA
· larksa vkSj iQdhjksa ls feyks rc ân; esa J¼k] HkfDr vkSj
fou; j[kksA
· led{k yksxksa ls feyks rc LusgHkko j[kksA
· mí.M vkSj nq"Vksa dks cny u ikvks rks nwj jgdj viuk
le; cpkvksA
· ukSdjksa vkSj vkfJrksa dks Lusg nks vkSj lkFk esa fuxjkuh Hkh
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 111
j[kksA
· ?kj&ifjokj esa ?kqy&fey tkvks tSls nwèk esa ikuhA
· b"V fe=kksa ls fny [kksydj feyksA
· tks rqEgkjs jgL; ;k xqIr ckrsa tkurk gks] mlls lkoèkku
jgksA
· vius xq# ij fo'okl djksA
· lkeus okys ls ckr djrs le; eèkqj ok.kh ,oa eku nsrs gq,
ckr djksA

Proper Living is an Art


lknk thou loksZÙke gS ysfdu orZeku le; esa jgu lgu dks
ns'k] dky] okrkoj.k vkSj ifjfLFkfr;ksa ds vuqlkj lek;ksftr
djds pyus okys thrrs gSaA vki mPp in ds fy, lk{kkRdkj nsus
tk jgs gSa rks [kM+kš igudj rks ugha tk,axsA fnlEcj ds eghus esa
D;k eyey dk dqrkZ igudj lk{kkRdkj nsus tk,axsA fdlh iwtk
LFky ij D;k twrs igudj izos'k djsaxs ;k ogka ij ?k.Vs dh txg
eksVj dk gkWuZ ctk,axsA liQy O;fDr bUgha dk le;kstu djds
liQy gksrs gSa fd ns'k vkSj dky ds vuqlkj D;k mfpr gS vkSj
D;k vuqfpr gSA blhfy, dgk x;k gS fd "Proper living is an
Art".
ftuds ikl ;g dyk gS os bls c<+kus dh dksf'k'k djsaA ftuds
ikl ;g dyk ugha gS os ikus ds fy, dksf'k'k djsaA
gj gky esa vkidk jgu lgu lknk] vkd"kZd] eueksgd]
le;kuqdwy vkSj mfpr gksuk pkfg,A
vius nk;js esa jfg,
izR;sd O;fDr ds dqN nk;js gksrs gSa ftuds vUnj og viuk
LokfeRo o vf/dkj ekurk gSA og vius nk;js esa fdlh dk
112 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
gLr{ksi lgu ugha dj ikrk gSA blfy, vkneh dks ,d Terri-
torial Animal Hkh dgk tkrk gSA lkekU;r% fdlh vkneh ds
pkj nk;js gksrs gSaA ;g ckr vyx gS fd ;s vkil esa NksVs cM+s gks
ldrs gSa ;k fdlh ds fy, dksbZ nk;jk egÙoiw.kZ gks] rks fdlh
vU; ds fy, ogh nk;jk lk/kj.k gksA
igyk nk;jk lkoZtfud (Public Zone) gksrk gSA tks fcYdqy
[kqyk njckj gksrk gSA dksbZ Hkh O;fDr vk, tk,] dksbZ jksd&Vksd
ughaA blesa lHkh dk Lokxr gSA blds ckn FkksM+k NksVk nwljk nk;jk
gksrk gS] ftls lkekftd nk;jk (Social Zone) dgrs gSaA bl
nk;js esa O;fDr mUgha yksxksa dks vkus nsrk gS vkSj mUgsa gh Lohdkj
djrk gS ftuls mldh tku igpku gS ;k mBuk cSBuk gS ;k ukrs
fj'rsnkjh gSA O;fDr dk rhljk nk;jk gksrk gS ftls O;fDrxr nk;jk
(Personal Zone) dgrs gSaA bl nk;js esa O;fDr dk ifjokj
rFkk vR;ar fudVtu gh izos'k ikrs gSaA lcls NksVk vkSj vkf[kjh
nk;jk (Intimate Zone) vUrjax nk;jk gksrk gSA bl nk;js esa
izo's k ikus okyksa dks maxfy;ksa ij fxuk tk ldrk gSA tSls ifr&iRuh]
izes h&izfs edk] yaxksfV;k ;kj vkfnA O;fDr dh liQyrk vkSj vliQyrk
esa vkf[kjh nk;js ds O;fDr;ksa dh egÙoiw.kZ Hkwfedk gksrh gSA bl
nk;js ds lnL;ksa dk pquko le>cw> ,oa lko/kuh ls djuk
pkfg,A
Å¡ps xxu dks ns[kks
vkidh lksp vkidh bPNk'kfDr dks izHkkfor djrh gSA tSlk
lkspuk gksrk gS oSlk gh ikuk gksrk gSA viuh lksp dks irax cukvks
rks ges'kk Åij mBrh gSA ;gka rd fd foijhr gok esa HkhA thou
esa thr gkfly djuh gSA vius y{; dks ikuk gS rks uhys vkleku
dks ns[kksA lc dqN vPNk gh fn[ksxkA vki Åij dh vksj ns[k jgs
gSaA Åij thrus okyksa dk gh fuokl gSA pkgs og fujUrj pyrs
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 113
jgdj ijekFkZ esa tyrs jgus dh izsj.kk nsus okyk lw;Z gks ;k
'khryrk nsus okyk vkSj lalkj dh vkS"kfèk;ksa dks thou nsus okyk
pUnzek gksA pkgs èkjrh dh I;kl cq>kus okys ckny gksa] pkgs 'okl
nsus okyh ok;q gksA lHkh Åij gh jgrs gSaA tc Åij ns[kksxs rks
vkidks vkxs c<+us dh gh izsj.kk feysxhA
lkspus esa vkSj dYiuk djus esa dqN ykxr ugha vkrh gS rks
fiQj tc eqÝr lkspuk gh gS rks fupys Lrj dk D;ksa lkspsaA Å¡ps Lrj
dk lkspus ls de ls de vkuUn rks feysxkA eu dks [kq'kh rks
feysxhA ;fn yxu] ,dkxzrk vkSj esgur rhuksa Å¡ph lksp ds lkFk
fey x, rks thr rqEgkjh gSA
,d ckj dqN cPps xqfM+;k&xqîós dh 'kknh dk [ksy [ksy jgs
FksA 'kknh ds ckn nkor dh O;oLFkk FkhA cPpksa ds ikl dqN Fkk
ughaA os >wBewB dk [ksy [ksy jgs FksA cPpksa dks iaxr esa cSBk;k
x;kA dqN cPps iaxr esa cSBs cPpksa ds lkeus isM+ ds iÙks j[krs tkrs
vkSj dgrs yks jksVh [kkvksA nwljs cPps muds ihNs&ihNs cPpksa ds
lkeus dadM+ iRFkj j[krs tkrs vkSj dgrs yks xqM+ [kkvksA ,d
cqtqxZ Hkh ikl esa cSBs cPpksa dk [ksy ns[k jgs FksA os cPpksa ls cksys]
cPpksa tc rqEgsa >wBs idoku gh [kkus gSa rks iÙkksa dks jksVh D;ksa
dgrs gks\ iwM+h&dpkSM+h] idoku dgks] dadM+ iRFkj dks xqM+ D;ksa
dgrs gks\ yM~Mw] ciQhZ ;k vkblØhe dgksA de ls de eu esa ;g
rks jgsxk fd geus yM~Mw [kk;s ;k vkblØhe [kkbZA cPps ;g ckr
lqudj [kq'k gks x,A nknkth us lh[k nh fd tc lkspuk gh gS rks
Å¡pk lkspksA thou esa ges'kk thr feysxhA
¶tc rqe viuh Mkbfuax Vsfcy ij cSBdj Hkkstu dj jgs gks
rks le>ks fd fdlh 'kga'kkg ds lkFk Hkkstu dj jgs gksA¸
,d ckj eqEcbZ esa cgqeaftyh bekjrksa ds Åijh ÝySVksa esa jgus
okyksa dk losZ{k.k fd;k x;kA bu ÝySVksa esa cM+h&cM+h laLFkkvksa ds
Å¡ps inksa ij dke djus okys vfèkdkjh jgrs FksA tc muls iwNk
114 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl
x;k fd os bruh Å¡pkbZ okys ÝySVksa esa D;ksa jgrs gSa rks mudk tokc
Fkk fd Å¡pkbZ ij fuokl djus ls gekjh lksp Hkh Å¡ph jgrh gSA
ge xUnh] grk'kk okyh vkSj fupyh lksp ls nwj jgrs gSaA Å¡ph
eafty ls gesa Å¡ph lksp dh izsj.kk feyrh gSA
vkgkj
(tSlk [kk,a vUu] oSlk cus eu)
lkspus vkSj jgus dk utfj;k vkids Hkkstu ls Hkh izHkkfor
gksrk gSA ?kj dh nhokj ij jkst lqcg ,d dkSok vkdj cSB tkrk
gS vkSj viuh ddZ'k vkokt esa dkao&dkao djus yxrk gSA ,d
NksVs cPps us eka ls iwNkA eka ;g dkSok dkyk D;ksa gS\ vkSj D;ksa
fpYykrk jgrk gS\ eka us crk;k] csVk ;g fpYyk&fpYyk dj ge
yksxksa dks lkoèkku djrk gS fd lc yksx eq>s ns[kks] xUnk] lM+k
xyk [kkuk [kkdj esjk jax dkyk gks x;kA esjh vkokt ddZ'k gks
xbZ gS] esjh cqf¼ èkwrZ gks xbZ gSA vr% rqe lkoèkku gksdj jgks] ugha
rks esjh rjg gks tkvksxsA csVk] ¶tSlk [kkvks vUu] oSlk cus euA¸
;fn rqe xUnk [kkvksxs rks xUnk lkspksxsA xUnk lkspksxs rks foiQyrk
ds jkLrs pyksxs] dHkh liQy ugha gksxsA
vkgkj gh thou gSA D;ksafd vkgkj ls gh lHkh izkf.k;ksa ds
thou dh j{kk gksrh gSA vr% gekjs fy, ;gh mÙke gS fd ge
'kq¼] 'kkdkgkjh vkSj thou dks iq"V djus okyk vkgkj djsaA vkSj
;g t:jh Hkh gS D;ksafd&

· tSlk [kkvksxs
· oSlk lkspksxs
· tSlk lkspksxs
· oSlk djksxsA

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 115


vkidk fu.kZ;
vkids lkeus dqN yksxksa ds fopkj j[ks tk jgs gSaA ;g yksxksa
ds rfd;k dyke gSaA fopkjksa ds vuq:i vki fdu yksxksa dks
viuk nksLr cukuk pkgsaxs] fu.kZ; ysus esa vki LorU=k gSaA ;s bl
izdkj gSa&
3 eSa dj ldrk gw¡
· ;g esjs o'k dk ugha gSA
3 thruk gh esjh gkWch gSA
· eSa ugha dj ldrk gw¡A
· cgqr >a>V gSA
3 eSa djds fn[kk nwaxkA
3 eSa gj gky esa d:axkA
· esjs cki nknk Hkh ugha dj ik,A
· ;g rks cgqr dfBu gSA
3 eSa ges'kk thrrk gw¡A
3 eSa djus esa leFkZ gw¡A
· dgha eSa gkj rks ugha tkÅ¡xkA
· eSa bruk ;ksX; dgk¡A
3 eSa djus ds ;ksX; gw¡A
3 eSa vdsyk gh dkiQh gw¡A
· eSa vHkh bUrtkj d:axkA
· esjk HkkX; gh [kjkc gSA
· ;g rks vlEHko gSA
3 eSa thr dk gdnkj gw¡A
3 eSa fdlh dk bUrtkj ugha djrkA
D;ksafd vc vki thr ds ckjs esa tku pqds gSa] vc lEHkor%
,sls yksxksa ds lkFk gh nksLrh djuk pkgsaxs tks vkids vuq:i gSaA

116 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


vkidh vksj ls ge lwph esa fu'kku yxk jgs gSaA dqy 10 O;fDr
vkids fe=k pqus x, gSaA vkidk fu.kZ; ljkguh; gSA
Å¡pk dSfj;j cukus okys tkurs gSa fd&
thr vkSj gkj ds chp esa ,d iryh irZ gksrh gS ftls
gVk;k tk ldrk gSA
dke ij VwV iM+uk gh thr gSA
iz;kl djus ds lkeus fdrkch ;ksX;rk /jh jg tkrh gSA
fdlh ls rqyuk djuk O;FkZ gSA
os lHkh dke csgrj ls csgrj rjhds ls djrs gSaA
vius dks nwljksa ls csgrj fl¼ djuk gksrk gSA
'kqHk ladYi
dqN ladYi Hkh dj yks &
· eSa mu phtksa dks cny ywaxk tks esjh thr ds jkLrs esa vkM+s
vk,axhA
· dksbZ nwljk esjs fopkjksa ij 'kklu ugha dj ldrkA
· eSaus tks dke pquk gS mlls eq>s I;kj gSA
· esjk fny vkSj fnekx esjh futh lEifÙk;ka gSa] eSa mudh j{kk
d:¡xkA
· eq>s tSlk gksuk pkfg,] oSlk gw¡A ij dqN dfe;k¡ gSa rks
fudky ckgj d:¡xkA
· eqLdqjkuk esjh #fp gS vkSj izse djuk esjk LoHkkoA
· vxj dHkh isQy gqvk rks fiQj dksf'k'k d:¡xk]
fiQj&fiQj&fiQjA
· tks dke d:¡xk yxu vkSj rRijrk ls d:¡xkA dke pkgs
NksVk gks ;k cM+kA
· cf<+;k dk;Z] cf<+;k le; vkSj cf<+;k O;fDr dh izrh{kk
ugha d:¡xkA eSa mUgsa cf<+;k cuk ywaxkA
dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 117
vkSj vUr esa
¶;k rks eSa viuk jkLrk [kkst yw¡xk ugha rks Lo;a cuk
yw¡xkA¸
vkidk iUuk
vkidk vkgkj mÙke
vkidk O;ogkj mÙke
vkidk LoHkko mÙke
vkidh lksp mÙke
¶lc dqN vkidh eqêòh esa gSA¸
fiQj Hkh vuqjks/ gS&
lksfp, -------------------- dksbZ csgrj jkg vo'; gksxhA
dfj, -------------------- dksbZ csgrj rjhdk vo'; gksxkA
pkSafd, -------------------- dksbZ cf<+;k volj vkus okyk gSA
pfy, -------------------- gj dne ehy dk iRFkj gSA

lh;ksfØ;k dk fu"Bk ls ikyu djsaA


lh -------------------- lh/h lksp
;ks -------------------- csgrj ;kstuk
fØ -------------------- csgrj fØ;kUo;u vkSj
vk -------------------- vkdyu
fu"Bk ls jgksxs rks thr fey gh tk,xh] dsoy csgrj iz;klksa
dh t:jr gSA
¶tks ugha gS mldh izrh{kk u djksA
tks gS mldh leh{kk djksA¸
liQyrk vo'; feysxhA

118 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


fuosnu
mBks ubZ fdj.k fy, tkx jgh ubZ m"kkA
mBks] mBks] u, lUns'k ns jgh fn'kk fn'kkAA
f[ky mBs v#.k&r#.k izHkkr eqLdjk jgkA
mBks] mBks] c<+ks] lehj 'ka[k gS ctk jgkA
^vkt* lkeus [kM+k vkidks cqyk jgkAA
gekjh ckr
¶og dkSu lk mdnk tks gks ugha ldrkA
rsjk th pkgs vkSj gks ugha ldrkA
NksVk lk dhM+k iRFkj esa ?kj djsA
og bUlku D;k tks thr gkfly u djsA¸
vkids fy,
¶tSls cht esa o`{k Nqik gS
v: pded esa vkxA
rsjh thr rq>es gS]
tkx lds rks tkxA¸
ftl fnu ;g le> esa vk tk,xk fd lqUnjrk vkSj vkRe rst
dh 'kfDr dk Hk.Mkj vkids Hkhrj gh Hkjk gSA mlh fnu thr ds
jkLrs ij vkids dne c<+us yxsaxsA tSls cht ds mxus dh {kerk
mlds Hkhrj gksrh gSA fdlku viuh esgur ls dikl ugha mxk
ldrkA ckny pkgs ftruk cjlsa] pêðkuksa esa gfj;kyh ugha mxk
ldrs gSaA vr% le> yksA vUnj dh 'kfDr dks igpku djds]
fodflr djds] lesV dj ,d fn'kk esa yxkdj viuh grk'kk]
nfjnzrk] dq#irk] fiNM+siu tSlh ifjfLFkfr;ksa ls NqVdkjk ik ldrs
gSaA Hkhrjh 'kfDr ds lgkjs vki vufxur foHkwfr;ksa ds Lokeh cu

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 119


ldrs gSaA tc rd Lo;a dks ugha tkuksxs rc liQyrk esa lUnsg
jgsxkA
'kqHkdkeuk,¡
vki xqykc gksdj egdks
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d`rKrk
liQy oSQls cusa] vkt bl fo"k; ij <sj lkjh tkudkjh miyCèk gSA esjk nkok
gS fd liQyrk ikus osQ fy, ldkjkRed n`f"Vdks.k] nwjn`f"V] n`<+ fo'okl] yksdO;ogkj]
vPNs izHkko rFkk dq'kyrk dh vko';drk gksrh gS] ;g vki Hkh tkurs gksaxsA
esjh ykbczjs h esa ckWc izkDW Vj] tks okbVy] fte jkWu] oSQusMh rFkk Msy dkusxZ h lesr
vU; liQy ys[kdksa dh nl gtkj ls Hkh vfèkd MkWyj dh cs'kdherh fdrkcsa j[kh
gSa] ftUgsa eSa fdlh Hkh dher ij cspus dks rS;kj ugha gw¡A
ijarq tc vki vPNh fdrkcsa i<+ jgs gksa] ikWftfVo VsIl lqu jgs gksa lkFk gh
liQyrk ikus dh fn'kk esa iwjs iz;kl Hkh dj jgs gksa] vkSj fiQj Hkh liQyrk vkils
dkslksa nwj gks] ,slh voLFkk esa D;k djsa\
eSua s ns[kk gS ,d NksVh lh pht gS] tks ge lHkh ls NwV tkrh gSA vU; lHkh dqN
djus esa ge bruk vfèkd O;Lr gks tkrs gSa fd rqPN le>dj bls NksM+ fn;k djrs
gSaA
ijarq bls djuk cgqr gh vklku gSA cpiu esa esjh eka ges'kk eq>s bls djus dh
fgnk;r fn;k djrh FkhA og dgrh Fkh] ¶tc Hkh dksbZ rqEgkjs fy, dqN Hkh djs rks
mls blosQ fy, èkU;okn t:j nksA¸
th gka] og fcYdqy Bhd dgk djrh FkhA vkSj bl fo"k; ij vkSj Hkh cgqr dqN
tkuk] le>k vkSj crk;k tk ldrk gSA
ijarq vki dg ldrs gSa & ,d feuV #dks] eSa fdls vkSj D;ksa èkU;okn nw¡\
vkiosQ bl ^fdls* dk tokc rks eSa vkidks var esa nwaxk] ijarq ^D;ksa* èkU;okn
nsuk pkfg, bl fo"k; ij igys FkksM+h ppkZ djrs gSaA
ge ftl lalkj esa jgrs gSa og fdlh ekSosQ vFkok HkkX; osQ [ksy ij vkèkkfjr
u gksdj dqN fo'ks"k izkd`frd fu;eksa osQ }kjk lapkfyr gksrk gSA
oSyl s osêYð l us viuh iqLrd ^n lkbal vkWiQ xSfVax fjp* esa bu fu;eksa dk Li"V
rjhosQ ls o.kZu fd;k gSA osêðYl osQ vuqlkj&
d`rKrk dk Hkh viuk ,d fu;e gS] rFkk ;fn vki eupkgk izkIr djuk pkgrs
gSa rks vkiosQ fy, bl fu;e dks tkuuk vfuok;Z gks tkrk gSA
'kk;n vc vki Hkh bl fu;e dks tkuus osQ fy, mRlqd gksxa As osêYð l vkxs dgrs
gSa&
d`rKrk iwjh rjg izkd`frd (Natural) fl¼kar gS tks fØ;k izfrfØ;k osQ fu;e
dh Hkkafr dk;Z djrk gS] ftlosQ vuqlkj fdlh Hkh fØ;k osQ fy, Bhd mlosQ cjkcj
ijarq foijhr fn'kk esa izfrfØ;k gksrh gSA

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 123


ge lHkh tkurs gSa fd gekjh lksp ,oa Hkkouk,a ÅtkZ osQ gh :i gSaA
ÅtkZ oQks u rks iSnk fd;k tk ldrk gS vkSj u gh u"V] bls ek=k #ikarfjr gh
fd;k tk ldrk gS & foKku dk ,d fl¼karA
tjk lkspsa tc ÅtkZ dks iSnk gh ugha fd;k tk ldrk rks fiQj gekjk efLr"d
fdlh u, fopkj dks tUe nsus esa fdl izdkj l{ke gks ldrk gS\ bldk vFkZ ;g
gqvk fd ;g (gekjk fnekx) ijefirk (Supreme Power) dh vksj ls gekjh vksj
izsf"kr fopkjksa dks igys Hkkoukvksa esa cnyrk gS] fiQj rjaxksa esa cnydj bUgsa nlksa
fn'kkvksa esa izlkfjr dj nsrk gSA
ekuo efLr"d ldkjkRed] udkjkRed] vPNh ;k cqjh lHkh izdkj dh
Hkkoukvksa osQ fy, leku :i ls vuqfØ;k (izfrlkn) djrk gSA vr% euokafNr iQy
ikus osQ fopkj ij gesa ldkjkRed ÅtkZ (mRlkg] vkuan ,oa izlUurk vkfn) dk
vkjksi.k djuk pkfg, u fd udkjkRed ÅtkZ (Hk;] O;kdqyrk] Øksèk] fpark]
vYilarks"k] okluk rFkk mrkoykiu) dkA
rFkk d`rKrk (Gratitude) og Hkkouk gS ftldk udkjkRed gksuk iw.kZr%
vlaHko gSA tc Hkh ge d`rK gksrs gSa rks gekjk efLr"d ldkjkRed rjaxksa dks izlkfjr
djuk vkjaHk dj nsrk gS] pqEcdh; izHkko (Magnetic Effect) osQ ifj.kkeLo:i ge
ldkjkRed fopkjksa okys vU; ekuo efLr"dksa dks viuh vksj vkdf"kZr djuk vkjaHk
dj nsrs gSaA
Jh osêðYl osQ vuqlkj & d`rKrk osQ vHkko esa ,slk dj ikuk iw.kZr% vlaHko
gS D;ksafd d`rK efLr"d gh fujarj vPNh Hkkoukvksa ij fVdk jgus esa l{ke gksrk
gS] rFkk fØ;k&izfrfØ;k fl¼kar osQ vuqlkj ,sls esa ge foijhr fn'kk ls viuh vksj
vkus okyh vPNh izfrfØ;kvksa dks xzg.k djus osQ ;ksX; cu tkrs gSaA
nwljs 'kCnksa esa lnSo d`rK jgdj liQyrk ikus dh fn'kk esa fujarj lfØ; cuk
tk ldrk gSA vFkkZr~ ;g ge lHkh osQ fy, viuh liQyrk dks lqfuf'pr djus dk
,d 'kkWVZdV iQkewZyk lkfcr gks ldrk gSA
vc vki le> x, gksaxs fd liQyrk fl[kkus okys lHkh yksx gesa loZizFke
viuk y{; fuèkkZfjr djus dh lykg D;ksa nsrs gSaA ;kn j[ksa mijksDr fl[kkbZ xbZ ckrksa
dk fojksèk djosQ vki vius gkFkksa esa vkbZ liQyrk dks vutkus esa xaok ldrs gSaA
ykssx vkerkSj ij ikap izdkj dh xyfr;ka fd;k djrs gSa] buosQ ckjs esa ge ckn
esa ppkZ djsaxs] ijarq igys ge lqizfl¼ oSKkfud vycVZ vkbaLVhu (Einstein) }kjk
fd, x, ,d egÙoiw.kZ loky ij xkSj djsaxs---
D;k izd`fr gekjh bPNkvksa dh fojksèkh gS\
blh loky dks eSa vkils nwljs ygts esa iwNrk gw¡ & D;k izd`fr dk fuekZ.k gekjs
fouk'k osQ fy, fd;k x;k gS\ ;k D;k rjDdh osQ lHkh jkLrs ,d fnu can gks tk,ax\s

124 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl


D;ksafd vc vki bl iqLrd dks iwjk i<+ pqosQ gSa] blfy, bl loky osQ tokc
dh mEehn eSa vki yksxksa ls d:axkA
vxj vki bl vk'kadk ls Hk;Hkhr gSa fd izy; osQ fnu lHkh dqN lekIr gks
tk,xk rks ,sls esa HkfDr] J¼k] fo'okl ,oa vkuan osQ Hkko osQ lkFk ijefirk ijes'oj
osQ izfr d`rK fdl izdkj cus jgk tk ldrk gS\
;kn j[ksa fo'okl osQ vHkko esa J¼k dh e`R;q gks tkrh gSA foKku (Science)
ftls ÅtkZ dk uke nsrk gS] vè;kRe (Spirituality) mlh dks ewy rÙo vFkok ewy
inkFkZ dh laKk nsrk gSA foKku osQ fu;ekuqlkj ÅtkZ dks u rks iSnk fd;k tk ldrk
gS vkSj u gh u"V] ek=k bls #ikarfjr fd;k tk ldrk gS] vFkkZr~ ;g izpqjrk osQ lnSo
cus jgus dh lwpuk nsrk gSA
vHkh gky gh esa fd, x, losZ{k.k osQ vuqlkj ge vHkh rd ek=k 4 izfr'kr
inkFkks± dk gh nksgu djus esa liQy gks ik, gSa] ckdh dk 96 izfr'kr vHkh Hkh 'ks"k
gSA
esjs fopkj ls 96 izfr'kr izpqjrk dk bLrseky djosQ vHkh Hkh dkiQh cM+h
liQyrk izkIr dh tk ldrh gS] rks D;ksa u ge viuk è;ku udkjkRed ls gVkdj
ldkjkRed ckrksa dh rjiQ yxkus dk iz;kl djsaA
v & izfrjksèk
;g mu phtksa esa ls ,d gS ftls ges'kk xyr rjhosQ ls ifjHkkf"kr fd;k tkrk
jgk gSA blosQ vHkko esa d`rKrk Hkh lekIr gks tkrh gSA
ge lHkh dh viuh&viuh vyx&vyx èkkj.kk,a gksrh gSaA phtsa ftl jax&:i]
voLFkk] vkdkj ,oa izdkj esa gSa] ge mUgsa vius rjhosQ ls cny Mkyuk pkgrs gSaA
eq>s xyr u le>saA geesa ls vfèkdrj yksx vU; yksxksa ij viuh bPNkvksa dks
Fkksius osQ vknh gks pqosQ gSa] tSls ¶mls ;g ugha dguk pkfg, Fkk!¸] ¶;g dkj ;gka
[kM+h ugha dh tkuh pkfg, Fkh!¸ ;k fiQj ¶;g eSp rks bafM;k dks gh thruk pkfg,
Fkk!¸ ;g gekjh vfLFkj ,oa vlarks"ktud ekufldrk osQ ifj.kke gSa] fiQj Hkyk
budh mifLFkfr esa d`rK oSQls jgk tk ldrk gSA ge nqfu;k dks cny Mkyuk pkgrs
gSa] tks iwjh rjg vlaHko gSA vr% vkidks esjh lykg gS fd 'kkar jgsa] cgl u djsaA
tks tSlk gS] mls oSlk gh Lohdkj djsaA
;kn j[ksa flDosQ dh Hkkafr izR;sd pht osQ nks igyw gksrs gSa% vPNk&cqjk]
lgh&xyr] nq%[k&lq[k] jkr&fnu] liQyrk&foiQyrk] Hkwydj Hkh bUgsa vyx djus
dk iz;kl u djsa D;ksafd bl dk;Z esa vkidks vliQyrk gh gkFk yxsxhA vkt ;fn
vkidks esjh ;g ckr le> eas vk tkrh gS rks vki nqfu;k osQ lcls lq[kh balku cu
ldrs gSaA
nks ckrsa ges'kk ;kn j[ksa] ,d rks izd`fr gekjh fe=k gS] og gekjh liQyrk esa

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 125


iw.kZr% lg;ksxh gSA
rFkk nwljh ;fn vki fdlh cqjh ifjfLFkfr ls tw> jgs gksa rks ;kn j[ksa fd blosQ
nwljs fljs ij vPNkbZ Hkh fNih gS] ;g ckr vkSj gS fd vHkh mls ns[k ikuk laHko
ugha gSA
thou osQ cqjs vuqHko esjs fy, bZ'oj osQ migkj lkfcr gq, gSaA le; osQ chrus
osQ lkFk eq>s irk pyk fd izR;sd foiQyrk osQ Hkhrj esjh liQyrk osQ u, volj
Hkh fNis FksA
vDlj cqjs dk vuko';d fojksèk djosQ ge mls vkSj vfèkd cqjk ?kfVr djus
osQ fy, ckè; dj nsrs gSaA esjk ekuuk gS fd mls mlh :i esa Lohdkj djrs gq, ge
viuh liQyrk dh jÝrkj dks c<+k ldrs gSaA vr% cqjkbZ esa Hkh vPNkbZ dks [kkstus
dk iz;kl djsa] rFkk ekxZ esa tks Hkh feys mls èkU;okn osQ lkFk bZ'oj dk izlkn
le>dj xzg.k djrs pysaA
larks"k---
larks"k ls gh lPps lq[k dh izkfIr laHko gS] ,slk cgqr ls èkeZ xq# fl[kkrs gSa]
ijarq vkidh tkudkjh osQ fy, crk nwa fd larks"k ,oa lq[k osQ chp tehu vkleku
dk varj gksrk gSA i`Foh ij thfor izR;sd euq"; lq[kh thou thus dh dkeuk djrk
gS] fdarq larks"k thou esa lq[k osQ izos'k osQ lHkh ekxZ can dj nsrk gSA
¶yksx ,d ,slk dke thou Hkj djrs gSa ftls os djuk ugha pkgrs] ;gh lPpk
ikxyiu gSA¸
ftUuh
vkt vesfjdk esa ,sls cgqr lkjs yksx gSa tks mu phtksa osQ lkFk thuk lh[k pqosQ
gSa ftUgsa os ilan ugha djrsA os larq"V gSa ysfdu izlUu ughaA t:jh ugha fd <wa<us ij
Hkh ogka d`rKrk fey gh tk,A
blosQ foijhr [kq'kh eu dh og voLFkk gS ftlesa ge vkuan dk vuqHko djrs
gSaA izlUu gksus ij ge ldkjkRed Hkh gksrs gSaA larks"k osQ eqdkcys ;gka d`rKrk osQ
ik, tkus dh laHkkouk,a dkiQh vfèkd gksrh gSaA
,d larq"V O;fDr & eSa viuh ukSdjh ls uiQjr djrk gw¡] ijarq ,d ;gh dke
gS tks eSa lgh <ax ls dj ldrk gw¡] vr% fjVk;j fd, tkus rd eSa bls djuk ilan
d:axkA
larks"k gekjh vkxs c<+us] vfèkd ikus] vehj cuus] liQyrk ikus dh dkeukvksa
dk neu dj nsrk gSA lar"q V euq"; fLFkj gks tkrk gS] og 'kkar gks tkrk gS] rFkk Bgjko
e`R;q dk lwpd gSA
vr% mijksDr mnkgj.k dks ldkjkRed <ax ls dgk tk, rks ;g dqN bl izdkj
cusxk & eSa viuh ukSdjh ls [kq'k ugha gw¡] D;ksafd eq>s irk gS fd eSa vkSj Hkh cgqr

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dqN dj ldrk gw¡A ijarq eSa Hkxoku dk vkHkkjh gw¡ fd mlus vkxs c<+us osQ dkj.k
osQ :i esa eq>s blls tksM+kA
D;k vc vki nksuksa osQ chp osQ varj dks vuqHko dj ik jgs gSa\
ckWc izkWDVj dgrs gSa & vlarqf"V og pht gS tks gesa vkxs c<+us] vfèkd ikus]
mUufr djus rFkk liQy gksus osQ fy, izsfjr djrh gSA
gekjs vesfjdk esa yksx vDlj dgrs gSa & ,d vPNh lh ukSdjh yx tk,] dqN
#i;k iSlk bdêòk gks tk,] viuk ?kj gks tk,--- rHkh eq>s [kq'kh vkSj 'kkafr feysxhA
,sls yksxksa dks eSa crk nw¡ fd ;fn os vHkh [kq'k jguk ugha tkurs gSa rks Hkfo";
esa Hkh muosQ fy, [kq'k jguk vlaHko gks tk,xk] D;ksafd [kq'kh vkSj 'kkafr nksuksa
vyx&vyx phtsa gSaA
vius thou ij xkSj djsaA vkidks ogka dqN u dqN ,slk t:j feysxk ftls
ysdj vkt Hkh izlUurk ,oa d`rKrk dk vuqHko fd;k tk ldrk gSA tc vki
orZeku esa d`rK ,oa izlUu jguk lh[k tkrs gSa rks Hkfo"; dh izlUurk ,oa liQyrk
osQ }kj Lo;a gh [kqy tk,axsA
{kek
vkius cgqr dqN tkuk] ijarq vHkh dqN ,slk t:j gS tks vkidks tkuuk vkSj
le>uk ckdh gSA bls lh[kus vkSj le>us esa eSaus iwjs chl lky yxk, gSa] ijarq eq>s
iwjh mEehn gS fd vkidks blesa bruk vfèkd le; ugha yxsxkA
vkidks yksxksa dks ekiQ djuk lh[kuk gksxk] og Hkh lPps eu lsA bZlk elhg
dh izkFkZuk ;kn djsa & gs ijefirk bUgsa ekiQ djuk D;ksafd bUgsa ugha irk fd ;s D;k
dj jgs gSaA
lkFk gh Lo;a dks Hkh ekiQ djuk lh[ksa] D;ksafd tks Lo;a dks ekiQ djuk ugha
tkurk og nwljksa dks ekiQ oSQls dj ldrk gSA
pkYlZ fiQyeksj osQ vuqlkj & yEcs le; rd fd;k x;k Øksèk ekuo 'kjhj esa
Hk;adj chekfj;ksa dks tUe nsrk gSA bu chekfj;ksa dk ,d gh bykt gS] og gS {kekA
{kek osQ vHkko esa vkidk chrk gqvk dy udkjkRedrk ls Hkj tkrk gS rFkk
;g vkiosQ vkus okys dy dh liQyrk osQ ekxZ esa ckèkk,a [kM+h djrk gSA
MkWu fexqvy :bt osQ 'kCnksa esa – tc vki vkbZuk ns[krs gSa rc mlesa fn[kkbZ
nsus okys O;fDr ls ;fn vki I;kj ugha djrs gSa rks og 'k=kq cudj vkidks vk?kkr
igqapk,xk] ijarq ;fn vki {kek djrs gq, mls xys yxk ysrs gSa rks og vlaHko dks
laHko cukus esa vkidh enn djsxk] D;ksafd og dksbZ vkSj ugha vkidh dgkuh dk
uk;d gh gSA
esjk nkok gS fd {kek osQ cy ls vkidk chrk gqvk dy vkiosQ fy, vuks[kk
migkj cu tk,xkA

dj yks nqfu;k eqV~Bh esa 127


eSa mu ukStoku ;qod@;qofr;ksa dh lkFkZd thou thus esa enn djuk pkgrk gw¡
tks og 'kfDr] tks'k vkSj thou ewY; ugha lh[k ik,] ftlls mudk thou lgh vFkks±
esa lkFkZd gks ikrkA
ckWc ftu
migkj xzg.k djuk---
o"kks± rd eSa vius fopkjksa dks cnys fcuk gh viuk thou cnyus dk iz;kl
djrk jgk] ijarq ckn esa eq>s ;g jgL; irk pyk fd viuh lksp dks cnydj thou
esa dqN Hkh cnyk tk ldrk gSA
tks dqN Hkh ge lksprs gSa ogh gekjs iz;kl cu tkrs gSa] rFkk gekjs iz;kl gh
gesa ifj.kkeksa rd igqapkrs gSaA
vc loky ;g mBrk gS fd d`rKrk osQ fl¼kar dk ikyu djus okyk euq";
eupkgs ifj.kkeksa rd rst xfr ls oSQls igqap ldrk gS\
;g cgqr gh ljy gS & viZ.k osQ }kjk!
liQy yksx viuk le;] èku] lg;ksx] izsj.kk] Kku] fopkj] [kq'kh rFkk mRlkg
ckaVrs gSa D;ksafd os fØ;k&izfrfØ;k] izpqjrk ,oa d`rKrk osQ fu;eksa esa fo'okl j[krs
gSaA
tc vki ckaVrs gSa rks bldk lhèkk lk vFkZ ;g gksrk gS fd vki izpjq rk osQ fu;e
esa iwjk fo'okl j[krs gSa rFkk vfèkd dh okilh osQ ekxZ dks lqfuf'pr cuk jgs gSaA
;fn vki ckaVxas s ugha rks ;g c<+xs k Hkh ughaA ;kn j[ksa ekSr dh ?kkVh esa ikuh osQoy
vanj gh tkrk gS mlls ckgj ugha vkrkA
MkW- tks okbVYl dh iqLrd ¶n xzsVsLV euh esfdax lhØsV bu fgLVªh¸ esa ilhZ
jksl dh dFkk us eq>s dkiQh izHkkfor fd;k] ftlus 17 o"kks± esa 3 djksM+ MkWyj ls Hkh
vfèkd ckaV MkysA
eSa iqLrosQa i<+us dk 'kkSdhu gw¡A eSaus ¶,Wt ;w fo'k¸ rFkk ¶fLizpqvy ekosQZfVax¸
dh rhu lkS ls Hkh vfèkd izfr;ka vius fe=kksa ,oa lg;ksfx;ksa dks migkj Lo:i ckaV
nha] ifj.kke Lo:i mUgksaus eq>s bruh lkjh iqLrosQa migkj esa okil nha fd esjs ikl
rhu fMCcksa ls Hkh vfèkd fdrkcsa rFkk vkWfM;ks VsIl bdêòs gks x,A vc gkyr ;g
gS fd ftl jÝrkj ls eSa fdrkcsa ckaVrk gw¡ os mlls Hkh vfèkd jÝrkj ,oa ek=kk esa
migkj cudj okil ykSV vkrh gSaA ;gh gS fØ;k&izfrfØ;k dk fu;e rFkk fxo ,aM
Vsd (give & take) dh rkdrA
vr% ;fn vkidks le; pkfg, rks igys vius le; dks ckaV]as ;fn vkidks I;kj
pkfg, rks igys vU; yksxksa dks I;kj djsa] ;fn vkidks lg;ksx pkfg, rks nwljs yksxksa
dks lg;ksx djsa] blh izdkj ;fn vkidks èku pkfg, rks igys #i;k&iSlk dekus esa
vU; yksxksa dh enn djsa- - -
^^vehjh dk jgL;** ls lkHkkj
128 CY;w fizaV iQkWj lDlsl

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