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Dream’s Reality
When Henry and I enter City Hall’s side entrance, Mr. “Guy”
greets us warmly.
I nod.
Now we step inside the Judge’s chamber, and I reach to shake Mr.
Bernabe’s hand.
in for me.
I’m unsure of all the Judge has asked of me, so I murmur, “Yes.” I
just stand overwhelmed and more concerned with what the future
entails. Then as Henry turns to kiss his bride, I let out a sigh for having
We’re now escorted back downstairs to pay the required fee and
approaches Henry. “Young man, are you here to get married?” he asks
firmly.
certificate.”
I can’t make out what else Henry says before he whisks me off to
Outside, we’re both relieved to move away from the building and
catch a bus for the park. We walk the grounds and share a soft drink
while Henry tells me he must dash back to Clark Field this evening to
get his pay. Then he’ll return after tomorrow. Since there’s not much I
So here I sit. I suppose this is the way a married woman‘s life goes.
The husband is here one day and gone the next. Well, at least he can
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get paid and be back for New Year‘s. I realize that 1 must return to
work after that time to tell the Sadlers what’s taken place. Here I am,
God keeps caring fir me, so my life is still in His hands. Perhaps He‘s
directed my life this way. I can only take one day at a time, as always,
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Henry’s back as promised but with his buddy, and it’s New Year’s
Eve.
Stupid, I’m thinking when Henry and I finally leave for home.
Then as we’re stepping off the bus, my husband spots a small jewelry
“Are you still open for business?” asks Henry, “we’d like to buy a
ring.”
narrow opening.
I’m not impressed with the big ring we look at but prefer the delicate
one.
Henry nods and pays him. Little does he realize his purchase is
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It’s now the first morning of 1949, and Henry says he must return to
Clark Field in a few days. He won’t be able to see me again until the
“Well, I’m also going to have to see if my bosses are back yet and
to do something new.”
There’s a place nearby that offers classes. “Sessions are held at night,
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“If that’s what you want, but like I said, I’d rather you go to school
than return to housekeeping.”
he says he doesn’t want me to stay with my job. “I’ll speak with Mrs.
“Maybe I could see about working until they return to the United
States. Then when you come again at the end of the month, I’ll be sure
“That’s fine, but remember, I’d rather you no longer worked there.”
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Now that we’ve packed Henry’s duffel bag, I’m struck with a crazy
thought. How will the people in the compound react when I tell them I
got married? Nobody--not even Hedy and the girls are aware. Then
again, Rosario knows. I’m curious as to what they’ll say now that I’ve
Filipino girls only to be forced to leave the women behind when they
return to the US. Well, I suppose I’ll hear all about it tomorrow. I’m
why he married me the way he did and not hold anything against me for
it.
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Henry just left for Clark Field, so I’m off to work, myself.
see you. Your closet seems to be full with letters from your American
to wed him because he seemed to like me, too. His frequent visits to
I shake my head.
been. He just said he knew nothing about it and asked who it was you
married.”
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“I thought you were the one she married, I told Jaime, but he said,
‘No ma’am, I didn’t marry her. She isn’t my girlfriend.’ Well for
goodness sakes, exactly whom did she many? It was embarrassing, and
person.
What a mix-up, I’m thinking, it must have been Rosario who broke
“Well, dear, everyone seems to know you got married, but we’re all
“You’ll never guess,” I say, “I married the guy who’s been sending
Now that we’ve got the right guy with the right girl, I tell her that I
never made it out to the province. “Henry just showed up the day before
I was to leave. He came to spend Christmas with me. And that’s why I
“I’m so happy for you, honey. I know you two will be great. Perhaps
you can find out where he’s from in the States, and maybe we’ll see each
“Well, even if it’s across the States, we’ll try to come to see you at
“I’ll ask him where his family lives the next time he’s here.”
I nod and tell her what my husband said about not working here
anymore.
“Oh! well, if you quit working for us before we leave, we’ll just take
care of things ourselves and not bother getting someone else to help.”
She appears quite disappointed. “It won’t be too long before we leave
anyway. But if you can stay on, we’d be happy to have you.”
I tell her I’ll see what Henry says. It would be nice to continue
suppose I’ll have to swallow my pride and agree. I begin gathering the
dirty clothes the Sadlers brought home from Baguio. Maybe I’ll see
Hedy in the laundry house today. Then I can tell her what really took
place while she was away. She probably heard the mixed up news like
For now, I must think of what to do. I can attend school as Henry
wishes, but I also wouldn’t mind working here until my bosses leave. I
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do hope he lets me because I‘d feel bad to abandon them now. They’re
I set off to the laundry house, and sure enough, Hedy, Lourdes, and
Mary are already inside when I arrive. The three are busy at one
washtub when I come to sit beside Lourdes. “Hello, girls,” I say, “how
themselves.
I begin to think that maybe they heard the news and are somewhat
Then as I leave, they murmur something to the fact that I’d married
I sigh and head back to the house to hang the clothes out to dry.
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time to possibly arrange for her to go the United States with him. My
best bet would be to try and accomplish that, but should it fail, I can see
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It’s nearly a whole month since I last saw Henry, but I’m busy
picking out souvenirs with Mrs. Sadler. We’ve been to Market many
times to find knickknack and specialty items which she can easily pack
helping her.
I’m thinking, Mrs. Sadler is such a nice lady, like a mother to me.
And as far as that goes, she seems to be the only one who truly cares for
Some girls are saying I’m nothing but the worst they can think of for
their imagination. So I’m back to the way I was long ago when I had
but one friend, Carmen. She stuck by me when my mom died. It seems
everything dies around me, especially with the way the girls have
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turned on me. But I thank God for time with Mrs. Sadler to draw my
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I’ve been staying with my bosses while Henry’s gone, but he’ll be
coming again in a few days. So it’s time I return to our little room at
Rosario’s place. Up to this point, I’ve been busy with Mrs. Sadler to
back to America.
I’m just so grateful for this woman who’s been so kind to me. Yes,
she’s my boss but also my friend. She makes sure I’m not so lonely
though, after having visited Aunt Mary and her family. They’re also
Come to think of it, Lina seems to be the only one who’s happy for
me. When I tracked her down at the restaurant, we were only able to
speak a few minutes. But she said she’s eager to hear all about my new
life. She’s even jealous I’m married with someone to call my own. I’m
happy we could laugh together about all we used to say and do when I
to look forward to. Lina is much older than I am but really nice. It
seems each time we get together, we’re like two eager kids again. I’m
happy to have a friend like her. She’s another one of those people who
seem to make life a little easier here on this earth.
I just thank God that everybody isn’t alike. I do realize that Hedy
and the others have good within them, regardless of what they’re
thinking right now. I suppose they just can ‘t understand why I married
someone different from me. But I must respect their way of thinking and
get on with my life. Yes, I could have done something else, but I took
this route.
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Well, I’m here at home, sitting on our little bed, waiting for my
husband to come back. I hope he has a good bus ride as I step from the
She and her husband share the next room, which is just as cramped
as ours.
I feel sorry for them after she tells me how hard he works for their
living. She also mentions that he only receives a dollar a day, barely
enough to pay for rent and groceries at the end of each week.
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Anyway, we sit together on the stairs outside and spot the older
woman who lives in the tiny house, which stands next to this one.
As she comes along our walkway, she seems to think she’s the queen
her head.
Then Mary and I peer down, and it’s difficult not to laugh.
“Hey!” she cries, “what was that!? You could have hurt somebody.”
She says she does try to say ‘hello’ to those who pass her way now
“You and your husband, Henry, are really nice. I hope you both will
be happy.”
We speak about Rosario and her ill husband being on the other side
of the wall. There are also three other families living up here on the top
floor. Rosario tries to keep each room rented to generate income.
water to bathe with. But there’s not much we can do other than to let
the used water run down and out through the bamboo floor. Of course,
we have faucets outside between the two houses to draw from whenever
this place.
Henry’s just arriving, and I’m glad to see him. I didn’t think I would
be, but for some reason I am. We have much to talk about as far as
I think I’ll let him enjoy the evening and wait until tomorrow to tell
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“Would you mind if I work for them until then? They say they won’t try
to employ anyone else if I quit.” I say I’d feel bad if they were left
without help. “Also, I checked into the school for dressmaking and
hairdressing. The classes last an hour and a half each night, so I
wouldn’t have to stay out late. I’d make it home before dusk.”
Virginia.”
Henry’s eyes widen. “My folks don’t live far from there--maybe fifty
miles or so.”
But what am I thinking? I don’t even know whether I’ll ever get there
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Now that Henry’s returned to his station again for another month,
I’ll enroll in the classes we spoke about. They’re due to begin soon. So
Before we were married, I wasn’t concerned about it. But now that I
know I’m a married woman and can hardly see my husband. So this I
him.
side of the city, he often can’t come home because the bus costs money.
So he just stays with a friend near his workplace.” She frowns and says,
“I could go with him, but we have to keep a home here together. I can’t
have this place along with another. There just isn’t enough money left
The poor thing, I think, I see what she‘s up against. I ask if she
around to see if someone needs help.” She shakes her head. “My
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“It’s difficult for me to do, too. I’d like to make extra money for us
to save.”
I’m glad she doesn’t have children yet with their situation. I feel so
sorry for her. At least we’re able to cook supper together sometimes
when her husband’s not home. It helps her not to have to buy the food
by herself.
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Mrs. Sadler’s thinking of buying material to have a dress made.
She’d like to have her initials embroidered on the left side of the front in
Chinese lettering.
you’d like.”
care of it.
When we return the following day, she finds the dress to be exactly
the way she imagined. So she’s quite pleased. The next thing on our
agenda is to purchase a special shirt for Mr. Sadler. Mrs. Sadler would
like to pick out a barong tagalog, a shirt sewn from pineapple material.
So I take her downtown to find one in his size. She surely has been
nearly two months. I’m ever grateful for her friendship, though. I have
strange but also nice to hear her introduce me as Mrs. Miller instead of
Miller now and must get used to it. But it’s great going around with her.
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now. I’m back at our room and thanking God we do have this little
place to stay in when he comes to see me.
Mrs. Sadler has often told me she’ll make sure to keep me from
being so lonely while he’s away. And she’s doing just that. I’m so
appreciative that she and Mr. Sadler act more like family than not with
share their meal at the table. I guess they’re teaching me to live more
I thank God for helping me to realize that there are still a lot of nice
when they’re unable to avoid seeing me. Other than that, their
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wrote to his parents to let them know that if he’s not able to get me to
“Well, they recently wrote back to ask if you’d like to go to the States
Now I’m happy to hear that his mother has invited me to do so. I
thank God over and over that his parents are accepting me as one of the
family. So I guess we can start looking into how I might to go to
America.
apply for my passport and exit papers. But in the meantime, he’ll write
to his father to see if he would find someone in the States to help us out
from that side. Some have suggested that I go as a student and then
it right.
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Henry and I say goodbye for another month, but I know I’ll be all
right. I thank God for directing what’s taking place. Although I don’t
understand it, my job is to follow His leading. So I’ll trust that this is
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