- By Big Business
When I first moved to New York City, I learned about the canyon between “city people” (wholive on the island of Manhattan) and “everyone else.”One thing about city people is they don’t like to leave Manhattan, and definitely not to go all theway to Queens with some guy they just met. It’s no big deal, except I live in Queens and go toManhattan a lot.Once I started learning Love Systems, I was actually able to pull beautiful women home to my place in Queens. But in the meantime, I also got good at making things work by going back toher place, which is why Savoy asked me to write this article.
1) Find out where she lives.
This step seems obvious, but you'd be surprised how often it is unintentionally left out. Whenyou know where a woman lives, you can plan ahead to deal with the logistical problems you’regoing to hit later.Does she live near the venue? Does she have a roommate? Is she in a dorm? Do you know of acool bar/after hours joint near her place? When you want to bounce her back there, are yougoing to drive, walk, or take a cab? Even if you end up with a phone number + date instead of going home with her, this info will be useful for when you go out again.Here are a few scenarios to consider, and ways I've figured out how to deal with them.
When there is a separate bedroom to retreat to, sacrificing a few minutes of conversation to win over the roommate(s) will make your being there a lot morecomfortable. After they trust you, you can use any nonsense reason to bounce your girlto her bedroom. "Bet my room is cleaner than yours," is one example.
If she lives a cab ride away, be sure to keep up the momentum in the car, andcontinue to build up physical intimacy. If you were touching her arm in the bar, touchher leg in the cab. If you were about to make out in the bar, make out in the cab. Avoidcabs with bucket seats that make physical contact impossible.
If there's a security guard, you can go through the lengthy (and vibe-killing) process of giving him your ID and signing in, or you can tell the girl to slide her card