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Even If You Already Have
a Girlfriend, for the
Smart You™
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001. Ten Lowdown Secrets to Success with Women, Even If
You Already Have a Girlfriend, for the Smart You™
Are you a saver or a woman magnet? Take the test to find out!
It's an interesting fact that you can become a millionaire in two different
ways: Either by being a big-time saver, or by being a big-time cash magnet
to support a grandiose lifestyle. Now, call me irresponsible, but most of us
would rather be a millionaire of the latter type. But when thoughts turn into
action, most of us would run for the hills and opt to be a saver instead. It
takes courage to want to become a millionaire through attracting big bucks
into your hands!
But if those men mature their courage to become women magnets (but for
the rest of this post, we'll call women magnets "leaders of women"!), they
will have women flocking to their beds for the rest of their lives. And indeed,
it takes courage to be one. The following ten golden rules reveal to you the
core of mindset of such woman magnets, or leaders of women. The test,
which measures up how well you perform, when it comes to your being a
woman magnet, comes at the end, after you've trodden through all ten
golden rules:
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Rule #1: Always show her your willingness to leave her, if she starts
to misbehave, or is unwilling to compromise.
Another way of rephrasing the rule is this; "never look needy to a woman,
look as if she's the one needing you. And if she does misbehave, or is
unwilling to compromise, let her go. There are far too many fishes out there
in the vast ocean that is love."
☆~★~#1~☆~★
#2. All women want someone to tell them, "follow me."
I knew of a 40 year-old drug rep who was down on his luck with the woman
he dated; she dumped him after a seemingly endless series of dates.
His story:
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☆~★~#2~☆~★
#3. Know what kind of relationship you are in.
☆~★~#3~☆~★
#4. Know that all things regress, or tend to the average, or neutral
zone.
Another way of rephrasing this is that all actions have equal and opposite
reactions (towards the neutral zone). For instance:
You treat her too nice; she'll start being a little less nicer to
you.
You treat her a little poorer; she'll start being a little nicer to
you.
You don't give her attention; she'll seek it from you. (Does not
hold for established relationships. This is a prime reason why
marriages end in divorce).
You give her too much attention; she'll start to ignore you.
(Does not hold for established relationships).
You treat her like a princess; she'll want to step on you. (Does
not hold for established relationships).
You buy her stuff (flowers, presents, dinners); she'll start to
become more suspicious of your motive and think of you as being
manipulative. (Irrelevant, if you do it to reward her for having
laid you, or given you fellatio).
You never buy her stuff; she'll want to show you her generous
side.
You act like you want her; she'll start to dislike you.
You act like you don't ever want to have her kids; she'll bear
your child :).
You make her happier; she'll make you a little sadder. (Does
not hold for established relationships).
You make her sadder; she'll make you a lot more happier :).
You show her your willingness to leave her; she'll want to stick
with you till death do you both part.
etc.
☆~★~#4~☆~★
#5. All rules are meant to be broken... by her!
There comes a time when a woman will test your ability to maintain control
over her and yourself, which usually occurs between the second and third
date. And she will test you in two ways:
Use these opportunities to counter and kick her butt instead, or to show her
how strong you really are, emotionally speaking! You will gain more respect
from her doing thus.
Date canceler.
YOU: (On the cellphone). That's the biggest bullsh1t I've ever
heard! Are you trying to test my patience by wasting my time? I
could have re-scheduled my time for more constructive things,
had you called me up a few days earlier to tell me about this!
Either you get your butt over here to my place, right now, or you
go find yourself another boyfriend! (Hang up).
Jealousy conjuress.
YOU: That's nice. Did you have fun (being with/talking to/talking
about) so-and-so?
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#6. Know what turns women on.
If you were told that most of our political leaders lead with their personality,
few lead with their intelligence, and fewer yet lead with their good looks, it
immediately becomes obvious to you that people tend to look up to leaders
with great personalities more than those with good looks. And you already
know that when it comes to women, leaders of women are really women
magnets. So never assume that you're too thin/fat/tall/short/bald/hairy-
chested/pimple-faced/broke to approach women, because your personality
matters more to them.
☆~★~#6~☆~★
#7. Show your anger once in a full moon.
Don't keep her wondering where all of that ugly stuff comes from when it
finally springs out on an established relationship. Try knocking on something
when you become angry, but never ever turn your anger on other people,
especially your girlfriend. Another good way to dissipate anger and stress is
to just hit the gym and let it all out.
☆~★~#7~☆~★
#8. Don't drown in her menstrual temperament, surf it instead!
All living things experience change. Women are no different. Be aware that
there comes a time in a woman's menstrual cycle, when even she will not
want to hold her boyfriend's hand. So, a little patience and understanding
goes a long way towards maintaining healthy relationships.
☆~★~#8~☆~★
#9. Abandon your left brain, activate your right brain.
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#10. Avoid saying, "I love you," until after you've laid her, lest she
annihilates you completely from her world, forever (a.k.a. the
rejection).
Like most guys, you have been saving up for that BMW car model that
you've always wanted. Well, guess what happens on the day that you wake
up to find it sleeping in your garage? You won't want it anymore! We usually
stop wanting things the moment we are in possession of them. In terms of
women and relationships, the moment she knows that she's got your full
devotion (a.k.a. the moment you tell her, "I love you") is the moment that
excitement begins to slow down for her.
Thank the Almighty from high above for oxytocin; the hormone which
increases and replenishes a woman's romantic vigor, keeps her attached to
you, and is elaborated soon after you've laid her. Hence, if you let a woman
know too soon that she's got you, you risk slowing down her excitement for
you to a halt.
☆~★~#10~☆~★
Note:
This e-book is the tip of the iceberg only!!
These 10 golden rules actually comprise a
FREE blog article that I wrote. Visit my
blog site at www.rickytran.com for more
great FREE articles such as:
002. Flowers Instead of Chocolates? No Way!
Etc.
Question 1: Do you always show her your willingness to leave her, if she
starts to misbehave, or is unwilling to compromise?
Question 2: Have you always told your woman, "follow me"?
Question 3: Have you always known what kind of relationship you were in
from the start?
Question 4: Do you always keep on the back of your mind that all things
regress, or tend to the average, or neutral zone?
Question 5: Have you survived her test(s) of date cancelation(s) and/or
jealousy conjuration(s)?
Question 6: Have you always known what turns women on?
Question 7: Have you shown your anger once in a full moon?
Question 8: Have you avoided drowning under her menstrual
temperament and surfed it instead?
Question 9: Have you abandon your left brain, and acted from your right
brain, when it comes to women?
Question 10: Have you avoided saying, "I love you", or writing her love
letters until after you've laid her?
If you rank +7/10 on this test, you're doing pretty good as a woman
magnet.