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Let your mind start a journey thru a strange new world. Leave all thoughts of th
e world you knew before. Let your soul take you where you long to be...Close you
r eyes let your spirit start to soar, and you ll live as you ve never lived befo
re.”
------Erich Fromm
To put the world right in order, we must first put the nation in order; to put t
he nation in order, we must first put the family in order; to put the family in
order, we must first cultivate our personal life; we must first set our hearts r
ight.
Confucius:
Life is a process of becoming, a combination of states we have to go through. Wh
ere people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a k
ind of death.
Anais Nin:
Gage’s story hinted at an amazing fact: somehow, there are systems in the human br
ain…. Concerned specifically with unique human properties, amont them the ability
to anticipate the future and plan accordingly within a complex social environmen
t ; the sense of responsibility toward the self and others; and the ability to o
rchestrate one’s survival deliberately, at the command of one’s free will
-------Antonio Damasio
There is no witness so terrible, no accuser so powerful as conscience which dwel
ls within us.”
Sophocles
My people are going to learn the principles of democracy the dictates of truth a
nd the teachings of science. Superstition must go. Let them worship as they will
, every man can follow his own conscience provided it does not interfere with sa
ne reason or bid him act against the liberty of his fellow men.
Mustafa Kemal Ataturk -
The five colors blind the eye.
The five tones deafen the ear.
The five flavors dull the taste.
Racing and hunting madden the mind.
Precious things lead one astray.
Therefore the sage is guided by what he feels
And not what he sees
----Tao Te Ching
Robert Plutchik created the Wheel of emotion which consisted of 8 basic emotions
and 8 advanced emotions each composed of 2 basic ones. In order to restore your
feelings, start mapping your emotions and so that you can simulate the feelings
. Minimize the effect of negative emotions. For instance, if you are really ang
ry, you can diminish the anger into annoyance. On the same token, maximize the e
ffect of positive emotions. For instance, you can intensify your acceptance of
something into admiration. As a leader, learn how to reverse the entropy of feel
ings in yourself and your followers, and, at the same time keep them subjugated
whenever needed.
Acceptance of what has happened is the first step to overcoming the consequences
of any misfortune.
William James
You always admire what you really don t understand.”
Blaise Pascal
“Now you understand the Oriental passion for tea," said Japhy. "Remember that bo
ok I told you about the first sip is joy, the second is gladness, the third is s
erenity, the fourth is madness, the fifth is ecstasy.”
Jack Kerouac
“The moment you have in your heart this extraordinary thing called love and feel t
he depth, the delight, the ecstasy of it, you will discover that for you the wor
ld is transformed.”
Jiddu Krishnamurti
“All interest in disease and death is only another expression of interest
in life.”
Thomas Mann
When good people in any country cease their vigilance and struggle, then evil me
n prevail.
Pearl S. Buck
“"Reeling and Writhing, of course, to begin with," the Mock Turtle replied, "and t
hen the different branches of Arithmetic Ambition, Distraction, Uglification, an
d Derision”
Lewis Carroll
“The fairest thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the fundamen
tal emotion which stands at the cradle of true art and true science. He who know
it not and can no longer wonder, no longer feel amazement, is as good as dead,
a snuffed-out can”
Albert Einstein
The more the critical reason dominates, the more impoverished life becomes; but
the more of the unconscious, and the more of the myth we are capable of making c
onscious, the more of life we integrate
---Carl Jung, Memories, Dreams, Reflections.
Myth is an attempt to narrate a whole human experience, of which the purpose is
too deep, going too deep in the blood and soul, for mental explanation or descri
ption.
D.H. Lawrence :
Myth embodies the nearest approach to absolute truth that can be stated in words
-----Ananda Coomaraswamy, Hinduism and Buddhism,
The heart has its reasons which reason knows not of.
Blaise Pascal:
“ A hero ventures forth from the world of common day into a region of supe
rnatural wonder: fabulous forces are there encountered and a decisive victory is
won: the hero comes back from this mysterious adventure with the power to besto
w boons on his fellow man.
-----Joseph Campbell, The Hero with a Thousand Faces
Every religion is true one way or another. It is true when understood metaphoric
ally. But when it gets stuck in its own metaphors, interpreting them as facts, t
hen you are in trouble.
Joseph Campbell
“It is not reason which is the guide of life, but custom.”
David Hume
Others apart sat on a hill retired,
In thoughts more elevate, and reasoned high
Of Providence, Foreknowledge, Will, and Fate--
Fixed fate, free will, foreknowledge absolute,
And found no end, in wandering mazes lost.
Of good and evil much they argued then,
Of happiness and final misery,
Passion and apathy, and glory and shame:
Vain wisdom all, and false philosophy!--
-- II.557-65,Milton, Paradise Lost
D. Improvise your Imagination by recombining images
Reconnecting with myths in your life prepares you to start using the immense pow
er of your imagination. As a Leader, sometimes you need to impart instructions a
nd messages in the form of stories and narratives to your audience. Your words c
an evoke feelings but they would be more effective if they also evoked mental im
ages and let your followers see the big picture of your vision. What we see, tou
ch, hear,smell,taste i.e. our perceptions gets represented in our mind as pict
ures and related thought forms and become the “raw material” of our imagination. Onc
e we start improvising on these raw materials by recombining these pictures and
project them into the future, we give birth to imagination.
Imagination then is a conscious act where we stretch the boundaries of our mind.
It is not a stagnant state but rather a constant work in progress. Most great d
iscoveries of mankind has happened due to the work of imagination. It is the cre
ative faculty of the mind and often lead to foresight. Sometimes, imagination i
s looked down upon and dismissed as “unreal” but, if you go back to Chapter 3, if wi
ll see that the nature of reality itself is very subjective. Both reality and im
agination resides in our mind. We are too caught up with reality because our Ego
is wedded to our current reality. In reality, there is a very thin line between
reality and imagination. Imagination is the key to improve your reality but it
has got rusted over the years. So oil and sharpen this key and use it to unlock
the doors of a fabulous life for you, your family and your organization.
Active Imagination is a method of meditation developed by Carl Jung in which som
e of the contents of our unconscious is translated into images or stories. It in
cludes working on dreams and our creative energy via imagination and fantasy. Th
e key is to use techniques like visualization to let the mental images flow with
minimal interference from our conscious mind. In this way, you can begin to red
iscover your dreams and desires of success which your conscious mind has buried
under the current, Ego infused reality.
Imagine a future where the word failure does not exist and you can get whatever
you dream. First of all, you will not only start dreaming more but also become e
xcited about achieving your dreams. You will also teach your family members, yo
ur followers and whoever you know to dream all these big dreams. Then, start mak
ing your dreams more vivid by feeling as if you have already achieved your desir
es and you are living your dream. Then, look back at your current reality a bad
dream and promise yourself that you will soon awake to your true reality of succ
ess, accomplishment, significance etc and, upon awakening, realize that your pas
t was just a bad dream and be thankful that you have come out from your nightmar
e stronger and with more zest to catch up for lost time and lead life to its ful
lest.
All the works of man have their origin in creative fantasy. What right have we t
hen to depreciate imagination.
Carl Jung
“In order to grasp the fantasies which were stirring in me ‘underground, I knew that
I had to let myself plummet down into them.”
---- Carl Jung, Memories, Dreams, Reflections,”
Reality leaves a lot to imagination.
---John Lennon.
Imagination is more important than knowledge.
Knowledge is limited.
Imagination encircles the world.
Albert Einstein
Imagination properly employed is our greatest friend; it goes beyond reason and
is the only light that takes us everywhere
-----Swami Vivekananda
“Imagination is the real and eternal world of which this vegetable universe is but
a faint shadow.”
William Blake
"The value of imagination is in its power to empathize with people whose experie
nces you ve never had. As is a tale, so is life: not how long it is, but how goo
d it is, is what matters."
JK Rowling, from commencement speech at harvard,2008.
Gregory (Scotland Yard detective): "Is there any other point to which you would
wish to draw my attention?"
Holmes: "To the curious incident of the dog in the night-time."
Gregory: "The dog did nothing in the night-time."
Holmes: "That was the curious incident."
-------Arthur Conan Doyle
E.Intensify your experiences by tagging them with emotions
“A burnt child dreads the Fire”----- popular wisdom
Fire is something which attracts our attention. However, if we happen to get bur
nt, then, we cease to look at fire in the same, playful manner. Our emotions put
a tag on fire so that whenever we come close to fire in the future, we react in
stinctively and move away. Whenever, we undergo an experience, our emotions ough
t to tag that experience. If that experience was pleasurable, it should get tagg
ed positively, whereas, if it was painful, it should get tagged negatively. Howe
ver, often, this process of emotional tagging does not function properly in us a
nd we keep repeating the same patterns of mistake over and over again. The burnt
child, instead of dreading the fire, approaches the fire the same way he did b
efore he got burnt. Similarly, do not learn from our experiences, but keep makin
g the same mistakes over and over again.
Our Ego tells us that we have learnt from our experience. True learning can only
happen when you engage not only the rational mind, but also the Mammalian/Emoti
onal Brain. Before you start looking into your past experiences, lets make a cle
ar distinction between representation and experience in your mind. When you go
through an experience, representations, whether images or symbols, are formed i
n your mind. Representation is a passive process; you have to make a conscious e
ffort to reflect on these representations and tag them with emotions so that you
can convert them into real experiences aka wisdom and grow. Otherwise, you may
undergo a life time of experience but still remain inexperienced.
Why do you need to visualize your past experience? In order to be successful, yo
u need to have experience or learn through the trial and error of new experience
. Your past experience is not real experience; it is merely representations whic
h are unprocessed experience. You have two choices; either, go through more fail
ures, learn from them and then be successful. Or, you can go back to your repres
entations of past failures or mediocrity in your mind and process them into expe
rience and wisdom so that you avoid the pain of future trial and errors. The cho
ice is yours. Your reality is determined by past experience,so change the past r
epresentations in your mind, make your past experiences better and improve your
current reality.
When you start visualizing your past experiences in the representations in your
mind, you start unfreezing past images in your memory and making new meaning out
of them. Suddenly, past regrets and desires come alive and you start projecting
them into the future. Your visualizing process acquires a deeper meaning for yo
u. When you tap your latent desires and ambitions buried in your mental represen
tations, and attach them to the images of success you are visualizing for yourse
lf, you start tapping into the deepest powers of creation and harness universal
forces to create astounding success for yourself.
There are conditions to be met without which an experience cannot come to be. Th
e outline of the common pattern is set by the fact that every experience is the
result of interaction between a live creature and some aspect of the world in wh
ich he lives. A man does something; he lifts, let us ay, a stone. In consequence
he undergoes, suffers, something: the weight, strain, texture of the surface of
the thing lifted. The properties thus undergone determine further doing. The st
one is too heavy or too angular, not solid enough; or else the properties underg
one show it is fit for which it is intended. The process continues until a mutua
l adaptation of the self and the object emerges and that particular experience c
omes to a close. What is true of this simple instance is true, as to form, of ev
ery experience
--------- John Dewey
You cannot create experience. You must undergo it
--- Camus
To regret one’s own experience is to arrest one’s own development. To deny one’s one e
xperience is to put a lie into the lips of one’s life. It is no less than a denial
of the soul.
---Oscar Wilde
Learning from experience is a faculty almost never practiced.
Barbara Tuchman:
The spectacles of experience; through them you will see clearly a second time.
Henrik Ibsen
Experience taught me a few things. One is to listen to your gut, no matter how g
ood something sounds on paper. The second is that you re generally better off st
icking with what you know. And the third is that sometimes your best investments
are the ones you don t make.
Donald Trump
If you can just get your mind together
Uh-then come on across to me
Well hold hands and then well watch the sunrise
From the bottom of the sea
But first, are you experienced?
------ Jimi Hendrix
F.Unify your fragmented Selves with those of others
Your Self is the sum total of what is considered as you. There are a lot of comp
onents that form the essence of You. Some of these components are your charact
er, your experience, your personality, your identity, the list is endless. In or
der to have unity in your Self, these various components must function in harmon
y with each other. A harmonius Self makes us balanced and help us exert willpo
wer towards the direction of our goals and desires. However, in most of us, our
Self is fragmented with different components pulling us in different directions.
For instance, if our character is not aligned with our Intelligence, our effort
s won’t lead us to the right direction and we won’t make progress towards our dest
iny.
The moment you realize that you Self is fragmented, you immediately start moving
towards unity. Till before, your sub-conscious mind did not have a unity as a g
oal. Once you set this goal, on a sub-conscious level, you already are being pro
pelled towards unity. According to Dutch philosopher Baruch Spinoza, the desire
to preserve the unity and the integrity of the Self, is the biggest drive among
humans. So start tapping into this power which is dormant in you.
Having a divided Self, means that you have the potential of creating greater uni
ty and balance in your personality. History shows us, that those people whose
Selves had got deeply divided, are often the one who ultimately creates the most
unity and harmony. William James, in The Varieties of Religious Experience, has
written extensively on this topic of divided self and its unification. He gives
examples from historical figures like Tolstoy, John Bunyan and, most famously,
Christian theologist, St Augustine, all of whom managed to overcome severe divis
ion and fragmentation of personality to achieve high degree of satisfaction and
greatness. So if you feel that your Self is very divided or fragmented, it only
means that you have gone through more suffering and have acquired the mental mu
scle which is required for very high degree of success and satisfaction.
You can construct your Self by using concepts like Self Esteem, Self Image, Self
Realization etc. As children, we learn to construct our sense of self by intern
alizing Self directed speech; Shakespeare has used this approach in Hamlet with
the extensive use of soliloquy. Having a healthy Self concept helps you to not o
nly aim higher and be more successful, but also to have greater satisfaction and
happiness. Sometimes, unity can happen when we come out of our Self and connect
and be a part of the Self of people around us; our family members, friends, col
leagues etc. Then, our Identity expands beyond the narrow confines of our Selves
to include our family, our groups, our organization.
Normal , day to day,leadership is considered to be transactional. When a Leader
becomes aware of the various Self concepts of the followers and starts boosting
their Self Image, Self Esteem and other elements of their Self and guide them to
the path of Self Realization, then leadership becomes truly transformational an
d starts bringing out the best in people. As a leader, you need to create unity
among the diverse aspects of your Self, and lift up your followers and transform
them to higher level of beings.
Conatus sese preservandi(the will to preserve the integrity of the Self)
----Spinoza
Let me quote from some typical cases of discordant personality, with melancholy
in the form of self-condemnation and sense of sin. Saint Augustine s case is a c
lassic example. You all remember his half-pagan, half-Christian bringing up at C
arthage, his emigration to Rome and Milan, his adoption of Manicheism and subseq
uent skepticism, and his restless search for truth and purity of life; and final
ly how, distracted by the struggle between the two souls in his breast and asham
ed of his own weakness of will……..Augustine s psychological genius has given an acco
unt of the trouble of having a divided self which has never been surpassed
William James, Variety of religious experience
To be quite accurate, I ought to give a different name to each of the “me’s” who were
to think about Albertine in time to come, I ought still more to give a different
name to each of the Albertine’s who appeared before me, never the same.
--- Marcel Proust.
"Such was the complexity of things. For what happened to her, especially staying
with the Ramsays, was to be made to feel violently two opposite things at the s
ame time; that s what you feel, was one; that s what I feel, was the other, and
then they fought together in her mind, as now. It is so beautiful, so exciting,
this love, that I tremble on the verge of it, and offer, quite out of my own hab
it, to look for a broach on a beach. . ."
---Virginia Woolf, To the Lighthouse
“Self esteem is the reputation we acquire with ourselves.”
Nathaniel Branden
No one is ever away from his Self and therefore everyone is in fact self-realize
d.
-----Ramana Maharishi
Woodrow Wilson called for leaders who, by boldly interpreting the nation s consc
ience, could lift a people out of their everyday selves. That people can be lift
ed into their better selves is the secret of transforming leadership.
James MacGregor Burns
This above all: to thine own self be true,
/And it must follow, as the night the day
,/Thou cans t not be false to any man "(ll.78-80).-----William Shakespeare, Haml
et