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i s Tinh Vn c mt ngi t, sau khi tt nghip i hc, lin hc thc s, ri li hc tin s.

Sau nhiu nm, cui cng cng hon thnh lun n tin s, nn v cng vui mng.

Mt hm ngi ny tr v, tha vi ngi Tinh Vn: "Bch S Ph, nay con c hc v tin s ri, sau ny con phi hc nhng g na?"

Ngi Tinh Vn bo: "Hc lm ngi". Hc lm ngi l vic hc sut i, chng th no tt nghip c.

Ngi Tinh Vn cho rng, bt lun l s nng cng thng, ngi tng lp no, c hc tp l c tin b.

Nay cng chia s vi mi ngi v nhng iu cn phi hc.

Th nht, "hc nhn li".

Con ngi thng khng chu nhn li lm v mnh, tt c mi li lm u cho ngi khc, cho rng bn thn mnh mi ng.

Tht ra khng bit nhn li chnh l mt li lm ln.

i tng m mnh nhn li c th l cha m, bn b, mi ngi trong x hi; thm ch, nhn li vi con ci hay l ngi khng tt i vi mnh.

Nhn li nh vy bn thn chng mt mt g; ngc li, cn th hin c s lng ca bn thn. Hc nhn li l mt iu rt tt, l s tu tp ln.

Th hai "hc nhu ha".

Rng ngi ta rt cng, li ngi ta li mm. i ht cuc i, rng ngi ta li rng ht, nhng li th vn cn nguyn.

Cho nn cn phi hc mm mng, nhu ha, th i con ngi ta mi c th tn ti di lu c; ch cng lm chi cho chu thit thi.

Tm nhu ha l mt tin b ln trong vic tu tp. Ngi ta thng hnh dung: nhng ngi c chp th tm lng ca h, tnh cch ca h, rt lnh, rt cng, y nh mt ming st vy. Nu chng ta c th iu ha hi th, iu ha thn tm, dn dn iu phc tm, nh nga hoang, nh vn chuyn cnh, khin cho n nhu ha mm mi, th cuc sng mi vui ti hn, mi lu di c.

Th ba "hc nhn nhc".

Th gian ny nu nhn c mt cht, th sng yn bin lng, li mt bc, th bin rng tri cao.

Nhn, vn s c tiu tr.

Nhn, chnh l bit x s, bit ha gii, dng tr tu v nng lc lm cho chuyn ln ha thnh nh, chuyn nh ha thnh khng.

Cc v mun sng, mun sinh tn, mun sinh mng, th cn phi bit nhn; c th hiu r nhng ng sai, thin c, tt xu ca th gian; thm ch, chp nhn n.

Th t "hc thu hiu".

Thiu thu hiu ln nhau s ny sinh nhng th phi, tranh chp, hiu lm.

Mi ngi nn thu hiu thng cm ln nhau, gip ln nhau. Khng thng cm ln nhau lm sao c th ha bnh c?

Th nm, "hc bung b". Cuc i nh mt chic va li, lc cn dng th xch ln, khng cn dng na th t n xung. Lc cn t xung li khng t xung, cng nh ko mt ti hnh l nng n; khng t ti cht no c.

Nm thng cuc i c hn, nhn li, tn trng, bao dung, mi lm cho ngi ta chp nhn mnh; bit bung b th mi c th t ti c.

Th su "hc cm thng".
Nhn thy u im ca ngi khc chng ta nn hoan h, nhn thy iu khng may ca ngi khc nn cm thng. Cm thng l tm thng yu, tm b tt, tm b . Trong cuc i my mi nm ca ti, c rt nhiu cu chuyn, nhiu li ni, lm ti cm thng; cho nn, ti cng rt n lc tm cch lm cho ngi khc cm thng.

Th by "hc sinh tn".

sinh tn chng ta phi duy tr, bo v, thn th khe mnh.

Thn th khe mnh khng nhng c li cho bn thn, m cn lm cho gia nh bn b yn tm. Cho nn, cng l hnh vi hiu vi ngi thn.

Chc bn b thn hu cng c gng!

Dn dng: ltd 28/06/2009