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SpiritualDiscernmentinDecisionMaking
DiscernmentDefined
Discernmentisaprocessofmakingchoicesinthecontextoffaith. Thechoicesindiscernmentareoftennotbetweengoodandbad choicesbutbetweenseveralpossibleactionsthatarepotentially [Link] greatergoodwhereGodistrulycallingthem.
Discernment IsaskingGodforhelpinmakingadecision IsgainingclaritywithregardtohowGodiscallingustoliveoutourpurposeonearth Isconsideringmattersinawaythatinvolvesourheartsaswellasourminds Askingoneself,Whichalternativewillleadtodeeper,moreauthenticrelationshipswithGod,selfandothers? RequiresapracticeofdeeptrustinGod(contemplation) Assumptions: ThatwedesiretogrowinTRUSTandafeltsensethat: o WeliveinaworldpermeatedbyGod,aworldGodusestokeepintouchwithus o Goddesirestohelpusmakethebestdecisionforushasourbestinterestatheart:thefree personalchoicethatwillbringustowardthefulfillmentofouruniquepurposeinlifeGoddesires ourhappinessasmuchaswedoandwantstohelpusclaimit o Wearenotaccidentsbutpurposefullyanduniquelycreatedinanongoingprocess o [Link]!Godlikesus! Thatwedesiretomakeasincerecommitmenttobecomeourbest,authenticselftogrowinself knowledgeandthatGoddesiresthisforustoo ThatwedesiretodeepenourrelationshipwithGodandawarenessofHispresenceandguidanceinour everydaylivesthatwewanttochoosewhatbetterleadstoGodsdeepeninglifeineachofus ThatourchoicesarechoicesbetweenGOODS Process Prayer:PrayforINDIFFERENCE:anopennesstoGodswill;askingGodfortheinnerfreedomand detachmentfromourownpersonalagendatonoticethebetterchoiceleadingtowardthefulfillmentof ourpurposeinlife;PrayfortrustinHisguidance Tools: o Pros/Cons:AskingGodforthelightandgracetosee,withoutjudgmentorrushtodecision,makea listofeverypossiblemotiveforandeverypossiblecon o Yourimagination:Livewithoneofthedecisions o Journaling o Spiritualdirection NOTICEWHATYOUNOTICE:PayparticularattentiontoyourFEELINGS: o Consolation:Peacefulnessofspirit,interiorclarity,joy,enthusiasm,deeperfaith,greaterhopeand trust,greaterlove,confidence,courage;lifegiving,feelclosertoGod,achoicethatisin agreementwiththepersonweareandourdeepestvalues;leadingtowardgreaterinnerfreedom o Desolation:Lackofpeace,feelsdistant/separatedfromGod,disturbed,movingawayfromgreater innerfreedom,lifeconstricting,darknessofsoul,disquiet TheDecision:Makethedecision,askGodforconfirmationofthedecisionseewhetheryourthoughts, desiresandfeelingscontinuetosupportit
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Thingstokeepinmind RESISTtheurgetojudgeorcompareyourprocesswithothersortorushtoadecisiontoavoidbeingin limbo o GodstimeisntourtimeandGodisalwaysontimewaitingforadecisiontobecomeclear(be revealedtous)throughtheordinaryeventsofthedayGodofsurprises!God,whoiscreatingus continuously,[Link] Roche,SJ ChoiceisClear ChoiceisntsoClear ChoicereallyisntsoClear o TrustYOURinclinations:[Link] process o Anongoingprocessapracticeofdevelopingadiscerningheartandlivingintoanswers RESISTtheurgetojudgeaparticulardecisionasrightorwrongbasedontheoutcome o MakingadecisionthatisinlinewithGodsdesiresforusdoesnotmeanthatitwillnecessarilybe accompaniedbyease;itishelpfultoreflecton/recalltimeswhenwehaveexperiencedliving throughatimeofconfusionordifficultyinordertoarrivetoagraceddecisioninordertogrow inconfidencethatthoughwemayfeeltobelostandintheshadowofdeath,thatGodiswithus anddoesnotleaveustofaceourperilsalone. TheplacewhereGodcallsustoiswhereourdeepgladnessandtheworlds deephungermeet. FrederickBuechner
Aroughandunshapenloghasnoideathatitcanbemadeintoastatuethatwillbeconsidereda masterpiece,[Link] canmoldthemintosaints,untiltheyputthemselvesintothehandsofthatalmightyArtisan. SaintIgnatiusofLoyola Listentowhatgivesyoujoy;payattentiontowhatdelightsyourheartatits deepestlevelandthenchoosethatwithallyourmight. Hasidicsaying
Everyoneisnotcalledinthesameway,butweareallcalledtodiscoverand dothegoodGodhasinmindforus. PeterRyan,SJ
Latentandsometimeslockedwithineachhumanheartisa dreamwaitingtobeborn. BerganandSchwan,CSJ
RESOURCESUSEDFORTHISSUMMARY [Link]: HowIgnatianSpiritualitygivesusawaytoDiscernGodsWill,Fleming,SJ AnIgnatianFrameworkforMakingaDecision,JimManney DiscernmentinDecisionMaking,RandyRoche,SJ [Link]:FourStepsinDiscernment TheJesuitGuideto(Almost)Everything,JamesMartin,SJ VisionVocationGuide2009