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"How To Create A Seductive First Impression On Every Woman You Meet" .

Discover 3 little-known techniques that you can use to make a strong first impre ssion on a woman.. and make yourself intensely desirable to her immediately! Derek Rake Today, I will show you a killer method on how you can make an unforgettably grea t first impression on any woman you meet. This skill happens to be very powerful because first impressions can go miles in either helping possible relationships grow or letting them die. Although it doesn't come about consciously, first impressi ons - those mental pictures that you take of somebody you first met - can happen in just several minutes but the relationshi ps that come out of it could last for MUCH LONGER. What do these first several moments have that make them so potent? Well, everything boils down to the unromantic world of math, really. See, whenev er you meet somebody for the first time, there is NOTHING that you know about them. So, no matter what they do or say during that short time, you will find out more about their entire personality and base your thoughts on that. Here's an example... You can meet a girl, for example, and start talking... and you find out she isn' t in a good mood (no matter what the reason may be). She might talk about her bad day, her boring job, her horrible landlord, and she might not even want to party because of the amount of time she spent at work. She might even mention that work doesn't inter est her at all anymore. Now, this woman could be a charming, interesting, and positive lady overall. Yes , in regular circumstances - where her day isn't horrible, for instance - her acquaintances and friends might call her Litt le Miss Sunshine. But how would YOU know that? All you got to see was the negative and unpleasant part of her personality, right? Thus, this woman is always going to have an imprint of being Little Miss Grouchy in yo ur head, regardless of what everybody else thinks. And this is what happens when you see her again... If you see her again in the future, you will probably think to yourself, "Crap!

There's that pessimistic, boring woman who wouldn't stop complaining when I spoke to her. I really hope she doesn't see me." Then, if she DOES see you and approach you, she would need to do something unusu ally positive or charming to change your first impression of her. This just goes to show how vital first impressions really are. So, if you wish t o build a fun social life filled with attractive and interesting people who see you in a positive light, you HAVE to l earn how to build a great first impression to begin with. Now, here are three extremely effective ways to do that - while showcasing all o f your strong suits and showing the world how interesting and attractive you can be. Derek Rake's 3 Killer Methods On Making A Seductive First Impression Method #1. "Be Cool With EVERYONE... Especially The MEN" You might see one or several very attractive women in one group one night and yo u might want to approach them to introduce yourself, so you can start a conversation. Unfortunately, there is a problem with this: their group has OTHER MEN in it. You aren't sure whether these men see these women the same way you do ... but yo u do not want to take chances. ANY competition needs to be eliminated, so these men have got to go - immediately. You choose to make your move. You walk over there. You join the group and angle yourself between one woman and one man in the group. You make your introduction. You say hi to the girls - however, on your attempt t o get rid of the men and any possible competition therewith, you completely fail to make social overtures to these men . Basically, you hope that your personal message will ring clear on its own: "I am about to take over your space. Leave." OK, I really hope you have NEVER committed this particular mistake! This happens to be a MASSIVE social fumble. This will not just raise male hackle s (since only men with low self-confidence would allow themselves to be embarrassed like this), but will also SCARE WOMEN A WAY. Women are never pleased by rude men. They won't be happy or flattered if you don 't get along with the men that are already in their lives. They need to know that you can give them a BETTER life by getting friendly reinf orcement about how great you are. This will

make them feel confident in their feelings for you and will increase their perso nal social value as well. After all, don't forget that for a woman, dating a popular man is sure to raise her personal soci al status with her friends. To make a great first impression, then, you will need to concentrate on her frie nds! Show how great of an ASSET you are to her as opposed to somebody who will merely alienate her from the rest of her fri ends. Also, remember this "golden rule"... The more you pay attention to her group of friends, the more you will succeed. B y paying more attention, you can show how much respect you have for her. Plus, you'll get to make allies and friends out o f the men who could have possibly been your competitors. Finally, if there are other women in the group, NEVER concentrate on one of them and exclude the others. Concentrate on EVERY ONE in the group, so you can make an amazing impression on all of them AND on her (she can then get more reinforcement from friends later about how great you are). The bottom line is this Your goal should be to become friends with everybody she hangs out with. This wi ll make her much more receptive to all of your overtures with her friends' blessings. Method #2. "Show Real Interest" This would be the biggest socializing rule out there. NOTHING can be as flatteri ng as giving somebody your undivided attention. The truth is: people are MUCH more interested in their own lives than yours. So, you can make many more friends in only two months by showing an interest in them compared to two YEARS of trying to get the m interested in you. It really just comes down to good listening. The majority of people out there fa il at making great impressions on other people out there simply because they think too much about what they should say n ext instead of listening to what the other person IS SAYING. They really do not care about other people at all. They only w ant that person to receive their witty one-liners, really. Listening is even more vital when you talk to women. Take how different men and women see communication into consideration for this. Men usually enjoy competition among males. They interrupt each other for dominan ce and to show off how much of an "alpha male" they are. They compete for intelligence, humor, knowledge, and so o n. Conversely, women show respect for each other by showing real and intense intere

st other people's stories. Where men try inject personal notes into conversations n and good manners for whoever they talk by GENUINELY LISTENING TO WHAT COMES OUT

to to "be heard", women will show affectio to OF THEIR MOUTHS.

So, if brownie points with women is what you seek, get rid of any other distract ions out there and concentrate solely on the woman you are talking to and her words. Method #3. "Be Super Inquisitive" The majority of women out there are also used to guide every conversation they f ind themselves in by suggesting what subjects to talk about. Basically, they ask a ton of questions. Women with good manners will, however, make it a point to ask questions about subjects that they know the other person likes. Women are used to asking a ton of questions while listening and showing a genuin e interest in the answers that they received. Even if these answers aren't particularly interesting, they will flash a smile and nod occasionally to FEIGN INTEREST, simply because that's what classy, well-bred women do. Now this is the part where men mostly mess up. They mistakenly see class as genu ine interest, so they get completely tied up in thorough questions asked by a woman who seems to be utterly fascinated by the m that they ignore the fact that they have to do the same. Simply put, the majority of men lose a woman's interest by being self-centered i n their conversations. So, if you want a woman to ENJOY your conversations, surprise her. Show her that , unlike the other 99% of men out there, you can take an active interest by matching each of her questions with one of yo ur own. If you TRULY wish to impress, be a more "feminine" conversationalist and be the guide through it all. Ask her more about her life and she will not just be fascinated, but she will find you irresistible, a s well. OK, here's what you need to know next... These are only three ways on how to make GREAT first impressions with women. Wha t's great about them is that they don't only apply to the opposite sex; they apply to EVERYBODY. This means that you can even use them to make friends, to succeed at work, or ju st to make yourself popular overall. To learn about the complete scope of things to do to become incredibly attractiv e at first sight with conversational methods, use Colin Simone's new resource, ConversationalSeduction . With it, you can lea rn how to engage and manage women in a genuine, fun, and easy manner ... to up your attraction even more.

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