TNH CCH T THC * Phng php giao tip gi m: Bn nn tn dng phng php Hi - p, trnh s dng phng php ng - Sai,

, V d: Bn cho rng y l p n hay nht phi khng?, khng nn ni: p n ca bn sai ri...Lm theo phng php ny s thy vic dn d ngi khc lm theo mnh khng qu kh. * Phng php lm vic c mc tiu - ng c: Cn xc nh r l do xy dng mc tiu phn u ca mnh trn c s c ng c, c sc mnh kin tr thc hin n cng nhng mc tiu ra bng cc phng php linh hot theo hon cnh. Bn cnh vic xy dng mc tiu gn, bn cng cn rn luyn kh nng xy dng mc tiu xa trnh tham bt b mm. * Phng php lm vic c tnh c l: Tnh =>L =>Php, nn thc hin theo tng bc, nu khng theo tun t th c th cng lm cng gp nhiu kh khn. Nn lun t mnh vo a v ca ngi khc suy ngh, tnh ton v cm nhn. Mi ngi xung quanh mnh c may mn th mnh cng c th may mn. Chm lo cho mi ngi tc l chm lo cho chnh mnh. V d: Trong gia nh c mt ngi nm vin th mi ngi u vt v. * Phng php khch l: Cn c tinh thn ng ln sau khi ng, tht bi l m thnh cng, cng kh khn tinh thn cng phi mnh m. Nn lun t ng vin: Mnh khng th thua, mnh nht nh s lm c --------------------------------------------TNH CCH M PHNG * Hc m phng: Bn nn s dng bng hnh, phng php ng vai... Bn nn quan st hnh vi, ng tc ca ngi khc nm c cung cch lm ri tin hnh bt chc cho ti khi t c thnh qu. V sau hnh vi s tr thnh hnh vi tiu chun ca bn thn bn. * Hc bng phng php noi gng: Bn nn la chn c cc cu chuyn v nhng ngi thnh danh, c cng c hoc cc v nhn, ngi ti gii lm gng gip mnh hc cch ngh, cch lm ca h. Bn nn ly vic lm mu v lp i lp li to thnh k nng. S gio dc trong qu trnh trng thnh l mu cht ca thnh cng, nu khng c nhng tm gng bn noi theo th hc tp v lm vic kh c chiu su. * Hc theo hon cnh: Bn nn tn dng phng php hc tp bng cc gic quan: th gic- thnh gic v xc gic. Bn hy lun t mnh vo thc t hoc tng tng, t mnh ang c mt trong hon cnh hc tp, tng cng c s ca nhn thc. Ngoi ra, bn cng nn nng tham gia cc chng trnh thc nghim, hot ng on th... * Phng php hc tp theo trnh t: Trc khi lm mt vic g bn nn xy dng k hoch. Bn cn khng ngng t kim tra v nh gi, rt kinh nghim tng giai on

theo k hoch ra. Bn nn t khch l ng thi to p lc thch hp cho bn thn khi thc hin mt cng vic no . * Phng php t hc: Da vo hon cnh thc t ca mnh, bn nn c k hoch hc tp ch ng t nhng ng nghip c kinh nghim v nng lc hn mnh, ng thi c gng c thm cc ti liu t cc ngun khc nhau nh: Sch v, mnghoc theo hc cc lp b tc chuyn mn ngn hn do n v hay cc hip hi t chc. ----------------------------------------------TNH CCH T DUY NGC * Phng php hnh ng ngc: Khch l mnh nng dng t duy ngc t kt qu lt ngc li vn xem xt, v nh vy th s bit c mt cch r rng c qu trnh v trnh t hc tp, gip bn c th tm hiu c ton din v tm ra p n mnh mun. * Khen thng kp thi: Bn s vui mng v cng c gng hn v c khng nh. Ngc li cng c th dng phng php thng pht qui nh cc hnh vi, phng php hc tp ca chnh mnh. * T mnh qun l: Bn nn lm i lm li nhiu ln nhng vic quan trng, dn dn thnh tiu chun hnh ng v c th t ti s t rng buc v qun l bn thn. Bn nn lp ra bng qun l. V d: nhng vic g c th qun l, khi hon thnh tt c th c im. Qui nh i im thnh phn thng. Nn tng cng bi dng EQ, hiu qu hc tp ca bn s cng tt. ------------------------------------------TNH CCH CI M * Kim ch phn ng: Bn nn dng nhiu yu t khc nhau tc ng n mnh xem cch phn ng ca mnh nh th no, trn c s la chn phn ng tch cc phn tch v xy dng mu phn ng hoc mu hnh vi ph hp nht s dng nu c tnh hung tng t xy ra. * Khng ch hnh tng: Bn nn tp tng tng, thng qua cc cnh hc tp, th nghim, sng to nhm tng cng s vn ng ton no ca th gic v khng ch kiu ghi nh ca ngi hc. V d: Khi hc vn th dng hnh v din t thay ch vit, trong no s hin ra mt bc tranh ton cnh. Khi hc lch s, tng tng ra cc nhn vt, s vt v s kin lch s thi trong no hnh thnh ra bc tranh lch s trong bi. * Khng ch ng m: Trong qu trnh hc, bn cn ch cc ng iu vui, bun, gin...trong bi. Tn dng nt m nhc, ngn ng c nh hnh thnh hiu qu khng ch tr nh. Sau ny ch cn nghe thy nt m nhc , ngn ng th s nh thc tr nh .

* Khng ch ng tc: Bn nn xy dng phng php hc tp trng thi ng. Bng cc ng tc tay chn m t bi hc s lm tng thm hng th, tng cng tr nh cho mnh. y l mt bin php tt nng cao kt qu hc tp cng nh lm vic. * Khng ch tnh cm: Bn cn to ra nim vui, hng th tng cng nguyn v hiu qu hc tp, lm vic. Trnh mnh c tm l cng thng hay khng vui khi bt tay vo lm vic m lm cho kt qu km i. Nn t mnh qui nh hoc ra cc nguyn tc lm vic hng ngy v c gng thc hin bng c th s m bo s thun li trong cng vic. - Hc tp v lm vic theo truyn thng: Cn lm vic theo nhm hoc c qun s bn cnh th lm vic s t hiu qu cao hn.