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Tuesday, December 3, 2013

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Man cant dictate who siblings invite to events

Tomorrows Horoscope
By Bernice Bede Osol

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Dear Annie: In 1988, I enjoy her company, but you had a wife and three beauti- can work on making her presful children. Then my wife ence insignificant. decided to be liberated. She Dear Annie: Two years wanted to spread her wings ago, my father and his wife and be independent. She en- became irritated with me and gaged me in a particularly ac- cut me out of their lives. When rimonious divorce I became pregnant and lived on child several months latand spousal super, they got back in port until she distouch because they covered that being wanted to be a part independent was of the babys life. not working for My husband reher. She remarried cently returned to and moved my college, and so we children hundreds moved back into my of miles away, efmothers house in fectively excisorder to save moning them from my ey. This angered my life, even though father and his wife, she admits I was a Annies Mailbox who said I am a bad great father. Needmother and need to less to say, I harbor consider- grow up. They shut me out able animosity toward her. again. Ive since remarried a My parents have been diwonderful woman. My chil- vorced for a long time. I was dren are grown and starting never close to my father or their own families. I recog- his new family. Dad is not a nize that I must endure the particularly nice guy, but I unpleasantness of having to feel I should keep in contact. see my ex at my childrens Now Im wondering whether weddings, etc., but I never its worth trying to mend this expected that my brother and relationship, or should I just sister would invite my ex to admit its toxic and cut my their own childrens weddings losses? Had Enough in and other family functions. Michigan I feel that because my ex Dear Michigan: This divorced me, she is no lon- doesnt have to be either-or. ger a part of my family and You dont have to turn yourshould not be invited to at- self into a pretzel to stay in tend family gatherings. I have his good graces, but you also made this point very clear to dont need to cut him out enmy siblings, along with the tirely. Send him photos of the fact that seeing my ex causes baby. Invite him to the birthme significant pain. Further, day parties. But otherwise, my new wife feels shes being limit contact and learn to igupstaged by my ex at these nore his criticisms. events. Yet, my siblings insist Dear Annie: I read the on including this woman. letter from Too Late To Try Is it unrealistic for me to Again, whose relative cut her believe that when my ex di- off without explanation. The vorced me, she also divorced same thing happened to me. my family? Am I expecting I attended a family retoo much to ask that my sib- union in Michigan four years lings not embrace the woman ago. A cousins wife was the who devastated my life? organizer, and I thought she Divorced in Oregon did a great job. The next year, Dear Oregon: Sorry to I didnt receive an invitation. say, but what your siblings do I contacted the wife, who is not something you can dic- blocked me on Facebook. I tate. Their children may still then contacted my cousin, consider this woman to be who said, The invitation was their aunt, and their relation- probably lost. But when it ship to her does not include happened the next two years, the bitterness and rancor you I knew it was intentional. are hanging onto. I havent a clue what I Please let it go. Allowing did, but Im glad I read that your ex to rattle you after all column. It saved me years of these years gives her power frustration. Thankful in over you. You dont have to Kansas

WEDNESDAY, DECEMBER 4, 2013 Dont hesitate this year; believe in your attributes. Initiate what you want to see happen. Take control and concentrate on what is important to you. Refuse to let anyone sidetrack you. Be smart, do your research and stand behind your word. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) -- Your ability to find solutions will put you in demand. Dont ignore personal problems because you are too busy helping others. Finding a balance between business and domestic responsibilities is necessary. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) -- Work diligently on important deals that must be completed before the end of the year. Make sure you have done your research before committing to something that could change your future. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -- Network, share your ideas and win points with people who have something to offer. Your articulate and trendy way of presenting and promoting will lead to victory. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) -Partnerships and money matters will experience pressure. A resourceful and quick response will save the day. Re-establish a connection with someone from your past who can be of help now. ARIES (March 21-April 19) -- Dont get frustrated. Keep your emotions tucked away, do your job and get on to more enjoyable activities. A change in the way you think will help you handle pressure better. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) -People from your past will come to mind. Make plans to reconnect before years end. Partnerships are highlighted, and your personal and business relationships appear to be optimistic. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) -- Do your best to help those in need. Favorable changes will develop in your personal and professional relationships. Listen carefully and share equally. Balance is the key to your success. CANCER (June 21-July 22) -Dont rush. Observe first, and youll discover what will satisfy your needs. Someone you love may become unpredictable. Take the time to plan something special that will help calm the waters. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -Socialize with friends or colleagues. Be prepared to change plans at the last minute. Your ability to adapt will be appreciated. Dont feel pressured to overspend or to pay for others. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) -Impress those you work with and for. Your ideas and efforts will be well-received. Problems at home will develop if honesty is in question. Dont give in to emotional blackmail. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -- Your ability to see both sides of an issue will help keep the peace. Domestic changes may not sit well with you at first, but in time you will benefit. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) -You will be able to handle fine details at work and at home. Socializing and putting extra thought, time and effort into a personal relationship is favored. Distributed by Universal UClick for UFS

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