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How To Use Body Language To Attract Women


By: Jack Jimmy

A lot of people are not aware that body language is one of the ways you can use to attract women. Between flirting and body language you could get a woman very interested in you, but you have to do it the right way. Women are sensitive so try to follow these tips. First off, make sure you maintain eye contact with the woman you are trying to talk to. By having eye contact with her you let her know you are very interested in what she is saying, not only that she will think you are listening, which you should be. Women often say a man has nice eyes, so give her the chance to really see you looking at her and showering her with attention, she might end up saying you have nice eyes, which shows she is interested and attracted. Another form of body language is your closeness factor. ow close are you standing to the woman of interest! "f she is talking to you, and you are having a conversation, move a little closer but not too close. #ou still want her to give her personal space, but if you can invade that $ust a tiny bit, you will give her a sense of what it might be like to be close to you, make sure you have a good perfume on. By doing this you will also be able to e%change scents. Women are very attracted to scents, and every little bit can help. Flash a nice smile. &his can be the first thing you can do from a distance. #ou don't want to overdo it but a nice friendly smile will make a huge difference. (eep smiling when you approach her and when you start talking to her. &ry to keep smiling the whole time, even while talking you can smile with your eyes. #our voice also plays an important role as well. A deep voice that is warm and welcoming can turn a woman on, she could immediately be attracted to you $ust based on your voice. Just make sure your voice isn't shaky, and doesn't show how nervous you might be, it is better for you to be too loud than for the woman not to be able to understand you. Women absolutely love confidence, and it shows in everything you do, even your voice. )ast but not least is your posture. &his isn't all about back posture either. &his doesn't mean to slouch, as that isn't attractive, but what it means is that you have to be welcoming in how you stand while talking to her. #our hands should not be crossed against your middle, or on your hips, but they should be rela%ed and even moving while talking. &he more comfortable you are with yourself the more she will feed into that.

&his is called an open posture, the visual signs send se%ual cues to a woman's brain because you are again confident. *ne of the most important things you can do is be confident in yourself when approaching a woman. &his will make it all more natural for you, and the more natural for you, the easier it will be for a woman to be attracted to you. Work on these things and women are going to be more open to your flirting, approaching and talking to them.
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Understanding Body Language


By: -y .elationship &ips

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/eople communicate through nonverbal cues more often than through verbal cues. "t0s $ust that we don0t know that we are doing so. &his is the reason why e%perts agree that one of the keys to maintaining good communication with other people is to learn how to understand the nonverbal cues that they emit. For instance, when dating, there are body language cues that say whether a person is interested or not. ere are some dating body language that you should learn to read the ne%t time you went out on a date. 1oing to your direction Just as a person who is interested will directly go to a person, their dating body language will also point in the direction of the person they are interested in. /eople will lean towards you or point in your direction, whether it be with the foot, the leg or the whole body. /eople who are really into you will also e%hibit a body language that is rela%ed e%hibiting trust and at the same time with tension. )ooking at the face When dating for the first time, people whose interests were aroused will e%hibit a common set of body language. &heir eyebrows will rise, their eyes will dilate and their lips will part after smiling. *ne of the classic dating body language is the hair toss, where she will touch her hair and then look at you. With women, they will usually smile a lot and even giggle a couple of times at things that you say. Another dating body language that you should watch out for is the willingness to e%pose her wrists, palms and the inside of their arms. )ooking straight in the eye &hough not all people have the courage to e%hibit this particular dating body language, it is nevertheless effective. /eople who look at you straight in the eye during conversations are found to be more attractive and more approachable. &hey are also considered to be more honest. /eople who make the effort to look at you in the eye are genuinely interested in you and in what you are saying.

*therwise they wouldn0t waste much time. *ne should remember though that this is not true for all kinds of people. 2ome people actually become shyer when talking to a person they really like. &heir dating body language become more closeted and nervous. &hey would refuse to look directly at the eye and may bow down their heads all the time. (now the difference. 2itting with arms crossed &his dating body language spells 3don0t come closer4 in big bold silent letters. A very protective stance, crossing the arms shows a need for people to back away because there is a problem with trust. &his is one body language that tells you that you $ust made the worst impression on someone. 2ome people who are not into relationships unconsciously adopt this dating body language to show that they are not interested. Batting their eyelash &his dating body language and flirting style may seem a bit archaic to you, having been there during the time of 2carlett *0 ara but it sure is effective with the men. *nly the women, however, can get away with this particular brand of dating body language. -en who try to bat their eyelash would probably appear as if they have a tic in their eyes and might need a psychiatrist.
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!lirting Body Language # How !lirting With Your Body $an Be a "ou%le-&dged 'word
By: -ike )ee

Flirting is one of the most common social means of communication, wherein men and women engage in the e%change of subtle cues to get noticed and appreciated. umans resort to display flirting body language to appease themselves with the idea that they are acceptable and desirable. 8o matter how much we deny it, within every individual is a yearning to be liked. 2hown in different perspectives and levels, flirting body language may manifest in the form of both random gestures and the most comple% and seemingly reversed types of actions that usually come with sociali9ing. :sually, flirting is not bad in itself if done in a harmless and sociable manner. "n addition, it may be considered as it is by $ust spending time with someone. Flirting in this concept may be defined as accommodating the idea of accepting a person, and not because of a romantic ob$ective by which it is often misconceived. owever, the heart is also set to confuse the mind, especially when any of the flirting body language is

constantly offered to a person. -ore often than not, the personal make up of each individual is set to seek an ever,insatiable need for attention and acceptance. &his places flirting from a point of casual friendship to a deeper sense of affection. An unwary mind would often spell disaster as you fall into the pit called infatuation. #ou could be sending someone the wrong signals; or you might be misinterpreting another's. &hus, in order to avoid the embarrassment, and possibly the heartache, you will need to know how to read flirting body language effectively. &ye (agnet 2imple eye contact may indicate the start of a more engaging interaction. "t begins with being able to establish a connection, even by $ust e%changing a glance or, if you may, a stare. "n a deeper level, the eyes are able to convey what mere words cannot e%press. "n a properly set environment, a steady and softly e%pressed ga9e may be readily interpreted by the other person as romantic and may send mi%ed signals. <ven batting an eyelash more than three times in one second can be interpreted as inviting. Touch Flirting body language can also be conveyed through touch. =one too aggressively, it can make the other person feel threatened and invaded; when done too lightly, you could fail in sending out the right message. &ouch is more comple% than we think because we don0t know what parts of the body are more susceptible for the acceptance of subtle gestures. &hink of it this way: A person is like a fort ,, he has to know what areas are relatively weak or least guarded. "f you want things to go in your favor, you must target these key touch points to win. Attention Attention is one of the most subtle but successful forms of flirting. "t takes time to get another person's attention, and having it can give you the power to change another individual's mind. owever, this can also be very misleading, especially if the person falls for it and you had not intended on offering mutual consideration. Flirting body language is a double,edged sword; which means it may also backfire on the one doing it. "n short, you might find yourself falling into your own trap. 8evertheless, unless you0re seeking some thrill and comple%ity, engaging in clean and wholesome flirting is a good way to enhance your social skills.
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Body Language And !lirting 'igns


By: James 2

&hings done subconsciously play the key role in man,woman relationship and often are the determining factor in how they perceive each other. First impression is the strongest and most long lasting B e%perts say it only takes little less than two to four minutes to arrive at a decision whether one likes a person or not. Body language is hugely responsible for all impressions we make on other people. For this reason body language and flirting are absolutely inseparable from each other. &he way somebody walks or stands may leave a great impression on other person. /eople tend to make snap $udgments about others, so body language and flirting can be interwoven intricately. 2ince the body does the talking and also the flirting, one may be able to $udge whether a person is flirting or not by studying these signs. :nderstanding body language is not so simple, and it should not be $udged by only one thing. *ne should not $ump into conclusions too fast. &here are certain signals given off by a person, and knowing these body language and flirting signs, one may be able to $udge whether someone is flirting or not. &he first signal one should look at is the flirting triangle or when people that are not too well known to each other, move their eyes in a 9ig9ag motion. &he body language in a flirtatious situation will see the eyes widening at the bottom to include the body as well as the face. "ntense flirting will often result in eye to eye contact as well as looking long and hard at the mouth. -irroring a person0s behavior is another body language and flirting sign that means that there is >uite a bit of attraction involved, since it implies being at the same level of attraction. *ne more body language and flirting sign is when someone raises their eyebrows and lets them fall. "f a person is flirting, he or she would also raise the eyebrows in return. Be sure to catch this sign as it usually is only fleeting, lasting a bare fifth of a secondC Another body language and flirting signal indicating that one person is attracted to another is their body pointing in the direction of the person to whom they are attracted. /ointing one0s body in the direction of another is a subtle way of communicating strong attraction, and the other person may take the hint. Blinking is one more body language and flirting sign: if a person likes another, he or she will generally try to match the other0s blink rate and keep in sync with it, which is both fun as well as increases the attraction for the other. owever, one should never $ump into conclusions or misinterpret body language and flirting signs. &he best thing to do in order to avoid mistakes is to look for grouped behavior patterns which together add up to being a signal that a person is indeed attracted and is actually flirting.
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Are You (a)ing These Body Language (ista)es With Women?


By: Dlark Dassidy

-ost e%perts agree that around E@,EFG of all conversation between two human beings happen non, verbally. &his means that only ?@G of any conversation is verbalC &he remainder E@G of the conversation comes directly from your body language. )ike it or not, you are A)WA#2 talking to people through your body language. <ven when you're saying nothing , sometimes you could be telling a story. For e%ample, when you see someone at a coffee shop typing away on a laptop you usually assume they are busy working on a pro$ect or something and that hey don't want to be bothered. /erhaps your at a park and you see someone sweaty with some baggy clothes on , you know almost immediately that they are probably working out. Body language is twice as important when picking up and attracting women. Women )*H< confidence, this is probably the biggest factor when attracting women. owever, most guys naturally give off body language that is the e%act opposite of confidence. "nstead, they give off the body language of a person who is e%tremely shy, an%ious, nervous, or even closed,off socially. )ucky for you, " have been researching this for years and " have cataloged the most common mistakes that men make. ere are 6 of the most common body language mistakes most men make when picking up women: ands "n #our /ockets , &his shows that you are insecure and that you are closed off. #eah the IFon9I used to do it all the time, but you're not the Fon9 so don't do it, ever. 2louching , &his shows that you are insecure and that you aren't confident socially. When you slouch, you are sending off the message that you don't want to be seen and this will make you look shy and probably boring. Fidgeting , &his shows that you are e%tremely nervous and an%ious. A confident man is a man who is controlled in his movements. "f you ever look at a rock star, a musician, a millionaire D<*, a celebrity, they are never fidgeting during interviews. &hey are confident in what they do. &onality , Although this is technically talking, how you talk is even more important. "f you are talking too fast you show the woman that you are nervous and that you are not a very social person. Also, by talking too fast and by not controlling your tone and voice you open yourself up for stuttering and other mistakes. 2low downC By removing these three damaging behaviors you will instantly see an improvement in the way women 5and people in general7 talk to youC #ou will also usually immediately begin to feel more confident in yourself, naturally. Also, by applying these ideas and getting rid of this bad behavior, your ability to seduce women will greatly increase. Donfidence is the 'magic,bullet' when it comes to women, and if you aren't sending off these signals all

the time then you are wasting your time. Without great confident body language, you are swimming upstream with no life $acket
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'e*ual Body Language


By: -ichael =at

2e%ual body language is great tool in the dating game and in marriage. "magine how ama9ing it is that you are able to tell the person that you want him 5or herC7 se%ually $ust by simply using se%ual body language. And seriously, this se%ual body language is not very hard to do too. 2ome of them come naturally to you, so you would not need to worry about learning ?@? kinds of se%ual body language $ust to hint to your spouse or date. J &he ga9ing game Believe it or not but the kind of ga9e that you send out can send different kind of messages. "f you are with your dream date and you notice that he or she is giving you the alluring ga9e, then it $ust means that he or she is having the hots for youC Fret not if you don0t know how to give the proper ga9e. 2ome of these come naturally to you. When you are attracted to the person, you tend to give the dreamy,and, se%y ga9e back. JA Dheck out the hands Are the fists clenched tightly or it placed openly on the table. "f you check out that your dreamdate is rubbing his nose, sliding rings over his fingers or $ust playing around with loose coins in his pocket, then it is a sign that he is increasingly more e%cited. JF &he -outh <veryone knows the mouth is a strong se%ual body language gesture. #ou will definitely notice this when your date starts drinking, eating or smoking faster. <ven putting things in your mouth can mean that you are se%ually interested and are trying to seduce him se%ually. Just like how girls lick ice cream cones. J6 &ouching &est Are you confused whether he is sending the right signals to you! &o double confirm, use the touching test. &ouch his hand, shoulder or arm. "f you notice that he returns the touch, then you guys are definitely heading somewhere.

JK 2ubconscious autoerotic touching When we think of something se%ual, we will tend to touch ourselves to seductive reasons. 1irls and guys rub their upper arms, hips and thighs subconsciously when they are feeling the se%ual connection with their date. When we are se%ually e%cited, our skin tends to be more sensitive and this is the reason why when he touches you, it feels good. JL (iss A kiss seals it all sometimes. (isses are strong signals that help to tell you whether or not the date is heading into the right direction. "f you notice that your date keeps on touching his mouth or tilts his head as you are talking to him, then you should anticipate a kiss coming your way. 2tart with a slow and gentle kiss and if he doesn0t pull back, then it $ust means that he is happy to continue. &hese are $ust some of the se%ual body language that you should look out for when you are on a date. )earn to pay attention to body language and you will find that romancing is not that hard after all.
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Alpha Body Language+ What It Is And How To ,et It


By: -y .elationship &ips

/erhaps you have been wondering why other men get more attracted glances from the opposite se%es than you when you thought that there0s nothing really that much difference between them and you especially if you0d talk about physical appearances. And because you worry too much about this concern, you probably have splurged and treat yourself to gigantic makeovers $ust to make sure you won0t be left behind in terms of alpha male visual appearance or even aiming to outdo this lucky male species around. &his action of yours could bring your aura a difference and could elevate your charm into a higher level but it seems this is not entirely enough. &hose lucky guys are still getting those glances from the dreamy eyes of many women. What could be those alpha males possess that you don0t! With this case at hand, you should have looked long ago on how your vibes are affecting those human beings who belong to the opposite se%es. 8otice how high,status,man strut their trot around; notice how they move carelessly but confidently; notice how they pro$ect so well when you thought they really lack the real value of a face or physi>ue. /erhaps, you have been too consumed on the belief that physical being per se is the most important aspect in order to attract women. &his is where you could be wrong but you can change your outlook easily and emanate the charm and attraction you so crave about. &he secret of alpha males lies in their body language. &he truth why these males move around with so much difference than the likes of you is they know how to pro$ect their body language and oo9e with so much animalistic appeal that make them hot stuff

among women. &he alpha male0s body language make women drool over them they practically would follow them around $ust so they0d get a chance to meet these hot stuffs. &hese alpha males move around with ease, natural, and rela%ed way you would almost believe they are oblivious to what is happening around them but in truth, alert and smart enough to know the bu99 around. Alpha males don0t allow worries to grasp their attention too much, they let these slip away from them and instead take things in neutral manner so that they won0t dwell much on thoughts that would take their logical sense away. #ou would find these alpha males generally move unhurriedly but with an e%act sense of direction and greater control of time so that they evidence of nervousness won0t appear and do not produce $erky movements like that with beta males. 2imple body languages like these are not that difficult to master. "f you would want to portray aura like of those alpha males and end those lousy beta male movements of yours, it wouldn0t take you long before you reali9e that more women would be clamoring for your attention. First off, start with assessing your body language. /erhaps you only need to break the thin line etched between being a beta male and transform yourself into an alpha male. /erhaps, your body language is the one that needs a total makeover and gain that impression and characteristic that alpha males are rich of. By starting to eliminate your body language or your movements and behaviors that convey lack of confidence on your part or being unsure of yourself, this could be the turning point to release those unconscious turn,off habits of yours. As mentioned earlier, the key to being an alpha male is by being rela%ed in all your movements. "f you oo9e a natural appeal, you could be easily trap attention and instantly get noticed by those human species belonging to opposite se%es without e%erting too much effort on your part.
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Is 'he Interested In (e+ How To "ecode Her Body Language


By: /ick :p 1uide

Women are generally known to be very talkative. 1ive them a chance to start talking and they will definitely shoot the bree9e, unloading several months0 worth of hormonal challenges unto your simple yes,or,no >uestions. ence, you would tend to think that with their knack in lip fluttering, they would find the other mediums of communication completely useless. owever, man0s fine female friends are a 3bilingual4 to a certain e%tent, and she is as articulate in body language as she is in the words on paper. &herefore, when it comes to feelings and relationships, women would use other forms to convey their message. &hey would use such tools to convey their message without going into trouble. &hey would

literally try to do it on their own little way. According to some e%perts, the only problem is that even if women have their own set of language, it is still hard for the amateurs to decode the body language. "n fact, body languages are only seen clearly in about ? out of ?,@@@ contacts with men. ence, the only way to succeed in analy9ing if the woman really likes you is to decode the body language that they may have been pro$ecting but were taken for granted because you do not understand its meaning. 2o to make certain you do not make a hash of translation, here is a list of definitions that would identify the most common moves that would literally tell you that she is interested in you an dhow to react on the actions. 'el--stro)ing #ou are talking to a chick at a bar, and you notice her slowly running her hand up and down her forearm. "t is a rashC "t is a twitchC 8oC "t is a tactile womanC 2he loves the feel of things on her hand, and most probably the rest of her body. A simple movement like that speaks pages. "t is like telling you, 3)ook at my hand, pretend it is yours.4 What to do: 3)ook but do not touch4 does not apply here. 1ive her a few strokes but keep your hands on neutral territory. A touch on the shoulder, a tap on the top of her hand would be enough. "f she is telling you what you hope she is telling you, she will easily focus her tactile fi%ation on you. The Hair-Behind-&ar Tuc) -ost women have this techni>ue down pat. "t may be an affection of the typical and much sought,after demure lady. For the most part, it shows that your girl is a preneer. 2he likes to have every strand of hair to be in place; and a single one of them is out of line. &hat is the ear tuck power. What to do: /ay her a compliment. Any compliment will do, but a 3" like your hair like that4 may $ust be the ticket that she has been waiting from you. *f course, you have heard that flattery would not get you anywhere, but it will be a good start. =o not start off with it, though, because it is $ust a damn lame line. But throw it into a crucial part of the conversation, and hopefully, she will soon be doing her preening for you. .uppy "og &yes AwwwC 2he is so cute. &hose big doe eyes are practically begging for assistance. 2he needs your help and you must willingly give it.

,otcha/ Although this tactic is used mostly for flat tires and bus seats, it works >uite well in the flirting and pick,up scene as well. What to do: When the puppy dog0s eyes come on, $ump into action. 2nap your fingers and order a drink for her. *ffer her a chair. =o not overdo it though, because women are totally capable of themselves, and the only reason why she appears like a damsel in distress is the fact that she likes you and she is interested to know you better. The Laugh and Touch $om%o At an appropriate time in the conversation, you whip out your favorite gay bar $oke to seal the deal with your date. 2he laughs unabashedly, leans towards you, and plants an unassuming hand on your thigh, arm, or shoulder. 2o she thinks you are funny, right! Wrong. &he upside down, though, is that she is into you, downright interested in you, despite the lame,ass $oke. &his is her way of showing you that she is easy to get along with and open to possibilities that involve you. What to do: &alk about things that border on the intimate, but end with a self,deprecating $oke. &his will keep you from going too heavy but at the same time, it sends out the signal that you like her too and that you are comfortable with her. &he bottom line is that men should not be more focused on decoding the body language alone. &rigger the >uest by providing appropriate responses in return. &hat would surely end you both in such an e%citing world of 3getting,to,know,you,better4 stage.
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