Th vui ring ca ph n

(Dn tr) - Khng bit t bao gi, ni ti ph n, ngi ta mc nh nhng nim i lin nh ni nhiu, hay a chuyn, phc tp, rc ri Tt tt nhng iu y khng hon ton v l. Nhng d nhin, khng ng tuyt i.

i khi ti t hi, ti sao ph n li thng sa vo nhng ci by tiu cc y? Nu h b chi phi bi nhng am m v s thch ring, h c cn nh th na khng? S thc, khng ch ph n, bt c ai, khi dnh thi gian cho nhng nim vui tch cc ca ring mnh, u khng cn lc no rnh than th, ku ca hay sm soi ngi khc. Mi chuyn ch n gin nh th. Ngh v cuc sng thng nht, ai cng d thy s chi phi ca nhng nhu cu vt cht. Lm g, lm cch no c c s d gi trong sinh hot, khng phi n ba nay, lo ba mai, khng phi nhc nhn chi li tnh ton, l m c ca s ng. Nhng th hi, khi t c tt c nhng nhu cu y, con ngi s th no? S sung sng thc s trn vn ? Chc l cha u. Ti c hay nhn ngm nhng ngi ph n ln tui ngh v s bun vui ca kip ngi. Sut c thi tui tr, h vi chn mi am m, s thch, mi mn dn sc khe v nhng nim vui ring cho chng con, gia nh. Khi con ci trng thnh, khi cuc sng vt cht khng cn l ni lo thng trc, h tr nn c c v b v v cng v i sng tinh thn. Nu khi y, h c c cho mnh mt nim thch th ring trong lnh vc no, chc chn h s bt lm iu, bt phin toi vi ngi khc, v quan trng hn, h cng cm thy t tin v yu thch bn thn mnh hn rt nhiu. Nim am m ring c ngha ln lao l vy vi ngi ph n. D c gia nh hay khng th n u quan trng th. Bi nu vi n ng, qu thi gian thong dong vi h dng nh rt di, v cc mi quan h x hi vi h dng nh ch kt thc lc no h mun, th vi ph n, mi chuyn khng nh vy. Ph n gp rt nhiu ro cn. M ro cn ln nht vi h khi tui tc

tng ln li chnh l ci ti ngy cng mun nu mnh i trong bn th. Ph n cng ln tui cng ngn ngi xut hin trc mi ngi. S qun quanh v nhn ri ca tui gi khi khng c nim am m v thch th ring ca ngi ph n tht ng s. N nut tri tt c mi nim vui, nim ham sng v ci nhn lc quan, bao dung vi ngi khc. N cun ph n vo mt qun tnh chung l lm iu v kh tnh. C ngi hi, vy th t tui no, ph n nn gy dng cho mnh mt nim thch th ring? C l ngay t khi h thc c iu ny. Nui dng v chm cht mt thi quen tt bao gi cng kh khn v i hi thi gian. Bn thch v tranh hay dch thut? Bn thch lm th cng hay chm sc cy cnh? Bn thch thu tha hay an lt? Bn thch dy hc hay chm sc ngi khc? C v s nhng la chn bn t lm mnh vui, v bit u, bn li bin am m y thnh mt cng vic em li khng ch nim vui m c li nhun na. Khng bao gi l mun hc th bn thch. Bit lm vui mnh l iu rt d khi nim vui y khng tn cng sc v tr tu, l iu nhiu ngi bit. Nhng lm mnh vui th tch cc c phi ai cng bit v ai cng dm lm khng?