Om nilanjana samabhasam | Ravi putram yamagrajam ||
Cahaya martanda samhubhutam | Tama namami Shanescharam||
And Ravan said things that are bad for you seduce you easily, so much so that you run after them impatiently, while good things appeal less and you find excuses to keep them away. Ravans second lesson to Lakshman: that one should fly only as high as his wings could take him and not try to go farther, or else one would come crashing down to the ground.
Youve got to take the good with the bad, smile with the sad, love what youve got, and remember what you had. Always forgive, but never forget. Learn from mistakes, but never regret.