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GROUPSFRIENDSHIPSMALL-GROUP COUNSELING/CLASSROOM GUIDANCE STUDENT HANDOUT
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Smile a lot Let them play with you
Give them compliments Be honest
Be dependable Listen to them
Share your things Use a friendly voice
Share your friendslet them play with others
Look in a persons eyes when he or she is talking
Before you say something or do something,
think about how the other person will feel
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Be bossy Show off to get attention
Say mean things to them Argue with them a lot
Say things without thinking Talk behind their back
Brag about yourself
Tell your friends secrets to others
Joke about them to get others to laugh
Make sure things always have to be your way
Tell your friends they may play only with you
Stop being their friend every time you have an argument
Dont stand up for them if someone teases or bullies them
Get mad if they want to play with someone else sometimes
Tell them you wont be their friend if they dont do what you
want them to do
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Directions: Be TOTALLY HONEST with yourself! Circle the following things that you
do to make friends and the things that you may do that cause you to lose friends.