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Hypnotique Circle (Madras)

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Venue : Freemasons Hall, 14, Commander in Chief Road, Egmore
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Day 1 - Saturday, 13th July 2013 - Time: 09.30 am 6.00 pm
Welcome address : Mr Muthiah Ramanathan, President
Milestones of our Circle : Major Narayanan, Secretary
Changes & Challenges : Mr Sam Eddy, Founder F4
Marital Compass : Ms Brinda Jayaraman, Chennai Counselors Foundation
Brand called You : Mr Milind Jadhav, Life Skills Coach
Mass Relaxation : Ms Rajanisree, Corporate Trainer
Social Media &
Human Behaviour : Mr Satyan Bhatt, Prism P R
Case-Histories : Dr T M Perumal, Vice President
Todays Youth : Mr. V Karthik, Director Apex Labs, Dr. Dimple Jain,
Mr V Subramanian, Mr K Raja & Ms Abi Shankari
(All are Psychological Counselors)
Day 2 - Sunday, 14th July 2013 Time : 09.30 am - 6.00 pm
Scoring Marks : Dr Ramgopal, Vice President,
Dr Annamalai, Corporate Trainer,
Ms Swarna, Educationist & Ms Soshina, Counselor
Stress & Heart : Dr V Chockalingam, Cardiologist, Dr MGR University
Hypnosis - Applications : Dr Dheep, Psychiatrist TOPKIDS Madurai
Mass Relaxation : Ms Ananthi Karthic, Counselor
God Men or Odd Men : Dr Mohan Raj, Psychiatrist, Tharu Clinic
Breakthrough Thinking : Dr R Karthikeyan Gemba School of HR
Honouring Dignitaries : Past Presidents, Secretaries
Sub-conscious Mind : Mr Muthiah Ramanathan, Secy, NLP & TA
Event Co-ordinators : Mr G Ganesan, Mr R Gopalakrishnan, (Jt Secretaries),
Mr Showkat Ali, Mr PV Subbiah, Ms Komala,
Ms Dally Varghese & Mr LR Prabhakaran
Master of Ceremonies : Mr Arun Kumar, Corporate Trainer
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HYPNOTIQUE CIRCLE
40th Anniversary Celebrations 13th & 14th July 2013
We are very happy to inform you all that our Hypnotique Circle
will be celebrating its 40th Anniversary on Saturday, the 13th and
Sunday, the 14th July 2013. We welcome YOU to be a part of this
wonderful, memorable occasion. Eminent Faculty will be speaking
on various aspects of Self Development.
Theme : Change, Challenge, Manage
Dr. V Chockalingam, Cardiologist, Professor Emeritus, MGR Medical University
Dr. Mohan Raj, Psychiatrist, Tharu Clinic
Dr. Dheep, Psychiatrist, Founder, TOPKIDS Youth/Child Guidance Counseling Centre
Dr. R Karthikeyan, Founder, Gemba School of H R
Mr. Satyan Bhatt, Founder, Prism Public Relations
Ms. Brinda Jayaraman, Founder, Chennai Counsellors Foundation
Mr. Sam Eddy, Founder F4, Curator, BIL Conference India, Corporate Trainer
Mr. Milind Jadhav, Life Skills Coach, Corporate Trainer
Mr. Muthiah Ramanathan, President. Director, Mind Dynamics Center
Mr. V Karthik, President, NLP & TA Circle. Director, Apex Laboratories
Dr. C N Ramgopal, Vice President. Cognitive Behavioural Therapist
Dr. T M Perumal, Vice President. Medical Practitioner, Specialist in Diabetes
Dr. N Annamalai, Founder, Creativity Sphere, Vice President, NLP & TA Circle
Major V V Narayanan, Secretary, Hypnotique Circle. Vice President, NLP & TA Circle
- and several more Professionals will be presenting papers on the
occasion.
Please see Page 3 for full details.
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HOW I START MY DAY: ROBIN SHARMA
Your body takes 40 days to adjust to a new habit
I try to work out daily in the morning hours. This drives up energy
levels dramatically. Youll feel more inspired. And youll need less
sleep. I take a massage each week. This isnt an indulgence, its
an investment in your full creative expression/productivity/passion
and sustained good health.
Do your Holy Hour. If youve read The Greatness Guide, you
know about this key leadership practice. Take 60 minutes from 5am
to 6am and get inspired. Read good books. Write about your hopes,
goals and dreams in your journal. Read your mantras aloud. Hit
the gym. Youll start feeling good and energetic. Getting up early
will be effortless after this practice. I meditate. Just 30 minutes
of meditation clears my mind. With less worry and more clarity, I
sleep more deeply at night.
Remember the 40-day rule. Any new practice will feel foreign
and stressful for the !rst 40 days as you adjust. Stick to the 5am
rise. Have the courage and persistence to get into this habit. After
40 days, youll have a new protocol in place, which will boost your
leadership skills and give you far more happiness in all spheres
of life.
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13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the
current situation. Dont bring up the past. The past can hurt you
over and over again unless you let it go. Nothing good can come
from rehashing old, painful incidents that didnt serve you well
even then. Deal with the present, resolve it and then let it go too.
14. Share your knowledge. Its a way to achieve immortality.
We all have something important to contribute to humanity. If
we sti"e it we will feel unful!lled and feel weve missed out on
something. Sharing our unique gifts will not only help others, but
it will also liberate us.
15. Be gentle with the earth. Our beautiful earth is here for
our use and enjoyment, therefore, we must take good care of it.
Recycle, preserve and keep it clean$
16. Once a year, go someplace youve never been before.
Visiting new places does wonders for the brain, our emotional state
and perspective. It broadens our experiences and can expose us to
different cultures, people and ways of doing things. Its a win/win$
17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which
your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.
Need implies a must have for yourself, while love implies giving of
yourself. Need I say more?
18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order
to get it. Indeed having to work hard for a goal is more about the
journey than the goal itself. True success is what you learn and
develop along the way.
As you will probably agree, there is little I could add to improve
upon the wise words of the Dalai Lama. The above rules offer
more than enough excellent advice for living life fully, nobly and
happily. Practice them and live life joyfully $
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7. When you realize youve made a mistake, take immediate
steps to correct it. That same pride can do you in when it comes
to admitting a mistake. Do whatever it takes to correct it beginning
with an apology.
8. Spend some time alone every day. This point is generally
underrated by most of us. We all need time to recharge, re"ect
and regroup. Not only can this change your perspective and state
of mind, it can generate fresh new ideas and thinking.
9. Open your arms to change, but dont let go of your values.
Indeed there is a difference between being open-minded and
having a personal value system. Values are eternal while ideas
are ever-changing.
10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
Silence can be the best answer when you are stuck and cannot
come up with solutions. It gives you the opportunity again to regroup
and think afresh.
11. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and
think back, youll be able to enjoy it a second time. There is no
substitute for a life well-lived. When you near the end of your life,
regrets and sorrow for missed opportunities are not what you will
want to be revisiting. You will want to know that you did your best
with the information and knowledge you had at the time. You will
also want to remember that you made the most honorable choice
possible in those dif!cult moments.
12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation
for your life. A loving atmosphere includes surrounding yourself
with things that make you happy such as music, books, beautiful
plants and memorable, decorative objects. Your home is your
sanctuary make it a meaningful, rejuvenating place.
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HYPNOTIQUE CIRCLE, MADRAS
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40
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ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATIONS
We are very happy to invite you all for the 40th Anniversary
Celebrations of our Circle, founded by Prof. Rooshikumar Pandya in
July 1974. We are organizing two days conference to commemorate
the occasion. We welcome your esteemed presence $
Days and Dates : Saturday, the 13th and Sunday, the 14th July 2013
Time : 9.30 am to 6.00 pm on both days
Venue : Freemasons Hall, Commander in Chief Road,
Egmore, ( Next to Shivalaya Building, and near
Hotel Kanchi )
Investment : Rs. 1000 For Circle Members & College Students
Rs. 1500 - For others
Rs. 1800 - with Circle Membership till March 2014.
(Course fee includes, Lunch, Tea, Stationery, Study
materials etc)
PROGRAM SCHEDULE : Saturday, 13th July 2013 Day 1
Theme : Change, Challenge & Manage
09.00 am : Registration
09.30 am : Welcome Address
Mr Muthiah Ramanathan, President. Director,
Mind Dynamics Center
09.40 am : Lighting Kuthuvilakku By Dignitaries
10.00 am : Milestones of Hypnotique Circle since 1974
Major V V Narayanan, Secretary,
Hypnotique Circle, Vice President,
NLP and TA Circle
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10.20 am : Changes and Challenges
Mr. Sam Eddy, Founder F4, Curator, BIL Conference
India
11.15 am : Tea Break
11.45 am : Setting Marital Compass at 360 degrees
Ms Brinda Jayaraman, Founder, Chennai
Counselors Foundation
12.30 pm : Brand called YOU
Mr. Milind Jadhav, Corporate Trainer, Life Skills
Coach
01.15 pm : Lunch Break
02.15 pm : Mass Relaxation
Ms. Rajani Sree, Corporate Trainer and Counsellor
02.30 pm : Impact of Social Media on Human Behaviour,
Mr. Satyan Bhatt, Founder, Prism Public Relations
03.15 pm : Dr T M Perumal, Specialist in Diabetes,
Vice President
03.30 pm : Tea Break
04.00 pm : Todays Youngsters Are they on the right path ?
Mr. Karthik V, Director, Apex Laboratories. President,
NLP & TA Circle
Dr. Dimple Jain, Corporate Trainer, Counsellor &
Psychotherapist
Mr. Subramanian V, Counsellor and Psychotherapist
Mr. Raja K, Financial Consultant,
Motivational Speaker
Ms. Abi Shankari, Counsellor and Psychotherapist
05.15 pm : Video Clippings of Important events of Hypnotique
Circle
05.55 pm : Vote of Thanks
Mr Ganesan G, Joint Secretary,
Counsellor & Psychologist
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THE DALAI LAMAS 18 RULES FOR LIVING
1. Take into account that great love and great achievements
involve great risk. As I mention in many of my other articles,
anything worth achieving takes much effort, application and risk.
If it were that easy to accomplish great things, wed all be lauded
as geniuses (genii), yet evidently, that is not the case.
2. When you lose, dont lose the lesson. We all lose at times,
but if we lose the lessons offered, it becomes a real loss. As some
wise person pointed out: The lesson is often in the struggle, not
the victory.
3. Follow the three Rs:
Respect for self
Respect for others
Responsibility for all your actions.
I especially endorse this rule because it entails self-love and
self-respect, which in turn, generates respect for others. Taking
responsibility is part of the human potential movement.
4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes
a wonderful stroke of luck. Sometimes what we think we want
is not necessarily good for us, hence the stroke of luck$
5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
If you are going to break a rule, you better know what it is and why.
From there you can make the conscious decision to break it for
the right reasons.
6. Dont let a little dispute injure a great friendship. How
many times have many of us jeopardized a wonderful relationship
due to pride or hurt feelings? To throw away years of friendship and
shared good and bad times over a dispute would be unfortunate.
Dont do it$
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When the robbers got back, the younger robber (MBA trained)
told the older robber (who is only primary school educated), Big
Brother, lets count how much we got, the older robber rebutted
and said, You very stupid, so much money, how to count, tonight
TV will tell us how much we robbed from the bank$ This is called
Experience - nowadays experience is more important than paper
quali!cations$
After the robbers left, the bank manager told the bank supervisor
to call the police quickly. The supervisor says Wait, wait wait,
lets put the 5 million RMB we embezzled into the amount the
robbers robbed. This is called Swim with the tide - converting an
unfavorable situation to your advantage$
The supervisor says It will be good if there is a robbery every
month. This is called Killing Boredom - Happiness is most
important.
The next day, TV news reported that 100 million RMB was taken
from the bank. The robbers counted and counted and counted, but
they could only count 20 million RMB.
The robbers were very angry and complained We risked our
lives and only took 20 million RMB, the bank manager took 80
million RMB with a snap of his !ngers. It looks like it is better to
be educated than to be a thief$ This is called Knowledge is worth
as much as gold $
The bank manager was smiling and happy because his loss
in the CINOPEC shares are now covered by this robbery. This is
called Seizing the opportunity - daring to take risks$
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PROGRAM SCHEDULE : Sunday, 14th July 2013 Day 2
09.30 am : Scoring Marks Is it that important in life ?
Dr Ramgopal CN, Vice President, Cognitive Behavioural
Therapist
Dr Annamalai N, Corporate Trainer, Founder, Creativity
Sphere
Ms Soshina S, Counsellor and Psychotherapist
Ms Swarna, Correspondent, Educational Institution
10.30 am : Stress & your Heart
Dr Chockalingam V, Professor Emeritus, Cardiology,
MGR Medical University
11.30 am : Tea Break
12.00 pm : Wonders of Hypnosis Practical Applications
Dr. Dheep, Child psychiatrist and Founder-Chairman,
TOPKIDS Youth / Child Guidance & Counselling Centre
01.00 pm : Lunch Break
02.00 pm : Mass Relaxation
Ms Ananthi Karthic Counsellor and Psychotherapist
02.20 pm : God Men or Odd Men
Dr. Mohan Raj, Consultant Psychiatrist, Tharu Clinic
03.15 pm : Tea Break
03.45 pm : Breakthrough Thinking
Dr Karthikeyan R, Founder, Gemba School of H R,
Corporate Trainer
04.45 pm : Honouring Dignitaries Past Presidents, Secretaries,
Treasurers, Organizing Committee Members
05.15 pm : Powers of the Sub-conscious Mind
Mr. Muthiah Ramanathan, Secretary, NLP and TA Circle
05.55 pm : Vote of Thanks
Mr Gopalakrishnan R, Joint Secretary,
Counsellor & Psychologist
Event
Co-ordinators : Ms. Komala, Mr. Subbiah PV and Mr. Showkat Ali
Master of
Ceremonies : Mr. Arunkumar S, Corporate Trainer, Creativity Consultant
Ms. Ananthi Karthic, Counsellor, Jt. Secretary NLP & TA
Circle
Ms. Rajani Sree, Corporate Trainer, Jt. Secy, NLP & TA Circle
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10 GREATEST LIFE LESSONS FROM ALBERT EINSTEIN
Source: The Secret Achiever Formula
Albert Einstein was an immortal of science who made
noteworthy changes and contributions in the 20th century. He
was an inspiration for the remarkable scientists subsequent to him
thanks to his brilliant discoveries.
Einstein received the Nobel Prize in Physics in 1921 for his
services to Theoretical Physics, and especially for his discovery
of the law of the photoelectric effect.
Aside from his triumphant academic career, Einstein was a
distinguished teacher not only to the con!nes of the classroom,
but as well as to the globe. His works were indeed immortal and
superior from his lessons on the subject of life. For that superiority,
everybody ought to remember at least 10 quotes from him, which
bring forth valuable lessons about life.
Lesson 1: Cultivate a Curious Mind
I have no special talent. I am only passionately curious. Do
not hold back curiosity. It has a reason for its existence. Keep a
questioning mind.
Lesson 2: The Worth of Perseverance is Intangible
Its not that Im so smart; its just that I stay with problems
longer. The price of perseverance is beyond the corporeal things.
It cannot be measured. It cannot be sold. It has no price.
Lesson 3: Devote Attention To One Thing At A Time
Any man who can drive safely while kissing a pretty girl is simply
not giving the kiss the attention it deserves. Do not do several tasks
at once. It is in doing one task at a time that excellence is achieved.
Lesson 4: Give Weight to Imagination
Imagination is everything. It is the preview of lifes coming
attractions. Imagination is more important than knowledge.
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Helen Keller (author) was deaf and blind from the age of 19
months. She wrote 12 books, various motivational articles
and was the !rst blind person to receive a Bachelor of Arts
degree.
Ray Charles, Stevie Wonder (musicians) both of whom are
blind have achieved much in their respective genres of music.
James Earl Jones (actor) known for his booming resonant
voice was once a stutterer.
Marlee Matlin (academy award-winning actress) is deaf.
Itzhak Perlman (virtuoso concert violinist) has legs paralyzed
from polio.
Terry Fox (runner) was an amputee from cancer.
As you can see from the wonderful examples above, obstacles
and adversity need not stop you from accomplishing great things.
If anything, courageous persistence is the one quality more than
any other that can guarantee success
SEIZE THE OPPORTUNITY - TAKE RISKS
by Ms Ananthi Karthic
There was this robbery in Guangzhou, the robber shouted to
everyone: All dont move, money belongs to the state, life belongs
to you
Everyone in the bank laid down quietly. This is called Mind
Changing Concept - Changing the conventional way of thinking.
One lady lay on the table provocatively, the robber shouted at her
Please be civilised$ This is a robbery and not a rape$ This is called
Being Professional - Focus only on what you are trained to do$
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up a better, more comprehensive approach. You will revise and
improve the current strategy.
Garner support and encouragement.
Stay away from naysayers; instead seek advice from those
experienced in your !eld of endeavor and those who want you
to succeed. They can assist you by making suggestions and
recommendations based on their experience and expertise. You will
still have to do the hard work, but there is nothing more encouraging
than having positive reinforcement.
Maintain focus.
One of the obstacles to attaining success is losing motivation
and focus. A good way to maintain focus is to visualize yourself
accomplishing your goal no matter what it takes. Vividly see yourself
accomplishing your goal keep your eye on the prize. Likewise,
avoid getting caught up in negative or unproductive thinking such
as, This will never work. I cant do this. Instead, keep inspiring
slogans handy, pictures of those who have persevered in life, and
whatever else will motivate and boost your drive.
Enjoy!
The greatest feelings of accomplishment derive from knowing
youve overcome obstacles and conquered adversities to achieve
your goals. Your ultimate success will be exponentially more
satisfying and ful!lling when you know what it took to get there.
People who have persisted in spite of disabilities and
obstacles:
Ludwig van Beethoven (composer, pianist) became deaf at
the age of 30 and composed most of his beloved works after he
lost his hearing.
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Imagination is cheaper than free. It is in imagination that one
recognizes the knack one has.
Lesson 5: Mistakes Are Inevitable
A person who never made a mistake never tried anything
new. More often than not, mistakes are stepping stones to new
discoveries. It is part and parcel of living.
Lesson 6: The Future is Not Ours to See
I never think of the future it comes soon enough. The future
is a result of the things we do today. Thinking what lies beforehand
is not a bad scheme, but most of the time the present is being
neglected.
Lesson 7: Value is Superior to Success
Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value. Success is
a goal worth striving for. However, creating value has an enduring
effect for people to remember.
Lesson 8: Change Triggers Another Result
The de!nition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over
and expecting different results. Different results occur when you
change the way you do things. Only unwise people will expect a
different result from doing the same thing over and over again.
Different results will only be possible by way of change.
Lesson 9: Information is not knowledge.
The only source of knowledge is experience
Lesson 10: Understand the Basics
You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to
play better than anyone else.
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HOW TO DEVELOP PERSISTENCE
Decide what you want to accomplish and set goals.
We all know how important setting goals is for achieving success
in any endeavor, so take some time to !gure out what it is you
want. Do you want to lose ten pounds, graduate from college, run
a marathon or be a business success? In a study done in New
York several years ago researchers surprisingly found that people
who set clear, concise goals succeeded in achieving them 95% of
the time$ Interestingly, the one caveat or stipulation was that they
only achieved their goals if they refused to quit and continued to
bounce back from dif!culties along the way.
Prepare for Obstacles and Setbacks.
Know and accept that there will be obstacles and setbacks;
then prepare for them. Nothing important was ever accomplished
without adversity, setbacks and dif!culties to contend with along the
way. Henry Ford went bankrupt three times before he managed to
design his !rst automobile. As we all know and are grateful for, he
subsequently succeeded to become one of the richest men in the
world. He said: Failure is merely an opportunity to more intelligently
begin again. Thomas Edison is said to have tried 10,000 times to
create the light bulb before he succeeded. His attitude was: I have
not failed. Ive just found 10,000 ways that dont work. Persistence
is de!nitely the difference between a successful outcome and a
failed one due to giving up.
One of the ways you can prepare for setbacks and obstacles is
to anticipate potential problems and have a contingency plan. For
example, if youre trying to lose weight, you must know that there
will be occasions when its not possible to stick to your weight loss
regimen. In such cases, you will need to prepare alternative meals
ahead of time or be mentally prepared to deviate from your regimen.
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Unfortunately, instead of allowing for and being prepared in such
situations, many people give up entirely declaring it impossible to
stick to any diet. In doing so, they often sabotage all healthy eating
and give up in despair.
Another example would be endeavoring to become a marathon
runner and you fail on your !rst attempt at !nishing a marathon.
Should you give up and never try again? No, not at all$ You would
have to !gure out where you may have miscalculated your !tness
level, the type of food you ate and your training patterns. After
doing some research to !nd out how to improve, you would then
give it another whirl$
Also keep in mind that when we are overwhelmed with a problem
or dif!culty, we dont have time then to develop the persistence
necessary to deal with the particular obstacle or set back. However,
if we plan in advance for lifes inevitable ups and downs, we will
be psychologically ready when they come upon us.
Take the "rst step.
You cannot persevere; much less succeed, if you never try
to accomplish something. So many of us procrastinate, fear
failure or are too frozen in our tracks to take the !rst step towards
achievement. You will not fail if you dont try something, however,
you will never succeed either. As the popular saying goes, The
only real failure in life is the failure to try.
Review, reevaluate and revise.
If things do not work out the way you hoped then review the steps
you took and the process you followed. Reevaluate by examining
what went wrong and where. What didnt work? What could you
have done better? Did you have all the necessary skills and tools?
Your !ndings will be most illuminating, and in turn, allow you to set