Bi ny hay lm, em share li trong ny mi ngi cng c, c cho con mnh nghe na.

y l l
th mt ng tn l Tn Vn Tng, ngi i Loan gi cho cc con ca mnh:

Cc con thn mn,
i sng l v thng, khng ai bit trc mnh sng c bao lu, c nhng vic cn nu c ni ra
sm hiu th hay hn. Di y l nhng iu nn ghi nh trong cuc i :

1. Nu c ngi i x vi con khng tt, ng thm tm cho mt thi gi. Trong cuc i ny,
khng ai c bn phn phi i x tt vi con c, ngoi tr cha v m ca cc con. Nu c ngi i x
tt vi con, ngoi vic cc con phi bit n, trn qu{, cc con cng nn thn trng mt cht, v ngi i
thng lm vic g cng c mc ch ca n, ch c vi vng cho l bn tt ca mnh ngay.

2. Khng c ngi no m khng th thay th c c; khng c vt g m nht thit phi s hu, bm
cht ly n. Nu hiu r c nguyn l ny, th sau ny trong cuc i, l ngi bn i khng cn
mun cng i trn cuc i, hay v l do g con b mt i nhng g trn qu nht trong i, th cng nn
hiu, cng khng phi l chuyn tri sp.

3. i ngi ngn ngi, nu hm nay ta lng ph thi gian, mai y hiu c th thy rng qung i
vnh vin mt ri! Cho nn, nu ta cng bit trn qu sinh mng ca mnh cng sm, th ta c
tn hng cuc i mnh cng nhiu hn. Trng mong c sng trng th, chi bng mnh c tn
hng cuc i mnh ngay t by gi.

4. Trn i ny chng h c chuyn yu thng bt dit. i tnh ch l mt cm xc nht thi. Cm gic
ny, tuyt i s theo thi gian, hon cnh m bin thin, thay i. Nu ngi yu bt dit ri b con
ri, hy chu kh nhn ni mt cht, thi gian dn dn tri qua, tm t mnh t t lng ng, ci
au kh cng s t t nht nha i. Khng nn c m p ci o nh yu thng mi, cng khng nn
qu bi ly v tht tnh!

5. Tuy c nhiu ngi trn th gii ny thnh cng, ni ting m chng c hc hnh nhiu, c bng cp
cao, nhng iu cng khng c ngha l khng cn hc hnh nhiu s thnh cng. Kin thc t c
do vic hc hnh, gio dc l v kh trong tay ca mnh. Ta c th lp nn s nghip vi bn tay trng,
nhng khng th trong tay khng c tc st. Nn nh k iu ny !

6. Ba khng yu cu cc con phi phng dng ba trong na qung i cn li ca ba sau ny. Ngc
li, ba cng khng th bo bc na qung i sau ny ca cc con. Lc cc con trng thnh, c lp,
cng l lc ba lm trn thin chc ca ba. Sau ny, cc con c i xe bus cng cng hay i t nh,
cc con n sp vi c hay n m gi, u l trch nhim ca cc con.

7. Cc con c th yu cu mnh phi gi ch TN, nhng khng th bt ngi khc phi gi ch TN vi
mnh. Cc con c th yu cu mnh phi i x TT vi ngi khc, nhng khng th kz vng ngi khc
phi i x tt vi mnh. Mnh i x ngi ta th no, khng c ngha l ngi ta s i x li mnh
nh th y. Nu khng hiu r c iu ny, s t chuc ly bun phin cho mnh.

8. Trong hai mi nm qua, ba tun no cng mua v s, nhng vn ngho trng tay. iu ny, chng t
mun pht t, phi sing nng lm n mi kh c. Trn th gian ny, khng c ci g min ph c.

9. Sum hp gia nh, thn thch u l duyn phn, bt lun trong kip ny chng ta sng chung vi
nhau c bao lu, nh th no, nn trn qu khong thi gian chng ta c chung sng vi nhau.
Kip sau, d ta c thung hay khng thng, cng khng c dp gp li nhau u.