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E. J. Button, International Journal of Korean Studies
E. J. Button, International Journal of Korean Studies
Edward J. Button
Hankuk University of Foreign Studies
Introduction
You can take the Korean out of Korea, but you cannot take
Korea out of the Korean. This saying implies that experts on
Korean affairs with Korean ethnicity, regardless of their citizenship,
regardless of how many generations ago their families immigrated
to other countries, may evaluate situations through Korean eyes and
be biased towards traditional Korean points of view. Even though
an increasing number of non-Koreans are becoming involved in the
study of Korean affairs, which is a good sign for global awareness
of the importance of Korea in world affairs, these individuals, of
necessity, spend limited time in Korea and interact mostly with
other professionals with similar interests and ideas. For these
reasons, the author, who has lived and worked continuously in
Korea since 1982, may be able to describe and discuss changes in
Korean society as seen through non-Korean eyes.
The author first arrived in Korea in 1982 as a military
officer with responsibility for managing military cooperative
research and development programs between the Republic of Korea
and the United States of America and the scientist/engineer
exchange program. He continued in that position until he retired in
August 1984, after which he became a member of the faculty at
Hankuk University of Foreign Studies.
The authors observations and comments are based heavily
on discussions over the years with students during classes such as
debate and current affairs, on articles in The Korea Times, an
English language newspaper published in Korea, on conversations
with friends and colleagues, and on personal experiences. Since
non-Koreans living in Korea tend to be sensitive to situations that
have an adverse impact on them and ignore situations that dont
adversely affect them, care has been taken to ensure that this article
discussed changes in Korean society in a positive way rather than
present a list of grievances. Although the title of this article
indicates that it will address social and cultural changes, it is
difficult to address such changes in a vacuum devoid of any
reference to the political and economic climate, so such matters will
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B. Sexuality
Among todays Korean students, the attitude toward sex
and pre-marital sex is very different from that of just five years ago.
In debate and current affairs classes, the authors students openly
talk about sexual issues, including pre-marital sex. The students are
almost unanimously in favor of living together before marriage, yet
they readily admit that they would never let their parents find out.
The main reason for this viewpoint is the increasing divorce rate.
Most student feel that living with a potential mate will increase the
probably of a successful marriage by allowing the couple to find out
more about the intimate lives of their partners and separating, if
necessary, before a disastrous marriage. In addition, students see
nothing wrong in using sex as an expression of love.
Female students are also exerting more rights in sexual
relations. A common point of dissension in the authors debate and
current affairs classes is male reluctance to use a condom. The
female students feel that they shoulder sole responsibility for birth
control and suffer the most from social condemnation in the case of
unwanted pregnancies. More and more female students are
demanding that males take equal responsibility for birth control and
are looking toward abortion as an easy solution to an unwanted
pregnancy. Although abortions are illegal in Korea except to save
the life of the mother and a few extenuating circumstances, the
author expects that abortions, especially among younger women,
are increasing and that they are easy to obtain. This expectation is
confirmed by comments made by female students.
Their
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C. Homosexuality
In the mid-1980s, the author was invited to a dinner hosted
by students he was tutoring at a Korean company. Everyone was to
meet at a specified time in front of Pagoda Park. The author arrived
early and was approached by a male asking if the author wanted to
go some place special. The author was a bit confused because he
was under the impression that homosexuality did not exist in Korea.
Much to the authors relief, one of the students, a female, arrived
and came to his assistance. The young man then left. The female
student tried to explain away what had happened, but without
mentioning the idea of homosexuality. After that, the author
became aware, on several occasions, of foreigners who had come to
Korea because the climate for homosexuals was supposedly much
better, meaning that as long as homosexuality was kept private,
Koreans would look the other way. In other words, we have the
Korean version of " dont ask, dont tell." Officially, homosexuality
does not exist in Korea while in reality the homosexual population
as a percentage of the total population was probably the same as it
was in other countries.
The situation with regards to homosexuality began to
change, as far as the author could see, about five years ago. At that
time, during a current affairs class, students were discussing
homosexuality in the United States. At the end of the class, they
reported their conclusions to the rest of the class. After the report,
one male student asked if he could make a comment. He stood up
and stated that as a homosexual, he felt obligated to correct the
misconceptions held by the other students. He stated that he never
learned to be homosexual and was never taught to be homosexual.
He just noticed that as he entered his teen years he found males
more attractive than females.
He also stated that he felt
uncomfortable with his feelings at first and tried to change, but
could not, and that he had been happier since accepting his
homosexual feeling. He also stated that the number of homosexuals
in Korea was much larger than the non-homosexual population
realized and that Hankuk University of Foreign Studies had a gay
students club, a fact the other students did not know.5,6
About four years ago an actor and TV talent, Hong Sukchon, openly revealed his homosexuality during a TV interview. As
a result, he was fired from his job and received a lot a hate mail.7
Three years ago, the students of current affairs at Hankuk
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D. Pop Culture
Young Koreans are following the lead of other countries, in
particular Japan, when it comes to fashion, music, and behavior, and
this has been a cause for great concern. Many older Koreans, and a
few younger ones, feel that Korean culture is being polluted by
Japanese and other foreign cultures. For example, many tabooshattering shows exist on Korean TV, such as the Korean TV show
The Woman Next Door, which has been described as the Korean
equivalent of Sex in the City and focuses on the marriages and
extramarital affairs of three women.8 In addition, young performers
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changes will, in many cases, be drastic changes, but in the long term,
Korean society will be the better for those changes.
Progress in the political arena has been phenomenal, with
the handling of the recent impeachment clearly showing that Korea
has become a mature democracy. In addition, political parties based
on political philosophies rather than personalities appear to be
emerging. All of this bodes well for Korea'
s political future.
However, regionalism, as seen in the recent April 15 election, is a
lingering social sickness that needs to be addressed. The Roh
administration hopes that the planned capital relocation might, to
some extent, relieve the symptoms of this problem; however, the
author suspects that even if the plan is implemented, which is
doubtful at this time, regionalism will continue as a major social
concern.
Going along with the political maturation is a growing
nationalism which calls for closer ties with North Korea with the
hope for reunification in the not too distant future and for equal
status with, if not greater independence from, the United States.
The author feels that the United States is in the midst of a major reevaluation of its policy toward Asia. If President Bush is re-elected,
troop withdrawals will most likely continue as announced or be
accelerated, and the U.S. attitude toward North Korea will continue
to be hard line. On the other hand, if Senator Kerry is elected, the
opposite will most likely occur. In any event, in the author'
s
opinion, ultimately, China will become the dominant power in Asia,
with U.S. acquiescence, and the United States will rely more and
more on China to keep North Korea from becoming a major
problem. As to reunification of the peninsula, an implosion of
North Korea or a coup is highly unlikely. Although the United
States and Japan would be more than happy to see a unified
peninsula because it would solve the problem of North Korea'
s
nuclear program, China still appears to have some fear of the
economic and political instability that might occur in the early
stages of the reunification process. Until that fear is put to rest and
China sees a reunified peninsula to be in its best interest,
reunification will be impossible.
Changes in other areas such as the economy and education
have been almost non-existent or less than adequate. Although the
long-term economic outlook is probably rosy, the Korean economy
will encounter many major bumps in the short term. Government
regulation of the economy must be reduced, governmental
Conclusions
The author has discussed many aspects of Korea society
not from the point of view of an expert on Korea but from the
perspective of a non-Korean resident of Korea for the past 22 years.
It is obvious that enormous social change has occurred over the last
decade and that the change is similar to that which took place in the
United States in the 1960s and 1970s; however, Korea underwent
the change at a much faster rate. The author expects that the
divorce rate will continue to grow as feminism increases and that it
will finally level out and start to decrease as men adapt to women'
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increasing desire for personal fulfillment. Korea will also be faced
with an aging society with fewer younger members to pay the bill
for social welfare. Thus, the pension and national health systems
will have to adjust or face financial difficulty. Finally, the nonKorean presence in Korea will continue to grow and will force an
adjustment of the Korean attitude toward non-Koreans. In summary,
social changes will continue to occur at a rapid pace, and those
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