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Yoni Massage Orgasmic Discourses
Yoni Massage Orgasmic Discourses
You can also look at it as a holistic vaginal massage. It helps to release sexual traumas, frigidity and increases
sexual pleasure. Orgasmic potential gives a woman in control of it the opportunity to connect with her inner
essence, her feminine being! It works on the physical, emotional and mental levels and can transform a womens
view of herself, as well as her sexual being.
In order to help you give a successful and healing Yoni Massage, a few things need to be made clear in
advance. Its not just about giving a massage but also concerns the intentions of the giver and receiver and the
attitude they bring to it. Because Yoni Massage works on deeper levels, affecting more than just the body, a clear
idea of your intentions will bring great results.
Both partners who are involved with the Yoni Massage need to cultivate love and openness to invite whatever
manifests itself. Ideally you are both in a state of detachment so that you are grateful for whatever arises. Try to
look upon each other as divine beings - this makes the practice even more sacred. Offer the fruits of this practice
to the Universe and ask it for healing support.
3. Preparation
Create a romantic and sensual environment. Work with colors, lots of cushions,
aroma oils and music to stimulate the senses. Imagine you are in an ancient
Indian temple where golden, red silk brocade covers the space, an intoxicating
feeling of love and pleasure and the soft smell of lotus and sandalwood is in the
air. Prepare oils for the body. No essential oils near the intimate areas. Always
use pure, organic oils, preferably virgin coconut, almond, sesame or olive oil.
Some people might suffer irritation from oils in the vaginal area. In such a case
rely on natural lubrication. Remember to bring enough towels and sheets; in
some orgasmic states women lose literally liters of liquid during a G-spot orgasm
(also called squirting). To comfort the woman bring plenty of towels, to avoid
embarrassment and shame. Ask the receiver to wear a sarong when starting
the massage.
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4. Invitation Ritual
Starting the Yoni Massage with a meditation is
one of the tantric essentials. Inviting healing
energies, and detaching yourself from the fruits of
the action, helps you to be selfless and, at the
same time, open for whatever comes. It
decreases expectations and simply frees ones
mind from fear. Sit facing each other, legs
crossed, and hold hands. You can use heart
centering music and image your hearts melting
into one another. Once you feel you are calming
down you can consciously offer the fruit of the
Yoni Massage to the Universe.
5. Breath
Breath is life energy. Continue holding hands and look into each other eyes, thank the other one for their time,
presence and openness, and start breathing together, in and out. This will connect both partners strongly at the
level of the heart, and is a great preparation for the next steps. There are many tantric breathing techniques one
can perform also during the Yoni Massage to release tension. You can look into it more once you are a bit more
advanced. One of the basic principles is becoming aware of the breath and looking at it as food, which is
nourishing, healing and sustaining us. Breath is an energy which helps to transform orgasm into higher state of
consciousness and release tension.
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sensory organ and wants to be touched, massaged, caressed etc Use feathers, fur, silk, your fingertips, your
handballs and your nails to produce different sensations. Play with intensity, sometimes softer but also sometimes
stronger. You can also use aroma therapy to stimulate the olfactory organs. Whatever you think fits into the
situation. Even some raw chocolate bliss balls might be a nice stimulator for the beginning.
8. Yoni Massage
Heart-Yoni Connection
The breast massage is a great knock-knock on the temple gate, because the vagina is strongly connected with
the breasts. Once you feel the receiver is ready, work your
way down the belly around the hips and inner thighs. Many
women are very stiff around the pubic bone. So try to soften
her up until its literally a jelly belly. Before you touch her
vagina, ask if you are allowed to. Then make a cap-form with
your left hand and let it close the entrance of the vagina. You
can push slightly to increase the pressure. Place your right
hand on the receivers heart. Imagine you are bringing the
Heart and the Yoni together. Always remember that your arms
and hands are the extension of your heart; let them act in the
name of your heart.
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Attention: The clitoral orgasm is one of the most superficial and short orgasms a women can experience. There is
way more potential in a womans orgasmic power then we think.
Most women totally ignore other pleasure zones, like for example the G-spot. A magical spongy area at the inner
vaginal entrance on top. It can produce deeper and longer-lasting orgasms with more depth and multiple
potential. Another very powerful pleasure zone is the cervix. Its truly a divine bliss spot. At the entrance of the
uterus, very deep inside the vagina.
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Once you feel that the receiver is pleasured and wet ask if you are allowed to enter her holy temple. Use the
middle finger and enter very slowly, asking her to firstly squeeze her vaginal muscles and then relax them. During
the relaxation phase the finger slides in naturally. Repeat the process a few times until the finger is fully inside. Stay
there without moving for a few minutes. Simplicity is sometimes truly magical. Feel into her from your heart.
Then you can slide your finger clockwise from the entrance towards the inside, exploring the walls of her vagina
temple. Be intuitive and try to find certain spots which seem tense or even reveal physical knots. Massage them
all out. There are many numb spots in a womens vagina where she simply cannot feel the area. Its a sign of
emotional tension too. Help her to create awareness and discover together whats behind this numbness. This
vaginal releasing massage can take at least 20 30 minutes and might be a very emotional journey for the
receiver. Every time there is pain, use the breath to release. Breathe together and make sure the jelly belly around
her pubic pone is there.
Squirting
9. Pleasure Climax
Sometimes the squirting will be the end of the Yoni Massage because its quite a peak and it is common for some
women to experience a slight burning sensation inside their vagina after squirting. But if the receiver is still aroused
and wants more, you can take it even further, by stimulating the cervix - the entrance of the uterus. When the
cervix gets massaged strongly you can awaken the most powerful mind-blowing multiple orgasms. Massage with
your index or ring finger around the A-spot (the spot just before the entrance of the uterus/ anterior fornix and
posterior fornix). You can massage around it, press on it and slightly tingle it. Sometime its not easy to reach the
cervix with the fingers, because some women have very deep yonis. In such a case simply use a non-vibrating
dildo for stimulation. You can play with the cervix and jump in between G-spot and cervix. When massaging the
deeper spots you might want to come back to the clitoris as well to transform the easily-aroused energy into
deeper energies. The cervix can be very painful, so when arousing the clitoris at the same time the receivers
brain might transform the pain into pleasure. There is lots to discover and no limits to how far both of you can go.
10.
Stillness
Once you have finished the massage, do the capping method again. Left hand capping the vagina, right hand
sits on the heart. Bring all energies mentally upwards, to make sure there is no stagnation. Let the receiver rest for
some time, while you sit next to her and meditate on your heart center. Stillness is what you need after such an
emotional orgasmic storm. Enjoy the peace and tranquility.
Source of Pictures
FIG 1: Ph Thinh Co, Flickr.
FIG 2: Julien Haler, Flickr.
FIG 3 Gray, Wikimedia Commons.
FIG 4 Gray, Wikimedia Commons.