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The Gift
Forgivness is for you
by Tim Wesemann
L.H.M
(Lutheran Hour Minisrtries)
(aumavm 3;12-13)
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(Starting Over)
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(God's life-changing Words of God)
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(Forgiveness is for Giving)
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