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remember. Hearing that we were going to the hospital didnt frighten or worry me at all
because I was used to being in and out of hospitals to visit him, but once I actually
arrived to the hospital it seemed different.
This wasnt the average routine hospital visit and I started to realize that when I
got closer to my dads room. It was like my whole family was on that one floor and they
looked at me with what I realized now as pity and sorrow. With every step my heart
started to race faster. I finally got to my mother and I knew from the look in her eyes that
something really bad had happened. No words were spoken at this time as my arms were
bounded around my mothers neck and tears just started to run down my face even
though I did not know the severity of the situation. She finally took me into my fathers
hospital room and said your dad has been waiting for you and kissed my forehead.
We both now stood right in front of the rooms threshold, hands locked into one
another as she squeezed my hand tighter and said, Whenever youre ready. The walk to
his bed seemed like it lasted a lifetime. Then, everything else is like a blur. I remember
sitting next to him on his bed like always and his last words were I love you Of course
he said more but for some reason those 3 words are all I can tell you he said and those
three words will always stay with me and mean more to me than thousand words. I didnt
know it at the time that even until this day that day would have such a tremendous impact
on my life.
It was just my mom and I for a while after. She was all I had until she met
someone she thought worthy of taking the role of a father figure in my life. They
eventually got married, after my approval of course. I didnt want anything more than to
see my mom smile like she use to before. My step-father was born and raised in
was pretty stoked. It was extremely awkward having someone hovering over me and
feeling the strides of different brushes against my skin. It seemed like it took five to ten
minutes, which was incredible because it would take a lifetime for me to recreate the
natural but yet dramatic look she constructed on my face. By this time, my friends I were
back at the house and looked like quadruplets of all different complexions, and I was
beyond ready to put my dress on and take pictures.
Right before I was about to change into my dress my stepfather handed me a little
box that fit right into my palm. I opened it and it was the most beautiful purple diamond
ring. Its a tradition that on your sweet 16 your parents give you something that represents
your past, present and future. The ring symbolized that so perfectly, by having three main
diamonds one a little higher than the one next to it. My stepfather said Yo se que estas
crecidendo en una dama y no puede esta chiquita pada siempre, perosiempreserasmi
nina In translation, I know your getting older and maturing but youll always be my little
girl. Those words meant a lot to me, because although he raised me since my father
passed away and though we know we love each other, but we dont say it often. We are
more alike than we think sometimes, for example we are not the affectionate type. Its
just like an unwritten and unspoken that we both understand how much we care for each
other.
He started silently crying as I gave him the biggest hug and expressed how much I
loved their gift. After, my mom helped me put on my dress, which was such a deep and
yet vibrant purple with a zillion beads and stones. It had a corset lace back felt like the
scene of Titanic when Rose was getting ready for the ball and her mom tightens her
corset to were she could barley breathe. My aunt was also in the room and said her
famous Beauty is pain. I later realized how true that quote is. Anyways, After I got
ready and took endless amount of pictures (No seriously, I have like 5 photo albums of
pictures) It was finally time to go on the party bus to head to the hall.
Ahhh that party bus was so much fun, it was me, my court, which consisted of 6 of
my female friends, my little sister, my younger cousin, and 7 of my guy friends. They had
lights, the music was blasting from my iPod, and everyone was dancing and just vibing it
was great. My little sisters dressed ripped in the process, but I wasnt even stressed at the
time. We go to the hall and thats when all the nerves hit me. Everyone I knew was
behind those doors. This was worse then having butterflies. After heading in and doing
what my court and I rehearsed for months (everything went as planned, thank god!) it
was time for the father daughter dance. This This moment is so significant to me. It
was not your typical father daughter dance because I had three relationships that were so
meaningful to me. First I waltzed with my uncle from my real fathers side, when I got
along with so well when I was younger. He would go to all my school functions such as
breakfast with dad after my father had passed. At that moment I remembered our late
night television binges. He would always make my grilled cheese to perfection, not too
much cheese toasted just right without the crust. Then he gave me to my uncle from my
mothers side who was always there for me advice wise, as I got older. We identified
ourselves as the intellectual ones of the family. There wasnt a thing I couldnt go to him
for. Lastly he pasted me off to my step dad, although I never introduce him as such
because he treats me as if I was his daughter. He then changed my shoes, which
symbolized the transformation from a girl to a young lady, boy did that bring even more
tears to his eyes. After all the sentimental elements the party began and it was on of the