Dear Abbu,

As-Salam-o-alikum.
I want to tell you some problem, which I am facing from past 2-3 months,
after conveying to Ammi about this, repeatedly a number of times; I am
unable to resolve this, as I was hopeful.
I am now at the age of 27yrs and became equally responsible to our family
and our home at chhapra.I want to control and obey your orders and your
dreams of an Islamic, educated, respectable family .And your ideas about
day to day activities. I have a strong belief in your words, principle and
motivations. I am trying to practice it equally. I want to reach at much higher
position in professional field from now. Equally devoted to Islam and family.
For this, I need support from your side , which you had always provided.It is
the time now to convert our dreams and ideas into action. Starting right from
Shaista marriage and her B.ED education, so that she can also get a job in
future. Second, to earn money and save it for near future .We both are trying
for this.Third , to practice Islam and its teaching in our complete life. Fourth,
to get me married to the girl whom I always liked and longed for. I want to
get engaged to Saman Fatima in near future and urge you and Ammi to meet
her and her family. She is educated , Islamic and can be accepted to our
family. Educated as Master of psychology and throughout a good academic
record .Rest you can go through details. I know her from past six years, and
was in little communication.
This step will help me to concentrate on my actual dream of success and
other passion. Equally our family shall get a member to support Ammi in
daily activities. This step should be Islamic and purely on your consideration.
Kindly help me to make my dream persuasive and raise our family to a new
height through love , affection , Islam. Whatever we had current problem and
past problem of sabiha. I want to push our family beyond this misery and
create a strong moral value with the help of Islamic education.
I never run for money, but I want to chase real success of dignity , Pride and
discipline. That why I dont want to go abroad only for earning. Allah shall
definitely give us what we deserve.
Kindly help me and take a decision accordingly.
Allah Hafiz
Fahim abdul Quadir
Feb 2015