SELECT

col_genero AS 'genero',

COUNT(*)AS 'ALUMNOS'
FROM tbl_alumnos
WHERE col_genero='Mujer'

SELECT
col_genero AS 'genero',

COUNT(*) AS 'ALUMNOS'

FROM tbl_alumnos
WHERE col_genero='Mujer' OR col_genero='Hombre'
GROUP BY col_genero