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Introduction
In this research, I explore the way women and their partners use, or fail to use
contraceptive methods. I seek an approach that will enable me to know the reasons
behind the rejection of contraceptives in coital sexual relations when pregnancy is not
wanted. It seems obvious that, unless contraceptives are used, the potential for
pregnancy in healthy women of reproductive age is extremely high. And women do get
pregnant.
My initial intention is to discover the technical aspects of contraceptive failures, such as
a torn condom, interaction with drugs that annul the pill's effectiveness, slipping of the
intrauterine device, improper placement of the vaginal ring, and error of calculation in
the Ogino-Knaus method. Contraceptive methods have a 95% to 99% probability of
preventing pregnancy. Nonetheless, the number of pregnancies that women say were
not planned is considerable. More than one third of such pregnancies are due to a
failure in the contraceptive method used, in a technical sense. However, according to
the conditions in which women contend that the other two thirds of unplanned
pregnancies occur, the inference is that it was carelessness during the conception,
rather than a technical failure of a contraceptive.
Unveiling what constitutes carelessness became the leading aspect of my research. In
this presentation, based on my ethnography, I show how Catalonian, Spanish and
immigrant women explain the omission of contraceptive methods and the physical and
mental outcomes this causes. Basically, I am interested in showing that the failure to
use contraceptives can hide issues related to the couple, family, religion and custom,
which are the main reasons given by the interviewees.
Access to sexual and reproductive health, where abortion is a radical contraceptive that
puts an end to an unwanted pregnancy, is a highly sensitive topic that must be
approached with caution. Therefore, selecting the female interviewees involves
explaining the project to the women who come to a social resource for abortion-related
issues and seeking their cooperation. In the case of this research, the resource was an
Association 1 that runs an aid program to finance the abortion for women who live in
Catalonia. I had the opportunity to provide my services there for several years and
attended to several thousands of women who came to the center to apply for financial
assistance.
For the purpose of maintaining anonymity, I will always refer to the social resource where I worked
attending to women who came to request social services and financial assistance to have an abortion as
the Association.
I write legally induced abortion because it fits the provisions of Spanish Organic Law 9/1985, of 5 July,
that amends Article 417 bis of the Spanish Criminal Code (referred to hereinafter as Organic Law 9/1985)
which specifies three cases in which a woman may have an abortion: 1) fetal malformation up to 22 weeks
of gestation; 2) on account of rape, after filing a report with the police and before 12 weeks of gestation; 3)
if the physical or mental health of the pregnant woman is at risk, in which case there is no time limit. It is
also worth mentioning that my research was conducted when the above-mentioned Law was still in force,
but a new abortion law was passed in Spain on 24 February 2010.
The effort to follow the interviewees expressions and manner of speech is lost in the translation into
English.
In the Demographics section of the newspaper El Peridico de Catalunya, of July 4, 2008, there was a
news item stating that Catalonia had regained the fertility rate of 1984 with 1.48 children per woman. The
article reported that due to 10 consecutive years of growth, in 2007 the fertility rate (which measures the
number of children per woman of childbearing age) reached its highest level since 1984. This now means
that, at 1.48, the average number of children that women in Catalonia have is higher than even the
Spanish national average, which is a big difference to the low average recorded in 1995 (1.14). According
to the text of the article, even though Spanish women have more children, the increase in the fertility rate
is largely due to the foreign population. This is because the number of children born of immigrant women
increased by 16.4% in 2007, a figure equivalent to 18.8% of the total number of births registered in
Catalonia that year. Moroccan women had the most children, accounting for 21.6% of the total number of
births given by foreign women, according to the newspaper.
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This level of reoccurrence made me curious as to the conditions and causes of these supposedly
spontaneous miscarriages. I found out that the miscarriages were frequently the result of acts of violence
perpetrated by the pregnant womans partner against her.
community of reference, they are extremely lonely: Im here alone, very alone,
completely alone. I have no one all of my family are over there, in my country.
Solitude is a further factor that increases the likelihood of not using contraceptives,
unwanted pregnancy and abortion:
I got pregnant and my husband is in my country aaand he doesn't know
about it he's there with my two kids because I came here to work and send
them every month and here I have no one no one at all all my family is in my
country I have no friends no one! and I felt very lonely so lonely thaaaaat I felt
really bad and I met him when I felt so lonely I met this man hes Catalan and
he seemed nice aaaand now he dumped me when I told him I was pregnant he
said it was my fault that right there I was on my own aaaandits just that I felt
so lonely and really bad () to his place he took me because he said I was
the love of his whole life and he said he loved me and I felt happy and believed
what he said and you see he got tired of me and found himself another
woman () my husband mustnt know about this [pregnancy and abortion]
so thats why I can't have it
Based on the interviews, I observed that most unwanted pregnancies and abortions
take place between a few months and the first 2 or 3 years of the womens residence in
Catalonia. Frequently, the men will abandon the woman when they find out she is
pregnant; even reunified husbands 6 , will, while blaming only the woman for the
situation. Many women assume the pregnancy as their own fault and even relieve their
partner of any blame for the situation. Usually they do not use contraception because:
its God who decides if you become pregnant or not, in my country, a man
who uses a condom is a sissy, or the doctor didnt want to put the T [IUD] in me
he said that I was too young and without a partner..
Apart from the economic instability, the loneliness and the major social and cultural
change immigrant women must experience, they must also tackle the contradiction that
having an abortion entails if religious beliefs lead them to say they are, for instance,
very believing, Im a very staunch Catholic, very devout Evangelical, or I truly
believe in God.
Family reunification: Under the governing law, once they have lived in Spain for 5 years or more,
immigrant women may start the application process for family reunification; that is, to arrange for their
partners and their daughters and sons to emigrate to the country (who are legally permitted to live in the
country, but not work in it). Colloquially, the term for this is reunifying someone.
be one of the reasons why the immigrant women interviewed were silent when asked
why they did not use methods of contraception.
Another feature of immigrant women is their level of dependence on their partner,
seemingly due to social and cultural teachings in their countries of origin. The same
was observed in Catalan and Spanish women but to a lesser degree. The women
seem to have a need for their partners to tell them how good they are as wives,
mothers and workers. In many of their narratives, I found that many of the men resort
to psychological and/or physical abuse that ends in conflict and aggression against
their partners, as well as temporary breakups that are sometimes final. The women
return to the men and forgive them, even when the latter have won other women and
have sexual intercourse with them, because they feel loved when the men say they
want to have a child with them and interpret this as 'a sign of love'.
The outcome of many such signs of love is a child and, sooner or later, the couple
breaks up. In most cases, the men abandon their partners and children, while the
women, after a brief period of mourning, enter into a new relationship which quickly
turns into living by that guys side, living with my husband in concubinage or
"sharing a loose relationship but Ill marry him some day. A new pregnancy follows
shortly after, based on the assumption that everyone wants a child when they love
someone, despite the briefness of the love.
Some of the interviewees decided not to abort and went ahead with the pregnancy.
them in a process they believe to be theirs only or because they do not view their
relationship as stable.
Another aspect criticized by the women was the cost of contraceptive pills, male
condoms, the intrauterine device (IUD) and subcutaneous implants. The latter two
devices are worth the extra cost if one considers the years of contraceptive protection
they afford, but in the opinion of most of the interviewees, condoms and the pill should
be sold for a symbolic price or be free of cost, and be readily available to women and
men of any age. The interviewees held similar views with regard to postcoital
contraceptives, which they felt should be available to women over the counter 8 .
Grievances with regard to abortion as a radical method of contraception appeared in
the narratives closely connected to each womans particular circumstance, that is, to
each womans perception of the process and her personal resources. The difficulty
involved in finding information on where to go for an abortion and how to apply for
financial assistance, if necessary, was mentioned. So was mistreatment on the part of
certain health care professionals when they expressed a desire to abort, the kind of
attention they received at the hospitals (respect, anonymity, waiting time, personalized
or mechanical care, unpleasant incidents with the staff, post-abortion complications,
etc.), and the anxiety with which they endured the process were some of the factors
most frequently mentioned by the interviewees.
At the time of this research, a doctors prescription was required in Spain. Getting a prescription involved
making an appointment to see a doctor, who gave her information on the potential side effects and what to
do if they occurred, and a prescription for free oral contraceptives. Appointments for post-coital pills,
however, were handled at the Primary Health Care Centres emergency service, where they were given
immediately, kept confidential and were not entered in the woman's medical record.
leads to pregnancy and abortion is the remedy to a precaution that was not taken. In
other words, the desire to get pregnant overrides the method of contraception which
would have been advisable. Abortion annuls the negligence with regard to
contraception and the possibility of pregnancy, if any, is interrupted.
Omission was the reason for resorting to abortion most frequently cited. It fell within the
category of the accidental, the result of fortuitous circumstances connected to
unintentional mechanical failures in the contraceptives used. A precarious and unstable
situation that ruled out the intention of living together as a couple was among reasons
the women gave for being unable to continue with the pregnancy. Moral considerations
also came into play, as though the new being would be deprived of living a full life
under such circumstances:
well we met around three months ago, more or less, and after two years
without a partner or relations or anything well I got pregnant the very first time
because I was careless I don't take the pill or anything and he well he didn't
havehe pulled out but something must have stayed in but I just cant
understand it ()I cant have a child now because we dont even know
each other its not the right time and because I have a girl age 7 and he has two
kids of 9 and 13 who are with him so it's impossible to have a child in the
situation the two of us are in ()besides with no future to give the kid that's
bornno way! it's very hard for me but I have no choice"
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he always told me he was careful and that he did it outside that it ended up
outsideand that's why he didn't let me use the T or take pillsand I was so
afraid that I didnt dare say anythingto say no to him
I think that's actually what he wanted to tie me to him to have me dependent
on his will because he didn't want me to take anything he said that way I
wouldn't harm my healthI think he only wanted to get my pregnant to tie me to
him so I wouldnt go offthats why I want to have an abortion without him
knowing maybe Ill tell him later but now Ill think of something I dont know that I
aborted all of a sudden or something like that"
he discovered that I took pills [the pill] and threw them out the window into
the street telling me not to take them ever again and he has such a bad temper
he was so angry he hit me he hurt me a lot and when they heard my screams
they called the police and took him away I don't know where they've got him
locked up () he always told me I would have to accept all the children
God gave me thats why I couldnt plan [take contraceptives]"
Im going to ask him Ill tell my husband because he knows about that
[contraception] I dont know I never used anything only my days [Ogino-Knaus
method]Ill ask him about what you told me this morning [she was offered the
placement of an intrauterine device at the Association] may I come back [to the
Association] and tell you if he says yes?
you are different here because in my country women cant go to the doctor
alone or anything because their husband always has to go with them because if
they go alone they dont get care and thats why my husbandI tell him about
everything and he decided for them to place the T the IUD [intrauterine device]
after they do it[an abortion].
These narratives make it clear that men often prefer to leave the burden of
contraception to their partners because, paradoxically, it is the men who decide
whether or not the women should use contraceptives. As many interviewees reported,
a womans independent decision on whether or not to use contraceptives is viewed by
many men as an attempt to escape their control or as proof that their woman is
unfaithful to them or planning to be in the future.
Women who have to conceal their methods of contraception for fear of their partner's
violence do not use contraceptives properly or do not have the courage to use an
intrauterine device (IUD). Women immigrants report that their partners forced them to
stop using contraceptives before setting out on their migration journey:
before I came here he made me take out the T [intrauterine device] because
he said that since I wasnt going to have relations here because he stayed there
and I went to the doctor to have it taken outand thats why I dont want the T
because he doesnt know about my pregnancy and I cant let them place it in
me because my husband would notice and I cant tell him anythinghe doesnt
know what Im going to do because it was here that I have a new relationshipI
felt so lonely hereaaaand then, how could I explain the T to him?
he calmed down then because before I came here I had the T [intrauterine
device] taken out because he didnt want me to come with the T and why are
you going there with the T if I'm staying here and you're leaving to work? he
always said that until I had it taken out and then he calmed down
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Many women reveal that defying their partners can cause threats, blows and abandon.
To avoid such situations they obey their partners and do not use or stop using
contraceptives. As a result, they cannot prevent unwanted pregnancies. In other cases,
the womens partners may force them to use ineffective methods, and then refuse to
follow the methods guidelines:
I count my days but he doesnt care its when he wants and thats that! and
of course hes so manly! he doesnt want to use a condom because he says it
wasnt made for him but he always wants sex, sex and more sex!and I
don'tand its because I can't because Im always so tired with all the work and
the housework and my three children and everything!maybe you could tell
him talk with him and explain to him so hed understand me, you know?
because I've just run out of words with him its no use he doesnt listen and
maybe he'd listen to you"
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Considering that the majority of acts of violence against women is gender based, an
approach that can pinpoint and reveal the standards connected to femininity and
masculinity is essential. Armed with this knowledge, it will be easier to access and treat
community factors, such as the social and cultural tolerance that allows women to
remain in a situation of violence and keeps them isolated. In this sense, the situation is
very clearly illustrated in the interviews conducted at the Association, where many
women from Arab countries, Pakistan, India, Bangladesh and African countries, after
years of living in Catalonia, still speak their native languages only. This means that the
only way they can be treated, or carry out any activity in the public domain is to be
represented by their husbands and partners, who accompany them at all times. Not
knowing the language is not correlated to violence, but it does create a situation in
which it is easier for violence, if any, to develop inadvertently.
Interpersonal factors also emerge in the interviews, revealing that cultural standards for
the role and status of women and men foster the belief that men are entitled to control
and punish their wives. This situation is evident at the Association, when the interviews
are conducted with women who need the intermediation of their husband or partner
owing to the language barrier. It is always the men who carry the women's identity and
health documents. It is the men who provide the data regarding menstruation,
fecundity, fertility, contraception and so on, without consulting their female partners,
and the men who explain that she did not take the necessary precautions and that is
why she is pregnant. Normally they scold the women if they do not remember
something they are asked, and they decide whether or not the women should use a
method of contraception.
Moreover, the husbands or partners explain that it is they who provide the economic
resources to support the women and their children, if any, while the women are shut
away in their homes with no relationships with others, not even with neighbors and
people in their immediate surroundings. This means they do not learn Catalan or
Spanish, because they are dull and ignorant, the men say. Frequently, the women are
illiterate or have not completed primary education. Even if they have reached the level
of higher education, their situation of dependence and isolation is not visibly different,
at least it is not apparent in the examination conducted during the interviews. At the
request of specialist who attends to them at the Association, the husbands and
partners translate the information for the women, but how they translate it and how
much the women understand is not known.
By way of conclusion
Contraceptives became a widespread practice that converted planning for children into
a reality. It is not until contraception became safer and available to most Western
women in the 1960s, however, that womens sexuality became effectively separated
from maternity. Maternity, women's lot for thousands of years, became a matter of
choice. The desire for motherhood, which is a characteristic of fecundated women
conducive to acceptance of all their pregnancies, was transformed into a planned
intention, a project. Therefore, unwanted pregnancies are perceived as a failure or
become unintended actions.
An evident contradiction underlies many unexpected pregnancies, consisting in the
intention to avoid pregnancy and not taking adequate measures to prevent it. Such
actions are not as casual as they may seem at first because how can one think that
nothing will happen just this once if contraceptives are not used? In fact, there are
elements in the narratives that deflect conscious intention, remitting to an unresolved
conflict between practicing non-procreative sexuality and an unconscious desire to be
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