School Refusal Guide
Parent Plan
Highlight parent-child interaction patterns that maintain refusal.
Reinforce Good Parenting Skills:
* Active reinforcement of positive behaviors (attendance/ approach behavior)
* Active ignoring of unwanted behavior (complaining, reassurance-seeking, crying,
whining, physical complaints
Develop reward chart and assign rewards
Planning gradual hierarchies together
+ Hierarchy list of graded challenges ranked from easier to harder challenges
Goals: Reduce child dependence of adults
Increase child confidence
Typical CBT Modules for Anxiety
Emotions education
Relaxation
Problem-solving
Thought monitoring and cognitive restructuring
Imaginal or in vivo exposure tasks ~active, real life practice!
Rewarding approach behaviors
Homework to generalize lessons
NowSune
Primary Control Strategi
When I start to feel bad, | can do 2 kinds of things to feel better:
ACT...
A Activities. Do activities that solve problems, activities | enjoy, activities with someone |
Like, activities to stay busy, and activities to help others
C Calm and Confident. Stay calm -make myself relax. Stay confident- show a positive
self
T Talents, Develop a special talent or skill. Set a goal, plan steps to reach the goal, the
practice, practice!
ANd. THINK
(OVER)Think Positive, No negative thinking allowed. Change my 8-L-U-E negative, unrealistic
thoughts into positive, realistic thoughts
Help from a Friend. Think things over with someone | trust
Identify the “Silver Lining.” Figure out what's good about my situation
No Replaying Bad Thoughts. Stop thinking about things that make me feel bad. Get my
mind on something else.
Keep Thinking ~Don’t Give Up. Keep trying ideas from my ACT & THINK chart until | feel
better.Scoring Sheet
Kearney Assessment Schoo] Refusal Assessment Scales
for Students & Parents
Directions: Place rating for each question next to the corresponding number below. Add each
column to obtain individual totals for each column. Determine the mean score for each column.
Rank the mean scores from 1 to 4 to determine the primary function(s) of the avoidance behavior.
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Relative
Ranking
ive Functions of Avoidance Bi
Column One
Avoiding General School-Related Stress
Column Two.
Escape from Aversive Social and/or Evaluative Situations
Column Three
Pursuit of Attention from Significant Others
Column Four
Pursuit of Tangible Rewards Outside of School
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The assessment scale and intervention strategies for each type of school avoidance
behavior identified above can be found in the following bool
ielping Sc} efusit ildren & Their
Professionals by Christopher A. Kearney
Publisher: Oxford University Press, 2008.Kearney Assessment Scale for Students
Name: __
Moa
Children sometimes have different reasons for not going to school
Some children feel bad at school, some have trouble with other peo-
i family, and others lilce to do tl
ple, some just want to be with
‘outside of school that are more fun.
‘This form asks questions about why you don't want to go to
school, For each question, pick one number that describes you best
for the last few days. After you answer one question, go on to the next.
Dont skip any questions.
‘There are no right or wrong answers. Just pick the number that
bese fits the way you feel about going to school. Circle the number.
Here is an example of how it works. Try it. Circle the number that
describes you best
Example:
How often do you like to go shopping?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 a 3 4 5 6
Now go to the next page and begin to answer the questions.
Please circle the answer that best fits the followin,
How often do you have bad feelings about going to school because
you are afraid of something related to school (for example, tests,
school bus, teacher, fire alarm)?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3 4 3 6
How often do you stay away from school because i is hard to speal
with the other kids at school?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 L 2 a 4 5 6
How often do you feel you would rather be with your parents than
0 to school?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 Cae 5 6
When you ate not in school during the week (Monday to Friday),
how often do you leave the house and do something fun?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3 4 5 6
(OVER)15, How much would you rather be taught by your parents at home
than by your teacher at school?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3 4 5 6
16, How often do you refuse to go ta school because you want to have
fun outside of school?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3 4 5 6
17. IF you had fewer bad feelings (for example, scared, nervous, sad)
about school, would it be easier for you to go to school?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3 4 5 6
18, IF it were easier for you to make new friends, would it be easier for
you to go to school?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes ‘Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 Sia 5 6
19, Would it be easier for you to go co school if your patents went
you?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3 4 5 6
20. Would ic be easier for you to go to school if you could do more
things you like to do after school hours (for example, being with
friends)?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3 4 3 6
How much more do you have bad feelings about schoo! (for example,
scared, nervous, or sad) compared to other kids your age?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3° 4 5 6
22. How often do you stay away from people at schoo! compared to
other kids your age?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3 4 5 6
23. Would you like to be home with your parents more than other
kids your age would?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3 4 5 6
24, Would you rather be doing fun things outside of school more
than most kids your age?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3 4 5 6Kearney Assessment Scale for Parents
Name:
Date: _
Please circle the answer that best fits the following
L. How often does your child have bad feelings about going to school
because he/she is afraid of something related to school (For exam-
ple, tests, school bus, teacher, fire alarm)?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Usually Always Always
0 1 2 4 5 6
stay away from school because itis hard
ith the other kids at school?
for him/her to speak
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3 4 5 6
feel
he would rather be with you or
3. How often does your ch
‘your spouse than go to school
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3. 4 5 6
your child is not in school during the week (Monday to
Friday), how often does he/she leave the house and do some-
4
Half che Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes ‘Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3 4 5 6
8. When your chi
9. How often does your child feel worse at school (for examp!
5. How often does your child stay away from school because he/she
will feel sad or depressed if he/she goes?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Alsvays Always
0 1 2 3 4 5 6
6. How often does your child stay away from school because he/she
feels embarrassed in front of other people at school?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3 4 - 6
7. Hlow often does your child think about you or your spouse or famn-
ily when in school?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 a 5 6
in school during the weele (Monday to Fri-
alk co or see other people (other than
day), how often does
his/her family)?
Half the Almost ”
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 I z e 4 3 6
scared, nervous, or sad) compared to how he/she feels at home
friends?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3 4 5 6
(OVER)20. Would it be easier for your child to go to school if he/she could
do more things he/she likes to do after school hours (for example,
being with friends)?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 a a 5 6
21. How much more does your child have bad feelings about school
(for example, scared, nervous, or sad) compared to other kids his/
her age?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes ‘Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3 4 5 6
22. How often does your child stay away from people at school com-
pared to other kids his/her age?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes ‘Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3 4 5 6
23. Would your child like to be home with you or your spouse more
than other kids his/her age would?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes ‘Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3 4 5 6
24, Would your child rather be doing fun things outside of school
more than most kids his/her age?
Half the Almost
Never Seldom Sometimes Time Usually Always Always
0 1 2 3 4 5 6
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