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Stress
An emotional and physical response to pressure
Can come from external factors (life events, illness,
living conditions, work, home and family)
Even those events that seem enjoyable can be
stressful such as holidays, moving, etc.
Can be exacerbated by not having the internal ability
to control and process the stress from external
factors
Emotional Responses
Physical Sensations
Heart racing
Breathing faster
Tense muscles (especially neck, shoulders, abdomen)
Hot or sweaty
Headaches
Constipation or diarrhea
Behavior
Difficulty concentrating
Forgetful
Sleep disturbance
Eating more (or less)
Restless, cant settle
Feeling paralyzed and unable to do anything
Self Kindness:
Understanding
Not Punishment
Sense of
Common
Humanity:
Everybody goes
through this
Mindfulness:
Neither ignoring
nor
exaggerating
feelings of
failure
Self-kindness
How we respond to ourselves during moments of
stress and suffering
Forgiveness and learning from mistakes vs selfcriticism
Role Model and be a mirror for your children
Mindfulness
Guided Imagery, deep breathing, progressive muscle
relaxation
Cultivating self awareness:
What do I sense, think, feel?
How do I recognize when I am overwhelmed?
How do I respond to stress?
https://youtu.be/NYqjV-KgCic
Role of Parents
Understand your own response: What happens in
your brain and body when stressed?
Use empathy to connect, communicate and reflect:
What does brain science tell us? How can I tell when I
am overwhelmed? How can I notice my teen is
overwhelmed?
Role model self compassion: How do I act when I
make mistakes?
Role of Parents
Notice when and where you repeat negative cycles of
interaction with your child. How can you help change
these patterns?
Try to move from criticism and judgment to
admiration and interest for your child and yourself.
Recognize and receive support and self-care for
yourself to feel more equipped to handle your own
and your childs stress and anxiety.
Bibliography
Dr. Dan Siegel: www.drdansiegel.com
Dr. Kristin Neff, Ph.D.: www.self-compassion.org
http://self-compassion.org/category/exercises/#guidedmeditations