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with a
missionary who was struggling with obedience. One day in frustration he
blurted out: What then is it you want me to do? I replied: You have
missed the point. It is not what I want you to do, it should be what do
you want to do? There was a moment of silence and then he made this
insightful observation: You are not just asking me to change my
behavior; you are asking me to change my nature. He was so right.
If you only change your behavior, then you will be the same person you
were when you left home, subject to the same problems that plagued
you then. But if you change your nature you will go home a new man or
woman, with the power and discipline to conquer your old Goliaths. If
you only get up at 6:30 am because your companion does, you have
merely changed your behavior. If you get up whether or not he does, you
have changed your nature. If you speak good words but entertain bad
thoughts, you have only changed your behavior. If you also change your
thoughts you have also changed your nature.
With the Lords help we can transform our natures. King Benjamin gave
the key as to
how we can do it. We must become submissive, meek, humble, patient,
full of love, willing to submit to all things which the Lord seeth fit to
inflict upon him, even as a child doth submit to his father. (Mos 3:19).
That is the key to submit our will to Gods will.
One missionary, upon going home told me that he slept in one morning.
His companion
said to him, Its time to get out of bed. This missionary responded, I
dont want to. His
companion replied, Its not about what you want, its about what the
Lord wants. The
missionary said; I have never forgotten that a mission is about that
the Lord wants, not what I want.
A consecrated nature will cause us to be obedient, not because we have
to, but because
we want to. Such a nature may cause us to change the music we listen
to; it may cause some to be more positive in their speech, or more
exacting in following the morning schedule or more diligent in their
studies. Whatever it is, the consecrated missionary will read the white
handbook with enthusiasm, anxious to obey and follow every rule with
exactness, knowing that it is not a book of restraints, but a book of
blessings. He will have an overarching, burning desire to do the Lords
will, not his.
say, I will go and do the things which the Lord hath commanded, for I
know that the Lord giveth no commandments unto the children of men,
save he shall prepare a way for them that they may accomplish the
thing which he commandeth them (1 Ne 3:7). Eventually we must do
more than tell the stories of the Book of Mormon; we must live them.
The Lord, in speaking to a group of departing missionaries (like you), told
them five
times to preach by the way (DC 52:10-27). We preach by the way
when we talk to people in the parking lots, when we speak with people in
elevators, when we speak to people in the stores or on the bus or at the
gas stations. Consecrated missionaries preach by the way at all times
and in all places, both day and night. Sometimes we have
missionaries who are so worried about offending people that in
the process they never ever save them.
I had an assistant who used to say, If you want to baptize a few people
you talk to a few
people, if you want to baptize a lot of people you talk to a lot of people
and if you want to
baptize everyone you can, you talk to everyone you can. But the Lord
gave an even further reason for opening our mouths. He declared: And
it shall be given thee from the time thou shalt go [out of thy apartment
in the morning], until the time thou shalt return [to thy apartment in
the evening] what thou shalt do. (DC 28:15-16). In other words, you will
have the spirit from the moment you leave your apartment until the
moment you return to your apartment if you do what is required in verse
16: And thou must open thy mouth at all times, declaring my gospel
with the sound of rejoicing. Amen.
The reason it is so important to open our mouths is that every time we
do so we exercise
faith, and every time we exercise faith we invite the spirit and miracles
into our lives.
Consecrated missionaries open their mouth with everyone.
Put Our Romantic Passions on the Table
Third, a consecrated missionary puts his romantic passions on the altar
of sacrifice; he
has a locked heart and a focused mind. He is never flirtatious, he does
not have an eye on the cute BYU coed or the friendly young single adult,
nor is his prime focus with the young women after sacrament meeting.
He is not obsessed with his girl friend back home. He rises above all of
that.
In my day the white handbook contained this all-inclusive statement:
Put out of your
mind all thoughts of home, school, your girl and worldly things. It was a
powerful reminder
that our mission was the sole focus of our mind and the sole passion of
our heart. As hard as it may be, the consecrated missionary disciplines
his passions. His eye is riveted to this work. He is like the thoroughbred
horse with his blinders on. He races ahead, seeing only track and
finish. If an inappropriate thought enters his mind, he drives it out with a
hymn or scripture. His mind does not go with the flow. Rather, there is an
active, concerted, conscientious effort to keep his mind pure and clean.
When David saw Bathsheba on the rooftop, he continued to watch
that was his downfall. When Joseph was tempted by Pharaohs wife, the
scriptures say: [He] got him out (Gen 39:12), and that was his
salvation. It is no different with our minds. Alma taught this principle to
his son Corianton, who had unfortunately unlocked his heart to the harlot
Isabel. Alma scolded his son severely and said, Yea, she did steal away
the hearts of many, but this was no excuse for thee, my son. And then
he gave him the remedy to be a consecrated missionary, go no more
after the lusts of your eyes, but cross [or discipline] yourself in all
these things. (Alma 39:4,9).
You young missionaries who enter the field, will be surrounded, almost
immersed, by
those in immodest clothing, by suggestive billboards, by magazines and
papers that have lost all sense of moral decency. If you garnish your
thoughts with virtue unceasingly (DC 121:45) the consequences will be
monumental in your life. As a missionary you will have confidence
that the Lord will hear and answer your prayers. The Lord himself
promised: Let virtue garnish thy thoughts unceasingly; then shall thy
confidence wax strong in the presence of God. (DC 121:45) In addition,
when you go home and date, you may not only have a romantic
courtship, but one that is also clean and wholesome. And when you are
married you will be a loyal and true spouse. If every action is preceded
by a thought, then every consecrated missionary must first have a clean
and consecrated mind.
Give Up Pride
Fourth, a consecrated missionary gives up his pride on the sacrificial
altar. The Lord
made it clear, And no one can assist in this work except he be humble
and full of love (DC 12:8). Pride manifests itself in many ways one way
is disloyalty to those who are our leaders.
Loyalty is much more than a reluctant submissiveness. It is an active
pursuit, not only to follow the counsel of our leaders, but to seek their
counsel. A consecrated missionary hungers and thirsts for instruction as
before 9:00 p.m., except for lunch or dinner. They speak to everyone.
They knock at one more door. There is a quickness in their pace and an
urgency in their work. You can see it in their faces.
Years ago I was a young missionary in Washington DC. I was on an
exchange with an
Elder Hafen. It was a bike area. We had an appointment across town but
the rain started to pour. He asked, Should I cancel the appointment? I
replied, This is your area, you make the decision. He thought for a
moment and then replied, Lets ride. I love those words Lets ride
rain, sleet, snow, it doesnt matter Lets ride. That is the spirit of a
consecrated missionary.
When consecrated missionaries are exhausted and nothing is left, they
rely upon their
faith, and the reserve tanks of energy somehow carry them through the
day. They too become recipients of the promise to Joseph Smith: In
temporal labors thou shalt not have strength for this is not thy calling.
But then the promise: Thou shall devote all thy service in Zion; and
in this thou shalt have strength (DC 24:7-9).
What Does it Cost to Become a Consecrated Missionary?
What is the cost to become a consecrated missionary? Some time ago I
saw a movie on
the life of Martin Luther. He was about to be tried for heresy. Shortly
before he was to meet
with the Court of Inquisition, his spiritual mentor (a monk who had
trained him and loved him) was cutting his hair with a razor. At one point
the monk reprimanded Luther for having turned the world upside down,
leading the world in revolt Protestants against Catholics.
Then in a stirring moment, Luther grasps his arm and asks: You wanted
me to change the world. Did you think there would be no cost? You
young missionaries came out here to change the world, to change lives,
but there is a cost. It costs everything that you have on the altar of
sacrifice your fears, your pride, your laziness, your disobedience, your
weaknesses; we cannot hold anything back. When you came to the
mission field you burned the bridges behind you, you burned the ships in
the harbor. There is no retreat to your former life. You cannot have one
foot at home and one foot in the mission field.
That is a certain formula for frustration. The Lord demands our whole
soul on the sacrificial altar. That is the price we must pay, and when we
do, we then become instruments in the hands of God.