Concept of Marriage in Islam

Hadith from Al-Tirmidhi :

If someone with whose piety and character you are satisfied with comes to
you, marry to him. If you do not do so, there will be trials in the earth and a
great deal of evil.

Three points to make a decision on marriage:

1. Pleasing Allah wa zal and most importantly ask Allah salatul istikhara;
our heart is in between the finger of Allah, if Allah choses he will make
you marry this women no matter how much your parents dislike her or
vice versa.
2. Marry them for the right reason and thats not for the looks , dont go
for the looks go for the deen . Rasul sm. Said women will married for 4
and look for the one with religion not mean is a muslim ask her: come
here sister , what do you know about quran , when did rasul sm. Born,
tell me the names of the mothers of the believers. And the same thing
ask the brother, dont just ask him are you muslim, do you pray, I want
you to ask him about the deen, do you know some of the brother dont
even know what thayammum is ? how is he going to be your imam and
how is he going to lead you to jannah ? you really want him to love
forever and eternity and you want to take him to jannah and not just
here. So you want a man that knows the deen. As rasul sm. Said , a
man come to you accept his deen, deen not mean in islam , his
manners and religion then marry to him to your daughters.
3. Last and most important thing is for you conducting yourself in the
right correct manner and with that youll be pleasing allah and alllah
will make thing easy for you.