Primal Power Tantra

A guide & instructions for tantra-tantric sex

by Jon Peniel

ISBN# 0-9660015-7-5
2001 Windsor-Hill Inc.

TABLE OF CONTENTS
About the Author.....3
Primal Power Tantra Traditional Tantra-Tantric Sex Training4
Tantric Sex Training....4
To Our Readers.4
Prerequisite to Reading this Book......4
Show Me the Energy...5
Men Have It Harder....6
The History of Varieties of Tantric Sex.7
The Primal Types of Tantra7
The Take Method....8
The Give & Receive Method Primal Power Tantra......9
Primal Power Tantra vs. Celibacy....10
The Fundamentals of Primal Power Tantra....11
Tantra, like fine wine, gets better with age.12
Committing to Your Training......12
Boot Camp the Basic Training.....13
Preliminaries to the Physical Aspects of Training.....14
The Physical Aspects of Training....15
The Mental Training..15
Now for the Women..17
His and Hers General Tips and Training Rules..18
Second Year Training19
Common Problems that can be Encountered.19
Not so Common Problems22

About the author:

Jon Peniel is an American who spent years in a unique pre-Buddhist
monastery. His expertise covers all known forms of tantra/tantric sex from various
cultures. He has personally mastered the forms of tantra taught at the monastery (3
years of traditional training, then decades of practicing).
Jon Peniel entered the monastery while still a teenager. There, he was also
educated in the spiritual teachings and practices of most of the worlds traditions
and cultures. He studied ancient teachings, and practiced tantra, meditation,
and yoga, eventually attaining their highest degree of spiritual achievement by the
age of 21.
Peniel wrote a book about the orders ancient teachings, in the late 1990s.
It became an independent press best seller in the US and Israel. He is now the
international head of the order, and teaches, primarily in North America.
The monastery was located in an area of Tibet that was considered
"forbidden" by the people of Tibet and even Tibetan Buddhists. It remained
unknown to the outside world until recently, when Peniel wrote a book about his
experiences there, revealing their teachings and ancestry.
Even the area where the monastery was located, was a mystery and paradox
- a sub-tropical valley, amidst the high frozen Himalayas. It was a part of the world
never before documented by "outsiders" until explorers from National Geographic
finally made it there a few years ago.
The late, famous psychic, Edgar Cayce spoke many times of the obscure
spiritual order Peniel belongs to, during the years of psychic readings he gave.
Cayce, sometimes called the sleeping prophet because he would give his
readings during an out of body experience or trance state, was the most
documented psychic in the world. Interestingly, Cayce also prophesized the future
"arrival" of a spiritual messenger/teacher, named Peniel.

Primal Power Tantra Traditional Tantra-Tantric Sex

Training
This book covers the various methods of tantric sex, from the new
to the ancient. It discusses the positives and negatives of each, and
gives detailed instruction in what weve found to be the best method
(and gives you the reasons why, so you can decide for yourself).

To our readers:
This book has two categories of readers. One is the person who just wants
to become a better lover, improve their sex life, sexual abilities, and perhaps give it
a deeper dimension. The other is those who are on a spiritual path, and either
want to use sex as one more tool for spiritual development, or find the best way to
integrate sex into a spiritually oriented lifestyle.
Since Im having to write for both types of potential readers, let me
apologize in advance to each group, for the parts of my writing that arent specific
to your particular goals. But, you will find what you are looking for here
regardless of whether it is the ultimate in spiritual sexuality, or just a method for the
best sex youve ever had.

A Rose by Any other Name

There are many names used for spiritual/sacred sexuality techniques. The
most common are tantra, tantric sex, tantric yoga, and tantra yoga. Regardless of
what you call it, we are covering it in this book.

Prerequisite to reading this book

This booklet is actually #2 in a series regarding spiritual sexuality. It would
be best if you have already read Sex and the Spiritual Guy (or Woman) a
guide to spiritual sexuality, prior to reading this booklet. It discusses the
fundamental biology, psychology, and spirituality behind sex, and the various
attitudes and ways people have of approaching it. Just in case you have not yet
read that, I will repeat a few things from it that may help you understand this one
better.

Show me the energy

Tantric sex involves working with and using the high vibration life energies and
finer emotions that can occur between men & women during the sexual act.
What do we mean by high vibration energies? Is this some kind of
whodoo-voodoo new age bull? Quite the contrary.
When we talk about tantra yoga or tantric sex being energy based or using
life energies, what do we mean? This isnt some new age hype the energy
techniques of tantra, while ancient, are founded in science.
Human bodies/brains are based on electrical energies. For instance, a
doctor will determine if youre alive or dead, based on if you have brainwave
electricity/energy. And how does a heart work? Electrical signals tell the muscle to
contract and release in certain ways. When you look at it scientifically, most
everything about our bodies, is energy based.
Acupuncture is an ancient form of medicine (now accepted by modern
science for the most part), that works by dealing with the bodys energy flows.
Acupuncture points can actually be measured and located by use of an electrical
meter that can read micro-amps. Have you ever seen an acupuncture chart? Part
of the approach, is that the body has energy circuits (called meridians). Some of
these circuits are involved in the practices of tantric sex. The MAIN energy
meridian (like a line with many acupuncture points on it), is called the governing
meridian. This meridian runs along the center of the body, both on the back and
front of the torso. It includes the groin area, and is one of the energy systems
worked with in yoga and when you are practicing tantra-tantric sex.
For decades, universities have been scientifically studying energy aspects of
the body/mind/spirit. Have you ever heard of auras? Did you know they could
be scientifically photographed? Electro-photography, first developed by the
Russians during the cold war, was used to photograph acupuncture points and
more.
Other scientists throughout the world, duplicating the Russian experiments,
have gone even farther. They have photographed such things as the energy
steaming out of the hands of a healer. They have pictures of the full outline of a
whole leaf yet the picture was of a partial leaf one that was recently torn in half
(yet the aura of the whole leaf still remained).
Dr. Moss, at UCLA, did some research particularly relevant to tantric sex.
An electro-photography study of the auras of people in relationships was
conducted. Couples sat across from each other, and each placed a hand on the
table, close to, but not touching, the other persons hand.
The electro-photography equipment was turned on, revealing the glowing coronalike aura energy around their hands. The auras of couples who didnt like each
other, actually bent away from each other looking for all the world like the
auras themselves were trying to avoid ANY contact with the other person. Yet the
auras of couples who were romantically involved, reached out towards the other

person. Also, when they were asked to kiss, an orange ball of light would grow
larger, get to about pea size, then burst then the cycle would start again. Just
imagine what happens during sex! Now just imagine what CAN happen during sex,
if you focus your mind on intensifying and directing those energies.
So besides being a scientific fact that our bodies are electrically/energy
based, it has also been shown that these energies can be affected by our minds and
emotions.
Other energy related aspects of tantric sex, involve something called the
kundalini, and charkas. Both are spiritual/mental energy aspects, but we have
no time or space to go into all that here. It is a study in and of itself.
Basically, when you connect with a sexual partner, you are also
completing an electrical circuit or energy circuit (ever notice that our sex organs
are built like plugs and sockets?) And this connection can be dramatically
affected by your mind and emotions.
Another aspect of tantric yoga/tantra yoga, is the fact that we are electromagnetically based, like the Earth.
By using the techniques of tantric sex, the same invisible force that makes a
compass needle point north, can supercharge sex - our bodies, our minds, our
emotions, and our spirits.
Alpha brainwaves, those associated with relaxation and meditation, are in
the same frequency range as the Earths resonant frequency. When we
approach sex as a meditation, as is done with tantra, our brainwaves go into that
range, and others. Thus, besides flowing energy between our bodies during tantric
sex, we also begin to tap the Earths energy, and indirectly, what the Earth is
tapped into (the Sun), and what the Sun is tapped into ( the Milky Way galaxy),
and what the galaxy is tapped into, etc. the very Universe itself. And the One
energy/spirit that comprises it all. Whew!!! Talk about having a cigarette after sex
youre going to need a cigar store!

Men have it harder

Both males and females have a role to play in tantric sexual training, and
practices. But in the early stages, while women do use visualization and energy
direction techniques, it is primarily males that do the most training (at least in the
sense of self-discipline training). Thats because the male has the most difficult
time getting his attention/consciousness out of the guttural or lower vibratory
levels of physical sex, and into the emotional and spiritual levels. Unfortunately,
because it has been primarily a male training thing, and so many cultures have
been male dominated, it has also become very male oriented in some cultures.
Such is NOT the case with the primal power tantra form of tantric sex taught by
our order.

The history and varieties of tantric sex.

There are many different types of tantric sex, from many different cultures
and religions. Some bring spiritual closeness, bliss, aid the process of spiritual
development/enlightenment, and returning to a spiritual state of being. However,
some forms of tantric sex are selfishly based, and actually destructive (because one
partner uses their mental powers to drain spiritual and life energies from the other,
rather than sharing the energies with their partner).

The Primary Types of Tantra

Tantric sex can be divided into three primary types.
One is a give and take method, in which the couple shares their spiritual
and life energies during sex, and tap into the energies of the Earth, the
Universe/Spirit. In this way, the energies build and benefit both partners. That is
the basis of our primal power tantra tantric sex.
Another method, we could call a take method. Using this form of tantric
sex involves one partner using visualization to take advantage of the other,
sucking, and draining their energies, and hogging it all for themselves. This
may sound hard to believe, but its founded in real science.
And finally, there are new age versions that have no tradition behind
them, and are often just fabrications, or modifications from someone who has read
books about it, or learned it at a seminar from someone who also doesnt really
know anything about it or lacks any traditional training. I know of one such tantra
teacher who has been around for over a decade, and is very popular he even
has teacher training seminars. He makes big bucks while using it as an excuse to
cheat on his wife. He also practices black magic. In fact, he uses it, and the threat
of it, to coerce and control women he wants. Whether you believe in black magic,
or just think its all in the mind of the victim, the bottom line is the same to the
victim.
That final new age type of tantra can involve just about anything. Some
teachers are sincere, and want to help people enhance their sex life, or help those
who have sexual blocks, get past them. It can have validity for sexual/emotional
sensitivity training, sexual openness training, etc. But other times it can just be a
sham.
Besides other adverse effects, such sham teaching can give people an
excuse to have regular low-consciousness sex, while deluding themselves (or a
sexual partner), into thinking/feeling it is spiritual. It can also be a great pick up
line to impress or get sex from people who are spiritually oriented, or who
consider themselves spiritual.
It amazes me that anyone would take tantra lessons from someone who
has no real background in it, and doesnt really even understand what genuine
tantra is (because theyve never practiced it), or how to do it themselves. People

who wanted to be a mechanic wouldnt learn it from someone whos only

experience comes from reading a book or taking a seminar from someone else
who doesnt have any real training or experience either. Yet theyd take
something as essential to life and existence as spiritual sexuality, and get
instructions from an airy fairy faker?
Maybe martial arts would make a better comparison. After all, tantra and
true martial arts are related disciplines. Wouldnt it be foolish to take martial arts
lessons from someone who didnt really train in some kind of proven, or real,
traditional martial arts? Even Bruce Lee trained his whole life in a traditional form,
then later in life, modified and improved on it, creating his own style based on the
old style, but incorporating aspects of other time proven methods, like boxing. But
he didnt just channel it or make it up, or modify something he read about.
People are often even more discerning about Yoga, and look for a trained
teacher in a given style. Yet they will take tantra lessons from anyone who takes
out an ad saying that they teach it with no qualifications other than having been
to a seminar given by someone else whos made up their own thing (to make
money or get sex).
There is a reason traditions are traditions. And yes, sometimes they need to
grow and evolve but any real growth and evolution comes from someone who
has first mastered the tradition, and then improved upon it in which case, it will
still have its roots in the tradition. And as with real traditional martial arts,
training is not just given to anyone who has a buck to pay. It is part of an entire
way of life. Who would you want on your side in a fight, someone better than
Bruce Lee, or a guy who picked up some martial arts techniques in a seminar
from a former receptionist who got it through a seminar? If you were ever
attacked and needed to defend yourself, or an innocent person, what would you
want under your belt the easy fun training of a weekend seminar, or some
weekly sessions, or years of discipline & training from a teacher whos done the
same training, from a lineage of teachers that have survived thousands of years of
attacks?
Real, traditional tantra training, regardless of whether it is the first or second
type, takes as much time and discipline to learn as traditional martial arts or Yoga
training (its just a lot more fun!).

The Take Method

Some methods, especially some with origins that come from the orient, are
very sexist - slanted toward the males advantage. This method typically teaches
men to practice what is essentially energy vampirism. They learn techniques to
essentially suck the vital energies (see our website link tantric yoga/tantra yoga
for details) from their female sexual partner, taking it all for themselves and leaving
their partner drained. This results in the female being negatively impacted in
several ways it has severely detrimental emotional, physical and spiritual effects.
It can result in women having weaker immune systems, aging younger, and dying

younger, while the men remain more youthful and have longer lives. The following
paragraph is a true story that exemplifies this.
A Chinese kung-fu master, who was very old (I seem to remember 140?),
was finally running out of steam and beginning to die. So this old man started
going to brothels daily, and keeping himself charged and alive by sucking the life
energies from prostitutes. He did this daily. After the madams or pimps
started noticing that their girls were becoming so weak and tired that they were
unable to perform their jobs anymore, the man was banned from all the brothels of
the area, and subsequently died.
But while such one-sided tantra training is generally male sided, it is by
no means exclusive to men. I once met a famous actress from the early days of
movies, who was known for her blatant sexuality, both on and off screen. Never
one to be known for being sexually shy (to put it mildly), she told me that she
stayed more youthful and vital, by using sex magic to drain the energy of the
men she had sex with. She also had a pyramid over her bed, to attain similar
benefits from the concentrated Universal Life Energy it provided (dont ask me how
I know that).
The spiritual order I am part of, and many other compassion oriented
spiritual paths, consider those types of tantric practices to be highly abusive,
destructive, and never to be done. We believe those who practice such methods
will suffer serious karmic repercussions from doing so.

The Give & Receive Method Primal Power Tantra

Our spiritual order has always practiced a giving and sharing oriented
tantric sex, that is helpful to spiritual growth, and physical health. It can be called
primal power tantra for reasons that will become obvious.
Primal Power Tantra is a form of tantra that benefits both our angelic
spiritual nature, and our animal nature. It allows each of our natures to be pure
and function both independently, and in harmony as one. At the same time it
helps our spiritual side to transcend its selfish addictions to lower vibrational sex,
and return to our spiritual origins.
In our opinion, primal power tantra is the best and highest vibration form
of spiritual sexuality. It is the most ancient, time proven, and effective practice of
spiritual sexuality/sexual meditation that exists.
Warning: Since during the training stages of tantric sex, males have not
developed total orgasmic control, it is possible for pregnancy to occur. In fact, the
traditional early stage training takes that into consideration, and allows for it. If
your beliefs include the use of birth control, you may still want to use it until tantric
sex is mastered. Later stages of primal power tantra development, bring the ability
to choose when and if there will be conception, even without birth control. It also
allows for having spiritually conscious conception. If you do choose to have
children, we believe that primal power tantra training, done properly along with

other spiritual training, will result in having higher consciousness, spiritually

oriented children.
In any case, we strongly recommend that the training only be practiced by
individuals in a totally devoted, committed relationship, who have the same spiritual
ideals. Thus, if they have children, they will all have the opportunity for a good
and lasting spiritual family life.

Primal Power Tantra vs. Celibacy

Celibacy, the practice of refraining from sex, does have spiritual benefits.
But it can also cause physical problems, and reinforce certain unhealthy emotional
and mental issues, if they exist already.
First, the physical drawbacks. Suffice it to say, that it is unnatural for an
animal not to have sex, at least during the reproductive cycles and reproductive
years of its life. And the human body is an animal (except for a few people I know
who are vegetables and minerals). While many of the intricacies of the human
bodys workings remain unknown to modern science, it isnt difficult to realize
that depriving it of any of its basic natural functions, will have side effects.
Not allowing the body to perform its natural sexual functions, especially for
males, can have negative effects on the bodys health, including creating prostate
problems. Even your mental attitude towards sex, and whether or not you see it as
something spiritual, can affect physical health, and in particular, prostate health in
men.
But most importantly, your attitude can reflect, and impact, your mental and
emotional states. And those can do more than just impact you physically. They
can also affect your entire way of interacting with others, and life itself. More
about that in a minute, but first, lets cover the physical impact.
The male body, even if it isnt being allowed to have orgasms as much as it
likes or needs, has a built-in safety mechanism wet dreams. But if its your
attitude that is preventing your from normal sexual activity (as opposed to mere
physical celibacy), that may not be enough to keep you healthy. I suffered prostate
problems and infections during my days as a young monk. I had chosen to be
celibate, even though I had a relationship. That was not the normal practice at the
time, but I, in with my young navety and ego, believed that sex, even primal power
tantra tantric sex, was not something a spiritual person should be participating in
(plus I had performance anxiety). I did have wet dreams, but my mental attitude
was still negative regarding sex. I didnt understand at the time that everything in
the Universe, was based on some form of polar opposite interaction (i.e., sex). I
am certain that it was my mental attitude that caused my prostate problems. No
one else was having prostate problems, even though they were practicing first
stage primal power tantra and only got to have an orgasm once a month, yet had
intercourse daily. But no one else had an issue with tantric sex being unspiritual either. [By the way, before you start such a practice, you might want to
ask your doctor. They are usually against it. Mine told me it could cause prostate
problems and of course that went into my mental conditioning too.]

The effects mental attitude or celibacy can have on women are not as easy
to pin down as they are with men. But in general, we have seen certain
common weaknesses in teeth, gums, and physical strength/well being overall.
That is a generality of course. But consider the concepts of the electrical and
kundalini/chakra functioning of the body. The lower charkas, sometimes referred
to as root and sex chakras, are the power supplies (so to speak) for the rest of
the being. Heres an analogy you may have the most sophisticated stereo system
in the world, or home theater system, but if you dont have it plugged into the raw
power coming from your wall socket, it wont do you a bit of good. It MUST have
the raw, primal power, in order to turn it into the more refined types of power that
will play your music or movies.
Other than the physical, people who are practicing celibacy because of
denial or avoidance of sex, can tend to be emotionally and spiritually cold and
distant. Sometimes it is also accompanied by bitterness, anger or repressed anger.
All of that will of course, have some physical impacts also.
If practiced properly, primal power tantra has all the beneficial aspects of
celibacy without having any of the drawbacks of celibacy, or having to be celibate.
For example, you can still have sex, yet the mind, body, and emotions are focused
in the higher realms such as love, caring and the spiritual/universal life energies.
In fact, primal power tantra accomplishes these things better than celibacy, and has
many other benefits (including simultaneously allowing the human bodies we live in,
to function naturally and healthily).
The extra spiritual benefits of primal power tantra, over celibacy, are many.
First, extremely powerful self-discipline is required, and thus, developed. Then
there is the transcension of physical lust and sex-addiction.
Let me use the alcoholic example I used in Sex & the Spiritual Guy (or
Woman). Its not the greatest example in the world, but you should get the gist if
you want to. Most alcoholics avoid alcohol entirely, and never have even one drink
(and this is as it should be for most alcoholics). Health/spiritual issues regarding
alcohol aside, wouldnt it be a greater mastery over the self, a greater selfdiscipline, to be able to have a single drink, then stop? Wouldnt it take even
greater strength of will, self-discipline and transcension of self-controlling desires, to
be able to take a drink into the mouth, taste it, but not swallow it? Who would be
achieving the greater transcension over their lower nature, the alcoholic that must
never touch the stuff, or the one who can taste it, but not drink? Applying this to
sex - which of the following disciplines is more difficult - staying away from sex
entirely, or engaging in it without having a physical orgasm (especially for a man)?
Which of the two really requires the most self-discipline (especially for a man)?
And thus, which method offers the greatest transcension and freedom from the
lower desires & the animal body, and thus, the greatest spiritual gain?

The Fundamentals of Primal Power Tantra

Primal power tantra involves allowing the body to have sex, while mentally
and spiritually transcending/detaching from that, and placing the

attention/consciousness in the mental/emotional/spiritual realms. It also bypasses

the spiritually detrimental aspects of normal (selfish) sexual activity, and avoids
negative tantric sex practices.

Tantra, like fine wine, gets better with age

Traditional training to master primal power tantra, including our advanced
Magical Sex tantra, goes in three stages, and takes three years - one stage per
year. But we will only be giving instructions for mastering primal power tantra, so
you can cut that to two years for traditional training. Of course, you arent a
monk doing traditional training in a monastery, so this can be modified to suit you.
Spiritual, mental and physical transformation occurs over the course of the
entire training. But when the point of achieving mastery is reached, a great
transformation takes place, impacting the individual in many ways. They develop
new emotional and spiritual/psychic sensitivities, new abilities, and achieve a new
intimacy and oneness with their mate. If you are on a true spiritual path of some
kind, it will also assist you in achieving your spiritual goals.
This form of spiritual sexuality, is soooooo much more ecstatic and fulfilling
on so many new levels, that after experiencing it, choosing to have regular sex
would be like someone with sight, hearing, and speech, choosing to be blind, deaf,
and mute. Plus, the physical act of sex eventually becomes irrelevant, and the
feelings of unselfish love, spiritual orgasmic ecstasy, etc., can be experienced
whether or not the body is involved. It can even happen spontaneously while with
the mate, or apart even in dreams. Time and space can no longer separate you.
Again, this can also be achieved with celibacy combined with other spiritual
practices like meditation, yoga, along with methods of transcending the illusion of
separateness. But practicing primal power tantra takes more self-discipline, thus
its generally faster, and more of a sure thing.
Committing to your training
Primal power tantra training takes determination, commitment, conviction,
and concentration. If you put the time in effort into it, you will be rewarded. But
make the commitment or dont even start youd just be wasting your time if you
arent going to stick to it.
Heres a mediocre example based on the earlier alcoholic example:
practicing primal power tantra training is something like an alcoholic choosing to
drink every day, but never swallowing. If they can get through the tough beginning
times, theyll develop incredible strength of will. And after they have totally
mastered that self-discipline, and are no longer controlled by their self-urges to
have a drink, they can even swallow it every so often (of course, with tantra were
talking about something good for you, not something detrimental like alcohol). I
know thats a bit confusing, so perhaps you should re-read it again, then read on.
Now put the above example into the sexual realm, and youll get an idea of
the training involved. A man has intercourse every day, but is not to have an
orgasm. This is part of the basic training. Before anything else is accomplished,
the male MUST learn to control orgasms, and to shift his sexual viewpoint out of

the whole point of sex is to have an orgasm, that every man has. This is a huge
change, and requires total self-discipline. And primal power tantra practice forces
it.
Done right, the rigors of this training period eventually pass. It changes to
where it is no longer a self-discipline, a conscious effort, or conscious at all. It all
becomes second nature. You could even appear to be having regular sex, going
through the motions, but not having regular sex at all. You will be having tantric
sex, regardless of what your body is doing. The positions wont matter, the
movements wont matter, nothing will change the wondrous permanent inner
change that you will have made.
Once a male masters tantra, their entire outlook on sex, relationships with
women, and spirituality, will make a shift. They can then start experiencing the
higher emotional and spiritual energies involved with their relationship, and all life
two spiritual beings exchanging energy with each other, and the ALL.
As time goes on, not only are all the benefits mentioned above experienced,
but also the merging of the higher emotions, and letting the animal passions flow
while transmuting those feelings into the spiritual realms. The overall result?
Transcending the selfish separate animal self, overcoming the addiction to sexual
self-indulgence, attaining a higher spiritual consciousness, and moving towards
oneness with the Universe/Universal Spirit. AND having the most incredible sex
youve ever had something impossible for you to even imagine right now.

For instance
Obviously, I eventually got over my blocks, went through my three years of
training, and mastered the practice. Can we say multiple orgasmic cosmic
spiritual sex that lasts longer than a day if you want it to? My personal record is
28 hours, and my mate had hundreds (if not more) orgasms during that time,
turning into one non-stop continuous spiritual orgasm. And it was all mutually
experienced. Afterwards, we got in bed to go to sleep, but instead, immediately
left our bodies together, and our spirits toured and merged with the cosmos, like
two comets spinning together, whose tails were intertwining like DNA strands of
light trailing throughout the galaxies. Did I mention that this difficult training is
very worthwhile and really pays off in the end?

Now for the downside

Of course, you may have to take a break and go to the bathroom sometime
oh well.
Boot Camp the Basic Training
In contrast to the relatively short time that military boot camp lasts (which
Im sure can seem like forever), as I mentioned earlier, the traditional tantric
training of our order, lasts three years. Now dont panic, you probably arent part
of our order. For all the rest of you reading this, you can modify the time periods,
or anything else for that matter, to fit you, fit your mate, fit your goals, and fit your
speed of accomplishment. Its like home-schooling children you can go faster

or slower, depending on how well you do, and what you want to achieve out of it.
The three years is just the recommended time, and tradition.
The first year mainly concentrates on the male learning to have absolute
control over his orgasm (not the other way around as is typically the case). Also,
he should begin to develop his energy visualization skills, and the ability to tune
in to the female, and her orgasms.
[Note: We have 2 companion CDs for primal power tantra tantric sex practice
and training (see info towards end of book). They are meant to be played while
actually training (during sex). The verbal, guided part, is the same on both
CDs, but one has classical music in the background (Ravels Bolero followed
by the Crescendo from Daphne & Chloe), while the other has the vibrational
sounds that help induce a deep meditative state.]
Preliminaries to the Physical Aspects of Training
Before starting, a signal needs to be prearranged between the man and
woman, that lets the woman know to freeze! (stop moving, or doing anything
sensual). The signal will be used when the man is getting too close to losing
control and having an orgasm. The signal can be anything that works well for
both of you, such as tapping her on the knee or leg, grabbing her waist in a hold
still sort of way (my favorite), simply saying stop, or an alarm panic switch (that
last one is only for use in case of extreme fire or flooding occurring at the same
time the male is close to an orgasm. Doesnt happen too often). Of course a judo
chop to the throat also works in a pinch, but we generally try to avoid that. All
kidding aside though, it is important that the woman be very sensitive to this, and
stop immediately when the signal is given, even though she may be quite
involved in the tantra, or want to keep going because she is having so much
pleasure, or about to have an orgasm. Even if she is in the middle of an orgasm,
she must control herself and stop. This is important training after all, and both
partners need to have their priorities straight, rather than being overly caught up in
their own pleasure and continuing anything (even slightly) that might contribute to
the man going over the cliff and having an orgasm.
Men - remember not to fall into the trap of pretending that you just pushed
it too far and couldnt help going over the edge and having an orgasm. There is
both a conscious and subconscious desire to have an orgasm that must be
transcended if the training is to succeed.
Men & Women - While it is primarily the male that wants his orgasm for
pleasure, both partners are dealing with biological reproductive drives the male
wants to plant seeds, and the female wants to grow them. So beware of falling into
any bull or game playing about accidentally having an orgasm, when it really
wasnt an accident, and either the man pushed it too far deliberately, or the woman
pushed him past the limits of his capabilities, deliberately. Women, this goes for
attitude also. If you are going to train or help a man train, drop the desire for
him to have an orgasm, whether its ego, wanting to be nice, or wanting to make
babies.

The mans training requires that he does push the limits and be as close
to the edge as possible during primal power tantra tantric sex practice, without
having an orgasm. So it may occasionally happen that he does truly accidentally
have an orgasm. If that happens, there should be no judgment or feelings of
negativity about this, either from the woman, or from the man feeling guilty or like
he isnt doing well. That can only hinder training, and could eventually create a
negative pattern. Just beware that you arent fooling yourselves regarding the real
cause (as in the paragraph above). Achieving any worthwhile skill in life, takes
training, time, patience and discipline this is no different. Discuss it. Being
verbally and emotionally open with each other, is important.
If you wish, before your tantra sessions you can create a nice spiritual
atmosphere, with a candle or candles, and burning some pure balls of Frankincense
& myrrh (not the impure stick or cone type of incense). Dont do anything that
could start a fire, ok?!
The Physical Aspects of Training
Heres how first year training is done:
If foreplay is required, begin with that, but only the minimal amount
necessary to insure the levels of lubrication and arousal required for intercourse. It
is however, mandatory for the male to have an erection during the basic training
years/phases. Later on, tantra will work regardless.
Tantra positions
The male should lie on his back, and the female get on top of him,
preferably in some form of sitting or upright position, although lying on top is fine.
It is also alright for the male to be sitting, its just usually easier if hes laying down.
Whatever tantra positions are chosen, one of the priorities is to make sure it is a
position the female enjoys. She should be in a position that is sexually arousing to
her, and optimizes her chances of orgasm. Contrary to the males goal (which is to
refrain from orgasm at this stage of training), the female can (and should) freely
have as many orgasms as possible (not forced however, just what flows naturally).
This feeds life energy into the circuit that is being built by both partners, via the
use of their minds. By the same token, another priority is that your choice of
tantra positions must be something that makes it as easy as possible for the male to
keep from getting too excited/having an orgasm. So try to find the best balance.
The female is free to move around, up & down, whatever, to stimulate and
enjoy herself. In fact, in these phases she should do all the moving, while the male
remains as still as possible.
The primary reason for the above two restrictions, is that it is harder for a
male to refrain from climaxing, if he is on top, or when he is participating in
moving. Dont worry, this isnt forever once sexual tantra is mastered, the
male can be in any position, and move, without risk of orgasm.
The Mental Training
First, lets cover the mental training for the man. For most men, their first
hurdle will just be preventing an orgasm. Men have always had to deal with this

kind of problem, and have often turned to visualizing something that is not sexually
arousing, and sometimes a "turn off". For instance, thinking about sports, their
mother-in-law, etc. But obviously, primal power tantra tantric sex training involves
something quite different.
The following is a rather esoteric thing to grasp, and thus difficult to explain,
but here goes. OK, Im speaking to the guys now (the women should read this also
though, because it goes into the total understanding). In early first year primal
power tantra training, the most effective visualization to help prevent uncontrolled
orgasm, is for you to visualize yourself as being female. Im not talking about things
like having breasts, wearing dresses, etc. But it is a matter of mentally shifting into
the receptive polarity mode, and imagining that your mate is a male, and is
penetrating you with the male organ, rather than the other way around. That
probably seems strange to you, but it is a very effective and easy way to help
prevent an orgasm. It also keeps the mind within the relationship and the sharing
of energies, rather than off thinking about irrelevant things like sports. That
technique is also the beginning stage of training to visualize the tantric spiritual
energy circulation system that you'll be developing more and more as time goes on
the energy flow begins with the female, and goes to the male, then back again.
The whole idea is to develop receptivity. Receptivity to the energies being
generated between the sexual mates, and even to those of nature, the Earth, and
the Universe/Spirit. Every time the female has an orgasm, she is injecting you
with energy - energy of all kinds sexual energy, spiritual energy, emotional
energy, mental energy, physical energy, reiki/universal life energy, etc. This also
includes, but is not limited to, energy from various chakra frequencies from the
lowest to the highest. And even energy from the Universal Spirit if she is a
spiritually oriented woman (which we will assume she is since she is doing this with
you). And it isnt just you who is getting this injection/infusion of energy it goes
into the whole the oneness created by the joining of the two of you.
Thus, every time she has an orgasm, you should visualize and emotionally
feel like a female, be receptive to that energy and feeling, as if she is a male having
an orgasm inside you (the female in this instance).
Once you really get comfortable with that, and get that visualization down
pat, you should begin to focus on it more as an energy orgasm that she is having
inside you, rather than thinking of it as physical. This is all about the energy that is
produced, transferred, and shared when two opposite polarities interact with each
other just like electricity, magnetism, atoms, and solar systems. And since she is
the one who is out-flowing and generating the energies every time she has an
orgasm, you are the one receiving it. Some female Native Americans have even
used their orgasmic energy to heal. Using household electricity as a metaphor, it is
as if your penis is a household electrical plug, that is being plugged into a wall, or
that youre a light bulb being screwed into a live socket (great choice of words,
eh?).
Now, after you have mastered that part, and are having no trouble
preventing an orgasm, regardless of how excited you get, or how long you do

primal power tantra tantric sex for, youll go on to the next phase of visualization.
But not until you have total control, and the only time you have an orgasm, is
when you consciously decide to have one. This can take virtually no time, a day, a
week, a month, or a year. Every man is different. Dont feel bad if it takes a while
it is supposed to, and usually does. Thats part of why youve got a full year for
the first stage training.
After youve developed total control, the next phase of stage 1, involves
what you do with all that energy youre getting from all her orgasms. You dont
want to be a hog, keep it all for yourself, and just drain her. You want to create a
circuit between you. A circular constant energy flow that increases in power and
intensity with each of her orgasms. This will feed and nurture both of you at the
same time. This circuit starts with her orgasm, then it enters you, then you
visualize it going up your spine, up and around the back of your head, back down
the front of your body, to your penis, and from there up her spine, around her
head, back down her front side until it reaches her vagina, then back into you
That completes one cycle of the circuit, and begins the next. You want this to be a
continuous energy flow though, so you dont stop your visualization with just
completing one cycle of the circuit. You need to eventually keep seeing it as one
constant stream that never stops. At first though, you will have to visualize it all
slowly, step-by-step, one piece of the circuit at a time. Eventually you will see it as
one glowing energy flow that has no beginning or end just ONE flow that looks
something like a folded infinity symbol if you were looking at the two of you from a
side view.
Do NOT rush yourself though. You must take it slow, and let the
visualizations and other aspects of your training, completely ingrain themselves into
your mind and programming. It needs to eventually become totally integrated,
automatic, subconscious, super-conscious, something that happens even if you
dont think about it, or arent practicing primal power tantra tantric sex. But for
now, as you consciously and deliberately move the energy around with your mind,
it will slowly get faster of its own accord. In fact, you wont be able to keep the
visualization from getting faster over time, all by itself, just by practicing it slowly.
But it must happen on its own, by itself, without you forcing it. Eventually, it gets
so fast, that it reaches a sort of mental speed of light and becomes the ONE
flow, ONE circuit, making you and your mate ONE on many energy levels. As
those levels build, you will both raise in energy and consciousness.
Now for the women
You will essentially be doing the same visualizations as your mate (given
above), but obviously in the opposite direction. For instance, in the very beginning
you will be visualizing yourself as the male penetrating your mate, the female. And
when you have an orgasm, you'll be seeing yourself ejaculating into him, just as a
male would be having an orgasm with a female. Later on, this will change to JUST
a visualization of injecting energy into him.

Make sure the two of you discuss his progress, and at what stage of the
visualization he is at, so you can be doing the same visualizations at the same time.
If any of the visualizations hamper your orgasms, dont bother with them until you
are having no restrictions.
Besides being sensitive to if your mate is getting too close to having an
orgasm and helping him prevent that, one of your main responsibilities is having
orgasms (I know it's horrible, but somebody has to do it).
His and Hers general tips and training rules
If possible, you should have intercourse daily.
Traditionally, during first year training, the male only gets to have an
orgasm once a month (remember, you dont have to do it traditionally, you can set
more frequent times but its vital to stick with whatever you choose, in order for
self-discipline to be developed, and the benefits of the training to be realized).
When it is time for the male to have an ejaculation orgasm, several things
change, and the roles reverse. The male gets on top, and has an orgasm as
quickly as it comes naturally, disregarding whether or not the female will have, or
has an orgasm. Just like in the animal kingdom. That doesnt mean the female
shouldnt have an orgasm if it just happens during that brief length of time. Its
just that it shouldnt be a goal during this one day a month, a week, or whatever, in
which it is the male orgasm time. This is important for several reasons.
Sure, it gives the female an opportunity to be self-sacrificing, which can be a
positive thing for her. But thats not the primary reason for doing this by any
means. The main reason is that it reinforces the fact (and reinforces the subconscious programming) that the body is an animal. Why is that important?
Nature, is one reason. And contrasting the body against the spirit, is another.
Ironically, allowing the animal to have its time to behave totally naturally,
actually further reinforces the fact (and programming) that we are spiritual beings,
just inhabiting and using an animal body as a vehicle. It sends the message that
the spiritual being who we really are, our inner-being, our soul, our spirit, is totally
in control of our lives free to choose if and when the animal can fulfill its needs.
We have free will. We are free to choose selfishness, animalism, self-indulgence,
separateness OR to align our free will with higher, more spiritual forces and
emotions also including unselfish love and giving. This is what can bring us into
alignment with (oneness with) the Universe/Spirit.
Our traditional training reinforces that, and teaches the self/animal who is
really in charge. Like a dog, denying it a treat doesnt demonstrate its training and
discipline but being able to put a treat on its nose, and have it wait until we say
OK, is what shows the training & discipline that demonstrates and proves
transcension over the lower urges.

Second Year Training:

Second verse, same as the first. Second year training is virtually the same
as the first year, with the exception that the male starts having orgasms once a
week, instead of once a month. And of course, the discipline, emotional and
spiritual skills/sensitivities that were acquired during the first year of training, will be
in place by now, which make the entire experience different and easier.

COMMON PROBLEMS
THAT CAN BE ENCOUNTERED:
1. Male has premature ejaculation
2. Female has difficulty having orgasms
Common Reasons:
Men & Women:
Fear
Sexual Abuse as a child or adult.
Guilt Programming
Men:
Lack of training
Performance Anxiety (fear about having an orgasm
too soon, or not lasting long enough for
female to have orgasm)
Lack of Self-Discipline
Deliberately giving-in to desire for orgasm
Women:
Not trusting mate
Mate insensitive
Not liking mate
Not wanting to surrender to mate, or spiritually
Female performance anxiety afraid of not having orgasm
Solutions:
For Men:
Relaxing

Feeling unselfish love

Feeling (knowing) youre not going to be judged if you screw up (no pun
intended).
Letting go of guilt and replacing it with truth and love.
Letting go of fear, replacing it with courage even the courage to look bad, or
perform badly. You wont need to care if you perform badly, as long as you are
not deliberately having orgasms. You are training. How would you perform if
youd never hit a ball in your life, and started training with the Yankees and had to
get up to bat right away?
COMMUNICATION. Discussing everything with your mate, especially your
feelings. If you dont have good communication and a non-judgmental partner,
youd better start with that, because you arent going to develop a good spiritual
relationship and gain spiritual growth without such fundamental relationship
foundations in place and working. The same goes for how you deal with your
partner if she is having difficulties.
Patience, communication, unselfish love, acceptance, kindness are all
fundamental. If your mate is self-absorbed and is more concerned with her
orgasms than your training and how you feel, then you need relationship
counseling, and if that doesnt work, perhaps you need to find someone who cares
about you too. Relationships are not give and take that doesnt ever work. One
that is good, happy, harmonious, and works, is one that is give & give. If each of
you is on the taking end once in a while, without wanting or demanding it thats
the way a good relationship works.
For Women:
Be understanding and compassionate with yourself if you have difficulty having
orgasms. That is very common. There can be many reasons for that, and if what
were about to discuss here doesn't help, you might want to consider getting
professional help. Problems can come from childhood abuse, guilt programming,
a lack of sensitivity on your mate's part, a lack of trust, or an un-willingness to
surrender to either your mate, or God. You may have good reason to not trust
your mate, nor want to surrender to him.
But you don't have good reason to not surrender to the Universe/Spirit.
And after all, that's what this is ultimately about -- for both of you. But if you have
a bad relationship, you are going to need to resolve it, or find a good one. This is
an issue for women that men dont have. Most men (without serious psychological
problems, or age issues) can have sex with anyone and have an orgasm. But
something that goes into the orgasm factor for most women is feeling trust, caring,
knowing they are cared about, in order to have feelings of openness and surrender
that go into the overall makeup of their orgasms, and orgasmic capabilities. Thats
not true with everyone of course, but it is a generality that applies to most
especially those who have difficulty with orgasms.
Sure, there are warm up and length of time factors how long a man
needs to last before you can have an orgasm, and other factors. But in general, in

a good relationship, foreplay is every interaction you have with your mate, all the
time. And the better your relationship, the more orgasmic, and more quick to
orgasm, youll be.
Anyway, assuming it is a good relationship, just shift your mind to a mode
of relaxing and enjoying yourself not try. Either do, or do not. DONT put
pressure on yourself, or try to have an orgasm. That usually backfires. If you let
go, relax, get into it, focus on and enjoy the feelings of love, intimacy, and
sensations of pleasure, you are more likely to have an orgasm than if you are
trying or focusing on having an orgasm.
If you need to feel animalistic, passion, lust, etc., in order to open up and
get flowing, go for it. You need that part of your body and the lower chakra
energies working before you can work with the higher. Theres nothing wrong
with that. Also, barring working out any programming or psychological problems
that may be having adverse effects on your ability to have orgasms, you may want
to help stimulate and intensify your pleasurable sensations yourself. Selfstimulation, vibrators, etc., are all OK to use if you need them heck, they can be
fun even if you dont need them. If you have a problem with that too, then you
have other programming blocks that also need to be dealt with. As to your other
half - if youre fine with using extra stimulation, but your mate doesnt want you to
because he is jealous or threatened (insecure), you should discuss it with him
seriously, because this whole program is not going to work for him or you, if you
are not orgasmic AND if he is going to be that selfish and closed minded. Plus,
such a threatened attitude also means you have other relationship problems that
tantra is not going to cure. Sure, he can still train to control his orgasms,
transcend his lust, and make spiritual progress in that way, and you can both
visualize the energy circuit, etc., but you wont be infusing the same energies you
would be if you were having orgasms and feeling unselfish love for each other.
And if you dont feel like surrendering and becoming one with him, its also going
to hamper the whole point of spiritual sexuality.
Dont forget what I said in the Mens Solutions section. Much of that
applies to you too. Plus, if you are judgmental, or make him feel bad because
youre not having an orgasm, or hes not lasting long enough for you to have an
orgasm, it will create performance anxiety and worsen the problem for both of
you.

If the above suggestions dont help, or either of you have serious sexual or
relationship problems, you should get relationship counseling. If its just a problem
with one or the other of you, and it cant be resolved, you might want to consider
moving on and finding someone you can feel truly good about, and be really
intimate with on all levels.

Not so Typical Problems:

Women getting negative from having a great sexual experience.
In rare occasions, some women experience negativity, or get bitchy the
next day after having great sex. Thats because the orgasms are feeding their
selfish nature, and are just used as a self-indulgence. Something many of us have
seen that you may be able to use as an example, is a child getting too much self
indulgent pleasure during a day at Disneyland they sometimes get very negative.
The same thing can happen with women getting a great deal of pleasure from
tantra and taking it to the self indulgent feeding selfishness part of themselves.
Thus, the negative selfish nature gets nourished and reinforced, rather than what
should be happening the exact opposite feeding the giving nature, the spirit,
and denying the selfish addictive nature.
If that happens, try to work with it. Be more disciplined and concentrate
more on directing your primal power tantra sexual practice into being a spiritual,
unselfishly loving experience. Focus on that during tantra. If that doesnt work,
which is extremely, extremely rare, then regular celibacy might be the path you
need.
The Road to Shambhala
the ultimate benefit of Primal Power tantra
Practicing primal power tantra, along with other non-sexual spiritual
training, can even help you achieve what some call enlightenment, Universal
consciousness, or nirvana, satori, samadhi, or whatever. Its something like the
results of consciously having a near death experience, in which you have a
realization of your oneness with the Universe, and how life goes on forever.

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