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Shah Rukh Khan at Yale - 'Do Not Be Afraid To Walk Alone'
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So I am not going to be the priest tonight... instead I will tell u simple experiences of my life's journey, with simpler words...
which may not leave you inspired.... but will help u survive this life. And if you can do that... survive... happiness... creativity and
success will follow on its own... or maybe not but u will have to live this life nevertheless. Only I hope my words will give u
enough insight so that u can tell the world... hey guys you are standing on my oxygen tube... move over and let me breathe.
Journeys can be defined by age and time or even by destinations, as most often they are. But I feel it is hard for me to tell the
story of my life in those terms because the concept of time has always eluded me. The day my father died seemed longer than
my entire childhood.
The day I felt my first success seemed fleeting, hour-long, not long enough perhaps. I wondered where it went.
Even the cycle of time confounds me. I work the dark until sunrise on most days and fall asleep as the world awakens to light.
My friends call me an owl... I like to think of myself as Bat... Batman... the prince of darkness.
Age is not my forte either, I still cannot fix my own -- am I 45 or 15?... if I could... would I be romancing girls one third my age
who normally would call me "uncle".
I had so much fun collecting the action figures of my last film (called ra.one) that none of the critical reviews tanking it mattered
to me.
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BE A FUNAMBULIST....
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So look beyond the brickbats... the critics and know within you that you always have a choice between barter and creation.
Life as a creator will always be a tight rope. So...
Do not try to feed your stomach with creativity, it is food for your soul, not your stomach.
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At an early age after my parents died... I equated poverty with failure. I just didn't want to be poor. So when I got a chance to
act in films it wasn't out of any creative desire that I did so... it was purely out of the fear of failure and poverty. Most of the films
I signed were discards of better known actors and the producers could not find anyone else to do them. I did them all to make
sure that I was working to avoid unemployment. The timing or something was right, and that made them happen. I became a
big star... which means sometimes our success is not the direct result of our actions... Success just happens. Really. It is
accidental and we take credit for it... I know I have done this even out of embarrassment sometimes.
So I believe the true path to success is through the fear of failure. If you aren't scared enough of failing, you are unlikely to
succeed. It's not pleasant to fail, its tough. All of us experience it. You will too if you haven't already. Use it to succeed.
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Failure is an amazing teacher...There is a well-known story of a bank president who was asked the secret of his success.
"right decisions," he replied. "how do you get to know how to make right decisions?" came the follow-up question. "experience,"
was the answer. "well, how do you get experience?" asked his interrogator. "wrong decisions," he replied.
You have to know and learn that life is a not just a check list of acquisitions, attainments and fulfillments, your qualifications and
CVs don't really matter. Instead life is difficult and complicated... and beyond anyone's control. The humility to know this will
help you survive its vicissitudes.
But I don't want to sound dark. My hope for all of you is that you retain a lifelong love of learning, that you never cease to dream
exciting and inspiring dreams, and when you fail, you fail well enough to succeed the next time. Don't be afraid of being afraid,
be afraid of not facing your fears and failures.
In the end I will read out a text message I got today from my kid
Papa...Chuck Norris has trained his dog to pick up its own poop...because Chuck Norris will not take st from anyone....
So remember you are fortunate enough to be a funambulist....who has an amazing set of punching bags, cherish them... and
failure is your fiendish friend... keep him close... and don't take no st from anybody.
Bless you all and thanks for listening.
Don't miss:
Steve Jobs' Stanford Commencement address
Viswanathan Anand on learning from chess
Life's lessons from N Narayana Murthy
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