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6 Minute English
24 January 2013
Etiquette lessons for boys
Callum:
Jennifer:
Hello Callum.
Callum:
Jennifer:
You mean one of those schools where young ladies learn how to behave in high
society?
Callum:
Jennifer:
Callum:
Well, your manners and behaviour are so impeccable that I would not be
surprised if you had.
Jennifer:
Well, I dont know about finishing school, but it sounds like youve graduated
from charm school!
Callum:
In days gone by, social etiquette, or the way to behave in polite society, was
something that well-to-do young ladies were tutored in. Todays programme is
all about a course being run now for teenage boys in an English school. Before
we learn more about this, heres todays question. A question about et iquette. In
a fancy restaurant, either side of your place setting there are different knives
and forks for the different courses of your meal. Maybe there are three different
forks on the left and three knives on the right. The question is, which should you
use first? The knife and fork furthest from your plate, the set closest to your
plate or the set in the middle? Jennifer, what do you think?
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Jennifer:
Well, I think I know the answer to this one. I think its outside-in. So I think the
set furthest from your plate is the one you use first.
Callum:
OK. Well find out if youre right at the end of the programme. Fowey School in
England has begun offering etiquette lessons to teenage boys. So whose idea
was this? Heres their Headmaster, John Parry, talking to our colleagues from
BBC Radio.
Callum:
Jennifer:
It was the boys idea. John Parry said it came about because , after the girls had
asked for a course to prepare them for a special social event, the boys wanted
one too. Or as he put it, the boys said, We want a piece of that as well. Which
simply means, they wanted to be included as well.
Callum:
Jennifer:
The Year 11 Leavers Ball. A ball is big formal party and a leavers ball is held at
the end of the school year, when students are leaving the school. John describes
them as being sophisticated events.
Callum:
Jennifer:
Yes actually. When I left school we were one of the first years to have a leavers
ball and it was a very glamorous event and quite sophisticated t oo.
Callum:
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Theyre pretty sophisticated events, and the boys said, actually you know what, we want a
piece of that as well.
Callum:
Who is helping with the etiquette lessons? What are the kinds of things they are
learning, and how do the boys feel about it? Heres John Parry again.
Callum:
Jennifer, who is helping the lessons and what are they learning?
Jennifer:
A local hotel is helping them out and teaching them things like how to dress and
how to act with confidence.
Callum:
Jennifer:
Yes, John said that its gone down extremely well with the boys. If something
goes down well it means that its been liked.
Callum:
So what do you think of this Jennifer, do you think these are useful things for
school boys to learn or does it seem maybe a bit old-fashioned?
Jennifer:
I dont think its old-fashioned. I think its useful for school boys and perhaps
school girls to learn these manners and etiquette. Its really nice when people
hold doors open for you. Its a very polite thing to do so I think everybody could
do with a bit of education.
Callum:
Yes, I completely agree. Im just being polite there, you know. In the case of this
school though, its not all about impressing girls at parties. Headmaster John
Parry also believes there is a strong practical reason for learning etiquette. He
thinks it can help overcome some of the problems that universities and
employers have with young people. He explains more:
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good in their exams but sometimes their social skills let them down. And we wanted our
students to, you know, walk with confidence, you know, hold their head up high in any
given social situation; whether thats, you know a ball, as were doing, or whether thats going
for a university interview, a job interview.
Callum:
So Jennifer, how can these classes help, apart from helping them with girls?
Jennifer:
Well, by helping to build their confidence it can give them a better chance when
applying for jobs or university places. He mentioned that even though students
may be good at exams, they also need to have good social skills, they need to
be confident. That could make the difference between their getting a job or not.
Callum:
Yes, as he put it, he wants the students to be able to hold their heads up high.
An expression which means to be proud and confident. Lets listen again.
Well thats just about all we have time for today. Before we finish, the answer to
todays question. When faced with a number of different knives and forks at a
formal meal, which ones do you start with? Jennifer, you said?
Jennifer:
Callum:
Jennifer:
Hooray!
Callum:
Well done, well done. So thank you very much Jennifer and goodbye.
Jennifer:
Goodbye.
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a finishing school
etiquette
to come about
to happen, to begin
a ball
to want a piece of
something
to go down well
http://www.bbc.co.uk/worldservice/learningenglish/general/sixminute/2013/01/130124_6min_boys_etiquette.shtml
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-20708516
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