Dear Guilty in Guilford:

Sorry about your friend. Its very dificult when you have plans for
something and someone, and the end, It dont be like how you want to
be.
First, You would think what is the best for you. If the course apporting
new things for you career and if it is important to take it for you
profesional life, I really think that your friend, If shes a real friend, she
will be happy for you and for you seccess and future.
Next, You need to talk to her and explain your reasons. Suport her and
help her for applied the next time because Its good for her career too,
not only for been to a friend. YOu tell her that decisin its not for
betray her, that decisin its for your own good.
I hope Ive been help you and you solve this problem.
Good luck!