else for that matter, is relative. Wallace Stevens put it this way, Twenty men crossing a bridge Into a village, Are twenty men crossing twenty bridges? Into twenty villages Some religions, by expecting two people to perceive God, Truth and the Scriptures in the same way, have doomed their followers to failure. Paradoxically, to be perfect, you must have some flaws. Imperfections are the means by which you learn to grow and by which humankind is spurred on to create. To have no imperfections is to have no need to develop mentally, emotionally or spiritually. This means we must allow ourselves the freedom to grow mentally, emotionally and spiritually untainted by guilt. It is difficult for someone who has