but it must be lived forwards there's a time to laught and time to cry a time to dance and a time to hide a time for pleasure and a time for pain a time to seek and a time to lose a time to be born and a time to die at times life just doesn't make sense it seems to be unfair cruel and meaningless perhaps a mistake maybe reality is an illusion because what we belive determines what is real and what is not things are not necessarily what they seem... it's the way you look at it, the way you describe it so that the way of describing always varies accroding to the use you want to mak e for it in the sense then of this you can understand the saying in the beginning was the word all things were made by him and without him was not anything made that was made because you don't get things until you start naming them so what we've got is a universe thet all hangs together and where each so called part of it implies all the other parts lets take what we call holography spoken by alan watts the real trouble is the thought that we think we have to know we think we have to understand to realise that you do not understand is a virtue not to realise you do not unde rstand is a defect - Lao Tzu sometimes you just have to let go you do not have to know the destination the universe know exactly what it's doing and universe cannot be whole without you so for now, laught at the confusion and smile through the tear because there is a reason at the end in his heart a man plans his journey but in the end he realises that the univers e has determined what is best for him adapted frome proverbs 16:9