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Myself As A Communicator
Myself As A Communicator
Jacob Hughes
COM 122
Brother McReynolds
February 12, 2016
MYSELF AS A COMMUNICATOR
Myself as a Communicator
In life we are surrounded by all different forms of communication. Some loud, some soft,
some verbal, some visual. Everyone has ways, types, and methods to communicate. These
different forms of communication can convey deep and passionate feelings or they can describe
ones hunger. Communication is everything, and without it, there would be no interaction.
Without interaction, there would be no purpose in living. As I seek to better discover the ways I
communicate I am learning much about my flaws and misconstrued ways. But I am also learning
about my strengths, and I am seeking to exploit them to became a more effective communicator.
One of my strengths has also been a weakness throughout my life. It is my empathy for
others. I have an ability to sense, feel, and pinpoint how other people feel about themselves. Its
almost as if I become them for a time, and live in their world, then snap out and come back to
mine. This has led me to recognize others who are struggling immediately and seek out to have
friendships with them, to help them. I find myself being their friends as a means to boost their
confidence, and fill a void. This is a great strength to have when looking to help people who are
not in the best of circumstances. Although this same strength will often prohibit me from being
friendly or warm to those whom I sense are better off and secure in their confidence. I feel ill at
ease around these people and will avoid developing personal friendships with them.
I have always resented my generation for our pathetic means of communicating because I
compare the weaknesses of my generation to the strengths of my mentors, a baby boomer. I feel
as though texting, messaging, snap chatting, and all other forms of social media are faux and
deceiving. I feel as though they are deliberately masterful ways to make life events appear
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greater than life, a form of perfection, that can never really be attained, but may only appear as
though it has been. Yet, as it becomes widely popular, I find myself turning more and more to
this way of communicating. I even just asked a girl out over Facebook! I really need to get a
grip.
As I have spoken to my mentor over the years about communicating, he has pointed out
to me, my various flaws and strengths in my way of communicating. He never ceases to remind
me that I am a very caring person and would help someone at the drop of a hat. I am nice to a
fault, and that can be a bad thing. You see, because I have an inner devotion to being nice, I
avoid conflict at all costs. Even if that means confronting someone who is lying, stealing,
maliciously hurting, or anything else bad. As my mentor has continually brought this up to me, I
have really tried to work on it. Sometimes I get so mad at myself for not getting mad, that I
purposefully get mad at someone for no reason. I say things that dont need to be said, that are
my opinion, rather than being brutally honest, in a scheme to prove to myself that I can say it. In
the face of conflict though I usually pull back quickly and try to reconcile the situation.
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