Romans 12:2

Do not conform to the pattern of

this world, but be transformed
by the renewing of your mind.
(NIV)
Dont copy the behavior and
customs of this world, but let
God transform you into a new

Facing The Fears That Ruin Relationships

1. My fear of exposure makes me

distant.
..I was afraid because I was naked
they suddenly felt shame at their
nakedness
so theycovered themselves
they hid from God

 2. My fear of disapproval makes me

defensive
Did you eatYOU gave me this
woman
Then Eve said, the serpent tricked
me

 3. My fear of losing control makes me

demanding.
Your desire will be for your husband,
and he will rule over you. Gen.3:16

The ANTIDOTE
Learn to live in Gods love.
Where Gods love is, there is no
fear, because Gods perfect love
drives out fear. It is punishment
that makes a person fear, so love is
not made perfect in the person who
fears. 1 Jn.4:18 NCV

 1. Everyday SURRENDER my heart to God.

Surrender your heart to God, turn to him in prayer,
and give up your sins even those you do in secret.
Then you wont be ashamed; you will be confident
and fearless. Your troubles will go away like water
beneath a bridge, and your darkest night will be
brighter than noon. You will rest safe and secure,
filled with hope and emptied of worry. You will sleep
without fear and be greatly respected. Job 11:13-19

 2. Everyday REMEMBER the way God

loves me
Im completely accepted. Titus 3:7
Im unconditionally loved. Isa.54:10
Im totally forgiven. Rom.8:1
Im considered extremely valuable. 1
Cor.7:23

 3. Everyday offer that same love to

others
accept one another just as Christ
accepted you Rom.15:7
Love never stops being patient, love
never stops believing, love never stops
hoping, love never gives up 1 Cor.13:7