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Brush your hair, shower, wash your face use deodorant, a little cologne,
and apply acne medicine daily (if you have a problem with your skin). Don't wear your pants off
your butt, often called "sagging", it's not that attractive to the majority of girls. This is essential if
you are even going to approach an attractive girl . Wear clean, attractive clothes that fit. (If in
doubt, get an older sister or close female friend to help you in this department.) Don't wear skin
tight clothes, but don't wear clothes that are too baggy either, girls hate that.
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Be fun to hang around with, easy to laugh with, and be outgoing. Just
don't be full of yourself. A girl may like an overly cocky guy at first, but eventually, she will find
it selfish. Don't try to impress everyone - girls like humble guys. At the same time, a sense of
humor is always good. Girls love it when guys can make them laugh.
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If you respect everyone and give them their space, they'll all respect you. With
girls, it works even better. If they see you respecting everyone, and not getting pushed around
while you're at it, they will be reassured that you will treat them right. Be kind to all.
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Try to aim for you both to be speaking half of the time, but make
sure that you are saying something worthwhile; it's not attractive when only one person talks
endlessly or when they say bad words. Another thing to watch for is her attention. If she isn't
paying complete attention, do not repeat yourself several times. This makes girls feel you are
desperate, and usually annoying.
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The #1 mistake when talking to a girl is focusing on
yourself. Girls are way more comfortable when they talk about common interests. Ask about
their interests, hobbies, favorite books, music, etc. If she asks you a question, answer it in a few,
short sentences and then redirect the question back at her. This engages her in the conversation.
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 Don't be obsessive! If you both make eye contact, do not be the one to look away,
but do not stare for too long. When you both make eye contact, just give a slight smile. Touch
her arm or shoulder for a few seconds. Physical contact is a great way to show you're interested.
If she seems uncomfortable, do not do it again.
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down. A good move is to look away, and if she likes you she will shoot you glances. Watch for
that. And be courteous. Open doors. Do kind things, girls   that.
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Always speak highly of her and never talk
trash about her. It will damage her reputation and yours. Hopefully then it will work both ways -
she will be tolerant of your friends. Be careful not to compliment her friends too much, however.
Example: You may say "Your friends seem cool. We should hang out with them and my friends
some time, I think they'd get along". You may  say "Sally is so hot. She has the nicest eyes".
You may think getting her jealous is a good idea, but it just makes them angry.
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. Warn them ahead of time and avoid topics pertaining to embarrassing moments of
your past or awkward jokes that make very little sense. Don't introduce her to your friends right
away though. You want her to like you, not start dating one of your buddies. If your friends like
to embarrass you, try to avoid them altogether.
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Be kind to everyone, especially them. Don't be too over-the-top
charming with the parents, however, or they'll think that you have something to hide.Be willing
make sure that you and her father get along as he will be looking out for his daughter.
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Unless she asks for constructive criticism. And even then she probably
wants you to compliment her.
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If you've been dating for a while you may attempt a grand
romantic gesture, otherwise, you'll look like a stalker. It's also okay to be a little cheesy, like
giving her a bouquet of roses and a loving poem. It may sound like a bad idea, but girls will find
it thoughtful if it came from your heart. A better idea than being cheesy is to really LISTEN to
her and remember things she likes. Then take her somewhere she's mentioned wanting to go, or
buy her the books she's been wanting and hide a little note inside. Flowers and candy are really
cliche and don't really mean much since anyone can just buy someone flowers. Showing you've
been listening to her wants and needs goes a LOT farther than roses!!
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If you don't know her, make friendly conversation. Ask for the
time, and/or compliment her watch. Avoid throwing too many compliments about clothes or
shoes around, that might make women think that you are homosexual as many gay men are
fashion-forward.
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girl will end up frustrated, and she'll think you don't find interest in her anymore.
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a sexual nature unless she starts doing so. Also, don't discuss anything gross or inappropriate.
She'll get grossed out.
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probably be impressed by your good taste in music. Some girls have actually dumped guys or
stopped liking guys when they insulted the music they like. So, it's OK not to like her music, but
don't be insulting her favorite singer(s)/band(s)! Try to figure out what music you BOTH like.
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you an easy-to-come-up-with conversation starter. Try not to overuse it and kill the joke.
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A lot of women look for sense of humor in a partner. You should
however be mindful of their reactions to your jokes and avoid offensive humor. Unless they like
that. Find out if she likes comedy. If she watches Comedy Central, find out her favorite
comedian or favorite impression and try it out for her.
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This is a really good thing that impresses girls. They love it when you let
them know you care for them. If she's sad, just simply put your arm around her neck. Make her
happy, at least as much as you can. Flirt with her, hold her hand it will make her feel special.
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might be saying about HER when she's not around!!!
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That creates a question mark for the girl about you, and it also makes you interesting.
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repeated questions. Always keep your face glowing and charming.