Things to Pack:

2.Clothes for men: thaubs, track pants or light weigh pants, t shirts, undergarments, socks, topies,
sweater, shawl, cargo pant
3.sleeping  bag
4.strong water bottles
6.lottas (optional)
7.toilet paper- 2 for each person
8.hand soap (unscented, alcohol free)
9.Shampoo
11.Facial tissue
12.nail cutter
13.paper towels or wash clothes
14.facial soap
15.tooth paste and tooth brush
17.medicines: pepto bismol, cough drops, tylenol, advil/ibuprofen, multi vitamins, sudafed,
contact solutions, banded,  airbourne,
18.fleece blanket
20.money pouch
21.calculator
22.hair topies
23.notebook and pen (optional)
24.toiletry kit for each person
26.snacks: dried fruits, candies, energy bars, chips cookies,
27.ziploc bags
28.white grocery bags
30.dua books, quran, tasbeehs
31.photo id, passport, tickets, money
33.razor
35.detergent powder
36.towels
37.seven beads tasbeeh for tawafs
38.luggage locks

Things to put in carry-on:

1.copies of all your hajj documents + copies of passports for each family member + photo id +
cash
2.Toiletry kit (hand soap, tooth brush, tooth paste, shampoo, facial tissue, medicine) Be aware of
size of bottles you can carry on air plane. 
3.Snacks and empty water bottles for each person
4.motion sickness medicine
5.ihram, sandals
6.tasbeeh, dua books, hajj mini books, quran
7.prayer rug
8.one extra pair of clothes including undergarments, sleepers
9.Fleece blanket, sweater
10.face towel
11.medicine

Things to put in Small bag to take in the masjid al haram:

1.quran, dua books, list of duas, tasbeehes, prayer rug

2.Optional: notebook, pen,
3.snacks, empty water bottle (you can fill it up with zam zam once you are in the masjid)   
5.Empty plastic bags to put shoes
6.carry some cash for food or shopping

Things to pack for 5 days of hajj (mina, arafah, muzdellfah) for Men:

1.extra ihram
2.2 pairs of clothes
3.undergarments- 2 pairs
4.socks
5.sweaters
6.towels
7.sleeping bag
8.fleece blanket
9.Toiletry kit
10.snack bags
11.water bottles
12.wool shawl for men
13.quran, dua books, tasbeeh, books to read
******2-5 will need when you leave for airport or returning home.