“Does knowing how to be mysterious really

make a difference
in attracting a man?”
Have you ever met a guy who knew exactly how to
be mysterious and fell for him right away? The truth
is, people are a very curious bunch. Any time you
can be a puzzle to a guy, he can’t help but be
sucked into your vortex.

Also, consider what normally happens in a dating

situation: you both sit down riddled with nervous
energy and end up spilling your entire life’s story
including all of the really gross, dumb, and pathetic
parts in the first hour. Now you’re left with a lifetime
of nothing to talk about if you’re able to keep him
around.

Don’t ever give away your whole life’s story! The

biggest part of how to be mysterious is to give him
just enough information so that he will crave to
know more. How many years did it take you to live
your life up to this point? Well, the only answer is “all
of them.” Can you really condense the entire history
of your life over coffee?

That’s pretty sad.

He’ll think so too and you will have done nothing to make him feel attracted to you. So
how does someone learn how to be mysterious?

A great place to start is by learning something mysterious. Have you ever considered that
you can deeply influence a man's attraction for you with simple hypnotic tricks? No, we're
not talking about waving a pocketwatch in front of his face, "You are getting very sleepy..."
We're talking about simple things that you can do and say that talk directly to his
subconscious.

Have I piqued your interest? Then check out Rousing the Lion to learn how to turn a man
into a passionate servant and a motivated warrior!

In the mean time, you can be mysterious by learning some basics on creating mystery...
Be Descriptive
The more you can talk about the tiny, fascinating aspects of interesting subjects, the less
you give away about yourself. What you do when you’re completely descriptive about things
is show that you are smart, creative, and really able to enjoy everything about your life.
Isn’t that an amazing goal?

Think about it. What if you went on a date with a guy who travels a lot and all he says is, “I
went here. I went here. And then I went here.” Yawn! What if instead he gets really in depth
on how he felt connected with the people of that country when he helped a little boy carry
his lamb to market. Adorable, right? Which of these guys is most likely to get a second
date? Which one understands how to be mysterious? The one who shows an interesting
and intriguing side of himself.

The same applies to you, sister. People who are 100% present in every situation see much
more stuff and are much more interesting to talk to. From now on, really take in the
experiences surrounding you. Feel the feels, smell the smells, hear the sounds. Feel the
emotions!

If you’re interested in getting better at telling stories and talking in general, try the
Conversation Fire System. It’s a fantastic audio course that really gets into the core issues
of shyness and inability to speak in public. Author, Mark Samet really gets deep into how to
use this for relationships to which is why we love it so much.

Don’t give away your whole story

Ya know what always sucks about big Hollywood movies? They explain every possible
thing to you. That’s fine when you need some mindless entertainment, but the films that
tend to win awards are the ones that leave you thinking. They leave you so intrigued that
you simply have to see the film again and when it comes out on DVD, you just have to own
it.

Would someone ever write a screenplay about your life? You might be surprised. With a
good enough surprise in the ending, anyone’s life can be interesting if it can just be
mysterious.

Be vague when you talk. Make statements so unexplainable that he has to ask you
questions. Start talking to people like they’ve known you all your life. Stop going into
elaborate back stories to explain how you ended up stranded in the desert. When you start
a story with, “We we’re running out of water…” he will have no choice but to ask how you
got there in the first place.
People who tell stories in a disjointed way are instantly charismatic because they hold your
attention. By not giving the back story that explains it, they are instantly gaining rapport by
subtly stating, “You’ve know me so well that you already understand how these things
happen to me.”

You’re thinking it may make you sound crazy, but people who tell their stories in an obvious
way are dull and uninspiring.

Never answer a direct question

Elusive people are maddening. They will always be mysterious in the worst moments. They
are difficult to talk to and give you that feeling that nothing is ever what it seems. They are
also really fun to hang out with. Let’s say a guy asks you how old you are and you answer
with a simple “25.” What have you accomplished there? Nothing. You may have even
jeopardized getting to another date because that might somehow be too old or too young for
him.

What if instead you tell him playfully in an aristocratic tone, “My word… a gentleman would
never ask that of a lady!” Or what if you answered with, “Old enough to know better.”

Attraction accomplished! What did that even mean? Who cares!

The more playful you can keep your interaction with a man, the more he will crave your
free-spiritedness. The more he’ll wonder about you. Trust me girls, this is exactly the way
you want him spending his free time.

Ask all the questions

If you really want to know how to be mysterious, keep him talking the whole time. You can
have great conversations simply asking him about whatever he’s talking about. Questions
like, “How did that make you feel?” and “Oh my god, what happened next?” or “What did it
look like?” will keep the topic on him the whole time.

What’s really great about asking a lot of questions is that he walks away thinking, “Wow!
She’s a great conversationalist!” and then he’ll realize he doesn’t know a thing about you.
Then you’ll really have him hooked.

When trying to seduce a man, keep in mind: it’s always in what you don’t say that really
grabs a man’s attention. So if you’re interested in how to be more mysterious, just keep in
mind: Less is More. When you find yourself rambling too much about yourself, switch it up
and ask him a question. Michael Webb’s 1000 Questions for Couples is a great guide on
where to start. The great thing is that you can pick out a few of your favorites and bust them
out any time there is a boring lull in the conversation.
Silence is awesome when you're creating intrigue! Only break the silence if it’s not working
towards your seduction. Remember to hold your cards close and only give out information
when he’s earned it.