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God, grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
Vwåhr AmO BVHo$ ÌñV H$m {XgVm`? Zmhr`o Ag§ ßcrO åhUy ZH$m. Vw_À`m H$nmimda nS>coë`m Ë`m KS>çmM
gJi§ gm§JVmhoV! H$m` Pmc§ ?
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_mÂ`mH$S>o ~Km.
_w§~B©V Joco n§Yam {Xdg nmD$g Zmhr. _r em§V Amho.
_r AmÎmm {chm`cm ~gVmo` Am{U _mÂ`m eoOmaÀ`m {~pëS>¨J_Ü`o EH$m Hw$Qw>§~mV gmOè`m hmoUmè`m "h°nr ~W© S>o'
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em§V Amho.
Vwåhmcm gm§JVmo, Aer em§Vr _r `mnydu H$Yrhr AZw^dcr ZìhVr! Vwåhr _cm _Ç> åhUm, Amier
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"A°ŠeZ' Amho!
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Owc¡À`m Xhm VmaIocm d`mMr Eoer nma Ho$coë`m "ñdm_r nmW©gmaWr' `m EH$m VéU _mUgmM§ coŠMa EoH$m`cm
Jocmo hmoVmo. `m d`mVhr nmW©gmaWr _m§S>r KmcyZ XrS> Vmg ~mocy eH$VmV `m EH$mM Jmoï>rgmR>r Ë`m§Zm gmï>m§J
Z_ñH$ma Kmcmdmgm dmQ>Vmo. `m doiMm {df` gJù`m§À`m {Oìhmù`mMm hmoVm. "_mZdr ZmVog§~Y'! EH$ _wÔm
nQ>dyZ XoV AgVmZm nmW©gmaWtZr Á`m H$mhr Amoir EoH$dë`m, XodmenW gm§JVmo, _mPr gJù`m Jmoï>tH$S>o
~Km`Mr Ñï>rM ~Xccr. Vw_À`m hmVmVcr gJir H$m_§ XmoZ {_{ZQ>m§gmR>r ~mOycm R>odm. _ZmV Mmcy Agcoco
BVa {dMma S>moŠ`mVë`m nm{Hª$J cm°Q> _Ü`o nmH©$ H$am. Vw_À`m _ZmVë`m gJù`m YmaUm-g_O-lÜXm-
J§S>-^mdZm EH$m noQ>rV ~§X H$am Am{U hm _mUyg H$m` ~moccm` Vo \$º$ EoH$m... Amoìha Qw> ñdm_r nmW©gmaWr!
""AmnU Amnë`m AmOy~mOyÀ`m _mUgm§Zm, Amnë`m AdVr-^dVr KS>Umè`m KQ>Zm§Zm ^cr -~war co~ëg
cmdm`cm {eH$Vmo`. AmnU Vr _mUg§, Ë`m KQ>Zm ZrQ> g_OyZ KoD$Z Ë`m§M§ AmH$cZ H$é `m. Ë`m Aí`m-
Aí`m AmhoV, H$m AmhoV Aí`m?, Ë`m ì`º$s¨Zm, KQ>Zm§Zm _r ~XcU§ eŠ` Amho H$m? Zmhr Zm, _J _r AmVm
Ë`m ì`º$ser H$g§ dmJm`M§, Ë`m KQ>Zm§_Ü`o H$g§ 'respond' H$am`M§ Vo R>adm`M§.
The beauty of the summer is in its heat;
The beauty of the winter is in its cold;
The beauty of the rains is in its raining, pouring...
Unfortunately-
We want summers to be cold;
winters to be warm and rains to be dry!!
gJù`m Xw:Im§M§, ÌmgmM§ _yi BWo Amho- We want summers to be cold.... winters to be
warm" B{V nmW©gmaWr!
~ñg! \$º$ nmM Amoir! _r AmVyZ AmVyZ Iyn em§V hmoV Jocmo.
AmVm nwÝhm EH$Xm Amnmnë`m nmoOreÝg _Ü`o naV `m. BVHo$ {Xdg Vwåhr H$em_wio ÌñV AmhmV Vo ñdV:cmM
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KQ>Zm ~Xcy eH$mc, hì`m Vem? nmD$g nmSy> eH$mc? `oUmam nmD$g Wm§~dy eH$mc? MmÝgog Ama S>r_!
"Mmodrg Vmg H$m` XmIdm`M§ cmoH$m§Zm? hm àíZ nS>coco M°Zëg amoO XO}Xma H$m`©H«$_ Hw$Ry>Z AmUUma?
"`_cmoH$, ñdJ© H$s {gT>r', Amnë`m WoQ> KamV KoD$Z `oUmam "B§{S>`m Q>rìhr' AmdS>V Zgoc Va M°Zoc ~Xcm
H$s! But we want summer to be cold.... Amnë`mcm Q>rìhrda XO}Xma H$m`©H«$_ hdo AmhoV. EH$-
XmoZ d` df© Agcoë`m _wcm§Zr AmnU Mmdr XoD$ Voìhm Amnë`m~amo~a _ñVr H$am`cm hdr Amho Am{U Amnë`m
H$m_m§À`m doir Ë`m§Zr "Ü`mZñW'~gm`cm hd§ Amho, Amnë`m MwH$m§da Z AmoaS>Umam ~m°g hdm`, ào_i gmgy
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gmo`rnwaVm Xod hdm Amho, Amnë`m X¡Z§{XZ ì`dhmam§Mr Bór Z {~KS>Vm gr_oda "dm°a' ìhm`cm hd§` EH$hr
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nS>Umao AmOr-AmOmo~m hdo AmhoV.... WmoS>Š`mV, gJi§ H$ñg§ AJXr na\o$ŠQ> ìhm`cm hd§`!
H$m`, ~amo~a H$s Zmhr?
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H$mnS>mVrc Xmof Zmhr. CcQ> hoM Ë`m H$mnS>mMo hoM gm¢X`© Amho!
_r hm \$cH$ {dgé eH$V Zmhr. hmVm§Zr {dUcoë`m H$mnS>mMr A°Zmcm°Or Amnë`m Am`wî`m§Zm cmdcr Va Vr
{H$Vr gmW© R>aoc !
Hw$én {XgUmar _mUg§ AmOy~mOycm ZgVrM Va AmnU gm¢X`m©Mr ì`m»`m H$ê$ eH$cmo AgVmo?
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gH$mir Vmg^a Á`mXm VmUyZ Úm`Mr a{ddmaMr JmoS>r H$_r Pmcr AgVr Ag§ Zmhr dmQ>V Vwåhmcm?
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åhUVmo, Am`wî`mV Agcoë`m `m imperfection gmaI§ OJmV Perfect H$mhrM Zmhr!
H$mi§-Jmoa§, gË`-AgË`, Mm§Jco añVo-IS>çm§Mo añVo, g§V-Jw§S>, O`-namO`, nmo{cg-Mmoa,
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e_m© `m coIH$mM§ EH$ gw§Xa dmŠ` Amho. Stop judging events as either positive or
negative. Rather simply celebrate them and learn from them!’
EH$ chmZ _wcJr Amnë`m AmB©H$S>o Jocr. _wcJr Oam Xw:Ir-H$ï>r Pmcr hmoVr. AmB©M Vr! AmB©Zo
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{IemV X_S>r Zmhr. Hw$R>o ZmoH$ar {_iV ZìhVr. Iyn Depression Iyn Frustration. WmoS>Š`mV H$mhr
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