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Increasing Your Relational Capacity
Increasing Your Relational Capacity
If you are most comfortable Focusing, and others experience you as Controlling: Ask
Questions about Process. People know where you stand. They want to know that you
care about their thoughts and feelings.
If you are most comfortable Challenging and others experience you as Manipulating:
Make Statements about Process. People do not know where you stand or what you
think. Self-disclosure builds trust.
I am perceiving ______________________.
I am feeling _________________________.
I believe ____________________________.
I think______________________________.
If you are most comfortable Collaborating and others experience you as Waffling:
Make Statements about Goals. People know you listen to them. They need you to
take a stand.
What resources do you need and how will you get them?