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til .D,8nOBOll! 3cpcpeKTll'BHOCT~, aBTOp nonyn~pHblX KH~r:

• KAK OTHOCHThCH If CEliE H If IIIfIRIIM, IIJDI nPAKTHlffCKAfI nCHXOnOIllR HA KAJKlJhlA UfHh

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• MCTMHHAH DPABItA, inti V'lE6HMH lUll nCHxonor A DO IKH3HII

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• OPDell1 OPABMDbHAJI HUI3Hb.

1K~3Hb He CBOAVlTC51 K OAHO~ 3cpcpeKTVlBHOCTVl. HaCT05ILl!a51 npaBMnbHa~ )KVl3Hbonpenenarso 6ora'1e!

B03MO>KHO, Bbl AYMaeT8, \.jTO npaBItIJlbH35I >K1i13Hb - sro AOnOJlHVlTeJlbHOe HanpH>K8HIo18, HarpY3Ka Vl AMCL(VlnnMHa.

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nonpbllaTb Ha AVlCKOT8Ke - TO>K8 HarpY3Ka, HO Mbl)t(8 He npOTVlB? YT06bl nOCTpOIilTb V1 nOAA8p>KV1BaTb XOPOWVl8 OTHOW8HVls:i, YXD,[lvlT CTOJlbKO xe CVlIl, CKOJlbKO Ha nopyraTbCH. TaK 3aY8M TOf,[l8 TpaTmb CVlJlbl Ha pyraHb, eCJlVl C TeMl1 )t(e Cl'InaMVI MO)!(HO )t(t.1Tb no-xopoweMY?

npaB~JlbH851 )t(V13Hb - 3TO )KV13Hb, CAeJlaHHa~ CBO~Mt-1 PYKaMII1, npIl1HOCs:il!.(a~ P8AOCTb caMOMY Y8JlOBeKy t-1 oKpy)KalOl4~M.

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)l<1II3Hb He CBOAIiITC~ K OAHOLII s<!><!>eKTIIIBHOCTIiI. HaCTO~LlIa~ npasansaaa >K1iI3Hb - onpeneneaao 6ora'le! Ee MO>KHO Ha3BaTb npOCTOLII, eCJlIII OHa npo>KIiIBaeTC~ 'leJlOBeKOM eCTeCTBeHHO, CIIIJlbHO iii YBepeHHO.

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3,l1,paBCTBYHTe, MOI-1I·lI-1TaTenl-1! 06HI-1MalO BCeX TeX, KTO LJI·-1TM MOI-1 npe)KHl-1e KHl-1n-1, )KMY PYKI-1 TeM, C KeM n03HaKOMnlOCb reneps,

s:Jso3Bpaw,alOcb.

He nncan ,lI,aBHO, CocKYLJl-1nCfI, MaTepl-1ana HaKOnl-1nOCb MHOro, OLJeHb XOLJeTCfI see BOnnOTI-1Tb B KHl-1rl-1. HeckonsKO KHl-1r. >KAI-1Te!

KaKl-1e HOBOCTI-1? )l(1-13Hb I-1AeT.

CI-1HTOH (HanOMI-1HalO - YAapeHl-1e Ha BTOPOM errore), 1-13 onsrra xoroporo poxnaiorcs KHl-1rl-1 MOI-1 1-1 MOI-1X xonner; AaBHO Y)Ke He Kny6. CI-1HTOH reneps - cepbe3HblH 1-1 1-13BeCTHblH TpeHI-1Hrll,eHTp (www.syntone.ru). OAI-1H 1-13 KpynHeHWI-1X TpeHI-1HrOBblX u,eHTpOB POCCI-1I-1, KOnneKTI-1BHblH LJneH Me)K,ll,YHapOAHOH AcCOll.l-1all.l-11-1 nporpeccaonanoa pa3BI-1TI-1f1 nI-1LJHOCTI-1. B CI-1HTOHe pa60TalOT npodieccaoaansr, npOBOAI-1M nl-1LJHOCTHble TpeHI-1Hrl-1, 61-13HeC-TpeHI-1Hrl-1 BeAeM B napTHepCKOM TpeHI-1Hr-LJ,eHTpe «61-13HeC-Knacc» (www.classs.ru ).

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On biT MaCTepOB MO)l(eT 6blTb opllleHTlllpOM, III arv KHlllry MHe AeVlCTBIIITenbHO XOTenOCb HanlllcaTb 6e3 3aYMIII, TaK, KaK s:I 6bl paCCKa3blBan 6bl 3TO CBOIIIM APY3bs:lM. Be3Ae, rne MO)l(HO, s:I CTapanCs:I nucars MaKCIIIManbHO npOCTO III KOpOTKO.

~ orwerun ns:lTIIIAeCs:lTlllneTllle, 3AOPOB, 60AP, C'-IaCTnIllB AOMa C caMoVi mo6111MOVI )l(eHOVI Ha csere, mo6YIOCb HaWIIIMIII neBO'-lKaMIII III no-npexaeray sees B paoore. 3axOAIIITe Ha caar www.nkozlov.ru. 6YAeTe B xypce TpeHIIIHroB III HOBOCTeVi.

Flocnenuee YBne'-leHllle - Ilcaxonoroc (www.psychologos.ru). 3HlJ,IIIKnOneAlIIs:I npaKTIII'-IeCKOVI ncnxonoraa. 3arns:lHIIITe, MO)l(ere nOY'-laCTBOBaTb B ee C03AaH III III , B03MO)l(HO, yane-rerecs 3TIIIM TaK xe, KaK III s:I.

VlplIIHa LJeKMapeBa, OCPOpMn5IIOw,as:l CBOIIIMIII COnHe'-lHbIMIII PIIICYHKaMIII ece MOIII KHlllrlll, see raxaa xe aecenas a MOnOAas:l, XOTs:I crana Y)I(e 6a6YWKOVI. )f(1II3Hb IIIAeT!

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O'-leHb AaBHO MHe paccxaaanu, '-ITO MO)l(HO )l(IIITb, KaK rapMOHIII'-IeCKill pa3BIIITas:l nlll'-lHOCTb. ~ rorna nnoxo npeACTaBns:ln, '-ITO 3TO raxoe HO IIIAes:l MHe onpeAeneHHO nOHpaBlllnaCb. MHe saxorenoce 3TO' ensnare. nyrb OKa3MCs:I He npOCTOVl, HO IIIHTepeCHblVi III AOCtOVlHbIVl, 06 3TOM nuury,

3TO KHlllra 0 )l(1II3HIII, 06 3cpcpeKTIIIBHoVi )1(1113 H III , HO - He ronsxo. )f(1II3Hb He CBOAIIITCs:I K OAHOVI 3cpcpeKTIIIBHOCTIII, TaK)I(e KaK III naw,a He CBOAIIITCs:I K OAHOVI ronsxo KanopIIIVlHOCTIII.

Ecnlll opne-rrupoaarecs ronsxo Ha KMOPIIIIII, TO Ha AeHb HaM anonHe xaaruno 6bl ABa CTaKaHa paCTIIITenbHoro Macna. Vlnlll OAIIIH CTa-

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B/J.OXHOBeHUfi HeT, n03TOMY nuwy npoey.

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n03AHIIIVI nYWKIIIH ornn-raerca npOCTOTOVI III npoapa-raocrsjo cnora. KTO-TO 1113 COBpeMeHHIIIKOB roaopan, '-ITO rana-rr nYWKIIIHa yrac III aBTOp IIIcnlllCanCs:I, HO, noxoxe, 3TO 6blna ra spenocrs MaCTepCTBa, xorna cyrs CTaHOBIIITCs:I eaxuee, '-IeM IIIrpa CPOPMbl. 3penOMY nYWKIIIHY

crane Ba)l(HO nacars npOCTO: TaK, '-IT06bl s:lPKOCTb 06pa30B III 6neCK PIllCPM He aacnoaanu CMblcn. Taxxe III 60plllC nacTepHaK, Ha'-lIllHaBWIIIVI «pyroeepreio cYMacweAwero Map6ypra, aapuaaaurero 3BY'-IaHllle III n03TIII'-IeCKIIIVI CTPOVl, 3asepuran csoe TBOp'-leCTBO YAIIIBIIITenbHO CTPOVlHOVI KnaCCIIIKOVI.

B p0/1.CTBe CO ecet«, '-ITO ecru, yeepstc« M 3H8f1Cb C 6Y/1.YL4MM B 6b1Ty,

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o KPlt1BOM lt1 npaBlt1nbHOM

Koe panora? Pa60TOVl Mbl 06bl'-lHO Ha3blBaeM TO, '-ITO AenaTb He XO'-leTC5I, HO nplt1XOAVlTC5I. Korna Bbl Ha'-l VI aaere )l(lt1Tb npaeansuo, BaM Y)I(e HVI'-IerO He «nplt1XOAVlTC5I», VI no BHYTpeHHeMY ow,yw,eHViIO Bbl patiorare nspecraere. Bbl 6YAeTe nanars see, '-ITO HaAO, HO ecna Bbl nenaere 3TO eCTeCTBeHHO, 3TO CTaHeT An51 aac -iacTblO )l(lt13HI<1, HO He pa60TOVI.

rtoaaerpasare C yrpa - HaAO, VI An51 3TOro HY)I(HO naxe cecrs sa cron VI ce651 noxopwnrs. Ho paase 3TO panora? Bbl 3TO nenaere An51 ce651, aasrpaxaere C YAOBonbCTBlt1- eM. l!1 B npaBlt1nbHOVl )l(Vl3HVI Bbl TO'-lHO TaK)I(e nenaere see. KaK cavo c060Vl pa3YMelOw,eeC5I, nenaere see nena, KOropue BaM onenars HaAO 06513aTenbHO.

KOMY-TO Ka)l(eTC5I, '-ITO npaaansaas )l(Vl3Hb - 3TO AonOnHlt1TenbHoe Hanp5l)l(eHlt1e VI Harpy3Ka. COBceM He TaK. KOHe'-lHO, KaKlt1eto YCVlnVl51 6YAYT scerna. rtonpurars Ha Alt1CKOTeKe - HY, roxe

HarpY3Ka, HO Mbl )l(e He nporua? LJT06bl "'"

nOCTpOlt1Tb VI nonnepxaaars xopouiue

OTHOWeHVl5I, yXOAlt1T CTonbKO xe curt, rparars (l,111bl

CKonbKO Ha nopyrarscs. TaK 3a'-leM rorna Ha nopyrarsca,

rparurs CVlnbl Ha nopyrarscs. ecnu aa re ecna aa Te xe CI111bl

xe Clt1nbl MO)l(HO )l(VlTb no-xopouieray? MO}f{HO }f{I1Tb

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B HaCT05lw,eVl npaaaneaou )l(Vl3Hlt1 51 He

Mory ofieuiart, BaM nonuoro VI aticoruoruoro C'-IaCTb5l, Bbl '-IaCTO 6YAeTe nepexasars lt1 Aeq>lt1L1,VlT, VI Hexaarxy, Bbl3TO 06513aTenbHO nO'-lYBCTByeTe. Korna BaM xareroplt1'-1eCKVI He 6YAeT XBaTaTb uenoa )l(lt13Hlt1, xorna Bbl BceM TenOM 6YAeTe ouiyuiars, '-ITO BaM noaapes HY)l(HO TPVl )l(Vl3Hlt1 ~ocneAOBaTenbHO VI XOT5I 6bl ABe napannensuo, xorna Ka)I(Abllt1 AeHb An51 aac CTpaWHO KOPOTKlt1V1 - Y Bac npaBVlnbHa51 )l(Vl3Hb!

CeVl'-lac MHOrlt1e rOBOp5lT VI AYMaIOT, '-ITO npaaansaoro - HeT, '-ITO y kaxnoro CBOVI COBepweHHO YHlt1KanbHbIVi )l(lt13HeHHbIVi nyns, K KOTOPOMY He MO)l(eT 6blTb KaKOVl-TO eAVlHOVI MepKVI. YTBep)I(AaeTC5I, '-ITO '-Ib5l-TO )l(lt13Hb He MO)l(eT 6blTb 60nee npaBlt1nbHOVl, '-IeM '-Ib5l-TO npyras, KaK HeT eAlt1Horo noKp051 OAe)I(Abl, nOAXoA5Iw,eVl BceM, lt1 pacCKa3 0 npaBVlnbHoVi )l(Vl3HVI eCTb TonbKO

HaB5I3~BaHlt1e COBepweHHO pa3H~M nlO-

A5IM '-IaCTHOro MHeHVl5I roro, KTO 06 3TOVI npaBlt1nbHOVI )l(lt13Hlt1 paccxaasrsaer;

Bepuo, 6blBaeT VI TaK. Tonsxo xorna Ha OAe)I(Ae Bbl Blt1Alt1Te KPVlBble lt1nlt1 HeaKKypaTHble CTpO'-lKlt1, Bbl nOHVlMaeTe, '-ITO 3TO onexna He OT ny'-lwlt1X MOAenbepOB. TBOp'-leCKlt1V1 nOAXOA K )l(lt13Hlt1 - 3TO OAHO, a HeYMena51 Vlnlt1 HeaKKypaTHo nOCTpOeHHa5l, a TO lt1 nonOMaHHa51 )l(lt13Hb - APyroe.

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B03MO)l(HO, Bbl YBepeHbl, '-ITO npasansaaa )l(lt13Hb - 3TO cnnowHoe 3aCTaBneHVle lt1 Alt1CLI,lt1nnVlHa. 3TO He TaK. Korna Bbl ce651 aacraensere - 3TO HenpaBVlnbHa51 )l(lt13Hb. B npaBlt1nbHOVI )l(lt13HVI patiors: He 60nbwe, '-IeM B )l(Vl3Hlt1 nlO60Vl APyroVI. Bezu, '-ITO ra-

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BOT npuuien no no-rre C'"IeT, reneps HaAO nOVlTVI VI onnaTVlTb sa CBeT: 6flVlH, HaAO! Pa3 HaAO - BOT fl VI He xo-ry,

Hy, He XOTVI - OT eroro 1113MeHVlTCfl TOflbKO TO, '"ITO onna-uasars C'"IeT 6YAeWb C nflOXIIIM uacrpoeuaew. He cepnucs, HaAO - 3TO He npOTIIIBHoe «3aCTaBfleHllle», a npOCTO - HaAO. HaAO - III Bce. ECfllll fl He cnenaio TO, '"ITO nenars HaAO, 3TO ace npanercs Aenars n03)Ke IIIfllll KOMY-TO APyroMy.

B «xo-ry - He xosv» IIIrpalOT TOflbKO AeTIII.

ECfllll y pe6eHKa 3a6oTfllllBbie pOAIIITefllll, OH nplIIBblKaeT K TOMY, '"ITO ero «XO'"Iy - He xO'"ly» ecrs He'"lTO Ba)KHoe. He xoseurs - CKa)K1II «He xo-ryl», III TorAa He 6YAewb ecrs 3TY xaury, XOTfl, MO)KeT

,,6bITb, Bce-TaKIII cseuis? Te6fl yrosapn.aana, a Tbl ClllflbHO rosopan: «He xo-ryl», III 6blfl B ueurpe BHIII.MaHlllfl. 3AOPOBO, TOflbKO reoe AeTcTBo npouino, III Mbl cranu

B3pOCflbIM~1. A aapocnue Y)Ke 3HaIOT, '"ITO paccxaauears npo CBoe «xo-ry - He xo-ry» Bcepbe3 HeKOMY. Xo-ieuns - nOAIII III cAeflaVi ce6e, ecnu YMeewb, IIIfllll Kynlll, ecna ecre neasra. ATO, '"ITO HaAO, espocnue npOCTO nenaor, nOTOMY aa HIIIX 3TO He cnena-

HALfAJlA nPABVlnbHOll1 )l(Vl3HVl

npaBlllflbHafl )K1II3Hb - 3TO )K1II3Hb, cnenaauas CBOIIIMIII PYKaMIII, III npauecuiaa PaAOCTb III caMOMY '"IeflOBeKY, III fllOAflM BOKPYr. TaKYIO )K1II3Hb MO)KHO Ha3BaTb III npOCTOVl, ecnu OHa )KIIIBeTCfl'"leflOBeKOM eCTeCTBeHHO, ClllflbHO, YBepeHHO. Bce, B '"IeM Mbl ysepeHbl, xaxerca HaM npocrsua,

HE. )(04Y.' Ho Ha'"llllHaeTCfl raxas )K1II3Hb - He npocro, OHa Ha'"llllHaeTCfl C AeTCTBa, a AeTCTBO - C IIIrpbl B «XO'"lY» III «He XO'"lY». V1 nporecros npoTIIIB roro, '"ITO «Hano»,

«He xoxy» LII «Hano»

B «X04Y - He X04Y» ~rpalOT TOflbKO AeT~

er HIIIKTO.

ECfllll, KOHe'"lHO, OHIII npasna sapocnue, III nepecrana IIIrpars B AeTCTBO. B XO'"lY - He XO'"ly.

,D,eTcKllle IIIrpbl B «He XO'"ly!»

«A fl He XOLfY, XOLfY no pecsery, A fl no flIo6BM, no flIo6BM XOLfY.

CBo6o~y, cBo6o~y, MHe ~ai1Te cBo6o~y, ~ ntnueto BBblCb yneLfY!»

He -xo - LfY!

Y xaxnoro 1113 Hac CBOfl CYAb6a, III no nOBOAY «rtpaaun- III «npaBlllflbHOro» MHe HepeAKO npaxonnrcs cnsuuars cnenviouiee:

npaBlllflbHoe - 3TO orpaa lII'"1eHIIIfl, a fl He fl106flIO HlIIyero, '"ITO MeHfl OrpaHIII'"IIIIBaeT! KaK TOflbKO fl CflbIWY, '"ITO BOT TaK )KIIITb HaAO, fl cpaay XO'"lY )KIIITb naotiopor. s:I He motirno,

nplll3TOM AB)Ke pe6eHOKAafleKO He acerna B03p8)KaeT npOTIIIB HenplllflTHoro «Hano». ,D,eTIII B03p8)KaIOT TOflbKO npOTIIIB cnaooro HaAO, HaAO HeYBepeHHoro. BOT npOTIIIBHafl CTeHa YBepeHHO roBOPIIIT Haao: «CIOAa XOAIII, a CIOAB XOAIIITb He HaAO, Heflb3fl, TYT s, CTeHa!», III pe6eHOK CO CTeHOVI He cnopur, IIIAeT B nseps, a He '"Iepe3 CTeHY· Pe6eHOK nposepan: CTeHa KaMeHHafl, CO creaoa cnopnrs 6ecnOfle3HO, paccrpauearecs III nnaxars Ha Hee He Aeil1cTByeT,

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BOT OH CTeHe H He 06H)KaeTCfI. A C MaMoVl npvroe neno: ecnu nonnaxan, 1-1 noronars

: "fbi AYMaeWb, 4TO OTCTaHBaeWb cetis, caoe ~, 1-1 Te6e aro BI-1- AI-1TCfI AeVlCTBI-1TenbHO I-1MeHHO TaK. A ecnn nocraorpers Ha ace .. aTO C BblCOTbl nTW·lbero nonera, TO Tbl 3aHI-1MaeWbCfI HI-1KOMY He H~HOVI qmrHeVl, C KOTOPOVI nopa aaaaasraars.

MO)KeT 6blTb, AeVlCTBI-1TenbHO nopa?

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He cnopsr HO)KKaMI-1, TO ee «Ha,D,O» 1-1 «Henb3f1» MeHflIOTCfI Ha «HY nMHO, ronsxo HeMHO)KKo!», nO:310- My C MaMOVl cnopars MO)KHO, MO)KHO nenars

KaK X04eTCfI H BpeAH1-14aTb, KOrAa OHa 6YAeT rOBOpl-1Tb :310 npOTI-1BHoe «HMO».

,D,eTcKHVI npOTeCT An 1-1 HOIO B )KH3Hb

Tbl caenan ace 3aMe4aTenbHO, Tbl 3AOPOBO OTOMCTl-1n CBOHM pOAI-1TenflM: Tbl y61-1n ce- 6f1, CBOI-1 )KenaHHfI 1-1 60nbwe He )KI-1BeWb, a ronsxo rocxyeurs 1-1 3nl-1WbCfI 1-13-3a yrna.

HopManbHo. Ho ecrs npyroe npennoxeane:

Ha4HHaTb )KI-1Tb CHOBa. ,D,pyroVl-To )K1-13HI-1 ece paBHO He 6YAeT, a ceronas MO)KHO PI-1CKHYTb H Ha4aTb see 3aHOBO, nOTOMY 4TO ceronas - 3TO He )K1-13Hb, a )KI-1Tb ece paBHO X04eTCfI, 1-1 )K1-13Hb CTOI-1T roro, 4T06bl ee npO)KI-1Tb non-

MOV. rpYAblO, CO scea CKOPOCTblO, KaK rorna, B TBoeM conHe4HOM [,1 CHe)l(HOM AeTCTBe, xorna Tbl neren Ha caaxax C ropu, xorna y Te6f1 aaxaarsraano AblxaHbe 1-1 Tbl Kpl-14an OT eocropral

«Ho fI X04Y )l(I-1Tb He KaK HaAO, fI X04Y )KI-1Tb csoea )K1-13HblO, a He no 4Y)KI-1M X04Y!»

Aa, Tbl npaa: rsoe HMO - 3TO %e-TO 4~oe X04Y. 3TO 04eHb 4aCTO I-1MeHHO TaK. Te6f1 BOAl-1nH Ha MY3bIKY, «3TO Te6e aaao!», a Te6e XOTenOCb KaTaTbCfI ua nouransx, Tbl XOTen cMoTpeTb 06anAeHHbie Knl-1nbl Ha MY3-TB, a Te6f1 6panl-1 B roCTI-1, me HaAO 6blno CMI-1PHO cHAeTb aa CTonOM 1-1 MHoro xyurars. Te6e He nosaonana XOTeTb caMOMY, Tbl ece BpeMfi )l(l-1n 4Y)l(OVl sonea, 1-1 n03TOMY Tbl cea-rac Y)l(e He X04eWb Hl-14ero. Tbl pa3Y41-1nCfI XOTeTb, 60HWbCfI Bbl6l-1paTb, Te6e Y)l(e npow,e )l(I-1Tb, KaK see, 1-1 TI-1XO ace 3TO HeHaBI-1AeTb ...

KaK ace.

-Hq 3110 /7IWE.·MIIME

HaAO - 3TO BcerAa 4be-TO X04Y. CAenaVl ero CBOHM!

HaAO - 3TO acerna %e-TO X04Y, 1-1 He 06f13aTenbHO rsoe X04Y, 1-1 3TO MO)l(eT 6blTb COBepweHHO HopManbHO. YTpOM HaAO BCTaBaTb - 3TO 6blno X04Y nansr, nOTOMY 4TO OH XOTen nonaP[,1Tb reoe Ka)l(AblVl -iac pa-n-ero yrpa 1-1 npl-1y41-1Tb Te6f1 K noPfiAKY vrpa - 3TO npl-1roAI-1TCfI reoe B )l(1-13HI-1. YTpOM HaAO YMblTbCfI - 3TO 6blno X04Y MaMbl, nOTOMY 4TO OHa BI-1Aena, KaK .caexeno rsoe nl-141-1KO 1-1 secenena rna3KI-1 nocne roro, KaK I-1X ononocuvrs npoxnanuoa BOAOVl 1-1 nporepers 41-1CTbiM nono-

TeHLI,eM. 3TI-1 I-1X «X04Y» rorna He acerna 6blnl-1 raoea paAOC-

TblO, KorAa-TO 3TO 3BY4ano 1-1 KaK npOTI-1BHOe «HaAO», HO po.A[,1Tenl-1 nenana CBOIO pa60TY, nOAH 1-1 Man 1-1 1-1 YMblBanl-1 Te6f1.

06bl4HO aa 3TO rosopar: «CnacI-160!»

IttHorAa 3TO aaaueaor «nnOXHM xapaKTepOM», I-1HorAa - «Aenpeccaea», -norepea CMblcna )l(1-13HI-1» 1-1 APyrl-1MI-1 Ba)l(HblMI-1 cnoBaMI-1. A fI AYMalO, 4TO 3TO TBOVI nporecr 1-1 TBOfi Meers, MeCTb TBOI-1M pOAI-1TenfiM B nuue )l(1-13HI-1, XOTfi 6bl Tbl 3TO COBepweHHO He OC03Haean.

Pa3 Tbl, )l(1-13Hb, raxaa, TO fI Te6e BOT, HanblOCb 1-1 He 6YAY nenars 4TO HMO. He X04Y!

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AenpeCCl1~ - 3TO MeCTb KOMY-TO 113 AeTCTsa

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annes:lM OT OAHOrO CTapOrO nsopua K APyrOMY. Ha OAHOH 1t13 paaBlt1nOK YBIt1Aenlt1 noxnnoro M)l)KLtIt1HY B TYnynLtIt1Ke, aaauaaeuiero peAKIt1X AeTeH Ha nYCTYIOw,It1H aTTpaKu,1t10H. ATTpaKu,1t10H BCe pasHO XOPOWIt1H, AeTeH nOPaAOBaTb XOLteTCs:I, nonouina ...

- HIt1KonaH V1BaHOBIt1Lt, 3ApaBCTBYHTe!

.,.. ,D,06Pbl~ AeHb ...

-Hy, Y3HaeTe? 3TO 51, Bnan! '-ITO, nocrapen?

,D,a, Bnan nocrapen, ,D,eCs:lTb ner Ha3aA OH 6bln 3Heprlt1LtHbiM It1 CBemblM MonOAblM LtenOBeKOM, nonHblM nnaaos, nlO6s:1w,It1M )K1t13Hb, TBOpLteCTBO VI 3KcnepVlMeHTbl. 3axOAVIn KO MHe Ha rpeHIt1Hrlt1, cnopun, nucan VlHTepeCHbie OTLteTbl, vanexanca 330TepVlKOH, VlCKan eaOH nyrs B )KVl3HVI. A reneps ... nononHen? Cxopee, nVlu,o onyxno - HaBepHoe, nonasaer. KO)Ka rpy6as:l, 06BeTf,)eHHas:l, PYKVI 3aMep3WVle ... It1 rnaauoe, "'ITO Tbl nenaeuis 3AeCb, Bnan, cpena OAIt1HOKVlX coces?

Paccnpauntaaio.

Pafioran B rearpe, E3AVln B V1HAVIIO aa AYXOBHOH npaxrnxoa. Ilonpatiarsraan B peCTaBpau,VlOHHOH MaCTepCKoH. Haoupan nlOAeH B rpynny 03AopOBVITenbHOH rVlMHaCTVlKVI. CeMbVl HeT.

- '-ITO Aanbwe, Bnan?

MOnLtVlT. ,D,YMaeT, HO AYMaTb oc06eHHO ae-rero: KapTVlHOK 6YAYw,ero HeT. A yLtVlTblBas:l, LtTO eMY Y)Ke sa rpanuars, )KVl3Hb cxopee scero aaepx He noaner, 3HaLtVlT, ronsxo BHIt13.

MHe 6blno CTpaWHO. OH 6bln caernua VI TanaHTnVlBblH - a )KVl3Hb CBOIO nponvcrun. He nocrpoun.

6bln -ienoae« - VI HeT -renosexa.

Bce.

- .0.0 CBVlAaHVls:I, Bnanl

- Ao CBVlAaHVls:I.

He B Ka)KAblH MOMeHT )KVl3HVI pe6eHoK 3HaeT, LtTO eMY HaAO aa caMOM nene, CeHLtaC HaAO nOLtVlCTVlTb 3y6bl - «He XOLty?». Teneps HaAO VlATIt1 K 3y6HOMY - "He noHAY?». Pe6eHOK BVlAIt1T ronsxo CeHLtaC, a LtTO 6YAeT 3aBTpa, aexoropue sapocnue BIt1- As:lT nysure Hero. Y HViX 3TO VI Ha3blBaeTCs:I: HaAO.

Haao - 3TO YMeHVle BViAeTb aasrpa.

V1, KOHeLtHO, MO)KHO ceronsa It1 aasrpa He onnasnaars c-iera aa CBeT, ecnu OLteHb He XOLteTCs:I. npOCTO -iepea HeKOTopoe BpeMs:I sa HeOnnaLteHHble csera Ha6eryT neHIt1, VI Te6s:1 cnpocsr, LtTO Tbl 60nbwe XOLteWb: aannarars OLteHb 60nbWYIO CYMMY VlnVl OCTaTbCs:I 6e3 CBeTa, a TO VI sooouie cuexart, C KBapTlt1pbl? BOT raxoe 6YAeT aasrpa. n03TOMY ny-uue aaxorers ensnare TO, LtTO HaAO CAenaTb ceronus.

HaAO - 3TO HopManbHO. 3TO npOCTO TO, LtTO BaM HY)KHO. 3TO TO, LtTO otiecne-iaaaer saure 6YAyw,ee It1 CTPOVIT saury nVlLtHOCTb.

KOMY-TO 60nbwe HpaBVlTCs:I cnOBO "XOLty». OmVlLtHO. Bspocnua -renoaex KaK paa XOLteT TO, LtTO Hano, '-ITO CeHLtaC Hano, TO aapocnua LtenOBeK - XOLteT.

V1 TorAa CTaHOBVlTCs:I Bce npOCTO. HaLtVlHaeTCs:I npOCTas:l npasansaaa )KVl3Hb.

3V1MOH OLteHb 3AOPOBO sstexars scea ceMbeH B KpaCIt1BblH 3aCHe)KeHHbIH napx VI TaM, Bbl6paB caMYIO CKa30LtHYIO nOns:lHY, yCTPOVlTb ManeHbKVlH nVlKHVlK. nO)KapVlTb rops:lLtylO s:IV1LtHVlU,Y C nOMVlAOpaMIt1, Hanlt1Tb BceM AbIMs:lw,erocs:I cnanxoro Ltas:l VI rpers 06 Hero PYKVI, PaAYs:lCb ManeHbKOMY TYPVlCTVlLteCKOMY npVlMYCY, KOTOPblH TaK nerxo napnr 6e30naCHblH cross It1 renno, Mbl ce6e ace 3TO nonapana, norpenacs LtaeM VI, He rooonscs, nouina no AnVlHHblM

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floxana PYKVI. AOBOJlbHble AeTVI yxe BepHYJlVlCb C arrpaxuaoua VI nofiexana nansure, Mbl aa HVlMVI.

BJlaA OCTaJlCfI Ha nvcroa annee.

... VlHTepeCHO, fI Mor 6bl '-lTO-TO cnenars rorna, necsn, ner Ha- 3aA? s:l '-IacTO acrpe-raio TaKVlX CBeTJlbIX, VlW,YW,VlX petiar, KOTOpue vaepeuu, '-ITO )f(Vl3Hb 06f13aTeJlbHO sucrener nepen HVIM KOBpOBble AOPO)f(KVI VI npasener K Csacreio, nOTOMY '-ITO Y HVIX orxpsrras nvura VI caMble A06pble HaMepeHVlfI. POMaHTVlK )f(VlBeT BeTpoM CB060Abl. .. Korna )f(e fI Ha'-lVlHalO roeopars 0 nnaae )f(Vl3- HVI, 06 06f13aTeJlbHOCTVI AVlCLI,VlnJlVlHbl, 0 He- 06XOAVIMOCTVI npnopareroa VI pac-era peHTa6eJlbHOCTVI BJlO)f(eHVlVr, VlX rnaaa TycKHeIOT, VI fI ouiyuiaio ce6f1 TlOpeMw,VlKoM, KOTOPblVr racur JlY'-lwVle VlCKOPKVI VlX AYWVI.

BJlaA HVlKorAa He BblHOCVlJl roro, '-ITO «HaAO». A «XO'-lY» npuseno B ryruuc,

rpYCTHO.

3 Ha'-l VlT, HaAO AYMaTb, paooran, VI VlCKaTb.

VlMeHHo nns TaKVlX CBeTJlblX VI XOPOWVlX JlIOAeVr fI rOA aa rOAOM VlW,Y VI 6YAY npononxars VlCKaTb CPOPMbl paeoru, KorAa see HY)f(HOe nOAaeTCfI B npaanexareneaoa VI nerxoa 06epTKe. Korna «HaAO» ynaxosaao «pacaso, KaK cavoe npasm-oe «Xosy». Hasepuoe, STOMY HaAO Y'-lVlTbCfI BceM HaM.

Ilonasaare «Haao» B ofieprxe BKYCHOro «X04Y»

Bonuretiuue aaneuo-noi 6a6bl TOHLt1

6a6a TOHfI )f(VlBeT B CY3AaJle VI ace BblXOAHble ropryer y Ll,epKBVI nOKpoBa npecBflToVr 60rOpOAVlLI,bl: nponaer aonureoaue saneHO'-lKVI. CyseHVlpbl. napa MaJleHbKVlX BaJleHOK - CTO py6JleVr, o6eper Vl3 ose-rsea urepcru - TpVlALI,aTb py6JleVr. Ee 6V13Hec ycneweH, nOTOMY '-ITO see 3HaIOT: 6a6a TOHfI onexaer ceMb AeTCKVlX AOMOB BJlaAVlMVlPCKOVr 06JlaCTVI. AJlfl uee TaM ace - BHYl.!aTa.

-Bec» MOM TOBap nOMeL1.(aeTCR B sTY ManeHbKYIO CYMOllKy. Ho ecnn 51 npO,D,aM ece, -tro Y MeHR B 3TOM cyuooce, Bbl neeeonoe Y,D,UBUTeCb, 51 O,D,eHY He MeHee 20 netniue« ,D,eTCKOro ,D,OMa».

Y Hee )f(VlBble rnasa VI BAYM'-lVlBafl, O'-leHb pa3YMHafl pe% VlHTeJlJlVlreHTHoro -renosexa. Ew,e 6bl: AO neHCVIVI OHa 6blJla sa-ransHVIKOM OTAeJla HVlVl. 0 BaJleHKaX roBOPVlT peaJlVlCTVI'-lHO:

«3TO HeUHTepeCHaR, Y,D,PYlIalOL1.(aR ceoea 6eCTOnKOBOCTblO oerore. Ecm« 6bl OHa He npnnocnne MHe TaKoM ,D,OXO,D" He nouorene C cnporetan, MHe 6bl OHa 6bma rstxene. Ho TaK KaK OHa Bce-TaKU nouoreer nlO,D,RM, aouoreer CUpOTaM, 51 aKKypaTHeHbKO BanRIO U BanRIO ... »

AeHb sa AHeM, no nsrs nap B AeHb - '-lT06bl nOTOM B BblxOAHbie CTOflTb, Ha Mop03e roproaare, a nocne no Mara3V1HaM OTOBapasarscs VI Kop06KVI C nOAapKaMVI pa3B03V1Tb no AeTCKVlM AOMaM.

Hy, Kop06KVI COBceM raxenue, TYT noraoraior pOAHbie neTVI VI BHyKVI.

Ho 6a6y TOHIO JlI06f1T He aa TO, '-ITO OHa cHa6)f(aeT nerea onexAOVr VI CJlaAKVlMVI CPPYKTaMVI. OHa - aceotiuiaa 6a6YWKa, KOTOpas 3HaeT scex nOVlMeHHO, KOTOPYIO )f(AyT, nns KOTOPOVr ycrpaVlBalOT AeTCKVle CneKTaKJlVl, paAVI KOTOPOVr AeTVI XOTflT y'-lVlTb CTVlXVI VI paav-uisars TaHLI,bl. B AeTCKVlX AOMax 6a6a TOHfI He

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npOCTO rOCTb, B WyrKY ee 3AeCb uaasraaior peBH30pOM: OHa 3anpOCTO MO)l(eT HaBeAaTbC5I 6e3 noenvnpexaeuas, H ecnn 4TOTO He TaK, xonOAHa51 ena B rapenxax HnH AeTCKa51 OAe)I(Aa He orrnaxeua, - OHa, npa acea csoea A06pOTe, Mon4aTb He 6YAeT. VI ee cnyuraior, POHO 06bl4HO 3BOHHT nocne ee BH3HTOB: «KaK AHTOHHHa [lerpoaua? ,lJ,oBonbHa nH OHa BaMH?»

«)f(M3Hb torus KOHLfaeTCfI, «orae Tbl npespeiueeun, ,lJ.enen. ,lJ.06po M 3a60TMTbcfI 0 nions»: Toms Tbl y){(e He ){(Meeiue: 3a'leM Tbl HY){(Ha? EcnM fI B STOT ,lJ.eHb HMKOMY HM«ero xopouiero He cnenene, fI ,lJ.YMalO: «,lJ,a 50){(e Moill, ,lJ.a 50r MeHfI uexexer! 3a'leM see OH ,lJ.an MHe STOT ,lJ.eHb?» ,lJ,a){(e ecnn Bbl unuero He KynMTe, HMLfem He nouotioerere, a TOnbKO nOCTOMTe Pfl,lJ.OM co MHO ill XOTb O,lJ.HY MMH}'TY, Y esc 06f13aTenbHO cnY'IMTCfI 'ITO-TO npnnrnoe. nOLfeMY? Bac vnnenster, a fI 3HalO nO'leMy. nOTOMY 'ITO Bbl CTOMTe Pfl,lJ.OM C caMoill60raTOiII M CLfaCTflMBOill6a6YWKoill!»

6a6e TOHe 83 rona, AeTCKHM AOMaM OHa novoraer y)l(e COPOK ner, ,lJ,n51 AHTOHHHbl Flerpoeuu MaKapOBOVI )l(H3Hb - 04eHb npoCTa51 H nOH5ITHa51 eeuis, ,LJ,enaVi Ka)I(AblVi AeHb A06po, 3a60TbC5I 0 nIOA5IX - oro H ecrs HaCT05lw,a5l, CaMa51 npaewrsaas )l(H3Hb.

C -rero Ha4HHaeTC5I npaewnsuas )l(H3Hb? OHa Ha4HHaeTC5I C 3a- 60TnHBOCTH, paAOCTH H BAYM4HBOCTH, TO ecrs MOMeHTa, xorna 4enOBeK npocsmaercs, BKnlO4aeT ronoay H Ha4HHaeT AYMaTb. ,LJ,aBaViTe 06 STHX aeuiax nOAYMaeM BMeCTe.

3a6oTm.BOCTb

)KH3Hb CTaHOBHTC5I npaaanssoa rorna, xorna Mbl Ha4HHaeM 6blTb 3a60TnHBbIMH.

5b1Tb 6e33a60THbiM - 3aMe4aTenbHO, HO 6e33a6oTHa51 )l(H3Hb B03MO)l(Ha TonbKO rorna, xorna 0 Te6e 3a6oTHTOSi KTO-TO APYroVi. 6e33a6oTHoe AeTCTBO AapHTCs:! AeT5IM 3a6oTnHBblMH H

IlI06S1W,HMH pOAHTen5lMH. 6e33a60T- KTO-TO APyroi1

HblVi omYCK ceronas 6YAeT ronsxo Y roro, KTO n03a60THnC5I 0 HeM s-repa. 5e33a6oTHblVi MO)l(eT 6blTb YAa4nHBbIM, HO vcneuieu, ecepsea ycneweH - TonbKO 3a6oTnHBblVi 4enOBeK.

EcnH Mbl XOTHM 6blTb ycnewHblMH, HaM HY)I(HO Y4HTbC5I6bITb 3a- 60rnHBbIMH, H XopOWO, 4TO STO He 04eHb CnO)l(HO. BHa4ane - npOCTO n03a60THTbC5I 0 ce6e. nocne STOro - n03a60THTbC5I 0 CBoeM 6YAyw,eM, BeAb OHO)l(e CTaHeT TBOHM HaCT05lw,HM, Aa? Ilocne STOro - n03a60THTbCSI 0 POAHblX H 6nH3KHX, H TOT, KTO YMeeT 3a60THTCs:!, nenaer STO C YAOBonbCTBHeM. Korna Tbl CTaHOBHWbCs:! 60nbwHM, CHnbHblM H 60raTblM, no XOAY )l(H3HH OKa- 3b1BaeTCs:! YMeCTHblM H npH5ITHbIM n03a60THTbCs:! 06 OKpY)I(alOW,HX. A xorna Ha4HHaeWb AYMaTb 0 CMbIC-

ne )l(H3HH, TO OKa3bIBaeTCs:! eCTeCTBeHHO He06xOAHMbiM n03a60THTbCs:! 0 rex, KTO npnner B :3TY )l(H3Hb nocne Te651.

3a6oHITbCfI - eCTeCTBeHHO

CBeT H CnOKOMCTBHe paAOCTH

YMHas. 3a6oTnHBOCTb

YcnY)f(f7l1BbIM uype« onecnee epere.

M.A. Kpunoe

'aa60Tm-1BQCTb nonxaa 6blTb YMHOVI. HeYMHa51 3a60Ta He panver, a paaapaxaer, Vl3m-1WH5I5I 3a6OTa orpanars AeTeVi OT T5IrOT )l(H3HH eocnarusaer rnonea, KaK pa3 K )l(H3HH He rOTOBbIX. KaK HaViTH :3TY Mepy 3a60TnHBOCTH, HY)I(HblVi CTHnb 3a60TnHBOCTH? TyT HY)I(Ha ronosa, HY)I(eH yM: Ha6mOAaTenbHOCTb, onsrr pasMplwneHHVI, YMeHHe nenars BbIBOAbl. Hacroauias, npasansaaa 3a60TnHBOCTb - :3T0 He npOCTO HCKpeHHOCTb AyweBHoVi Tenno-

. Tbl, STO ew,e pesvnsrar 06Y"IeHH5I H nOBbIWeHH5I KBanHcpHKa-

U,Hlt1, STO onsrr H nporpeccaoaannara.

Me)I(AY Bpa"lOM xonOAHOBaTbIM, HO npocpeCCHOHMbHblM - H CepAe"lHbIM, HO nnoxo 06Y"IeHHbIM, 51 Bbl6epy, cxopee, Ka"leCTBeHHoro npooecceoaana. nOTOMY "ITO 3a60TnHBblVi AHneTaHT MO)l(eT KorAa-TO OKa3aTbC5I 6eCnOMow,HbIM, a KorAa-TO H np5lMO HaBpeAHTb, npocro B cnny OTCYTCTBH5I H~HbIX 3HaHHVI H KBanHcpHKau,HH, B TO BpeM5I KaK HaCT05lw,HVI npocpeCCHOHM He xarrrypnr, a neno csoe 3HaeT acerna.

3a60Ta - STO nHHH5I cepnua, npaBHnbHblVi yM nonxea 060raTHTbC5I CepAe"lHOIII 3a60TnHBOCTblO, HO H nHHH5I cepnua nonxHa 6blTb nononaeua nHHHeVi yMa.

"KOMY-TO STO npaumo C AeTCTBa, KorAa-TO STOMY MO)l(HO H Y"IHTbC5I.

Ha"lHHaeM aaury Y"Ie6y!

Ho 3a60TnHBOCTb - STO He cyernuaaa 03a60"leHHOCTb, STO He rpeaoxaue rnaaa, HaxMypeHHblVi n06 H Hanp5l)l(eHHbie HHTOHaU,HH. CyeTnHBa51 03a60"leHHOCTb KaK pas 6blBaeT y rex, KTO cnHWKOM "IaCTO n03BOn5leT ce6e 6e33a60THocTb, a nOTOM 6eraior, nsrrascs BblnYTaTbC5I H3 npotinera, <oropue caMH xe H C03AanH. CyeTnHBa51 03a60"leHHOCTb - -rauie scero nOBeAeHHe AeMOHCTpaTHBHoe, STO cpnar «51 B npooneue H HY)I(AaIOCb B aaweVi novoum!», HO TaKOVi dinar HHKorAa He nOAHHMeT TOT, KTO 06 OKpY)l(alOw,HX 3a60THTC5I. >KH3Hb CTaHOBHTC5I TpYAHee - XopOWO, 3a60TnHBblVi "IenOBeK CTaHOBHTC5I BHHMaTenbHee H coopauuee. Ecnn ecrs B03MO)l(HOCTb eocnonsaoaarsca nOMOW,blO rex, KTO K STOMY pacnonoxea, - 06513aTenbHo nOMow,b nonpOCHT H novouu.o aocnonsayercs, HO cvera H 03a60"leHHOCTb 3AeCb COBepweHHO HH npu "IeM.

3a60TnHBOCTb - paAOCTHa. 03a60"leHHOCTb - TeMHa H T5IroCTaa. s:J AYMalO, "lTO npaaansaaa )l(H3Hb - paaocrua!

npaBltlflbHaH }f{1tI3Hb - panocrua!

AOfl}f{Ha 6blTb YMHO~

;'depTbl 'IenOBeKa, ycnewHoro B )IOt3HIIt: TeCT

KAK COBEPWEHCTBOBATb CE6s:J

HanIllWL.1Te xepru -renoeexa, vcneun-oro B )l(1II3HIII: 10 -iepr, oco- 6eHHocTeVl, «oropue npeACTaBn5IIOTCfI BaM caMblMIII Ba)l(HblMIII III flpKIIIMIII.,

Ecnlll BaM BAPyr He nOHpaBIIITCfI sauia reus - xaxaa-ro cvrvnas, xpnaaa, - TO, '-tTo6bl ee pa30rHYTb, Bbl pacnparaare cetis. ECTeCTBeHHO. TaK xe, ecnu BaM He snonae HpaBIIITCfI aaura )l(1II3Hb, TO eAIIIHCTBeHHblVi cnoco6 ee nonpaBIIITb - 3TO nonpasan, ce- 65'1. Bawa )l(1II3Hb - OTpa)l(eHllle aauiea nlll'-tHOCTIII, III ...

npaBMflbHO, uoreaenncs,

Ha'-taTb HaAO C ce6f1. Ecnu Bbl )l(IIIBeTe XopOWO, a XOTIIITe ornu-rHO, 3Ha'-tIllT, Bbl XOPOWIIIVl, a HaAO CTaTb - OTnlll'-tHbIM!

Bbf He npOTMB?

Torna - B nyrs!

3TO He CnO)l(HO, III BaWIII peavnsraru 1113y'-tIllTb BaM AeVlCTBIIITenbHO 6YAeT IIIHTepeCHO: n03TOMy HaVlAIIITe py'-tKY III TYT xe, B KHlllre (sapaaar > Ha OTAenbHOM nncrxe) uanaunrre 10 caMblX Ba)l(HblX Ha eaui samsn -iepr III ocooeuaocrea vcneun-oro -renoaexa.

Henniunte - BaM 3TO nOHpaBMTCH, B STOM ecre CMbfCfl.

npaBlI1nbHO nOCTaBneHHOe MblWneHlI1e

MaHeKeHw,IIILJ,aM CTaBflT nOXOAKY, nnOBLJ,aM - rperiox, 60Kcepy - vziap. TO'-tHO TaK xe Ka)I(AOMY 1113 Hac MO)l(HO nOCTaBIIITb MbIWneHllle.

MblwneHllle - 3TO He npocro re-reune MblcneVi no npOBOAY npoIIIcxoAflw,ero. MblwneHllle - 3TO paoora, «oropaa nonxaa nasars npOAYKT III ABlllraTb saury )l(1II3Hb snepen. LJTo6bl y'-tIllTbCfI TaKOMY - npOAYKTIIIBHOMY, pa60'-teMY - MblwneHIllIO, cnenaare OAHO rnooonsrraoe ynpaxueuae.

CnaclII60.

Tenepi, 1113y'-taeM, '-tTO nony-utnocs.

Cxopee scero Bbl Han III can III O'-teHb npaeunsuue aeuia. Flpoeepars 3TO nerxo: nOKa)l(IIITe eaui cnucox APyrOMY YMHOMY '-tenOBeKY III cnpOCIIITe: «MO)l(HO nlll CKa3aTb, '-tTO 3TO '-tepTbl vcneuraoro -rencaexa?» Ecnlll YMHblVi senoae« He 3aXO'-teT YMHIII'-taTb, OH npOCTO cxaxer: «,D.a». ,D.a, Bbl pa3YMHblVi -renoee«, Bbl uanacana see npaeansao.

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Ho: MHOr03HaHllle YMa He npatiaenaer. n03TOMY - cneAYIOw,lIIe aonpocu K sauieray cnucxy.

nOMeTbTe nnlOCOM re nYHKTbl, HanWU1e KOTOPblX 3aBMCMT nW·IHO OT aac, a He npIIIXOA5IT C B03paCTOM IIInlll Aap5lTC5I -ienoBeKY OT npaponu, MIIIHYCOM OTMeTbTe TO, '-ITO OT Bac 3aBIIICIIIT Mano: TO, '-ITO Bbl C'-IIIITaeTe cxopee BpO>KP,eHHbIMIII Ka'-leCTBaMIII -renoaexa.

K npIIIMepy, «aaueneaaocrs Ha pesynsrar» (BMeCTO pacceauaoro 6nY>KP,aHIII5I) Bbl, cxopee, B ce6e exruo-raere caM III , npupona 3AeCb Hili npn '-IeM. Ecna xe B saurev cnacxe ecrs nYHKTbl «MYAPOCTb» IIInlll «xapaswa», neno npyroe:

MYAPOCTb 06bl'-lHO npaxoznrr (IIInlll He npuxoAIIIT) npocro C B03paCTOM, xapusraa nunepa -iauie Aaplt1TC5I C pO>KP,eHlt151: nlt160 OHa ecrs, nlt160 OHa ecrs He Y Bac.

CTPOro roBOPfI, xapVl3Ma pa3BVlBaeTCfI TO>Ke, npocro 3TO neno He tiuctpoe VI Hy>KHbl cneunensnue MeTO,ll,VlKVI.

AlAClI,lIInnlllHa - An51 ycneuruoro -renosexa 3TO O'-leHb npaeansao, O'-leHb nOH5ITHO lt1 KOHKpeTHO, HO nanexo He scex 3TO nOH5ITille MOTlt1Blt1pyeT.

VlHTepeCHQ, '-ITO ecnu TO xe cavoe Ha- 3BaTb APyrlt1M cnOBOM, Hanplt1Mep «opraHV130BaHHOCTblO», TO «opraHlt130BaHHOCTb» 06bl'-lHO MOTlt1Blt1pyeT cyw,eCTBeHHO 60nbwe, He)Kenlll «Alt1ClI,lt1nnlt1Ha». «$1 npuy-raio ce651 K Alt1ClI,lII nn III He» - He 3By'-llt1T, a «51 paaaasaio y ce651 opraaus'()BaHHOCTb» - npOIll3HOClt1TC5I COnlt1AHO.

IItToro, nYHKTbl Hawero cnucxa nOMe'-leHbl nrnocava lt1 Mlt1HycaMill. YTO 3TO 3Ha'-llt1T? Bce npocro: '-IeM 60nbwe y eac nnIOCOB, TeM npaaunsuee nocrpoeuo aauie MbIWneHlt1e, TeM ny-uue OHO patioraer Ha eac. C APyroll1 CTOPOHbl, '-IeM 60nbwe y sac Mlt1HyCOB, TeM fionsuie Mlt1HyCOB eaurevv MblwneHllllO, eauievv (He)YMeHllllO III npIIIBbl'-lKe AYMaTb.

60nee 15 Mlt1HyCOB - COBceM ne-iansao, uaneiocs, 3TO K BaM He OTHOClt1TC5I.

OT 10 AO 15 - '-IIIITaIl1Te peKOMeHAall,1II1II nansure, paoorars C MblWneHlt1eM Heo6xoAIIIMO.

OT 5 AO 10 - uennoxo, '-Ilt1TaIl1Te peKOMeHAall,lt1lt1 nansuie, coeepureucreoaars csoe MblwneHllle scerna nonesuo.

MeHee 5 - n03APaBn5l1O, Bbl C rpOM8AHbIM lt1HTepecoM npo-urraere peKoMeH,LJ,all,V1lt1 nanee lt1 nOIl1MeTe, '-ITO Bbl acernanenanaero pausuie lt1 nnaanpyere nenars 3TO ecerna,

x c{PIA3MA opATo?A c AeTcT~4

Aanee. nOMeTbTe HOBbIMlt1 nrnocava Te xa-recrea, «oropue Bbl YMeeTe pa3BMBaTb, C KOTOPbIMlt1 Bbl YMeeTe paoorars. Mlt1HYcaMIII - «a-recrsa, xoropue paasuears He YMeeTe, K KOTOPblM Y Bac HeT MeTOAlt1Klt1 pa3Blt1Tlt151.

KaK paaausars «'-IYBCTBO IOMopa» III «YAa'-lnlt1BOCTb», Bcepses 51 He 3HalO. Ecnn Y sac TaK)Ke HeT 3cj:>cj:>eKTlt1BHbIX MeTOAIIIK, CTaBbTe Mlt1HyC. A BOT K «CIIICTeMHOMY MblwneHllllO» Y MeH5I ecrs MeTOAlt1Klt1, lt1rpbllt1 ynpa)KHeHlt151, «oropue raxoe MblWneHlt1e pa3Blt1BaIOT, lt1 51 rOTOB noverars 3TOT nYHKT nnIOCOM.

lit nocnenuee. nOCTaBbTe nruocu P5lAOM C nYHKTaMlt1, «oropue sac BooAyweBnSlIOT, MOTMBMPYIOT, xoropere Bbl3blBalOT Y sac xenaHlt1e IIIX aapatiaruaars. Mlt1HYCOM nouersre nYHKTbl cnacxa, KOTOpue Bbl pa3BIIIBaTb ensa nlll 6YAeTe - '-IepTbl nlt1'-1HOCTIII, K KOTOPblM Bbl paBHOAywHbl IIInlt1, 60nee roro - OHlt1 auaueaor Y sac npOTeCT.

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Bew.M npaBMnbHble - M Te, xoropsre pa60TalOT

«Mlt1HYC» HanpOTIIIB roro lt1nlt1 lt1HOrO nOH5ITlt151 aua-urr, '-ITO 3TO nOH5ITlt1e - He patio-ree, An51 )Klt13Hlt1 - nYCToe. 3m lt1Hcj:>opMall,lt151, C KOTOPOIl1 He nOH5ITHO '-ITO nenars, 6YAeT nexars B saurea ro-

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nose Ps:lAOM C APyn,1MII1 TaKII1MII1)Ke He pa604l11MlI1 3HaH 1I1s:1 Mill , Bbl npn STOM 6YAeTe CTaHOBII1TbCs:I see 60flee YMHblMII1 111 see 60flee HeycnewHblMII1 B )K1I13HII1.

Ionosa - npenver cfla6blH, Afls:l 3arpY3KlI1 II1HTeflfleKTyaflbHblM MyCOPOM B 60flbWlI1X 06beMax He npacnocooneua.

Mbl3HaeM MHoro npaaansaux aeuiea, HO B )K1I13HII1 aaxaee He npaBlI1flbHble aeuia, a Te, xoropue pa60TaIOT: Ha Hac 111 Afls:l Hac. KOHcTaTaLl.II1s:1 cpaKTa - STO nvcruunca, STO He patioraer; To, 4TO 3aBlI1ClI1T He OT Hac, 4TO HenOHs:lTHO KaK pa3BII1BaTb, 4TO Hac He eoonyuiesnaer - see STO MepTBble, nycrue, He pa604l11e Afls:l Hac 3HaHII1s:1.

B }fU13HH saxnee

He npaeansuue BelL\H, a re, xoropue pa60TalOT

$:j xoma-ro aaaarepecoeancs MeTOAII1KaMII1 npaaansaoro nuraHlI1s:1. Hauien yMHylO KHII1)KKY YMHoro npocpeccopa, npo-urran ee BHII1MaTeflbHO 111 nouien, KaK 06b14HO, aanaaars B KlI1ns:lTOK Ms:lCHOH 6blcTpocyn.

Beru. 3TO 6blCTPO 111 cbel1.06HO, ns?

npocpeccop Hanll1Cafl see YMHO 111 npaennsao, HO Ha MOIO )K1I13Hb STO He noanasno HII1KaK. A nOTOM s:I aasn B pyKII1 HOBYIO KHlI1ry BflaAII1MlI1pa nbBOBlI14a neBII1 «Paaroaop B nIl1CbMax», norpvaancs B ero )KII1BOe 111 rpeneruoe nOBeCTBOBaHlI1e, nocne -iero Y)Ke rpnnuars ner Ms:lCa ce6e Ha anopoase - He eM. npll1 STOM COBepweHHO He YTBep>KAalO, 4TO STO npaaansuo. CaM B.n. (Mbl C HII1M rorna )KlI1flll1 Ps:lAOM) KaK-TO CKenTlI14eCKlI1 npoKOMMeHTlI1pOBafl MOIl1 BOCTOprll1: «Kona, «orna s:I nucan STY KH 111 ry, MHe npocro Heflb3s:1 6blflO xyurars MHOrll1e npOAYKTbl, nOSTOMY s:I TaK CMa4HO 06 STOM 111 nucan, cara ceos nyras nocfleACTBlI1s:1MII1!»

KHlI1ra neBII1 He 6blfla 060CHOBaHa CTpOrll1MII1 HaY4HblMlI1 cpaKTaMill, OHa 6blfla cxopee BAOXHOBeHHa, KaK CTII1XOTBOpeHlI1e, 111 noSTOMY II1MeHHO ee COAep)KaHlI1e CTaflO - pa604111M. AeHCTBeHHbIM.

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KaK MblcnMTb npaBMnbHO

npaBlI1flbHO MblCflll1Tb - STO 3Ha4l11T MblCflll1Tb 0 4eM HaAO, xorna HaAO 111 KaK HaAO. A STO 3Ha4111T:

npMY"IaMT~ ce6H MblcnMTb KOHKpeTHo.

ccPa60Ta HaA C060H», «YflY4weHVle ceos» , «vlcxopeueuae CBOVIX HeAocTaTKoB» - cnosa KpaCII1Bble, HO 06bl4HO aa HVlMVI HVl4ero He CTOVIT. V1 TOT, KTO TaKVlMII1 CflOBaMVI noneayercs, -rauie ecero ion4eTCs:I aa OAHOM MeCTe.

«BCTaBaHTe, rparpl Bac >KAYT BeflVlKVle nenal», «YTpO Ha4V1HaeTCs:I C 3aps:lAKII1», «Beran - y6pafl nocrane», «Bsuuen 1113 AOMa - pacnpaBlI1fl nfle4111» - Bew.VI npOCTble 111 KOHKpeTHble. V1 nonssa OT TaKVlX MblcneH, AeflbHblX pacnopsxeHII1H caMOMY ce6e, - 60flbwas:l.

'peKPalJ.48MTe rpY3MTb ce6H pa3MblW-

MblCllHT nOHflTHflMH, xoropue pa60TalOT.

ABHralOT ero

neHMHMM 0 TOM, "ITO aac HM K "IeMY He npaaener.

He 3aBOAlI1Te 06 STOM paarcsop, He VlAVITe K TeM flIOAs:lM, rne STill paarosopu B03HVlKHYT, He 4V1TaHTe TO, 4TO aac K STII1M pa3Mb1WfleHVls:lM nOATOflKHeT. 3aHMlI1Te ce6s:1 4eMTO npOCTblM VI noneauuv.

Hanpll1Mep, ,lJ.f1f1 eec B 6nll1>Kauwee BpeMfi 3TO: ... LfTO?

AYMaMTe 0 TOM, 0 "IeM AYMaTb CeM"IaC HaAO.

ECflll1 nepen rnaaajaa y eac ecrs flIl1CTOK, KYAa Bbl sanacusaere nena npencrosuiero AHs:I, ace CTaHOBVlTCs:I npow.e - eac oprauaaver STOT nenosoa flIl1CTOK. ECflVl Y Bac APy3bs:l - AeflbHble flIOAVI, saure MblWfleHVle opraaaayior sauna APY3bs:l. Ps:lAOM C HVlMVI Bbl scerna Ha4V1HaeTe paaMblWfls:lTb 0 xopoweM. 0 HY)KHOM.

,ll,YMaHTe TaK, 4T06bl npVlHTVI K peaynsrarara, xoropue sac noPBAYIOT VlflVl 6YAYT BaM nOfle3HblMII1.

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KaK 3TO?

8w6op cz,paHKJU1Ha

B 3TO~ KHlt1re 51 C YAOBOnbCTBlt1eM 6YAY 3HaKOMlt1Tb BaC C mOAbMlt1, KOTOPblX YBa>KalO CaM lt1 xoropue euausaor YBa)K,8Hlt1e OKpY>KalOw,lt1X. TaKlt1X nlOAe~ MHoro, HO ny-uue rosopare 0 nIOA5IX lt13BeCTHbIX.

6eHA>KaMlt1H ct>paHKnlt1H - 04eHb lt13BeCTHbl~ 4enOBeK.

«nplt16nlt13lt1TenbHO B 1728 rOAY 51 3aMblCnlt1n cMenbl~ lt1 TPYAHbl~ nnau AOCTlt1>KeHlt151 MopanbHoro cosepureucrea, BbiAenlt1B lt13 lt13BeCTHbiX MHe Mopanbi.fbiX nooponerenea rpuaanuar» Ba>KJle~wlt1x. BOT Ha3BaHlt151 3Tlt1X A06pOAeTene~ C COOTBeTCTBYIOW,lt1Mlt1 uacraenetiH5IMlt1:

803Aep>KaHMe. - ECTb He AO npecsuueuaa, nlt1Tb He AO onssHeHlt151.

MOn'faHMe. - rOBOplt1Tb ronsxo TO, "ITO MO>KeT npuuecra nonsay MHe lt1nlt1 APyroMY; lt136eraTb nYCTblX paaroeopos.

nOpSiAOK. - Aep>KaTb ace CBOlt1 aeuia Ha MeCTax; An51 xaxaoro aaH5ITlt151 ecrs ceoe BpeM5I.

PeWMTenbHOCTb. - PeWaTbC5I BblnOnH5ITb TO, "ITO AOn>KHO CAenars: HeYKOCHlt1TenbHO BblnOnH5ITb TO, "ITO peuieuo.

6epe>KnMBOCTb. - Tparurs AeHbrlt1 ronsxo Ha TO, "ITO npuaocar Onaro MHe lt1nlt1 APyrlt1M, TO ecrs Hlt14ero He paCT04aTb.

TpYAon106Me. - He repars BpeMeHlt1 nonycry; 6blTb BcerAa 3aHSlTblM 4eM-nlt160 none3HblM, OTKa3bIBaTbC5I OT acex HeHY>KHbIX Ae~CTBlt1~.

MCKpeHHocTb. - He nplt14lt1H5ITb epenuoro 06MaHa, lt1MeTb 4lt1CTble lt1 cnpaeennnaue MbICnlt1; B paarosope TaK>Ke npanepxaBaTbC5I aroro npaauna.

Flpermonoxav, Bbl 3aAYManlt1Cb 0 ceoea patiore.

Bbl nnaanpyere TaM "ITO-TO MeH5ITb? Bbl Ae~CTBlt1TenbHO nnauupvere TaM "ITO-TO MeH5ITb? Ecnu na, TO AYMa~Te nansure, lt1 0651- sarensuo. Ecnlt1 HeT, TO KOH4a~Te AYMaTb lt1 3a~Mlt1TeCb AenOM.

,lJ,ena y sac ecrs?

Aanee. Pa3Mb1Wn5l51 0 caoea paeoru, Bbl nOAYManlt1lt1 npauina K BbIBOAY, "ITO Bbl cneuaanucr HeBblCOKoro YPOBH5I lt1 enaa nlt1 B 6nlt1>Ka~wee BpeM5I CMO>KeTe 4TO-nlt160 C 3Tlt1M cnenars.

K CO>KaneHlt1IO.

~ paCCTpOlt1nlt1Cb,eCTeCTBeHHO.

nlO60nblTHo: lt1 3a4eM rorna Bbl 06 3TOM nOAYManlt1 TaK? 3TO nOAH5Ino BaM YBepeHHOCTb B ce6e, nOMO)l(eT BaM cnenars Aena, xoropue BaM npeACT05lT? nplt1AYMa~Te, KaK nO-APyrOMY Bbl MO>KeTe AYMaTb 0 ce6e TaK, 4T06bl aepnrs B ce651 lt1 HaY4lt1Tb ce- 651 XOT5I 6bl ManeHbKo~ aeum, KOTOpa51 BaM B aaurea paoore npnronnrca.

HaY4lt1TbC5I ne-iarars AeC5ITblO nansuaraa? npeKpaTlt1Tb onpaBAbIBaTbC5I? YTO-TO ew,e?

3anlt1Wlt1Te 3TOT none3Hbl~ BblBOA aaecs.

A MO)l(HO nOAYMaTb lt1 nplt1H5ITb cepbe3Hbie peWeHH5I. )Klt13Hb-TO sauia OAHa, n04eMY 6bl lt1 Aa?

~ paarasuunsuo HaA TaKlt1M cepbe3HbiM peWeHlt1eM:

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CnpaBe~vntBOCTb. - He npll1'-lIl1HSlTb HII1KOMY BpeAa, He COBepuiars uecnpaeennaaocrea 111 He onycxars Ao6pblX nen, KOTOpue BXOASlT B '-lll1cno TBOIl1X 06Sl3aHHOCTelll.

YMepeHHOCTb. - 1t136eraTb KpaIllHOCTelll; CAep)KII1BaTb, HaCKonbKO Tbl c-urraeurs 3TO YMeCTHbIM, '-lYBCTBO 06l11Abi OT Hecnpaeennaeocrea.

'"IHcTOTa. - He AonycKaTb renecsoa He'-lIl1CTOTbl; coomonare onpSlTHOCTb B onexne 111 )KlI1nll1w.e.

CnoKoMcTBHe. - He BonHOBaTbCSl no nycTSlKaM 111 no nOBoAY 06bl'-lHblX II1nll1 He1l136e)KHb1X cnysaee.

LJ.enoMYAPHe. - Ilpenaaarsca nlO6oBHbiM vrexav He '-laCTO, ronsxo paAII1 anopoass ana np0ll13BeAeHlI1Sl nOTOMCTBa, HII1KOrAa He nenars 3TOro AO oryneHII1Sl, II1CT0w.eHII1Sl, a TaKxe B yw.ep6 csoea ana '-l~OIll penYTau,II1I11.

CMHpeHHe. - nOApa)KaTb It1I11CYCY 111 COKpary».

npOBeAII1Te 3KCnepIl1MeHT, OnpOCII1Te nenosux nlOgelll, co6CTBeHHlI1KOB 111 PYKOBogll1Tenelll npegnpll1SlTII1I11, '-lTO OHII1 60nee scero ueusrt B CBOIl1X xonnerax, YcnblWII1Te paaaoe, HO nsa nYHKTa 6ygYT ecrpe-rarsca -iauie npyrax: «genbHbllll» (npyroe Ha3BaHlI1e - «npooeccaouan») 111 «npeAcKa3yeMbllll». LJTO 3TO raxoe? 3TO npyroe Ha3BaHille nopSlgO'-lHOCTII1. Ecnu Bbl veepenu B gelllcTBII1SlX naprueoa, vsepeau, '-lTO OH eac He Kill HeT, - napruep npencKa3yeM. It1 3TO O'-leHb u,eHII1TCSl.

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rtopSlgO'-lHble, OTBeTCTBeHHble, aatiornnaue 111 nlO6Slw.lI1e nlOgll1

HMelOT CBOIO, anonue peansayio )K1I13HeHHYIO ycneun-ocrs aa cYeT roro, '-lTO II1X YBa)KaIOT, ueusr 111 nlO6SlT oxpvxaoume. 3a ~~X MOrYT nopy-urrsca 111 nars xpenar, II1X BblpY'-laT gpY3bSl, 111M rl'Elr'-le HalllTII1 CBOIO ruoooae, y HII1X asrpacraior aaue-rarensuue

i~TII1. OHII1 )KII1BYT B nagy C co60111 111 caoea COBeCTblO, a 3TO - "'~oro. MO)KeT 6blTb, no 3TOIII )Ke npll1'-lIl1He y HII1X II1CKpeHHlI1e 'YJlb16KII1I11 xopowee anoposse.

tttkSlTb -iepr vcneumoro -renoeexa, xoropue, MO)KeT 6blTb, 111 AJlSl SaC CTaHYT npll1BneKaTenbHblMII1 111 pa60'-lIl1MII1 nOHSlTII1SlMII1, 3TO:

1. Teno anopoaoe H 3HeprWIHoe.

2. Panocraoe BocnpHSITHe >KH3HH. Xopowo. ConHbIWKO. He ruuuarsl n03l11TlI1B 111 3Heprll1Sl.

3. '"IYBCTBO APyroro. 5=1 He nyn 3eMnll1, a nOBepHYT K nlOgSlM. Bcerna BII1)KY, cnsnuy 111 '-lYBCTBYIO nlOgelll PSlgOM C C0601ll, crapaioce nOHII1MaTb II1X TaK xe XOpOWO, KaK '-lYBCTBYIO ce6Sl.

4. 3a6oTnHBocTb. 5=1 nOMHIO 111 3a6o'-lycb 0 rnonsx sokpyr MeHSl, noraoraio TeM, KTO B Moelll3a6oTe H~aeTcSl.

5. BcerAa B oCMblcneHHoM paeore. ,D,oPO)KY Ka~olll MII1HYTOIII, He 3aHlI1MalOCb nYCTblMII1 pasane-reu II1Sl Mill , ecerna B gene.

6. Haueneaaocre Ha pe3ynbTaT. nOCTaHOBKa uenu, nnaHlI1pOBaHlI1e, OTBeTCTBeHHoe II1CnOnHeHlI1e, TO'-l-

Hasepaoe, 3TO Cnll1COK He nperesnyer Ha YHII1BepcanbHOCTb 111 nonoaner He MHOrIl1M, HO AJlSl Ha'-lIl1HalOw.ero )K1I13Hb 22-neTHero 6eHa <bpaHKnIl1Ha OH 6bln pa60'-lIl1M 111 HY)KHbIM. Bbl auaere, '-lTO 6eHp)I<aMII1H <bpaHKnll1H cran OgHII1M 1113 caMblX YBa)KaeMbiX ruoAelll B csoea crpaue.

AeCSlTb ~epT ycnewHoro ~enOBeKa

nnaH MopanbHoro COBepweHCTBa 111 Cnll1COK Ba)KHeIllWII1X go6- pogeTenelll- 3TO He TO)Ke cauoe, '-lTO '-lepTbl senoaexa, ycnewaoro B )K1I13HII1. ECTeCTBeHHO, '-lTO y eac Cnll1COK 6ygeT gpyrll1M, 60nee nenoauu, XOTSl ensa nll1 npaaunsao COBceM ornensm, )K1I13HeHHYIO ycneursocrs OT roro, '-lTO OTHOCSlT K MOpanll1, 3TlI1Ke 111 -ienoae-recxoa nopSlgO'-lHOCTII1.

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uas KOppeKTlllpOBKa. LJ,enb nocraaneaa - uens 6YAeT nocrarayra,

7. n031i1LtlilH LtlilBlilnlil30BaHHoro nlilAepa. s:J He )f(JJ.Y III OTBe4alO KOMY-TO, a <t>OPMIIIPYIO III nenaio cara, s:J CTaHOBmOCb nlilAepOM, 4T06bl 60nbwe cnenars III noM04b nlOAfiM.

8. YCTaHoBKa Ha COTPYAHIil'4ecTBo. BMecTe MO)l(HO cnenars 60nbwe, 4eM OAHOMY. nY4WIIIIII BbllllrpblW, xorna BbllllrpblBalOT see. s:J pan, xorna Mbl 60raTeeM ace BMeCTe.

9. nOpHAO'4HOCTb. s:J He nOABO)l(Y nlOAelll, ziepxy cnoBO, BblnOnHfi10 AorOBopeHHOCTIII, C YBa)l(eHllleM OTHOWYCb K xonnerara, He M~Y, He anocnoaruo aa cnlllHOIII, He peuiaio CBOIII np06neMbi aa 4Y)I(Olll C4eT. LJTO 6bl fI Hili nenan, «onn-recrso A06pa B Mlilpe AOn)l(HO vaenu- 4111BaTbCfI.

10. BcerAa B pa3BIiITIiIIiI. Haxorna He CTOIO Ha MeCTe, MeHfllOCb 6blCTPO III C YAOBonbCTBlileM. Pa3BIIITlile - MOIII eCTeCTBeHHbl1ll cnocof cyuiecrsoaaaaa,

Cnncox - He AorMa, a cnocoo ce6f1 oprasaaoears, Euie paa nOAYMalllTe HaA TeM, 4TO Bbl Hanncana AO STOro, conocrassre C STIIIM, npennO)l(eHHblM BaM, cnIllCKOM, III nplllMIilTe peweHlilfl CBOIil. nOAOIIIAIilTe K BonpOCYTBop4eCKIII, III COBepweHHO He 06f13aTenbHO, 4T06bl B cnuc«e 6blno IIIMeHHO necars nYHKTOB ... Ba)l(HO, 4T06bl B pesynsrare Bbl ocraaoaanacs Ha TOM, 4TO eac paayer, K 4eMY BaM X04eTCfI B03Bpauiarscs, III 4T06bl Y)I(e cea-rac nocrasana ce6e XOTfi 6bl OAHY KOHKpeTHYIO 3aAa4Y.

«s:J 6YAY paoorars HaA ... » «Ha4HY TorAa-TO ... » «nepBbllll MOIII war 6YAeT ... »

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BnaAIiIMlilp KnIilHKOB

C AenOBblMIil nlOAbMIII roeopurs 0 nlO6BIII III nopsno-u-ocra He acerna npOCTO. Ho - IIIHTepeCHO.

BnaAIIIMlilp 'KnIllHKOB, npoxons Y MeHfI 06Y4eHllle, nenan STO Ka4eCTBeHHO, KaK III ece, 4TO OH nenan, YcneWHbllll1ll3AaTenbCKIIIIII 61113Hec, cBo60AHoe 3HaHlile urecru fl3bIKOB, YMeHllle CTaBIIITb III nocrarars Ll,enlll ... - OH 6bln BnepeAIil BO ecev. QTnlll4HO aaxpun see OCHOBHble usera Y4e6Horo xvpca «,D,IIICTaHLI,lIIfI», no Y4eTY III nnaaupoea-nno BpeMeHIII noxaaan npoCTO <t>eHOMeHanbHble peaynsrarsr, Hapa60TaB cnoc06HOCTb OT4111TbiBaTbCfI 3a pesynsrar Ka)f(JJ.blX 2 (ABYX!!) MIIIHYT csoea )l(1II3HIII.

,D,OCTOVIHO!

lt1 BAPyr - ynepnlllcb. nOcneAHee ynpaxuenne «,D,lIIcTaHLI,IIIIII» - «nI06oBb». «Ecnu 6bl fI mo6l11n, KaK 6bl fI OTHOClllnCfI K ce6e, K nlOAflM, K seuiav, K )l(1II3HIII ... » lt1 BnaAlIIMlilp saaan sonpoc: «3a- 4eM? 3a4eM MHe nlO6l11Tb? KaKolII AJlfl MeHfI CMblcn B STOM ynpa)l(HeH III III ?»

Ecnn BnB/1,II1MlI1p seaeeen eonpocu, OHII1 6blnll1 He cny,-/aMHbl, XOPOwo npo.ayMaHbl.

,D,nfl npyrax xypca-rroe «,ll,lIIcTaHLI,IIIIII» nOA06Horo aonpoca He cvuiecrsoeano. Qc06eHHO 6yweBanlil )l(eH~IIIHbl: «KaK 3a4eM? Hy KaK)I(e 6e3 nI06BIII?! Tonsxo ecnn mo6l11Wb, )l(1II3Hb CTaHOBIIITCfI npeKpaCHOIII, aanonuaercs HaCTOfl~IIIM CMblcnOM!" BnaAIIIMIilP 6bln pOBeH, cnoxoeu, paccynareneu: «Ynpaxaeaae «XoPOWO» fI orpatioran, aacrpoeaue acerna n03111TIIIBHoe, sonpoCOB 0 CMblcne )l(1II3HIII y MeHfI He CTO III T. Bo06~e nlll4Hafl )l(1II3Hb MeHfI IIIHTepecyeT Mano, a 3a4eM H~HO mo6111Tb B 61113Hece?» 3MOLl,IIIOHanbHbie AOBOAbl paaonaanacs 06 Hero, KaK 0 cxany:

OH 6bln 61113HeCMeHOM III paLl,IIIOHanIilCTOM.

BnaAIIIMlilpy H~Hbl 6blnlll pa3YMHbie AOBOAbl, cepsesaaa apryMeHTaLl,lIIfI. XopOWO, KaK roeopsr ncnxaarpu, «C Ka)f(JJ.blM -ieno-

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BeKOM HaAO roaopars B cpOpMaTe ero 6peAa». To ecrs Ha ero s:l3bIKe. 5=1 npennoxun eMY: «BnaAV1MV1p, AO CV1X nop MOV1 npennO)l(eHV1s:1 6blnV1 AIls:l Te6s:1 BbIrOAHbIMV1, cnenaa V1 3TO - KaK 3KCnepV1MeHT. Tbl TanaHTnV1BbIVl, )l(V1Tb C mo60BblO Y Te6s:1 nonY4V1TCs:I 6e3 60nbworo TpYAa, HeAenlO nponepxnursca. >KV1BV1 C rno- 60BblO, 4epe3 HeAenIOAOnO)l(V1 0 pesynsrarax. ECTb?» - «ECTb!»

BnaAV1MV1p npuuren -iepes ABe HeAenV1 C rnaaaraa, aanonaeuHbIMV1 n1060BblO. «nI060Bb - 3TO serutxonenuo. 5=1 reneps BceVi AYWOVI ruofiruo npV1XOAs:lUJ,V1X KO MHe KnV1eHTOB, C nlO60BblO BeAY neperosopu, oc06eHHO neperosopu TPYAHble, nlO6nlO CBOV1X nOA4V1HeHHbIX V1 xonner, C KOTOPbIMV1 npV1XOAV1TCs:I V1MeTb neno. ,lJ,OKnaAbIBalO: Ha OAHOVI n106BV1 s:I sa nocnen-noio HeAenlO CAe-

nan nonomurrensuo -rerupe TbICs:l4V1 nonnapos, nlO6V1Tb - suronuo. Korna s:I nlOAeVi rnorirno, C HV1MV1 YAaeTCs:I 6bICTpee AorOBapV1BaTbCs:I, KnV1eHTbl 6bICTpee HecYT AeHbrV1, s:I nenaio nena C 60nbweVi OXOTOVI V1 MeHbwe YCTaIO. B KBapTanbHblVi nnaa s:I BKnI04V1n npV1BV1-

TV1e n106BV1 CBOV1M KnlO4eBbiM COTPYAHV1KaM, s:I X04Y, 4T06bl OHV1 roxe Ha4anV1 nI06V1Tb. nlO60Bb - 04eHb nepcnexrneueua pecypc!»

nepcneKnlBHbl~ pecypc!

«C Ka>K/1.blM '1enOBeKOM neno roeoonrs B C/JopMaTe ero 6pe/l,a ... »

'-fTO nenars C HeAOCTaTKaM~: paoora Ha n03~T~Be

Pa3Be 51 He YHMlITO>KalO CBOMX eperoe, Kor,D,a ueneto M3 HMX CBOMX ,D,PY3eill?

ABpaaM flMHKonbH HeAOCTaTKV1 ecrs Y scex, V1 co CBOV1MV1 HeAOCTaTKaMV1 HY)I(HO 60pOTbCs:I.

IJ,a, 3TO npasna.

Ho 3TO npaBAa - He nY4Was:l. .ConOCTaBbTe ABe BeUJ,V1:

AeTM He 60PlOTCR co CBOMMM HeAOCTSTKSMM. AeTM ce6R nI06RT, S K CBOMM oco6eHHOCTRM OTHOCRTCR - C MHTepeCOM.

Hy, onncencn. nnreoecnot A pO/l,MTenfiM nonnenet« - '1To6bl 3aMeHMnM nessneoc.

AeTM PS3BMBSIOTCR6blcTpee, '1eM eapocnsse.

M He noocro 6blCTpee, a eCTeCTBeHHO M C ynoeonscrBMeM.

fr3To BaM 0 4eM-TO rOBopV1T?

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ill~"t-teAocTaTKV1 - 3TO HeAOBonbHoe Ha3blBa;~IHV1e CBOV1X oc06eHHOCTeVi. HpaBV1TCs:I- Ha~~ii':30BeM «OCTOPO)l(HbIVi 4enOBeK», He spa~~V,BV1TCs:I - «Tpycn V1 B bl VI» .

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i;HeAOCTaTKV1 - 3TO npocTO oco6eHHOCTV1

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HeAOCTaTKoM Mbl TaK)I(e Ha3blBaeM TO, '-ITO He YMeeM I-1CnOnb- 30BaTb. Ecnu Bbl Y)I(e HaY'-Il-1nl-1Cb ce6s:1 npenOAHOCI-1Tb, sac 6yAYT C ynbl6Koill uaauaars «OH O'-leHb )1(1-1 BOlli 1-1 YBneKalOw,I-1I11Cs:I», B 60nee npOTI-1BHOM cny-rae aac CO'-lTYT «Hecepbe3HbIM 1-1 ueopraHI-130BaHHbIM». A Bbl - TaKolll )l(e ...

B03MO)l(HO, Mbl AelllCTBI-1TenbHO He cpa- 3Y HaY'-lI-1MCs:I Hal-1nY'-lWI-1M 06pa30M I-1Cnonb30BaTb Bce CBOI-1 oc06eHHOCTI-1:

AeIllCTBI-1TenbHO,HeKOTop~eoc06eHHOCTI-1 pervnspuo 6YAYT npl-1HOCI-1Tb HaM (1-1 OKpY)l(alOw,I-1M) CKopee orop-reuan, He-

3TO He,[lOBOJlbHOe Ha3blBaHIt1e CBOIt1X oc06eHHOCTe~

A reneps - B3rns:lHeM Ha Hero xe, HO «orna neOHI-1A caM CMOTPI-1T Ha ce6s:1 nO-APyroMY: B n031-1TI-1Be. neOHI-1A co- 60111 rOPAI-1TCs:I: OH cnocooaua, nerxo nepeono-raercs, 6blCTPO CXBaTbl.BaeT HOBoe, OTXOA'-II-1B 1-1 YMeeT npl-13Hasare CBOIO HenpaBOTY. B OTHOWeHl-1s:1X HaAe)l(eH 1-1 '-IeCTeH, 1-1 n03ToMY B CBoeM 6YAyw,eM vsepeu: OH cnenaer ece, 0 '-IeM OH Me'-lTaeT. ,lJ,a, OH 3HaeT CBOI-1 oc06eHHocTI-1: KorAaTO 6blBaeT BCnblnb'-lI-1B, I-1HorAa nlO61-1T C YAOBonbCTBl-1eM paccna- 61-1TbCs:I 1-1 AenaeT 3TO He BcerAa BOBpeMs:I. BnpO'-leM, OH '-IaCTO npencrasnaer ce6s:1 BOnnOw,eHI-1- eM scex MblCnl-1MblX AOCTOI-1HCTB, sepnr B ceria, a 6nl-1)1(alliweill aaAa'-lelll CTaBI-1T A06aBI-1Tb ce6e op-

)l(enl-1 paAOCTI-1, HO I-1MeHHO n03TOMY I-1MeeT CMblcn C c060111 AOrOBOpI-1TbCs:I: HeAOCTaTKOB y Hac HeT.

Y Hac ecrs oc06eHHOCTI-1, nOTOMY '-ITO Ka)I(Ab11ll1-13 Hac HenOXO)l( ua npyroro, Vl Hawa sana-ra, C nlO60BbIO 1-1 OTBeTCTBeHHO OTHOcscs K ce6e, K CBOI-1M oc06eHHOCTs:lM, B3s:1B 3TI-1 oc06eHHOCTI-1 sa OCHOBY (APyrl-1x BeAb see paBHO HeT!), pa3BI-1BaTb ce6s:1 nansuie. ,lJ,enaTb ce6s:1 ew,e nv-uue. nOTOMY '-ITO Mbl Y)I(e YHI-1KanbHOe, CnO)l(HOe 1-1 penxoe C03AaHl-1e, HY a nansueauiaa HaCTpOIIIKa, YMeHl-1e Hal-1nY'-IWI-1M 06pa30M I-1CnOnb30BaTb CBOI-1 oc06eHHOCTI-1 - 3TO npaennssaa cnenyiouiaa sana-a.

n03HaKOMbTeCb C neOHI-1AOM: neOHI-1A c060111 HeAOBoneH. OH 3HaeT, '-ITO OH neHI-1B 1-1 HeOpraH1-130BaH, 1-1 He sepur, '-ITO C TaKI-1MI-1 HeAOCTaTKaMI-1 MO)l(eT B )l(1-13HI-1 '-IerO-TO A061-1TbCs:I, naxe ecnu B '-IeM-TO OH 1-1 cnocoouua. KpOMe 3TOro, OH ew,e 1-1 Bcnblnb'-lI-1B, 1-1 eMY 6e3YMHoro CTbIAHO, xorna OH cpsrsaercs Ha CBOI-1X APY3elll. 3TO AelllCTBI-1TenbHO npOCTO Y)I(aCHO. 60nee scero eMY Henpl-1s:1THO, KorAa KTO-TO 06- cvxnaer ero HeAOCTaTKI-1, naxe ecnn nenaer 3TO C xenaHl-1eM eMY nOMO'-lb. MO)l(eT, Y KOro-TO 1-1 nonysaercs ce6s:1 MeHs:lTb, HO He Y Hero: KYAa eMY C ero neuuo 1-1 HeOpraHI-1- 30BaHHOCTblO ... VlHorAa Y Hero B03HI-1KaeT xenaune ew,e pas n060pOTbCs:I C C0601ll, HO Mano aepnr B TO, '-ITO 1-13 3TOro '-ITO-TO BbIIliAeT. LJeM 60nbwe OH BOlOeT CO CBOI-1MI-1 HeAOCTaTKaMI-1, TeM -rauie OKa3blBaeTCs:I B npoarpuure.

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BOlOeTe co CBOIt1MIt1

He,[lOCTaTKaMIt1, TeM vaute okasueaerecs B npoarpsuue

raHI-130BaHHOCTI-1. Korna neOHI-1A CMOTPI-1T Ha ce6s:1 B n031-1TI-1Be, OH pa3BI-1BaeTCs:I ycneumee.

MO)l(HO MeHs:lTb cetis, pacxpsiaaa CBOI-1 AOCTOI-1HCTBa, MO)l(HO - 60Ps:lCb co CBOI-1MI-1 HeAocTaTKaMI-1. 60pb6a C HeAOCTaTKaMI-1 KorAa-TO MO)l(eT 6blTb 1-1 pe3ynbTaTI-1BHOIII, HO -rauie 3TI-1 repoa'-IeCKl-1e cpaxeuus 3aBOAs:lT B Tynl-1K 1-1 npOCTO Man03cpcpeKTI-1BHbl. «CMI-1PI-1TbCs:I CO CBOI-1MI-1 HeAOCTaTKaMw> - 3TO opaaa 1-1 n031-1L.J,1-1s:1 C TeX)I(e nonea cpaxeana, ronsxo Cpa)l(eHI-1111 npourpaHHblx. rOpa3AO I-1HTepeCHee 1-1 napcnexruaaee pa3BI-1BaTb ce6s:1, BI-1As:I CBOI-1 oc06eHHOCTI-1 1-1 OCHOBblBas:lCb Ha CBOI-1X AOCTOI-1HCTBax.

He HaAO 60POTbCs:I co cBoelll pa3Apa)l(I-1TenbHOcTblO, 3Toro BCnOMHI-1Te CBoe cTpeMneHl-1e OpraHI-130BaTb CBOIO )l(1-13Hb. npl-1Y'-IalliTe ce6s:1 nO)l(I-1TbCs:I BOBpeMs:I, YTPo Ha'-lHI-1Te C 60APOIII 3aps:lAKI-1, Hanl-1WI-1Te CBOI-1 aaAa'-ll-1 Ha AeHb 1-1 nO'-law,e ornuxaare - 3TI-1, caMble npocrue aeum, ropaano 6blCTpee AaAYT BaM HY)I(Hbl1ll peaynsrar,

BMeCTO

Pa3BIt1Ba~Te ce651, ,[Iep>Ka nepen rna3aMIt1

CBOIt1 CIt1Jl bH ue CTOPOHbl

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floxa Bbl He IIIMeeTe AOCTaTOYHO can III YMeHIIIIIJ, YTo6bl nerxo MeH~Tb ce6~, IIICnonb3YIIJTe sry MYAPYIO TaKTIIIKY: He YHIIIYTO>KaIlJTe CBOIII HeAoCTaTKIII, 3a1lJMIIIrecs YMHO>KeHllleM CBOIIIX AOCTOIIIHCTB. nepeBec OKa>KeTC~ B saurv nonsay, a aro caraoe rnasuoa.

Ha none saurea BHYTpeHHellJ 60Pb6bl BaM HY>KeH nepesac cnn B aauiy nonsay:

IIIcnonb3YIIJTe An~ sroro TaKTIIIKY «patiora Ha n03I11TIIIBe». KpOMe nepeseoa can, pa- 60Ta Ha n03111TIIIBe AaCT BaM III ropaaao 60nee 6naronplII~THblllJ 3MOl..(1II0HanbHblllJ Q>OH, Oll..\Yll..\eHllle paAOCTIII III YBa>KeHIII~ K ce6e. He H8AO IIIcnpaBn~Tb ce6~ - IIICnpaensnor nnoxoe, a 3TO He npo eac, BaM 60nee nOAOIIJAeT n03111l..(1II~ III B3m~A: «LfTO MHe, KnaCCHOMY, Ao6aBIIITb?» MeH~Tb ce6~ - MO>KHO. K ce6e Ao6aBn~Tb see HOBbie III HOBbie noneaaus yepTbl III AOCTOIIIHCTBa - 3aMeyaTenbHO.

Hy BOT TaK C co6011J III AorOBoplIITecb:

KaK opraHVl30BaTb CBOIO naM5Hb

naM~Tb - OCHOBa HaWellJ >K1II3HIII, III ee HY>KHO TaK>Ke npaeansuo opraaaaosars.

CBOIrI HeAOCTaTKlrI, 3al1MIrITeCb YMHO}f{eHlrleM CBOIrIX

AOCTOIrIHCTB

n.aMRTb BHYTpeHHRR iii BHeWHRR

- Bbl nOMHIIITe onpeneneuae, YTO raxoe naM~Tb?

- KTO Vl3 pOCCVI~H 3aHeceH B KHVlry rlllHHecca aa caMYIO

nyYwylO naM~Tb?

- LfTO Bbl s-repa nenana B 16.30?

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B aacrosuiee BpeM~ BHewHllle HOCIIITenlll H8Ae>KHee, yeM «~ see 3anOMHIO». He HaAo neperpY>KaTb ronoBY: npVlYYIIITe ce6~ ace, YTO HY>KHO, - 3anlllCblBaTb. BHewHlO1O naM~Tb perynspuo HeAOOl..(eHIIIBaIOT, a npu nplIIBblYKe see cpaay 3anncuaan, III opraaaaoeuears ce6~ pac-

Canaa xopouras naMHTb He Y Taro, KTO nOMHIrIT ace

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nJ.'1CaHHeM )t<H3Hb CTaHOBHTCs:l npouie. Pa3BHBaHTe CBOIO BHeWHlO1O naMs:lTb, a Alls:l STOro npHAYMaHTe, KYAa (Ha 4TO) BaM YAo6HO Q:>HKCHpOBaTb MblcnH HAena, npuy4HTe ce6s:l HOCHTb C C060H 6nOKHOT, AHKTOQ:>OH, KnK HnH HOYT6YK (4eM nonsayaTeCb?) H see saxaoe cpaay 3anHCblBaTb.

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3anHCblBaHTe CBOH nnasu: YTPOM nnau AHs:l, nnaHbl HeAenbHble.

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Bbl Y)t<e ns:lTblH paa onaanuaaere ronsxo nOTOMY, 4TO He aasenu 6YAHnbHHK? 6YAbTe nlO6e3Hbl, He 3a6YAbTe, KaK Bbl 6e)t<anH, BblCYHYB s:l3blK H rsxeno nsuua, a nOTOM HenOBKO onpaanusanace. 3TO He caMble npHs:lTHble KapTHHKH, HO OHH nOMorYT BaM B cneAYIO~HH pas C 6YAHnbHHKOM nOAPY)t<HTbCs:l.

Hasepuoe, HeT04HO vraepxnars, 4TO npaeunsaee 3anOMHHaTb

~i.1MeHHo H ronsxo xopowee. Ilpaeansuee - 3anOMHHaTb TO, 4TO HY)t<HO. KaKHe-TO TpYAHble H naxe 60nbHbie Be~H nOMHHTb He- 06XOAHMO, OHH MOrYT nonornurrensao nepxars Hac Ha Kypce naxe B CHnbHblH aerep H He orenexarscs Ha npHs:lTHble Men04H. Ho saute, B 60nbweH CTeneHH HaM oxaasraaerca Hy)t<HbIM noMHHTb paAOCTHoe H csernoe, nOMHHTb 0 rex, Koro Mbl nI06HM, He aatiuears TO, 4TO HaM nO-HaCTOs:l~eMY AOPOro.

Kax xe pa3BHBaTb CBOIO n03HTHBHYIO naMs:lTb, KaK npHY4aTb ce- 651 3anOMHHaTb HMeHHO TO, 4TO Hy)t<HO?

Mbl He 3nonaMflTHble, Y Hac npocro naMflTb xopoius« ...

Cxeeen BOCTO'-IHbIM '-IenOBeK C 6neCKOM B rnesex.

ECTb nIOAH, «oroous ny-uue nOMHs:lT npHs:lTHble BCTpe4H H HHTepecuux nlOAeH, CBOH n03HTHBHblH onsrr, CBOH YAa4H H vcnexu.

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AHeBHMK AOCTOMHCTB. HaI..jHl-1Te Ka)t(AbiCil AeHb nacars AeCSHb CBO~X HOBblX AOCTO~HCTB ~ YMeH~CiI. Ilepssre AH~ 6YAeT CnmKHO, nOTOM euie cnmKHee, a l..jepe3 HeCKonbKO AHeCil nponaoaner ... Hasepaoe, aTO MO)l(HO Ha3BaTb «npocserneuae»: Bbl nOCilMeTe, I..jTO MO)l(eTe paccxaauean, 06 aTOM npocro 6e3 nepepusa.

Bbl npexpacaa, B KaKYIO CTOPOHY H~ noCMOTP~, Bbl YMenbl ~ B TOM, ~ B aTOM ... EcTecTBeHHo, He3al..jeM 06 aTOM paccxasusars TeM, KTO He ~HTepecyeTC5I, HO Bbl aTO npo ce651 caM~ 3HaTb AOn)l(Hbl. 3al..jeM? LJTo6bl npu acrpe-re C HenpocTOCiI 3aAal..jeCil He TOCKn~BO B3AblxaTb: «A I..jTO 51 MOry-TO?», a 6blCTPO BcnOMH~Tb 0 CBO~X c~nbHblX croponax ~ B03MO)l(HOCT5IX. HeT nporineu, ecrs TBOpl..jeCK~e 3aAal..j~ Y rex, KTO BOOpy)l(eH apceHanoM: apceuanou YMeH~CiI. YMHO)l(aCilTe aTOT apceuan no )I(~3H~ ~ Aep)l(~re ero HarOTOBe B csoea naM5IT~.

KHMra, rAe >KMBYT MOM MeLlTbl. 06bll..jHO raxue TeTpaAK~ nenaior ce6e AeT~: P~CYIOT, nuuryr ~ xrteior ce6e ace, I..jTO B~A~TC5I MeI..jTOCil. AeT~ Bo06~e CMenble, OH~ nenaior TO, I..jTO ~M HpaB~TC5I, ~ paapeuiaior ce6e cB060AHO Mel..jTaTb. B3pocnbiM TaK OTKPblTO Mel..jTaTb, nOH5lTHO, CTbIAHO ... Hy ~ He noxaaueaare H~KOMY CBOIO n~I..jHYIO nOA60pKY: nI06~MYIO,6epe)l(HOXpaH~MYIO.

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C~nbHble nnauu pO)t(AaIOTC5I ronsxo ~3 c~nbHOCil Mel..jTbl: CMeno ~ C YAOBonbCTB~eM cpaHTa3~pyCilTe, YBnel..jeHHO pacCKa3blBaCilTe APY3b5lM CBO~ Mel..jTbl, 6epexuo aanacusaare CBO~ Mel..jTbl B TeTpane, KH~)I(KY ~nVl aanaoone-u-ua cpaCiln ... Me-rta )I(~BeT B naM5IT~ TaK xce, KaK B uaurea naM5IT~ MO)l(eT )I(~Tb orsa- 51HVle ~n~ YCTanOCTb. LJTO 3arpY3~M B ce651?

,nOM, B KOTOPOM Bbl 6YAeTe c-racrnaeu, aBTOM06~nb ~MeHHO TaKOCil, 3aKaT - na, OH 6YAeT TaK~M)I(e T~X~M, ~ ee PYKa 6YAeT B Moe~ PYKe, ~ Mbl6YAeM nnerrs aa nOAKe, KOTOPYIO 51 ronsxo I..jTO Hawen B aTOM xypaane ~ HaKnelO Ha aroa crpauuue ...

)l(YPHan ycnexOB. Mbl 3anOM~HaeM TO, Ha I..jTO aanpaanaev

.ceoe BHItfMaH~e. 3al..jeM 3anOM~HaTb CBO~ HeYAal..j~, 3al..jeM <l>I!IKC~pOBaTb aa H~X caoe BH~MaH~e? np~yl..jaCilTe csoe BH~Ma-

... HHe <t>~Kc~pOBaTb Te nosoporu C06bIT~CiI ~ Te sauna AeCilcTB~51, KOTopble poxaaor Y Bac ouiyuieane PaAOCT~, xenaawe ~AT~ snepen ~ I..jTO-TO nenars nansuie. KOHKpeTHO: nOCTaBbTe sanaYY Ka)t(AbiCil AeHb nncars AeC5ITb aaurax YAal..j (HY, TaK cnoxn)'IOCb) ~ AeC5ITb saurax vcnexos (aTO cnenann ~MeHHO au).

A OW~6K~: HY)I(HO n~ nOMH~Tb CBO~ OWItf6K~? CBO~ OW~6K~ nOMH~Tb HY)I(HO, HO Bocnp~H~MaTb IIIX ny-rure no-

APyroMY. Ow~6~a - aTO He nnoxo. 3TO He aerarus. Ow~6Ka - aTO xopowee peuieuae, xoropoe n03)1(e OKa3anOCb He onT~ManbHbIM. It1 KaK ronsxo Mbl aTO

OWH6Ka - xopowee peuieaae, «oropoe n03>Ke OKa3aIlOCb

He onTHMaIlbHblM

nOHfln~, Mbl nOYMHen~. To ecrs - cne-

AYIO~~CiI paa B aHanor~4Ho~ curyauaa nOCTYn~M T04Hee. Hy ~ xopowo. It1 see. A "ITO e~e? ..

OW~6K~ - npoaaanaaaposan, nonoxun B 6YAy~ee. It1 ace.

... tHy BOT, Mbl Y)I(e nepeumu K cneAYIO~eMY B~AY naM5IT~: naM5IT~ ·'6YAy~ero.

naMSlTb npownoro M naMSlTb 6YAy~erO

MOI-1 KOnnerl-1-nCI-1XOnOrl-1, I-1CCneAOBaTenl-1 naM5ITI-1, npennonaraior, "ITO peaepsu HaWelll naM5ITI-1 npaKTl-1lfeCKI-1 Hel-1ClfepnaeMbl. Hauiea ronosu XBaTI-1T, lfT06bl Mbl 3anOMI-1Hanl-1 BCe 1-1 BCerna: 1-1 BOH TOT CnYlfalllHbl1ll paaroaop Ha yn 1-1 ue , 1-1 KOnblXaHl-1e Ka)K,D,OIll BeTKI-1 BOH roro 1-1 rnoooro npyroro nepeea. nOXO)Ke, "ITO 3anOMI-1HaeTC5I BCe, -rero KOrAa-n1-160 XOTb ua CnYlfalliHOe MrHOBeHl-1e KOCHeTC5I HaWe BHI-1MaHl-1e, 1-1 XpaHI-1TC5I Y HaC - Hascerna.

Ho 3TO COBceM He 3Half1-1T, "ITO Y Ka)Knoro 1-13 Hac npexpacuas naM5ITb. To, "ITO Mbl Ha caMOM nene nOMHI-1M, HaM nanexo He scerna nocrvnuo, 1-1 aepenKO npI-1XO,D,I-1TC5I I-1CnOnb30BaTb cneuaanbHble MeTO,D,bl, lfT06bl lfenOBeK BCnOMHl-1n TO, "ITO C HI-1M npOI-1CXO,D,I-1- no, Hanpl-1Mep, MHoro ner Ha3a,D,. 06bllfHO Mbl peansao nOMHI-1M ronsxo TO, "ITO B Hawelll naM5ITI-1 ,D,OcTynHO, TO, "ITO ne)KI-1T Ha He60nbWl-1X nonxax onepaTI-1BHOIll naM5ITI-1.

To, "ITO ne)KI-1T, - I-1nl-1 TO, "ITO Mbl TYAa nOnO)KI-1M.

TaK BOT, 60nbWl-1HCTBO nlO,D,elll Hl-1lfero B naM5ITb He «naner: "ITO 1-13 npouiemuero «cavo OmO)KI-1TC5I» - TO 1-1 3anOMHI-1TC5I. A He ornoxnnocs - BOT 51 1-1 He nOMHIO. 60nee OpraHI-130BaHHbie ruoAI-1 nenaior nO-,D,PyrOMY: "ITO-TO YBI-1,D,eB, vcnsuuaa I-1nl-1 nepe)KI-1B, OHI-1 peuraror, HY)KHO I-1M 3TO 3anOMI-1HaTb I-1nl-1 He HY)KHO 1-1 ecna HY)KHO, Kna,D,YT ce6e B naM5ITb. ' ,

KY,D,a?

KTO-TO xnaner Ha nono-rxy «Flpournoe», a KTO-TO Ha nono-ixy _ «6YAyw,ee», 1-1 TaKI-1M 06pa30M n05lBn5l1OTC5I 3TI-1 ,D,Ba pa3HbiX BI-1- na naM5ITI-1. naM5ITb npouinoro - 3TO naM5ITb 0 TOM 3Halfl-1MOM

,

"ITO Y Hac B )K1-13HI-1 Y)Ke np01-130WnO, 3TO BI-1,D,eHl-1e csoea )K1-13HI-1

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cHa3a,D,. naM5ITb 6Y,D,yw,ero - 3TO naM5ITb 0 TOM, "ITO Bbl HaMelfaeTe 1-1 nnauupyere, 3TO BI-1AeHl-1e csoea )K1-13HI-1 snepen. Ecnu Bbl crepaeTeCb npOCTO 3anOMHI-1Tb, '''ITO np01-130WnO - Bbl YKna,D,blaaere npoucurenuree B naM5ITb npouinoro. Ecnu Bbl YBI-1,D,eHHOe CTapaeTeCb BCTPOI-1Tb B KaKOIll-TO 6Y,D,yw,1-1111 nnau, Bbl exrno-rae-

.re CBOIO OOM5ITb 6Y,D,yw,ero.

, .. ,0,_",:

KCTaTI-1, n1060nb1THO: KOr,D,a Mbl BCnOMI-1HaeM npownoe, Mbl 06bllfHO CMOTPI-1M HeMHoro BneBO. Korna 3aAYMbIBaeMC5I, paCCMaTpl-1Ba51 6Y,D,yw,ee, - CMOTPI-1M anpaao.

·.KaK 3anOMI-1HaTb B 6Y,D,yw,ee? Ecnn Bbl YBI-1Aenl-1 I-1nl-1 vcnsnnanu "ITO-TO Ba)KHOe, TO, "ITO BaM onpeneneuuo B 6Y,D,yw,eM MO)KeT nOHa,D,06I-1TbC5I, TO Ha,D,O np0,D,YMaTb, KOr,D,a)Ke KOHKpeTHO, B xa- 1(0111 MOMeHT 6Y,D,yw,ero nOHa,D,06I-1TC5I TO, "ITO CerO,D,H5I np01-130-

'ilino 1-1 nOnO)KI-1Tb B TOT MOMeHT 6Y,D,yw,ero, KOr,D,a 3TO Ha,D,O 6y-

r··, ,

,AeT BCnOMHI-1Tb.

8 ronose uienxayno: «Korna npl-1,D,eM ,D,OMOIII, Ha,D,O He 3a- 6blTb n03BOHI-1Tb MaMe». 3TO Ba)KHO, 3Half1-1T, Ha,D,O nono)KI-1Tb B 6y,D,yw,ee. npe,D,CTaBn5leM, KaK npI-1XO,D,I-1M ,D,OMOIII, KaK pa3,D,eBaeMC5I 1-1 npOXO,D,I-1M B KOMHaTY, 1-1 BOT nepen HaMI-1 reneoou. Tenecpou - n03BOHI-1Tb MaMe. ECTb, aanoMI-1HanKY B 6Y,D,yw,ee nonoxanu.

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npl-1wnl-1, n03BOHl-1nl-1, paarosop aasepumna. ECTb "ITO 3anOMI-1HaTb? HeT, ace B nopsnxe, 3anOMI-1HaTb ue-rero. npowe,D,wl-1l11 pasrosop MO)KHO 3a6blTb (seru, OH He Hy)KeH?), 1-13 ronoau Bbl6paCblBaeM, )KI-1BeM cne,D,YIOw,I-1M

, 6Y,D,yW,I-1M.

f -Xopouraa naM5ITb» - 3TO KaKa51 naM5ITb, naM5ITb npouinoro I-1nl-1 \,6Y,D,yw,ero? TOT, KTO )KI-1BeT ronsxo CBQl..1M npoumsua, MO)KeT no-

\tiHI-1Tb B nO,D,p06HOCT5IX see TO, "ITO Y Hero KOr,D,a-TO 6blno, 1-1 COBceM He npencraanars ceoe 6Y,D,yw,ee. KaK CnO)KI-1TC5I - TaK 1-1 CnO)KI-1TC5I. A TOT, KTO )KI-1BeT ronsxo CBOI-1M 6Y,D,yW,I-1M, XopOWO 3HaeT see, "ITO OH nnaaupver Ha CerO,D,H5I, aasrpa 1-1 nansure, y Hero see rOTOBO K 6Y,D,yw,eMY - 1-1 npu 3TOM OH COBceM He noMHI-1T roro, "ITO 6blno C HI-1M a-repa,

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«3TO 6blnO AaBHO, aro 6blnO - s-eoat» - 3TO npasna, AnSl MHOr~X mOAelli C naMSlTblO 6YAYLLterO, )I(~BYLLt~X 3Hepr~YHolli ~ HaCblLLteHHOIli )I(~3HblO, ByepaWH~1Ii AeHb Y)I(e 6e- 3YMHO nanex, KaK 6YATO ~3 npournoa )I(~3H~.

KOHeYHO, XOyeTCSl ~MeTb 06e 3T~ naMSlT~, HO B )I(~3H~ 3TO scrpe-aercs peAKO. 06blYHbie nlOA~ )I(~BYT 06blYHOili naMSlTblO ~ nOMHSlT B OCHOBHOM npouiezuuaa, a re, KOMY Ba)l(HO 6YAYLLtee, He scerna ~HTepeCYIOTCSl npourenurasa.

lt1n~, TOYHee, He scerna CY~TaIOT peHTa6enbHbiM 3aH~MaTb CBOIO ronosv euie ~ 3T~M. 3ayeM 3anOM~HaTb npownoe, KOTOpoe He 6YAeT HY)I(HO B 6YAYLLteM?

nOMH~Tb see - 3TO KaK xpaH~Tb Y cefis AOMa see, YTO «orna-nu- 60 Bbl np~06pen~ ... Yepe3 KaKoe-TO BpeMSl B03H~KaeT xenaH~e oCB060A~Tb nOMeLLteH~e OT He caMblX HY)I(HblX seuiea, noTOMY YTO xorna BeLLtelli cn~wKOM MHOro, Y)I(e TPYAHO HaIliT~ TO, YTO Te6e HY)I(HO. Taxxe ~ naMSlTb: nYYWaSl He ra, xoropas noMH~T see, a ra, «orooas BOBpeMSl nOACKa)l(eT ~MeHHO TO, YTO H~HO npSlMO celliYac.

naMSlTb 6YAYLLterO OyeHb YA06Ha: ace, YTO HY)I(HO, B ronose ecrs, a YTO He H~HO - ~3 ronosu Bbl6paCblsaeTCSl ~ He OTBnexaer.

nOBTOp~M: HaBepHoe, ny-nue scero 6blTb YH~BepcanOM: ~ nOMH~Tb ace npouiemuee, ~ H~KorAa He 3a6blBaTb CBO~ nnaHbl, nOCTOSlHHO AOCTpa~BaSl ~ sanonaaa ceoe 6YAYLLtee, HO ecna Y aac ronosu Ha see He XBaTaeT, TO noneauee paasasan, Y ce6Sl naMSlTb 6YAy~ero.

BaM 3TO np~rOA~TCSl? Korna HayHeTe ee pa3B~BaTb? Y)I(e npeACTaB~n~ 3TO 6YAYLLtee? Y)I(e 3TO peureuue B ceoe 6YAYLLtee - no-

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He ra KOTopaH nOMHI4T ace, a ra, KOTopaH BOBpeMH nOACKa}f(eT I4MeHHO

naMSlTb pona

naMSlTb poria - 3TO naMSlTb 0 caoea ceMelliHolli ~CTOp~~, KeM 6bln~ saum AeAywK~ ~ 6a6ywK~, KaKOB 6bln ~X nyrs ~ ~X CYAb6a, KaK npononxuna 3TOT nYTb sauna ponnrena

~ YTO npeACTO~T BaM. naMSlTb poria - 3TO screcrseuuoe, arurranuoe C AeTcTBa B~AeH~e npaB~nbHolli '~~3H~, ~ ecnn Mbl nOMH~M 3TO nocnauue, ecnn Mbl rOPA~M'C~ CBO~M~ pOA~TenSlM~, Mbl H~KorAa He n03Bon~M ce6e !)lmTb MeHee AOCTOIliHO.

neT~ Bocn~TbIBaIOTCSl aruocoepoa ~ AYXOM pOA~TenbcKolli 'ceMb~, ueno-rxa )I(~3H~ )I(~BeT npeeMCTBeHHOCTblO. Hawa )K~3Hb HaY~HaeTCSl C aaurux ponarenea, C yxnana ~x )I(~3H~ ~ ueauocrea. >K~3Hb aaurux nerea HaYHeTCSl C roro, KaK )I(~Mbl. naMSlTb poria nepenaercs eCTeCTBeHHO, o6pa30M

)I(~3H~, 06LLt~M CMeXOM aa CTonOM ~ BeLLtaM~, xoropue C AeTCTBa Mbl 6pan~ B PYK~. Ho naMSlTb CTaHOB~TCSl xpense, xorna . 06neKaeTCSl B cnosa, B aannca ~ paccxasu: nv-uue nOMH~TCSl lTO, TO nepecxaaueaerca. Ecnu AeT~ He ronsxo Bn~TbIBaIOT, HO euie ~ nOMHSlT ~CTOp~1O csoea ceMb~, 3HaIOT, Yb~ OH~ BHYK~ ~

yeM rOPASlTCSl B ceoea )I(~3H~ crapurue, naMSlTb pona CTaHOB~TCSl cunsaee: He ronsxo TKaHblO )I(~3H~, HO euie ~ YCTHblM npeAaH~eM.

Mo~ ponurenn YMepn~ AaBHO, HO OH~ AnSl MeHSl acerna )I(~Bbl \'.~ acerna PSlAOM: B nlO6011i MOMeHT, xorna MHe HY)I(HO nOCOBe~oBaTbcSl, Sl B~)I(y orua ~ nOH~MalO, KaKolli nocrynox OH 6bl onpeneneuao onotipan, s:I 3HalO, YTO Ka)I(Abllli AeHb Sl nonxeu )I(~Tb TaK, YT06bl oreu ~ MaTb MHOIO rOPA~n~Cb. s:I XOTen 6bl paccxaaars TO, YTO nOMHIO 0 CBO~X pOA~TenSlX. CerOAHSl Sl noH~MalO, YTO MOSl )I(~3Hb COCTOSlnaCb ~MeHHO raxoa 6narOAapSl TOMY, YTO cnenanu AnSl aroro MO~ nana ~ MaMa, ~ 3TO naer MHe opneurupu, YT06bl nepenars ace cauoe saxuoe MO~M

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$:j ,AYMalO, '-ITO MOIl1 pOAII1Tenll1 npoxnna npOCTYIO 111 npaSlI1nbHYIO )l(W13Hb, KaK 111 MHOrll1e OKpY)I(alOUJ,lI1e MeHs:I, 3HaKOMbie 111 He 3HaKOMble MHe nlOAII1.

$:j pOC S cvacrnasoa 111 xpacasoa ceMbe, SOCnpll1HII1Mas:l STO KaK cauo c0601i1 pa3YMelOUJ,eeCs:I 111 He O'-leHb nOHII1Mas:l, '-ITO TaK )1(111- SyrT AeTII1 He see. nana 111 MaMa 6blnll1 He aHrenaMII1, a npOCTO YMHbIMII1, nOps:lAO'-lHbIMII1 111 KpaCII1SblMII1 nlOAbMII1. 6blsano, KOHe'-lHO, scsxoe: KorAa-TO HaM C cecrpoa cepseaso AOCTasanOCb OT OTua - npouienuias soaua AOCTaTO'-lHO pacuiarana eMY HepSbl, OH 1I1H10rAa cpuaanca a scerna nocne STOro nepexuaan. Mory CKaears onpeneneuuo: nana 6bln lJ,eHTpOM CeMbll1 111 Mbl ero n106111- nll1l. $:j 3HalO, OH O'-leHb XOTen cuaa: s:I 3HalO, '-ITO AO Moero pO)KAeHlI1Is:I OH Kypll1n, a S ceMelilHoM anb60Me s:I slI1Aen wYTnll1sylO CPOTOrp;acpll1 10 , rne OH crnrr S 06HII1MKY C 6YTblnKOIiI, HO sce STO )l(eCTKO npexpararrocs SMeCTe C MOIl1M nOs:lSneHlI1eM aa caer, 111 s:I HII1 pa- 3Y S )l(1I13HII1 He slI1Aen OTlJ,a KYps:lUJ,II1M II1nll1 nbs:lHblM.

PO>K,lJ,eHlI1e CBOIl1X ueteti R OTMeTlI1n TO>Ke - nonHblM OTKa- 30M or BII1Ha 111 MRca 111 Ha4anOM e>Ke,D.HeBHbIX 06R3aTenbHblX ne,D.RHblX 06nIl1BaHII1';:'.

MaMa 6blna O'-leHb nps:lMblM '-IenOSeKOM 111 WlHorAa HeMHoro rpvoosara. nOMHIO, S B03paCTe neT 12-TII1 s:I 3arOSopll1n C HelO: «MaM, s:I '-III1Tan, '-ITO ecrs TaKlI1e nlC)AII1 - AlI1nnOMaTbl, OHII1 6eceAYIOT scerna se)KnIl1S0 111 nOA6111palOT eupa)l(e!HlI1s:1 ... » MaMa OTSeTlI1na y6e)KAeHHO:

C roro, KaK >KI-1BeM Mbl

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f,fJ';lI!l xannn xononaoro, ocrporo, anorol»

!\ftOBTOPIO rnaasoe - nan a 111 MaMa aHreJlaMII1 He 6b1JlIl1, HO OHII1

.~/l106I!1JlIl1 npvr npvra, nsuuann II1CKpeHHII1M 111 caMblM eCTeCTseH"fft,lM )l(eJlaHlI1eM )l(II1Tb nO-YMHOMY 111 nO-A06pOMY, a Mbl C cecrt>olll acerna '-IyscTSOSaJlIl1 ce6s:1 rnaSHblM npoeKTOM II1X )l(1I13HII1.

"1(03JlOS IIIsaH HII1KII1TOSII1'-1 POAII1JlCs:I S Aet~i>eSHe Manll1HosKa TYJlbCKOIiI 06JlaCTII1 S ",'~919 rOAY 111, KeM 6bl HII1 6blJl no )l(1I13HII1, B

).~~ywe ecerna 6blJl XYAO)l(HII1KOM. ,D,oMa SII1- "i)eJlI!I ero nelil3~111111 HaTlOpMopTbl, OH PIl1- '~Ibosan SCKII13bl nOCYAbl, nspexaean, eCJlIl1

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)\.!~i'iI TpeTbs:lKOsCKYIO ranepeio, 111 II1MeHa ne(lHaPAO Aa BII1H'-III1, TII1lJ,lI1aH, MII1KenaHA. eJlo, Parpaans 111 PeM6paHAT MHe 6blJlll1 ~};

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B03MO)l(HO, XOTR 6bl H3MeHHTb ee xapaxrep: npononxars npuRTHO BCTpe"laTbCR, HO He B 6ape, a B cnoprsane.

ECTb nM 60nee 3c1>cI>eKTMBHbie peweHMSI?

Koro Bbl Bbl6epeTe cepnueu H AYWOIll ua BblCOKYIO AOn)l(HOCTb npyra? - ,D,YMaIllTe. C TO"lKH 3peHHR 6YAyw.ero, ruotiaa APY)I(6a ecrs snoxeuae BpeMeHH H CHn, HHBecTHU,HR ce6R H cBoelll )l(H3HH B npoeKT nOA Ha3BaHHeM «,D,PY)I(6a». A uacxoneKO onTHManbHbl Te HnH HHbie HHBeCTHU,HH, MO)l(HO roBOPHTb ronsxo no cpaa-

Haura APY3bfl - 3TO I!1HBeCTI!141!11!1 HaWel1 Aywl!1

HeHHIO C APyrHMH B03MO)l(HOCTRMH.

Baw crapua npyr uanexe«, HO KOHQ>nHKTeH, 3aHYAa H Mano nOHHMaeT B BaWHX HOBblX YBne"leHHRx. npOAon)l(aTb HnH nOCTeneHHO aaxpuean, OTHoweHHR C HHM, nepeopHeHTHPYR cefis Ha HOBbie KOHTaKTbl? 3TO 3aBHCHT ronsxo OT roro, "ITO 3TO sa «HOBbie KOHTaKTbl». WYMHble, HHTepeCHble, TRHYT B CBOIO KOMnaHHIO, HO B KOMnaHHH nlO6RT BblnHTb? Ecnn TaK, BaM 3TO He HY)I(HO. YMHble, cnoprneasie, TRHYT eac B HOBbie B HOBbie npoexru, XOTR B HHX BaM HY)I(HO HanpRraTbCR? Haaepuoe, 3TO 60nee nOAxOARw.He AnR eac APY3bR.

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AYMaIllTe. nOA HOBbl1ll ron, «orna 6YAeTe COCTaBnRTb cnHCOK APY3elll, "IT06bl nocnars HM eecensre noaapaearensaue OTKPbITKH, aanaare ce6e 3TOT aenpocroa, HO KpalllHe Ba)l(Hb11ll BOnpoc: KTO H3 3THX MOItlX APY3elll - MOCT B Moe 6YAyw.ee? PeweHItlR MOrYT 6blTb pa3Hb1MH: C KeM-TO, Bbl nOIllMeTe, O"leHb nepCneKTHBHO aanasoraars OTHoweHHR, C KeM-TO nonnepxasan, Ha MHHHManbHOM vposae, a KaKHe-TO OTHoweHHR nepesonars B APyrolll pe)l(HM H npvroe pycno.

To, "ITO Y Bac AO aroro C KeM-TO 6blnH oTHoweHHR, euie He 3Ha"lHT HH"Iero. 3TO npocro - 6blno. npeACTaBbTe, "ITO Bbl Ha"lHHaeTe CBOIO )l(H3Hb C "IHCTOrO n'HCTa: KaKHX nlOAelll Bbl XOTHTe B3RTb B csoe 6YAyw.ee?

Bbl XOTI!1Te B3flTb B csoe 6YAY~ee?

C YAOBonbCTBHeM nonernocs 3aMe"laTenbHblM npHeMOM, KOTOPbllll "IeCTHO H eCTeCTBeHHO npexparur BaWH OTHoweHHR C TeMH, KTO OT eac nanex - HnH HanaAHT OTHoweHHR C TeM, KTO BaM sce-raxa nopor,

It1TaK, ero 30BYT Ceprea, Bbl APY)I(HTe nonro, HO nocnenHHIIl rOA, xorna OH paccxaaueaer 06 YPOAax H3 asrocepsnca H Mauixe, KOTopaR ero Y)I(e AOCTana, 3TH TeMbl sac Y)I(e He BAOXHOBnRIOT. 3BOHHTb caMOMY Y)I(e He XO"leTCR. Ho APY)I(6bl - xanxo, H Cepreji sooouie-ro aave-arensHbllll napeas.

He H36eralllTe 06w.eHHR C HHM. Hanporua, C HHM HaAO CHOBa c6nH3HTbCR H ua-rars 06w.aTbCR MaKCHManbHO nnOTHO. n03BOHHnH, BCTpeTHnHCb H, He AO)l(HAaRCb paCCKa30B ero, nepexaaTHnH HHHu,HaTHBY. Bauru TeMbl:

• C KeM OH APY)I(HT;

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• ero )KJ13HeHHble nepcnexruesr: KaK OH BIIIAIIIT CBOIO pa- 60TY -repes rOA, rpu 111 nsre, nnaunpyer nlll Y'lIllTbC5! 111 aooouie B KaKYIO CTOPOHY ABlllraTbC5!;

• naso 111 AaBalll 6eraTb no YTpaM, a TaK>Ke KypeHllle 111 BOotiuie anoposse. LJTO Ceprea c06l11paeTC5! co BeeM 3TIIIM nenars, KaKllle ero peWeHIII5!.

STOT HenpOCTOIll paarosop (MeHee -raca 06bl'lHO He 6blBaeT) ny-nue scero COBMeCTIIITb C Be'lepHelll nporynxoa, Ceprea yeAeT 03aAa'leHHbllll, 3arpY>KeHHbllll, 60nee scero 3TOT paarosop npoaaaener sne-rarneuae ua sac: ece, 'lTO Bbl rosopana Cepreo, Bbl roaopana 111 ce6e.

3aps:!AKY 6nlll>KalllwylO ueneruo 6YAeTe nenars aaepru-rHee 06bl'lHOro.

Ha cnenyiouiea aenene, xorna Bbl C Cepreev BCTpeTIIITeCb CHOsa, saura aana-ia eMY 06paAOBaTbCs:! 111 scepsea 111 HaCTOIII'lIllBO paccnpaurasan, 0 ero ycnexax. OH 6YAeT csesxars C TeMbl (06s:!3aTenbHO), onpaensrearsca 'leM-TO 111 06BIIIH5!Tb KorO-TO, HO saure neno npononxars TeMY co csaroa aepoa B npasoe Aeno 111 y'lIllTb ero HOBOIII npaBlllnbHOIll >K1II3HIII.

II1cXOAa 3AeCb MO>KeT 6blTb ronsxo ABa: IIInlll Ceprea OT eac y6e>KIIIT caM, IIInlll CTaHeT TeM, C KeM APY>KIIITb BaM PaAOCTHO.

MOlt1 nnAHbl

HA MOIO )l(lt13H b

BII1KTOP, 11111111 II1cTopll1s:1 aacrpsaureti )l(1I13HII1

AOCTOIIIHbl1ll MonOAOIll -renose« BIIIKTOP nocraaun ce6e cepsea,Hble uenn: 3aKOH'lIllTb IIIHCTIIITYT C KpaCHblM AlllnnOMOM, HalllTIII AOCTOIliHYIO pa60TY 111 C03AaTb ceMblO, me Y Hero 6YAeT n106111- Mas:! >KeHw,IIIHa 111 savesarensaue Mlllnble AeTIII.

Yry. LJTO OH npa 3TOM nenaer:

He Bbl5!CH5!eT, 6YAeT nlll HY>KeH KOMY ero KpaCHb11ll AlllnnOM; 3aHIIIMaeTC5! MenKIIIMIII nOApa60TKaMIII, BeAyw,IIIMIII B HIIIKYAa;

CIIIAIIIT AOMa, -urraer YMHble KHlllrlll 111 co B3AoxaMIII runner KpaCHb11ll AlllnnOM.

Co B3AoxaMIII - nOTOMY 'lTO BIIIKTOPY XO'leTCs:! 3HaKOMIIITbCs:! C AeBywKaMIII, HO 3TO CTpeMHO. MO>KHO, KOHe'lHO, ce6s:! 3TOMY Y'lIllTb: HY TaM nerxo 06w,aTbC5!, C KeM-TO ecrpexarsca 111 Y'lIllTbCs:! yxa>KIIIBaTb, rpeaaposarscs paccsaasrsars B KOMnaHIIIs:!X IIIHTepeCHbie IIICTOPIIIIII, - HO see 3TO KaK-TO HenOHs:!THO 111 raxeno.

no KpalliHelll Mepe raxenee, 'leM esnuxars AOMa.

Aa. A sooouie BIIIKTOP ClllnbHO 3aHs:!T. EMY, HanplIIMep, HenpeMeHHO HY>KHO aauuuuars CBOIII B3rn5!Abl Ha OCHOBbl Mlllp03Aa-

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H~51 nepen nQ)K~nOVI COCeAKOVl, KOTOpa51 06B~H5IeT ero B TOM, lJTO OH HeBepylO~~VI, a STO He cnpasennaao, nOSTOMY HaAO euie pa306paTbC5I C sonoocava aepu ~ BblYlJ~Tb KaK~e-H~6YAb reaacu, xoropue OH rorna saumuiars CMO)l(eT.

BeAb npasna, STO eMY OlJeHb H~HO?

... KaK 51 nOH~MalO, ecnu OT6poC~Tb B CTOPOHY nycrue cnoaa, peansaas uens Buxropa - KaK-TO nepeKaHTOBaTbC5I no )I(~3H~, oc06eHHO ce651 He YTPY)l(Aa5l.

Cea-rac, 6n~)I(aVlw~e rOAbl - nOMe~TaTb.

B TOM lJ~cne nopaarosapasan, 0 CBO~X cepbe3Hbix nnauax Ha )I(~3Hb.

nOn03)1(e, KorAa MelJTbl CAYIOTC5I, - nocrpanare: STO see paBHO npouie, lJeM lJTO-TO peansuo nenars.

It1 nopaarosapaaan, 0 TOM, lJTO OH lJTO-TO nenan ~ npononxaer nenars He TaK.

A nOTOM YCTaTb OT )l(M3HM ~ Bo06~e nepecrars AYMaTb. CTaTb KaK nIOA~.

Paaroaapaaan, npn STOM MO)l(HO npononxars. Pa3rOBap~BaTb, He AYMa5l, - Aa)l(e npo~e.

Hy ~ cnaaao, a CKOPO ~ )I(~3Hb npowna.

ECTb, KOHelJHO, ~ APyroVi cnocoo )I(~3H~, ~ B~KTOp ero Bo06~eTO 3HaeT. 3an~caTb CBO~ uenu: no 3AOPOBblO, no AeHbraM, no )l(eH~~HaM, no pa60lJ~M npoexrara - ~ 3aH~MaTbC5I ST~M~ AenaM~. Ka)I(AblVi AeHb CTaB~Tb ManeHbK~e peansaue 3aAalJ~, npocraensn, Ka)I(AblVi paa npaopareru ~ 3aH~MaTbC5I lJeM cneAyeT: AenaM~ Ba)l(HbIM~, a He nYCTOTOVI. Ka)I(AblVi AeHb - war anepen, It1 CKOpO 3aAalJ~ OAHa sa APYroVi OKa)l(YTC5I BbInOnHeHHbIM~.

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Aa, HO ... KaKOVl-TO STOT nyrs cn~wKOM npocroa. He my60K~VI. y Buxropa ecrs COMHeH~51. HY)I(HO e~e pas ace 06AYMaTb ~ B3BeC~Tb. It1 xopowo pa- 306paTbC5I B ce6e: nOlJeMY)I(e 51 AeHb sa AHeM saH~MaIOCb He TeM, lJeM XOlJY?

Bce: KaK ronsxo Bbl HalJan~ pa36~paTbC5I CO CBO~M~ np06neMaM~, Bbl aacrpsna.

(aMaH 4aCTaH 3aMop04Ka 1-11l1YllII-1X npaBJ.1J1bHbli-1 nyrs: «npOCTO - 3Ha4J.1T Hemy6oKo»

npo6neM Y aac HeT

«Ilpofinewa» ~ «3aAalJa» - STO He ABe paaHble aeum, a ABa paaaux onncaaua OAHOro ~ roro xe, OAH~X ~ TeX)I(e )I(~3HeHHbIX 06CT05lTenbCTB. «Liens» ~ «3aAalJw> - cpopMyn~poBK~ 60APble, YCTpeMneHHbie snepen, aaueneHHble Ha peaynsrar, <t>opMyn~pY5I HelJTO KaK «npotineray», Mbl p~cyeM HelJTO TeMHoe, T5I)I(enOe ~ 6eccpopMeHHoe, HaMepTBO CB5Isa-n-oe C npoumsna. Ilpofineraa - STO B5I3KOe

~ MYTHoe aararusaiouiee necuoe 60noTO.

MHoro npoonev He Y rex, Y xoro OTBeTCTBeHHa51 ~ CnO)l(Ha51 )I(~3Hb, a Y rex, KTO He np~BblK CTaB~Tb aana-rn, ABa -renoaexa MOrYT 6blTb B coaepureaao OA~HaKOBbIX 06CT05lTenbCTBax, HO ronsxo m5lA5I Ha ~x nuua, Ha Bblpa)l(eH~e ~x nuu ~ rnas, Bbl MOxere coaepureuuo yaepe-n-o CKa3aTb, KTO ~3 H~X cpopMyn~pyeT CBOIO c~TYau,~1O B TepM~Hax npoone«, a KTO B cpopMaTe 3aAalJ.

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nonpOCIt1Tb: «nO)l(anYVICTa, OAIt1H 61t1neT 1013 MOCKBbl!» XOPOWO, HO eac cnpocsr: «1113 MOCKBbl, HO KYAa? B KaKOVI rOpOA?» 111 T'{T mOAIt1 06bl4HO 3aAYMbIBaIOTCs:I.

xorna Bbl ~Ka3anlt1 «X04Y 1t136aBIt1TbCs:I OT JleHIt1» , Bbl ew,e He cxaaana caworo masuoro: a 4TO Bbl XOTIt1Te? Bbl XOTIt1Te CTaTb 3Heprlt14HblM, 60APbIM, KOTOPOMY TPYAHO YCIt1AeTb Ha MeCTe, KOTOPOMY ner-ie nenars XOTb 4TO-TO, 4eM He Aenare Hlt14ero? lt1nlt1 Bbl XOTIt1Te CTaTb u,eJleYCTpeMneHHbIM, CCPOKYClt1pOBaHHblM Ha pesvnsrare, KOTOPblVi YMeeT nenars uiara anepen, HeCMOTp5I Ha KorAa-TO YCTanOCTb It1 BHYTpeHHee «He X04Y»? LfTO Bbl XOnne?

TYT ecrs xopouias nOACKa3Ka. CnpOCIt1Te ce6s:1: «Ans:l -iero s:I sroro X04Y?» Ans:l sero, nns KaKOVI uena s:I XOYY, Hanplt1- Mep, «1t136aBIt1TbCs:I OT neHIt1»? LfT06bl KO MHe He 6blno npeTeH31t1V1? LfTo6bl He suruana C paooru? LfTo6bl He MY41r1Tb cauoro cetis? LfT06bl )l(1t13Hb MOs:l crana Klt1nY4eVl, KaK pausure? LfT06bl B )l(1t13HIt1 cnenars 60nbwe?

«X04Y 6POCIt1Tb KYPIt1Tb» - 3TO HeraTIt1BHas:l cpopMynlt1pOBKa u,eJlIt1. A nns sero Bbl XOTIt1Te 6pOCIt1Tb KYPIt1Tb? LfTO Bbl XOTIt1Te B no- 3I11TIt1Be? nOKa Bbl rosopnre ce6e: «X04Y 6POCIt1Tb KYPIt1Tb», Y Bac B C03HaHlI11t1 3BY4aT cnosa «X04Y ... KYPIt1Tb» It1 BIt1AIt1TCs:I (HeHaBIt1- en-as) curapera. Ho ecnu Bbl 6pOCIt1Te ce6e Bb130B: «X04Y nOArnrasarsca 30 pas, 6eraTb C AeBOYKOVI no napxy 3 KM It1 3aHII1- MaTbCs:I C ueio ceKCOM 2 -iaca (HY, CKonbKO OHa BbIAep)I(It1T ... )>> - 3TO Y)I(e n03It1TIt1BHO, 3TO ~e - X04eTCs:I!

Ecnlt1 Bbl CTaBII1Te n031t1TIt1BHYIO uens, Y sac BnepeAIt1 nOs:lBns:leTCs:I It1HTepeC, CMblcn, paAOCTb!

CTaBbTe n03l11TIt1BHbie uena.

Ps:lAOM CIt1Aenlt1 ABe AeBywKIt1.

rOBOplt1T nepsaa: «Bs: saaere, Y MeHs:I raxas rnxenas npo- 6neMa, KaK ronsxo HY)I(HO asrcryrnrre nepea nIOAbMIt1, s:I cpasv repsuocs, KpaCHelO It1 Ha41t1HalO rosopars KaKlI1e-TO rnynocral 3TO TaK Y)I(aCHO!» - M HeC4aCTHbie asrpaaaTenbHble masa C HaAe)I(AOVl aa cnaceaue. 3Ta neayunca MMeeT npooneuv.

3aAaeT sonpoc sropas: «HMKonaVllt1BaHOBIt14, s:I 6YAY pa- 60TaTb Ha BbICTaBKe, TaM HaAO sucrynan, nepen aYAIt1TOpMeVi. MHe HY)I(HO notionsure YBepeHHOCTIt1 - KaKlI1e Bbl MHe nopexoraeunyere ynpaxueuna?» - Y 3TOVI AeBYWKIt1 np06neMbi HeT. ECTb MHTepec, 60APOCTb, roTOBHOCTb pa- 60TaTb.

06beKTIt1BHO CII1Tyau,Ms:I OAHa, onucaaae (M nepexasauae ee) npll1HLJ,lt1nManbHO pasaoe.

BaM 4TO 60nbwe HpaBIt1TCs:I?

HeraTII1BHas:l ueru,

Ecna Y eac ecrs He4TO, 4TO Bbl Ha3blBaeTe np06neMOVl, cnenaaTe nepBblVi war: ccpopMynMpYVlTe 3TO KaK uens. XOTs:I 6bl - HerantBHYIO uens.

3TO npOCTO: «5=1 neHII1BbIVl» - «XOYY M36aBIt1TbCs:I OT neau». «MHe TPYAHO 1t136aBMTbCs:I OT KypeHlI1s:1!» - «X04Y 6pOCIt1Tb KYPMTb» ..

L1,enb

BTOPOVI war: ccpopMynll1pYVlTe n03MTMBHYIO 14enb.

3TO cnoxuee HeraTMBHYIO uens CTaBMTb npocro: «He X04Y roro, 4TO ecrsl. Aa, a 4TO Bbl xOTMTe? Ecnu BaM crano nnoxo B repone, Bbl MO)l(eTe nOAOVlTM K )l(ene3HOAOpO)l(HOVI Kacce It1

CTaBbTe

n03Hn1BHbie lIellH

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nnaH

TpeTVlII! war: nnaa.

LfT06bl AOCTVI'"Ib caoea uenu, Y sac MOryT 6blTb HeCKonbKO paauux uanpaaneuaa VI B Ka)I(AOM HanpaBneHVIVI - KaKVle-TO KOHKpeTHble uiaru. 3AOPOSblll! 06pa3 )l(Vl3HVI paanoxurca, HanpVlMep, Ha HanpasneHVlfI: anoposoe rurraaue, cnopr, aaxanasaaue, a Ka)I(AOe uanpaaneuae na uenosxy KOHKpeTHblX waros, runa «Y)I(VlHaTb AO 8 se-epa», «15 MVlHyTyTpeHHeIl!3apflAKVI», «KoHTpaCTHbIIl!AYW».

'{eraeprua war: KOHKpeTHoe Aeno.

Bcranu, HaAenVl KPOCCOSKVI, cnenanu np06e)l(KY. XOTfI 6bl VI He- 6onbwylO. Ho OT cnoa VI pa3MblWneHVlII! Sbl nepeurnn - K Aeny.

II1TaK, oouias cxeua pa60Tbi C npo6neMaMVI, npeapauieuua VlX S He'"lTO n03V1TVlSHoe VI AeIl!CTSeHHoe:

npo6neMa

Heraruaaaa uens

n03V1TVlSHafl uens

nnaH

~ KOHKpeTHoe neno

Korna Sbl Ha'"lHeTe 3TO npaxraxoears, no onsrry, sac MO)l(eT TOPM03V1Tb '"IeTBepTblll! nYHKT: «Flnau», Ilnan Aell!CTSVlTenbHo pO)I(AaeTCfI He scerna cpaay, He TOpMo3V1Te: paspaoorxy npoAYMaHHoro nnaHa MO)l(HO speMeHHo

nponycxare, cpasv nepexonars K KOHKpeTHblM nenau, a nnan nopaoaruaars n03)1(e, napannensao TOMY, '"ITO Sbl Y)I(e Ha'"lanVl nenars.

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VlTOro, ecnn He <pVlKCVlpOBaTbCfI aa nnaae, TO npaKTVI'"IeCKVI CXOAY Mbl nonysaera cnenvioume 3HeprVl'"lHble ueno-nca:

.~ ~ ~

~ ~ . ~

s:I neHVlSb11l!

XO'"lY Vl36aSVlTbCfI OT neHVI

XO'"lY CTaTb u,eneYCTpeMneHHblMVI (VlnVl 3HeprVl'"lHbIM?)

nnaH ...

3HeprVl'"lHO nposenv 6nVl)l(all!wee vrpot

MHe TPYAHO Vl36aSVlTbCfI OT KypeHVlfI XO'"lY 6POCVlTb KypVlTb

XO'"lY ynY'"IWVlTb aaopoase VI nepecrpoars ce6f1 Ha 3AOPOSblll! 06pa3 )l(Vl3HVI

Flnaa ...

Ha'"lHY nenars yTpeHHlO1O aapsnxv VI 06nVlsaTbCfI xenonHOII! SOAOII!!

s:I O'"leHb pa3Apa)l(VlTenbHblll! '"IenOSeK XO'"lY Vl36aSVlTbCfI OT pa3Apa)l(VlTenbHOCTVI

XO'"lY HaXOAVlTbCfI, KaK npasano, S 3HeprVl'"lHOM VI n03V1- TVISHOM COCTOflHVIVI

nnaH ...

Ha'"lHY noxarsca AO 23.00!

c; C;

~

MHe He xsaraer ysepeHHOCTVI S ce6e XO'"lY Vl36asVlTbcfI OT uevaepeuuocra XO'"lY sblpa60TaTb veepeuaoe noaeneune nnaH ...

no nopore Ha pa60TY 6YAY nepxars ysepeHHYIO ocaaxv'

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l,1Toro, BMeCTO nonrax TOCKJlI.1BblX pasroeopoa ua TeMY «5=1 neHIIIBbIVr, MHe OyeHb TPYAHO 1II36aBlIITbCfI OT KypeHlIIfI, 1II3-3a aTOro MHe He XBaTaeT YBepeHHOCTIII B ce6e III see oro y)«aCHO paanpaxaer», - Mbl XopOWO aucnanacs, cnenann nYCTb ManeHbKYro, HO aHeprlllYHYro aapanxy, 06nlllnlllCb (OTHOCIIITenbHO) XOnOAHoVr BOAOVr III npouinacs AO pa60Tbl C xpacneoa cnlllHKoVr, nro6YflCb c060Vr.

TaK y)«e secenee!

npOLl,eCCHVlK VI peaynsrarua«

flroAIII AenflTCfI Ha B3pocnblX III nerea, A ew,e - Ha npOLl,eCCHIIIKOB III peayn bTaTHIII KOB.

C npOLl,eCCHIIIKaMIII, fI vsepea, Bbl xopowo 3HaKOMbl. 3TO HOpManbHble nroAIII, xoropue He nro6f1T aanpararsca, KOTOPblM HpaBIIITCfI ce6f1 passnexars III He HpaBIIITCfI AYMaTb 0 uenn III pe- 3ynbTaTe. OHIII MlIInble, HO scerna HeMHoro AeTIII.

Pe3ynbTaTHlIIK no )«lII3HlII scrpe-raerca pexe, HO npOlll3BOAlIIT sne-rarneuae 60nee sapocnoro -renosexa. Pe3ynbTaTHlIIKY He ,TaK Ba)«HO, 6YAeT nerxo IIInlII TPYAHO, - OH YMeeT npeononesars JpYAHOCTIII, - eMY aaxaee acero nousrs: «3ayeM? Bo IIIMfI yero? LJTO AOn)«HO OCTaTbCfI B peaynsrare?»

Hanparaep, ecnu X03f1VrKa peuiuna IIIcneYb 6nlllHbl, eVr npeACTOsn nplllflTHble xnonoru no rOTOBKe (aTO npouecc) III OHa nonYYIIIT 6nlllHbl (aTO pesvnsrar). Teneps: OAHa aaoornnaaa X03f1VrKa nexer BKYCHble 6nlllHbl, nOTOMY YTO AOMaWHIIIX HSAO HaKopMIIITb III OHIII 6nlllHbl nro6f1T. Apyras aatiorrutsaa X03f1VrKa npOCTO nro6l11T ne-rs 6m'lHbl, OHa ne-ier IIIX acerna III never crone- 1<0, CKonbKO eVr HpaBIIITcfI. A AOMaWHlIIe ... A AOMawHIIIM HSAO 6YAeT see 6nlllHbl npocro csecrs: «Hy Anfl KOrO)«e fI IIIX aarorosana?»

npOLl,eCCHIIIK IIIAeT Ha yn III L1,Y, nOToMY YTO npexpacaaa norona, III rvnser TYAa, KYAa sne-er Aywa III nopora. Pe3ynbTaTHlIIK CMOTPIIIT sa OKHO, OAeBaeTCfI no norene III IIIAeT KYAa HSAO, no Aeny. Anfl npOLl,eCCHIIIKa onpenensuouias cnna - norona, Anfl pe3ynbTaTHIIIKa norona - uexoropoe ycnosue, KOTOpoe MO)«eT 6blTb Bs)«HbIM.

Bbl peumna '-IIIITaTb aTY KHV1ry, '-IT06bl ynyYWIIITb CBOro )«1II3Hb. Ecnn nocne Ka)«AoVr CTpaHIIILI,bl Bbl ocraaaanaeaeTe ce6f1, cnpaumsaere: «LJTO fI nony-rnn? KaK fI MoryaTo IIICnOnb30BaTb?» - Bbl pe3ynbTaTHIII K. Ecnu '-IIIITaeTe crpaHIIILI,y aa CTpaHIIILI,eVr, nOTOMY YTO: «l-1HTepeCHO! 3AOPOBO! Yanexarensao!» - Bbl npOLl,eCCHIIIK.

np0611eM Y Hac HeT.

Y Hac ecrs 3aAa4(.1.

It! 04eHb TBOp4eCK(.1e 3aAa4(.1!

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AYMaTb 0 peHTa6eJlbHOCn1 npOLJ,eCCHII1KY - He 6JlIl13KO. Ero YTOTO YBJleKJlO - see, OH B nenet - a CYII1TaTb nplI106peTeHII1f1 111 norepu ... - Aa -iepr C HII1MII1, Bblnelllll1 3a6YAb! npOLJ,eCCHII1K 111 HY)I(AaeTCfI B TaIllM-MeHeA)l(MeHTe, 111 BHYTpeHHe orsepraer ero. EMY npow,e COBepWII1Tb TPYAOBOIII nOABlI1r 111 nOTOM ueneruo Banarsca nocne Hero, HlI1yero He nenas: «3HaeWb, MeHfI YTO-TO HlI1yero He eoonyuresnaet ... », yeM patiorars pa3MepeHHO, BblnOJlHfIfi HaMeyeHHbl1ll nnaa.

npOLJ,eCCHII1KII1 He JlI06f1T 03aAaYlI1BaTb ce6f1 LJ,eJlflMII1, TeM 60Jlee LJ,eJlflMII1 yeTKII1MlI1111 KOHKpeTHbIMII1: B JlYYWeM cny-rae OHII1 CTaBflT ce6e rpaHII1LJ,bl: «s:J 6YAY 3aHlI1MaTbCfI STII1MII1 6YMaraMlI1 C 06eAa, noxa He cnenaio». LleTKlI1e 111 KOHKpeTHble LJ,eJlIl1, CPIl1KCII1PylOw,lI1e 6YAYW,1I1111 pesynsrar, CTaBflT ce6e TOJlbKO pe3YJlbTaTHlI1KlI1 - 111 Bbl saaere, YTO TaKII1X JlIOAelil HeMHoro.

npOLJ,eCCHII1K - 6Jlll130K CJlaBflHCKOMY MeHTaJlIl1TeTY, pe- 3YJlbTaTHlI1K 6Jlll1)1(e K MeHTaJlIl1TeTY 3anaAHoMY.

npll1 npll1eMe Ha pa60TY pa3Jlll1YlI1Tb pe3YJlbTaTHlI1Ka OT npOLJ,eCCHII1KOB MO)l(HO, 3aAaB, K npll1Mepy, sonpoc: «KaKII1M Bbl ce6f1 BII1- AII1Te sepea rpa rona?» npOLJ,eCCHII1K cxaxer: «MeHfI 6YAyT yBa)l(aTb, y MeHfI 6YAeT II1HTepeCHafi patiora». «6YAY PYKOBOAII1TeJleM OTAeJla nponax» - OTBeT pe3YJlbTaTHII1Ka. npOLJ,eCCHII1K no ceoea BOJle He runner nnaa patioru 111 nena Ha AeHb, OH 111 TaK nnuaer OT C06b1TII1f1 K C06b1TII1IO, Y pe3YJlbTaTHlI1Ka 06blYHO ecrs 3anll1CaHHbllll nnan nen ceronaauiuero AHfI.

ECJlIl1 npOLJ,eCCHII1Ka npll1YYII1Tb, OH roxe 6YAeT nacars nena Ha AeHb, HO ero nena 111 nena pe3YJlbTaTHlI1Ka asv-rar nO-APyroMY. Ha 6YMare (II1JlIl1 B Outlook'e) y 060ll1x MO)l(eT 6blTb aanacaao KOPOTKO: «(,1BaHOB», -Flerpoa», «CoaeuiaHille», HO YCTHble paCWII1CPPOBKII1 Y HII1X 06blYHO pa3JlIl1YHble. npOLJ,eCCHII1K nOfiCHII1T: «C03BOHII1TbCfI C (,1BaHoBbIM. Fleperosopare C Flerpoasua. npOBeCTII1 coseutauae». Pe- 3YJlbTaTHlI1K re )l(e cauue nena Ha AeHb paccxaxer noAPyrOMY: «,D,O)l(aTb (,1 BaHOBa AO aaxaaa. A06blTb y neTposa 111 HcpopMaLJ,1I1 10. Ha cOBew,aHII1I11 nars TOJlYOK npoexry»,

06blYHOe Hawe OKpY)l(eHlI1e - AelilcTBII1TeJlbHO, npOLJ,eCCHII1KII1. OAHaKO HeJlb3f1 CKa3aTb, YTO pe3YJlbTaTHlI1K scerna nv-uue, yeM np0LJ,eCCHII1K: ace cnoxuee 111 II1HTepeCHee.

Mbl ece TaKl.1e pa3Hbie

MO)l(HO BblAeJlIl1Tb rpu KaTerOpll1111 npOLJ,eCCHII1KOB: OTBeTCTBeHJ-Ible, 6e3AYMHbie 111 II1CKaTeJlIl1 c-racrss.

OTBeTCTBeHHbliii npou,eCCHI.1K - STO, Hanpll1Mep, 6yxraJlTep, xoropas 3aHlI1MaeTCfI csoea 6yxraJlTepll1elll 111 KBapTaJlbHblMII1 OTyeTaMII1 npOCTO nOTOMY, YTO STO acerna AOJl)l(HO 6blTb cnenaHO, 111 CAeJlaHO KayeCTBeHHO.

Aa)l(e xorna STO HII1KOMY He HY)l(HO ...

5e3AYMHbllii npou,eCCHI.1K rOTOB xonars OTCIOAa 111 AO 06eAa. KYAa xonaeurs, 3ayeM konaeurs? «He 3HalO. Cxaaanu - BOT 111 KOnaio ... »,D,nfl Hero Bce npOCTO: KaK II1AeT - TaK II1I11AeT.

,D,nfl I.1CKaTeneiii c~aCTbSl He Ba)l(HO YTO nenars 111 AIlfi -iero, rnaeuoe - AOCTaBJlfleT JlIl1 npOLJ,eCC )l(1I13HII1 111M paAOCTb, aanonHeHHOCTb, ouivuieuae SHeprll1111 111 CMbICJla. XOAII1Tb no necv, paaroaapaears, CMeflTbCfI C APY3bflMII1, W,YPIl1TbCfI Ha COJlHLJ,e - III 6blTb TOJlbKO B STOM, He AYMafi 0 sana-tax 111 rpesorax 3aBT-

pauiaero AHO <C4A~ 1 .. " ....... >

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npaBAa, '-ITO pe3YJlbTaTHL-1KL-1, ynupascs B AOCTL-1)1(eHL-1e CBOL-1X ueJleVi, HepeAKO JlL-1WaIOT ce651 C'-IaCTb5l. 3TO <t>aKT, 3TO He HOBOCTb. A npOu,ecCHL-1KL-1, nOCKOJlbKY OHL-1 Ha C'-IaCTbe OpL-1eHTL-1pOBaHbl, MOMeHTbl C'-IaCTb51 asrxaareraaior ce6e 6blcTpee. Toxe npasna. 111 KaKoVi L-13 sroro BbIBOA?

TaK BOT: H·L-1KaKoro. He TOpOnL-1Tecb.

Bo-nepBblx, ecrs L-1 APyra51 3aKOHOMepHOCTb: TOT, KTO ynepro Hau,eJleH Ha C'-IaCTbe L-1 ero see BpeM5I L-1w,eT, C'-IaCTJlL-1BbIM 6blBaeT CL-1JlbHO peAKO. OAL-1H L-13 cauux HaAe)l(HblX cnocotios y6L-1Tb paAOCTb )l(L-13HL-1, 3TO ace BpeM5I CnpaWL-1BaTb ce651: «A BOT ceaxac 51 C'-IaCTJlL-1B? A cea-rac?»

BO-BTOPbIX, C'-IaCTbe, KaK nspexneaHL-1e, uensio )l(L-13HL-1 He 51BJl5leTC5I. TO'-lHee, MO)l(eT 51BJl5lTbC5I, a MO)l(eT L-1 HeT. npOu,eCCHL-1KY HpaBL-1TC5I raxoe nepe)l(L-1BaHL-1e - 3TO ero u,eHHOCTL-1. Pe3yJlbTaTH~KY saxaee pesvnsrar, a nepe)l(~BaH~51 BO BTOPYIO o-iepens.

HanOJleOH, ornansraaacs Ha CBOIO )l(L-13Hb, COC'-I~TaJl B HeVi scero -ierupe C'-IaCTJl~BbIX AH5I. Hy ~ '-ITO? EMY HY)I(Ha 6blJla <ppaHu,~51, OH XOTeJl nonapnrs <ppaHu,~~ CB060AY, pa- 3YMHbie 3aKOHbl, 3<t><t>eKT~BHYIO 3KOHOM~KY - ~ 3TO 6blJlO An51 Hero eaxaee, '-IeM era Jl~'-IHble nepe)l(~BaH~51. 60Jlbuine JlIOA~ Ha CBO~ 3MOU,~~ oopauiaior BH~MaH~51 He CJl~WKOM MHoro. AHa pesynsraru - BH~MaH~e ofipauialOT 06513aTeJlbHO. 3TO ~M Ba)l(HO.

Flpaannsuee scero socrurrsrears B ce6e YH~BepCaJla: 6blTb scerna Hau,eJleHHbIM Ha pesynsrar ~ OAHOBpeMeHHO JlOB~Tb nOCT05lHHO oxpyxaiouiae Hac MOMeHTbl c-racrsa. A '-IT06bl K YHL-1BepCaJlY np~ViT~ 6blcTpee, nv-uue Ha'-l~HaTb C Bblpa60TK~ B ce6e Ka'-leCTB pe3YJlbTaTH~Ka: pe3YJlbTaTH~K~ YHL-1BepCaJlaM~ npu )l(eJlaH~~ CTaHOB5ITC5I nerxo, a BOT nooueccanxa - ecnu TOJlbKO CJlY'-IaViHO. nOTOMY '-ITO OH~ nnusvr no )I(~3H~ ~ uenu CTaB~Tb - He YMeIOT.

Pe3YJlbTaTH~K~ raxxe 6blBalOT pa3HbIM~, ~ AeJlO He TOJlbKO B TOM, '-ITO OA~H ~3 H~X cnacarens MYC, a APyroVi - peViAep ... KTO-TO B pe)l(~Me aocopora nper, nponawsrsaa npen5lTCTB~51, KTO-TO CJlO)l(HO naenpver, ~CnOJlb3Y5I Te'-leH~51 ~ serpa, HO ecex ~X 06beA~H5IeT OAHO: B~AeH~e uenu, KOTOpa51 AOJl)l(Ha 6blTb AOCT~rHYTa. A C'-IaCTbe ~ PaAOCTb )I(~3H~ An51 HL-1X TOJlbKO pecypc, TOJlbKO cpencrso, TOJlbKO cnocoo nepeAB~)I(eH~51. K uenu ny-uue ~AT~ 60APO- 3Hepr~51 PaAOCT~ nouoraer ~ATL-1 6bICTpee, HO ecnu C'-IaCTbe cnesa, a ~CKOMbIVi pesvnsrar cnpasa, TO peaynsraran« He nepenvraer ~ HaJleBO He noaner.

YHMBepcanbl M no<l»MrMcTbl

CaMoe ne-ansuoe - OKa3aTbC5I no<t>L-1r~CTOM, xorna npou,ecc He MOT~B~pyIOT (<<H~'-Iero He XO'-leTC5I!»), npou,ecc He paaver (<<CKy-y-'-IHO!»), a pesynsrar 6e3pa3Jl~'-IeH TeM 60Jlee (<<A Ha <t>~ra?»). >K~3Hb «H~ TO H~ ce», ECJlL-1 '-IeJlOBeK B TaKOM nesansHOM cyw,eCTBOBaH~~ BCTpeT~TC5I C pe3yJlbTaTH~KOM, 06bl'-lHblM ~TorOM CTaHeT HenOH~MaH~e ~ paaapaxeaae. EAL-1HCTBeHHO np~BJleKaTeJlbHbiM op~eHT~pOM eMY Ka)l(eTC5I COCT05lHL-1e npou,eCCH~Ka: BCe-TaK~ ~ paAOCTb ecrs, ~ nena XOTb KaK-TO ~AYT~, rnaBHpe, Hanp5lraTbC5I oc06eHHO He HaAO.

,D,eJlOBble JlIOA~ veaxaior pe3YJlbTaTHL-1KOB. nO<t>~r~CTbl JlI0651T npou,eCCHL-1KOB.

nO<t>~r~CTbl y6e)I(AeHbl: «>K~3Hb, TO ecrs HaCT05lUJ,a51 )I(~3Hb - 3TO KOrAa KaVi<t> OT npoueccal- Aa, 3TO n03~u,~51 npoueccHL-1Ka. n03~U,~51 peavnsraraaxa: «>KL-13Hb, TO ecrs HaCT05lw,a51 )I(~3Hb - 3TO xorna YAaJlOCb '-ITO-TO peansnoe cnenarsl-

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Ecnu B BaC ecrs ua-iana 111 npOLl,eCCHII1- xa, 111 pe3ynbTaTHII1Ka, onpenensarecs. B xoro 6YAeTe ce6s:J pa3BII1BaTb. Mos peKOMeHAaLl,II1s:J: nYCTb BaW nepBblVi war 6YAeT B CTOPOHY pe3ynbTaTHII1Ka. Tonsxo - npaBlI1nbHoro pe3ynbTaTHII1Ka!

Cepre~

3AopOBbeM CepreVi He 6neLUeT Y)I(e CeVl'"laC, 111 ecrs cepseaHble OnaCeHII1s:J, '"lTO npn TaKOM ofipase )l(1I13HII1 ero anopcsse CKOpO 3aKOH'"lIl1TCs:J. HeT 3AOPOBbs:J - YXOAII1T aueprus )l(1I13HII1, 61113Hec KpeHII1TCs:J, 111 npOCTO: a 3a'"leM rorna ace, ecnu ne)l(II1Wb Ha 60nbHII1'"lHOVI KOVlKe, naxe B caMOVI nY'"lweVi KnIl1HII1- Ke? 3TO HBAanbHOBII1AHblVi 06pa3 )l(1I13HII1, 111 CepreVi He anonae npaBlI1nbHblVi pe3ynbTaTHII1K. npaBlI1nbHblVl pe3ynbTaTHII1K TOT, )(TO 3a60TII1TCs:J He ronsxo 0 6nll1)1(aVlWII1X, HO 111 0 AanbHlI1x pe- 3ynbTaTax.

111 sropoe. ECTb Q)ll1PMbl, 1113 KOTOPblX COTPYAHII1KII1 YXOAII1Tb He XOTs:JT, nOTOMY TaM pa60TalOT ycneuruue 111 c-racrnaasre ruoAlii, uacrosuiaa KOMaHAa, YMeIOLUas:J 111 nI06s:JLUas:J csoe Aeno. npll1 3TOM, ecnu 1113 TaKOVI <j:>II1PMbl nlOAII1 BCe-TaKII1 YXOAs:JT, OHII1 YHOCflT C c060Vl npll1Bbl'"lKY TBOp'"leCKII1 patiorare, aTMOcoepv COTPYAHII1'"leCTBa. OHII1 - HOCII1Tenll1 n03111TII1BHOro 61113- Heca.

Y Ceprea npyroa CTlI1nb 61113Heca 111 APYroe OTHOWeHlI1e K nIOAs:JM. Cepreu 6eper OT nlOAeVi TO, '"lTO OT HII1X MO)l(HO B3f1Tb, 111 Bbl6paCblBaeT rex, 1113 KOTOPblX 60nbwe He'"lerO auxars. II1cnonb30Ban, npasen B HerOAHOCTb, BbI6poclI1n ... 3TO neuresoe 111 YA06Hoe peureaue, HO, nenas CBOVI nll1'"lHblVi 61113Hec 3<j:><j:>eKTII1BHbIM, Ceprea YHII1'"lTO)l(aeT nepCneKTII1BHYIO pa60'"lYIO ClI1ny csoero ropoaa.

Ha pe3YflbTaT, He 3a6blBa~Te snuxan, C4aCTbe!

Cepreji B 61113Hece C 15-TII1 ner, cea-iac eMY 21. Ha-ran C OpraHII13aLl,II1111 CeTII1 KOMnblOTepHblx canOHOB, 3aHII1Mancs:J oxpaHHblM 61113HeCOM, cea'"lac pa3BOpa'"lIl1BaeT B ropoAe TlI1nOrpa<j:>CKlI1e ycnyra, -iepea 10 ner 6YAeT eoarnaanars <j:>II1PMY, 3aHII1MaIOLUYIOCfI II1ccneAOBaHII1s:JMII1 111 np0ll13BOACTBOM B 06naCTII1 reHHOVlIl1H)l(eHepll1l11.

06s:J3aTenbHO 6YAeT - nOTOMY '"lTO rOBOpll1T 06 3TOM y6e)I(AeHHO, KaK 0 cave c060Vl pa3YMeIOLUeMCs:J, II1MeeT '"leTKlI1e nnauu peanll13aLl,II1111 aroro npoexra 111 npOCTO nOTOMY, '"lTO see CBOIl1 nnanu OH npasu« nenars: nenars vcneurao.

Ha patiorv OH npll1XOAII1T nepBblM, yxOAII1T nOCneAHII1M, 1I13TO npn TOM, '"lTO ero nOA'"lIl1HeHHble 06bl'"lHO paasuie AeBs:JTII1 Be-epa He YXOAflT. Ceprea XBMII1TCs:J TeM, '"lTO K CBOIl1M 21 roAaM OH ~e ysonan 60nbwe AByxCOT COTPYAHII1KOB, 111 AeVlcTBII1TenbHO 1113 nlOAeVl OH COKII1 Bbl)l(II1MaeT: II1nll1 nasaa pesynsTaT, II1nll1 BMII1. ,D,eBYWKa Y Hero ecrs, OH acrpe-iaerca C HeVl ABa pasa B ueneruo, KOrAa OHa npll1XOAII1T K HeMY Ha paoory ...

Ceprea O'"leBII1AHO ycnewHblVl 61113HeCMeH 111 s:JPKO Bblpa)l(eHHblVl pe3ynbTaTHII1K.

Bbl - XOTII1Te 6blTb pe3ynbTaTHII1KOM? TaKII1M pe3ynbTaTHII1- KOM?

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npaBI1f1bHbl~ pe3YflbTaTHI1K TOT, KTO 3a6oTI1TCfI

o pesynsrarax He TOflbKO CBOI1X,

Te-ier KpaCII1Bas:J pexa, Ha ee 6epery BCTan 3aBOA, 6epeT 1113 Hee BOAY '"lIl1CTyIO 111 c6paCblBaeT 06paTHO rps:J3HYIO.

,D,a, 3TO 3<j:><j:>eKTII1BHbIVl 61113Hec - 3KOHOMII1Tb Ha noporux O'"lIl1CTHblX COOp~eHII1s:JX, HO Mbl CKOPO He 3aXOTII1M )l(II1Tb oxono 3TOVI CTO'"lHOVl «aaasu. ,D,eweBoe peuieuue TyT - HeAanbHOBII1AHOe peuresue.

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'{enoaex ecrs TO, LJTO OH paa aa pa30M Bbl61tlpaeT nenars. Ecnu Bbl Bbl61tlpaeTe nenars TO, LJTO HpaBItlTC5I, Itl nenars STO CTOllbKO, CKOllbKO XOLJeTC5I, - Bbl CLJaCTllltlBblVi LJellOBeK, HO Bbl cxopee acero

)l(ItlBeTe npOWllblM. nOLJeMY?

«HpaBItlTC5I» - STO TO, LJTO COOTBeTcTByeT TeM nOTpe6HOCT5IM, xoropue Y HaC ~e cnoxnnacs. «XOLJeTC5I» - STO rpeooeaaae, It1CXoA5Iw,ee OT ~e CllO)l(ItlBWItlXC5I nOTpe6HOCTeVl: «,lJ,aVl! XOLJeTC5I!» 3TO COBceM He nnoxo, STO 6blBaeT Itl KpaCItlBO Itl PaAOCTHO, TOllbKO STO scerna uauie npoumoe.

nOAPOCTKY HpaBItlTC5I 6eraTb, neucnouepy XOLJeTC5I nonexars. 3TO He anonue ero Bbl60p - STO eCTeCTBeHHoe rpetiosaaae ero rena, a reno He AYMaeT 0 HaweM 6YAYw,eM.

npaBltlllbHblVi peavnsraraax TOT, KTO 3a6oTItlTC5I 0 pesvnsrarax He TOllbKO CBOItlX, HO Itl rex, KTO ero oxpvxaer, TOT, Y xoro paaanTO CItlCTeMHOe MblWlleHltle.

MToro:

Ilpotinewa Cepres He B TOM, LJTO OH pesynsranuec. OH - HeAOCTaTOLJHO peaynsraran«, OH npekpacuo nponyesan 6llltl)l(HItle Itl cpennne peaynsraru csoea )l(1tl3HItl, a HaYLJItlTbC5I AYMaTb 0 AallbHItlX peaynsrarax eMY ew,e npeACTOItlT.

4TO OH pas aa pa30M Bbl611paeT nenars

Ilnau: 6POCOK B 6YAy~ee

«HpaBItlTC5I» Itl «XOLJeTC5I» - npexpacaoe vxpauieaae AocioVlHOVI )l(1tl3HItl, HO He ee 6a3a Itl OCHOBa. OCHOBa )l(1tl3HItl, YCTpeMlleHHOVI B 6YAyw,ee, - AOCTOVlHblVi nllaH.

nllaH - STO 6POCOK' B 6YAyw,ee. nllaH saurero AH5I - STO Bawe 6YAyw,ee ceronsn. nllaH Ha MeC5ILI, Itl xaapran - 6YAyw,ee s<1>$eKTItlBHOVI opraauaauaa. Saw nnau Ha rOA Itl aa )l(1tl3Hb - STO saure 6YAyw,ee.

nlOAeVl, )l(ItlBYW,ItlX 6YAYW,ItlM, - HeMHOroo

MHoro llltl Bbl BCTpeLJaeTe rnonea, KOTOpble cepseauo nnauapyior CBOIO )l(1tl3Hb, BeLJepOM CTP05lT KapTItlHKY npeACT05lw,ero ItlM AH5I, yrPOM CTaB5IT ce6e sanaLJItl, COCTaBll5llOT nnau AH5I Itl STOT nnaa

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nnaHbl AeHMCa

IIIlOnb 1726, 20-neTHHIII MonoAOIII -ienoee« CHAHT B xaiore MeAneauoro napoxona, nrusrayuiero B AMepHKY, H nauier B CBoeM nYTeBoM AHeBHHKe:

. «,D,o aroro 51 HHKorAa He COCTaBn5ln nnaua csoea >KH3HH, a nOTOM), OHa npeACTaBn5lna c060111 pa3Ho06pa3HYIO CMeCb pa3.m1LfHb1X cu,eH. Teneps 51 scrynajo B HOBYIO >KH3Hb. no- 3TOMY, na 6YAeT MHe n03BoneHO npHH5ITb aexorooue peWeHH5I H Ha6pocaTb TaKYIO cxeMY AeIllCTBH5I, LfT06bl anpens >KHTb TaK, KaK nOA06aeT pa3YMHOMY cvuiecrsv,

B TeLfeHHe H3BeCTHoro BpeMeHH MHe He06xOAHMO 6blTb KpalllHe 6epe)l(JlHBblM, nosa 51 He onna-ry see, LfTO npaoeoen.

CTapaTbC5I rosopan, npasny B nlO60111 MOMeHT; He naurare HHKoro HaAe>KAbl aa TO, LfTO OH nonv-urr OTBeT, crpeMHTbC5I K HCKpeHHOCTH B Ka>KAOM cnose H nOCTYnKe - aaH60nee npHBneKaTenbHoe npeHMyw,eCTBO pa3YMHoro cyuiecrsa.

np05lBn5lTb TPYAonlO6He BO BC5IKOM nene, aa xaxoe 6bl HH B351nC5I, H He nasars ce651 YBneYb rnynblMH npOeKTaMH saeaanaoro 060raw,eHH5I, H60 TPYAonlO6He H repneuae CYTb Ba>KHeIllWHe cpencrsa K AOCTaTKY.

s:J npHHHMalO peureuue He roBOPHTb nnoxoro HH 0 KOM, XOT5I 6bl 3TO 6blna H rtpasna; HanpOTHB, CTapaTbC5I onpasAblBaTb no B03MO>KHOCTH LfY>KHe HeAOCTaTKH H npa BC5IKOM YA06HOM cny-rae roaopars 0 Ka>KAOM see xopowee, LfTO MHe 0 HeM H3BeCTHO».

3TO nncan ce6e 6eHA>KaMHH <DpaHKnHH. 3TO 6blno ero BHAeHHe npaBHnbHOIII >KH3HH Hero nnau.

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,D,eHHC YLfHTC5I B OAHOM H3 npeCTH>KHbIX LfaCTHblX xonnenxea BenHK06pHTaHHH. Pacnucaaue AH5I OLfeHb >KeCTKoe: nOAbeM B 7.00, 6erqM Ha MonHTBY, B re-reune scero AH5I YPOKH, nepewe)KaeMble cnopTHBHblMH 3aH5ITH5IMH, ee-iepou nOArOTOBKa AOMaWHHX 3aH5ITHIII H oT601ll. ,D,HCu,HnnHHa.

MOIII sonpoc: «,D,eHHc, KeM Tbl XOLfeWb 6blTb? KaK Tbl npencrasnseuis ce6e ceoe 6YAyw,ee?»

,D,anbwe nponaourno HeBep05lTHoe.

,D,eHHc B351n nHCTOK 6YMarH H cran pucoaars nnaa-rpadiu« csoea >KH3HH aa 6nH>Ka1llWHe neaauan, ner, B rpadiu« ynO>KHnoes see: nOCTYnneHHe B IIITOH, 3aAaLfH YLfe6bl no rOAaM, CMeHa AeTCKHX pa3BneLfeHHIII Ha 60nee aspocnue x066H, nocrynneaue B Iapaapn, nanee 3aAaLfH Ha Ka>I<Abllll rOA, H3MeHeHHe MOTHBau,HH nocne 20 H 27 ner, AHHaMHKa xapsepu H nHLfHOIII >KH3HH ...

OTBeTHB MHe, OH Be)l(JlHBO nonarepecoaanca, nonuo nH OH OTBeTHn Ha MOIII sonpoc H HY>KHbl MHe KaKHe-HH6YAb nononaurensaue pa3b5lCHeHH5I.

s:J nofinaronapnn, MHe 6bln0 AOCTaTOLfHO. AeHHCY OAHHHaAu,aTb ner,

He 6YAeT nH AeHHcy CKYLfHO: BeAb OH ece 3HaeT? HHKorAa. AeHHc npo CBOIO >KH3Hb He 3HaeT - OH CBOIO >KH3Hb nnaHOM CTPOHT, a 3TO neno raop-iecxoe, He npocroe H He CKYLfHoe. CKYLfHOIII >KH3Hb nenaior He nnaasr, a nnauu MenKHe H cnaoue, 06b1LfHa51 >KH3Hb,

nnoxoro HI1 0 KOM, XOTR 6bl 3TO 6blJla 11 npaBAa

06paMneHHbiM B5InbiM nnaHOM - cnOKOIIIHa H HHorAa CKYLfHa. Ilnau, nOAHHMalOw,HIII -renoaexa Ha CHnbHYIO >KH3Hb, KHAalOw,HIII Bbl30B - pO>KAaeT HHTepec H 3HeprHIO.

CKY4H0i.1 }f{113Hb nenaior He nnauu, a nJlaHbl MeJlKl1e 11 cnatiue

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He 6YAeT IH1 ,lJ,eHttlCa nnau CKoBbIBaTb? Yaepen, YTO HeT. Ilnaa _ 3TO rttl~6KttI';" crepxeus, 3TO nOAcKa3Ka, 3TO opnexrap, a TBOpyeCKttIttI -iencae« scerna cxoppexrupyer nnaa, ecna MeHHeTCH )f(tt13Hb.

)l(tt1Tb no nnaay, ecnu 3TO nnan Ae';"cTBttlTenbHO saur, - AOCTO';"HO. Ecnu B CBoeM nnase Bbl euie ttl yynttl TO, YTO BaM HpaBttlTCH ttl XOYeTCH, Y aac BenttlKOnenHbl';" nnau ttl 3aMeYaTenbHoe 6YAYuiee.

YMeHttle )f(tt1Tb paAOCTblO ceronasunrero AHH - 3TO ttl eCTb CYaCTbe. CYaCTbe - He nanexaa uens, a eCTeCTBeHHbl';" cnoco6 nepeABttI)f(eHttlH, ecnn Y Hac ecrs 3Ta 30nOTaH npttlBblYKa: paAOBaTbCH npoCTblM Be uta M , xoropue OKpY)f(aIOT Hac scerna.

UJ,I!1M» , Anexcaanpa oreeruna B03pa)f(eHttleM: «)I(tt1Tb HaCTOHUJ,I!1M». MHe noupaeunocs - OHa HanttlCana CttlnbHO. Ho MHe Ka)f(eTCH, OHa uanncana npo npvroe: npo YTO? KaK 3TO npo-urraere Bbl? CnOBO Anexcasnpe:

«B AaneKo.M COnHeYHOM AeTCTBe see 6blno: «nOTOM!»

nOTOM cnenaio YPOKttI, a noxa nO';"AY rynars ... nOTOM 6YAY nenars 3apHAKY Ka)f(Abl';" AeHb, a cea-ac norpa-iy nonnaa Ha cocraaneaue xpacaeoro «Pe)f(tt1Ma ,D,HH» B paMOYKe ... nOTOM Ha';"AY caoe npttl3BaHttle, a ceasac 3aKOHYY BOT 3TOT tt1HCTttI-ryT, YTO- 6bl KOpOYKa 6blna ... nOTOM - Y MeHH 6YAeT cYMacweAWttl';" poMaH C TaKttlM napaeu, YTO see AeBYOHKttI OT aasncru n03eneHelOT ... a noxa nO';"AY KaTaTbCH Ha MOTOLl,tt1Kne C BecenblM pasnon- 6aeM BaCbKO';" ...

nOTOM H6YAY xpacaeoa, 6oraTO';" ttl c-racrnu BO';", 6YAY e3AttlTb B KOMaHAttlpOBKttI B nOHAOH ttl napttl)f(, Hanttlwy KHttlry ttl Hayyycb KaTaTbCH Ha BOAHblX nbl)f(ax ... KOrAa-Httl6YAb ...

A nOTOM - ponanuce csoa nera, ttl «nOTOM» He crane. >l He MOry ornoxars uanacaaae KOHTponbHO';" Ha aasrpa, ecnn CBO- 60AHbie nonyaca nOHBttlnttlCb cerOAHH. nOTOMY YTO aaarpa - He\'I3BeCTHO, 6YAYT nttl Y MeHH 3TttI non-raca, >l He Mory ornoxurs paaaaaaiouute tt1rpbl C AeTbMttI, nOTOMY YTO YYttlTb tt1X HaAO ~e cea-iac, noxa ManeHbKttle. 111 H He Mory CTaHOBttlTbCH 60raTO';", xpacneoa ttl ycneWHO';" nOTOM - nOTOMY YTO npttlMep tt1M HaAO nonasars Y)f(e ceronua. Bce, YTO H Mory, - H cnenaio npHMO cea-rac, Bce, YTO H XOYY, - H XOYY Y)f(e ceronual

nOTOM - 6YAYT nOArY3HttlKttI ttl BeTpHHKttI, 6eCCOHHbie HOY ttl ttl ycTanOCTb, 6eCKOHeYHbie nena, see 60nbwe tt160nbWe 06H3aHHOCTe';" ttl pacxonos, nepsue MOPlLlttlHbl, nOTOM ace TPYAHee 6yAeT noxvners tt1nttl BblYYttlTb cppaHLI,Y3CKttI';". Bce nopoxe ttl AOPOxe 6YAYT «poure-mue AOMttlKttI Ha ore ct>paHLI,tt1tt1, see npnanexarensaee 6YAeT YIOTHoe xpecno ttl nnen, see TpYAHee 6YAeT copeBHoBaTbCH C MonOAblMttI ttl rOpHYttlMttI ... n03TOMY - HY)f(HO ycners Y)f(e ce';"yac! nOKa MOry. nOKa, cauoe rnasuoe - XOYy. noKa KTO-TO APYro';" He HanttlCan 0 TOM, 0 yeM XOTenOCb aanncan-

>KMTb HaCTOSlUJ.MM?

Bsuuen tt13 AOMa Ha ynttlLl,Y - Ha Te6H onPOKttlAblBaeTCH npOCTOp csernoro He6a ttl nnOTHaH CBe>KeCTb B03Ayxa. II1Aewb no vnnue - reoe nOIOT nTttlLI,bl, MawYT BeTKaMttI nepeess, ttl Tbl MO)f(eWb, «orna 3aXOyeTCH, 6e)f(aTb. BeyepOM npaneun, AOMO';", TaM 6YAeT renno ttl YIOTHO,' MO)f(HO BKnIOYttlTb )f(enTbl';" CBeT ttl BblnttlTb yalO C nttlMOHOM tt13 AbIMHUJ,e';"CH yaWKttI ...

TOT, KTO YMeeT 3TO BttlAeTb ttl 3TttlM >KttlTb, Ha eonpoc 0 CYaCTbe OTBernr: «Bcerna!»

Ho «)f(tt1Tb HaCTOHUJ,tt1M» 6blBaeT ttl APYrttlM. Ha CttlHTOHOBCKOM cpOPYMe, korna oocvxnanacs ara rnaaa: «)I(tt1Tb 6YAY-

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MHe ... Iloxa KTO-HIII6YAb npyroa He Kynllln TY Tpe6ylOw,ylO peMOHTa pa3BanlOWKY Y MOPH, KOTOPYIO 51 BIIIAena a-tepa BO CHe ...

Ha MOIl1 B3mHA, STO He npo «>KIIITb HacTOHw,IIIM», a npo HeYMeHille ocraunaoean, csoe 6YAyw,ee. 3TO npo rex, KTO 3aHlIIManCH nYCTblM MeYTaHlIIeM, He npeTBOpHH MeYTbl B KOHKpeTHble nnaHbl. KTO neHIIIBO nnaHlIIpOBan, BpOAe KaK HaMeyan, HO - He Aenan. flpo rex, KTO 3aHlIIManCH q,lIIrHell1, KTO >KlIIn He c06paHHO, oaccesnuo III BpaCKaYKY.

,lJ,eIl1CTBIIITenbHO, ecnu STO nenars nonro, >K1II3Hb npOXOAIIIT anyCTYIO, TepHeTCH BpeMH III TepHIOTCH craproeus B03MO>KHOCTIII. A xorna BpeMH ywno III >K1II3Hb npuxana, xorna OCTPO npunexno, Aell1CTBI-1TenbHO 0 6YAyw,eM CTaHOBI-1TCH AYMaTb CnO>KHO ... Teneps, xorna BpeMeHI-1 Y>Ke HeT 1-1 OnepaTI-1BHb11l1 npocrop norepHH, HY>KHO ronsxo KPYTI-1TbCH B «cea-rac», aaruxas AblPbl 1-13anpeutas ce6e MeYTaTb 1-1 nnaHl-1pOBaTb, nOTOMY YTO neyanbHbl1l1 onsrr Y>Ke ecrs 1-1 BblBOAbl cnenasu: nnaaaposan, MHe 6ecnoneaso, MeYTaTb MHe - myno.

KTO He YMeeT nnaHl-1pOBaTb 6YAyw,ee, BbIHY>KAeH OnepaTI-1BHO cyeTI-1TbCH. 111 >KI-1Tb ronsxo HacToHw,I-1M.

s:I AYMalO, BbIHY>KAeHHOMY 1-1 MenKOMY HacToHw,eMY Bbl npezmo-rrero eonuuos 1-1 cB060AHoe 6YAyw,ee. Ho sa Hero HY>KHO 6YAeT - paoorars. Pa60TaTb 1-1 AYMaTb. ,lJ,YMaTb naxe 0 TOM, rtpaaans-ro nl-1 APY>KI-1Tb C BecenblM pa3Aon6aeM BaCbKoll1 ... »

Bawe npeAHa3HaLJeHllle

HII1KOnaM IIIBaHoBwl, He,aaBHO fI nepesntueene nayno Koenso. Seuennne rexe« Mblcnb: «Y «exiioro nenoeeee ecrs csos noeunesne-enne, CBOM )I(II13HeHHbiM nyt», 111 ronuco eunonne« 3TO npe,aHa3HaLfeHlI1e, OH cyueer cnener« CBOIO )I(II13Hb oeuocrnou, HanonHeHHoM cuucnov»,

«Y Ka>KAorO -renoaexa ecrs caoe npenuaauaseaee», - cxaaan Kosnbo. 3TO KpaCI-1BO, B STO XOyeTCH aepars. 60nee roro, noxo)1(9, B STO aepars npocro Heo6xOAI-1MO: KaK noxasana 6l-1orpac!>l-1yeCKl-1e I-1CCneAOBaHI-1H, Te, KTO OCTaBlIIn B IIICTOPIllIll -renoaesecraa AOCTOIl1Hbl1l1 cnen, KaK npasano, B AeTcTBe sepnnn B csoe oco6oe npenaaaaa-reaae. Ocraeruocs, TeM He MeHee, pa3rOBOpaM 0 npeAHa3HayeHlIIlII nOCTaBIIITb HeKOTOpylO rpaaauy.

Bbl scepsea npennonaraere, YTO ecrs KaKaH-TO Bsrcuraa Cuna, KOTopaH 3aHlIIMaeTCH TPYAOBOIl1 AeHTenbHOCTblO Ka>KAOrO 1113 Hac nIllYHO? KOTopaH He npOCTO eac, MeHH III Ka>KAOrO npenaaaaaxuna K onpeneneuaoa pafiore, HO aa xopowee IIICnOnHeHlIIe aarpaxnaer c-iacrsera, a 3a HeIllCnoru-euae HaKa3blBaeT: TOCKOIl1 3aHlIIMaTbCH HenlO6l11MbiM AenOM? MHe B STOM cnblWIIITCH YTO-TO HanOA06l11e poMaHTlIIyeCKoro H3blyeCTBa: «MlIIp A06pblll1 III crporua, OH naer MHe 3HaKIII, MHe HY>KHO IIIX vraaars. 6YAY HeBHIIIMareneu - OH MeHH HaKa>KeT, a yraAalO - 6YAeT MHOro CyaCTbH ... »

3TO He sepa, STO cvesepae. '{auie ecero aepars B STO HpaBIIITCH AeBYWKaM: eeplllTb B TO, YTO OHIII OKa3blBalOTCH B U.eHTpe MlIIpa, YTO sees MlIIp YCTpoeH P8A1II HIIIX III soxpyr HIIIX KPYTIIITCH, nlllYHO IIIX Harpa>KAaH nlll60 nepCOHanbHO I-1X HaKa3b1BaH. 3TO Ha3blBaeTCH uearponym13M: eepa B TO, YTO nlllYHO Bbl HBnHerecs u,eHTpOM MlIIpa, YTO ace OKPY>Ka-

... a mate v.le.Lfm0.l70Cb!

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1Ow,lIIe nlOAIII, IIIX CYAb6bl III C06bITIIIs:l, sansnorcs TOnbKO IIIcnonHIIITens:lMIII BOnHYIOw,ero CneKTaKJ1f1 IIIMeHIII BaC ... ,aeTIII B 3TO Bepar ecepses. CTOIIIT nlll Ha 3TOM HaCTalllBaTb B3pOCnbIM?

s:! He 3HalO, ecrs nlll Y LJenOBeKa npeAHa3HaLJeHllle, Y KIDKAoro nlll OHO ecrs, xaxoe OHO III HaCKonbKO OHO 06f13aTenbHO ... BMeCTO 3TOro fI acerna crapaocs noaars, LJTO MeT LJenOBeKY IIIMeHHO 3Ta Bepa, IIIMeHHO 3TO y6e)t(p,eHllle. nOXO)l(e, LJTO BAeTCTBe separs B caoe npeAHa3HaLJeHllle - XopOWO III npaaunsao, n03)1(e - ~e cnopso.

Bepa B raoe npeAHa3HaLJeHllle ooeuiaer reoe, LJTO Tbl MO)l(eWb 6blTb CLJaCTnIII ea, III nOATanKIIIBaeT K nOIllCKY HacToflw,ero nena. aTO Ba)l(HO, 3TO 3AOPOBO. Ho ara xe aepa CKpblBaeT, KaK npaBIIIno, III APyrllle IIIHTepeCHbie nOCblnKIII, a IIIMeHHO:

,/ Hacroauiss neno Y Te6f1 ronsxo OAHO,

,/ CBoe neno retie nerxo Y3HaTb. KaK ronsxo Tbl ero HaVineuis - cpasy aBTOMaTIIILJeCKIII III HaBcerAa Tbl 6YAeWb CLJaCTnIllBa.

,/ Ecnn Tbl noxa He acerna CLJaCTnIllBa, 3HaLJIIIT, LJeM Tbl 3aHIIIMaeWbCfI, - He TBoe Aeno.

MHe 3TIII nOCblnKIII npencraensnorcn AOCTaTOLJHO cnopHblMIII. VI onacHbIMIII ...

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lOT nenars - OTnIllLJHO. BepHO, ecnn LJTO-TO LJenOBeKY nOHpaBIIInoce. OH HaLJIIIHaeT nenars 3TO MHoro, C AYwoVi, III co BpeMeHeM CT;3HOBIIITCfI MaCTepOM. C APyroVi CTOPOHbl, ew,e 60nee BepHO oopaTHoe: TO, LJTO MbJ YMeeM nenars OTnIllLJHO, - HaM Ha4111HaeT HP;3BIIITbCfI. MO)l(eT 6blTb, B 3TOM HeT HIIIKaKoro CMblcna, MO)l(eT, 3TO HIIIKOMY He HY)I(HO, HO ecnn fI XOTb nansuev YMelO KJlaCCHO ABlllraTb - B m06yIO CTOPOHY OH Y MeHs:l neraer, KaK )l(IIIBOVi, - TO Aa)l(e 3TO 6eCCMbicneHHoe neno CTaHOBIIITCfI MOIIIM n106111Mb1M.

«3aLJeM nansuev KPYTIIIWb?» - «A TaK, HpaBIIITcfI!» 8apocnblVi, COCTOflBWIllVics:l LJenOBeK 3HaeT III BepIIIT, LJTO B Mlllpe MHoro xpacaaux III HY)I(HblX Aen, KOTOPblMIII OH MO)l(eT 3aHIIIMaTbCfI C YAoBonbcTBllleM III co CMblcnOM, ocoee-n-o ecnn CTaHeT B HIIIX - MaCTepOM. TOT, KTO YMeeT panosareca )l(1II3HIII III YMeeT nlO6111Tb (Bbl- YMeeTe?), He onYCKaeTCfI AO TOCKIII. OH Be-

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ceno YLJIIITCfI, C IIIHTepecoM 3HaKOMIIITCfI C )l(1II3HblO III CBOIIIMIII

Oc06eHHocTflMIII (TanaHTaMIII), MHoro III C YAOBonbcTBllleM pa- 60Taer, CTaBfI see 60nee 3HaLJIIITenbHbie III 60nee TpYAHble u,enlll. CTaHb 60nbwIIIM LJenOBeKoM, pariorasi TBOpLJeCKIII - III CKYLJHO reoe B )l(1II3HIII He 6YAeT HIIIKorAa.

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s:! AYMalO, LJTO B )l(1II3HIII Y LJenOBeKa ecrs Bew,1II 60nee IIIHTepecHble, LJeM TOCKnlllBblVi nOIllCK npeAHa3HaLJeHlllfI. B BaweVi )l(1II3HIII ecrs saura nlO60Bb K rnoAflM III )l(1II3HIII, ecrs sauie MacTepcTBo, saur )l(IIIBOVi aamsn, saura cB060Aa Bbl- 60pa - III 3TO aaxsee III asuue, ,aa, ronsxo Y eac ace 3TO - ecrs?

06paw,eHllle: «s:! He 3HalO, KaKIIIM AenOM B )l(1II3HIII MHe 3aHIIIMaTbCfI. MeHfI Hili K LJeMY He Ts:lHeT ... » _ AOCTaTOLJHO ranosoe. Co BpeMeHeM fI orxpun YAIIIBIIITenbHYIO 3aKOHOMepHOCTb: KaK npasano, C 3TIIIM nOAXOAs:lT nlOAIII, KOTOpsre Mano LJTO YMelOT nenars XopOWO. Koropsie HIIILJero He YMe-

npeAHa3Ha4eHI1e - >KI1Tb paAOCTHO, 3a6oTnl1BO

TOT, KTO YMeeT 4TO-TO nenars MaCTepCKl-1,

06bl4HO nenars 3TO 1lI061-1T.

ECIlI-1 Bbl XOTI-1Te KaKoe-TO AellO 1lI061-1Tb - HaY41-1TeCb nenan, ero MaCTepCKI-1!

KaK HaHTliI csoe Aeno

OT erpaxa )l(e poxnaerca 111 xena-me cnnxnyt» OTBeTCTBeHHOCTb aa CBOIl1 HeYAa'-lll1 111 TPYAHOCTII1 Ha KorO-TO npyroro: roro, KTO AOn)l(eH aBTOpll1TeTHO 111 OTBeTCTBeHHO CKa3aTb, '-IeM 111 KaK saHII1MaTbCs:l MHe HaAO Ha caMOM nene. COOTBeTCTBeHHO MoeMY npeAHa3Ha'-leHII1IO.

nOT()MY '-ITO KaK xe 6e3 Hero?

60nee ycneun-ue 111 OTBeTCTBeHHble nlOAII1 nOCTYnalOT nO-APYrOMY·

Bo-nepBblx, OHII1 OCBall1BalOT TeXHOnor1l11O o6Y'-IeHlI1s:l ceos HOBblM AenaM - 111 nerxo OCBall1BalOT rnoooe HOBoe neno.

HeT npofinera CTaTb 111 KaCClI1pOM, 111 6aHKOBCKlI1M xnepKOM, 111 MaMawe~, 111 MY3blKaHToM - na KeM vronuo, 111 see 3TO MO)l(HO AenaTb TanaHTnIl1BO, ycneuiao 111 C YAoBonbcTBlI1eM.

BO-BTOPbIX, 3HaKOMs:lTCs:l CO CBOIl1MII1 TanaHTaMII1 111 ocofieuuoc-

nayno Koanso nuurer 0 TOM, KaK Y)l(aCHO TpaTII1Tb ronu )l(1I13HII1, 3aHlI1Mas:lCb HenlO6l11MbiM AenOM. 3aHlI1Mas:lCb 111M ronsxo paAII1 AeHer, paAII1 cTa6l11nbHOCTlI1 II1nll1 B HaAe>KAe Ha TO, '-ITO repneane 111 TpYA 3aMeHs:lT II1CKpeHHee xenauue. BOT TaK 111 ncssnsnorca, no ero cnosara

«MaTb ceMe~CTBa, xorcpaa Me'-lTana CTaTb MOAenblO, 3y6HO~ spa-r, KOTOPbl~ BTa~He OT acex nauier KHlI1ry 111 XOTen 6bl nOCBs:lTII1Tb ce6s:l nnreparype, BOT 3Ta AeBYWKa, '-ITO rpeaur 0 TeneBII1AeHII1I11, HO CII1AII1T sa «accoa B cynepMapKeTe».

Orxaauaarsca OT Me'-lTbl - KaK orxaasiearscs OT petieaxa: 3TO 111 60nbHO, 111 HeAonYCTII1MO, HO npotineraa asnuenepe-mcneaaux runaxesi, MHe xaxercs, B APyrOM. MHe 6nll130K earnaa 3pll1Ka Bepua, cornacso KOTOPOMY 3TO, cxopee, nll1'-1HOCTHble II1rpbl HeYAa'-lH111 KOB , xoropsre CBOIO neus, 6e3Aes:lTenbHOCTb 111 HeYMeHlI1e )l(II1Tb paAOCTHO cnacusaior Ha BHeWHlI1e 06CTOs:lTenbCTBa: «BOT, ecna 6bl 51 6blna MOAenblO ... », «Ax, BOT Ha TeneBII1AeHlI1111 COBceM npvras )l(1I13Hb!».

Cavoe crpaun-oe, '-ITO peansao MO)l(eT cnY'-lIl1TbCs:l B II1X )l(1I13HII1, - 3TO II1CnOnHeHlI1e II1X Me'-lTaHII1~, xorna )l(1I13Hb npeAOCTaBII1T 111M B03MO)l(HOCTb 6blTb Aes:lTenbHblMII1, TBOp'-leCKII1MII1 111 C'-IaCTnIl1BbIMII1, a OHII1 3TO - npOCTO He YMeIOT ...

MO)l(eT 6blTb, neno B npll13BaHII1I11, HO -raute acero sa 3TlI1M CTOIl1T npyroe: HeYMeHlI1e nenars ceoe neno XopOWO, a raoce 60s:l3Hb OWlI160K 111 crpax, '-ITO sa OWlI16KlI16YAeT HaKa3aHlI1e. 3a crpaxou 6e)l(lI1T eeiuurne« n03UIJ,UfI: YCTanOCTb, onyw,eHHble nn e'-l 111 111 pyKII1, n03)1(e acnnsreuras B nvure cpopMynll1poBKa-onpaBAaHlI1e «Haaepaoe, 3TO He Moe!» ...

B AeTCTBe TaKOe nOBeAeHlI1e Te6s:l saumuiano: KaK )l(e Teneps Ha raxoro HeC'-IaCTHoro -renosexa pyrarscs?

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Ans:l 3TOro Hy)I(HO MHoro npofioaars 111 He 6pocaTb HOBoe neno, CTonKHYBWII1Cb C nepBblMII1 TPYAHOCTs:lMII1. Co CTOpOHbl scerna «axercs, '-ITO Y npyrax nonysaerca ny-uue 111 ner-ie: CBOIl1 TPYAHOCTII1 BII1As:lTCs:l cpasy, a TPYAHOCTII1 APYrux CHapY)l(1I1 He BII1AHbl. Haoeparecs repneuas: 06bl'-lHO Ha OCBOeHlI1e aosoro neno YXOAII1T no Kpa~He~ Mepe nonrona: ronsxo nocne 3TOro MO)l(eTe ou,eHII1Tb, KaKlI1e y aac Ae~CTBII1TenbHO K 3TOMY Aeny 3aAaTKII1. II1HorAa YAa'-lHbIM XOAOM oxaaueaerca cocraaneune cnuc«a nen, KOTOPblMII1 Bbl3aHlI1MaTbCs:l TO'-lHO He MO)l(eTe 111 He XOTII1Te ...

B-TpeTbIl1X, 1113 scex 3TlI1X pasuux nen, xoropue AIls:l HII1X OTKPbITbl, OHII1 Bb16111- oaior 60nee napcnexraaasre, xoropeie OTKpblBalOT noporv K seepy ew,e 60nee nepCneKTII1BHblX nen,

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nIOALtI, o6wecTBo, KYllbrypa.

io1TaK, Ha 'ITO 06MeHfleTe 3TLtI AeHbrLtl?

BKllaAbl B 6aHK - MblCllb MYApafl, HO B AaHHOM cnv-ae He OTBeT. PaHO LtlllLtl n03AHO AeHbrLtl Ltl3 6aHKa Bbl CHLtlMLtlTe - LtI 'ITO C HLtlMLtI caenaere? B KaKLtle CBOLtl )l(ellaHLtlfI BOn1l0TLtIre?

HaYLtlHalllTe Q>aHTa3Lt1pOBaTb. HayLtlHalllTe )l(ellaTb ...

He paccrpaueaa ce6f1, ecnn 'ITO-TO Ltl3 xenaeuoro ceroAHfI He nony-ran.

YcnewHbl1ll senose« LtlMeeT 3HeprLtlYHble, pa3BLtlTbie )l(ellaHLtlfI. OH MHoro XOYeT, eMY ecrs paaa sere npccsmarsca Ka)I(Abllll

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TaK, ABYXSTa)KHbl&ll OC06HflK Tpl.-1CTa KBaAparusrx MeTpOB B 6narOYCTpOeHHO&ll 30He nOA MOCKBo&ll, nsraanuan, Ml.-1HYT OT MKA,lJ" aa orpanoa 3eneHbl&ll nap«, BepeHl.-1L1,a '-ll.-1CTbIX npYAOB C 3epKanbHblMl.-1 xapnaran l.-1 COOTBeTCTBeHHO 6e3 cnY'-la&llHblX nOCTopOHHl.-1X. HeT, nYCTb STO 6YAeT ~CnaHl.-1f1, AHAanYCl.-1f1, Tapl.-1¢a, TeHHCTafi BHnna C 6aCCe&llHOM l.-1 ABaALI,aTb MHHYT Ml.-1MO nanbM no nerxoa nopore AO no6e-

pe)Kbfl ~OCTa ,lJ,enb Cons. B AOMe THXHe KOHAl.-1L1,HOHepbl, MacCa)KHbll.-1 nyur, KaMHH l.-1 ynpaaneuaa BCeMl.-1 CHCTeMaMl.-1 AOMa C ~AHoro nynsra, sepea nopory - ronb¢-Kny6, ua BOAe _ Kal.-1TCep¢HHr.

C HOfl6pfl no anpens - YAHBHTenbHbl&ll 3nb rYHa, OCTPOBOK Ha KpaCHOM Mope, sxra C ynpyrHM 6enbiM napYCOM )KAeT PflAOM C OTKPblTO&ll sepasnoa, C3aAH - TonbKO nOBepHYTb ronOBY _ 6beT spxoe paaaouaerae 6naroyxalO~ero caaa. KYCTaMl.-1 acnsrxuaaior 6enble H xpacaue 6yreHBHnnHH, rennua serep pa3HOCHT aanax AYWHCTblX p03. B HeCKonbKHX warax, nOA 06PblBOM - )KenTbl&ll ropfl'-ll.-1&11 neCOK l.-1 vxonauiee B Tal.-1HCTBeHHylO rny6l.-1HY Mope, rne PflAOM C KOpannosoa CTeHO&ll MeAneHHo nnblBYT Al.-1KOBHHHble, HeBHAaHHble, HeBepo-

flTHblX paCLI,BeToK pbl6bl. +epea Mope, .~

snan«, CTOfiT MOn'-lanHBble KOpl.-1'-lHessre ropu B nanexoa AblMKe, H connue, COnHLI,e, COnHLI,e - naxe He B rony- 60M, a B npoapa-nioe OT rony6H3He He6e.

MaMe - WBe&llLl,apCKH&II naposoa cynep-vnor -Laurastar» H noCYAOMO&llKY «Miele», nane «Toyota Camry» 3,5 rurrpa C CHCTeMO&ll VSC ,H KO)KaHbIM canOHOM, OH AaBHO STY xpacaauuy XOTen. )I(eHe - cepeopacrua «Ma3epaTTH» (anera-rn-aa l.-1 MflrKafl MaWl.-1Ha), AHApelO onnarurs MBA B 3Al.-1H6ypre HeriotWatt University, eMY HaAo, Bepe nonapurs ryp B s:lnoHHIO Ha OKHHaBY, Anfl Hee STO Ae&llCTBHTenbHo OCTPOB Me'-lTbl, Onsrv C MY)KeM H AByMfI AeTbMl.-1 CB03HTb B TaHnaHA, AHApefi IlerpoElII1'-la C CeMbe&ll B LfexHIO - nocne l.-1H¢apKTa OH AOn)KeH 6blTb B03Harpa)KAeH )Kl.-13HblO. Cepreio BOCCTaHOBHTb 3peHl.-1e - oneoauuio Ha rnaaa, ,lJ,HMe KynHTb POCKOWHbl&ll 6pereT, OH 6yAeT C HHM C'-laCTnHB.

Paasne-reaua 111 nocyr

Bcex APY3e&ll npaaecru Ha BbmycKHo&ll KanycTHHK cTYAeHToB rearpansaux y'-lHnH~, nOTOM CB03HTb Ha xapuaaan B 6pa3HnHIO. npblrHYTb C napaunorou - OAHOMY, ropuue nbl)KH B WBe&llLl,apHH (Kpyuresens) - scea CeMbe&ll, Ha sxre no no6epexso ¢paHLI,HH - C )KeHO&ll. BMecTe n06pOAl.-1Tb no napH)KY (MOHMapTp, CaH CYCH, canu Bepcans), C nH'-lHbIM rHAOM noKnOHHTbCfI Be'-lHoMY PHMY (CHKcTHHcKafi «anenna), KaK-HH- 6YAb yTpOM nornoooearsca KynonaMH snaru nparH, nanee: oaepo PHLI,a (ABCTPl.-1f1), necuue osepa XOpBaTHlI1, nne~eeBo oaepo B nepeficnaBnb-3aneccKoM. C AeTbMH - no BOCTOKY:

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Y eac fionsure? ,lJ,pyroe? Me-rraare, pHCY&llTe, ¢aHTa3HpY&llTe!

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,D,pyrltle 11eneCTKItI LJ,BeTItIKa-BOCbMItIUBeTItIKa pacnaumre Bn011- He caMOCTO~Te11bHO. EC111tI Me'-lTaTb BaM ~e nOHpaBItI110Cb - Bbl 3TO 06~3aTe11bHO npOA011)KItITe.

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nOCMOTpltITe Ha CBOItI )Ke11aHItI~ no 11ItlHItI~M:

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3TO pea111tl30BbIBaTb?

He BC~Koe xenauue HaAO npeapauiars B uens, ocoee-n-o eC111tI 3TO xacaerca saurea )K1tI3HItI ItI CYAb6bl. npaBItI11bHa~ )K1tI3HeHHa~ uens cpopMltlpyeTc~ Ha nepeCe'-leHItIItI rpex xpyroa: Ha nepeceseHItIItI XO'-lY, Mory ItI Hano.

CMO)KeTe 111tl Bbl CTaTb XOPOWItlM IOPItICTOM (apTItICTOM, MaWItlHItICTOM, cneuaanncrou), eC111tI Bbl 3TOro CaMItI, I3HYTPItI ce6~ - He XOTItITe? MO)KeT 6blTb, ItI CMO)KeTe, eC111tI K 3TOMY eac nOATa11- KItIBaeT )K1tI3Hb ItI eC111tI y sac K 3TOMY cnoc06HOCTItI. Ho eC111tI 3TO 6YAeT aaur c06CTBeHHbiLil Bb160p, eC111tI Bbl 3TOro XOTItITe CaMItI, Bbl CAe11aeTe 3TO TO'-lHO 6blCTpee ItI onpeneneuuo CTaHeTe 60- nee Ka'-leCTBeHHbIM CneUltla11ItlCTOM. nOTOMY '-ITO 3TO - aaurel

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Mory Ha'-lItlHaeTC~ CO cnocoouocrea, npOA011)KaeTC~ YMeHltleM, aasepuraerca oTpa60TaHHbiM HaBblKOM ItI ecrecraeaaoa npuBbl'-lKOLil. EC111tI Bbl He nonxpenanu CBOItI 3aMe'-laTe11bHble )Ke11aHItI~ naKeTOM YMeHItILil ItI Ka'-leCTBeHHbIM npocpeCCItIOHa111tl3MOM,

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s:i paasuie AYMa11: I.jT06bl 3aMOTII1BII1pOBaTb -ienoeeka, HaAO Hapacosars eMY KapTII1HY npasnekarensaoro 6YAyw.ero. It! l.jeM 6011ee OHQ flPKO 611Il1CTII1T, ornw-ascs OT ero ceronssumero cy: w.eCTBOBaHII1f1, TeM 11YI.jWe, TeM 6011ee l.je110BeK 6YAeT K 3T0ll1 npIl1B11eKaTe11bHOII! nepCneKTII1Be CTpeMII1TbCfI.

OKa3a110Cb, 3TO He COBceM TaK. OKa3b1BaeTCfI, ecrs Kpa~ npuB11eKaTe11bHO~ nepcnexraeu, sa KOTOPblM Cl1ll1WKOM 611eCTfIuiaa nepCneKTII1Ba Y)I(e He npIl1B11eKaeT, a HaCTOpa)l(II1BaeT ... nocrapaiocs paccxaaars 3TO Ha npOCTblX npll1Mepax.

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Korna-ro cpaooraior KOCBeHHble nOABOAKH K rewe, cnY'-IaVrHble aa- 6pOCbl B CTOPOHY ero paavsnuneHHVr. CMoTpHTe TeneBH30p, nepena-ia 0 nonrorosxe IOpHCTOB. Bbl nerxo, KCTaTH, cnpaurasaere:

Toro, KTO He

3aHHTepecOBaH - BOBneKaHTe

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«0 xapsepe IOpVlCTa AYMa11? Te6e ero VlHTepeCHO?» EC11Vl nOC11e aroro paarosop Ha4HeTCfI, BCe C11Y4V1110Cb YAa4HO, eC11Vl He Ha4HeTCfI, CPOpCVlpOBaTb TeMY He11b3f1: norepasre nosepae.

6011ee npflMOC1, OTKPbITblC1 (VI n03TOMY 6011ee TeXHVl4eCKVI TPYAHblC1) cnocoe - 3TO npflMOC1 VI OTKPbITblC1 paaroaop. Paarosop OAHOBpeMeHHO Ten11blC1 VI Tpe60BaTe11bHblC1.

«X04Y C T060C1 noroeopan, ... LfTO Y Te6f1 A011>KHO 6blTb B >KVl3HVI -repes S rona? '{epes 5 11eT? '{epea 1 O?» - Cxopea acero, 6YAeT M0114aHVle VI pa3Mblw11eHVlfI ... OH npaaaa AYMaeT, HO AeC1cTBVITe11bHO noxa YBVlAeTb csoe B03MO>KHOe 6YAy~ee C110>KHO. OTBeT noxa 6YAeT cxopes acero: «He 3HalO ... »

Torna Bbl Ae11aeTe c11eAYIO~VlC1 npflMoC1 war: «Korna 6YAewb 3HaTb? Te6e HY>KHO rpa aapaa-rra: KPVlBOC1 (ecnn Tbl HVl4ero C co- 60C1 Ae11aTb He 6YAeWb), cpeAHVlC1 (uennoxas >KVl3Hb npu cpeAHeM YPOBHe TBOVIX YCVl11VlC1) VI CVl11bHblC1 sapnaar (KapTVlHKVI, «orooue 6YAYT Te6f1 onpeAe11eHHO PaAOBaTb, nOTOMY 4TO 3TO TaKafl >KVl3Hb, KOTOPYIO Tbl AeC1cTBVlTe11bHO X04eWb). )f(Vl3Hb, KOTOPYIO Tbl CMO>KeWb ce6e CAe11aTb, eC11Vl B110>KVlWbCfI B ce6f1 KaK cnenyer»,

«XOPOWO, Ha4HeM C 3TOro: KPVlBOC1 VI cpeAHVlC1 aapaaur, Korna I!1X nponyraaeuns, npencrasaun, VI CMO>KeWb paccxaaars? K Be- 4epy CAe11aeWb?» - «He 3HalO ... »

3Aecb Y>Ke He peanu-oe 3aTpYAHeHVle, a OTMa3Ka OT pa- 60Tbl. 3TO n03B011flTb He HaAO, TYT MO>KHO 1!1 11erKO nOAHaxars: «BOT 3TO HaAO CAe11aTb 06f13aTe11bHO. 3TO Tbl cne- 11aTb CMO>KeWb. flpennarao: Tbl He nOAXOAVlWb K KOMnsiorepy, noxa 3TVI aapnauru MHe He npencraaauns. It1AeT?» EC11Vl B >KVl3HVI Bbl nonsayerecs YBa>KeHVleM, B 3TOM MeCTe Bbl YC11bIWVlTe TO, 4TO HY>KHO: «It1AeT!»

B Ka4eCTBe nOMow.VI OT aac BaweMY 6pa-

TY HY>KHO ouiyuieuae ycnexa, sepa B TO, 4TO Y Hero n011Y4V1TCfI. AaC1Te eMY nOAAep>KKY. Ho KpOMe 3TOro, eMY HY>KHa BHeWHfIfI opraauaauaa, B TOM 4V1C11e HY>KHbl AaB11eHVle VI nVlHKVI. Ho - A06pble nVlHKVI VI YMHoe AaB11eHVle. npOTVlB rynoro AaB11eHVlfI OH 6YAeT B03pa>KaTb, AaB11e-

Hl!1e npOTVlB Hero Bbl30BeT Y Hero conpornanenue. EMY HY>KHO BVIAeHVle, nOHVlMaHVle VI ouivuieane, 4TO see 3TO T04HO eMY HY>KHO, 4TO ace 3TO Ae11aeTCfI AJlfl Hero, 4TO ace 3TO AIlfl Hero npaBVl11bHO.

CKOPO OH paCCKa>KeT BaM, KaK OH BVlAVlT caoe 6YAyw.ee, 4TO Y Hero 6YAeT (A011>KHO 6blTb) B paoore VI 11Vl4H0C1 >KVl3HVI -repes HeCK011bKO 11eT. 3TO Y>Ke - 04eHb 3AOPOBO, 3TO 04eHb MHOro. A c11eAYIOw.VlM urarov 6YAeT npoAYMblBaHVle, KaK K 3TOMY 6YAYw.eMY VlATVI. n11aH pea11Vl3au,VIVI uena.

Hy, MO>KeT 6blTb, ew.e He COBceM uena, HO no KpaC1HeC1 Mepe n11aH nOC11eAOBaTe11bHbIX uiaros B HY>KHOM HanpaB11eHVlVI.

:3 &AP\-\AHTA l>YAYUJ,ErO

EC111!1 OTHoweHVlfI HopMa11bHble, OH 6YAeT He AYTbCfI, He conpoTVlB11flTbCfI, a AYMaTb. Ho cxopee scero 3TO OKOH4V1TCfI CHOBa HVl4eM: «s:i nOAYMalO, noxa TPYAHO npencraears ... ».

EMY TPYAHO, noraorura eMY npOA011>KVlTb, 3aAaC1Te YT04- HfllOw.Vle sonpocu: «KaKOC1 sapnaur reoe npencrasars, C04V1HVlTb 6YAeT npouie: KPVlBOC1, cpeAHI!1C1 Vl11Vl CVl11bHblC1?» «Hy, HaBepHoe, KpVlBOC1. It1 cpeAHVlC1».

AaTb O~LlleH~e ycnexa ~ sepy B TO, 4TO Y 4ellOBeKa nOlly4~TcH - lly4waH nOMOLllb

KaK opraaaaoears ero nepsue uiaru? CHOBa - MO>KHO rOBOPI!1Tb C HVIM COBepweHHO OTKPbITO, VI 11Y4we scero AeC1cTByeT 06beAVlHeHVle Tpe60BaTe11bHOCTVI VI Ten110Tbl:

«MHe HY>KHO, 4T06bl Tbl OCBOVl11 BO>KAeHVle VI CAa11 Ha npaaa, Torna Tbl CMO>KeWb novorars MaMe VI fI CMory Te6f1 -rauie BKll104aTb B CBOVI Ae11a».

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Ofiparnre BHIIIMaHllle, KaKllle MOMeHTbl npanaior cany eroa cppa3e. «MHe H~HO» - 3TO OTKpblTOe 3aS1BneHllle 0 CBOIIIX IIIHTepecax, AeMoHcTpau,lIIS1 sauiea OTKPblTOCTIII III IIICKpeHHOCTIII. «CMO)KeWb nOMOraTb MaMe» - noopoe HaMepeHllle, rpeer BCerna. «CMOry Te6S1 -rauie BKnIO'-IaTb B CBOIII nena». - Bbl rosopars BpOAe KaK 0 CBOIIIX co6CTBeHHbiX IIIHTepecax, a aa caM OM nene orxpersaere nplIIBneKaTenbHble AJlS1 Hero nepcneKTIIIBbl ...

~ rennoru

CTPATErVlVl. LJ.Enb. nnAH.MOTVlBALJ.Vl~

npeACTaBbTe: Bbl oxasanacs B necy, nonro 6poAlllnlll, nporonoAIVlIIICb, ycrana, XO'-leTCS1 ornoxayrs. It1 BOT aa OBparOM, CKB03b KYCTapHIIIK Bbl BIIIAIIITe snana KpaCIIIBblill nparopox, TaM secenue AOMIIIKIII. KaK XO'-leTCS1 TYAa nonacrs! TonbKO - npasna nlll BaM T'fAa? A ecnn T'fAa - TO KaK T'fAa nonacrs? It1ATIII -repes ospar IIInlll B 06XOA? no rponuaxe IIInlll no wocce? A MO)KeT, OCTaHOBIIITb Ha wocce MawIIIHY, OHa nOABe3eT?

B )K1II3HIII HeT eAIIIHCTBeHHO npasaneaux OTBeTOB, HO ecrs ruoAM. xoropue IIIAyr no )K1II3HIII seceno, Bbl6111palOT pa3YMHbie nyTill III ycneun-o nocruraior CBOIIIX uenea. Ecnlll B OCHOBHOM BaM ~e nOHS1THO, '-ITO Bbl XOTIIITe B )K1II3HIII, noneauo nony-urrs S1CHOCTb no cneAYIOLltIllM sonpocara:

1. «KaKIIIM nyreM ABlllraTbCS1 no )K1II3HIII?»

HY>KHO onpeuennt» ctpereruto ceoero ABM>KeHMR no >KM3HM.

2. «LjTO AOn)KHO 6blTb nocrurayro?» Ba>KHO onpeuennrs KOHKpeTHble uenn.

3. «ABIII)KeHllle K uenn»

Ilnen, srenu, uiern, eeiu nll1'/HblM CTMnb.

4. «KaK opraHIII30BaTb ce6S1?»

Ha ncooe aeno HY>KHO xenenne M MOTMBaLl,MR: ne-et», npOAOn>KMTb M AOBeCTM aeno AD KOHLI,a.

Tyr HaAO 3HaTb cnenyiouiee.

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KaKVlM nYTeM ABVIraTbCs:J no >KVl3HVI? - )f(Vl3HeHHble CTpaTerVlVl

Mbl see KYAa-TO ABI/1>KeMCs:I no )l(Vl3HVI, HO Y Ka)i(Aoro CBOVr nvrs VI CBOs:l CTpaTerVl51. 60nbWVlHCTBO TP51CYTC51 Ilaccaxapava ua nOAPY4HOM rpaucnopra, caMble SHeprVl4Hbie YCTpeMn51IOTC51 K uenn Pakeroa, MeHee SHeprVl4Hble, HO 60nee cooopaaarensHble, npeAn04V1TalOT nyrs cB060AHOro Flapvcaaxa. ECTb crparerua VI npyrne, HO noxa paccxaxera 06 STVIX.

naCCa>KMp M rpY3

naCCa)l(VlpaBe3eTTpaHcnop~

AeTcaA, WKona, pa60Ta, YBonVlnVl, YCTpOVlnC51, )l(eHVlnC51, peoeuox, nasa, neHCVls:I ... no xonee, ace KaK Y nIOAeVr. A KYAa Tbl AeHewbcs:I?

ECTb TpaHcnopT - eCTb ABVI)I(eHVle, rpascnopr 6YKcyeT VlnVl KPY)l(VlT Ha MecTe - naccaxnp Tp51CeTC51 BMeCTe C HViM VI TOp4V1T Ha MeCTe. [laccaxnpy He HY)I(HO AYMaTb 0 MapwpYTe, OH npVl6nVl3V1TC51 K uenu HaCTonbKO, HaCKonbKO ero K HeVr npVlBe3YT (VlnVl He npVlBe3YT), VI no )l(Vl3HVI nacca)l(Vlp AYMaeT ronsxo 0 TOM, KaK CBOVr npou,ecc nepeuew,eHVl51 cnenaer B03MO)l(HO 60nee KOMCPOPTHbIM. 60APble VI secenue naCCa)l(Vlpbl nenaor ceoe nyreurecrsue 5lPKVlM VI He3a6blBaeMblM, asnue VI COHHble BO BpeM51 nepeMew,eHIII51 KP51XT51T VI oxaior,

EcnVl flaccaxap sacunaer HaCTonbKO, 4TO nepeCTaeT 06cnY)I(VlBaTb ce651 VI 0 HeM Y)I(e HY)I(HO 3a-

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60TIIITbC51 APyrIllM, OH Vl3 nacca)l(Vlpa npeapauiaerca B rpY3. rpY3 nexur VI caM He nepeveuiaercs naxe AO 6nVl)l(aVrwero 6ycpeTa.

PaK8Ta M CHapRA

B"CTpaTerVlIII Paxeru 4enOBeK caM CTa~ ce6e uens III HeCeTC51 K HeVr. KornaTO OH MO)l(eT IIIcnonb30BaTb VI TpaHCnpin, HO POBHO rorna VI CTonbKO, Hac~onbKO STO npVl6nVl)l(aeT ero K uena, Y Aero ecrs SHeprVl51, CBOVr BHYTpeHHIIIVr MOTOP, VI An51 Hero rno- 6o~ TpaHcnopT - TonbKO 04epeAHa51 CTapTOBa51 nnow,aAKa, ~t06bl caenars cneAYIOw,IIIVr pbIBOK.

'PaKeTa nerur no rlll6KoVr TpaeKTopIIIVl VI npen51TCTBIII51 npennoLj£lITaeT He np06V1BaTb, a axxyparao orufiare, Ecnlll xe Paxera IA Tep51eT rlll6KOCTb VI Ha4V1HaeT 60AaTbC51 co

~"o

CTeHaMIII, OHa npeepauiaercs B np51MOnVlHeVrHblVr VI TYnOBaTblVr CHap51A. Bnp04eM, xorna 06be3Aa HeT VI eAVlHCTBeHHblVr nyrs ronsxo Hanponcu, VlMeHHO CHap51A VI OKa3bIBaeTC51 no- 6eAVITeneM.

napYCHMK M "IenHoK

ller4e acero nnsm, no Te4eHVlIO )l(1II3HVI, HO rorna aaui nyrs onpeAemieT Te4eHllle, a He Bbl, III 06bl4HO STO nyrs - BHVl3. TPYAHO III repOVl4eCKIII nnsrrs npOTVlB Te4eHIII51, HO III B STOM cny-ae eaui nYTb onpenensere He Bbl, a rexyuiee npOTVlB sac reseaue. MyAPblVr VI CB060AHblVr 4enOBeK nnuser Hili no, HVI npOTIIIB Te4eHVl51:

OH TYAa, KYAa eMY HaAO.

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C YAOBOnbCTBltleM ItICnOnb3Ys:I Te'-leHltIe, ecnu 3TO oxaauBaeTCs:I no nYTItI.

3a'-leM TpaTItITb c06CTBeHHYIO 3HeprltllO, xorna MO)l(HO noi1MaTb nOnYTHbli1 Berep? 3a'-leM Ha61t1BaTb M030nltl, patioras BeCnaMItI, ecnu MO)l(HO Hai1TItI nOAxonsuiee re-ieuae? napYCHItIK He nlO61t1T BKnlO'-IaTb MOTOP, OH npoxnansraaer CBOi1 nyrs Ms:lrKItIMItI rancavn, nepexunueascs C aerpa aa serep ItI ltIw,a TOT nOTOK, KOTOPbli1 nouecer ero, KaK Ha Kpblnbs:lX, K OCTPOBY ero Me'-lTbl.

Ho 6e3 HaAe)l(Horo MOTOpa B OTKPblTOM Mope nnasars onacuo: serep MO)l(eT CMeHItITbCs:I urrunew, a Mow,Hoe re-reuue nouecer nps:lMO Ha cxanu, ItI HecMenbli1 napYCHItIK, nOMH5l 06 3TOM, '-IacTO YMeHbwaeT ce6s:1 AO '{enaoxa, CHYIOw,ero B YIOTHOi1 naryue OT npa-rana K npltl'-lany. MO)l(eT, TYT ItI CKY'-IHO, ItI MenKO, HO - 6e- 30naCHO. A OCTPOB Me'-lTbl. .. ,lJ,a nonuo )l(ItITb cKa3KaMItI, HItI'-IeM TaM nps:lHItIKItI OT HaWeHCKItIX He orrua-raiorcal

Ecna Bbl He nepxnre napyca KpenKItIMItI PYKaMItI, eaui npeKpacHbli1 napYCHItIK oopvoaercs AO 6ecTOnKoBoro -lensoxa.

KypcOBaSJ

~ cTYAeHT, HY)I(HO nucars KYPCOBYIO. Bbl61t1palO caMYIO nerKYIO TeMY, KOTOPYIO nocOBeToBan APYr, ItI Ha 3TOM 3a61t1BalO. 6nltl)l(e K cna-e MHe 0 KYPCOBOi1 HanOMItIHa:lOT, s:I ltIw,y, KTO 6bl MHe ee nan cnucars.

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••• TPIo( MYAPEU.A 'O,A+lOM TA3Y

Bbl61t1palO TeMY, KOTOPYIO nv-uue nOHItIMalO, XO)l(Y Ha neKLJ,ItIItI, KOHCneKTltlpylO see, '-ITO TaM paCCKa3b1Ba1OT, nOTOM nepenacuaaio 3TO ItI 1t13 KHltlr B KypCOBYlO, KaK-TO KOMnoHYIO, '-IT06bl 60nbwe COOTBeTCTBOBaTb rpe- 60BaHItIs:lM, ItI CAalO 3TY A06poCOBeCTHYIO Tycj:ny, '-IT06bl nOTOM 0 Hei1 HItIKOrAa He BCnOMItIHaTb .

flaccaxap.

lI1w,y TeMY, xoropaa COOTBeTcTByeT Bbl6paHHOMY MHOi1 aanpaaneHItlIO. Ecnu HeT - ltIw,y npenonaaarens ItI BeAY neperoaopsr, '-IT06bl nacars KaK KYPCOBYIO TO, '-ITO nucare ace paBHO 6YAY. s:t 3aHItIMalOCb CBOItIM aanpaaneuuev, ItIAY K ceoea uena, ItI ecnu 3TO 6YAeT raoee ItI B cpopMe KYPCOBOi1 - npexpacao, Onpenenan TeMY - cpasv Ha'-lItlHalO paoorars, nenaa TO ItI TaK, KaK 3TO HY)I(HO. ,lJ,ns:l Moei1 uenw,

Paxera,

Ecnltl npa 3TbM MeHs:I He aonaver, KaK MOIO pa60TY BOCnpltlMYT Ha Ka<t>eApe, ItI 1t13 npltIHLJ,ltInltlanbHblX co06pa)l(eHItli1 s:I ycnen nocco-

PIt1TbCs:I C HaY'-IHbIM PYKOBOAItITeneM -

3TO Y)I(e He Paxera, a Cuapsn, lI1w,y, KaKas:l reua MHe ItIHTepeCHa, ItI nOAXO)l(Y K TeM peosrav, «oropue B 3TOM I.JTO-TO nOHItIMaIOT. 1I1306pa)l(alO MltlnylO

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fI BCIO >Kllt3Hb tiune ,lJ,OMOX03f1VtKOVt, Hilt Ha KaKYIO pa60TY nnxoriu: ecepses He XO,lJ,IItna. Bcio >Kllt3Hb TOnbKO 3a6omnaCb 0 MY>Ke ...

AYP04KY, noxaaueaio CBOIt1 Ha6poCKIt1 It1 CIt1MnaTIt14HO xnonaio rna3KaMIt1, nocne -rero KTO-TO 1t13 HIt1X CIt1AIt1T Y MeHs:I AOMa It1 C YMHblM BIt1AOM runner, a s:I KopMnlO ero ne4eHbs:lMIt1 It1 BOCXIt1~aIOCb ero MOry41t1M It1HTenneKTOM. Ecnlt1 Hanlt1CaHHYIO It1M KYPCOBYIO s:I Ha CAa4e He sasaruo, Mbl C HIt1M BMeCTe CXOAIt1M Ha AIt1CKOTeKY.

YenHOK.

)/(eHa ttpeenneure

EC111t1 MY>K4It1Ha cran npe31t1AeHTOM BO MHOroM 6narOAaps:I BHIt1- MaTenbHOIll 3a60Te csoea nlO61t1MOllllt1 11106s:1~elll >KeHbl, CKa>KeTe 111t1 Bbl, 4TO OHa TonbKO - AOMOX03s:1I11Ka, 4TO ee CYAb6a - ne- 4a11bHa? HeT, My>Kbs:l CTaHOBs:lTCs:I npe3lt1AeHTaMIt1 He Y BCs:lKIt1X >KeH~It1H, a ronsxo Y rex, KTO YMeeT 6blTb CnYTHIt1KaMIt1.

B >KeHCKOM pone - CnYTHIt1u.aMIt1.

CTpaTerlt1s:1 CnYTHIt1K - STO runoaaa >KeHCKas:l crparerus. B STOIII crpareruu >KeH~It1Ha sxnansieaerca B csoero nlO61t1MOrO MY>K41t1- HY, KaK B CBOIII nepCneKTIt1BHb11ll npoexr, 3TOT MY>K4It1Ha - ee npoeKT, ee Paxera. OHIt1 BMeCTe 06CY>KAaIOT ero uenu, OHa xoppe«rupyer ero MapwpYT, crpaxver Ha KPYTblX nOBOp0TaX CYAb6bl, BooAyweBns:leT Ha HOBbie BbICOTbl ...

AHeKAOT. 61t111n KnIt1HTOH, npe31t1AeHT COeAIt1HeHHblX WTaTOB AMepIt1KIt1, Ha OAHOIII 1t13 BCTpe4 KaK-TO 06paTIt1n BHIt1- MaHlt1e ceoea >KeHbl Ha 61t13HeCMeHa cpeAHelll PYKIt1: «noMHIt1Wb, Tbl 6blna B Hero amotineaa? Ecnn 6bl Tbl suurna 3aMY>K sa Hero, a He aa MeHs:I, crana 6bl Tbl >KeHOIll npeauAeHTa?» Xunnapa C He>KHOCTblO orsernna: «6It1n11 , AOPOrca, KOHe4HO >Ke, s:I crana 6bl >KeHOIll npeaanesra. npOCTO Y COeAIt1HeHHblX WTaTOB 6bln 6bl APyrolll npe3It1AeHT!»

Ans:l roro 4T06bl AOCTlt1rHYTb BbICOT, He 06s:13aTenbHO caMOMY (1t1111t1 caMOIII) Kapa6KaTbCs:I no caMblM KPYTblM CKnOHaM. MO>KHO rvna He nears BOBce, a nocnars no HY>KHOMY MapwpYTY 4enoaexa. OH CXOAIt1T It1 npuaecer BaM see, 4TO BaM HY>KHO.

Ilocne OAHOro 1t13 TpeHIt1HroB BO BnaAIt1BOCTOKe KO MHe nOAOwna >KeH~It1Ha CO cnOKOIIIHblMIt1 It1 C4aCTlllt1BblMIt1 rnaaarau, KO-

lIIHTepeCYIOCb, KTO 1t13 rnaBHblX CPlt1ryp Ha «arpezipe nlO61t1T patiorars CO CTyAeHTaMIt1. Ha41t1HalO XOAIt1Tb K HeMY Ha neKu.It1It1, sanaaars YMeCTHble sonpocsr, npaanekaio K ce6e BHt.1MaHlt1e. CrapaIOCb noasrs, 4TO eMY caMOMY It1HTepeCHO, nponsnsuo BCTpe4Hblill t.1HTepeC, cnpaumsaio 0 B03MO>KHOCTt.1 aanacars 06 STOM KYPCOBYIO. OH MHe caM cpopMynlt1pyeT TeMY, paccxaaueaer ace 4TO HaAO Ae11aTb, nnau paooru, K KOMY nOAOIIITlt11t1 rne 4TO HaIllTIt1. 5:j ruuuy, 4TO nonv-raercs, 4aCTO nOAXO>KY nocoeeroaarsca, MHe novoraor; B peaynsrare n0110BIt1Ha pa60Tbi cnenasa sa MeHs:I t.1 Y>Ke onpenene-uro KYPCOBas:l 6YAeT cnaaa Ha «OT111t14HO».

napYCHIt1K.

)f(eHCKas:l CYAb6a 6blBaeT 60nee CnO>KHOIII, 4eM nps:lMOnt.1HelllHas:l MY>KCKas:l >Kt.13Hb. Hy XopOWO, 0 4eM-TO Me4TaeTCs:I, MHoroe AelllCTBt.1TenbHO MO>KHO cnenars, HO BeAb - X04eTCs:I pe6eHKa, a AIls:l aroro HY>KHO 3aMY>K, a Y MY>Ka CBOt.1 sanpocu, BOT It1 npt.1XOAt.1TCs:I KaKt.1MIt1-TO u.ens:lMIt1 >KepTBOBaTb. 5:j, MO>KeT 6blTb, It1 Morna 6bl t.1 xorena 6bl CTaTb aKaAeMIt1KOM, HO ABa aKaAeMIt1Ka B cevse Cnlt1WKOM MHoro, s:I CIt1Aena - C AeTbMIt1 ...

KaK 6blTb?

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POTKO nonenanacs ncropuesi csoea >KH3HI-1: «~ 61-13HeCMeH. 6blna 61-13HeCMeHOM. Patiorana, oprauaaoasraana, aapaoaruaana, 6blno TPYAHO, HO B uenora nony-ranocs YAa4HO. ~ nOTOM s:I ecrperuna MY>K4I-1HY, xoroporo nornotiana, a OH m061-1T MeHs:I. OH 04eHb ycnewHblVi 6H3HeCMeH, ropaaao vcneun-ee MeHs:I, 1-1 cea-iac MOs:l rnasuaa patiora - 3a6oTI-1TbCs:I 0 HeM, m061-1Tb ero, nenars ero >K1-13Hb C4aCTnI-1BOVi. Korna MHe X04eTCs:I, s:I Mory 3aHI-1MaTbCs:I 61-13HeCOM, HO 60nbWoVi HY>KAbl reneps B 3TOM HeT:

TO, 4TO MHe aapaoarusars 6blno TPYAHO, MY>K nenaer nerxo. MHe cea-iac AOCTaT04HO 6blTb >KeH~HHOVi, a MOVi MY>K rOPAI-1TCs:I, KorAa npl-1HOCI-1T MHe AeHbrHo OH I-1AeT snepen, a s:I ero CnYTHHu,a. Ero vcnexa - 3TO MOI-1 vcnexu. ~ AYMaIO, 4TO s:I 04eHb vcneumas >KeH~HHa,

AocnlrHYTb BblCOT, He scerna HY)f(HO Kapa6KaTbCH no KPYTblM CKllOHaM

a rnaBHoe - C4aCTnI-1Bas:l!» CnYTHI-1K vcneursoro senosexa - 3By41-1T rOPAO. Ba>KHo ronsxo He npespararsca B 6annaCT, nOTOMY 4TO Paxera, crperaauiascs BBbICb, OT 6annaCTa paso I-1nl-1 n03AHO OCBo6o>KAaeTCs:I.

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'-ITO AOmKHO 6blTb AOCn1rHYTO? - KOHKpeTHble uenu

Ecnu Mbl onpeneneuao 3HaeM, KYAa Mbl XOTHM nonacrs, Mbl Ty)J,a nonaneu 6blCTpee. YTo6bl ycneWHee AOCTl-1raTb TO, 4TO Mbl XOTI-1M, HaM HY>K-

HO npl-1BblKHYTb CTaBHTb CBOI-1 uenu B03MO>KHO

60nee KOHKpeTHO - TaK.

AHam13 npo6neMbl: 4TO, co6CTBeHHO, He YCTpaI-1BaeT. 3aAa~a: 4TO KOHKpeTHO Mbl XOTI-1M nonY41-1Tb B pesvnsrare. KOPOTKO, KpaCI-1BO, 4eTKO. n031-1TI-1B 1-1 KOHKpeTHKa.

PeCYPCbl: 4TO y Hac ecrs, 4TO MO>KeT HaM nOM04b. KpMTep,,·nt AOCTM>KeHMSI: KaK Y3HalO, 4TO AOCTl-1r (u,I-1CPpbl, cpaKTbl, sxcnepraaa oueaxa).

nnaH: nYTI-1, uiarn 1-1 CPOKI-1.

Kourponep 1-1 ueua sonpoca.

Bce aanucars.

YTo6bl nousrs, KaK 3TO MO>KHO npHMeHs:lTb B >K1-13HI-1, s:I paCCKa>KY BaM 0 TOM, KaK 3TO caenana MOs:l xopouraa aaaxouaa. Ee 30BYT Cawa .

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Xopouraa AeBywKa Cawa, MnM LJ.enb B OTBeTCTBeHHOM cl>opMaTe

MHOro APY3eVi y xopoweVi neayuixe Caw 1-1 , a y My>K4I-1H ycnexoM OHa He nonssyercs. Xopouias AeBYWKa Cawa, nOAYMaB 0 ce6e 1-1 >K1-13HI-1, peuiaer: «X04Y ny-uue aurnanere». YT04Hl-1na: «Flpu- 6aBI-1Tb >KeHCTBeHHOCTH». Aanee 3anI-1Cana ...

MOI-1 oco6eHHOCTI-1, xoropue B AaHHOM cnvsae Ha30BY npo6neMaMI-1:

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Be4HO B WK~HCaX, TOnbKO B KPOCCOBKaX, XO)KY KaK napeas, MaHepbl AaMbl OTCYTCTBYIOT. CIOAa )Ke OTCYTCTB~e npn-recxa, uexoropue np06neMbi C KO)Kell1 ~ 3y6aM~.

3aAa4a:

Ceronus 1 MapTa, nao ce6e nesars MeCs:lLl,eB, K HOBOMY roAY K ceoevy np~BbI4HOMY ~M~WKY «YH~ceKc» A06aB~Tb ~M~WK o-rapoaarensuopi )KeHw,~Hbl. X04Y!

PecypCbl (4TO MHe nOMO)KeT):

AeHbr~ He sonpoc (Ha 3TO ponurena AaAYT C YAOBonbCTB~eM), APY3ell1 XopOW~X MHOro, s:l cnoprusaaa, cjmrypa - HY, HennOXas:l, ~ sooouie, s:l C~MnaT~4Has:l - ~ no xapaxrepy, ~ no MOPA04Ke.

Kp~Tep~1I1 AOCT~)KeH~s:l:

Ha HOBorOAHeM CTYAeH4eCKOM 6any npOBOA~TCs:l KOHKYPC «Mace 04apOBaH~e», BbI6~paeTCs:l nsrs Kopones 6ana. Mos:l 3aria-a - oxaaarsca OAHOIl1 ~3 Kopones. OKa3aTbCs:l- Koponesoa!

nnaH:

o tJ.eHbr~. nOC4~TaTb HY)KHYIO CYMMY ceronas (npOKOHcvnsraooaarsca Y nonpyr no Ll,eHaM), onOBeCT~Tb poA~Tenell1, K cneAYIOw,eMY nOHeAenbH~KY 6blTb npn AeHbrax.

o Tycj:>n~, nnarse ~ 106Ka ua BeCHY ~ nero. nOA06paTb ~ Kyn~Tb aa cneAYIOw,ell1 aenene, B novoun- oprasaaoaars B~KY. np~BbIKaTb, XOA~Tb B 3TOM He MeHee xersrpex pas B aeneno.

o nO~CKaTb KYPCbl (rpeaaara) no ~CKYCCTBY )KeHCKOro oxapoeaaaa. Ha-rare ~CKaTb nocne 10 MapTa, Ha KYPCbl BblAen~Tb anpens ~ Mall1.

o Kaxnoe YTPO C aasrpaun-ero AHs:l Ha4~HalO C 1 0 M~HYT TaHLI,eB. nOBec~Tb nucro«, rne OTMe4alO BbInOnHeH~e, HopMa He MeHee 21 AHs:l B MeCs:lLl,.

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o Ao nera (AO 1 ~IOHs:l) BbIY4~Tb aansc, rAe ~ KaK - ew,e He 3HalO, Y3HalO B IIlHTepHeTe ~n~ -iepea nonpyr;

o IIlM~WKMeIl1Kep: npoxoncynsrapoaarscs no BceM BOnpocav. HaIl1T~ AO KOHLI,a anpens sepea nonpyr ~n~ Ha Kypcax.

o HaIl1T~, npOCMOTpeTb ~ ~3Y4~Tb B~AeoqmnbMbl C XOpOW~M~ )KeHCK~M~ 06pa3aM~. BbIY4~Tb )KeHCKYIO noxonKY ~ MaHepbl, orpaoaruears He MeHee 1 0 M~HYT B AeHb.

o KocMeT~4ecK~1I1 Ka6~HeT: HaBepHoe, pas B MeCs:lLl" yT04H~Tb Y nOAPYr.

o Tycj:>n~, nnarse ~ 106Ka Ha oceHb. B nocneznuoo HeAeruo asrycra nOA06paTb ~ Kyn~Tb C nOMow,blO ~MIt1WKMell1Kepa, XOAIt1Tb B 3TOM He MeHee uiecrn pas B HeAeruo.

o naplt1KMaXep C ceuraops: nOA6~paTb np1t14eCKY, Aenars 4TO-TO HOBoe paa B ABe HeAen~ (uasepuoe).

o Be4epHIt1e TY<t>nlt1 It1 nnarse Ha HOBbl1l1 rOA. TY<t>n~ KYrurrs B OKTs:l6pe, nnarse Kynlt1Tb ~n~ CWIt1Tb TO)Ke B OKTs:l6pe (see C ~MIt1WKMeIl1KepOM).

o Crovaronor: MOs:l ynbl6Ka AOn)KHa 6blTb 6enOCHe)KHoll1.

BIt13~T B nepsoa nexane AeKa6ps:l.

.o.a, ~ 6epy ce6e xoarponepa: Ha Ka)KAYIO aeneruo C nanoji (It1nlt1 BIt1KOIl1) noroaapaaaocs 0 KaKIt1X-TO 06s:l3aTenbCTBax 1t13 aroro nnasa. OT4~TbIBaTbCs:l Ka)KAblll1 ae-rep, sa He-

BblnOnHeHlt1e - urrpao. LJ,eHa Bonpoca - MOIO nOCYAY nocne Y)KIt1Ha.

s:l AYMalO, K HOBOMY roAY Caw a 6YAeT nO-HaCTOs:lw,eMY 04apOBaTenbH0Il1. III Koponeaou CTaHeT paHO ~nlt1 n03AHO - 06s:l3aTenbHo. A 60nbwe acero Y MeHs:l auasraaer YBa>KeHlt1e (1t1 BOCXIt1w,eH~e) ee YMeHlt1e CTaBIt1Tb uenu. OcHOBHble nYHKTbl, nOBTOpIt1M, cnenyioume:

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AHam13 np06neMbl.

KOHKpeTHafi 3anaYa.

PeCYPCbl.

Km.1Tepll1l11 nOCTII1)1(eHII1f1. nnaH.

KOHTpOnep.

III - 06S13aTenbHO Bce 3amlicaTb.

ASH)I(eHHe K uenu: nnau, eranu H uiaru

To, YTO Y sac ronsxo B ronose, YTO He sarutcauo - He uens. He HaCTOfiLltafl, He cepseaaas, He pafioraiouiaa uens. floxa 3TO He aanacauo - 3TO MeYTa, 3TO HaMepeHille, 3TO paarosopsr, 6na-6na-6na ... Kor-

,lJ,a-TO, MO)l(eT 6blTb, YCTHblili sapaaar 111 npOKaTII1T, HO ecnu BaM YTOTO H~HO acepsea, ace 3anll1CblBailiTe. 3anll1CaHHOe - ~e ,lJ,OKYMeHT. 3TO OpraHII13yeT 111 06f13bIBaeT, 3TO HanOMII1HaeT 111 nO,lJ,TanKII1- eaer; n03TOMY see CBOIl1 Ba)I(Hble uenu 111 3a,D,aYII1 - aanacuaasrre.

YTOYHflTb CBoe BII1,lJ,eHlI1e pe3ynbTaTa, cpopMynll1pOBaTb ero KOHKpeTHO - 06blYHO BceM HpaBII1TCfI 111 nOYTII1 Y scex ':-~~""-I nonv-raercs nOYTII1 cpaav LJTO Hepe,lJ,KO auasreaer 3aTpY,lJ,HeHlI1e, TaK 3TO paspa60TKa nnaua, Uenb npnsnexaer, a KaK ,lJ,OCTII1Yb - HenOHflTHO. He3HalO.LJTonOMO)l(eT3,lJ,eCb?

nepBoe: II1LltIl1Te rnonea, xoropue MOryT nOMOYb 111 nO,lJ,CKa3aTb. AKTII1BHO II1X paccnpauinaaare, 3TII1 nlO,lJ,1I1 MOryT 6blTb B aauiea 3anll1CHoili KHlI1)1(Ke (npOCMOTpIl1Te eel, 3TII1 nlO,lJ,1I1 MOrYT 6blTb euie C BaMII1 He 3HaKOMbi - TaK nOill,lJ,II1Te 111 n03HaKOMbTeCb. 3TO KpaCII1 Bbl ill 111 TlI1nOBOili XO,lJ,. K npll1Mepy, ecnn Bbl XOTII1Te orxpsrre caoe neno, Haill,lJ,II1Te necars CPIl1PM II1HTepeCHoro BaM nporpuns 111 nOnpOCII1Te noroaopars C II1X ,lJ,lI1peKTOpaMII1 (yYpe,lJ,II1TenflMII1). Ecnll1 3TO He cvnepxpvras cpll1pMa 111 Bbl Bblrnfl,lJ,II1Te npll1nll1YHO, 3TO OKa3blBaeTCfI anonue peansao: Bbl II1MeeTe nonv-racoasra paarosop, rne -renose« nenarcs BOCnOMII1HaHII1f1MII1, nO,lJ,p06HOCTflMII1, ,lJ,aeT BaM COBeTbl ...

Moxere, KCTaTII1, CYII1TaTb 3TO TeCTOM Ha nporpnpnronHOCTb: ecnu Bbl ocvenarecs 3TO cnenars 111 opra-raavere ce6e rpa TaKII1X 6eCe,lJ,bl, y eac xopourue uiaucu Ha TO, YTo6bl CBoe ,lJ,eno - OTKpbITb. Bbl - npe,lJ,npIl1HII1MaTenb. Ecnu eac OT O,lJ,Hoili MblCnll1 B 3TY CTOPOHY 6pocaeT B npoxe, 3TO roxe XopOWO: Bbl noasnw, YTO OpraHlI130Bblsars csoe neno BaM, noxoxe, paso.

Bropoe: II1LltIl1Te HY)l(HYIO nureparypy, YII1TaillTe, 3aHII1MailiTeCb cavooopaaoeaunev. OYeHb MHoro MO)l(HO cnenars C nOMOUJ,blO cneuaanaanpoeauaux CPOPYMOB - ecnu XopOWO TaM ce6f1 nO,lJ,a,lJ,II1Te, BaM 3anpOCTO 111 aa 6ecnnaTHO ,lJ,a,D,YT MHOro u,eHHblx nO,lJ,CKa30K. Cnpauuiaaare - OTBeTfiT.

~eJlb - TOJlbKO TO,

4TO 3anHcaHO .

HToro

LJT06bl 3Ta rnaaxa oxaaanacs nns eac He nureparypoa, a uiarov snepen npepenre YTeHlI1e 111 OcpopMII1Te nll1CbMeHHO B TaKOM )l(e KOHKpeTHOM 111 OTBeTCTBeHHOM cpopMaTe uena 111 3a,D,aYII1 CBOIl1. MII1HII1MYM: O,lJ,HY uens no patiore 111 O,lJ,HY uens no nll1YHoili )l(1I13HII1.

Korna cnenaere, 06f13aTenbHO n03HaKOMbTe co csoea patiorosi KorO-TO 1113 CBOIl1X ,lJ,PY3eillll1 6n1l13KII1X. Pesvnsraru eac soonyuraBflT!

B TeyeHlI1e cnenyiouiea He,lJ,enll1, BCnOMII1Ha5l CBOIl1 peWeHII1f1 no Konecy )l(1I13HII1, nepertaunrrs ace CBOIl1 uena Ha ron B 3TOM OTBeTCTBeHHOM cpopMaTe.

Cnenaare II1X nO-HaCTOfiLlteMY pa60TaIOLltIl1MII1!

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IIIHorAa Bbl MO)l(eTe croruoryrscs C 60nbWOVl, HenOAbeMHOVI An51 ce651 3aAayeVl, nepen KOTOPOVI onvccaiorca PYKII1. Ho Aenars ee BCe paBHO - HaAO. KaK? Ecnll1 sana-a orpOMHa5l, KaK cnou, pa36elilTe ee Ha ManeHbKlI1e npocrue aranu, C K8)l(AbiM 1113 KOTOPblX CnpaBII1TbC5I Bbl MO)l(eTe.

Hanpavep, BaM HY)I(HO nepeexaTb OT pOAII1Tenelil B CBOIO xaapTII1PY: 3TO Ka)l(eTC5I Y)I(aCHbIM, HO ecnu Bbl B03bMeTe nll1CTOK 111 Hanll1WII1Te see npocrue aranu, TO II1X 6YAeT scero -rersrpe. C nOA3aAayaMII1 - HeMHoro nofionsuie, a II1MeHHO ...

nepBoe: OYII1CTII1Tb xaaprapy, KYAa nepeeaxars. XopOWO, KBapTlI1pa - 3TO 6anKOH, KOMHaTa 111 KYXH5I. OYII1CTII1Tb 6anKOH - xaca TPIl1, cnenaio aasrpa, paaocpars KOMHaTYXBaTII1T cy660Tbl, npll1BeCTII1 B nOp5lAOK KYXHIO - TaM HeMHoro, B eocxpecease AO 06eAa AOn)l(eH ynpaBII1TbC5I.

aroooe - cnenare B xsaprape peMOHT. Tyr Tpll1 nYHKTa: npoexr, peMOHTHII1KII1 111 BeUJ,lI1. npoexr peMoHTa anonue Mory HapIl1COsare casa, 3TO 51 mooruo 111 YMelO. KTO cnenaer peMOHT - He BOnpoc, II1nll1 HaViAY MaCTepOB no IIIHTepHeTY, II1nll1 cnpowy Y APY- 3eVl, KTO-HII16YAb nopeKoMeHAyeT 3HaKOMbIX. BeUJ,lI1: HaAO pa- 306paTbC5I; YTO B03bMY 1113 crapux seuiea, YTO xynruo HOBoe. npll1rnawy CBemaHY, OHa aaraparopar, 51 ee noonyuiaio 111 CAe-

11alO nO-CBoeMY·

TaK, TYT roxe see osuraevo.

TpeTbe - c06CTBeHHO nepeean, TO ecrs ecero ABa nYHKTa: MaWIl1Ha 111 nOMOUJ,HII1KII1. roa-cnoor HaViAY -repes IIIHTepHeT, 3TO ceVlYac COBceM npOCTO, a norPY3111Tb BeUJ,1I1 nouorvr APY3b5l.

nOMoryT? nOMOryT, TOYHO.

nOcneAHII1V1 nYHKT - nOCYII1TaTb HY)I(HYIO CYMMY 111 Ha6paTb AeHbrll1.

Tperse: 3AeCb AaM rpa 06UJ,lI1x nOAXOAa An51 pa3pa60TKII1 nnaaa AOCTII1)1(eHII151 uenu. 3TO:

• «KaK csecrs cnoaa: paaoeare CnO)l(HYIO aaaa-ry Ha npocrue aranu».

• «KBaApaT peCYPCOB: 1I1UJ,II1Te ysen np06neMbl».

• «nnaBalOUJ,lI1V1 TaHK: HaVlAII1 Cnel...\II1anll1CTOB 111 06beAII1HII1 II1X YClI1nll151».

noexanll1!

«KaK csecrs CIlOHa»: pa36eMTe CIlO>KHYIO 3aAal.fY aa npocrere aransr

Hy, AeHbrll1 He aonpoc. Ha 3TO AeHbrll1 ecrs.

IllTOro: see peuraevo. Bce, YTO HY)I(HO, 3TO nll1CTOK 6YMarll1 111 pa36111Tb 60nbwyIO saaa-v Ha npocrsre BbinOnHII1Mbie aranu,

XOPOWO, 3TO ece peansuo.

ECJlI1 3aAa4a orpOMHafl,pa36e~Te ee aa MaJleHbKl1e

PA?>A~l\lIfTb npOGJ\EMY

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«KBaApaT pecypcoe»: 1.1~I.1Te Y3en np06neMbi

o npOrpaMMIt1CT, KOTOPblH Haplt1COBaHHblH AIt13aHH «aaneHeT» Ha npOrpaMMHblH ABIt1)1(OK It1 sunosorr BCe aro B V1HTepHeTe;

o paCKpYT'"lIt1K, KOTOPblH n03a60TIt1TC5I 0 TOM, '"lT06bl 0 BaWeM CaHTe Y3Hanlt1 nOIt1CKOBble CIt1CTeMbllt1, -repea aro, BC5IIt1HTepHeT-06UJ,eCTBeHHOCTb.

STOT )l(e -ienoee« nOACKa)l(eT, rne 3TIt1X nIOAeH: Alt13aHHepa, npOrpaMMIt1CTa It1 paCKpYT'"lIt1Ka - HaHTIt1.

V1TOro: 3TIt1 nlOAIt1 Y eac ecrs? BblXOAbl Ha HIt1X HaHAeTe?

Ecnlt1 Bbl 3aTPYAH5IeTeCb, KaKlt1e nYHKTbl It1 sranu BaM HY)I(HO 06- AYMaTb, It1MeeT CMblcn eocnonsaosarscs cTaHAapTHoH cxeMOH «LJeTblpe 6noKa ycnexa: nlOAIt1, MT6 (MaTeplt1anbHO-TeXHIt1'"leCKa51 6a3a), ,lJ,eHbrlt1 It1 BpeM5I». TYT It1MeeTC5I B BIt1AY, '"lTO An51 ruo- 60ro npoekra HY)I(Hbl nlOAI.1, enaneiouiae cooTBeTcTBYIOUJ,It1MIt1 3HaHIt151MIt1 It1 HaBbIKaMIt1, It1MelOUJ,It1MIt1 He06xOAIt1Mbie CB5I31t1 It1nlt1 It1Hbie pecvpcu. HY)I(Ha MaTepl.1anbHO-TeXHI.1'feCKaR 6a3a:

Hanplt1Mep, nOMeUJ,eHlt1e, TO It1nlt1 It1HOe 060PYAOBaHlt1e, It1HCTPYMeHTbl, nporpaMMbl ... HY)I(Hbl AeHbrl.1: TaKlt1e-TO CYMMbl K raKIt1M-TO cpoxau, V1 HY)I(HO BpeMR: Ha BblnOnHeHlt1e npoexra B uenov It1 nlt1'"lHO OT aac.

MT6

3Ha51 3TO, no Ka)I(AOMY nYHKTY 3aAaHTe ce6e sonpoc: 3TO Y MeH5I B AOCTaTO'"lHOH Mepe ecrs? Otiecne-reao? V1 TaM, rAe 06Hap~lt1nlt1 HexBaTKY, - 3aAYManlt1Cb, nocraeann aaaa-ry, eocnonuana.

npeAnOnO)l(It1M, Bbl XOTIt1Te cnenars ce- 6e caar: xopowee neno: nownlt1 nocneAOBaTenbHO no 6noKaM.

Hano nOH5ITb, xaxae nlOAIt1 BaM HY)I(Hbl An51 C03AaHIt151 caara. KaKlt1e?

Bo-nepsux, BaM HY)I(eH '"lenOBeK, KOTOPblH B 3TOM pa36It1paeTC5I. OH-TO paccxaxer BaM, '"lTO BaM He06xOAIt1Mbl:

o A1t13aHHep, KOTOPblH aapacysr BaM «06nO)l(KY» caara:

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Kaxoe 060PYAOBaHlt1e, kaxoe npvroe MaTepaansuoe It1 TeXHIt1'"leCKOe ooecnesenae He- 06XOAIt1MO?

MIt1HIt1ManbHO He06xOAIt1Mbi nlt1HIt151 auxona B V1HTepHeT, KOMnblOTep nOA Windows (CKOpee scero) It1 AOCTaTO'"lHO craanapruue nporpawraer; oqmc (cxopee ecero Word) It1 rpa<t>It1'"leCKIt1H penaxrop (npennonoxav, ACDSee).

Ecnn Bce eCTb - 3AOPOBO, '"lero HeT - nOH5ITHO, '"lTO HY)I(HO cnenars,

npOCTeHbKIt1H caar CTOIt1T nplt1MepHO KaK npoCTeHbKIt1H HOYT6YK, 3KCKJl1031t1BHblH caar C Mara31t1HaMIt11t1 nplt16aM6acaMIt1 - KaK HOYT6YK AOPOroH. Flrnoc MenKlt1e pacxonu Ha peracrpauaio AO-

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MeHHoro II1MeHII1 (Ha3BaHlI1e anpeca aaurero caara) 111 onnary XOCTII1Hra (aro npo TO, YTO BaW caar rAe-TO BII1CII1T 111 aa oro TO)Ke paa B rOA HaAO nnaTII1Tb) - 3TO neureane, yeM nonb30BaTbC5I COTOBblM Teneq,OHOM. nmoc pacxOAbl Ha onnaTY It1HTepHeTa - 3TO HeMHoro AOpO)Ke, yeM nonb30BaTbC5I COTOBblM Teneq,OHOM. Ecnll1 Bbl CTaBII1Te

3aAayy cnenars caar nonyn5lpHblM, BKmOya~Te pacxonu aa paCKpYTKY caara, 3TO 6blBaeT COnOCTaBII1MO CO CTOIl1MOCTblO caM oro caara.

Korna ecrs 51CHOCTb no AeHbraM, nerxo onpenenarsca a C CaMII1M npoexrov: HaCKonbKO BaM 3TO HY)KHO, HaCKonbKO Bbl 3TO T5IHeTe ...

BpeM5I

KOHBepTlI1pOBaHlI1e

3TO cavoe II1HTepeCHoe: BpeM5I, AeHbrll1, nlOAII1 111 MT6 MO)KHO KOHBepTlI1pOBaTb APyr B npyra, MT6 111 nlOAII1 n05lBn5l1OTC5I - 6blnll1 6bl AeHbrll1, HeXBaTKY BpeMeHII1 MO)KHO KOMneHClI1pOBaTb nlOAbMII1 111 AeHbraMII1, HeAOCTaTOK neuer He crpauieu, ecna ecrs MT6, nlOAII1 111 BpeM5I ...

npeAnOnO)KII1M, y aac Mano neser; HO MHoro BpeMeHII1. Torna Bbi MO)KeTe CaMII1 paapafiarsraare 111 pncoears AII13a~H, CaMII1 pa306paTbC5I, YTO HY)KHO An51 paCKpYTKII1 caara, 111 ece 3TO 6yAeT BaM - 3KOHOMII151. MO)KeTe naxe CTaTb caM ce6e nporpavMII1CTOM 111 npoCTeHbKII1~ caar «cxnenars- caMOCT05lTenbHO: ece peansso, ronsxo sa 3KOHOMII11O neuer Bbl nnaTII1Te C06CTBeHHblM BpeMeHeM.

,lJ,pyra51 clI1rYaLl,II151: y eac Mano BpeMeHII1, HO AOCTaTOYHO (ua 3TO) neser; CII1TYaLl,II151 MeH5IeTC5I: Bbl MO)KeTe Ha~TII1 scero OAaoro -renosexa (II1nll1 q,II1PMY), CTaBII1Te saaa-rv, naere AeHbrll1, B b6roBopeHHbl~ CpOK nonv-iaere oeavnsrar. Bce.

Heneruo II1nll1 ABe BaM 6YAYT nenars AII1- 3a~H, CTonbKO xe 6YAeT xnonorars npOrpaMMII1CT, II1Toro MeC5ILI,. nll1YHO OT Bac nOTpe6yeTc5I OT AByX AO AeC5ITII1 yaCOB onpenenarsca C AII13a~HOM, y5lcH5I5I naxe He CTonbKO, KaK 3TO AOn)KHO Bblrn5lAeTb, a YTO Bbl, c06CTBeHHO, OT ~<-M~ ~ 3ek.Co'l-<A.' caara XOTII1Te. ,lJ,anbwe, KaK npaaano,

nepsue nonrona aaui caar 6YAeT Tpe60BaTb OT Bac Tpll1-yeTblpe -iaca B AeHb, noxa Bbl 6YAeTe caar HanOnH5ITb MaTepll1anaMill 111 B03I11TbC5I C HII1M, KaK C pe6eHKOM. nOn03)Ke, KorAa Bbl ycnOKOIl1TeCb 111 see YCTaKaHII1TC5I, sac B AeHb see paBHO YXOAII1Tb 6YAeT.

BOT 111 CYII1Ta~Te: y eac raxoe BpeM5I - ecrs? Bbl rOTOBbl raxoe BpeM5I - BblAenll1Tb?

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ccnnaBalOUJ.,I.1M TaHK»: HaMAI.1 cneuaanacroa 1.1 06'beAI.1HI.1 I.1X YCl.1nl.1R

~ He 6YAY vrsepxnars, YTO B 3TO~ II1CTOPIl1I11 TOYHbl see MenKlI1e neranu, Ba)KHO TO, YTO OCHOBa ee nonHOCTblO npaBAII1Ba. It1TaK, 1930 rOA, B COBeTCKO~ POCCII1I11 pa3BOpaYII1BaeTC5I II1HAycTpll1a-

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m-13aLJ,IIIS1, III Bbl COBepWeHHO HemKIIIAaHHO nonaaaere B nareps. Ho COBceM He nIllOHepCKIIIII1.

XopOWO, He Bbl, a npyroa AOCTOIl1H bl 111 III TanaHTnIllBbl1l1 '-IenOBeK.

Bonpoc B APyrOM: '-ITO reneps nenars?

MO)l(HO cKynlllTb, nepexuears III pa3MblwnSlTb 0 uecnpaaennaBOCTIII CYAb6bl III HenpaBeAHOCTIII BnaCTIII. MO)l(HO B3AOXHYTb, nplllHSlTb nponcurenuree III 6nlll)l(all1Wllle AeCSlTb ner 6e3ponOTHO crpoera XOAIIITb aa neC03arOTOBKIII. MO)l(HO nacars rHeBHble 06- nlll'-lIllTenbHble nlllCbMa, Tpe6ySl nepecuorpa HeCnpaBeAnIllBOrO npnrosopa, Bo06LL\e-TO noranusaacs, '-ITO naureurs B nycrory, Haw repoa uanacan scero OAHO nIllCbMO, 3TO nlllCbMO 6blno TOsapauiy CTanIII HY, III nlllCbMO 6blno IIIHTepecHbiM. nplllMepHoe conepxauue: "YBa)l(aeMblll1 rosapnui Cranaul B ycnoaaax Henpocroro Me)I(AYHapoAHoro nOnO)l(eHIIISI He06xoAlIIMO «perurrs ocopouocnocoouocn, uaurea crpauu, C03AaBaTb 60eBYlO rexHIIIKY, OTCYTCTBYIOLL\YIO Y HaWIllX sepoaraerx npoTIIIBHIIIKOB. s:l MOry cnenars AnSI HaWell1 crpasu nnaBalOLL\1II111 TaHK. nnaBalOLL\1II111 TaHK CMO)l(eT, nerxo npeononeaas BOAHble nperpansr, 3cpcpeKTIIIBHO BblnonHSlTb oaaaensrearensuue III HacTynaTenbHble 60eBble aana-ia. flpourv nars pacnoosxeaae III C03AaTb AnSI 3TOro He06xoAlIIMbie ycnoBIIISI».

TaKOe nlllCbMO He Momo He AOIl1TIII AO TOBaplIILL\a Cranuaa, a TOsapaui Cranaa nlllCbMa '-IIIITan III pacnopsxexne nan, XopOWO, Haw 3aKnIO'-IeHHblll1 nOA crpaxea 6bln

nepesenea B MOCKBY, nocne -iero eMY ~

OCTanOCb COBceM HeMHoro: c03AaTb AnSI crpauu nnaBalOLL\1II111 TaHK. Bauru AeIl1CTBIIISI?

no apTlIInneplIIlI1cKOMY BoopY)l(eHIIIIO». Hapony B MHOrO'-lIllCneHHba< narepsx 6blno AOCTaTO'-lHO, cneuaanacros HawnlII. Aanee pa3rOBOp B Y3KOM xpvry: "TOBaplllLL\lII, B narepe clIIAeTb rnyno, a orpaaa nOCTaBlIIna HaM 3aAa'-lY - C03AaTb nnaBalOLL\1II111 TaHK. s:l B 3TOM HIII'-IerO He nOHIIIMalO, HO Bbl sanserecs cneuaan IIICTaM III , a SI 6YAY BaWIIIM PYKOBOAIIITeneM. 3TO SI YMelO. TaHK HaAO CAenars!»

... OceHblO 32 rona, aa oxpauue MOCKBbl, Ha XaMOBHIII'-IeCKOM nnauv npoucxonana IIICnblTaHIIISI TaHKa nT -1. Ha IIICnblTaHIIISlX nplllCYTCTBOBan caM rosapaui CTanlllH III OCTancSI AOBoneH.

n03)1(e, Y)l(e B 1942 rOAY, aa paspatiorKY TaHKa T-70 H.A. ACTPOB nony-mn CTanlllHcKYIO npeMlIIfO, a n03AHee 6bln YAocToeH 30noTOII1 3Be3Abi fepoa ColtlllanlllCTIII'-IeCKoro TpYAa.

VlTOro:

Ecnlll B KaKOM-TO sonpoce Bbl He cneuaanucr III C aana-reji cnpaBIIITbCSI He MO)l(eTe, He orcrynaare, a CTaHOBIIITeCb PYKOBOAIIITeneM: nonoepare nlOAell1, xoropue BaM see cnenaior caMIII!

Ecnlll)l(e Bbl sanaerecs PYKOBOAIIITeneM, TO nOMHIIITe, '-ITO PYKOBOAIIITenb AOn)l(eH KOHLJ,eHTplIIpOBaTbCSI TonbKO Ha rnaBHOM, CMenOM III HeO)l(IIIAaHHOM. Bce TeXHIII'-IeCKlIIe aonpocu - OTAaaaare cneuaanacravl

He3aLL\IIITe, no «arepau, no MOTopaM III

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4T06bl Bbl 11Y'-tWe MOrnlll OTBeTIIITb ua STill aonpocsr, BaM ripen- 11araeTCs:J n011e3Hoe ynpa)l(HeHllle, noxoxee Ha paaane-reaae: nOAOillAIIITe K CBOIIIM APY3bs:JM 111 nonpOCIIITe, '-tTo6bl OHIII paccxa- 3WIII BaM, C KeM 1113 npeACTaBIIITe11eill )l(IIIBOTHOro Mlllpa Bbl accoLl,lIIl11pyeTecb y HIIIX B nepBYIO osepens. Crracox C KOPOTKOili pacWIIIQ>POBKOili npunaraerca:

ABIII}I(eHllle K u,eJlIII:

Bbl60p Jllll4HOrO CTIIIJlfl

- 3TO MOM .D.pyr, - npe.D.CT8Bllln 3Bepo6oM IIIH.D.eMCKOm BOIIIH8. - Em 30BYT l(IIIHr8'1ryK, 'ITO 03H8'18eT "BenIllKIIIM 3MeM». T8K ero nposeenu

38 MY.D.POCTb, OCMOTpIIITenbHOCTb III XIIITpOCTb.

Ka)I(Ablili IIIHAeeLJ, 3HaJl, «axoe )l(IIIBOTHOe - TOTeM ero poria. ToTeM ero pona CTaHOBIII11Cs:J ero JlIII'-tHbIM TOTeM OM , TOTeM OM ero JlIII'-tHOCTIII, 111 IIIHAeeLJ" '-tblllM TOTeMOM 6blJl COKOJl, Be11 ce6s:J TaK, KaK nonotiaer COK011Y, HO He J1l11ce. KaK Hill YAIIIBIIITe11bHO, Y «axnoro 1113 Hac ecn. CBOIII TOTeMHble nTIIILJ,bl 111 )l(IIIBOTHble, B STOM 11erKO y6eAIIITbCs:J, a cavoe rnasuoe - STO MO)l(HO 111 HY)I(HO IIICnOJlb30BaTb. Ce6s:J H~HO 3HaTb.

Korna Mbl 6bl11111 MaJleHbKIIIMlII1II MaMa '-tIllTaJla HaM YAIIIBIIITe11bHble CKa3KIII, Ka)I(Ablilllll3 Hac OTO)I(AeCTBJls:JJl ce6s:J C TeM 11111111 111 HblM repoeu. AeBO'-tKIII npeACTaB11s:JJlIII ce6s:J Kopo11eBOillIllJlIll3011YWKOill, Ao6poill <PeeilllllJlIII 6a6oill-5:jroill, KTO-TO 1113 Ma11b'-tIllKOB npenno'-tIllTa11 oopaa IIIBaHa-LI,apeBIII'-ta, KTO-TO - 111 BaHywKIII-Aypa'-tKa. ECJlIII xe CKa30'-tHbIMIII nepCOHa)l(aMIII 6bl11111 nTIIILJ,bl 111 )l(IIIBOTHble, Mbl TaK)I(e Aywoill 111 Boo6pa)l(eHllleM Ae11aJlIII CBOIII Bbl60Pbl. Mbl Mornlll nepeBon11oTIIITbCs:J 111 B cvenoro neTYXa: «KY-Ka-pe-KY! Hecy KOCY Ha nne-ur, xoxy 11IIICy noce-ur. IIIAIII, nuca, BOH!» 111 OAIIIaoxoro YHbl11oro OCJl111 xa: «3TO 6blJl Moill 11106111Mblill wapIIIK!», Mornlll npencraanars ce6s:J Ma11eHbKIIIM 3aill'-tIllKoM, MOry'-tIllM ApaKoHOM 11111111 '-tYAeCHbIM MOTbl11bKOM. Mbl -rauie Bbl6111paJlIII TO, '-tTO 6bl110 Ha Hac KaK-TO noxoxe, HO nOC11e CBOIIIX Bbl6opOB caMIII CTaHOBIIIJlIIICb ew,e 60JlbWe nOXO)l(lIIMIII Ha CBOIIIX repoes.

B Ka)I(AOM 1113 Hac aanoxeua cnoco6HOCTb npeACTaB11s:JTb ce6s:J TeM 1II11IIIIIIHbiM cyw,eCTBOM, 111 Bbl6paHHoe cyuiecrso, KaK TOTeM Haweill JlIII'-tHOCTIII, Y)l(e Ha'-tIllHaeT nOACKa3blBaTb HaM TY 11111111 IIIHYIO crparermo 111 CTIIIJlb )l(1II3HIII.

HaCK011bKO Bbl HaLJ,e11eHbl Ha pesynsrar? B KaKOM CTIIIJle Bbl AOCTIIIraere CBOIIIX uenea, KaKllle crparernu saute scero ucnoneavere?

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KYPIIILJ,a (He AYMaeT)

KYPIIILJ,a - OAHa 1113 caMblX rnynsrx nTlIILJ,. KaK OHa nocruraer caoea LJ,eJlIII? XaOTIII'-tHO. KyplIILJ,a 6pOAIIIT, ee ace roHs:JIOT, OHa 6eraeT TO TYAa, TO CIOAa, '-tTO-TO KIlIOHY11a TaM, '-tTO-TO 3AeCb. OHa HIIIKorAa TOJlKOM He AYMaeT, HO acerna '-tTO-TO nenaer,

4aCTO 11111 Bbl 6blBaeTe nOXO)l(1II Ha TaKYIO KYPIIILJ,Y?

rtonvraa (nycroe cj)lt1110COcpCTBOBaHllle)

nonyraill 11106111T 6eceAOBaTb Ha saxaue 111 cepseaHble TeMbl. Ha TeMY AOCTIII)I(eHIIIs:J pe3Y11bTaTa, Ha TeMY ycneun-ocrn, CMblCJla )l(1II3HIII. OT Hero Bbl ycJlblWIIITe MHOro XOPOWIIIX pa3MblW11eHllliII: KpaCIIIBbIX, rny6oKlllx, LJ,BeTaCTbIX. >KaJlKO, '-tTO nOC11e STOro Ae11a HIIIKaKoro HeT.

nOHs:JTHO, '-tTO STO COBceM He npocroa aonpoc, 111 HY)l(HO XopOWO paaooparsca.vno KaKIIIM KpIIITeplIIs:JM MO)l(HO IIIAeHTIII<pIIILJ,lIIpOBaTb ce6s:J KaK cxoxero C STIIIM o6pa- 30M ...

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KYAa OH TaCKaeT? TYAa, KYAa III BCe OCransaue B MypaBell1HIIIKe. KTO BCe :3T0 onpenenser? MypaBell1HIIIK, He fl. s:J ManeHbKIIIII1 pa60'-l1ll1l1 sneMeHT B STOM orpOMHOM MypaBell1HIIIKe. MypaBell1HIIIK MeHfl KOPMIIIT III oxpaaser, a fl TYT ManeHbKafl TpYAOBafl nowaAKa, fl - pa60'-l1ll1l1 MypaBell1.

Ha xoro fl noxox? VlHTepeCHbl1l1 sonpoc. Tonsxo s, K coxaneHIllIO, aaaar, Pa60Ta, 1113BIIIHIIITe.

<Pa3aH scerna paccxaasrsaer 0 CBOIIIX ycnexax. OH paccxaausaer, KaK OH MHoro AOCTIllr, KaK OH MHoro CAenan Y)I(e III CKonbKO ew,e OH cnenaer B 6nlll)l(all1WeM 6YAyw,eM. CTOflT nlll sa ero cnOBaMIII - nena? VlHorAa Aa. <Pa3aH - He otisaarensao neHTflll1, OH MO)l(eT 6blTb snonae III aKTIIIBHblM, III AenOBbIM, rnaBHblM xe flBnfleTCfl TO, '-ITO see, '-ITO OH nenaer, nenaer Mfl roro, '-IT06bl STIIIM - noXBaCTaTbCfl.

flpaena, Mfl Bac STO Y)I(e COBepweHHO He xapaxrepuo? nplllflTHO STIIIM nOXBaCTaTbCfl!

LlJ,eHoK (aecoopau, pacnunserca)

W,eHOK 60APblll1 III nOABlII)I(Hblll1, O'-leHb )1(111- BOlli, Be3Ae notieran, Be3Ae noousan. L1,enb AOCTlllrHYTa - III 6poweHa, cea-iac OH STIIIM vsnekcs, -repes MIIIHYTY M'-IIIITCfl aa HOBblM YBne'-leHllleM. n06eran, nosecenanca, ero )l(1II3Hb BcerAa - npa3AHIIIK. Ho '-ITO B pesvnsrare cnenan? HIII'-Iero. HeT nocneno-

aarensaocra, HeT c06paHHOCTIII - HeT III peaynsraroa.

KaK)I(e STO 3AOPOBO, Y3HaTb 0 ce6e TaK MHoro IIIHTepecuoro, a ew,e cnpOCIIITb, KTO OHIII caMIII raxue, xoropue 6yAYT roaopars 060 MHe - fl nooexan'

neHIIIBeu, (neHb IIInlll aenocnenoearensaocrs)

neHIIIBeu, 3HaeT, '-ITO paao IIInlll n03AHO OH '-IerO-HIII6YAb CbeCT, rosuee - B POT eMY '-ITO-HIII6YAb nonaner, OH neHIIIBO BIIICIIIT Ha BeTKe, neHIIIBO rsuerca sa 6nlll)l(all1WIIIM nnOAOM - OH 3HaeT, '-ITO )l(1II3Hb ero HaKOpMIIIT, III OH caM nenars HIII'-Iero He 6YAeT.

Ecnu He B nOM, KIIIBHIIITe ronosoa: STO He npo eac?

MypaBelll (TPYAOJll06I11e)

Crapaa nourans (nooexana, aanuxanacs, ornanuaaercs)

MypaBell1 scerna paooraer, nenaer CBOIII ManeHbKllle nena C YTpa AO ae-repa, KpOnOTnIllBO III 6e3 ornuxa, OH - '-IaCTb cacrevu.

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xaarnr JlIl1 CII1Jl. n06e)l(II1T HeMHO)l(KO, aansrxaerca, CHOBa nOCTOlilT, OTAOXHeT 111 nOAYMaeT - a npaaaa JlIl1 MHe 3TO H~HO? KYAaTO 6e)l(aTb 111 CTpeMII1TbCfI CII1Jl Y)I(e HeT. Crapaa JlOWaAb II1AeT TOJlbKO MaJleHbKII1MII1 PbIBOLJKaMII1, C nepepblBaMII1 Ha OTAbIX, TOJlbKO HeAaJleKO 111 K He6oJlbWII1M LJ,eJlflM.

3x, 6blJlll1 KorAa-TO 111 Mbl pblCaKaMII1!

MOTblJleK (JleTII1T ua JlIo6olil orouex)

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MOTblJlbKa npaanexaar see, LJTO 6JlecTII1T 111 CII1f1eT. He pa3MblWJlflfl, He nposepas, OH JleTII1T Ha JlIo6yIO BII1AII1MOCTb ycnexa, He II1Mefl Hili OCTOPO)l(HOCTII1, Hili coocreenuoro nnaua 111 crpareruu.

He roporurrecs OTMaXII1BaTbCfI OT aroro oopaaa, B03MO)l(HO, cea-iac KTO-TO Ha eac Jl106yeTcfI!

Ocen (CTOIl1T, BepTII1T ronosoa, He MO)l(eT Bbl6paTb)

flpononxaer CTOflTb, Bbl6111paTb 111 MyLJII1TbCfI, BMeCTO roro LJTo6bl nOJl1TII1 XOTb LJTO-TO cnenars 111 XOTb rAe-TO noxpars.

BaM 06f13aTeJlbHO CKa)l(YT, noxo)1(111 JlIl1 Bbl aa sroro nepcosaxa, KaK TOJlbKO Bbl B KOHLJ,e KOHLJ,OB on peAeJlII1TeCb, K KOMY 111 xoma nOAoJl1TII1.

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6ereMOT (riper HanpOnaJlYIO)

HeAOCTaTOK 0603peHII1f1 6ereMOT KOMnescapyer CBOeJl1 MaCCOJl1, CKOPOCTblO 111 TOJlCTolil.wKYPoJl1. ECJlIl1 Ha nYTII1 6ereMOTa OKa3aJlOCb npenarcrene, Hanpll1- Mep Bbl, - BaM He nOBe3JlO. 6ereMOT He paarnsnuaaer, 6ereMOT riper,

Hasepaoe, npow,e acero CnpOCII1Tb 0 ce6e HanpflMYIO: «COrllaCII1Cb, BeAb fI COBceM He 6ereMOT?»

3Mefl (orutiaer npenflTCTBII1f1)

OHa scerna nOJl3eT, scerna oraoaer npenflTCTBII1f1, ecerna LJTO-TO HaXOAII1T. 3Mefl - 3TO scerna TeKYLJeCTb, acerna rIl16KOCTb, acerna HeO)l(II1AaHHOCTb. YMeeT npflTaTbCfI, YMeeT MeHflTbCfI - rll16Ka 111 HenOCTOflHHa, KaK cava )l(1I13Hb. YMeeT )l(aJlIl1Tb, eCJlIl1 ee pa3Apa3HII1Tb ...

ECJlIl1 Bbl 3Mefl, BaM nerxo nOJlYLJII1Tb aa ce6f1 COBepweHHO Jl106yIO o6paTHYIO casas. B KaKOM otipase nonoanere - TaK 0 eac 111 paCCKa)l(YT ....

AflTeJl (AoJl6I11T B OAHO MecTo)

AflTeJl - eonnouieune ynpflMolil nOCJleAOBaTeJlbHOCTII1 111 ripsMafl npOTII1BOnOJlO)l(HOCTb w,eHKy.

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AsneJl cen, YBIIIAeJl uens, vnepca, Hau.em1JlCfI 111 AOJl 6 lilT. Y nsrna rOJlOBa xpenxaa, OH 6YAeT AOJl6l11Tb CKOJlbKO HY)I(HO, npoAOJl6l11T see, He OCTaHOBIIITCfI, noxa He AOAOJl6l11T see 111 acex, 111 noxa 3TO He AOIIIAeT AO KOHu.a, HlIIyeM APyrlllM 3aHlIIMaTbCfI He 6YAeT.

ECJlIll nsren 6YAeT cnpaumears, noxox Jllll OH Ha nsrna, Y eac He 6YAeT HIIIKaKIIIX uiaa COB OT OTBeTa YBIIIJlbHYTb.

nlllca (XIIITplOra)

MrHOBeHHO, nocne -rero Y scrperia CHOBa BblCOKlII1II cnoKolIIHbl1ll noner, nOIllCK OyepeAHOIII uenu III rOTOBHOCTb K OyepeAHOMY 6pOCKY·

Jles (tioeu sa KpynHolII A06blyelll)

Jles - onblTHbl1ll A06blTYIII K. OH MO)l(eT nonro Bbl)l(lIIAaTb CBOIO 60JlbWYIO xepray, cnoxoauo nomsnusas Ha npooeraouu-x MIIIMO rasenea. Korna xe OH yBIIIAIIIT CBOero 6YIIIBoJla, AOCTOIIIHYIO Jlsea A06bIYY, Y Hero aaropsrca rnaaa, OH B30pBeTCfI eueprnea, npecnenver MOUJ,HbIMIII npse«KaMlII1II6poCKOM nanaer Ha )l(epTBY. KpaCIIIBb11ll601ll, KlIIneHlIIe 8ApeH8JlIllHa - rnasHafl P8AOCTb Jlssa. HIIIKaKIIIX napruepos, Jles 6beTCfI TOJlbKO B OAIIIHOYKY: 6YIIIBOJl AOJl)l(eH 6blTb nosepxea 6bICTPO, HeCKOJlbKIIIMIII MOUJ,HbIMIII YAapaMIII. HaCbITIIIBWIIICb, nee CHOBa ornuxaer III roTOBIIIT ce6f1 K CJleAYIOUJ,elll CXBaTKe.

Korna 6YAeT saui 601ll?

nlllca Jl106l11T nenars ace YY)I(IIIMIII pycaMill. OHa YMeeT BXOAIIITb B noaepae 111 pacoears KpaCIIIBbie KapTIII H Kill , nocne yero ee c06eceAHlIIK caM XOyeT cAenars TO, "ITO H~HO elll. ECJlIll nnca YTOTO npOCIIIT, 3HaYIIIT, OHa "ITO-TO 3aMb1Wnser. nlllca - JlOBYIIIT, HO nenaer 3TO TaK JlOBKO, "ITO ece OTHOCflTCfI K Helll B uenov C CIIIMnaTlIIelll.

s:icTpe6 (yeTKIIIIII Bbl60p uena)

naYK (caMIII KO MHe npanersr)

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s:icTpe6 nenaer Kpyrlll B BblCOKOM He6e III CMOTPIllT: rne xe TO, KYAa HY)I(HO 6yAeT cnenars OAIIIH XOPOWIIIIII noner III vnap, YBIIIAIIIT - CJlO)l(IIIT KPblJlbfl III MeTHeTCfI flCTpe60M. s:icTpe6 He nepercs: scrpeo 6beT. L1,eJlb 3aXBaTbiBaeTCfI

naYK HIIIKYAa He oeraer, He roporurrca - navx nnerer cers. rJlaBHOe - ace paCCYIIITaTb III nOBeCIIITb cers Ha HY)I(HOM MeCTe. CaMIII npanersr, caMIII nOnaAYT, KTO-HIII6YAb B ceTIII 06f13aTeJlbHO OKa)l(eTCfI.

3TO OAIIIH 1113 TlIInOBblX BaplIIaHTOB )l(eHCKOIII crparerau: )l(eHUJ,IIIHbl (HaCTOflUJ,lIIe )l(eHUJ,IIIHbl!) HIIIKorAa sa MY)I(YIIIHa-

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MH He 6eralOT, OHH ronsxo paccrasnsuor nOBYWKH. MY)KYHHbl npntiervr CIOAa caMH, HaYHYT HX aaeoeesraars, )KeHLU,HHbl 6YAYT conporuanarscn, HO «orna MY)KYHHa cnOMHT conporuaneuaa CBoeH xepreu, )KeHLU,HHa He3aMeTHO Anfl Hero C ynbl6KOH novauier PYKOH CBOHM nonpvrav. MY)KYHHa AYMaeT, "ITO OH aaeoesan )KeHLU,HHY, Ha caMOM nene OH npOCTO nonancs. Bnpo-rera, noaonsuas <f>H3HOHOMHfI B STOM cnyxae H Y aee, H Hero, TaK "ITO 06blYHO see STO YCTpaHBaeT 060HX.

Bbl - nlO6HTe nnecrn cera?

Anb6aTpoc (BOCXO)KAeHHe ua nOTOK)

Anb6aTpoc He TPYAHTCfI, He MaweT

KpblnbflMH, OH - nOBHT nOTOK. OH cno- ~ ~ KOHHO CKonb3HT HaA MopeM, O)KHAafl, ~ xorna nonaaer B ue-rrp BOCXOAflLU,erO <:» ~C::? nOTOKa, H, nOHMaB nOTOK, nerKHM H3rH-

60M xpunsea HanpaBnfleT ce6e B TY CTOPOHY, rne ecrs pbl6a, xenarensuo MHoro pbl6bl. TaM MO)KHO He roponacs BbIXBaTblsars H3 BOAbl rnynsix pbl6eweK, HaKopMHTb ceos. nOTOM ans- 6aTpoc CHOBa B3MaXHeT KpblnbflMH, HO OH He Bop06eH H He BOpoaa, YT06bl yrPY)KAaTb ceos pa60ToH. 3ayeM TpaTHTb CBOH CHnbl, HaAO npOCTO nOHMaTb nOTOK, KOTOPblH 6YAeT cara HeCTH ero no )KH3HH.

Bac STO npasnexaer?

606ep (yeTKOCTb H nocnenoearensaocrs)

606ep - STO lI,eneHanpaBneHHocTb, yeTKOCTb H nocneAOBaTenbHOCTb. 60- 6ep nOCOBeTOBanCfI C 606pHXOH, noCTaBHn uens: AOMHKH 6YAYT CTOflTb 3AeCb. TaK, 6peBHa aaracxaera, pexy neoeroponav ... Bce nOHflTHO, sa patioTY! CKOPO AOKnaAbIBaeT: «)i(eHa, see CAenaHO. XaTKa nocrpoeua. K 3HMe HaAO euie npHrOTOBHTb ... » 606ep nnaHHpver CBOH nena, CTaBHT uenu, TPYAHT-

CfI H ssmonaaer CBOH nnauu,

YBa)KaeMblH 606ep, nposepsre, He nopa nH neoexonars K cneAYIOLU,eMY nYHKTY nnaua Ha AeHb?

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CaMOCTOSITenbHaSi pa60Ta

no cl>aKTY: KaKHM ce6f1 BHAHTe ssr? KaKOH cnHCOK CTHneH H crparerua cerozn-s no <f>aKTY saur?

npMOpMTeTbl: COCTaBHB <f>aKTHyeCKHH cnHCOK, paccrassre see CTpaTerHH B nopsnxe npHopHTeTOB.

Hanpnwep: 60nbwe acero Bbl nOXO)KH Ha Mypaasa, Ha BTOPOM MeCTe s:JcTpe6, nanee 606ep H 3Mefl. He xapaxrepuo - Jluca H Jles, peAKO UJ,eHOK H 6ereMOT (6bIBaeT, ronsxo xoma CHnbHO B SMOll,HflX).

83rnSiA co CTOpOHbl. KaKOH cnHCOK COCTaBflT BaM BaWH APY- 3bfl H 3HaKOMble? KaK BHAflT eac OHH?

XOl.feTCSI: KaKOH cnHCOK Bbl XOTenH 6bl HMeTb?

nOAYMaHTe, peunrre, 3anHWHTe B ncpsnxe npHopHTeTOB.

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Hanpavep:

1. s:JcTpe6. 2.3MeS'l. 3.606ep.

H36aBMTbcR. OT -rero XOTen 6bl Vl36aBVlTbCS'I - ro-u-ee, BO -rro XOTen 6bl 3TO npeeparure. OT 6ereMoTa XOTenOCb 6bl oCB060- AVlTbCS'I COBceM, Mypaasa XOlleTCS'I 3aMeHVlTb Ha s:JcTpe6a BbICO«oro nonera,

nepcneKTMBbl. -lro nnaHVlpylO paaenaars B ce6e B 6YAyw,eM, B nepcneKTVlBe?

B03MO)l(HO, 3TO 6YAeT Anb6aTpoc.

SnM>KaiiiwaR KOHKpeTMKa. ECTb nVi 6nVl)l(alllWVle )l(Vl3HeHHble cVlTyau,VlVI, B KOTOPblX Bbl Mom VI 6bl Vl3MeHVlTb CBOIII cnocoti AOCTVI)I(eHVlS'I uenu, sercrvnars B 60nee BblVlrpblWHOM crane noseAeHVlS'I?

KaK OpraHLI130BaTb ce6s:t?

LfT06bl 6blTb u,eneycTpeMneHHblM llenOBeKOM, HY)l(Ha BOnS'l, HaBblK npeononeaas ce6S'1, ceoea neHVI VI CBOVIX crpaxoa, HaBepHoe, 3TO TGlK, HO KaK paaaasars somo, S'I He 3HalO. Bona pa3BVIBaeTCS'I B cnopre nOA HallanOM xopowero rpeuepa VI B apMVIVI nOA KOMaHAaMVI 6e3)1(anOCTHoro cepxaara, VI 3Ta MeTOAVIKa nOAXOAVIT He BceM. MHe 6nVl)l(e APyrolll nyrs, noxoxe, 60nee rVl6KVlIII VI n03V1TVlBHbllll: 3HaTb, rne 0 lleM AYMaTb.

EcnVl nOAP06Hee, TO ecrs ABe cVlTyau,VIVI - noxa Bbl AYMaeTe VI xorna Bbl peureune Y)l(e npVlHS'lnVl. TaK BOT: noxa Bbl AYMaeTe, COMHeBaTbCS'I HY)l(HO. Korna peureune npVlHS'lTO, COMHeHVlS'lM MeCTa Y)I(e HeT.

Lfaw,e nlOAVI nocrynaior nO-APyroMY: saaxane npVlHVlMalOT VlMnynbcVlBHble peWeHVlS'I, a nOToM, HallVlHaS'l nenars, HallVlHalOT COMHeBaTbCS'I VI 06AYMbIBaIOT. VI 6pocalOT neno Ha nonnyrn. Ho He sasepuraor, nOTOMY -rro 60S'lTCS'I cnenars VI 3TO TO)l(e ...

6blTb B TaKOM nOABeweHHoM COCTOS'lHVIVI - caMoe Aypau,Koe coCTOS'lHVle!

VlTaK, war nepaua.

KaK 06AYMbiBaTb MAeM: npOAYKTMBHOe COMHeHMe

Mbl )l(VlBeM, )l(Vl3Hb nOAKVlAblBaeT HaM sonpocu. MO)l(eT, 3aexan, B asrocepaac? Haaepaoe, nopa ~e nOMeHS'lTb pa60TY ... KCTaTVI, a He KynVlTb nVi BOT 3Ty KYPTKY? A MO)l(eT, ~e nopa aaBeCTVI petieuxa? 3x, nopa Y)I(e npVlHVlMaTb peWeHVlS'I no nOBoAY neruero ornycxa ... VlHTepecHblx VI cnoxaux eonpocos MHoro, peWeHVlS'I He OlleBVlAHbl.

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06AYMbIBa51 mo6oe HOBOe neno, nOne3HO II1CnOnb30BaTb npaBlllnO «nmoC-MIIIHyc-IIIHTepecHo». To ecrs aua-iane oTKnlllKHyrbC51 Ha mo6yIO IIIAelO n03I11TIIIBHO, paaocrao, C YAoBonbCTBlI1eM noucxars B Helll nruocu, nepcneKTIIIBbl 111 B03MO)l{HOCTIII.

Bay! Jluuo panocruoe, C 3HTY3111a30M - cnenana? BcnOMH IIIn III?

Ha BTOPOM ware BKnlO4111nlll COMHeHllle: nOAYManll1, KTO ace 3TO 6YAeT nenars, ecrs nlll Ha 3TO BpeM51, Clllnbi 111 AeHbrll1, nOC4I11Tanlll, HaCKonbKO 3TO noporo, npa Kill Hyn III , K KaKIIIM B03MO)l{HbiM Henplll51THOCT51M 3TO MO)l{eT npIIIBeCTII1 ...

Ihasa cnOKOIIIHble, 3aAYM4I11Bble, HeToponnIllBble ...

Ha rpersera ware KaK 6bl OTXOAIIIM B CTOPOHY III CMOTPIIIM Ha ace 3TO C nlO6onblTCTBOM III IIIHTepeCOM co CTOPOHbl.

3TO npocro: pa36epeMC51 Ha nplllMepe.

EAeM Ha nIl1KHIIIK!

TpeTb51 npasansuaa peaKLJ,III51 - VTHTepeCHO: «It1HTepecHa cava Mblcnb, KaK npaaansuo MHe B 6nlll)l{alllWee BpeM51 npOBOAIIITb BbIXOAHble: B nenax no AOMY IIInlll B pa3Bne4eHIII51X Ha npapone?»

B03MO)l{HOe peureuue - Ha npupone 6blTb HY)I{HO, a paasne-reHIII51 AOn)l{l-tbl 6blTb cnopTIIIBHblMIII. C60pOB MIIIHIIIMYM, aepayrsCfI aacaerno.

ECTb. npIIIH51TO peuieane 0 TOM, 4TO cavo no ce6e npennoxeHille HaM IIIHTepeCHO. Ecnn TaK, TO Bbl51CH51eM nOAPo6HOCTIII, IIIHrepecyeracs 4eM MO)l{eM nOM04b, roBOPIIIM, 4TO XOTIIIM Mbl caMill, III AoroBaplIIBaeMC51 0 KOHKpeTIIIKe.

KorAa peuieaae npHHRTO

KaK ronsxo KaKoe-nlll60 peureuue npIIIH51TO, OHO Y)I{e npIIIH51- TO III He 06CY)I{AaeTC51. Bce, npoexanu. TYT nonesao KaK 6bl HeMHoro norvners: 3aHflTb ce651 ronsxo TeKyw,IIIMII1 AenaMIII, a He HOBblMIII pa3MblWneHIII51MIII no nOBOAY roro, 4TO Y)I{e 06- AYManlll.

floneaao aocrnrrars B ce6e cnenyiouiyio np1l1Bb14KY: aac Ha- 4111HaeT 6ecnoKoIIITb KaKa51-TO cllltyaLJ,lII51 - 6~CTPO npeACTaBbTe, KaKolII ycnewHbl1ll pesvnsrar Bbl xorenu 6bl nony- 4111Tb B IIITore.

3TO MO)l{eT 6blTb B caMblX npocrux cnoaax: «Cnenars Y)l{IIIH» , «PeWIl1Tb clIITyaLJ,1II1O B uixone y ,D,eHlIIca», «FlposeAaTb ponurenea».

A reneps, korna Bbl npencraanna ce6e IIITOroBbl1ll pesynsrar, sanaare ce6e OAII1H-eAIIIHcTBeHHbllll sonpoc: «axoe neno, xaxoe peansuoe <p1II31114ecKoe AeIllCTBllle, KaKolII war nplll6nlll3111T MeH51 K 3TOMY peaynsrary?

B351Tb Tpy6KY III Ha4aTb Ha6111paTb HY)l{Hbl1ll HOMep? Cecre aa KOMnblOTep III aanncars y)l{e nplIIAYMaHHble xopoume

3a3BOHllln renedioa, Ha)l{lIIMaeTe KHOn04KY, 3BOHIIIT XOPOWIIIIII 4enOBeK. 3By- 4111T npennoxeuae - noexars B socxpeceHbe Ha nIllKHII1K.

Exars? He exars? KaK npaanneuo? nepBa51 npaBlllnbHafi peaKLJ,III51 - ruuoc: «Bay! 06ew,a1OT renno, 6YAeT conusuuKO, ornoxuera!»

3TO He acnyx. 3TO npOCTO pa3MbIWn51eM.

BTOpa51 npaaansaaa peaKLJ,IIIf1 - MVTHyC: «KY4a xnonor, exars no np06KaM, BepHeMC51 n03AHO, ace nena He CAenaHbl ... »

,D,YM8.Tb npononxaeu. Bcnyx MO)l{HO CKa3aTb noxa 4TO-TO npocro rennoe 111 6narOAapHoe.

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OpraHIII3au,lIIf1

CPOPMYJlIllPOBKItI? B3f1Tb CyMKy ItI CXOAItITb B Mara3lt1H? - BCe peansno, ace BaM no CItIJlaM.

Flocne sere STOT war CAeJla~1Te.

KaK CAeJlaJlItI - nopanyarecs sa ce6f1 ItI caenaare war CJleAYIOUJ,ltIiII.

V1 TaK nanee.

Inasa 60flTCfI - pyKItl AeJlaIOT. Hy BOT ace ItI nonyyItlJlOCb.

UeillTHoT: xoporxas asrcoxas aarpvasa. CAeJlaTb npltlBblYKoill.

TaillM-MeHsp)KMeHT: nnaa ItI pacnopsnox nen. YyltlTb npyroro.

HeraTItIB

npMeMbl caMoopraHM3au.MM M caMocTMMynMpoBaHMsw

Crpauranxa nepen rnaaaua. Copeaaoaauae ItI Bb130B: «CJla60?» OGbflBItITb 06 06f13aTeJlbCTBax. nOCTaBItITb ceGfI Ha AeHbrltl.

YcneWHblMItl JlIOAbMItl 6blBalOT JlIOAItl He 06f13aTeJlbHO cavue aonesue. HepeAKO ItIMItl CTaHOBflTCfI JlIOAItl npOCTO YMHble, KOropue 6e3 60Pb6bl C coooa ItI 6e3 BOJleBOH yeJlIOCTItl nony-raior xa-ecreenuue peaynsraru aa cser YMHOH cavoopraanaauaa. B KOPOTKOM 1t13JlO)l(eHitlitl CItICTeMa YMHoill cavooprauaaauaa coCTOItIT 1t13 rpex 6JlOKOB:

n031t1TIIIB

n03MTMB

MO)l(HO ce6f1 aacraansrs, a MO)l(HO 3a1tlHTepeCOBb1BaTb, Bbl3blsars y ce6f1 xenauae. 3TO HeMHoro cnoxsee ItI XJlOnOTHee, yeM .o.aBItITb aa ce6f1, HO peavnsrarst ropaaao npaanekarenexee. MeTOAbl, xoropue nosaoraior nerxo aa-rars HOBoe AeJlO:

MeYTa nepen rnaaavu.

Jlerxoe aa-iano, nocansaue aranu. n031t1TItIBHblH onsrr,

BHeWHfIfI nonnepxxa, nenars BMeCTe.

aauarepecoaan,

Me-rta nepeA rna3aMItI

HaAO ocaawsars BO)I(AeHltle - He MY'1aIl1Te ce6H npOTItIBHblM orxaraera cuenneuus ItI nepeKmOyeHltleM uenocnyun+srx nepena-r, B03bMItITe MaWItIHY C aBTOMaTOM ItI npltlS1THblM AnS1 ce6S1 ItIHCTPYKTOpOM. nOCItIAItITe aa MeCTe BOAItITenS1 B ceoe ynoaonscrene. nourpaare PyneM, Hall1- AItITe 'HaltlnYYWee nonoxeuue AnS1 PYK, ueroponnaao nOArOHItITe nOA ce6S1 CItIAeHbe ItI YA06HO orpervnnpyare sepKana. Ecnltl Bbl nooauaaerecs MaWItIHbl, nYCTb ItIHCTPYKTOP npaseaer eac Ha 60nbWYIO CB060AHYIO nnoUJ,aAKY, rne speaarscs <p1tI31t1yeCKItI He BO YTO: noxaerecs TaM 6e3 raaa no Kpyry nonxaca-vac, 60S1TbCS1 HaAoeCT, CaMItI aaxoTItITe 60nee ItIHTepeCHbl1l1 MapwpYT ItI 60nbWltle CKOPOCTItI. Hy ItI XopOWO, STO Y)l(e B cneAYIOUJ,1tI111 paa, a noxa 6blno ronsxo - nerxoe aa-rano: C ycnexoM aac!

V1Toro: npltlYYItITe ce6S1 ruotioe 60nbwoe TpYAHoe Aeno pa361t1BaTb Ha nOCltlnbHble aranu ItI cneuaansao orivcrpaasars ce6e nerxoe, YAaYHOe, vcneuiaoe aa-iano. Torna nlO6aS1 caMaS1 AanbHS1S1 Aopora npeBpaTItITCS1 B ItIHTepeCHoe npltIKnlOyeHltle.

nOCTaBbTe ce6e aa npaanno ecepsea MeYTaTb XOTS1 6bl paa B MecS1u,: B KOMnaHltI1tI C APY3bS1MItI ItInltl nlO61t1MbiMItI STO aecenee, HO MO)l(HO ItI caMOCTOS1- rensuo, To, YTO HaMeYTanltl, BOnnOTItITe BO YTO-TO 3pItIMOe ItI spxoe: TeKCTHanOMItIHanKa, xonnax aupeao« 1t13 )l(ypHana, KOMnbIOTepHaS1 rpadiaxa B

WItIMItI maaauu.

rAe Bbl nOBeCItITe STOT eoonyureansnoUJ,1tI111 aac nItlCTOK: B cnansue, YTo6bl AeHb HaYItIHanCS1 C KpaCItIBOIl1 MeYTbl? B pa60yeM Ka61t1HeTe, YT06bl 6blno noHS1THO, pana sero TPYAItITbCS1? Ha KyxHe HaA nnuroa, YTo6bl He 3a6blBaTb AYMaTb 0 rnaBHOM?

BaweM TanaHTnItlBOM ItICnOnHeHItIItI, - rnaasoe, YTo6bl B ItITOre nucrox A4 C

npenaonnouieuaee saurea MeYTbl Ka)l(Ab11l1 AeHb oxaausanca nepen Ba-

flosatiorsrecs, 'Ho6bl TPYAHbltl nYTb nOJlY411J1 nerxoe Ha4aJlO, 11 nopora npeBpaTI1TCR

B I1HTepeCHoe npl1KJlI04eHI1e

Jlerxoe ua-rano, nocansaue aranu

n031t1TItIBHblll1 onsrr

60nbWltle uena, KaK ItI AanbHS1S1 nopora, - saasane nvraior. npltI STOM 60nbWItIHCTBO nlOAell1 HeMHoro cvesepau ItI yaCTO pacCY)l(AalOT npltIMepHO TaK: «Ecnu neno cpasy nowno - 3HaYItIT, STO Moe neno. A ecnu cpasv KaK-TO He CKnaAbIBaeTCS1, 3HaYItIT, STO 3HaK: STItIM 3aHItIMaTbCS1 He HaAO". XopOWO, ItI cvesepaa MorYT 6blTb HaM Ha pyxy: npOCTO n03a60TbTeCb, YT06bl ItIMeHHO HayanO aoeoro nena AnS1 eac nowno nerxo ItI npnarao.

XOPOWO ItIAeT snepen TOT, KTO separ B CBOIl1 ycnex, KTO 3HaeT, YTO OH 06blYHO

L iil,.O~'i)~

~ ....., ycneweH. Ecnltl Bbl paCCKa3blBaeTe ce-

~ __ ...... --,,__ 6e: «Y MeHS1 HItIKorAa HltIyero He nonyya-

u, eTCS1!", «s:i He CMOry", «3TO y MeHS1 TOYHO

...uou.. "'~ He BbIIl1AeT!", «s:i KaK acerna ace 3a6YAY",

Bbl C061t1paeTe CBOIl1 HeraTItIBHbl1l1 onsrr ItI eenere ce6S1 K HeYAaye. C061t1pall1Te CBOIl1It1 Y~OIl1 n031t1TItIBHblll1 onsrr, 3anOMItIHall1Te ItI aa-

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nacuaaare ero. 3aBeAIIITe ce6e TeTPaAb YcneXOB: e)l(eAHeBHO aanncusaare TYAa TO, '-ITO ceronas Bbl cnenanu yAa'-lHO, '-ITO cerOAHfI Y aac nony-urnocs, aaura HaxOAKIll III sauna n06eAbl.

,lJ,nfl cepbe3HbiX nlOAeH ycnoaue

xecrxoe: Ka)I(AblH AeHb nposnTaTb MIIIHIIIMyM OAHY npownylO CTpaHIIILI,y III aanucars MIIIHIIIMyM rpn cerOAHflWHIIIX ycnexa.

BHewHfIfI nonaepxxa, nenars BMeCTe

OpraHM3au.HSI >KM3HH

/~

1 3aBeAI1Te ce6e Terpaas YcneXOB

XOPOWO, Bbl Ha'-lanlll nenars TO, '-ITO Bbl xorenn, - nansuie HY)I(HO, '-IT06bl paooranocs 60APO III nonro. TYT BaM nOMO)l(eT opraHIII3aLl,t.1f1 )l(1II3HIII: 3TO He KHYT III He npflHIIIK, He nonxvn III He n pili HY)l(AeH lIIe , a raxaa eCTeCTBeHHafl opraHIII3aLl,IIIfI )1(1113- HVI, xorna ace, 4TO npOIIIcxOAIIITb AOll)l(HO, npoacxonur cavo

C060H.

BOT, HanplllMep, creuu y eac B xaaprape: crporo rosops, IIIMeHHO OHIII vnpaansnor BaWIllM ABIII)l(eHllleM, xorna Bbl IIIAeTe 1113 npIIIxoxea Ha KyXHIO IIIlllll B cnans-uo. Ho npn 3TOM CKa3aTb, 4TO OHIII «3aCTaBllflIOT» eac IIIATIll onpenelleHHblM MapWPYTOM ... - HeT, CTeHbl He npIIIHY)l(AaIOT. OHIII npOCTO CTOflT TaK, KaK OHIII CTOflT, a Bbl IIIAeTe TeM MapwPYTOM, KOTOPbli:1 BblCTPOIIIll1ll CTeHbl. 3TO III ecrs - oprauu-

OAHOMY opraHIII30BaTb ce6f1 6blBaeT TPYAHO, BOT «orna 4TO-TO AOroBOPIIIlllIICb nenars BMeCTe, TO neno Ha'-lillHaeTCfI III IIIAeT ropaaao nerve, ECllVl Bbl XOTVlTe 6eraTb no YTpaM, ny-uue scero 06 3TOM AOroBOPIIITbCfI C KeM-TO 1113 APY3eH, rorna B OAIIIH AeHb ero nonaep)l(VlT eaui 3BOHOK, B APyroH AeHb eac opraauayer 3BOHOK ero.

Bbl - H a '-I all III , III 3TO masuoe, a «orna sraaerecs, neno nOHAeT cavo C060H.

Ecnu Bbl peurunn Ha4aTb nonraruearscs, HO IIIHorAa 06 3TOM aafisrsaere, nonpocure HanOMIllHaTb BaM KOro-TO 1113 AOMawHIIIX - 06bl'-lHO KTO-TO Ha4V1HaeT 3TO nenars C HaCTOflUJ,IIIM YAOeonscrauera.

A Bbl Ha'-lHeTe 3aHillMaTbCfI nOlle3HbiM cnoprora,

EClllll Bbl 4YBCTByeTe, '-ITO aaura peumMOCTb ABlllraTb CBOIO )l(1II3Hb enepen OCnatieaaer, HaHAIllTe Kpyr llIOAeH, KOTO-

OAIIIH 1113 caMblX TPYAHblX pe)l(lIIMOB AJlfl 3Heprlll4HOH patiorst, 3TO - KOMcpopTHafl, paccnatineuaaa 06CTaHOBKa, KorAa «He xanner» VI nena MO)l(HO orxnanuaars MIllHYTa sa MIllHYTOi:1, sac sa '-IaCOM, AeHb sa AHeM ... ,lJ,pyroe neno - pe)l(lIIM Ll,eHTHOTa, KOporxas aucoxas aarpyaxa, xorna npOCTO He06xoAillMO 6blCTPO cooparscs III ace onanar», Pa3, ABa, c06panlllCb, cnenanu - cynep! ,lJ,OBOllbHbl peaynsrarora, rOPAIIIMCfI C060H, 60APIIIMCfI nollY4eHHOH 3HeprllleH.

3aLl,IIIfI )l(1II3HIII.

HeCKOllbKO 3CP¢eKTIIIBHbIX MeTOAOB:

LJ.eHTHoT

,y----v

Hal1AI1Te xpyr

llIOAe~, xoropue sac nOAAep>KaT

pue sac B 3TOM nonnepxar, MHorllle XOAflT Ha xopounie nCIII-

xonoruxecxae TpeHIIIHrlll He ronsxo III He CTOllbKO 3a 3HaHlllflMIll III HaBbIKaMIII, KaK 3a'TOH nOMep)l(KOH VI aaeprnea, KOTOPYIO OHIII TaM 06bl4HO nony-raior.

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TO MY, KTO CBOIO >K113Hb XopOWO OpraHI130Ball

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Ilocne sero (06513aTeJlbHO!) nopaziosana ce651 M51rKI.1M npl.151THblM OTAbIXOM-BOCCTaHOBJleHI.1- eM. OTAOXHYJlI.1 - CHOBa 60Apa51 paeora.

ECJlI.1 Bbl XOTI.1Te CerOAH51 y6paTbC51 B KOMHaTe, He paCT51rI.1Bat:he 3TO Ha sees AeHb, a AoroBOpl.1TeCb C c0601il (a JlYl.Jwe ew,e C KeM-TO) l.JeTKO: 15 MI.1HYT Ha pa360pKY uncaqia (TOJlbKO!), 15 MI.1HYT HaBeCTI.1 nOp51AOK Ha CTOJle (HI.1 MI.1HYTbl 60Jlbwe!!), 15 MI.1HYT nporeoen, nblJlb 1.1 nporusneoocar], non (vcners )l(eJle3Ho!!!), a nOTOM - a6COJllOTHa51 cB060Aa 1.1 cOBepWeHHa51 panocrst

HI.1l.Jero He nenan, 1.1 MYl.JI.1TbC51 TeM, l.JTO nena He I.1AYT, - rnyno. nYl.Jwe BblAeJlI.1Tb ce6e BpeM51 Ha 3Heprl.1l.JHYIO patiory, BJlO)l(I.1TbC51 KaK cnenver, a nocne 3TOro C YAOBOJlbCTBl.1eM 3aH51TbC51 TeM l.JTO BaM XOl.JeTC51. ,lJ,a 3ApaBcTByeT CBoeBpeMeHHb11il u,eIilTHOT! '

Cnenars npl.1Bbll.JKolil

H~Ha JlI.1 HaM cneuaansuas MOTI.1Bau,I.151, l.JT06bl YTPOM YMbITbC51 npl.1l.JeCaTbC51 1.1 OAeTbC51? HeT, Mbl ace 3TO nenaev 06bll.JHO ua aaTOMaTe, npOCTO - no npI.1Bbll.JKe. Mbl COTKaHbl1.13 npI.1Bbll.JeK, a npuBbll.JKa - pesvnsrar nOBTOpeHI.15l. npl.1Bbll.JKa 06bll.JHO <PopMl.1pyeTC51 Ha 21-1il AeHb, 1.1 TO, l.JTO paHee Tpe60Bano All51 ce651 YCI.1JlI.1Iil, CTaHOBI.1TC51 ~e JlerKI.1M 1.1 npI.1Bbll.JHbIM.

Bbl peumnu 06JlI.1BaTbC51 XOJlOAHOIil BOAOIil: naxe eCJlI.1 Bbl Hal.JaJlI.1 JleTOM 1.1 BaM nOHpaBI.1JlOCb, BHal.JaJle HY)l(Hbl YCI.1JlI.151, l.JT06bl ce651 Ha 3TO OpraHI.1- 30BaTb. LJepe3 rpa HeAeJlI.1 3TO CTaJlO npI.1Bbll.JKOIil, CTaJlO eCTeCTBeHHbIM, a

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K COPOKOBOMY AHIO npl.1Bbll.JKa noCTeneHHO npespauiaercs B noTpe6HOCTb: eCJlI.1 CerOAH51 He 06- JlI.1JlI.1Cb, BaM Y)l(e KaK-TO CTpaHHO. Y)I(e l.Jero-To He XBaTaeT ...

,

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Hanpuraep, K 1 ceHTfl6pfl MOVI aec 6YAeT 64 KlllnorpaMMa, OKPY>KHOCTb Tan 111 111 - 54 CM. I!1nlll: «Ceronus noraato see AIIICKIII C KOMnblOTepHblMIII IIIrpaMIII, C ceroAH51WHerO AH51 npexpauiaio CMOTpeTb TeneBIII30p nocne 21.30, C ceroAH51WHerO ae-repa n51Tb paa B uenerno 3aHIIIMalOCb IIIHOCTpaHHblM 5l3blKOM He MeHee OAHOro -raca nepeA CHOM. LJepes TPIII MeC51u,a, TaKorO-TO '-I ucna , AOnO>KY 06 ncnonneHIIIIII acex nplllHflTblX MHOIO 06513aTenbcTB 111 nocrun-vrux ycnexax»,

... eCTBO» (vxact L1,enblVi AeHb BeCTIII ce651 uapcraeaaol), «ToTanbHoe AA» (IIICKJlIO'-IIIITb 1113 csoero neKCIIIKOHa cnOBO HET 111 Bo06w,e npennonarars, '-ITO P51AOM OCMblcneHHble nlOAIII, rOBOpRw,lIIe roneosue seuia, C KOTOPblMIII ecerna MO>KHO cornacarsCR), «XopOWO!» - 6blTb AOBonbHblM BeCb AeHb, «ConHbIWKO» - u,enblVi AeHb 3ap51>KaTb paAOCTblO acex

OKPY>KalOw,IIIX, «Cnenoji- (a He cnaoo CnenoMY 6blTb ew,e nlllAepoM 111 ConHbIWKOM?) 111 MHoro APyrlllx TaKIllX xe Henpocrux 111 Ba>KHbIX. 06513aTenbcTBo Q>IIIKclllpyeTC51 6SVlA>KIIIKOM, BIIIAHblM 1113- nanexa, a Y cepbe3HbiX nlOAeVi B STOM xe 6SVlA>KIIIKe ne>KIIIT KynlOpa 10, 50 IIInlll .:::::::::~::::::::.::C';~~::>.--::=:::::::: 100 py6neVi - CTOIIIMOCTb sonpoca.

Hanpavep, ccvrynunca - nOAaplII '-IenOBeKY, HanOMHIIIBwe My retie 0 TBOIIIX 06513aTenbcTBax, 10 py6neVi. C nuua cnomna ynbl6Ka - 50 py6neVi. Ha-ran B03pa>KaTb - nnaTIIIWb COTHIO.

Cucreraa >KeCTKa51, HO cnpasennaaaa, 111 pa60TalOT ace. He xo'-IeWb nOTep51Tb AeHbrlll - cneAIII aa C060Vl, xoxeurs AeHbrlll aapatiorars - noraorn oKpY>KalOw,IIIM, nocnena aa TeM, KaK ssmonHRIOT CBOIII 06513aTenbcTBa OHIII.

KaK IIIcnonb30BaTb STy CIIICTeMY BaM? nOAYMaVlTe, HaViAeTe MHoro pa3YMHbiX aapaa-rroa.

XOTIIITe O'-lIllCTIIITb CBOIO pe-rs OT MYCOPHblX cnoa - aanaunrre CBOIII «KaK 6bl», «BIIIAIIIWb rut», «nOHIIIMaeWb» 111 «runa- Ha nneTO'-lKe A4, P51AOM u,eHy sonpoca - HY, py6neVi n51TbAeC51T, 111 noaecsre nacrox Ha BIIIAHoe Anfl cetis 111 CBOIIIX APY3eVl MeCTO. C npocb60Vl 0 novouia. BHIIIMaTenbHbie APY3b51 noraoraror C YAOBonbCTBllleM.

It1nlll - peumnu nO>KIIITbC51 BOBpeM51, a IIIMeHHO He n03>Ke 23.00. HaxoAIIITe OTBeTcTBeHHoe Jluuo, rOTOBoe BaM nOMO'-lb, 111 naere eMy 500 py6neVi. Teneps cornacao AOroBOPY Ka>KAblVi 6YAHIIIVI ae-rep B CpOK OT 22.45 AO 23.00 Bbl 06513aHbl K HeMY Ha renediou

YJlY4waeT naMHTb, KaK ny6m14Hoe 06bHBJleHlile 06 06H saren scrsax

KOHe'-lHO, STO AononHIIITenbHoe Hanp51>KeHllle. Ho BeAb BaM Hy>KeH peaynsrar?

nOCTaBIIITb ce651 ua AeHbrlll

Bce TO >Ke cavoe, '-ITO 111 06bflBneHllle 06 06513aTenbcTBax, HO YKa3bIBaeTC51 KOHKpeTHa51 cyMMa sa HelllcnonHeHllle.

Ka>KAblVi rOA B Mew,epe Mbl npoBoAIIIM Jleruue Baaosue ceMIIIHapbl: nlll'-lHOCTHbIVi 111 AenOBOVI. Y'-IaCTHIIIKOB npuanexaer aenn«onenaas npupona aroro uauaouansuoro 3anOBeAHIIIKa, 60raTa51 TpeHIIIHroBa51 nporpasnaa (urecn, '-IaCOB Ka>KAblVi AeHb) 111 B03MO>KHOCTb IIIHTeHCIIIBHOVi patioru HaA c060Vl (c yrpa AO Be-iepa). C yrpa Ka>KAblVi 06b51Bn51eT CBOVI <t:>OHOBbIVi TpeHIIIHr, KOTOPblVi 6epeTC51 ua sees AeHb, AO ae-iepa: «nIllAep AH51» - ynpaaneuue >K1II3HblO acero nareps, «Bauie Koponeacxoe Benn-

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ompaears SMS C TeKCTOM «OK», YTO 3HaY~T: «s:J Y)I(e B nOCTeJI~, cnoxoauoa Te6e HOY~!» A eCJI~ He OTOCJlaJl~ - 100 Py6J1eli1 cropaior; B raxoa c~TYau.~~ Bbl, eCTecTBeHHo, oxaausaerece c06paHHbiM ~ aHepr~YHbIM. Ltepe3 HeAeJlIO OTBeTcTBeHHoe Jluuo aosepauiaer BaM AeHbr~ B nOJlHOM 06beMe ~ C socxauieH~eM BaW~M M~eCTBOM, a Bbl np~H~MaeTe peuieane Ha HOBylO HeAeJlIO.

Bce npOCTO ~ a<l><I>eKT~BHO, KaK y acex cepseaaux JlIOAeli1.

KaK pa60Tan Hanoneoa

nOCJlywali1Te ~CTOp~lO. MOJlOAOVl -renosex POAOM ~3 ropona Kpbl)l(onOJl~ 6e3 KaK~X-Jl~60 cassea, TOJlbKO c06CTBeHHbiM YMOM ~ yC~JI~~M~, B rpanuars ner CTaHOB~TC~ npe3~AeHTOM POCC~~ (a BaM cea-iac CKOJlbKO?), ~ sepea acero AeC~Tb ner era yC~JI~~M~ nexauiaa B paspyxe POCC~~ CTaHOB~TC51 OAHOIi1 ~3 c~JlbHeli1w~x eeponetickux Aep)I(aB ...

4>aHTacT~Ka? He vranana: aTO 6bIJlO. TOJlbKO aTO 6blJlO BO 4>paHu.~~ - B crpaue, KOTOpa~ OT Poccnn H~yeM np~Hu.~n~aJlbHO He OTJI~yaeTC51. 111 OA~H MOJlOAoli1 YeJlOBeK, raxoa xe, KaK Bbl, see aTO Aeli1cTB~TeJlbHO cnenan. POAOM OH 6blJl ~3 npoB~Hu.~~ Kopcaxa, a 3BaJl~ era - HanOJleOH. TaK BOT, ew,e paa: OT eac OH He OTJI~yaJlC~ H~YeM. Hy, MO)l(eT 6blTb, TOJlbKO CBO~M YMeH~eM paoorars,

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B 9.30, HO nanexo He acerna, TaK KaK 3an::IrIt1BalOw,lt1eCs:I aYAlt1eHLJ,1t11t1 HepeAKO n03BOns:llOT eMY Bbl~TIt1 K crony ronsxo K 11 "IaCaM. EMY )KanKO TpaTIt1Tb BpeMs:I Ha eAY, It1 OH paanenusaercs C 3TO~ Henplt1s:1THO~ 06s:13aHHOCTbIO 3a 7-8 MIt1HYT. Ho 3TY KOPOTKYIO nay3Y OH It1CnOnb3yeT nns roro, 4T06bl nplt1Hs:lTb apTIt1CTOB It1nlt1 y-reHblX It1 Ha3aAaBaTb It1M KY4Y BonpOCOB.

nOcne xoporxoro ornuxa B anapraveuTax It1MnepaTplt1LJ,bl OH ornpaanaercn B CBO~ Ka61t1HeT It1 norpvxaercs B patiory, TO ecrs B ynpaaneaue It1Mneplt1e0_, KOTOpas 3aHIt1MaeT nOnOBIt1HY Esponu It1 HaC41t1TbiBaeT 83 MIt1nnlt10Ha )KIt1Tene~. B coceAHeM TonOrpa¢1t14eCKOM Ka61t1HeTe paaocrnanu «apru, nnauu, cxeMbl It1

CTaTIt1CTIt14eCKIt1e Ta6nlt1LJ,bl, OHIt1 B cny-iae H~bl Y Hero scerna nOA PYKO~. OH 6pocaeT umsny It1 wnary ua xpecno 1t1, pacxaxneaa B3aA It1 snepan, AIt1KTyeT cexperapio. Ero TeKCTbl HOCs:lT orne-arox 3TO~ HepBHO~ XOAb6bl: rppaaa npeKpaCHO nocrpoeua, HO npocra, TaK KaK ero BHIt1MaHlt1e 3aHIt1MalOT nlt1Wb It1Aelt1. B TO BpeMs:I KaK cexperaps Ha41t1CTO nepenacuaaer 3TOT cnoaecuua nOTOK, 4T06bl npeeparurs ero B TeKCT neneui, Hanoneon orxpsraaer nplt1CnaHHble eMY MIt1HIt1CTepCKlt1e noose It1 41t1TaeT It1X, He nponvcxas HIt1 OAHO~ nerann, nOCTOs:lHHO Tpe6ys:I KOMMeHTaplt1eB, ucneuipaa nOMeTKaMIt1 n04TIt1 ace AOKYMeHTbl. KaKO~ ew,e MOHapx C TaKO~ ruiarenssocn.o 1t13Y4an CTonbKO Aeranejil OT Hero HIt14TO He YCKOnb3HeT. OH cxpynvneaea B TOM, "ITO KaCaeTCs:I It1MnepaTOpCKoro 61O~eTa ... «Flony-ieao 44 800, 1t13- pacxonosaao 39 800, OCTaTOK 5000, nruoc 15 000 nocrvnneuaa B MapTe, KOTOPbl~ KOH4aeTCs:I, It1TOro 20 000.30 MapTa. H.».

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Hble, a rnasuoe - 1t13Y4aeT B neranax apMe~CKlt1e nena, orxnanuBas:l B csoea naMs:lTIt1 nepenanxeuae nonxoa, aranu rpvnaoro Mapwa, "Ilt1cno 6aTape~, cnenur aa e)KeAHeBHbIM COCTOs:lHlt1eM Ka3Hbllt1 Q:>It1HaHCOB. LJacTo 6YAIt1T cexperaps, It1 AIt1KTOBKIt1 B0306- HOBns:lIOTCs:I ... » (6eH Be~Aep, «6nIt1CTaTenbHbl~ 60HanapT»). 3TO 6bln e)KeAHeBHbl~ KaTOp)KHbl~ TPYA, HO B 3TOM It1 6blna )K1t13Hb, CMblcn )K1t13HIt1 It1MnepaTOpa ¢paHLJ,It1It1. A KaK )KIt1BeTe asr?

nOpTpeTAHH

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Bbl npocsvnncs: C -rero Ha41t1HaeTe CBO~ AeHb? Kaxue nepeue nena? YTpeHHs:Is:I aapsnca? 3aBTpaK? V1nlt1 cpasy npoaepars 3neKTpoHHYlO nO"lTY? LJTO nansuie, axruo-raa see nena patioru It1 BCe nocne paooru?

s:I npennoxnn 6bl cnenars 3TO B pe)KIt1Me V1cnbITaHlt1s:1. Ycnosue: y aac 6YAeT 7 MIt1HYT. BaM H~HO uanacars Cnlt1COK nen, 1t13 KOTOPblX 6YAeT COCTOs:lTb saur AeHb, BKnlO4as:l It1 patio-tee, It1 nlt1"1- Hoe BpeMs:I. Aena MO)KHO nucars KOPOTKO, OAHIt1M cnOBOM; 3anncusan, It1X B nlO60M nopsnxe npOCTO KaK BCnOMIt1HaeTCs:I; xorna "ITO AenaeTe - YKa3blBaTb He HY)KHO: ronsxo Ha3BaHIt1e Aena. Hanpuraep: «06eA». V1nlt1: «Cocrasneuae nnaua AHs:I». MO)KeT 6blTb: «TeneBIt130p» It1nlt1 «¢OPYM». AnIt1TenbHOcTb nena onpeAenlt1M OT 3 AO 30 MIt1HYT.

To, "ITO 3aHIt1MaeT MeHbwe 3 MIt1HYT, 6YAeM cea-iac C"IIt1TaTb MenO"lblO: BKnIO"Ilt1n CBeT, npowen K crony, cen Ha cryn, Hanlt1n xodie ... - TaKlt1e MenKlt1e Ae~CTBlt1s:1'AenaMIt1 Ha3blBaTb He 6YAeM. A TO, "ITO 3aHIt1MaeT 60nbwe 30 MIt1HYT, 3TO ~e 06beAIt1HeHIt1e nen, cxopee 3aAa"la, a He OAHO neno,

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,D,BYX'-IaCOBOe coeeuianne, COCTO~L4ee 1113 WeCTIII sonpoCOB, ny-uue aanacars KaK WeCTb BOnpOCOB: WeCTb nen.

Bonpoc: CKOJlbKO nen sa 3TO BpeM~, aa 7 MIIIHYT, Bbl HanlllweTe? CAeJlaMTe 3TO Ha OTAeJlbHOM JlIIICTKe. 3aCeKIIITe BpeM~, III - sa patioryl

Bbl MO)KeTe onaparecs Ha 3TO, '-IT06bl re-n-ee npoaaanuaaposare OC06eHHOCTIII CBOeM patioru B re-reune AH~. A IIIMeHHO, pa3AeJlIIITe AeHb Ha -rersrpe YCJlOBHble '-IaCTIII: YTPO AO paooru, paoora AO 06eAa, patiora nocne 06eAa, aesep nocne paeoru. KaKoM cpparMeHT AH~ BaM BcnOMIIIHaJlC~ 6blCTpee III nerve ecero, KaKOM '6blJl B TyMaHe III BcnOMIIIHaJlC~ C TPYAOM? 80 BpeM~ OCBoeHIII~ TaMM-MeHeA)KMeHTa 3Ta IIIHcpopMaLl,III~ BaM OKa)KeTCR O'-leHb H~Ha, noxa npOCTO 3acpIIIKCIIIPYMTe A1l~ ce6~: xopowee BcnOMIIIHaHllle rOBoplIIT 06 OCBoeHHOCTIII 3Toro OTpe3Ka BpeMeH1II1II nen, npoaanu B naM~TIIIIII TPYAHOCTIII BO BcnOMIIIHaHIIIIII 06bl'-lHO cBIIIAeTeJlbCTBYIOT 06 YCTaJlOCTIII, 0 nenax, C KOTOpblMIII He cnpasnaeursca, III 0 paoore, KOTOPYIO He JlI06I11Wb.

nerKIIIX BaM BcnOMIIIHaHIIIM! Xopowero BaM 6YAYL4ero!

YT06bl nOABOAIIITb nepeue IIITorlll, nOAC'-IIIIraare KOJlIII'-leCTBO nYHKToB.

Measure 10 - uaeepuos, Bbl He nocrapaJlIIICb. nOTOMY '-ITO Bbl)Ke He 6e3AeJlbHIII K, Aa?

11-15 - HenJlOXO A1l~ aa-rana. Hasepaoe, Bbl nlllcaJlIII TOJlbKO cavoe rnasuoe III He AeTaJlIll3I11pOBaJlIII.

16-20 - xopowo: HenJlOXa~ AeTaJlIll3aLl,III~, Bbl BIIIAIIITe CBOM AeHb AOCTaTO'-lHO nOAP06HO.

21-25 - OTJlIII'-lHO, CIIIJlbHblM peaynsrart

26-30 - cynep. 8bl MO)KeTe C060M rOPAIIITbC~! nO'-leMY?

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Jler-ie III re-n-ee CBOIII nena nOMH~T re, KTO ~BJl~eTC~ X03~IIIHOM caoeji )K1II3HIII. ECJlIII nena 3aAalOT - BaM, Bbl enea JlIII MO)KeTe IIIX nporuoaapoaars. «YTO ceronus 6YAewb Aenars? - He 3HalO, '-ITO CKa)KYT ... » ECJlIII CBOIII nena onpenensere Bbl, Bbl MO)KeTe IIIX sannaHlllpOBaTb III COCTaBIIITb IIIX cnuco«, Bbl MO)Kere 3HaTb IIIX sapaaee.

60Jlee xpenxaa naM~Tb Y 60Jlee OTBeTCTBeHHblX rnonea, ,D,a)Ke eCJlIII cnucok nen «naercs csepxy», TO oreercraeaasui '-IeJlOBeK nenaer IIIX CBOIIIMIII, esmonuser IIIX KaK TO, '-ITO nJlaHIIIPyeT OH caM, A06I11Ba~Cb peaynsrara. Meuee OTBeTCTBeHHble JlIOAIII 3arpvxaor ce6~ pa60TOM JlIIIWb HaCTOJlbKO, '-IT06bl ua-rars ee nenars. A nOMHIIITb 0 3aAaH III III , AOBOAIIITb ero AO KOHLI,a ... - HY, 3TO KaK nOJlY'-IIIITC~.

KpenKolll BaM naM~TIII!

Jlerxoe BcnOMIIIHaHllle nen 06bl'-lHO CB~3aHO C n03111TIIIBHbiM )K1II3HeHHbIM III AeJlOBblM aacrpoev. nlO6111Mbie III BHYTpeHHe 6Jllll3Kllle nena 06bl'-lHO BcnOMIIIHaIOTC~ nepBblMIII, no KpalllHelll Mepe - 6blCTpee. ,D,eJla, KOTopble He XO'-leTC~ nenars, BcnOMIIIHaIOTC~ B nOCJleAHlO1O osepens: 0 HIIIX He XO'-leTC~ AYMaTb.

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MaKCIt1ManbHO 3cpcpeKTIt1BHo.

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Bonsuioe KOnlt1'-leCTBO nen nuurer He TOT, KTO AenaMIt1 neoerpyxeu, a TOT, KTO 3Haer, 1t13 KaKIt1X KOHKpeTHblX nen It1 neranea COCTOIt1T ero oaoora. TOT, y xoro pa3BIt1Ta cnoco6HOCTb BIt1AeTb Te nena, «orooue OH nenaer,

3TIt1M cnocooov nplt1 nplt1eMe Ha paoorv HeKOTopble onerruue xaAPOBIt1KIt1 OueHIt1BalOT AenOB~e

xa-recraa, a re-n-ee - YPOBeHb opraHIt130BaHHOCTIt1 npeTeHAeHTa: «Ilepe-uicrurre nena saurero 06bl'-lHOrO AH51 Ha aaurea npeAbIAyw,e~ pariore!» - a Aanbwe Ha6nlOAaIOT, CKonbKO It1 C KaKO~ CKOPOCTblO Bbl nena BCnOMIt1- uaere.

Mbl nOMHIt1M: Anlt1TenbHOcTb nena Mbl onpenennna OT 3 AO 30 MIt1HyT, CpeAH5'l51 npOAOn>KIt1TenbHOCTb - 15 MIt1HyT. Pa6o'-lee BpeM5'I B cpeAHeM 500 MIt1HyT. Cxonsxo nen YMew,aeTC51 B pa6o'-lee BpeM51? - 33 nena, naAHo, 30. Ho - He 10. 8bl - He 6e3- AenbHIt1K. Y 6e3AenbHIt1Ka AeHb COCTOIt1T 1t13: «Flpocuynca. noen ... A Aanbwe He nOMHIO ... » A '-leM AeTanlt131t1pOBaHee It1 KOHxperuee Bbl BIt1AIt1Te CBO~ AeHb, TeM re-n-ee Bbl CTaBIt1Te nepen co6o~ aaaa-ut, TeM 3cpcpeKTIt1BHee Bbl paooraere.

803MO>KHO, KOro-TO nonsena Cnlt1WKOM o6w,lt1e OnIt1CaHIt151. «nOArOTOBIt1Tb n031t1UIt11O K neperosopara- - HennOXa51 CPOPMYnaposxa, HO Cnlt1WKOM oouia», KOHKpeTHee 6blno 6bl:

nOArOTOBIt1Tb Te31t1Cbl: cpopMynlt1poBKlt11t1 apryrae-rraumo, Cnenars npe3eHTaUIt11O B PowerPoinfe,

Cornacoaars C wecpoM,

Cnenars npe3eHTaUIt11O Ha o6w,e~ acrpe-ie,

Coopars o6paTHYlO CB5'l3b It1 yTO'-lHIt1Tb <popMynlt1poBKIt1.

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lITo6bl xopowo cnenars AeHb, HY>KHO BIt1AeTb nnau npeACT051- w,ero AH51. ljT06bl npasaneao nOCTpOIt1Tb CBOIO HeAenlO, HY>KHO aanacars ace OCHOBHble nena HeAenlt1 It1 3aAYMaTbC51 0 It1X CoCTaBe It1 pacnOnO>KeHIt1It1. Ha'-lHIt1Te C npocroro: pa3rpacplt1Te nucr ua 6noKIt1 «noHeAenbHIt1K». «BTOpHIt1K» It1 TaK nanee, B Ka>KAbl~ 6noK 3anlt1Wlt1Te ace Aena sauiea 06bl'-lHO~ HeAenlt1.

«8 Mara31t1H aa npoAYKTaMIt1», «cpIt1THec», «3anpaBIt1Tb MaWIt1HY", «rOCTIt1» It1nlt1 «y'-le6a» - nena HeAenlt1.

Y eac n51Tb MIt1HyT, BcnOMHIt1Te It1 Hanlt1WIt1Te He MeHee 20 nen. CKOPO BaM 3TO O'-leHb nplt1rOAIt1TC5'I ...

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AHamt3 pa60LferO BpeMeHM: Aena, CepBMC, nYCTOTa

~eM 3aH~ManC~ B~epa non~aca nocne paarosopa C we<p0M? - Hy, <p~rHeVl ...

ECTb BpeM~ pafio-iee, ecrs BpeM~ n~~HOe ...

nycTOTOVI OKa3bIBaIOTC~ ~HOrAa ~ HeKOHCTPYKT~BHble neperosopu, ~ -ipeaMepHO paapocurnecs COBew,aH~~. '{aw,e STO KOMnblOTepHble ~rpbl B patio-tee BpeM~, nYTeweCTB~~ no 6eCKpaVlH~M npOCTopaM VlHTepHeTa, 3aT~HYBw~ec~ nepeKYPbl, HeToponn~Bble ~ ascenue 6eceAbi aa o~epeAHOVI ~awe~KOVI xodie _ see, ~eM Bbl vcneurao oranexaere ce- 6~ OT patioru.

KCTaT~, Bbl He 3a6bln~ aanucars STO B Aenax B~epawHero AH~? Kp~Tep~VI nOMH~Te: 60nee 3 M~HYT ...

CnO)l(~B see BpeM~ no Ka)I(AOVl ~3 ST~X xareropaa, Hap~CYVlTe KpyroBYIO A~arpaMMY no ~cnonb30BaH~1O BaM~ pa-

6o~ero BpeMeH~. Ecn~ saur peaynsrar ffiJ Aena

No 1 ( D nYCTOTa

HanOM~HaeT A~arpaMMY - COOTHO- 0 CepB~C

weH~e 7 /1/2), noannonnpyare ce6e,

ecnu oesvnsrar CKnOH~eTC~ K A~arpaMMe NQ2 (CooTHOweH~e

5/2/3), HaBepHoe, CTO~T ~TO-TO MeH~Tb.

AHan~3 patio-rero BpeMeH~ C nOMOw,blO ST~X «areropua: «Aena», «Cepanc» ~ «nYCToTa» cpasv naer o~eHb xpaco+ HYIO KapT~HY ~ pucver y6eA~TenbHble nepcneKT~Bbl saurea )I(~3H~, xorna Bbl

Hy, STO He COBceM npasna. ~eM 60nee TBop~eCKOVI )I(~3HblO )I(~BeT -renoeex, ~eM 60nbwe OH n106~T ~ 3a6oT~TC~, TeM TPYAHee eMY onpenernrrs, rne - Pa60Ta, a rne - n~~Hoe. BeAb ecna Pa- 60Ta - nI06~Ma~, OHa CTaHOB~TC~ Y)I(e n~~HbIM, a ecna acepsea OTHOC~TbC~ K n~~HOMY, STO ~e B~A~TC~ Pa60TOVI.

Maorae )l(eHw,~Hbl TaK ce6e ~ <popMyn~pYIOT: «Y MeH~ ABe pa- 60Tbl - Pa60Ta ~ AOM». Vl patiora AOMa 6blBaeT ~ 60nee TPYAHOIli, ~ OTBeTCTBeHHolli .

VlTaK, B paMKax aauiero oaoosero apeMeH~ see aanacauuue BaM~ sauna nena (cnO)l(eHHble BMeCTe ~ nena AH~, ~ nena uenena) paanoxure Ha TP~ rpynnu:

Aena - co6CTBeHHO npOAYKT~BHa~ Ae~TenbHOCTb, xoropas 6yAeT KeM-TO ou,eHeHa ~ onna-resa.

Hanpavep, aunonuan 3aKa3, o6cny)I(~n Kn~eHTa, npoaena YPOK, 3aBepw~n neperOBopbl ...

CepBIo1C - OT aroro snepen He nponaaraeuca, HaM aa STO H~KTO He aannarur, HO 6e3 STOro Henb3~ AB~raTbC~ nansure.

COCTaB~n~ nnau AH~. Iloroeopana C xonneroa, 06~AeBureacs Ha uiedia, npasena ee B ~YBCTBO. Pew~n~ sonpoc C noxapaoa ~HcneKu,~eVl. Pa3M~n~Cb, nOHaKnOH~n~Cb, BOCCTaHOB~n~ 3aTeKW!l1e cn~HY ~ Hor~. Ew,e pas nepec-urrann AeHbr~. Y6pan~ n~wH~e aeuia co crena.

nYCTOTa - BpeM~ npOBen~, pe3ynbTaT - Honb. Ha AenOBOM ~3blKe raxae nena ~HorAa Ha3blBalOT BpeM~nO)K~paTen~M~ ~n~ BpeM~nornOT~Ten~M~, B HenocpeACTBeHHOM o6w,eH~~ - nYCTOTOVI ~n~ ct>~rHeVi.

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o nYCTOTa

o CepB~C

Mbl HaLlam1 nenan, auanua paoo-iero BpeMeHl-1, nOTOMY LITO C paooroa 06b1LlHO paariaparscs npow,e. AHaJll-13 JlHLIHOro BpeMeHl-1 nenars TpYAHee, HO Y BaC Y)I(e ecrs onsrr: npHcTynl-1M!

it1TaK, saura 6J1l-1)1(aillwa5l saaa-a pa3J10- )l(l-1Tb BCe, LITO Bbl nenaere B ceoe JlHLIHOe BpeM5l, Ha TpH xareropua: «,lJ,eJla», «CepBHC», «nYCTOTa».

Ha-ranal

npOCMOTP 3aMeLlaTeJlbHbiX TeJleBH3l-10HHbIX nporpaMM B 06- paMJleHHH nnoraoa peKJIaMbl.

nYCToTa ...

4TO HaM nHWyT B raaerax?

HaM - He nHWyT HHLlero, H LlHTaTb HaM 3TO He HY)I(HO. 3TO nYCTOTa.

Pa360pKl-1 C 6J1H3KHMl-1, noxaauaaoume, KaK OHH He npasu.

Yanecarensaaa nYCTOTa.

fla3HTb no it1HTepHeTY, CHAeTb B ACbKe.

CB5lTOe AeJlO, oua xe rvnas nYCTOTa.

OLleHb HHTepeCHoe 06w,eHHe Ha cpopYMe.

3TO He ,lJ,eJlo. it1 He CepBl-1C. 3TO - npH5lTHa5l, HO nYCTOTa ...

nepe)l(HBaHl-15l 0 TOM, LITO Bbl CHOBa 3aHHMaeTeCb cpl-1rHeill.

Xopowee BpeM5lnpOBO)I(AeHl-1e ...

Pa3MbIWJleHH5l 0 np06J1eMaX, MewalOw,HX BaM npaaansuo )l(HTb.

AHanM3 nM'IHOrO BpeMeHM

filii AeIla

o nYCTOTa

o CepB~C

Hanpuraep, 0 TOM, LITO Bbl nOCT05lHHO 3aHl-1MaeTeCb LleMTO He TeM ...

Becenu C 6J1H3KHMl-1 0 TOM, KaKHe Y sac np06JleMbi.

TeMa HeCKOHLIaeMa5l. nYCTOTa.

4TeHHe KHHr 0 Ba)l(HblX sonpocax )l(H3HH.

4TO Bbl H3MeHl-1JlH B )l(H3HH nocne npOLlTeHH5l nocnenuea rnaau? ECJlH HHLlero, TO AIl5l Bac 3TO - nYCTOTa. BnpoLleM, eCJlH LlTeHHe nouoraer BaM B 60Pb6e C 6eccoHHHu,eill, LlTeHHe nepexoznrr B xareropmo Cepsac, 4T06bl LlTeHHe nepeumo B paapsn ,lJ,eJla, Y eac AOJl)l(Hbl 6blTb LJ.eJlH no c06cTBeHHoMY pa3Bl-1THIO, nOA uena Bbl nOA6HpaeTe cooTBeTcTBYIOw,He KHHrH, Lll-1TaeTe HY)I(Hble rnaasr, cnpaumaaere C ce65l pesynsrar, MeH5leTe c06cTBeHHYIO

nYCTOTa B JlHLlHOe BpeM5l

Hasepaoe, nerve scero paatinparsca C nYCTOTOill. 4aw,e acero CIOAa MO)l(HO OTHeCTH TaKHe AO 60JlH nonsruue seuia, KaK:

C06paTbC5l C APY3b5lMH, BbInHTb. 6e3 KOMMeHTapHeB.

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. «HOBOCH1, CnYXII1, CEHCALJ,II1I11»?

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)l(1II3Hb ... OlleHb Ma110 rnonea YMeeT lIlIITaTb TaK, lIT06bl 3TO CTaHOBIII110Cb - Ae110M.

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YXOA OT Ae11a, KIlaCCIIIlIeCKa51 nYCTOTa.

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Inasaoe - Bbl CMO)l(eTe 3TO AOKa3aTb Weepy?

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nplll5lTe11b CTYlIlt1TC5I BaM B ACbKY - no- 60maTb 6YAeT nplt151THO. Bauiea )l(eHe

«nYCTOTa IfIm., HeT?» - Pa3rOBOp C BlflpTyanbHblM Wecl>oM

Ae110 - 3TO TO, -rro HaAO. A XOlleTC5I lt111lt1 HeT - sonpoc BTOPOtll.

nplt1 npaBlt111bHOM OTHOWeHlt1111 3TO ew,e lt1 XOlleTC5I.

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MO)l(eTe Bbl'-lepKHYTb nycTOTY,

C HelO Mbl Y)l(e pa306paJlI!1Cb, MO)l(eTe Bbl'-lepKHyTb CepBI!1C

o HeM Mbl ew,e nopaseasnunaera, B I!1TOroBOM cnucxe OCTaBbTe oAHI!1,[1,eJla.

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To, '-ITO He COOTBeTcTByeT BaWI!1M u,eJl5lM, BaM He HY)I(HO.

,lJ,eJlOBOIl1 annnor

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Hanpnuep, «B 22.00 BMeCTO npOCMOTpa TeJleBI!130pa I!1AY rynsre».

IIIJlI!1 1!13BeCTI!1Te 0 HeM KorO-TO 1!13 APY3ell1 1!1 6JlI!13KI!1X.

«PewI!1Jl OCB060AI!1TbC5I OT reneB1!130pa: KOMY nOAapI!1Tb?»

IIIJlI!1 npocro cnenaare cpaay.

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PeBM3MR: 'iTO R XO'lY M 'ITO R AenalO

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no I!1TOraM Bbl MO)l(eTe nars ce6e ABa Ba)l(HblX OTBeTa.

nepBblll1: s:J AOBOJleH c0601l1: 51 '-IeJlOBeK uenevcrpevnesaua. s:J 3aHI!1MalOCb TeM, '-ITO 51 Bbl6paJl KaK LJ,eJlI!1, 51 3aHI!1MalOCb TeM, '"ITO MHe HY)I(HO.

COOTBeTCTBeHHO: TaK nepxars!

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CKaTb -iaure, 4eM XOAVlTb, - B03MO)l(HO,

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BaM nOAXOAVIT.

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nOVlw,VlTe APyroli1 cpVlTHec, nOSKcnepVlMeHTVlpyli1Te C APyrVlMVI BapVlaHTaMVI: 6anbHbie rauuu, 1i10ra, xapare, Boneli160n - nVl60 YTpeHHVle np06e)l(KVI B 6nVl)l(ali1wVlIi1 napx.

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npMBeCTM >KM3Hb B nopSiAoK

lien» CTOII1T, 51 3HalO, '1TO 51 3TOro XO'1Y 111 3TO MHe H8,lJ,O. Ho BII1>KY, '1TO nen» sa AHeM 51 HII1'1ero B 3TOM HanpaBneHlI1111 He ueneto, He 3aHII1MaIOCb, 51 3aH51Ta ece BpeM51 '1eM-TO APYrMM. fl ce6e 3TO coo6- I..4l11na, 111 3a6blTb 3TO renepe MHe 6YAeT CnO>KHO.

LfTO 51 6YAY nenet» C 3T/11M OTKpbITlI1eM?

nOHs:lTHO, 4TO Y -renoeexa, uaueneuuoro ua pesvnsrar, nonxHO 6blTb COOTBeTCTBVle. Y 60nTYHa - COOTBeTCTBVls:l He 6YAeT. Ecna Bbl uanacana uens OAHY, a cnVlCOK nen AHs:l npo npyroe - 3Ha4V1T, BaM HY)l(HO C c0601i1 norosapasarsca: VlnVl MeHs:lTb uena rOAa, VlnVl nepenacuaars cnVlCOK nen. nVl60 He nYApVlTb ce6e M03rVl VI OTKa3aTbCs:l OT STVIX seuiea, nVl60 MeHs:lTb CBOIO )l(Vl3Hb VI, npOCHYBWVlCb, Ka)l(Ab11i1 AeHb nenars 4TO-TO npyroe.

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B3aVlMHas:l «oppexrnposxa ,lJ,en VI LJ,eneli1

Ecnn rope He II1AeT K Merouety, Merouet II1AeTK rope.

5YAbTe peenncteun!

OT KaKVlX-TO u,eneli1 CTOVIT OTKa3aTbCs:l. Ecnu KaKas:l-TO uens peryns:lpHO BaMVI 3a6blBaeTCs:l VI npOCTO HViKaK He vxnansreaerca B BaWY)l(Vl3Hb, B03MO)l(HO, Bbl K Heli1 npOCTO He rOTOBbl.

BeAb ace paBHO He nenao VI, noxoxe, nenars He 6YAY. Torna 3a4eM ce6s:l MY4V1Tb?

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Bcrpe-ui C APY3bs:lMIt1 ... TYT HaAO paafiaparsca. C KaKIt1MIt1 APY3bs:lMIt1, C KaKIt1MIt1 3aAa'-laMIt1? B03MO)l(HO, CTOIt1T npOCTO YTO'-lHIt1Tb 3aAa'-llt1lt1 cpOpMaT scrpe-r, TOrAa nOs:lBIt1TCs:I COOTBeTCTBlt1e uensu.

6eHA)I(aMIt1H cDpaHKJlIt1H perynapuo scrpesancs C APY3bs:lMIt1, Ha Ka)I(AOVl scrpe-re nenanucs AOKJlaAbl no axryanuHblM TeMaTIt1KaM It1 npOBOAIt1JlIt1Cb AIt1CKYCCIt1It1, rne Ka)I(AblVl Y'-lIt1JlCs:I OTCTalt1BaTb Ty It1JlIt1 It1HylO n031t1l...(1t11O MaKCIt1MaJlbHO y6eAIt1TeJlbHO It1 He aaneaaa onnOHeHTOB.

nOABeAIt1Te It1TOrlt1: nOCTaBbTe see He06xOAIt1MOe B pacnncauue

CerOAHs:I Ha'-lIt1HaeTCs:I C 6YAyw,ero. Teos )l(1t13Hb acerna cpopMlt1pyeTcs:I TeM, KaK fbi BIt1AIt1Wb csoe aaarpa, TBOIt1MIt1 otipaa8MIt11t1 KapTIt1HKaMIt1 6YAyw,ero. ECJlIt1 Tbl XO'-leWb, '-IT06bl Ka)I(AblVl TBOVI AeHb 6blJl KpaCIt1BblM It1 OCMbICJleHHbIM, auasane Tbl AOJl)l(eH STOT AeHb YBIt1AeTb: coopMlt1pOBaTb 06pa3 It1 KapTIt1HKy TBoero npaBIt1JlbHOrO AHs:I.

fleperueunrre ,l],eJla AHs:I It1 ,l],eJla HeAeJlIt1 TaK, '-IT06bl B aaurera HOBOM otipase )l(1t13HIt1 see He06xOAIt1MOe - 6bIJlO. Flepenucaa, paccraasre It1X no npuoparerara - B COOTBeTCTBlt11t1 C npnopureTaMIt1 LJ,eJleVl Ha rOA. nOJlY'-lIt1JlOCb?

,l],oroBOplt1TeCb CaMIt1 C c060Vl 06 oprauasyiouiea KOHKpeTIt1Ke. Hanpuraep, KaK STO nenaio s. MHe HY)l(HO uanucan, KHlt1ry, y MeHs:I STO B uensx CTOIt1T, nansure STO HY)l(HO nenars, nenars «axAblVl AeHb. KaK s:I C c060Vl AorOBOpIt1JlCs:I? ns:lTb AHeVl B HeAeJl 10 , KpOMe cy660Tbllt1 socxpeceuss (c yrpa AO sexepa aauar B CIt1HTOHe), s:I nenaio OAHO 1t13 AByX: « 15 MIt1HyT» It1JlIt1 ,,3 aosaua», To ecrs Jllt160 ruuuy KHlt1ry 15 MIt1HyT, XOTs:I 6bl rlls:l)l(Y Ha OTKPblTblVl cpaVlJl C TeKCTOM KHlt1rlt1,

A eCJlIt1 s:I CMOTPIO, s:I 06bl'-lHO Ha'-lIt1HalO '-ITO-HIt16YAb C STIt1M nenars,

nlt160 nuury rpn aosaua Jl1060Vl BeJlIt1'-1It1Hbl.

3TO npocro, STO KOHKpeTHo, STO 06s:13aTeJlbHo. VI ny-uue STO cnenars C yrpa, nOTOMY '-ITO HeJlb3s:1 nosorrsca cnars, eCJlIt1 STO He CAeJlaHO.

LJTO A11s:l sac MO)l(eT OKa3aTbCs:I TaKOVl opraaaayiouiea KOHKpeTIt1KOVl?

npaBIt1JlbHblVl AeHb

V1HBeHTapb: APyr It1JlIt1 xonnera. B XOPOWIt1X CeMbs:lX BnOJlHe nOAOVlAeT M~/)I(eHa.

Ha411HaeTCH C KapTI1HKI1 xopowero AHH

Y'-Ie6HOe aanaaue: «Flpencraas It1 pac-

CKa)l(1t1 CBOVI 06pa3l...(OBb1Vl (TaKOVl, 0 KOTOPOM Me'-lTaeTCs:I) HOpMaJlbHblVl pa60'-l1t1V1 AeHb C yrpa AO ae-repa. C sero Ha'-lHeTCs:I y Te6s:1 STOT AeHb, B KaKOM CTIt1Jle Tbl ero Ha'-lHeWb It1 KaK npOAOJl)l(It1Wb? Pacnopsno« aroro AHs:I? ,l],eJla sroro AHs:I? KaK Tbl 6yneuis npeononeaars B03HIt1KalOw,lt1e B STOT AeHb 3aTpYAHeHlt1s:1? LJTO It1JlIt1 KaK Tbl caenaeun, B STOT AeHb, '-IT06bl Tbl Mor STIt1M AHeM roPAIt1TbCs:I? KaK Tbl AOCTOVlHO 3aBepWIt1Wb STOT AeHb ?»

C06CTBeHHO paCCKa3 06bl'-lHO YKJlaAblBaeTCs:I B 7-10 MIt1HYT.

KPIt1BOI71 AeHb

LJT06bl OTTeHIt1Tb oc06eHHocTIt1 eauiero npaBIt1JlbHOrO AHs:I, BCnOMHIt1Te, a '-ITO TaKOe A11s:l aac - KPIt1BOVl AeHb? ,l],eHb, KOTOPbll71 nouien He TaK, KaK XOTeJlOCb, AeHb, KOTOPblVl npnaec BOBce

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He TO, 0 '-IeM 3aAYMblBam1 C yrpa? rAe, B '-IeM OTm1'-1IMl aroro AH5'I OT AH5'I npaBlllnbHoro?

Ecnlll Bbl orse-raere: «,lJ,eHb 6bln KaKoVl-TO Heco6paHHblVl, HeYAa'-lHbIVl, TYCKnbIVl» - 3TO nYCTOVI OTBeT. He paccxaasraajire npo AeHb, paccKa3blBaViTe npo ce65'1: KaK Bbl. CTPOI-1Te OAI-1H 1-1 APYroVi AeHb? KaKIIIMI-1 AenaMI-1, KaKI-1M nopanKOM nen eaui KPI-1BOVI AeHb OTnI-1'-1aeTC5'I OT npaBl-1nbHOro?

V1TaK, no KaKI-1M KnlO'-IeBblM nYHKTaM Bbl OTnI-1'-1aeTe, '-ITO 3TOT AeHb KPIIIBOVl, a 3TOT npaBlllnbHblVl? KnIO'-IeBOVI nYHKT - 3TO '-IeTKI-1V1 npasua«, '-ITO I-1MeHHO 3AeCb, B 3TOM MeCTe paCXOA5'lTC5'I ABe noporu: nopora AH5'I npaBl-1nbHoro 1-1 nopora Kpl-1BOrO AH5'I.

Hanpl-1Mep, 3TO MO)f(eT 6blTb nYHKT «3ap5'lAKa».

nl-160 5'1 npocuyncs 1-1 cpaay nowen YMblnc5'I 1-1 Ha'-lan, XOTb HeMHoro, nenars 3ap5'lAKY, nl-160 cpasv npblrHyn aa KOMnblOTep III Ha'-lan CMOTpeTb nplIIWeAWl-1e sa HO'-lb nIllCbMa ... 3TO '-IeTKI-1V1 npasaa«: Ha'-lI-1HaeTC5'I KPI-1BOVI AeHb. nl-1CbMa HI-1KYAa He y6erYT, a AeHb Ha'-lI-1HaeTC5'I HenpaBl-1nbHO.

KaKl-1e Bbl BCnOMHI-1Te npyrae KnIO'-IeBble nYHKTbl, xoropue eac CBOpa'-lI-1BaIOT He Tyna, BKnIO'-Il-1nI-1Cb B paoory, He aanacas nnan Ha AeHb? Be'-lepOM, sa ~I-1HOM, B35'1- nl-1 B PYKY nynbT III BKnIO'-IlIInlll TeneBlII30p?

npl-1MI-1Te peWeHl-1e 1-1 3anl-1WI-1Te ero B 6nOKHOT. LITO axryansuo _ OcpopMIIITe Ha nl-1CT A41-1 noaecsre TaM, rne HY)f(Ha 3Ta HanOMI-1HanKa.

... MHorl-1e KOHKpeTHble BeUJ,1-1 cpopMynl-1PYIOTC5'I nysuie, korna Mbl BpOAe 6bl orsnesesu 1-1 AYMaeM o APyroM. Ho ecna 3TO npyroe nOATanKI-1BaeT Hac K OCHOBHOMY aonpocy, peWeHl-1e nOAC03HaTenbHO apeer III BAPyr, HeO)f(I-1AaHHO, npaxonar casio.

AneKcaHAP 11106M~eB

B 1918 rOAY AneKcaHAP Jl 1061-1 UJ,eB , npenonasarens Taspasecxoro YHIIIBepCI-1TeTa B C~Mcpeponone, cdiopraynapoBan uens csoea )f(1-13HI-1: C03AaTb ecreCTBeHHYIO CI-1CTeMY OpraH1-13MoB. To, 4TO cnenan MeHAeneeB B X 1-1 M 1-11-1 , OH peuinn cnenars B 61-1onorl-11-1 - 1-1, unipe, B I-1CTOPI-1I-1 3BOnlOLJ,l-1l-1. B '-IaCTHOCTI-1, nonxoppesrapoears TeOp1-11O ,lJ,apBI-1Ha: eMY AYManOCb, '-ITO TynblM cnY'-IaVlHbiM nepeoopou He C03AaeTC5'I 'ra MaTeMan14eCKI-1 BbiBepeHHa5'l KpaCOTa 1-1 aennxonenae, xoropue BI-1AI-1M Mbl 8 npapone.

«,lJ,n5'l YCTaHOBneHIII5'I TaKOVI CIIICTeMbl Heo6xOAI-1MO OTbICxars '-ITO-TO aaanoru-n-oe aTOMHblM aecav, '-ITO, 5'1 AYMalO, HaVlTI-1 nYTeM MaTeMaTI-1'-1eCKOrO 1-13Y'-IeHI-15'1 Kpl-1BblX B CTpOeH1-11-1 OpraHI-13MOB, He I-1MelOUJ,I-1X HenocpeACTBeHHO CPYHKLJ,1II0HanbHoro 3Ha'-leHI-15'1 ... MaTeMaTI-1'-1eCKl-1e TPYAHOCTIII 3TOVI paeoru, nO-BI-1AI-1MOMY, '-Ipe3Bb14aVlHO 3Ha'-ll-1- TenbHbl ... K BblnOnHeH1-11O 3TOVI maBHOVI 3aAa'-llll MHe npaAeTC5'I npacrvnars He paHbwe, '-IeM -repes ner nsrs, korna YAaCTC5'I COnl-1AHee 3anO)f(I-1Tb MaTeMaTI-1'-1eCKI-1V1 cpYHAaMeHT ... s:I 3aAanC5'I uenso CO BpeMeHeM uanacars MaTeMaTI-1'-1eCKYIO 61-1onorl-1 10 , B KOTOPOVI 6blnl-1 6bl coeAIIIHeHbl ace nonsrrxa npl-1nO)f(eHI-15'1 MaTeMaTI-1KI-1 K 6l-1onorl-1l-1», - nncan MonOAOVl npenonasarens B 1918 roAY.

EMY 28 ner, Ha )f(1-13Hb - TO ecrs Ha pa60TY - OH nOCTaBl-1n ce6e 90 ner, ,lJ,anee COCTaBl-1n nnaa )f(1-13HI-1 III aa-ian TPYAI-1TbC5'I BMecre CO BceVi CTpaHOVI no n5'lTI-1neTKaM - ronsxo CBOI-1M nl-1'-1HblM n5'lTlllneTKaM. Ilnau - OT'-IeT. OT'-IeT HeAenbHblVi. MeC5'I'-IHbIVi OTser. rOAOBOVI OT'-IeT: 3TO Y)f(e MHorOCTpaHI-1'-1Ha5'l BeAOMOCTb, LJ,enas TeTPaAb. OT4eT 3a 5 ner, nnas Ha 5 ner anepen.

BAPyr cneAYIOUJ,a5'l I-1CTOPI-15'1 )f(1-13HI-1 nOMO)f(eT HaM npl-1H5'lTb peWeHI-15'1 0 ce6e?

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nnaHbl nonpoouue, C pa3AenaM[..1 VI nOApa3AenaMVI: MaTeMaTVlKa, TaKCOHOMVls:I, 3BOmOlJ,Vls:I, 3HTOMOnOrVls:l, VlCTOPVls:I HaYKVI ...

MHOrO nVl BpeMeHVI 3aHVlManVl CaMVI 3TVI OT4eTbl VI nnaHbl? He 60nee AByX npOlJ,eHTOB OT BpeMeHVI c06cTBeHHo paeoru. nOAP06Hbllll MeCs:l4Hbllll OT4eT 3aHVlMan OT 1,5 AO 3 -acoa, nnaa Ha cneAYIOw,VlIIl MeCs:llJ, - 1 -iac. lonoaoa OT4eT - 17-204acoB.

Kaxoe cOBnaAeHVle nnasoa VI oT4eToB? no rnaBHblM nenav 3annaHVlpoBaHHoe VI caena-n-oa Y nI06V1w,eBa CXOAVlTCs:I C T04HOCTblO AO om-oro npoue-rra,

«Bcakue nepepblBbl B patiore s:I Bb1Kn104alO, s:I nOAc4V1Tblsao BpeMs:I Heno. BpeMs:I aerro nony-raerca ropasno MeHbwe KonVl4eCTBa BpeMeHVI, «oropoa nonv-aerca Vl3 pac-iera BpeMeHVI 6pyno, TO ecrs roro BpeMeHVI, KOTOpoe Bbl npoaenu aa AaHHolll pa60TOIIl.

YacTO nlOAVI roaopar, 4TO OHVI pa60TalOT no 14-15 4aCOB. MO)l(eT 6blTb, raxne nlOAVI cyw,ecTBYIOT, HO MHe He YAaBanoes CTonbKO npOpa60TaTb C Y4eTOM BpeMeHVI uerro. PeKOPA npOAOn)l(VlTenbHOCTVI Moelll HaY4HolIl pa60Tbi 1) 4aCOB 30 MVlH. 06bl4HO s:I 6blBalO AOBoneH, xorna npopaooraio Heno - 7-8 4aCOB. CaMb11ll peKoPAHb11ll MeCs:llJ, Y MeHs:I 6bln B VllOne 1937 rona, xorna s:I sa OAVlH MeCs:llJ, npopa- 60Tan 316 4aCOB, TO ecrs B cpeAHeM no 7 4aCOB Heno».

nOAP06HO C4V1TanOCb see, C T04HOCTbIO AO 5 MVIHYT, oc060 BHVlMaTenbHo pa36V1panocb BpeMs:I, nOCBs:lw,eHHoe uenu )l(Vl3HVI, nps:lMolll HaY4Holll patiore,

«Asrycr 1965 rona: 136 4aCOB 45 MVlHYT patiosere BpeMeHVI nepsoa «areropaa.

OCHOBHas:l HaY4Has:l paeora - 59 4.45 M.

CVlCTeMaTVl4. 3HTOMOnOrVls:l 20 55

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196

,D,ononHVlT. paooru - 50 4.25 M.

Opr. parioru - 5 4. 40 M.

It1TOro 1364.45 M.»

OH Vlcnonb3yeT Ka)I(AYIO MVlHYTY, nlO6ble TaK Ha3blBaeMbie «OT- 6POCbl BpeMeHVI»: B nlO6olll neuiea nporynxe OH c06V1paeT HaceKoMblx; xorna Ha aacenanusx Ha4V1HaeTCs:I 60nToBHs:I, OH peuiaer 3aAa4KVI. AHrnVllllcKVlIIlVl HeMelJ,KVlIIl s:l3bIKVI OH Bb1Y4V1n B OCHOBHOM BO BpeMs:I noeaao« B rparasaax,

3TO VI 6blna ero Cucreraa: 6epe4b Ka)I(AYIO MVlHYTY csoea )l(Vl3- HVI. CBOIO CVlcTeMY OH C03Aan ew,e AO roro, KaK nOCTaBVln B csoea )l(Vl3HVI uens.

3a ABa rona AO nOCTaHOBKVI uenn )l(Vl3HVI, B 26 ner, a T04Hee, 1 s:lHBaps:l 1916 rona Cawa nI06V1w,eB nan ce6e 06eT: HaY4V1TbCs:I orcnexasars VI 6epe4b SpeMs:I caoea )l(Vl3HVI. BpeMs:I - Heeocnornueao. C rex nop, C 1916 rona no 1972-111, no AeHb cMepTVI, nsrsnecar uiecrs ner nOAPs:lA, AneKcaHAP AneKcaHAPOBVl4 nI06V1w,es axxvoaruo sanncuean pacxon speMeHVI. nlO60e csoe AelllcTBVle - OTAbIX, 4TeHVle ra3eT, nporynKVI - OH OTMe4an no 4acaM VI MVlHYTaM.

Ero AOYb paccxaaueana, 4TO B AeTcTBe, xorna OHa Vl6paT npuxonan« K OTlJ,Y B Ka6V1HeT CO CBOVlMVI paccnpocaua, OH, Ha4V1Has:l. C HVlMVI oouiarecs, nenan npn 3TOM OTMeTKVI Ha 6YMare: OTMe4an BpeMs:I.

AelIlCTsVlTenbHo, Y4V1TblBanocb see. OT4eT sa 1938 ron: xporae 06s:13aTenbHoro Y4eTa paoo-rero BpeMeHVI (akonorua, 3HTOMOnoras, oprpatiora, 3006V1onorVl4ecKVlIIlVlHcTVlTYT VI nnoAos:lroAHbIIllVlHCTVlTYT), Y4TeHo see nVl4Hoe BpeMs:I: 06w,eHVle C nIOAbMVI, nepeABVI)I(eHVle, AOMaWHVle nena. YTeHVle HaY4Holll VI xvnoxecTseHHOIIl nureparypu Ha pasaux sauxax - 9 000 CTpaHVllJ" 247 4aCOB. Hanucaao 552 crpauauu HaY4Hbix TPYAOB, Vl3 HVIX Hane4aTaHO 152 crpauuusr. Pa3Bne4eHVls:I - 65 pas.

,D,anee cnVlCOK npocvorpeauux cnexraxnea, KOHlJ,epTOB, BblCTaBOK VI KVlHOKapTVlH.

197

LfT~ 6bl OH Hill nenan, OH nOMHII111, 3a4eM OH 3TO nenaer, nns KaKOIl1 uenu. no II1ToraM 4TeHII1s:! Ka)I{AoC1 KHlI1rll1 - ee KOHcneKT: TO conepxaaas, «oroooe COOTBeTCTBOBallO u.ells:!M 4TeHII1s:!. no II1ToraM HeCKOllbKII1X KOHcneKTOB - KpIl1TII14eCKII1C1 paaoop, B KOTOPOM n106111~eB CPOPMYllll1PyeT Y)I(e csoe BII1AeHlI1e npenuera. Korna nOAXOAII1T BpeMs:! crarsu - Y npooeccooa nlO6111~eBa Y)I(e ece rOTOBO, OH nnurer ee 6bICTpO. 111 Ha Ka)I{AoC1 ero crarsa CTOIl1T «ueaa»: KOll1l14eCTBO 4aCOB 111 MII1HYT, nOTpa4eHHbiX aa ee nOArOTOBKY 111 Hanll1CaHlI1e (see paanensuo).

IIIcnOllb3Ys:! 3TY CII1CTeMY, OH Mor A06I11BaTbCs:! uenea, 3aBeAoMO npeBblwalO~II1X B03MO)l(HOCTII1 06bl4HOro -renoaexa.

Korna n106111~eB no-ran, 4TO AIls:! BbInOllHeHII1s:! uena csoea )1(1113-

. Hill eMY HY)I(HO pafiorari, 111 BWII1Pb, 111 Brlly6b, CTaTb OAHOBpeMeHHO 111 Y3KII1M cneu.lI1aIlIl1CTOM, 111 YHII1BepCallOM, OH nOCTaBII111 raKYIO 3aAa4Y 111 TaKII1M 4ellOBeKOM cran, KaK OTMe4allll1 APY3bs:! 111 xonneru, AII1ana30H ero 3HaHII1C1 6blll npOCTO orpoves. 3aXOAII1- na pe4b 06 aHrllll1C1cKOC1 MOHapXlI1111 - OH Mor npll1BeCTII1 nOAP06- HOCTII1 u.apcTBOBaHII1s:! ruoooro 1113 aHrllll1C1CKII1X xoponea; roaopa- 11111 0 pellll1rll1l11 - Bbls:!CHs:!IlOCb, 4TO OH XopOWO 3HaeT Kopau, TallMYA, II1CTOPIl1IO nancrsa, Y4eHII1e nlOTepa, II1Aell1 nll1cparopeC1- ues ... OH saan TeOp1l11O KOMnlleKcHoro nepevenuoro, 3KOHOMII1- KY cenecxoro x03s:!C1cTBa, cou.lI1all-AapBII1HII13M P. <PlI1wepa, aHTII14HOCTb ... OH see 3TO saan, nOTOMY 4TO OH BblAells:!1l Ha 3TO BpeMs:! 111 II1cnOllb30Ball BpeMs:! CTPOro no Ha3Ha4eHII1IO.

«Y AneKcaHApa AneKcaHAPOBII14a nlO6111~eBa 6blllll1 CBOIl1 COBepweHHO ocoeue OTHOWeHII1s:! CO BpeMeHeM. OH 6bl~ CBO~OAeH OT )l(ellaHII1s:! 060rHaTb, CTaTb nepBblM, npeB301l1TII1, nOllY4I11Tb ... OH 1110611111 111 u.eHII111 BpeMs:! He KaK cpeACTBO, a KaK B03MO)l(HOCTb TBOpeHII1s:!. OTHOCII111Cs:! OH K BpeMeHII1 611aroroBeC1Ho 111 npll1 3TOM 3a60TllIl1BO, C4I11Tas:!, 4TO BpeMeHII1 He 6e3pa3111l14HO, Ha 4TO ero vnorpeensrs. OHO BblcTynallo He cpll131114eCKII1M nOHs:!TlI1eM, He u.lI1cpep- 611aTHbIM Bep4eHlI1eM, a nOHs:!TlI1eM HpaBCTBeHHbIM. BpeMs:! norepaauoa BOCnpll1HII1MallOCb KaK 6bl BpeMeHeM, OTHs:!TbIM Y HaYKII1, paCTpa4eHHblM, nOXII1~eHHbIM Y llIOAeC1,

Ha KOTOPblX OH paooran. OH TBepAO aepun, 4TO BpeMs:! - caMas:! 6011bwas:! u.eHHOCTb 111 Helleno TpaTII1Tb ero AIls:! 06111A, AIls:! conepaa-recrsa, AIls:! YAOBlleTBopeHII1s:! cauollI06111s:!. Oopauieuue CO BpeMeHeM 6blllO AIls:! Hero aonpoCOM 3TII1Kill », - nncan 0 HeM ,D,aHII1I1111 rpaHII1H, nOCBs:!TII1BWII1r1r- eMY KHlI1ry «3Ta crpauuas )l(1I13Hb».

11130 AHs:! B AeHb OH noasuuan HOP My Tpe60BaHII1C1 K ce6e, He naBall HII1KaKII1X n0611a)l(eK. OH patioran C YAOBOllbCTBlI1eM, paooTall C Ka)I{AbiM roAOM see 6011bwe 111 ace nv-uue. B nsrsnecar ner OH pafioran nv-uue, 4eM B COpOK, B ceMbAeCs:!T - ny-uue, 4eM B uiecrsnecsr: POCllO KOJlll14eCTBO 111 Ka4eCTBeHHbiX CTpaH111 u, 111 peBOJlIOu.1I10HHbIX II1AeC1.

6e3 BCs:!KII1X KOMnbIOTepOB, 6e3 MaWIl1HII1CTKII1, uanacars nonropu Tb1Cs:!4111 CTpaHII1u. sa ron: Orne-iarars 420 CPOTOCHII1MKOB! 1967 rOA, n106111~eBY Y)I(e ceMbAeCs:!T ceMb

ner, AneKcaHAP AneKcaHAPOBII14 n106111~eB npoxun 82 rona 111 YMep B TOllbs:!TTII1, KYAa npuexan nposecrs Ps:!A lleKu.II1C1.

KaKoB ero OT4eT sa npO)l(lI1TYIO 111M )l(1I13Hb?

flpexne 4eM cnpauruears 3TO C Caum nI06111~eBa, XOpOWO cnpOCII1Tb 3TO C caMoro ce6s:! ...

BbInOllHII111 JlIl1 n106111~eB HaMe4eHHYIO nporparawy? HeT, OH ee He BblnOJlHII111. OH He ycnen, Flocrasneaaaa 111M aana-ia oxasanacs HaCTOllbKO rpOMaAHOC1, 4TO npu llI060C1I11HTeHCII1BHOCTII1 patioru BpeMeHII1 ero 4eJlOBe4eCK0C1 )l(1I13HII1 cp1l131114eCKill He XBaTII1110. 6blBalOT 3aAa4111, 06beKTII1BHO npeBOCXOAs:!~lI1e B03MO)l(HOCTII1 onuoro, OTAellbHO aasroro 4eJlOBeKa: )l(1I13Hb HII1KOMY He otieuiana, 4TO OHa 6YAeT YKJlaAbIBaTbCs:! B HaWII1 Q)I(II1AaHII1s:!.

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