Romance is a term that is described as a pleasurable feeling of excitement and wonder associated with

love. In the context of romantic love relationships, romance usually implies an expression of one's love,
or one's deep emotional desires to connect with another person, Country, idea, matter.

In societies where the practice of religion has lapsed, it is often the case that what is
true comes to be regarded as false, and, conversely, what is false is regarded as true.
While encouraging and promoting an errant belief system disapproved by God, these
societies may come to consider the correct belief system as inadequate or even
undesirable.

Romanticism is one such falsehood that is erroneously thought to be "true." In a society

where people do not live by the true religion, romanticism is portrayed as a favourable
quality to good people. One of the most harmful characteristics of romanticism, and
from which we must be on our guard, is that it rejects "reason" as contrary to its
philosophy.
In great literature of all progressive societies, love is a verb.
Reactive people make it a feeling. They are driven by feelings.
Hollywood has generally scripted up to believe that we are not
responsible, that we are product of our feelings. But the Hollywood
script does not describe the reality. If our feelings control our
actions, it is because we have abdicated our responsibility and
empowered them to do so.

Proactive people make love a verb. Love is something you do. The
sacrifice you make, the giving of self, like a mother bringing a
newborn into the world. He you want to study the love, studies
those who sacrifices for others, even for people who offend or do
not love in return. If you are parent, look at the love you have
for the children you sacrifices for. Love is a value that is
actualizing through loving actions. Proactive people subordinate
feelings to values. Love, the feeling, can be recaptured.