7 cu hi xc nh mc tiu

29/05/2008

Quyt nh tr thnh ngi bit lp mc tiu v thc hin mc tiu, hng ti tng lai mang li cho bn cm gic mnh m v s kim sot. Bn cm thy t ho v bn thn. Bn cm thy rng mnh lm ch s phn ca mnh. Tuy nhin, i khi bn vn cn lng tng trong vic thit lp mc tiu cho mnh. Di y l by cu hi gip bn xc nh mc tiu . Bn phi t hi v tr li nhiu ln.

Cu hi th nht: Nm gi tr quan trng nht ca bn trong cuc sng l g? Mc ch ca cu hi ny l gip bn xc nh ci g tht s quan trng vi bn, v m rng ra th ci g t quan trng hn hay khng quan trng. Mt khi bn xc nh c 5 iu quan trng nht trong cuc i bn, hy sp xp chng theo th t u tin, t mc tiu quan trng nht n mc tiu th nm. La chn v xc nh cc mc gi tr ca bn v th bc quan trng ca chng nn thc hin trc khi lp ra mc tiu. V bn th hin t ni tm ra bn ngoi v cc gi tr bn t ra l thnh t c bn trong tnh cch, s xc nh chng r rng gip bn chn mc tiu no ph hp vi iu tt nht cho bn. Cu hi th hai: Ngay trong lc ny, ba mc tiu quan trng nht trong cuc i bn l g? Vit cu tr li trong vng 30 giy. y l phng php lit k nhanh, khi bn ch c 30 giy vit ra 3 mc tiu quan trng nht, thc ca bn s chn lc cc mc tiu ca bn nhanh chng. Ba mc tiu chnh ch kp vt qua u bn. Vi ch 30 giy, bn s chnh xc nh th bn c 30 pht. Cu hi th ba: Nu hm nay bn bit c rng bn ch cn sng c 6 thng, bn s lm g, bn s ginh thi gian nh th no? y l cu hi nh gi khc gip bn xc nh ci g l thc s quan trng vi bn. Khi thi gian c hn, thm ch nu ch trong tng tng, bn tr nn rt thc ai v ci g bn thc s quan tm. Nh mt bc s ni: Ti cha bao gi gp mt thng gia no trn ging bnh m li ni Ti mong c th ginh nhiu thi gian cho cng vic hn na. C ai ni rng bn s khng sn sng sng n khi bn bit phi lm g nu bn ch cn mt gi sng trn tri t. Bn s lm g? Cu hi th t:

Bn s lm g nu ngy mai bn trng s 1 triu la tin mt, min thu? Bn s thay i cuc sng ca bn nh th no? Bn s mua g? Bn s bt u lm g hay thi khng lm g na? Tng tng rng bn ch c hai pht vit cu tr li v bn s ch c th lm hay t c nhng g bn vit ra. y thc s l cu hi gip bn quyt nh s lm g nu bn c thi gian v tin bc bn cn, nu bn khng phi s s tht bi no. Bn s a ra cu tr li r rng nht khi bn nhn ra nhiu th bn s lm khc i nu bn cm thy bn c kh nng la chn. Cu hi th nm: iu g bn lun mun lm, nhng s phi c gng? Cu hi ny gip bn bit r rng hn thi im no ni s hi ca bn c th ngn cn bn lm nhng g bn thc s mun lm. Cu hi th su: Bn thch lm g nht? Ci g mang li cho bn cm gic t ho v hi lng vi bn thn nht? y l cu hi v gi tr khc c th ch ra im bn nn khm ph tm ra c mun ca tri tim. Bn s lun cm thy vui nht khi bn mun lm nht lun l hot ng lm bn cm thy mn nguyn v hi lng nht. Nhng ngi thnh t nht M lun lm nhng g h thch nht. Cu hi th by, v c l l quan trng nht: Nu bn bit bn s khng b tht bi, iu ln nht m bn dm m l g? Gi d c mt v thn xut hin v ban cho bn mt iu c. V thn m bo rng bn chc chn s thnh cng hon ton mt th m bn c gng lm cho d n ln hay nh, ngn hay di hn. Nu bn c bo m chc chn thnh cng trong mt lnh vc no mc tiu no m bn s xc nh cho mnh? D bn vit bt k ci g nh cu tr li cho bt k cu hi no trong s ny, bao gm c cu hi: Nu bn bit bn s khng tht bi, iu ln nht m bn dm m l g? th bn c th lm c. S thc l bn c th vit ra ngha l bn c th thc hin c. Mt khi bn xc nh c bn mun g, cu hi duy nht bn phi tr li l: Ti thc s mong mun n v sn sng tr gi cha?