HowtoStayPOSI IVE ina TOUGH WorkEnvironment

Ot he r B e Pe ha op vio les r

TheEnvironment

g t n g i en n ha onm C ir nv E

NegativeWork Environment

Ouch! YOU

Past Experiences

ve w i at iie w eg V e N rlld V d or o W W

De t er Th min eo ism ry

BewaretheBullets!

NegativeWork Environment Environment

Dogeatdog...everyonefightingtogetahead Nooneappreciatesyourcontributions Toomuchwork...notenoughhelp Deadlinesareunrealistic Longerhours...additionalwork BudgetConstraints Competitioniseatingusalive Poormanagement/direction Jobinsecurity

OtherPeoples Behavior

Bulldozers
Patronizers

Gossip Complainers s Whiners Negatives

Snipers
Clams Clams Sluffers

Backstabber s Controllers Walking Wounded BrownNosers Exploders

Changing Environment
Theonlypersonwhoalways likeschangeisawetbaby

CHANGE... u Challengesour paradigms u Altersthewaywethink u Makeslifemoredifficult forawhile u CausesStress u Isanongoingfactoflife

Ouch!

Past Experiences

Ouch! Ouch!

Ouch! Ouch! Ouch!

Ouch!

Ouch!

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Negative WorldView

Media Frenzy
ArecentStatistic: Crimedown20%inAmericareportingup600%, Lookatwhatyouarelookingat!!! Lookatwhatyouarelookingat!!!

Determinism Theory Theory

u GENETIC:

MyGrandparentsdidittome. (Inheritedtraits) MyParentsdidittome. (Upbringing) MySpouse,myBoss, theCompany,theEconomy,etc..isdoingthis tome.(Surroundings)

u PSYCHIC:

u ENVIRONMENTAL:

LifesLittleQuestion LifesLittleQuestion

Aresomepeoplejustbornpositive Aresomepeoplejustbornpositive thinkers thinkers ...orisittheirCHOICE? ...orisittheirCHOICE?

ChoosetheRightLuggage

dge Do llets Bu

Be Bulletproof

TheProblemWithDodging Bullets Bullets Youregoingtogethit!

Choice#2
WearBulletproofArmor WearBulletproofArmor

Bulletproof Armor Bulletproof Armor Comes from Comes from SELF CHANGE

Putting on the Putting on the Armor Armor

ge h an s ! C hing 3 T

HowtoChangeYourAttitude
ATTITUDE Changeshappen personally fromthe INSIDEOUT! INSIDEOUT!

ATTITUDE ATTITUDE

So...AcceptResponsibility So...AcceptResponsibility
Iamresponsible... ...forwhoIam ...forwhatIhave ...forwhatIdo

IITUDE U DE ATT T ATT

Step#2TakeControl Step#2TakeControl

Negative worldview

YOU

ATTITUDE ATTITUDE

FROMTHEINSIDE...OUT!

HowtoChangeYourThinking
THINKING Changescome fromobserving logicallyin everysituation everysituation

THINKING THINKING

ObserveYourThinking
Wh de atc fus an et Id his ot o ?
to e ! us m e f re k I o ho Tomorrowitwill lookverydifferent.
Its u ck sto

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Thisisallvery interesting e h tt ea b o t e lik I d

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THINKING THINKING

ManageYourSelfTalk
IfyouthinkyouCan,oryouthinkyouCant YOURERIGHT! HenryFord

This is going to be a wonderful day!

This is going to be a crappy day!

THINKING THINKING

HowtoChangeYourBehavior
BEHAVIOR Changestake trueassessment, determination& discipline discipline

BEHAVIOR BEHAVIOR

ChooseYourBehavior
REACTIVE Stimulus Response

RESPONSIBLE My Choice My Response

Stimulus
BEHAVIOR BEHAVIOR

StepsTowardChanging Behavior
TheNewYOU! TheNewYOU! TheNewYOU! BEHAVIOR BEHAVIOR 4. UnconsciousCompetence 3. ConscienceCompetence 2. ConscienceIncompetence 1. UnconsciousIncompetence

INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT! ENVIRONMENT!

AddPOSI

+IVEBehavior

ReplacetheBADHABITS!
SpreadaSMILEaround Sprinklesomepositiveonthenegatives Focusonthegoodofeachday Stayoutofthefeedingfrenzies Saypleaseandthankyou PracticeEMPATHY EvaluateYOURbehavior Nevermissanopportunitytocomplement BEHAVIOR BEHAVIOR BEHAVIOR

MorePOSI

+IVEContributions

Beforeyousayanythingtoanyone,ask yourselfthreethings yourselfthreethings

1.Isittrue? 2.Isitharmful? 3.Isitnecessary?

Keeppromises Haveaforgivingviewofpeople Keepanopenmindwithchanges Countto1000ifnecessary Seecriticismasopportunitytoimprove Cultivateyoursenseofhumor

Rememberto...

Watch your definitions Watch your definitions they become thoughts they become thoughts Watch your thoughts Watch your thoughts they become words they become words Watch your words Watch your words they become actions they become actions Watch your actions Watch your actions they become your destiny they become your destiny

TheChoiceisYOURS
WithaBadattitude youcanneverhaveapositiveday WithaPositiveattitude youcanneverhaveabadday

ChoosePOSI

+IVELiving IVELiving

HAVE A WONDERFULL & A positive Future

E N J O Y !!!!!!!!!!