Cch nhn bit Libra - Thin Xng (24/9-23/10)

THURSDAY, 5. APRIL 2007, 07:53:27

Sau khi ri chm X N, t ngy 24/9 n 23/10 mt tri i qua chm Libra (Thin Bnh) - ngha l ci cn. Tuy nhin, kh c th ni Thin Bnh l nhng ngi thng bng. Trc khi t c trng thi thng bng, ci cn phi dao ng, ung a rt lu bn ny bn kia.

Ngi sinh cung Thin Bnh cm ght thi th l, nhng ng thi c th khng cn hi, n tt pht my thu hnh ca bn nu cho rng n m m thanh qu to. Thin Bnh yu mn mi ngi, nhng ng thi cm ght m ng. H nh nhng v tin phc hu dn ho nhng ngi tranh ci nhau, nhng li c th chnh mnh c kha ci v. H ho nh ci m, nhng li c th gt gng rt lu. H va thng minh li va th ngy. Khng ngi yn mt ch, nhng chng vi vng i u. Nhn chung, dng nh h khng c mt u im no m li khng c cn i bng mt nhc im, v ngc li. Mt s a nhn cch n k l phi khng? Hnh thc Thin Bnh khng c g ng phn bit vi cc cung khc. Khun mt thng c ng nt khng ln, d coi. c bit duy nht c th l lm ng tin m hoc cm mt s ngi, nhng khng phi tt c. Lm ng tin c coi l du n ca thn V n. N ci ca h l in hnh ca nhng ai c ph tr bi thn V n - n ci mm mi, du dng, ngt ngo, pha cht b him.

Thm ch s cu gin, xc ng cng khng lm hng, lm mt i v bnh thn trn khun mt ca Thin Bnh. Ming Thin Bnh thng c hnh nh cnh cung, mi hng ti. Thin Bnh thng c thn hnh p. V c bit, trong v p ca n b Thin Bnh c nt g nam tnh, cn n ng c nt n tnh. iu khng c ngha l n b Thin Bnh phi ging nh lc s, cn n ng - nh cc tiu th. Nhng hnh thc ca h qu l c n hin sc thi ca gii tnh i lp. Qua s m t nh trn, bn s ngh rng tnh cch ca Thin Bnh cng mm mi, du dng v ng yu. iu ng, nhng ch ng mt na. l lc Thin Bnh trong tm trng thng bng. Cn lc khc, h bc xc, d cu, ng bng, bng bnh, ut c v hung d. Ri sau, Thin Bnh li i vo trng thi thng bng, v h li d thng, thng minh, v tt bng. Dng nh bn trong Thin Bnh l hai con ngi hon ton khc bit nhau. Thin Bnh mi mi vn ti s hi ho, nhng khng t c thng xuyn. C lc Thin Bnh nhit huyt khng khip, lao i khp thnh ph gn nh vi tc nh sng, trong mt ngy lm c cng vic bng ngi khc lm c tun khng xong, lm vic mi ngy 18 ting, dnh c 5 ting cho gic ng m vn sng khoi. Nhng bng nhin nh th c b phn no b hng, h c ngy u oi, m ng. Th vi mi vic, chng thit cm t bo hay ng n TV, h c th ngi hng gi nhn m m vo mt im v hnh. Ri nh c mt cng tc c bt ln, h chuyn sang tm trng su no, bt u than thn trch phn, hoc gy om xm t chuyn khng u. Ri nh nt iu khin li c gt sang v tr khc, h li ng yu, xinh p, hot bt v lch thip. Ai c dp nhn thy h mt trong cc trng thi trn, khng i no tin nu nghe k rng Thin Bnh c th hon ton khc. H ngh l s thi phng, khng th c s kt hp nh vy trong mt con ngi - s lch thip v s xc xc, mnh m v yu ui, vui ti v dt, nng lc lm vic to ln v s li bing v vng. Thin Bnh l nhng ngi kho mnh c v tm thn ln th cht. Mt cch bn nng, h bit trnh nhng cng thng tr c, qu ti v th lc bng cch cho c th mnh thi gian ngh ngi ko di. Thng xy ra nht vi Thin Bnh l n qu mc (c lc ti tnh trng bi thc), ung ru qu nhiu, dn n cc bnh v gan, thn v au u. Tnh cch ca Thin Bnh c to dt nn t nhng si mu thun. iu h yu thch

nht trn i ny l tranh lun, v bt c vn no, t chuyn ng h chm my giy cho n nhng s kin quc t phc tp. c dp tranh ci l Thin Bnh cm thy mnh nh c gp nc nh rng gp my. Ch cn ai khen mt cun sch l Thin Bnh, iu ngh khng km g mt nh ph bnh thc th, vch ra nhng nhc im ca n. Nu bn khng thch mt b phim, Thin Bnh s ni l b phim hay nht c th xem c trong nm nay v a ra y lun chng cho iu ny. a s Thin Bnh khi la chn mt quyt nh ng cho mnh thng do d lu n ni c lc vic la chn khng cn l cn thit na bi v mt hoc vi phng n ht tn ti. S thiu quyt on ca Thin Bnh i khi vt qu mi gii hn. Mu cu yu thch nht ca h l Mt mt th (tip theo l mt lot lun c) v nhng mt khc (li mt lot lun c khc di khng km). Bng s chm chi, vi nhng lun gii bt tn, tnh thiu quyt on ca mnh, Thin Bnh c th lm cho ngi quyt on v nng ny phi pht in. Tuy nhin, nu bn nhc n tnh cch ny mt cch trc tip hay gin tip, Thin Bnh s lp tc bt u bo cha quyt lit v bc b tt c. Trong cng vic, Thin Bnh trong sch nh pha l. Do thi quen c hu ngh lu xem quyt nh g v nh th no, h t khi sai lm. a s Thin Bnh pht trin mnh kh nng tp trung cao thu hiu nhng vn su sc v to ln. Thin Bnh say m sch, khng ch ni dung, m c hnh thc v mi thm ca sch. Nhiu ngi cung Thin Bnh c th vin ring nh. Thin Bnh l nhng ngi c tnh ngh s, khng th vi cc loi hnh ngh thut: m nhc, hi ho, vn th. H khng thch cc mu rc r, h a chung cc gam mu m nht. Thin Bnh l nhng ngi snh n, bit thng thc cc loi ru ngon. Tr tu ca Thin Bnh tng xng vi kim cng rc r v opal mm mi a sc. Kim loi mang li may mn cho h l ng. Tnh cch ca Thin Bnh ph hp vi hai ma - thu v xun, c trng bi tnh khng n nh, d i thay. Danh nhn sinh cung Thin Bnh: Brigitte Bardot, Ivan Bunin, Catherine Deneuve, Michael Douglas, William Faulkner, Graham Greene, Julio Iglesias, John Lennon, Mikhail Lermontov, Marcello Mastroianni, Friedrich Nietzsche, Eugene ONeill, Luciano Pavarotti, Pele, Paul Simon, Sting, L Tn, Margaret Thatcher, Marina Tsvetaeva, Giuseppe Verdi, Lev Yashin, Oscar Wilde, Tomas Wolfe...

n ng Thin Bnh T ngi n ng ny, bn lun nhn c v s li khuyn min ph v mi vn ca cuc sng. Chng c kh nng gii quyt mi kh khn ca bn, ngoi tr mt kh khn - mi quan h ca bn vi chnh chng. Va lm quen vi mt ngi n ng Thin Bnh, bn hy ngh cho k c nn phi lng anh ta khng. M thi gian bn suy ngh rt t, nu khng bn s b chng thi min n ni mt ht kh nng t duy v quyt nh c lp. Nhng m c ca chng s bin thnh m c ca bn, nhng ngh ca chng s thnh ngh ca bn, v bn ch cn li mt mong mun l: lm cho chng hnh phc. Trong khi , chng li khng c mun lm cho bn lun cm thy mnh tt cng ca s sung sng. ng mt na thi gian chng s trng thi khng thng bng, khi chng hon ton khng quan tm bn ngh g v cm nhn g. Tuy nhin, na thi gian cn li, bn s thy hnh phc nh ang trn nh bng lai. Vy nn hy ngh k trc khi quyt nh lm v chng. Bi v nh th ng ngha vi vic chp nhn mt na cuc i khng hi lng v chng. Thin Bnh khng phi l nhng ngi rt ng tin cy, kh c th da dm, trng i vo h. Hm nay h ngh th ny, mai li th khc. Bn c hnh dung c tnh cnh, khi m bn va nhn li ly chng lm chng, th ngay hm sau chng thng bo cho bn l thay i nh. Tt nhin tnh hung nh vy rt hy hu, nhng n hon ton c th xy ra. Vy c nn mo him? Hoc khi ang yu nhau, mt hm chng im tnh, nghim trang gi in thoi bo cho bn bit, quan h ca chng vi bn n y l chm dt, km theo l nhng phn tch nguyn nhn khin bn khng c cch no khc l chp nhn. Ri hm sau, khng km bt ng, chng n tn ni gp bn xin ni li tnh yu vi s n nn n ni bn khng cn cch no khc l quay tr li. B li, trong chuyn yu ng, c l Thin Bnh gii hn tt c cc cung Hong o khc. H khng ch sng to ra tnh yu th mng m cn bin n thnh nh cao ngh thut. n ng Thin Bnh hng th yu ng n tn 90 tui. D nhin l yu ng kiu platonic (quan h tnh cm ch khng tnh dc) nhng n tn ti trong cuc sng ca Thin Bnh n cui i l iu chc chn. n ng Thin Bnh lun c nhiu fan n. Nh tnh mm mi, do d, nh bn cht khng mun lm iu g hi cho ai, Thin Bnh c th c ng thi c chc tiu thuyt ang cc giai on din bin khc nhau. Thin Bnh khng sc ni khng cho d vic ko

di mi quan h nng n cn tn khc hn l dt b. Cng nh vy trong trng hp ngc li, khi t yes l ra phi l kt cc gn nh l duy nht. Th nhng c lc Thin Bnh vn lng l, phn vn, cu gi, khng quyt nh thc hin bc i cn thit, v th m b l mt tnh yu. Vn d tnh cch khng cung nhit, n ng Thin Bnh khng au kh nhiu sau mi tht bi tnh trng. Hn na, xung quanh lc no cng sn n b n ni chng tm thy nim an i rt sm. Trng hp duy nht m Thin Bnh cm thy bt an l khi chng chng may ly c mt ngi v quyn lc v quyt on. Ngi n b s sai khin c ci u ca chng tin rng: ly d nng s l ti li ln hn bt k ti li no trn trn gian ny. B sa vo ci li nh vy, Thin Bnh ch cn l tn n l ng thng ca tnh yu. Nhng trng hp v cng him. Thin Bnh khng phi ngi t m. Chng khng c mt my may mun bit nhng nguyn nhn su xa b mt no dn n thi ng x ca bn. Chng c th hng gi lin chng minh cho bn thy ch ny cn phi c x nh th ny, cn ch kia - phi nh th kia, v kt qu logic ca s vic s ra sao. Trong khi chng khng h quan tm rng hnh vi ca mi ngi c nguyn nhn bt r trc ht t tm l ca ngi . Tuy l ngi snh si trong vic yu ng, chng li hon ton khng phi l ngi nh vy trong lnh vc tm hn. Bn khng ch ngc nhin m phi l kinh hong trc s v cm ca chng. V d, bn tm n chng th l, mong nhn c s cm thng, nhng thay v ng v pha bn v iu kin, chng li bt u lun xt, lc vn bn, ri cui cng thm ch phn quyt rng chnh bn sai. Bn khng th thanh thn hn. Bn tm n chng khng phi lm r chn l, m nhn c thin cm ca chng. Nhng nhiu kh nng chnh l th bn khng nhn c. Trong chuyn tin bc, Thin Bnh kh ho phng. Bn cng cn chun b thc hin vai tr mt b ch nh ng yu v m ang. Thin Bnh khng bao gi mi ng khch v nh. Chng cn cht lng ch khng phi s lng. V vy trong s ngi c mi c nhng nhn vt ni ting, nhng ngi thng minh v hp dn. Bn cn nh rng trong nh ca bn khng ch phi sch s, ngon lnh, m cn phi p na. Nu bn khng mun b chng ly d, hy quan tm ng mi phng bp lt vo cc phng khc (iu hnh h chng gh gm), ng cc con la ht, chy a nh qu s khp nh, ng treo t lt nhng ni d p vo mt, ng xut hin trc chng vi mt n dng da v v s ci ng khc na. Trong khi , chnh chng c th v t nh ch ln con li bt tt trn gh, vt u mu thuc l ra sn, th ri giy vn di

chn bn. D nhin bn c trch nhim dn dp gn gng nhanh chng. Thin Bnh chng ni thnh li cho bn bit v s khng hi lng ca mnh, nhng chng s m thm au n khi thy mu khn ph ging khng hi ho vi mu tng trong phng ng, khi a CD bn va cho vo my l loi nhc in lon khng tiu th ni. Trong khi chng khng xc nh c do u mnh c tm trng u m nh th. iu bn phi tinh m on ra. Thin Bnh l mt ngi cha im m. Chng s khng bc bi, qut mng con ci, nhng cng chng phi pht cung v yu thng hu du. Vi chng, c khi con ci sinh ra, v tr s mt vn l v. Khng c tnh cha con no c th vt qua c quan h ca chng vi bn, tt nhin l nu bn khng bt a bn trong bn bp ti ba ngy, v khng lm nhng iu khc xc phm cm nhn thm m ca chng. Ph n Thin Bnh Cho d c th thanh mnh ta lng hng, chnh trang nh o hoa trn thin ng, cho d c th duyn dng trong o la, thanh lch tuyt vi, ging ni nh chung ngn n b cung Thin Bnh du sao vn mang mt thong nt nam tnh. Nng thuc loi ph n thch trang phc gn gng thun tin hn l tha tht. Nng t duy logic n mc trong tranh lun c th h c bt k ng my ru no. Tuy nhin n b Thin Bnh thng minh v thn trng khng th hin s vt tri ca mnh vi bn trai, t ra l cho n trc khi ci. Ph n Thin Bnh y hng th tham gia bt k cuc tranh ci, tho lun no. Ch i vi nng khng quan trng. c th l cuc lun bn xem nn p dng bin php no gii quyt ch tc giao thng, hoc l bi c thoi mnh mng v ti: lc no nn th chanh vo ly tr nng - trc hay sau khi cho ng ( khng b ng)? Vic phn gii mi vn nu trn c th ko di c gi hoc lu hn. Trong cuc ni chuyn bn c th hu nh khng phi tham gia, cng lm ch hi Ti sao?, hoc phn trn rng bn khng ngh th. Nhng k c nu bn ngh khng th, th sau na gi tr chuyn, km vi nhng n ci tht d thng, nng s ch ra mt cch y thuyt phc cho bn thy rng bn hon ton sai - iu m bn s sung sng tha nhn. Cn lu rng quan im m nng bo v khng phi l kin ca c nhn (nng t khi c n), m l kt qu ca mt qu trnh suy xt k lng, cn nhc mi pha, dn n gii php duy nht ng cho vn . Cch tip cn khoa hc nh vy mi l iu quan trng v th v i vi nng. Nu bn ni,

cuc sng thnh th thch hn ni thn qu, nng tc th chng minh cho bn thy, sng thnh ph l t hu hoi sc kho, tn ph nc da mt, tc b bit bao tri nghim tm hn v thm m khi c tip xc vi thin nhin. Bn c hnh dung c: nhng chi l u tin trong ma xun, mi thm hoa bi, ting chim ru rt, cnh c trng la , cuc do chi di rng thng ven i, hay nhng tia nng cui cng lc hong hn? Cn khi bn ct li ngi khen ni thn d, ku rng khng th chu ng c cuc sng thnh ph, nng s bt u phn tch cho thy, thn qu ngi ta c th cht v bun, mi khi chiu v chng bit i u chi. Trong khi , mn sng khi l lng trn bu tri thnh ph trong nh sng mun mu ca n qung co tht v cng thi v, chng khc g tm khn voan khng l thn thoi m mt ng tin no bung ph ln kinh thnh. ng tranh ci vi ngi v Thin Bnh, bao gi nng cng l ngi ni cu cui cng. Hn nhn i vi n b Thin Bnh l s hp tc sng to gia hai con ngi. Nng khng phi loi ph n lm gnh nng eo ln c chng. Nng s tham gia vo mi cng vic ca chng, gip chng nhng li khuyn, ng gp cng sc, v nu cn th c tin bc na. Ngi v cung Thin Bnh c u c phn tch sc bn, nn c th gip chng trong vic quyt nh nhiu vn h trng. Khng phi v c m nhng v chng sinh cung Cu c, B Cp, S T v B c rt tn vinh ngi v Thin Bnh ca mnh. V hon ton khng ung cng lm vic , bi v Thin Bnh p li h vi lng ngng m khng km. ng ngoi nhn vo, mt Thin Bnh thnh hn hp duyn c cuc sng chng khc g vn thin ng ca Adam v Eva. n b Thin Bnh lng mn v du dng, v vy nng s rc ln ngi bn v vn n hn, vut ve m qun bn, c th l thng xuyn hn c mc bn mong mun. Trong nh Thin Bnh cnh tng chng khc g hnh mu t cc trang tp ch. c c chn la vi mt gu thm m tinh t, mu sc trang nh, tranh treo tng ng iu vi khng gian, hoa by cm khp ni. Trong ba n, nng thch c ngn nn lung linh, c s cht lng, thc n c tnh ton k lng, thm vo l ting nhc m du v nh nh. Qu l nng c th ni nhiu hn mc ch ni c v khng. Nhng hy vng bn khng phi l ng chng hung bo nh vua Henry VIII ca nc Anh v th m in tit ra lnh em ngi n b ra on u i. ng, ph n Thin Bnh a chuyn, nhng khi , c kin ca bn cng s c lng nghe, v kt qu l s i n mt quyt nh ng n

nht. M nh th, bn s l ngi c li ch cn ai. Con ci s c ngi m Thin Bnh quan tm chm sc v yu thng. Nhng phi l hng th hai sau bn. Chng tt nhin l thnh vin ca hng, nhng bn l ch tch ca n, cho nn s trng th s c phn b mt cch tng xng. Con ci khng bao gi ginh c trong tri tim nng v tr nh ca bn. Ngi m Thin Bnh du dng nhng nghim khc. iu u tin m nng dy bo con ci l hy trn trng v yu thng cha. n b Thin Bnh rt m ca ngt, v vy d b tng cn. ng thi, bn tnh vn ti s hi ho li gip nng kp thi lm ch bn thn, c gng king khem, luyn tp th dc gim trng lng. Th hi, ngoi Thin Bnh ra, ai c th l ngi v va c kh nng i p tip chuyn xut sc trong ba cm mi khch, va xn tay o hng ngy lm lng qun qut chng km g n ng? S rng khng c ai.